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Adventurous_Fact2083/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 11:32 PM
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Adventurous_Fact2083/r/Divorce_Men09/09/24 09:25 PM
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My ex wife would scare Jesus. Thank god I don’t have to deal with that misery anymore. Don’t text, don’t call, hell I don’t even answer the emails unless it’s a true emergency with the kids. When they do make contact also don’t jump thinking you have to respond immediately.
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 11:46 PM
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The woman you married isn’t the same one you’ll divorce. Show her the door and end it.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/25 01:36 AM
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OP seems to be vulnerable and in his “feelings”. Not the best way to make friends OP. Not every divorce is “normal” either. Go watch my TikTok channel about my story OP. You wouldn’t be able to handle what I went through. You would’ve unalived yourself by now. Otherwise STFU and move along.
/r/Divorce_Men24/03/25 01:13 AM
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I wouldn’t say one word to that loser.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/25 09:51 AM
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Unless she has recordings or videos it’s all hearsay. Let them talk shit, let her friends talk shit, let her family talk shit. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter. Don’t say one word and let your lawyer do the talking. That’s what I did. She didn’t get very far with that shit when it was tried on me. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/25 10:46 PM
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You be the best father you know how to be and just worry about the kids. She no longer matters in the grand scheme of things. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/25 08:47 PM
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Don’t take this personal. But you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife and when you go to court don’t say anything. Let your lawyer do the talking. Let her bury herself.
/r/Divorce_Men06/02/25 08:34 PM
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Recently found out that she still acts the same by yelling at my kids and her new bf. Glad I don’t have to deal with that anymore. Good riddance.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/25 03:03 PM
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Both are trash. They belong in the trash can.
/r/Divorce_Men10/01/25 01:50 PM
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I don’t have to listen or clean up after that ex mother in law bitch of mine. That $300k divorce was worth every penny. May her and my ex and all of the facilitators who had any doing in the affair rot in hell.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 03:11 AM
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My ex fucked around and found out. She got arrested, lost her job, lost the house, and lost primary custody of the kids. Keep your calm and let her move out. Stay calm. Don’t overreact then you start getting into charted waters of OOP etc.
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/24 03:05 AM
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You mean 2020? Yeah you’re right.
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/24 11:39 AM
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It’s not you and it was never about you. Let her go and see that grass isn’t greener on the other side. Don’t message her unless you two have kids together. Keep it about the kids if you do. It’s affair fog. Give her a few years and they usually come back. That’s when you say good luck and I wish you well. She doesn’t respect you and the more you chase her the more you will push her away. Respect yourself and move on.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/24 01:04 AM
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Don’t be around her if you can it help when she gets the paperwork. Hopefully they will serve her at work.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/24 01:00 AM
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OP who’s posting and who’s not?
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 04:57 PM
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You’re still on here talking about her and asking questions OP. Sounds like you haven’t leveled up.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/24 04:30 PM
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Bro you don’t get it. Your ex cheated on you she’s an enemy, anyone that knows her is an enemy, including the million guys she’s talking to. You’re being too nice. Why do you think she cheated on you? You’re too nice!!! She’s still controlling the narrative. If that were me I would nicely tell my son or daughter hey I can’t make it for this reason. Be truthful. Once you get your kid back take them out and you two go do your own thing. This is your life now make the best of it. Time to level up m…
/r/Divorce_Men02/09/24 04:26 PM
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It baffles me the guys on this sub that want to be friends with their exs bfs/fiances/husband. Fuck them and the horse they rode in on. You’re no longer in prison. The ones who want to be “friends” y’all need to take a look at yourself in a mirror and question yourself if you’re really a man. My god grow some balls. Divorces are business transactions only. They are your enemy. There’s no such thing as cordial co-parents. To answer the OPs question don’t go to the party and have your own party fo…
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 11:11 PM
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Aren’t you glad you don’t have to deal with her chaos anymore? Be thankful.
/r/Divorce_Men01/09/24 10:57 PM
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Bro let me be nice as I can about this. There is no friendship. That went out the door when she cheated. Divorce is a business transaction and nothing else. Friends are friends and business is business. There’s no going back. She made her bed let her lie in it.
/r/Divorce_Men13/08/24 10:24 AM
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It may take years but it will happen trust me.
/r/Divorce_Men06/08/24 12:50 AM
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You ever heard of what goes around comes around? She will get repaid. Bet on that.
