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Wtf. MODS
/r/MensRights09/04/24 10:16 PM
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Maybe I was just the exception then, but my father growing up called me, a woman, a loser relentlessly. Now, as an adult, I refer to any bummy dusty ass as a loser regardless of gender. So I guess I don't believe this is true, but if it is, consider it the equivalent to the word slut.
/r/MensRights21/03/24 08:03 PM
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Uh nuh
/r/MensRights14/03/24 10:45 PM
1

Uh, look it up. There are plenty of articles and even discussions on here talking about and sharing their stories. Not to mention maternity leave is not legally required. This means most women can/have to go back to work. Instead of the rest, they're told they need. All because womens pain has never been taken seriously. So I guess welcome to the club boys. Can't make change without changing all of it. Advocate for everyone or take your bigoted delusional ass else where.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 10:42 PM
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Eh, you guys refuse to be held accountable for the actions of others. Why should I?
/r/MensRights14/03/24 10:38 PM
1

To me, yes. Although he claims to have many girlfriends, that's hard to believe with his sex trafficking charges.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 10:37 PM
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You're telling me
/r/MensRights14/03/24 03:38 AM
1

I made that up? It's well known. Just because you refuse to believe women about how they're being treated while going through something, especially birth, is not my problem. That's just ignorance. I'd rather not mock people because that's fucking rude.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 03:37 AM
1

Stop appropriating that phrase! In all my life that phrase HAS NEVER been used to excuse the bad behavior of boys / men It has. I've seen it and heard and suffered from it. HOW DARE YOU* take a phrase and twist and turn it to suite YOUR AGENDA I don't know if you're unaware because you've never noticed. Most people don't search for things that aren't supporting their beliefs, so I imagine it's possible, but I am not twisting a damn things. It doesn't matter where it came from because that's the …
/r/MensRights14/03/24 03:34 AM
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Ask Andrew tate, although I'd hardly call what he does dating.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 03:01 AM
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Yeah because that never happens
/r/MensRights13/03/24 05:10 AM
-5

Yes, humans are very capable of evolving and learning manipulation.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 05:09 AM
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And vice versa. You know there's a saying that has been passed down for decades. Boys will be boys. Men have had an excuse so long, and it was always written off because that's just what men do. There's a whole clan of incels who claim they can cheat and women cannot because that's just how men are. There definitely are things women can get away with that men can't, but there's also plenty of things women can't get away with because they are not a man. Talk about a double standard my man, there …
/r/MensRights13/03/24 05:08 AM
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Isn't that ironic, without taking accountability and acknowledging there's truth to it, who are you to comment on womens wrong doings and expect them to do something you won't.
/r/MensRights13/03/24 02:21 AM
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I think it's usually because when something happens to a woman, we're considered over exaggerating, so most times, we apply the same logic thrown at us. For example to men, giving birth or having a baby is easy, they can watch how horribly painful the birth is, can watch our vag rip open and still expect them to cook dinner 2 days later or play it off, like just because our bodies are made to procreate means it comes easy to all of us. And before I get the "not all men," I just wanna say not all…
/r/MensRights13/03/24 01:32 AM
9

There are, unfortunately, they're mostly just for the rich.
/r/MensRights08/03/24 02:05 AM
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Women's ejaculate isn't white and sticky. It has the look and consistency of evaporated milk, which is not sticky. It is smooth Female ejaculated is not traditionally white and milky. The white is either from yeast, stds, and a combination of vaginally mucus. I did not say that squirting isn't real, but that female ejaculate is as said above, and it comes from a place known as the paraurethral glands, or Skene's Glands. What we see as squirting is still debated to be pee, or unique, but it's com…
/r/MensRights27/02/24 04:22 AM
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The majority of men and women? There have been studies about the orgasm gap between heterosexual relationships proving men orgasm more than women in these scenarios. You can blame it on lack of knowledge of anatomy, but let's be real. It takes 1 search to learn anything you could possibly ever want to know. So, to not know is to not care enough. Also since you speak so surely of this I think you should know, if a women's cum is white and sticky, that's not cum that's yeast and that happens natur…
/r/MensRights25/02/24 09:45 PM
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Okay, consider this, if someone's partner is wanting to know why their partner isn't orgasming, it's because she hasn't been orgasming at all. That is the reason for prioritizing. In this case, we're advocating for teaching men the anatomy of their own body, along with their triggers/likes/dislikes. Not advocating for men's orgasms but advocating for better orgasms for men. It's comparing apples to oranges, really. I mean, women experience this too, weaker/more intense orgasms just like men, but…
/r/MensRights23/02/24 04:52 AM
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Because the majority will only give the bare minimum, which is penetration, and then think they've accomplished something. So, in other words, not prioritizing their orgasm. Also, my logic is the same as OPs, "men can experience better orgasms and it's women's fault they don't because they also want to experience better orgasms."
/r/MensRights23/02/24 04:43 AM
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I know that men can have more intense orgasms because I'm fairly interested in anatomy but let's be honest here most men don't know that and aren't more open to trying new things that can allow for that. Just like most men don't realize 80% of women can't cum from just penetration alone. Just because in recent years, women have been standing up for their needs and wants doesn't make it discrimination, men are more than welcome to do the same but let's get one thing straight for decades atleast i…
/r/MensRights23/02/24 03:25 AM
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Generally speaking, men have more muscle mass, making them "more able" to defend themselves. People just assume when men are abused they should just fight back but not everyone is okay with fighting, besides that, taking back that power to defend yourself as a man instantly reversed the role making the woman seem a victim when it's really a reaction to abuse. It's hard to tell what is reactive to being abused or a red flag that's telling of one's behavior. Basically, the assumption made that men…
/r/MensRights22/02/24 11:14 PM
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No, I could've sworn they passed it a few years ago? I could be wrong.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 03:33 AM
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Feel that. Only reason I'm on this sub is because I was kicked off feminist pages for calling out clear bias. I always said it's not feminism and they're not real feminist but I think I'm going to stick to toxic feminism now.
