My incredible partner actually was the one who told me about y’all! He had been reading FDS to learn how to level up in his own way. I’ve never felt so appreciated and loved in a relationship
YES! It is worth calling your gynecologist beforehand to let her know that trauma in your past is making you anxious and she may prescribe 1 pill for you to take beforehand. Even if medical stuff does not scare you, it may help you. Good luck!
Yes, even if he didn’t know what he was doing, him not knowing consent or respect of the opposite sex (and then blaming it on not dating for a while) is concerning
You should. This whole subreddit is about overcoming or avoiding unhealthy relationships because we are normally too close to the situation to realize it is bad for us.