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| 1 | Worth joining salsa class to meet more women?the numbers do not match. You only do pizza night with social circle friends or maybe friends from friends. Unless you are pivoting from friends from friends every weekend, highly difficult, you effectively end up in the same situation you told OP not to get into very quickly. | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Worth joining salsa class to meet more women?None. It's all about supply and demand. The people who recommend you to do a party/social event are just reproducing this dynamic in a controlled space. It is also fking expensive and time consuming to do this, which is why a lot of these guys are on skool groups fake buying followers and doing engagement groups with others to boost their IGs. The real reason guys like this approach is because they crave the feeling important, basically they want to feel like a rapper. ,Most of them are not gett… | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 06:48 PM |
| 10 | Worth joining salsa class to meet more women?You'll also waste shit loads of time, money, and you'll also become labelled as the guy who organizes parties to get laid. This is defo not the way, especially not with so many guys trying to be wannabes M Sartains | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?it is always a numbers game. You can brainwash saying it is about having high standards, but then to actually get to meet those girls you have to go through a pile of women, either via shit loads of approaches or tons of exposure on apps. It is not even about "self respect". IDK man feels like you don't even play the game. If you played it long and well enough you should know women who have good morals, hot, come from great families can totally be picked up by blokes who hate themselves, are nar… | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 06:39 PM |
| 6 | Be real how easy is it to pull girls at a club or bar?It is not hard to pull "a" girl. To pull a 7+ consistently on an average club, IS hard. Mainly because on the average club a 7+ is maybe 1 out of 10-15 girls there. If you want to pull "a" girl it is pretty simple and straightforward: work the club. Guys don't get this but consistent pulling comes from knowing how to consistently find a logistical match with you. So if you: * Live next to the club * Find a girl with nothing to do the next day * Find a girl who wants to get laid * Find a girl who… | /r/seduction | 21/03/25 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Redpill podcaster Michael Sartain claims he makes $600k a month?It is totally possible but I'd say he is over hyping stuff. That's typical of Sartain and the people he likes to hang out with, honorable pop in his reationship repertoire like Dan Bilzerian, Tai Lopez, Max Tornow ... do I have to continue? He is definitely making some buck otherwise he wouldn't be putting this much effort into it. in the seduction community RSD used to charge 3k+ for a 3 day bootcamp so I don't see why Michael Sartain woudln't charge a couple grand to listen to him ranting abou… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/12/23 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Michael Sartain’s Men of Action private mentoring?hey bro is this a one time payment or monthly? thanks! | /r/seduction | 30/09/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Does anyone here have any unconventional advice?unconventional advice that actually works. Don't do bootcamp Book a trip to a 3rd world country where you have currency advantage and (if you are white) it works for you. Here's a list of countries: Mexico Peru Colombia Czech Rep Poland Thailand You get the pattern there. That's the "secret" of guys like squatting casanova, David Bond, playing with fire. How do i know it? cause I've been to countries like this and pulled girls that look the same or better. There's no magic, it's called: interior… | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 04:38 AM |
| -1 | A lot of you guys have a toxic view of women, and it’s holding you backSome do and some don't. Sounds more like an intermediate trying to impose his "epiphanies" we all have had. | /r/seduction | 30/05/22 03:49 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone paid for dating advice or a dating coach? How did it go?Bogotá or Medellín! | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone paid for dating advice or a dating coach? How did it go?I was living with some guys who were the real deal and offered dating coach services. Honestly, it's not worth the money. Why? Most pickup coaches will charge you between 1,500-3,000 for a 3 day bootcamp. No guarantees you will get laid, You cannot learn anything in 3 days. It will just not stick. Even if we had good intentions, guys won't change in 3 days. Not even in 7 or a month. If you can hang out with guys who are good, for free, then you should do that. I actually recommend going that rou… | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | I think "game" has hurt me more than it has ever helped me. It's just a bunch of needy behaviors/tricks to attempt to make women like you. It seems like its constantly reinforcing the idea that you're not good enough."You're not good enough" is an idea that paradoxically comes from people who do game, to make their game better. You are not going far away from where your are at now. Here's how game it is going to help ya out: Go out for real. Everyday, 2-3 hours a day. For the next 2-3 years. Take notes of everything you do. Think why you suck Try to change it Repeat You are not reinventing the wheel, there's a gazillion of guys who just like you cry about the same thing and come up with the same conclusions … | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 05:52 AM |