/r/MensRights21/02/24 12:19 AM
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I don't understand what "earning the wisdom" means. We all deserve to learn, do we not? I think it's rather comical that men use the standpoint that men do the hard, dirty, and dangerous jobs, but when women try to break through that workforce, they're shitted on for that. I worked in a shop with all men, I could keep up pretty well with the exception that every once in awhile we'd have to do team lifts, but after figuring out that dynamic it actually made our line that much more efficient. Quit…
/r/MensRights21/02/24 12:11 AM
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You've already done the hard part with understanding all of this. Now it's time to surround yourself with people who align with what you believe. I've struggled with this myself, and it really just boils down to accountability. It's so easy for women to play the victim. Everything in society around us allows for that. It's a totally new concept for men to acknowledge the same for them. That's why most women won't. That's why it's important to now surround yourself with women who can acknowledge …
/r/MensRights20/02/24 11:35 PM
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Agree with the sentiment, although I think there's a better way of doing this than to do all that. This is what dating is for, getting to know someone. That's how you learn someone's values, not by being coy. A simple question on men's mental health will answer every question you have. Being upfront is always best for anything. There's no point in sneaking around. If you feel like you have to do that, there's a good chance they're not for you. Usually, there are plenty of signs. You just have to…
/r/MensRights20/02/24 10:35 PM
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Indoctrination at its finest.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 10:15 PM
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You're wasting away your life with someone who doesn't even love you enough to be considerate of your feelings. Run while you still can. There comes a point where you can no longer expect sympathy, take control of the situation, and remove yourself if you know for a fact you are not receiving what you deserve. Align yourself with someone whose views correlate better with yours. Not someone who walks all over you.
/r/MensRights20/02/24 09:49 PM
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I've been like this towards my boyfriend because when we first started dating, he'd lose his temper, which I have trauma surrounding. Him yelling in our house is not an option for him because I will leave however we've had to have a conversation about it and how he is allowed to express his anger. It's not usually about expressing emotion it's about how you express emotion. If you've had serious conversations about this and you're still not being taken seriously, it may be time to consider leavi…
/r/MensRights20/02/24 09:38 PM
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I can't speak on how common it is, but I've known men who feel they're being taken for granted because they are SAH. Reddit alone proves it's more common than not. When the roles are reversed, just like women, men also feel taken for granted because being SAH isn't always easy and is almost always more exhausting when young children are involved. Men have feelings too, and men are allowed to feel overwhelmed and taken for granted too. Fact of the matter is as we evolve and more men are taking th…
/r/MensRights17/02/24 08:53 PM
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Maybe it was because you started with advocating for male loniness and ended with a male only space to discuss political and philosophical beliefs. When reading that, my mind immediately goes, why do you need a male only space to talk politics? Don't they do that enough in the government, and aren't we actively fighting against that? Men's clubs exist. Unfortunately, it's usually exclusively for the rich. If you want to advocate for men's mental health, don't give your solution an alternate purp…
/r/MensRights17/02/24 08:43 PM
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In many ways it's comparable. In many ways it's not at all. This generation is fighting for better safer work places, because that is not normal and shouldn't be normalized. Where as death from complications of pregnancy is very normal, always has been. It's just a fact of life.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 08:34 PM
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I think it's because it's harder to have a successful relationship if you can't learn to love being by yourself first. Being single and by yourself gives you plenty of time to find yourself, once you've done that it makes dating A LOT easier.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 08:29 PM
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Because most feminist pages don't appreciate when you point out a clear bias that leads to obvious sexism and bigotry.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 07:35 PM
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I've actually known men who've done this because it's never fair man or women to be treated like that soo. Yes, it happens all the time gender is irrelevant.
/r/MensRights17/02/24 07:12 PM
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Some men do and some men don't and there's nothing wrong with either. It's not a new thing, in america, it was the standard which is why it's perpetuated so often. There's still plenty of people out there who don't believe that though. It's not one dimensional, for people who choose to live this way they usually enjoy it which is why it's happening. People don't do what they don't want to, there's always possibility for change so no point in playing the blame game or acting like it's some sort o…
/r/MensRights11/02/24 07:30 PM
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I mean I've seen and heard it happen many times, usually with nastier words though. I've never personally heard a woman complain about not getting attention from strangers but according to people here they say it happens all the time.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 05:50 PM
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Yupp that's pretty priviledge at its finest. Being big you don't even get half the attention you would if you weren't. That's just that but also never getting that type of attention, you don't even know whether or not you like it. Did you ask that girl if she thought its creepy if they're ugly?
/r/MensRights24/05/23 04:50 AM
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But it goes vice versa as well. I mean if a women who a man isn't at all attracted to or interested in shoots her shot she's usually called a whore for doing so when if it were a woman they'd find attractive there's no problem to be had.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 03:05 AM
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Some people don't appreciate strangers coming up to them that's just chance you take. Bitching about something you knew could go 50/50 seems kind of stupid.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 03:00 AM
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Lol gross
/r/MensRights24/05/23 02:59 AM
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I have never once heard a woman complain about not being confronted.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 02:44 AM
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Yeah that's the point. Just don't make the fucking move or ya know just accept the fact theres a chance they might not appreciate being talked to by a stranger.
