AdventureCat13 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Long-Term Seduction	Fundamentals	AdventureCat13	/r/seduction	27/08/24 06:45 AM

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15	How to stop giving a F? TL;DR: Tell yourself that you don’t give a fuck so much and so often that it becomes the truth. Also, not giving a fuck sometimes equals butt-hurt people; ignore them. Step one is to fake it. Go into various situations that stress you out and pretend you don’t care and that it doesn’t matter. As you do this more and more you will notice that much of what you were worried about never comes about. Even when something does happen, the consequences often won’t be as severe as you probably expect the…	/r/seduction	03/10/24 02:43 PM
7	Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicated I see what you’re saying and on balance I don’t completely disagree with it. The only difference being that I believe it’s usually more of maybe in their mind, as in they’re willing to consider sleeping with you, but they want more information before they make up their mind. Don’t get me wrong, there are times when the answer to: does a women want sleep with someone is absolutely yes, but it an exception not a rule in my opinion.	/r/seduction	04/09/24 01:34 PM
28	Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicated Don’t disagree. This may be a chicken and egg dynamic though. Why is this such a common feature in so many cultures, if not because being overly promiscuous could be disadvantageous for a women based on the societal dynamics pre-birth control? I think one of the basic tenets of seduction is that a one party is promising some level of investment (at varying levels based on the context, from simple respect/communication, all the way to marriage) in exchange for sex. When women complain about feeli…	/r/seduction	04/09/24 01:27 PM
16	Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicated Maybe. If they already know the person and they’ve already been vetted. It not like you just join those communities and bamm! Immeadiate casual sex. It can take months/years to get established and build up a reputation. What you’re talking about would probably only happen between people who had already had sex together or knew each other pretty well, making it more of a fuckbuddies/fwb dynamic. Also, just because someone is at one of these events doesn’t mean they want to have sex/play with all …	/r/seduction	04/09/24 10:03 AM
767	Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicated Honestly, I think the reason we play games is because if we didn’t, the answer would usually be no. I mean, nothing stopping any of us from asking the question, but if we do we immediately force the other person to make a decision. Mentally, I think it’s easier for people to make a lot smaller decisions than one big one. It’s the reason why salespeople don’t force you into a decision right away. They stretch things out letting you make smaller decisions so you feel more in control until you feel…	/r/seduction	04/09/24 08:33 AM
28	Why is sex such a taboo? Imagine if we could just simply ask the person if they sex like "hey we should have sex sometime?" instead, we play these games and make it complicated If anything those communities vet their partners way more because 1) when things go wrong, they go really wrong 2) there are a bunch of bad actors who are in those communities for the wrong reasons	/r/seduction	04/09/24 08:21 AM
1	How can I ask a girl out from work? TLDR: Ask her out. I would like to point out that you could just ask for her ig. Although, if you ask her on a date, you’d almost certainly end up exchanging contact details. Plus, the whole point of sliding into her DMs is to meet in person eventually right? As for how to ask her out, this is by no means a definitive guide but below is a fairly simple and straightforward checklist to follow if you want to ask her out. Be confident. If you’re struggling with that, fake it. Practice asking her ou…	/r/seduction	26/08/24 08:13 PM