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| 6 | Can I turn this around or am I kidding myself?Plan for the Worst but Hope for the best....Personally I will let her know I saw both her journal and the card from another man. I will ask her what does she want to do with a straight face and that everyone deserves to be happy....let her do the talking and at the end, tell her you will have to think about it too....this will change the dynamics now. See...The psychology of women is weird. If they know you don't care of the outcomes, they feel attracted. When you do exactly what they say they w… | /r/Divorce_Men | 08/07/26 07:50 AM |
| 6 | Anyone Feel Loneliness Even with a Solid FWB?Your feelings are valid.....everyone feels this way initially especially when you are not the one that checked out or initiated the divorce. With time it get even better. Find your purpose....a Project to work on. Travel and find new or revisit old hobbies. Men are mostly happy and feel fulfilled when they are chasing their purpose. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/07/26 12:13 AM |
| 16 | Separation puts dad at risk of losing house?Whatever you do, DO NOT LEAVE THAT HOUSE. That was the first thing my Lawyer told me during my divorce last year. Second thing, Record and document everything. The minutes she can't get you to leave the house, she will want to pull a silver bullet one on you. She will bait you or accuse you of Domestic violence. So be careful and treat this as WAR. Good luck. | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/06/26 12:15 PM |
| 10 | My wife is divorcing me after 20 years (would be 20 on August 12 this year) any tips .Get a lawyer...ask what your options are. Get everything including alimony/Spousal support and Child Support. In other words everything her gender will benefit or get if tables were turned. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/06/26 10:33 AM |
| 28 | Breadwinner WifeBro, You are being played.....If you were the one making 3X, she will get child support and alimony. You are being delusional thinking you went from Husband and Wife to being best friends...while in separation or Divorced. Are you kidding me or deceiving yourself? Let me break it down for you When a woman level up, Hypergamy set in. The spark died because of this. You are no longer in her league hence why the "Spark" died because she only get wet for men above her. Secondly, she is trying to be … | /r/Divorce_Men | 03/06/26 12:56 AM |
| 1 | HelpIf you do this, your son will have a memory of a weak father who took an easy way out. Your son will struggle through life bcos you were supposed to be the one to guide and raise him up to be a man and be able to face anything including depression. Bro, we all at some point thought of it. We stayed positive, hit the gym, carry weights or by just walking. Get on Vitamins for men, especially D3. You will look back in few months and laugh at yourself. Whatever you are going through right now, know … | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/04/26 11:03 AM |
| 2 | Any tips for gettingy energy back?Get on supplements with vitamin B especially B12 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/03/26 05:26 AM |
| 3 | How to manage the post birth control storm? Is it really over? (Venting, seeking hope)Sorry dude, She is fucking someone else....She is done. If she comes back to say she wants to work it out, it means the other guy used and dumped her. Don't take her back. I had a similar experience.....The best you can do right now is to rush the divorce while the affair fog is thick. Some even walk away without taking anything as the new guy is their main goal. | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/03/26 09:22 AM |
| 3 | Blindsided divorce after our baby was born. A year later I’m still struggling with the lack of closure.Obviously you still don't know Women 🤣. I did DNA🧬 on all my 3 kids. Why? For peace of mind and knowing what and why I'm fighting. I will rather want to know now than later. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 07:12 PM |
| 2 | Blindsided divorce after our baby was born. A year later I’m still struggling with the lack of closure.Make sure you do a DNA test..... | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 07:02 PM |
| 17 | Has she tried to come backI am so curious to read from others...But what you are asking is accountability related, women are allergic to it. Most Women will prefer to suffer and walk on hot coal barefooted than to admit... 🤣 | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | How do i move forward?Yes sir! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 03:53 PM |
| 1 | How do i move forward?Absolutely! I heard it from women that they actually lose respect for guys that beg. It is normal to be in shambles but let me tell you..rebuild your life. I am 43 and within the last year I have been in the best shape of my life. My self esteem and confidence is through the roof. Last year I travelled to 8 countries and yes I banged the most beautiful women I have ever seen. This year I plan to continue to travel to see the world. Gym gym gym....and get on your manly supplements. You will be fi… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 11:48 AM |