/r/MensRights24/05/23 02:16 AM
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Well yeah, consent is a very real thing. Just because a lot of women are shallow doesn't mean they deserve to be harrassed.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 11:59 PM
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No ones excusing shit. There are people here calling out the things some women do just as there are "feminist" pages constantly talking about shit some men do too. Who cares.
/r/MensRights23/05/23 04:07 PM
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I have plenty. What I don't do is put on a fake smile and grit my teeth for the approval of others. Funny thing about work and school, discrimination is usually not tolerated at either. You lost friends over something that wasn't true, and that's the company you chose to keep? Why do you care to keep these friends if you've really got a problem with how they think? Are you that lonely and desperate for friends? Do you really care that much what people think of you? Are you 14, just starting high…
/r/MensRights23/05/23 03:47 PM
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So what I'm hearing is you're pretending to be friends with women. You don't tell them when you disagree, you don't fight for what you believe is right. You let women confide in you about personal traumatizing sexual assaults and/or horribly uncomfortable situations, then you sit on this sub and talk about how not innocent they are for basically never healing from traumatic experiences they use as an excuse to be a bigot. Holy hell, grow some fucking balls. Quit pretending to be friends with the…
/r/MensRights23/05/23 04:28 AM
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I understand all of that. I also understand some people learn better with hands on expirience, some people can't recognize red flags or determine what can come from their decisions because they've never made those types of decisions before, and they can turn out many different ways but are always trying to see the good in people and are more optimistic. Some peopme have been privileged enough to never have to go through or see people taking advantage of them or the people they love so they can't…
/r/MensRights06/05/23 01:55 AM
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What's your problem, I said given some context it's very obviously that's not what was happening in your relationship, so why so defensive? It's not about mental capacity it's about EXPIRIENCE and KNOWLEDGE.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 01:20 AM
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I don't doubt you. I'm just saying she had significantly less life expirience than you and it would have been easier for you to take advantage of her or influence her life. That's why it seems predatory. From the fact she seemed very smart and put together and the way you brag about her being smart and put together that didn't seem to be the case for you guys, yet it is still very common.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 12:05 AM
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Well because she has no knowledge of life and can be easily influenced. There's also a good chance she hasn't found herself yet, and will eventually change to be the woman she wants to be and that woman might not want you. Then you would have just wasted your time once again, and more than likely push the agenda that all women suck because you've had a poor time with women in 2 different stages of their life, when in reality you should know that's always a possibility with younger women.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 09:40 PM
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Let's be honest, no one is blaming men for not wanting a woman who hasn't learned from their expirience. I mean if an older woman is smart and reasonable and isn't still constantly making bad decisions, more than likely men would be willingly to date them. But blaming it on the fact that they're "used up" and broken, that's just straight mysogynystic.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 09:37 PM
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I mean yeah. Most men will say whole heartedly it's because they don't come with as much baggage, but baggage is just a derogatory term men choose to use instead of saying expirience because with expirience comes knowledge of life. A lot of men and women alike are guilty of wanting younger because they are easier to influence and "train". You know the common joke women use about having their man "trained" right? It's gross but also same precedence.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 09:34 PM
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I don't disagree but let's be honest here, chasing a woman under the age of 25 while you're over 30 is fairly predatory. Whether it's intended or not. Whether it's a woman or man doing it. What's even more sickening is men being labeled predatory but women being encouraged to date young. Quite the double standard.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 09:29 PM
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😂😂😂 the store I work at has a mens and womens room and people destroy the bathrooms so often that we have to close them down. Women use the mens room and vice versa ALL the time and no one bats an eye. When you go about your business it's not a big deal. Imagine a man walking into a womens room, and some karen starts freaking out, you walk into the stall do your business and get out, Karen's still pissed, calling security/cops they talk to you. You tell them I used the bathroom and left. What ha…
/r/MensRights22/03/23 06:58 PM
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I don't really think they're comparable seeing as though they're both means of oppressing and demeaning a group of people but I do want to point out that a mans ability to provide is something that's easily hidable where as a womens looks are not. For example working retail I had a regular who constantly commented on my looks, if I didn't wear makeup I'd be asked if I was sick or had a long night, if I wore too much makeup he'd comment on how I don't need all that crap on my face and how it make…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:55 PM
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Shocker
/r/MensRights14/12/22 03:50 AM
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I mean if he doesn't want that then he doesn't need to be with her?? I've had bum ass dudes leach off me too. That's not just a thing women do. I see men do it all the time as well. You act like it's against a guys will that they stay with a woman who won't take care of herself. My boyfriend who works about 20hrs more a week than me begs me to quit working or atleast go part time so that I'm more available to him when he's home but I choose to work because I refuse to allow myself to be put in a…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 03:34 AM
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I came to this sub because I kept getting kicked off feminist pages. harass men who are going through all the shit you listed being loneliness, anxiety & depression. I was going off the post, you act as though me saying that is somehow an insult when mental illness is a joke or anything to be ashamed of so wtf? Some laws favor women and others quite literally take away they're rights so I wouldn't say enough rights is true. Same goes for guys. Some girls aren't born into a "pretty damn good gig"…
/r/MensRights14/12/22 03:17 AM
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Maan you gotta stop making comparisons because yours are awful. Maybe if you don't let the skewed ideas of a lot of delusional women ruin the meaning of feminism for you, you wouldn't sound like you hate women, saying things like you're not a feminist. I mean, a lot of the guys on this sub have horrible demeaning and misogynistic views yet I don't think because of it that mens rights shouldn't be taken seriously.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 10:19 PM
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It's very obvious. They get hate for it because they project loneliness, anxiety and depression in the form of hatred for women, when in reality, it's their own problem and their own fault. Same as the karen slur. Karen's act out because they're stressed and project their problems on people who don't deserve it. Then they have the audacity to complain about people calling them Karens.
