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Update she said shes seeing someone so she wants it to be platonic. Not going
/r/askTRP16/04/17 11:56 PM
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I don't know what exactly I want. I was attracted to her vibe. and wanted some time with her. I'll be straight up and give her a way out to show I don't care to lose it
/r/askTRP16/04/17 07:53 PM
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no i blocked out the place. yeah ill get some food and suggest to her that it would be a good idea for her to write her number on the baggy
/r/seduction20/10/16 05:51 PM
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never got it before and i go there all the time. Tiem to find out
/r/seduction20/10/16 12:43 AM
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NoFap bro. Anyway, lets keep it simple then and less thinking about it. Next time I see her and get the chance, I will make my intentions clear and ask her out. Should have done it by now. And if she's not down, then who gives a fuck
/r/seduction19/10/16 04:13 PM
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MAybe she wants a future higher tip? Flirty waitresses/servers get better tips for next time? Though im usually always getting shit to go at that place
/r/seduction19/10/16 02:38 AM
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how do we know shes not just being friendly , and no i didnt, im not that gay only online
/r/seduction19/10/16 02:25 AM
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is that a signal?
/r/seduction19/10/16 01:29 AM
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ya i did with her today and then she wrote that note. Wonder why she didnt write her number. Prob too aggressive to do that
/r/seduction19/10/16 12:53 AM
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is that because shes working? seems easier to give a yes or a no for a time i suggest. But maybe i can just say, leave your number somewhere on the bag,,
/r/seduction19/10/16 12:43 AM
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Number? I may as well make a date on the spot, lets go here on this day at this time
/r/seduction19/10/16 12:25 AM
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Yeah she's seen me before forsure. I'm there at least 3 times a week..
/r/seduction19/10/16 12:20 AM
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Theres nothing wrong with being alone if you enjoy it and are happy. Some of the most interesting and sociable people I know really like their alone time and have a small circle of friends. You can't force a way of life on someone and tie it to the red pill. Sure benefits exists from socializing and everyone should be able to do it when they need to, but not all the fucking time.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/16 12:11 PM
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And how should one greet them on the date? Firm handshake?
/r/seduction03/07/16 08:22 PM
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Very interesting. Doing the focus pack in headspace anyway, so this is double knowledge. Ill try this
/r/seduction03/07/16 04:20 PM
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I have been using headspace 3 - 4 times a week for about a year now! Really kills my anxiety and boosts my mood. But I prefer to do it in the mornings before or after a workout. I'll probably do it before my date tonight again. I should have realized sooner about meditation and applying it right before dates!
/r/seduction03/07/16 03:42 PM
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Try to do it every few days
/r/seduction03/07/16 10:09 AM
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It's exactly the same. 2-4 drinks max.
/r/seduction03/07/16 10:08 AM
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It sounds like I have to tamp down aspects of my personality that make me look objectively less attentive. What's going to get me into a relationship with a girl is meeting the right one and being extremely genuine about who I am. Most importantly, I have to meet someone who matches my values and temperament. I will find people who are just as excited about me as i am about them. If I strive to attract people based on what other people say, I am not going to attract the people who want someone l…
/r/seduction03/07/16 03:50 AM
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Shit. Those traits you described in Fifty Shades of Grey are literally the exact opposite of me. I am not somber, dark, serious, quiet stern or calm, collected and composed. I am the opposite of every one of those traits. This does indeed make a lot of sense. I cannot change my personality overnight, I am an ENFP, and surely I can use some o my energy and charm to my advantage?
/r/askTRP03/07/16 02:05 AM
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Yeah that helps. I guess its better to come off as too sex oriented than ending up in the friend zone, but I can see it being tricky in my head as to what lies in the funny category vs strange/creepy spot. But I understand these things can't really be planned, they sort of come up based on the conversation. And further, I get that it just sort of comes down to having a sort of sexual theme throughout the conversation , playful teasing etc as oppose to saying specific things. Something to work on…
/r/seduction02/07/16 10:46 PM
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Yeah that could be it. I think I need to do less talking though, I don't want to give the illusion of being so easy by basically giving her all the power, I want it to be a bit of a challenge.
/r/askTRP02/07/16 10:06 PM
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How do you talk about sex without being too weird about it? Any examples? And how to do physical touching when shes sitting across from you at a table?
/r/seduction02/07/16 09:36 PM
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Are there any examples of creating tension? Like negging? Or is it more of a natural vibe
/r/seduction02/07/16 07:58 PM
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This is the advice I was looking for. This makes sense. I make it too easy for them and there isn't enough of a challenge. I must give off the vibe of "I'm ready for you, I want AND NEED to fuck you " and its no longer interesting. Thank you
/r/seduction02/07/16 07:54 PM
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I think the trick is also to not drink too much. After about 3 or 4 drinks I get sloppy and kinda retarded.
/r/seduction02/07/16 07:40 PM
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Pretty tough for me as I have ADHD and I tend to speak fast, and do everything sort of fast, but I do have to slow down somehow..
/r/seduction02/07/16 07:23 PM
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Like talk about myself less, and let her do most of the talking
/r/seduction02/07/16 06:48 PM
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