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/24 03:15 PM
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It’s funny they say how “angry” we get after they get busted. That’s manipulation and gaslighting. She doesn’t respect you at all. That’s reactive abuse. Serve her papers and be on your way. I was in your boat for nearly 2 years. Trust me when I say when they need a “break” they are banging other guys. Walk away dude. If I knew what I did now back in 2016 I would’ve ended it. Think about how much time I wasted on someone who didn’t care, love, or respect me. File for divorce. It’s over.
/r/Divorce_Men03/08/24 04:00 PM
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She’s already screwing someone else.
/r/Divorce_Men28/07/24 04:38 PM
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Women don’t age well. Most of them don’t. My exs hand make her look like she’s 80. She has tons of gray hair now too! The excitement will wear off. Just remember karma tenfold. Remember this. Falling in love with their outer beauty before ever knowing what their soul looks like is a recipe for hell. Some of the prettiest faces have the most chaotic hearts and ugliest souls.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/24 04:53 PM
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My ex skank blew up our marriage. Then I nuked her ass and had her divorce papers served at the school she was working at. 3 days later she got fired. She’s now dating a drug dealer. We shall be back in court soon so she can lose more custody. Keep up the good fight.
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/24 01:51 AM
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Bust they sorry ass cheating and bring up the word lawyer. That will start WWIII every time.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/24 04:19 PM
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The same person you marry isn’t the same one you will divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/24 05:51 PM
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Who cares what they say? I told my ex wife last week that she needs help and I love being the villain in her story. Anyone with common sense knows there’s 2 sides to a story and her family is going to support them no matter what. What’s important is you know the truth and so does God. Fuck what everyone else thinks.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/24 08:02 PM
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Get on the carnivore diet and bulk up. I’ve lost 60lbs and stacked like a shit house now. Go back and read some of my posts I’m pretty brutal on my ex hoe. I call her Moe the hoe. I’m dating a nurse practitioner now. Level your shit up. Watching my ex is funny because she’s dysfunctional as fudge. Her and her homeless bum of a bf. Trash dates trash. Keep that in mind.
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/24 01:43 AM
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Possible contempt if you want to dig for it with your lawyer. Question is, is it worth going to court over possibly? I wouldn’t give my ex 2 cents. I hope daily that she dies and rots in hell.
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/24 11:29 PM
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Make sure you get a lawyer who specializes in custody and divorce/family law. AVVO
/r/Divorce_Men27/06/24 11:55 PM
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If you have a lawyer keep your mouth shut and let the lawyer do the work for you.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 11:44 PM
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For the ones who are they will eventually break up. I think the ones who actually make it is around 6%.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 01:58 PM
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Is your ex still with her affair partner?
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/24 01:20 AM
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I had the chance to get rid of the slut back in 2016. I dicked around and now paying for it. Absolutely make her get your name off that mortgage. Don’t do her any favors. This is war. Stop being nice to the bitch. Always keep in the back of your mind is a business deal and you are legally suing your wife. Friends are friends and business is business. Time to stop being nice.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 09:19 PM
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Divorce is the new Covid variant everybody and their brothers are getting divorced. It’s comical at this point. Someone cheats aka usually the hoe that we tried to turn into a housewife. Then domestic violence brews. Orders of protection go flying, false allegations. It’s like a NFL playbook all similar plays but just different rosters.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/24 03:08 AM
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$300k later LOL
/r/Divorce_Men11/06/24 07:07 PM
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I’m starting a TikTok channel on mine and telling a story. It needs to be told uncut. I’m gonna release all of the evidence on that cunt as well.
/r/Divorce_Men08/06/24 10:41 PM
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You need to recheck those stats. 2nd and 3rd marriage failure rates are in the 70s.