/r/MensRights13/12/22 08:23 PM
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Oof. I guess it depends on peoples idea of feminism. I get what you're saying that women nowadays are using feminism as an excuse to act like a shitty person but to me that isn't feminism at all. To me feminism is for both men and womens rights because it's all about equality. If women want to be treated a certain way then men should recieve all the same benefits. Gotta say you're ideas about abortion are pretty laughable though and comparing a womans body to a house is absurd. Sadly I don't exp…
/r/MensRights13/12/22 08:09 PM
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It just sucks when you're surrounded by men who only ever think about sex. My dad made it blatantly obvious that men only want one thing when I was a teenager and then growing up all my guy friends made it a point for me to know they'd "do me". Used to make me wonder if there were any guys out there who were capable of seeing an attractive women without immediately thinking about how they would have sex with them. I moved and my first job out of my previous town I met guys who never talked about…
/r/MensRights23/11/22 03:47 AM
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I went through something similar in high school. I thought I had a loving, caring amazing boyfriend and that my friends just didn't like him because he wasn't up to their standards. That may have been true but he ended up being very abusive and manipulative so when he finally cheated on me and left I had no one. I resented them. Until a friend of mine put herself in that situation. As someone whose experienced learned and grew from that I decided I wanted friends who wanted better for themselves…
/r/RedPillWomen27/10/22 01:10 AM
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No. There isn't. If a woman can't handle being turned down, they more than likely have some issues that need to be dealt with.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/22 12:58 AM
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Well were you mansplaining? Because women don't appreciate a man over explaining things to them in a condescending way implying that they couldn't understand what you're saying without going into depth.
/r/MensRights12/06/22 02:36 AM
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Absolutely nothing. The only issue I see which I'd say is pretty gender neutral is that the fact that people like to focus on one genders issues while putting down the others. Which is completely unnecessary. A lot of women won't take mens issues seriously because their own issues were never taken seriously by men and vice versa and no one ever feels like being the bigger person or just being a better person so nothing ever changes. Then theres the case of men diminishing mens issues because the…
/r/MensRights12/03/22 05:30 AM
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No, I think it's still pretty bad. That doesn't mean others don't disagree. Some women enjoy the attention just as some men do.
/r/MensRights05/03/22 11:29 PM
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It's not wrong, but by doing so your screwing yourself over on something I assume you wanted to do.. You don't have to give up over it. Learn to communicate in advance, so if their entitled ass has a problem you can avoid it.
/r/MensRights24/02/22 06:52 AM
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No. I was my exes first and my current bf doesn't even remember his number. It hasn't made any difference in any relationship I've been in.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 06:48 AM
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I had just turned 21 so I went bar hopping 4 days out of the week and was drinking and driving a lot in my grandpa's vehicle. Those were the very obvious red flags. I'm not gonna get into the more personal stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 07:20 PM
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Ask any woman with a social life.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 07:16 PM
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Depending on his demeanor, I kind of respect that. He wanted sex, he went and paid for sex I'm assuming. Instead of complaining about how he can't get laid, or leading people on with the promise of a relationship just to get sex, or even being in a friends with benefits situation that usually doesn't end well. Also hopefully because he has paid for sex work he has some respect for sex workers and isn't a judgemental pos.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:51 AM
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I know I do. I may be seen as conventionally attractive to most but the men who actually show interest are usually not the kind of men I want to be associated with. Purely because I am a giant walking red flag (I'm not proud of this and have been working on it for awhile now) and men that find me attractive and try to pursue me are actively ignoring the fact I am a giant red flag. There's one man I talked to for awhile, after so long he finally called me out for all my toxic and dangerous behavi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 04:20 AM
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Sadly because women are so used to men doing this regularly they believe there's no way a man couldn't like it. Which is mind blowing seeing as though you'd think women would have more sympathy being able to relate.
/r/MensRights23/02/22 03:36 AM
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1)Do you believe that men on this subreddit are on to something and that men do in fact have it harder in life? I do believe men on this subreddit are on to something, I also believe the way the go about it is what makes people not believe them. I don't believe generally speaking men have it harder in life. 2)Do you believe that if you were born male you would be less happy and more likely to be lonely? I don't believe I'd be less happy, in fact I believe being born a male would have saved me fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 03:16 AM
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women are usually the primary caretakers of children so of course they would get custody There's some truth to that. But just because someone is the primary caretaker, does not make them a good one. Imagine a junky living off government assistance is the primary caretaker of her child while the father, works full time and over time, and his extra money goes to child support, and dude barely has a social life because he can't afford one, nor can he afford to take her to court just to lose because…
/r/MensRights22/02/22 05:17 AM
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For starters, most porn is very unrealistic. Fake boobs, shaved asshole, a girl who can ride a dick longer than 5 minutes. Not only is it setting an unrealistic standard for women but because of this unrealistic standard and the pressure put on women to be pretty or hot or whatever makes women insecure, like they're in competition with other women. Sometimes people are taken for granted, unappreciated, unnoticed and just slept on, so when we see you put effort into getting off to some random unr…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/22 05:23 AM
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Lbs you had no good intentions trying to join this sub.
/r/AntiFeminists15/02/22 06:56 PM
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No matter the reasoning behind either, it's still bigoted.
