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1	What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it? And they often are verbally abusive too, like they expect you to cater to all of their irrational emotions while offering no mutual empathy/support.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/23 07:13 PM
1	Women look at the men they are dating glass half empty, while men look at them glass half full Oh I fully agree, and I hope you're wrong about the manosphere. Exactly, many of these men will continue to be who they are. They suck, and I have no gendered loyalty towards them. But there are things women have the power to do to protect themselves! Don't rely so much on the instant spark, most women have very complex emotions so naturally they probably won't instantly like many guys right off the bat. Most guys really don't have that interesting of lives; if he does, maybe at least consider t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/23 05:07 PM
5	Women look at the men they are dating glass half empty, while men look at them glass half full But given how often they do go wrong, clearly they need to re-evaluate their risk assessment skills, and re-prioritize which red flags to keep an extra eye on	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/07/23 03:26 PM
3	Men of this sub, how do you deal with desiring deep intimacy? I don't think it's that all or most do. It's the fact that when a woman gets emotional over something so trivial, it's seen as perfectly acceptable in society even if she does so in a very unhinged way. On the other hand men can have every reason to show emotion and STILL somehow get judged for it negatively, even by women who claim to be understanding and empathetic (who often get away with saying blatantly toxic things about such men). It's a serious double standard in society, but by no means…	/r/MensRights	05/06/23 03:18 PM
4	Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic, and it helped to form the manosphere into what it is today. No, but the people against toxic masculinity seem to be too braindead to call out women who enable/live by it/are attracted to it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 01:34 AM
3	Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic, and it helped to form the manosphere into what it is today. She wasn't a hardcore feminist, she was a stupid hypergamous attention seeker. The problem is that plenty of actual feminists usually defend these worthless types of humans.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 01:32 AM
2	Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic, and it helped to form the manosphere into what it is today. Who are all of these men who are saying "men can be promiscuous but not women"??? This is a point that I always see women make, but the only people who seem to actually like these men are women who want to be part of their harems...	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 01:23 AM
1	Most women's gendered expectations of men are toxic, and it helped to form the manosphere into what it is today. She sounds like a useless idiot anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/05/23 12:58 AM
2	Panopticon of iffiness It demonstrates an obvious weakness in the feminism movement.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/05/23 10:21 PM
-1	I’m (M21) mad and confused when a man equals obesity to unattractiveness in women I'm going to say something and it isn't very nice: I feel no sympathy towards these "alienated" women. A large amount of women are absolutely brutal towards men they aren't attracted to, and given that women are generally more close-minded on what is and isn't attractive, far more guys are affected. Any time someone brings this point up, they get called an incel (the apparent argument winning insult for the unintelligent). Why should this one group be given sympathy and more open-mindedness beca…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/03/23 07:20 PM
1	This feminist came to my school to teach us a little bit about feminism for the woman's day but she only said bullshit Sounds like she's a fake feminist, and real ones called her out. How refreshing. Usually they are completely unable to differentiate the real ones from the posers with an agenda.	/r/MensRights	20/03/23 07:19 PM
1	Imagine if men made posts saying they dislike autistic women Ugh, I've heard even the most "anti-racist" people casually say that they don't like Asians. I always call them out on it. It frustrates me that they felt so free to openly say that.	/r/MensRights	17/03/23 05:19 AM
1	When women and men refer to the "friendzone", they are each imagining two very different scenarios, which causes the animosity and confusion over the topic. I feel like this attitude is too often used to divert blame away from the exploiter. Just because someone is willingly giving you leverage doesn't mean you're automatically blameless for taking advantage. While I agree that it takes two to tango, and that the exploited should leave, but I don't think that they should get any more blame than the exploiter (if anything they should get SIGNIFICANTLY less).	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/03/23 07:52 PM