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/24 10:15 PM
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Sounds similar to mine but she went to jail not me. OOP and no contact. Served that bitch papers. We don’t talk period. Be a high value man and level up. My ex is a gutter slut and slept with the entire community but she also lost her ass. Here’s my old saying when they ask for divorce fucking give it to them.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/24 11:36 PM
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Mine went to jail after hitting me and coming at me with a baseball bat. Telling me she was going to throw herself down the steps and tell them I pushed her.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/24 06:43 PM
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My lawyer is $400 hr. My divorce has been over with for months and my ex keeps filing false allegations against me to get court orders pushed. Currently fighting contempt charges. You get what you pay for bc my lawyer just busted her balls for her yesterday.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/24 01:12 AM
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When I gave my lawyer 7k in cash and she just looked at me. I put it off for 6 months. I drove by her apartment and saw her APs truck parked outside of her drive. She lost her ass in the divorce too. Read my past posts. Do yourself a favor and file I put myself and my kids in limbo for months. It’s not what I wanted to do but it had to be done. When a woman asks for a divorce you fucking give it to them.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/24 01:23 AM
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Don’t give her shit. Have the kids to make her a card and call it a day. My ex didn’t get shit and that’s the way it will stay.
/r/Divorce_Men13/05/24 03:38 PM
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God damn this isn’t r/Mechanics stick with the original point of OP. His ex is a bitch. Who cares what grade of fucking gas he puts in the fucking thing? Back to the movie.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/24 12:50 AM
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Ask him how your dick tastes?
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/24 09:21 PM
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Yeah. TN.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 11:55 PM
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Make sure to answer all questions truthfully and don’t lie. Remember interrogatories are under oath. Also OC can file a motion with the court to compel responses. So what I80west may be true but it depends on how far the OC lawyer and judge want to take it.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 10:00 PM
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OP if they want they can subpoena any of that information during the discovery process.
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 09:57 PM
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My ex lost her mind when she received her interrogatories. My lawyers questions to her were so damn tough. Please provide your FB login and all social media logins including password. Please download all data from FB, please provide last 4 years of text messages and calls. Please provide bank statements for the last 13 years of marriage. LOL
/r/Divorce_Men22/04/24 07:37 PM
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Serve her papers. When they want divorce give it to them. Let them walk the trail and pasture of greener grass because it’s not always as it seems. Send her on the way. Let me edit this a bit. When a woman constantly threatens divorce there is usually another guy involved. Your post didn’t mention that. Check her phone, email, and all social media. Also if you go for a lawyer make sure it’s a lawyer who specializes in divorce and family law. A lot of lawyers say they do divorce but don’t have a …
/r/Divorce_Men19/04/24 08:22 PM
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As is the mother so is the daughter. My ex FIL told me not to marry his daughter bc I didn’t know how she was. He was right. He said that on my wedding day. 17 years later. Should’ve listened to him.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/24 11:14 PM
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She can want what she wants but she won’t get shit if you have factual evidence
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/24 12:07 AM
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Absolutely. My ex tried to set me up and get me arrested. She beat the shit out of my face in front of my kids hoping I would retaliate. What she didn’t know is that I was recording it on my iPhone. After she was done I had dialed 911 and hung up. Cop cars were within minutes she went to jail. The following day I slapped an order of protection on her. Had her pinned down for months. I’m going to write a manifesto and release all evidence against her. I understand I could face a civil lawsuit but…
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 02:17 PM
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I was in a similar situation as you. DV, no contact order. I also slapped her with an order of protection. 15 months later I got everything I asked for. Mediator set a fire under her ass. Delete all social media and be ready for interrogatories. When my lawyer walked into mediation the first thing she said is this is going to court. Another $10k on retainer fees. $10-$15k for expert witness. My first thought was this bitch isn’t worth another $25k. If you have a good mediator then settle outside…
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/24 01:54 AM
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Bro divorce is war. Take no prisoners. You’ve gotta be cut throat AF. I’m stern and somewhat an asshole to my ex. We don’t talk and if we have to I show her 0 respect. She’s an enemy now. Time to stop being a simp and grow a pair. I had to.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/24 04:29 PM
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When a woman asks for a divorce show her the fucking door. I was a SIMP since 2016 she cheated on me and I took her back. Rewind to 2022 I caught her in an affair, domestic violence, orders of protection, I manned up and filed. I constantly questioned myself if I did the right thing and I know I did now. If you stop the divorce she’s going to think you’re a bitch and have no respect for you. The problem as men we think we can fix these broken women but we can’t. Let her go dude. It does hurt but…
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/24 01:29 AM
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Oh just wait it gets better. My ex couldn’t answer her questions bc she’s lying hoebag. When I did mine I walked into my lawyers office like I was cleaning out my closet. My attorney wanted financial records of my ex back to 2010. 14 years.
