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| 3 | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?the one who takes the time to learn how to please her. A sexy man with no skill is worth less than the less attractive man who knows how to touch her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 01:10 PM |
| 2 | What particular thing do you think would make the dating world a lot easier if men understood better?great responses. Let's not forget that a man that a woman, based on looks alone, might not be interested in, turns more attractive when he shows her his good qualities. I use myself as the example: A man who is less attractive physically, but engages my mind sufficiently, gets more interesting and desirable than a more attractive man with a shitty personality. Women can convince themselves they find someone attractive if the vibe is right. Hence the "omg, I can't believe I ever found him sexy!" … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 11:53 AM |
| 9 | Women need to drop their screen addiction and go outside.Women are getting off dating apps because the experience is overwhelmingly negative for them. You equate attention = positive, but for women online, attention more often than not = negative. Everyone needs to spend less time online. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 11:34 AM |
| 1 | Women say rejection is apart of life but I feel as if they don’t experience it enough to really understand how demoralizing it is.we all know it's demoralizing, we all know it hurts. But would you rather be strung along just to get rejected later? Yes, it hurts to get rejected. Women have experienced rejection in other parts of life as well, we know what it feels like. Women have also been dumped before, been rejected for not being good looking enough, not the right woman etc. You do realize that whenever a person cheats on you, they're basically rejecting you, right? Rejection IS part of life because we don't always get w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/25 11:30 AM |
| 1 | Men and Women need to start settling for the average personYou are right that a bigger age gap actually increases the divorce risk slightly. But it still doesn't change the fact that about 1/3 of women go for men 3+ years older. That's statistical reality. Sensory Impact on Sexual Arousal (Herz & Cahill, 1997) This research surveyed men and women on how arousing they found different sensory modalities during sexual activity. Here’s what they found: For women: Touch (what they feel) was rated most arousing. Next was sight—visual stimulation. Following th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:26 PM |
| 1 | The narrative that "women are happily choosing to be single" makes ZERO sense when you look at the actual datathis is an interesting point and I checked with ChatGPT to find out more: Yes, some could. Asexuality is often under-recognized because: Many women are socialized to believe sex is a duty, so they might not even consider that “not wanting sex” is a valid identity. Studies estimate ~1% of the population is asexual, but some researchers suspect the number is higher, especially among women, since “low desire” often gets medicalized instead of accepted as orientation. Some asexual women do have sex … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Men and Women need to start settling for the average personI'm a woman, in case I needed to clarify that. What I say is based on studies done. I definitely don't think women are saints or devils; we're just people. But we DO function differently from men, and our main focus has never been physical attraction when choosing a long term partner. Do women like to look at good looking men? Of course, most people like looking at things that please the eye. But people are more than just their looks and there is so much more going on when it comes to what turns… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Men and Women need to start settling for the average personYeah, masktok/biketok make money by NOT showing their face, because of the thrill that it could be anyone under there, not that there is a specific man under there. That's not being visual; that's engaging the mind to create a fantasy. You leave the second part of the OkCupid/Tinder research out: while women rated 80% of men as below average, they still swiped on those men: OkCupid’s findings (circa 2009) In a now-deleted blog post, OkCupid’s co-founder Christian Rudder revealed that women rated… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Men and Women need to start settling for the average personStudies have actually shown that women turn on less by what they see than men. They've also shown that women are more fluid when it comes to what turns them on when they DO see something. Meaning, a man only gets turned on by seeing sex with his preference (i.e., only women or man on woman if he's straight, or man on man if he's gay), while a woman gets equally turned on by seeing man on woman, man on man, woman on woman, monkey on monkey, no matter what her sexual preference is. But sight is ST… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/25 09:17 AM |
| 7 | Men and Women need to start settling for the average personI think the biggest problem with the dead bedroom is that, after a long day of work (for both the man and the woman), house chores, cooking dinner, taking care of kids, etc., men can still get it off quite quickly, while women need a much longer warm-up period. Women get turned on less by what they see (unlike men, who mostly get turned on by what they see) and more from touch, sound, and smell. Things that take longer to do. When a woman is tired and she knows it's going to take a longer time f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 07:50 PM |
| 13 | Men and Women need to start settling for the average personI'm going to play devil's advocate and say "why settle for someone you're not attracted to?" You say it's better to die loved than die alone, but are you truly loved if the person you're with doesn't actually want you but just picked you because they couldn't get what they really wanted? Personally, I wouldn't want to be someone's "fine, whatever, you'll do." I'd rather die alone than live with a person who resents me for not being what they want. That said, I do think some people have unreasona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 07:22 PM |
| 1 | The hate on passport bros just proves that alot of women just dont want some men to be happyI frankly dislike both sides: the men who go to these poorer countries BECAUSE they think they'll have an easier time finding a woman because she's "uneducated and dumb and needs money to get out of her situation," as well as the women who hate on the men because they're taking advantage of "uneducated, dumb women who need money to get out of their situation." While it's true that it's easier to fool a woman from abroad (who may not be able to fact-check what the man claims, thus leaving her VER… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 07:13 PM |
| 9 | The narrative that "women are happily choosing to be single" makes ZERO sense when you look at the actual dataWhile the % is very small (about 48% women to 52% men in the 18-30 age gap) in reality it becomes sort of significant (at least for the men actually left out). For every 100 women, there are 108 men. Now imagine a dating pool of 10 000 young people. The reality would be 5200 men and 4800 women, leaving 400 men without. Add to this that a lot of women at the higher end of the age gap cut-off points (24, 29 etc) are dating men in the next age gap counted; the numbers get artificially skewed. The r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 12:45 PM |
| 17 | The narrative that "women are happily choosing to be single" makes ZERO sense when you look at the actual dataThere are more younger men than younger women, so it would make sense that there would also be more single men than single women. There simply aren't enough women for every man in the same age group. The numbers don't start to equal out until the later 30's when more men are just dropping dead. 2/3 of women go for a man with a +-4 age difference while 1/3 of women go for men older than that (although 7+ year gap is more rare, and 10+ year gap being the most rare). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/25 11:35 AM |
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