4	Why do people act bluepilled when it comes to men but blackpilled when it comes to women? We apply a just world bootstrap fallacy to men with dating. Some problems I that many autistic guys face: We don't play games. Plenty of women complain about these dating games, but still react to them positively. Our social awkwardness is often seen as creepy (one "magic word" a lot of women use). Even if the woman knows the guy is autistic. They view autistic traits as childish. When they do like us, we rarely fit the "image" of a romantic and sexual partner, so they usually only want us as friends or "brothers". Being friends with women isn't a bad th…	/r/MensRights	10/03/23 09:03 PM
1	Why is the default insult always “incel”? Isn’t that insult indirectly reducing women to sexual objects…..? You'd think that these "intelligent warriors" would understand that when they use these insults, it only proves our points. Nah, that would require critical thinking skills. Offended? Prove me wrong.	/r/MensRights	09/01/23 08:30 AM
3	Why is the default insult always “incel”? Isn’t that insult indirectly reducing women to sexual objects…..? I think that they genuinely have been brainwashed into thinking that calling a man an incel is an instant argument winner. Literally even if you call them out on this they pathetically maintain it like it's their only real tool. Only logical explanation.	/r/MensRights	09/01/23 08:29 AM
1	Women often talk about hormones influencing their emotions and behavior why are there some women who shame men for being horny when testosterone is a male hormone? Because a lot of these women aren't feminists, they just claim to be in order to get ego points from others. These are nothing more than childish simpletons who somehow have managed to manipulate several weaker feminists into believing than they are allies in arms. Let's just be real, many of these women care far more about their perceived status than actual equality. Being offended isn't a counterargument, but do it anyway. I need a good laugh.	/r/MensRights	09/01/23 08:24 AM
2	The hypocrisy about male emotion Anyone who refuses to acknowledge male issues is irredeemably stupid. Offense intended.	/r/MensRights	09/01/23 08:17 AM
2	I want a legitimate conversation I still think a little empathy works better than stubborn dismissal in preventing arguments like these from escalating. I'm merely pointing out that sometimes people claim that they don't want things to escalate only when the argument isn't in their favor. This is a common excuse that I've seen people use to avoid discussing men's rights (what the post was about in the first place) so it's hard to take this fear of escalation seriously.	/r/MensRights	02/01/23 05:53 PM
1	I want a legitimate conversation I don't think I misunderstood anything. It honestly sounds like they were torn between not arguing and not admitting their views are ignorant, they wanted it both ways and that is naive thinking. I sincerely have no sympathy for people who do this, nor do I care if they feel uncomfortable. I don't really see what you're confused about but yes. A lot of women think that it's okay to say this, and are indifferent to mens issues in general. What did you think was the problem I was referring to?	/r/MensRights	01/01/23 01:56 AM
1	I want a legitimate conversation Because women frequently do this when faced with men's issues. They think nobody notices but it's obvious. Don't like it? Don't be part of the problem. If they're being called out on a legit issue and don't want to argue, own up to your words. Admit to being wrong.	/r/MensRights	01/01/23 12:54 AM
1	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Well the issue about Africa hunger isn't what we're talking about is it? You actually have the power to change your toxic views, you're just choosing not to. Seriously, your arguments are extremely obtuse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 08:31 PM
1	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Which is part of the problem in society. Way to care about issues that don't directly affect you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 06:02 PM
1	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. The meaty part was the thing you refuse to read. Pardon me for not being clear. If anything the political parts were the "cute little ideas that shouldn't be entertained". Many things said in the bullet points were actually quite valid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 04:39 PM
1	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. But you didn't... If anything you did the exact opposite.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/12/22 03:11 PM
2	I want a legitimate conversation If they're conveniently "feeling" this way in an obvious attempt to save face and avoid admitting they're wrong, I honestly don't care. At that point it's obvious that they're just stubbornly looking for a way to avoid the issue. Maybe if less women would stop using this as a tactic (and less bystander women like you would indulge it) I would see your point.	/r/MensRights	31/12/22 03:06 PM