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/24 08:06 PM
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$23k on her side for criminal and divorce. She had 3 separate retainers. I had one $4800. Mediation $2400. Had we went to court for custody it would be another $10k retaining fee for me and $10-$15k for an expert witness per side. You can do the math.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/24 11:06 PM
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Wife’s want to separate so they can go fuck other dudes. File for divorce and leave that hoe in the dust. Read my past posts and you’ll see why I said that. Also make sure you hire a lawyer who only specializes in divorce, custody, and family law. I dealt with this for 2 years. I was naive at first because I didn’t want to believe it. After she got arrested and tried to set me up to hit her to get me out of the house I knew there was no coming back. One day I will write my entire story but I am …
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 02:58 PM
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Domestic violence, infidelity, abandonment. She thought the grass was greener but it turned out to be mud.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 12:52 PM
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Sit back and watch that skank fall on her face. I got the house, the kids, no alimony, and no child support. That hoebag fucked around and found out. When she has to sign the quitclaim deed this week she’s gonna blow a fuse and I can’t wait.
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/24 02:49 AM
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It’s not even that high. 5-7%
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 01:20 AM
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Would you want that back anyway? Think of the STDs. Like my wife has.
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 08:45 PM
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Sounds a lot like mine but she went to jail instead of me. It’s amazing how they flip on the turn of a dime. I always thought I was the problem. Admittedly I wasn’t perfect in the marriage but I also didn’t step out of the boundaries of marriage. I’m attached to this psycho for the rest of my life bc of my kids.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/24 03:20 PM
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It’s been 3 weeks since my divorce was finalized and it feels like a bad dream I can’t snap out of. I won the divorce but really no one wins. She had a long affair and put me and the kids in limbo. I filed on her sorry ass and don’t even talk to her. I should’ve gotten rid of her in 2016 when she cheated the first time but learned my lesson. I hope she falls on her face.
/r/Divorce_Men18/02/24 11:27 PM
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She will regret it one day.
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 11:31 PM
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Divorce is war so take no prisoners. Treat it as a business deal and don’t give a fudge about her feelings. APATHY
/r/Divorce_Men15/02/24 09:59 PM
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Shit…. I got the house, no CS, no alimony, she lost her. She fucked around literally and found out.
/r/Divorce_Men08/02/24 09:52 PM
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Ask for 80/20 and make the bitch a FB mom that way she can get the kid every other weekend. Most FB moms take their kids places and snap a few photos. Complete fake facade.
/r/Divorce_Men24/01/24 02:52 AM
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Hired PI or have someone to mimic her phone but if caught that’s felony charges.
/r/Divorce_Men22/01/24 06:24 PM
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Listen to this man. He knows his shit.
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 07:57 PM
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I have a hard time believing some of the comments in this thread about pricing. I know divorce is expensive but none of us are multi billionaires either.
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 07:55 PM
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Other women is the last thing you need to worry about. Work on yourself otherwise you’ll be in the same boat in 2-3 years. I’m going on since Nov of 22. It hasn’t gotten any better. If anything it gets worse before it gets better.
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/24 06:19 PM
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Where the hell do you live? Trump tower?
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 11:32 PM
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Who the hell is spending that much for a trial? Donald Trump?
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 08:09 PM
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Check your PM
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 06:07 PM
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No temporary orders here. She wouldn’t agree to custody. So it’s total chaos. For those with kids make sure you have a parenting plan.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 05:29 PM
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We haven’t even had mediation yet nor has she received her interogatorries.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 05:13 PM
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8 months in. Welcome to hell. Remember this is war. You can’t make peace with somebody who only knows war.
/r/Divorce_Men20/01/24 01:55 PM
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Chinese and North Koreans hang 10 lb plates from their dongs to make bigger
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/24 01:58 AM
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That was the best $9k retainer fee I’ve ever had. I said where do I sign. When she received the divorce complaint she said you’re ripping my kids away from me and you hate me. Damn straight I do and you’re a shitty mom. Those kids deserve better.
/r/Divorce_Men11/01/24 12:51 AM
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I sent mine packing 15 months ago. 9 months in the separation I gave the bitch divorce papers. I wish I would’ve gave her divorce papers the day after I put an order of protection on her. Ask her how it felt not to see her kids for x amount of months. Let me tell you from experience though get rid of her and serve her papers. Otherwise she’s disrespecting you and thinks you’re a pansy.
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 02:49 PM
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Slut
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