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Adventurous-Crew1025/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 05:27 PM
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I hope your situation is different and may work. I’m just saying I felt like she would never do that sort of thing, and ultimately she did.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/23 10:51 PM
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We started our divorce talk in march, worked on things until may. She officially wanted a divorce. During that time we continued to stay in the house and did the rollcoaster of emotions of “should I stay or should I go”. That long drawn out process has been the hardest thing of my life. We both have never fought before this event, both level headed. I found out last week she’s been having sex with other people. She then manipulated me to help her through her problems with friend but didn’t tell …
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/23 08:11 PM
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Very well put
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/22 12:07 PM
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I agree with all accept this kids. If she’s the type of woman that thinks she’s better off without a stable home, she will go out and try to find something else and be so desperate. In that process she neglects the kids. The kids will need you bro. Get 50/50 join legal custody and do not leave the house before the divorce is completed.
/r/Divorce_Men11/09/22 12:03 PM
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I was upset when she told be she wanted to separate 3-4 months ago, but I eventually came to terms with it. When she finally told me what happened I wasn’t that upset, maybe because I was already done with it? No she has no intention on fixing herself or the relationship. She is content with the divorce. I guess the good thing is when I serve her next week, she may not fight back and just accept the terms that the lawyer will write In…. I hope
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/22 09:25 PM
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I’m not really sure what she means because she’s currently not putting in any work. She’s basically at the point where she knows she fucked up and she can’t understand why I want to make it work and stay with the way she’s been. And she’s not willing to change.. so it’s kind of weird but she’s just so cold and just simply doesn’t care. I’m just not that way and I can’t be with somebody that is.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/22 07:57 PM
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This is spot on bro. Yeah I’m going ahead with the filing next week… I’m done, but yeah it’s tough man.
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/22 12:49 AM
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Wow , very similar situation. We did counseling and the counselor said that my wife has made her mind up and nobody can change her mind. I’ve made my decision , I’m getting a lawyer and going to have papers to her in a weeks time.. it sucks but I know it’s the right move. Thank you for your honesty
/r/Divorce_Men02/08/22 12:47 AM
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Hahaha nice
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 10:53 PM
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Damn that’s rough.. sorry dude. I appreciate your honesty.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 10:52 PM
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Ya she just started a job as a teacher again this week. I put her through her masters in English so ima be pissed if she gets alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 09:26 PM
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This gave me a great laugh.. f ya I am. I will add it to my list, Ty.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 09:25 PM
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We did therapy for three months. I showed up one day without my wife here about a month ago. The therapist told me she’s never seen a couple that the wife didn’t have anything major for the husband to fix, but was completely done. She told me to get a lawyer.. I remind myself of that every day..
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 09:03 PM
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I’m tryin man, I just feel like suck a sucker..
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 08:40 PM
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Exactly. Her father wasn’t around so she doesn’t even know what a father is. All I know is I showed up to her house when I was 16, did man chores for her and her mother. They kept me around and I’ve been working my ass off ever since with little love or appreciation in return. Most of my joy comes from the children.. thankfully they give it back like I’ve taught them to.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 08:37 PM
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It’s just hard because I’ve loved her so hard without question for so many years, I’ve built my life around this person. It’s hard letting go but I know all the reasons I need to do it.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 08:36 PM
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Thank you, and your 100% right
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 08:19 PM
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Ya it will be filed, naw AZ
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 08:16 PM
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I would send her that video of Steve Harvey “I can’t have women friends”. I would tell her to be careful because guys will wait for that chink in the armor. She never listens to me , she says “your acting like a father”. No , I just have more life experiences than you and I know what guys want… we’ll i proved that to be true and she still doesn’t listen to me.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 07:54 PM
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We’re at 10 years sept 2nd…
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 07:51 PM
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Nah, they’re all mouth breathers like me lol.. I have no doubt there. I think she’s been trying to hold it all together for 15 years and finally broke… but that means there’s no repair in the near future either.. I’m literally signing papers today for lawyer, I thought this would be a last hope to change my mind somehow.. never posted to the internets before lol.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 06:37 PM
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Spot on , yeah he’s like 6 years younger and flat out told her “ I want to f you but I don’t want a relationship because you got three kids”. That broke her and made her realize she f up.. problem is she wanted me to fix three things and I did… I told her to fix her one thing (lack of love for me or kids), and she said she couldn’t do that… Game over.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 06:20 PM
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