5	How do I make peace with the fact that practically no one has progressive views on the role of men in society? Personally, this is why I think that more men should call out this toxic behavior. A large chunk of women refuse to listen to or acknowledge these issues, and when they do it's often nasty condescension. Keep calling these women out, online and in person. No threats or violence!	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/12/22 12:21 AM
2	What does crying actually do for men? "It's not that I have a problem with men showing emotions, I just don't find it attractive, dignified, or worthy of respect."	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/12/22 10:44 PM
2	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. I feel like most women detractors are pointedly refusing to address his bulleted points. If feminists are such fierce intelligent creatures, why are they unable to address these points without cherry picking and exaggerating? If you can't counter these, why bother denying them or commenting at all?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 10:08 PM
1	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. But you gotta admit, many of the the things he's calling out are pretty toxic. Nobody wants an egotistical hypergamous hypocrite who hides behind double-standards. A woman can be independent and have standards without being those things you know.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 10:04 PM
1	As a leftist man, I believe that men are better off not pursuing progressive/feminist/leftist women for long-term relationships. Why bother commenting if you didn't read the rest of his post? You're kind of an invalid detractor at that point.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/12/22 10:00 PM
5	I want a legitimate conversation If they don't respond, call them out on that too. Tell them that not responding is basically a surrender at this point. They will get mad, but too bad. We need to remind the misandrists that calling men "incels", getting offended, or going quiet is NOT a "get-out-of-a-losing-argument-free card". Also, why are so many women shocked when "I hate men" statements get so much backlash? Words have consequences you know. If they can't handle the backlash without getting all butthurt, why say it?	/r/MensRights	30/12/22 09:45 PM
4	I want a legitimate conversation Meh, with the amount of women who say it and don't care about the hypocrisy, they don't really get to be "uncomfortable" towards this issue unless they own up to the double-standard. They already said things that THEY didn't mean to say, they literally have no leg to stand on.	/r/MensRights	30/12/22 09:33 PM
39	Seems about right Wow, these people really don't have a high opinion on women do they?	/r/MensRights	30/12/22 09:18 PM
1	Slut Shaming Is Bad And Virgin Shaming Is Funny? And when you call them out on this they either "inconspicuously" exit the argument, or get to a level of extreme fury.	/r/MensRights	22/12/22 10:27 PM
1	Slut Shaming Is Bad And Virgin Shaming Is Funny? Do people usually think "oh you burned him!"? I feel like virgin shaming comebacks usually symbolize that the person making these jokes in unable to counter whatever point the "virgin" is making. Kind of like "you sound like an incel" or "just admit you hate women". They almost always follow a point that people generally don't like do address (whether true or not). I think that a lot of people think slut shaming is worse because you can't exactly lower your body count. Virgins at least can incre…	/r/MensRights	22/12/22 10:22 PM
1	Feminism ruined my relationship She is most certainly NOT a feminist. If anything she's exploiting feminism as a means to justify her obtuse viewpoints. People do this all the time, and sadly many actual feminists often take the bait and enable them.	/r/MensRights	20/12/22 09:07 PM
1	Not only is past promiscuity a good predictor of infidelity it accounts for twice as much variance in infidelity in women as in men. It's gotten so bad that I tend to take "mysoginist" and "incel" as positive words. They tend to translate to "I don't know how to argue back, but I'm desperately trying to save face".	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 09:27 PM
1	Promiscuity and casual sex is unfair to men therefore men are 100% justified in not dating promiscuous women. Which is 100% about personality and not looks. I don't think there's anything wrong with not liking promiscuous women, provided you aren't being offensive about it to the women in question. I think that there are plenty of valid reasons why a man wouldn't want to date a woman with a high body count and vice-versa (though a lot of women apparently see a high body count in men as "proof of skill"). I do think that wanting a virgin is a bit unrealistic these days though. Most men and women have sex with at least one person by the time they're 2…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/12/22 08:45 PM
1	You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for her Women shouldn't have to be virgins. If they are, great! If they've had sex with a few guys, fine! I'm not a virgin, why should she have to be? It doesn't have to be so extreme! I think that the problem is that just as many women don't generally like guys who are too nice or "simps", most men don't want to commit to women who have an enormously high body count. Call it unfair and bullshit, but that's exactly how the guys who get rejected constantly feel. The tall dashing charmer with his shit tog…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 04:22 AM