/r/MensRights15/02/22 01:33 AM
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It's not about who has more fantasies or whether or not women do too, that's obvious women do too if not more. It's the fact men typically have a more unrealistic fantasy of how a woman would act in certain scenarios, their are actually a lot of discussions about how far off men view women and how they think they would act, which is usually in favor of how they want them to act instead of how the characters would actually act. If you take the characters in euphoria, look at their background and …
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 06:15 PM
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40 years ago people chain smoked and thought nothing of it, people were openly racist and homophobic, more people beat their children and called it discipline, drinking and driving was normalized, hardly anyone ever wore seatbelts. Women were more likely to keep quiet about abuse, or the abuse was so normalized they never thought anything of it. Like you said women were less likely to pursue they're choice in career giving up what they want to do to do what they felt was obligated of them. What …
/r/MensRights05/02/22 06:04 PM
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It was actually talked about a lot recently, how the girl who plays cassie was scripted a lot more nude scenes and actually spoke up about how most of them were completely unnecessary. How she doesn't feel like her character would fit the script they wrote so they took out about half of the nudity. It's just the fact that men like to over sexualize things so dramatically. Obviously the show already sexualizes the shit out of teenage girls, it's the fact that most of the nude scenes were very unn…
/r/AntiFeminists05/02/22 12:18 AM
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No, women are bitter because they get talked down too among other things like you just did to me, for no reason. You disagree but instead of explaining or trying to conversate you act like an asshole, assuming all men do "the dirty work", my last job I was the only woman in an entire building full of men doing a "mens job" better than most too. I've worked my fucking ass off so take your assumptions somewhere where someone gives a shit to hear them.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 08:14 PM
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How presumptuous of you. I'm not talking about talking about being ignored while talking about sexism, I'm talking about every day conversation. At work, when I go out with friends. Anytime, it's hard to avoid.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 08:05 PM
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Do you know what it's like to be interupted everyday? Do you know what it's like to be knowledgable on things and when you speak facts no believes you or has to double check, because you're just not trustworthy enough specifically because your a woman? Do you know what it's like to speak to men and be completely ignored? Because they are every day occurrences that sadly can't just be avoided because it's usually unconscious bias that people don't even realize they're doing it. It builds up over …
/r/MensRights04/02/22 07:17 PM
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Sadly it's not always just about institutionalized discrimination, that just seems to be what people care about most. As a woman, I've been disregarded, taken advantage of, and just not been taken seriously because of sexism. But because that's more of a social issue than anything else, no one cares. People are right when they say by law most women have it better or are already equal, but that doesn't mean that a lot of men still treat women poorly for being a woman. I see a lot of unconscious b…
/r/MensRights04/02/22 06:30 PM
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I have a lot of hate for people who actively claim to want equality when really they just want to demonize a whole gender, tarnishing any kind of progress we've made over the last 100 years. It's just so confusing, understanding why people think the way they do and finding it completely valid bit still knowing it's toxic and helps no one. It's a confusing love hate relationship.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 05:42 PM
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Now a days I don't really consider anybody's negative behaviour to be natural. I like to hold people accountable for their negative behaviour, whether it be your upbringing or your environment that taught you to behave negatively that is completely valid but how people choose to ignorantly ignore their poor behaviour and use that as an excuse I believe can be very sexist. We can talk about how women have been dependent on men for so long, and you can talk about the oppression and many years of t…
/r/MensRights04/02/22 05:33 PM
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Well when people hate on an entire gender and then claim "feminism is bullshit" or "men aren't oppressed, all men are predators" it is actually about hate. You let certain experiences make you a bigot and then justify it by saying " all men/women" when at that point statistics don't matter, it's still irrational and sexist.
/r/MensRights04/02/22 03:40 PM
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I don't need to trade places, I'm still a feminist, I just refuse to participate in bullshit 3rd wave feminism. My feminism isn't about hating anyone but loving yourself enough to find common ground and discuss inequality for women and men. I'd also like to add most "feminazis" are only so miserable because they had opened their eyes to everyday sexism and unconscious bias and instead of overcoming let it make them bitter, hateful and spiteful, and at that point I wouldn't really consider them a…
/r/MensRights04/02/22 03:36 PM
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Well if everyone thought like you that would be the end of the human existence...
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 12:56 AM
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I don't think feminism started anything. If you wanna speak like that couldn't we easily enough just blame men for not having taken women seriously a hundred years ago? I mean men back then treated women like slaves . So if ya wanna go there can't we thank men back then for treating women unequally?
/r/MensRights03/02/22 12:51 AM
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Doesn't that make you no better than the bigoted women who hate men for just existing? And if you believe women are better off without you around, is that an admittance to being exactly what women claim most men are?
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 12:42 AM
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If you truly believe living the life of a bigot and avoiding a group of people your entire life is easier and what's best for you, then good for you for doing it but personally if I had to avoid a whole group of people my entire life that would cause me so much unnecessary trouble and stress, I personally don't want to take the time to distance myself from a whole gender. Sounds exhausting, but it might not be to you.
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 12:27 AM
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I thought that was a fair question, why delete it? Personally if I can help someone I will because I don't want something to happen that would make me feel bad and and be on my conscience. I want to do the right thing because whether or not someone deserves help, it still feels good to help people. It makes you mature. If you don't want too, and you want to actively act like asshole, own up to it, that's your perogative, and it really is your choice. Just don't make excuses for it and own up to …
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 12:21 AM
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See that's not an opinion. That is quite literally the definition of bigoted and if you wanna own up to that atleast you can because most bigots won't admit it. I used to be too and I didn't want to admit it, now I'm actively trying not to be.
/r/AntiFeminists03/02/22 12:07 AM
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See and that's biased and bigoted. I used to think like that about men, but realized I can't without being an irrational bigot.