| -7 | I am really scared of cold approaching womenCold approach is not for everyone bro. If you do good with online game and you are ok, that's fine keep at it. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 07:37 PM |
| 6 | Tips for going to bars alone?Of course it is weird. Just as it is weird to wake up at 3 am to workout ... but that's why some people are professional athletes. Just as weird as playing the piano for 10 hours a day ... but that's why some people are better at playing the piano than others. Of course man, if you expect to have the results only 1/10 of guys have, you may have to do stuff that's not normal. The sooner you accept it, the better. Tips: Unless you are traveling often to different places, make it your mission to le… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 05:14 PM |
| -10 | How important is having a good Instagram account?It was good but instagram is slowly dying. If you can, getting a YouTube account to a decent amount of followers or (easier) a TikTok account is going to be better in the long run. Most of new gen's already using TikTok over everything so if you can have decent social proof, that's where you want to be. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 04:58 PM |
| 1 | The harsh reality of dating multiple girls at once.Bro, you just mentioned it, you hate the fact you are choosing to spend money on a girl to prove her you're likable, if you think that then your game is not as good as you think, hence you have to compensate with cash. Compensating with cash is not wrong per se, but if you are complaining, that means you are broke to the point it bothers you. There you have your answer: keep working until you sort those out. There's countless dates where the money I spent was two cups of coffee, a lot of times j… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 04:55 PM |
| 10 | Hotel Bar StrategiesYou don't. If you see someone random ok go and talk to them but developing a strategy is just not effective. Go where there's abundance of women and then develop a strategy there. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 04:47 PM |
| 5 | As a male, you MUST move outunless you close every single day it is not the smartest financial decision. Tent out an airbnb for the day you are closing and call it done. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 04:36 PM |
| 30 | What’s the best US City for a single man?"I heard" | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:06 PM |
| 2 | The Single Guy Vs. Justin Marc - Who Has Better Game?He's good, he just over brags. He will say "i threw a party with 10s, a lot of 6-7-8 figure guys in it", posts a videoclip about it and you can see plenty of fatties, a good amount of solid 8s, couple of 9s but for sure not a 10. Party is good, it is JUST not what he says it is. Same with his game, which is basically mass spamming messages. Works for him, but that can work for just anyone. He's good, just not as good as he want to portray himself. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Okay - I’m going to start cold approachingBars and nightclubs are the preferred option. Daygame is ok if you have the time, especially the first years when you are starting out. Any practice is great practice, but there's just no comparison vs a club. You'll get why as years go by | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 03:06 AM |
| 1 | Okay - I’m going to start cold approachingI'm against to what most people say about not going out as an activity. It is only weird af if you have weird af intentions. If you go with the mindset of getting better, being more social, (instead of where can I put my wiener), then it is 1000% better than the advise of "going to a coffee" or "do it as a lifestyle". I don't do it as a lifestyle cause I have things to do and cannot afford to make what was supposed to be a 10 minute walk into a 2 hour conversation with a stranger that got to now… | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 05:09 AM |
| 1 | MONEY, LETS BE HONEST!Depends of a lot of factors/context. I'll over simplify with two scenarios. 1st If you go to a 3rd world spot, say Latin America, Asia (not Japan, China, South Korea), some parts of Eastern Europe, etc AND you know how to portrait wealth without being obvious about it, I can assure you it does a lot of the game for you. Happens as well in 1st world countries (and you will need serious money, not only "some") but less than in 3rd world countries for sure. 2nd Logistics. The thing money really hel… | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 04:48 AM |
| 0 | I don’t know how to put myself into positions/places to meet more women in the UKMy man I can tell you you are going to fall flat in your face with that game plan. At least if you pretend to have some sort of consistent result. It's ok to feel how you feel about it. It's not ok to shy away from the problem and trying to go around it. Not with cold approach. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 04:31 AM |