2	Misandrists have no room to understand the roots of men's issues. They feed off the endless shaming that ensues. This is what I posted to explain why Weaponized Incompetence still happens. Men are constantly under excessive pressure and responsibility. A lot of men do shitty things due to trauma and don't get such an excuse. My ex pretty much told me that my autism wasn't worth dealing with, but if she even thought that I was even slightly judging any of her issues, I was this horrible person! Women are often given excuses, men are more often told "no excuse". THIS attitude is what we're talking about. Yes, ADHD and trauma are a thing. But if women get the benefit of the doubt for them, so should men. I don't know how anyone could disagree wit…	/r/MensRights	05/12/22 02:02 AM
2	Men’s expectation of women to help/pity “socially akward men” is sexist and dangerous. I'm not in any way trying to victim blame. I DON'T for a second think that these men deserve compassion for acting that way, maybe proper guidance but not from the women in question. If anything, I think they were more than generous with their compassion. I simply think that assuming that any shy, introverted, autistic, socially awkward, etc. man are synonymous with those kind of creepers is healthy. I and most other harmless awkward guys (hopefully) look down on the ones you've listed as well, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 09:08 PM
3	Men’s expectation of women to help/pity “socially akward men” is sexist and dangerous. Actually, I'm going to concede to your point about your examples. I reread them and those indeed are indeed sexual harassment. I was wrong there. Lumping all socially awkward men with those unfortunate examples is extremely problematic though. Many awkward men are actually great partners if you can get past the approach, unfortunately most people find it easier to assume they're just creepy. By this logic you'd think that more women would lump party guys and jocks with the "brock turners", but t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/22 04:42 PM
5	Why Don't Men Fix Their Own Issues? Why do they Expect Women to do It? I agree, always call them out. Misandry should be demonized as badly as misogamy. I've straight up told misandrists that they should just turn in their feminist badges, since they clearly don't value equality.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/11/22 07:47 PM
3	Why Don't Men Fix Their Own Issues? Why do they Expect Women to do It? I think that a lot of women do legitimately feel sympathy, and hate the idea of internalized misandry...in theory. What many of them have a problem with, is adapting to the part they can play in ending this. They refuse to acknowledge how fucked up it is when they (not some other random nameless woman) treat men's emotions as lesser, or treat the man himself as lesser for showing emotions. Many women have admitted that they get turned off when a man gets emotional, even if it's due to something …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	03/11/22 07:44 PM
4	Men’s expectation of women to help/pity “socially akward men” is sexist and dangerous. Um, was that supposed to be a counter or something? lol You never once mentioned any 16 year old victims in your original post. Are we even having the same discussion? If you're going to try to, erm... "counter" my point, can we at least stay on topic? Never once did I say anything remotely related to victim blaming or anything that could've been misinterpreted as such.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/10/22 03:34 PM
1	is there a term for involuntary celibates who do NOT hate the opposite gender (but are also not virgins)? I think that incel is sometimes used as sort of a "magic word" to use when no other options are available. Like if a man makes a valid point that the opposing person can't properly debate "Oh yeah? Well.....you're an incel!" I see it all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 04:11 PM
16	Men’s expectation of women to help/pity “socially akward men” is sexist and dangerous. You picked several extreme examples that in know way represent the average awkward struggling man. The problem with this post is that it represents a serious problem: That socially awkward men are synonymous to creepy sexual harassers. This is an immature and toxic mindset that only leads these socially awkward men to resentment. It's also disrespectful towards REAL victims of sexual harassment.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/10/22 03:54 PM
1	Women have a hypocritical bias against homosexual male behavior It's kind of a sticky situation. There is an outcry whenever men shame women for doing stereotypically masculine things, or if they find said woman unattractive. Many women will say that men shouldn't be afraid to do things that are considered feminine or stereotypical to homosexuals, but then only date/have sex with more masculine men. Obviously we can't help who we're attracted to, but if you get turned off by non-masculine guys you probably shouldn't be preaching about these things. In my exp…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/10/22 11:03 PM