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 11:54 PM
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Just because I personally can't go through some of the struggles men face don't mean that I'm not actively trying to understand. No, the struggles we all face are not the same and are hardly comparable, but it's the fact that we both face inequality because of gender that we should be able to come together and sympathize with one another, that's the only way anything will ever be solved. Stop trying to make me out as a villain when all I want to do is understand and help. I'm not invalidating th…
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 11:20 PM
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Well of course not, it takes years of therapy to get over years of built up depression and trauma. We were not talking about specific circumstances because if you want to do that I can also point out women in particular circumstances that don't have the means to help themselves either, it's all just circumstantial. I do believe men have less resources depending on circumstance, but on the basis we were discussing and the overall topic of this post is having someone to lean on, my advice would be…
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 10:23 PM
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I do, hence why I have no friends, I'm a women with maybe 1 or 2 girl friends that I barely talk too, because I've cut off so many people because I refuse to enable them and don't have the patience to deal with people who constantly make bad decisions and refuse to try to better themselves. Not being able to afford it is not a mens issue. That's a mental health issue, and a poverty issue. I've worried about that myself for a long time, and once I was able to afford it, I put that money into my l…
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 09:12 PM
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And that's a man thing? I have gone through so many friends in the last 2 years because I've done the same, as a woman. I've stopped trying to have a relationship with family members and cut off so many "friends" because they expected me to be their therapist without ever acknowledging the fact that I'm also in a bad place and never so much ask "how are you doing". I know mens feeling have been downplayed for a long time, but instead of bitching about no one being there for you, take responsibil…
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 08:09 PM
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I don't understand why this is on a anti-feminist sub. This has nothing to do with feminists and all to do with the stereotypical "traditional" way of thinking, that a lot of men and women perpetuate. Not just feminists or women. I also wouldn't say people bend over backwards for women, the people in my past have never taken me seriously, also deemed me as hormonal or too emotional, or just over dramatic. That's why I surrounded myself with people who actually care about me, hence why I have ver…
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 07:36 PM
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If they actually loved and cared for you, this wouldn't be the case. Most people are just scared the truth will come out that the people in their life don't actually care for them the way they want so they keep quiet and allow shitty people into their lives.
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 07:23 PM
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That's because men have been conditioned to "act like a man" and never share there feelings. It's hard to be there for someone who refuses to acknowledge they're not in a good place. I'm aware a lot of men get hate on for showing emotions, but that's why you confide in people you love and trust and if they still don't take you seriously, they shouldn't be in your life. Surround yourself with the kind of people you want to be around aka people who care about you and take you seriously.
/r/AntiFeminists02/02/22 07:22 PM
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Poor hygiene for me. That's pretty much it. But I also find someone so much more attractive when I like their personality. Knowledge is super sexy to me. Most women though are shallow and have "preferences" and seem to think that's okay. If you're not a 6'2 man with thick beautiful hair, beautiful complexion, kind eyes and toned muscles or a "dad bod" you're pretty much sol and should probably lower your standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/22 03:52 AM
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It's not about rewards or punishment. Most women fear men will take off if they "put out" on the first date. I mean would you still have considered her as "girlfriend material" if she had? If she hadn't thought you were a good enough guy, she would use you for sex because I'm assuming she found you attractive, and at that point would only want to have sex with you, because women have needs too and just like men, get the urge to screw.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/22 07:19 AM
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I mean it's not necessarily gender specific, it's just more common for women to be upset with misogyny.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 12:52 AM
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So because mens rights are always actively women-hating does that mean we should dimish the true purpose behind fighting for mens rights? I don't define feminism by the words of a few, or groups of people who are obviously bigoted, or obviously biased because logically anyone biased can't have a logical stand point of things, like feminism. If someone has a skewed vision of feminism and is very clearly biased against men, then how can you believe their intentions are purely for equality? For exa…
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 11:58 PM
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No, it definetly is. But if you claim to be a feminist and then all your actions aren't perpetuating equality are you actually a feminist?
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 11:44 PM
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One is blue and one is green. Quite literally the difference lmao
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 11:41 PM
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Because being a man doesn't mean you're automatically higher status than a woman. Exactly so why are women still treated like men are? Feminism isn't advancing womens rights above mens I didn't say that. No, you didn't but it almost seems you implied that feminism is advocating for more rights then what men recieve, which just isn't true, because feminism is literally just wanting equality. Women wanting to be put on a pedestal and treated better than men, then claiming to be feminist is a giant…
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 11:38 PM
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Unless their actions are inherently anti-feminist, if I painted myself blue, and told everyone I was green would that make me green? No, I'd still be blue. Same concept.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 11:27 PM
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What grounds do you have to disagree with that though? I mean from personal expirience I'd have to agree, men have a higher societal standing than woman, and ofc my own personal expirience isn't enough but the fact that so many other woman can resonate and feel so passionately that it's true, why do you feel the need to invalidate and question it? Feminism isn't advancing womens rights above mens, it's by definition supposed to be equal. Men and women are very unequal in many different ways. Men…
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 11:21 PM
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Harassing victims of misogyny, questioning whether their in the right or wrong when they're very obviously treated poorly, questioning what they had done to deserve it or questioning whether or not they're lying is just uncalled for especially when people in that sub came their specifically for a safe place to vent about how their treated poorly to other women who can relate, not so that they can be questioned by people looking to make them feel worse about an already shitty situation.
/r/MensRights15/01/22 11:06 PM
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Using religion isn't gonna prove any point to me, I honestly can't take anybody seriously when they pick and choose what they wanna follow and believe in, religion in itself is hard to take seriously. Rapists that are men like to blame it on their testosterone and their instincts, does that make all men rapists?