| 3 | How do i move forward?You are contradicting yourself.....you know it never works when a man beg a woman to stay. It's a NO NO....for her to even say it, she has been thinking about the idea for a long time. Apologizing is a different topic. But not begging. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 11:03 AM |
| 9 | How do i move forward?Ending your life because of a woman? What now happen to your 2 children? I am very very disappointed in you as a man. There are over 4 billion women and about 2 billion are between 18-26 yrs. If you end your life now, some one will still F*ck that your supposed wife....so guess who lose? You! I just recently got divorced after 14 yrs. I have 3 kids, 14, 13 and 2.5yrs and here is one thing I can tell you for a fact, divorce or this feeling is very painful but never ever beg a woman to stay with y… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 08:22 AM |
| 4 | When someone leaves but never closes the door — what does that actually mean?Listen carefully, a woman don't leave unless they have other option(s) ....Monkey Branching. I will say file and set this ball in motion once and for all especially now that the supposed affair fog is on. It will make it quick and she will not think things through and that will make things be in your favor. My 2 cent. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/03/26 05:46 AM |
| 5 | Affair, new to redditDamn! Are you that weak of a man? I think She knows and she will continue to cheat because you took her back. Something only weak men does. Dude, Who takes a cheating woman back? Not one time but 4 times? You need to have some self esteem and confidence, Respect yourself and kick her out. She doesn't respect you man. This your post is so nauseating to read actually. | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/03/26 09:30 AM |
| 13 | I’m engaged … told my kids… ex is nextI think you are rushing things and making a big mistake. Why? So you didn't learn anything from your first divorce about women? Why do you care or seek your ex's approval of your new woman? Let the kids tell her. You don't owe her that courtesy and it's like you are validating her. Based on your thought process above, I think you are rushing things to prove a point to your ex or to spite her. That will be a costly mistake. Dude, take your time to really vet and study this new woman. If I were yo… | /r/Divorce_Men | 18/02/26 11:28 AM |
| 4 | Something new and not something I expected.Let your children enjoy all the gifts from their Mom's new boyfriend. It is not free. Their mom is paying for it with her body. This will not last. You and your children have nothing to lose. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/02/26 08:28 AM |
| 5 | How do you manage life with 3 kids after divorce?I will do anything to have my 3 kids 💯 to myself......I currently have them every other week. I don't know their ages...but try to make more money so you can afford nannies and other services that can make your life easier. You have an opportunity many of us are dying to have. Hang in there buddy | /r/Divorce_Men | 29/01/26 05:17 PM |
| 5 | I feel like i'm the villainTwo things, 1. you don't teach a man how to swim when he is drowning. You are drowning so we will try to get you to the shore. 2.You don't kick a man that is already down.... Here is what I have to say. If you want to win, IF, Go and re-read your post and tackle all the areas needing improvements. Lastly, you need to get your S**t together man if you want to win. Change the game! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/26 05:28 PM |
| 4 | BlindsidedThank you so much ...I just thought I should also give back to the community. This forum helped me during my dark days last year. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/26 04:45 PM |
| 6 | Interesting chat with mother-in-lawI would block her on every platform as this is seriously messing with you. The less you know or wonder what she is doing, the better for your healing and mental health. As for MIL, I would cut her off. She will never pick your side over her own daughter. Don't be delusional. Move on Champ! | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/26 02:19 PM |
| 10 | BlindsidedThe woman you dated, Married, and divorcing are 3 different women. And you have to come to terms with that and deal with each phase with what it takes. 1. Divorce is WAR! Mistake number 1 will be getting a cheap lawyer. You have to find and read reviews about the lawyers and get a great lawyer who is a Subject Matter Expert in Family Law. Document and record all communications with your STBX wife going forward. Build a strong and reliable support system. (Family, Friends and forums like this) Be… | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/01/26 10:52 AM |
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