| 0 | I almost NEVER saw a successful pickup in my life. Why??That's cool bro, doesn't change the fact that I am already killing it and you are not. I agree though, you should actually be spending your time talking to girls rather than here, but I can guarantee you'll keep lurking here my man. See ya. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 12:49 AM |
| 0 | I almost NEVER saw a successful pickup in my life. Why??That's why i said you have to go out bro. It will make sense once you do. Peace. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 12:46 AM |
| 2 | Have several months off work with money saved up, how to take advantageHey there, I built my life for the past 6 years to be in a similar position where you are at now, so this might be in sync with you. My suggestion is to travel to a cheap country where you can: A) Afford to rent an apartment near the venue you are going to do cold approach. The closer the better. B) Afford to pay club cover, take girls on dates C) If possible where there's wings who are more advanced than you and you can learn from. If you can handle just the first two, I guarantee you are going… | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 12:43 AM |
| 1 | I almost NEVER saw a successful pickup in my life. Why??Not like you are gaming, just like good plastic surgery. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 12:36 AM |
| 1 | I almost NEVER saw a successful pickup in my life. Why??Cool, where you actually paying attention and where you actively gaming? I did not notice anyone as well when I was in college ... mainly cause I was drunk Friday and Saturday nights. Could certainly explain it. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 12:35 AM |
| 2 | I don’t know how to put myself into positions/places to meet more women in the UKBro, seriously? Are you telling me it is extremely hard mode to go to the street and meet people? How about a bar? Is it too difficult to come up with that? Man, you have your answers at the top of your nose ... sounds more like you want things to be set up perfectly before you decide to start. News: they are never going to be remotely perfect. Just go out ... | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Honestly, Im tired of pretending to be someone im not just to get laidYou want someone that cares that you, mmmmm really? Why not take a girl you probably don't like, but who will take anyone? Would you take her ? Probably not, so who's being fake here uh? You want someone who's attractive to you, yet you want her to have a low standard and to like the loser version of you. And you want to pretend being fake equals changing who you are by gathering experiences, reflecting on them and changing things about you in that process ... Nah bro, you are the one who's fake… | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 12:27 AM |
| 1 | I almost NEVER saw a successful pickup in my life. Why??How many times have you gone out? | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 12:21 AM |
| 14 | I almost NEVER saw a successful pickup in my life. Why??You need to go out more. To: A) See you are wrong. There's plenty of people doing 1ns if they have the logistic, experience and are overall fine. B) Realize you have this thing called a phone where you can then schedule dates with the girls you meet from CA. Be honest with yourself, you probably just need to hit it hard and stop theorizing, never challenging your own thoughts with reality. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 04:55 AM |
| 1 | How come even the greatest PUA's (Mystery, Owen Cook etc) still don't have the success of an average natural?It means you do not go out. That's what it means. If you did go out, you'll notice right away the naturals you are talking about get laid from social circle situations did that you can reproduce if you put the effort into them. Most of them get blown out, especially when they are not playing at home. It means that even if those bad PUA guys are getting "worse results", they are still getting better results than you, my man who only theorizes. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 04:38 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]8 is wrong. The rest mostly ok. Do tell her you are a virgin if she asks, just joke about it "Yeah im a virgo lol", "Im so virgin". Own it, the thing that is fucking you up is not being a virgin, is you making a big deal out of it. 5 is either your game just sucks and you are not there yet, or something completely unrelated. Sometimes is not something "cruel" is you just need to level up. Have had girls rejected me just to landblast them 6 months after lvling up. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 12:34 AM |
| 1 | "Just get off the apps and go out and meet people bro"Just accept it then? Like literally what you are describing is you are lazy and like being lazy. It is fine as long as you are ok with it. Don't complain, move on. Pickup at a high level is not for everyone and that's fine. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 08:49 AM |
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