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 10:52 PM
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I mean it kinda does lol otherwise you could say that about literally anything and everything that doesn't fit your narrative.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 10:45 PM
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How so? Feminism has an actual definition and when you claim to be a feminist while putting down men that either means you want to be treated like shit(how you treat men) or you're not actually a feminist.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 10:37 PM
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Actually in most cases women refuse to explain the obvious. Especially to someone who refuses to understand or learn anything that doesn't fit their narrative. You can tell a flat earther, the world is round. You can show them proof, you can argue physics, you could make any logical arguement you want but since it doesn't fit their narrative they will never care to understand. They probably thought their efforts would have been wasted on you, I'm assuming because of what you wanted an explanatio…
/r/MensRights15/01/22 10:28 PM
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No true scotsman, is that all you have to say.. really... I'm fairly certain that doesn't apply to something that has an actual definition like feminism.
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 10:23 PM
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People on this sub don't seem to realize women that are so called man-hating who claim to be feminists are clearly not actually feminists because feminism is wanting equality and when you treat men like they're lesser you're no longer advocating for equality. There are plenty of man hating women in this world just like there are plenty of women hating men in this sub, just because they claim to be something, actions speak louder than words. It's just easier for men to blame these women for why t…
/r/AntiFeminists15/01/22 09:41 PM
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So because one stink wouldn't date a single mom, means that mothers value is decreased? Our value is determined by the people who wanna be with us/sleep with us instead of our actual substance, that's cool.
/r/AntiFeminists09/01/22 04:20 PM
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Shit like this makes me so sad, so many men perpetuating this misogynistic behaviour, it's just shocking that men can think things like this are true and then somehow say women are treated better than men. Are men treated like a pile of sperm, is their worth valued by their sperm and ability to cum? Womens value declines with how many children shes had, how does that make any kind of sense at all?
/r/AntiFeminists09/01/22 04:22 AM
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That got off on tangent and honestly was kind of hard to follow, can you provide a paraphrasing of what you just said and possibly point out the point in all of it because as it was easy enough to understand I don't get the relevance.
/r/MensRights07/01/22 04:01 AM
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It's not a hate movement. You should check out intersectional feminism, which is more about love for eachother than hate for men. It's not my fault you put all your focus on to hating 3rd wave feminism which isn't even real feminism. Maybe you should focus less on fake feminism and maybe you wouldn't be so angry lol
/r/MensRights06/01/22 07:05 PM
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The hate is deserved bit man hating feminists are wrong. The hypocrisy.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 06:16 PM
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No, that's just common knowledge, like "don't judge a book by it's cover", assumptions make you look like an ass. I don't take dating advice from anyone because people are stupid and most lack common sense. Also why would anyone want to date a man with options lmao and what relevancy do options have in a relationship anyway?
/r/MensRights06/01/22 05:13 AM
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I've never been turned down so I don't know where you get this shit lmao but guess what, it's possible for people to care about things that don't affect them. Can we just call preferences what they actually are, shallow standards.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 01:47 AM
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Lmao when did I say people owe me sex. What a joke, I say some real shit and that's all you get out of it. Almost like ya'll really be putting to much importance into sex.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 01:42 AM
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I see where your priorities are and boy do I feel sorry for you. Not everything needs to be transactional, have you ever even experienced love?
/r/MensRights06/01/22 01:13 AM
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The sad thing is, I've moved away from this enviroment which was filled with the type of people to judge me for these things. I'm so introverted I've been told it's a problem. I don't purposefully focus on people who cause me stress, it's just how common it is, which is apparently more common than you realize. Somehow I still manage to find mass amounts of people who believe these things and consider normal and okay.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 01:10 AM
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Like I said I urge you to check out intersectional feminism. It's more based on love for eachother than the hatred of men. It really isn't an anti men movement. 3rd wave feminism is, but that isn't even real feminism as feminism is wanting equality instead of like I said entitlement and wanted to be put on a pedestal or like you put it, wanting dominance. I don't want to perpetuate the idea that all men are guilty but I will say unconscious bias is a very real thing, even the most respectful men…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 01:06 AM
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Not that this is any kind of a justification but a lot of women who disregard mens issues has had problems with men disregarding their own problems they've had with inequality. Instead of coming together to work through those things together they get bitter, toxic and insensitive. I wouldn't say that their isnt still a fight for equality for women. The problem with 3rd wave feminism is that, entitled bitter women, instead of focusing on the real inequality, put themselves on a pedestal and think…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:52 AM
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Worry about what? I have everything I could ever want and need. Why you think I criticize so hard, cause I got my shit figured out lmao
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:27 AM
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I worry about preferences in general, not just mens. People use personal preferences to justify being shallow. You wanna claim that energy, go for it.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:20 AM
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how many men you bang is under your control I lost my virginity to my rapist at 14. I get judged when people ask when I lost my virginity because of social construct people just assume I was a young hoe. I've been raped by 2 people. 2 people apart of my body count that I can't control. Some guys want their women to be a virgin, be pure, because of something I couldn't control, I wouldn't even be considered.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:18 AM
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But when you are in the dating game, getting hurt is a given. If you don't want to get hurt, don't waste your time dating. It is still a good strategy. Just because when you get older your patience to find the right person the right way starts to slowly run out doesn't mean that it isn't still the right way. When you get older I understand you don't want to have to get to know someone for months or years just to waste time or get your heart broke, but that's literally just how things work. If yo…
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:12 AM
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The only type that I have is that they're not a judgemental asshole, beyond that I really have no type. My ex is a tall, skinny black man with face tattoos and piercings. My current boyfriend is a short, bigger man who happens to be ginger and would never identify as alt, like my ex. 2 completely different people. I like people for who they are, not what they look like.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:06 AM
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You can find comparisons that doesn't mean a relationship equates a job. Those things are just a given for relationships, and jobs. Those are also things you can't find out from analyzing someones past unless you want to analyze both sides and get a professional opinion as to why everything happened the way it did. Otherwise it's basically just assumptions.
/r/MensRights06/01/22 12:02 AM
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I never said they're "unworthy of love" I said when people turn down others for petty reasons, you're basically telling them they're unworthy of your love because you value their whatever more than the actual substance of their being. A fair exchange? the fact she would be giving him the rest of her life as well isn't fair exchange enough? I've never denied someone a chance because they make less than me or because they're shorter than me. That's fucked up and no way justifies anything.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:59 PM
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They're just not what you would allow for yourself. I don't understand how people don't realize how insulting that is.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:54 PM
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Well that's just common decency though to not be an asshole. If you had met someone you really clicked with and then they gained weight would you leave them because of that? Because that is exactly what I'm talking about ts is shallow. Also not my business but people really don't realize they're fucking themselves out of what could possibly be a real beautiful relationship because of shallow preferences. Like people with incredibly high standards crying that no one who fits their incredibly high…
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:53 PM
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A relationship is not a job though, and I refuse to equate a relationship to a job. How do you judge someone by past relationships? Of course there are circumstances like abuse that could play a part but if they weren't in long term relationships before couldn't you just assume it's because they know what they want and they won't settle for less? Or because they just didn't work because it wasn't meant to be, instead of assuming the worst. Why can't you hold responsibility for finding out who so…
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:45 PM
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No, that's definetly racist. What good reason does anybody have for denying someone because of the color of their skin. That's quite literally racist. I do distant myself from people like that because it's very common and inevitable but it doesn't make it any less shitty. To use your own example, I get some people might say they're simply just not attracted to black people but is that not just unconscious bias passed down? Another example is women who say they need a man that's atleast 6ft tall,…
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:39 PM
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We call those women "pick mes" for a reason. Yet I've actually been judged more by men. Other women love gossiping about sexual past. Men cringe at the thought and make it a problem.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:26 PM
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It's honestly kind of sad that women need to make a man work for it, because usually the reason behind it is that once you give a man some good they'll leave. They'll look down at you for something they did and participated in. "I didn't make a man work for it because I just wanted sex and that's it. I made you work for it because I actually like you and don't want you to just up and leave after having sex with me."
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:22 PM
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Oh, so basically it's all about everyone's elses opinion? Can't think for yourself because you're too worried about what everyone else will say/think. That is one depressing way to live. Just because someone "coughed up the puss easily" for someone doesn't mean they opened up their mind or their heart to that person. Do you really put more importance into someones meat suit and what they've done with it rather than the actual substance of someones being?
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:17 PM
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So why are you putting so much importance into sex and past sex life? You know when you get old and your dick don't work and you can't find the energy to have sex anymore none of that will matter. Wouldn't you rather find more meaning in how you click together?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:14 PM
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Not at all. I've just been judged for things out of my control because of the stigma behind it, because of social construct.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:13 PM
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Trust me I am. Hence the chronic depression lol
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:11 PM
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But that's not okay. I get people having preferences but that doesn't make they're preferences any less shallow and kind of horrible. I don't condone women demanding all that like I don't condone men wanting a more "pure" woman. Putting so much importance into things like that really just shows where your priorities are at.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 11:07 PM
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If you put so much importance on "purity" you're not the kind, caring person you claim to be. As "purity" is a social construct made to demean women. You seem to be treating relationships as a transaction rather than an actual relationship. There's nothing wrong with wanting someone who can match your intelligence and motivation along with goals and morals but there is a line where you're wants become shallow and demanding. If you have high standards, who are you to be mad that no one wants/care…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/22 11:05 PM
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It's the fact that it's almost shallow to put so much emphasis on how many people a person has slept with especially if you were considering them as a partner, you really liked them and then find out their body count and decide they're not the one. It's also quite the double standard since usually it's not nearly as important how many people men have slept with but then women aren't considered worthy of love because of it. You say it's a personal preference but what I see is, telling people they…
/r/MensRights05/01/22 10:55 PM
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I don't see the hypocrisy here? Did she ask you about your sexual past in order to judge you and tell you how unimpressive it is just to get mad at you for telling her you wouldn't be impressed? Because that would be hypocritical
/r/MensRights05/01/22 09:42 PM
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Definetly slut shaming. As frustrating as it is, I don't get why women get so upset over it. Just shows you whose worth your time and whose not. Any decent person won't care about your past as long as it isn't dragged in to the present.
/r/MensRights05/01/22 09:41 PM
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The fact that you find any of this is an actual priviledge, you are insane. Women were not trusted to take care of themselves because they've been treated as less then and basically equated to a child is somehow a privilege? So do you think slaves who never had to pay for food or housing, do you think they were priviledged too?
/r/MensRights03/01/22 12:08 AM
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I believe feminism is exactly what it is defined in the dictionary to be, not what you've interpreted it to be over many years and waves of feminism. I won't define feminism by what is clearly not feminism. The double standard here is amazing. If I were to keep the same logic you apply then I wouldn't advocate for mens rights specifically because I've been treated like crap by men my whole life, because a lot of men who actively advocate for mens rights openly perpetuate misogyny. When I join me…
/r/MensRights02/01/22 11:38 PM
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I also said vice versa though.. Also if you have a hate for feminism than you might as well have a hate for women. I hate how men are so quick to hate feminism because a few horrible people claim to be feminists. And then talk about how all women treat men like they're all awful because of the actions of a few.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 11:10 PM
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Yeah Billie has definetly been going down the wrong path lately. I think her fame has been getting to her head. Looking at all the awful things she's been saying/doing recently I can see how that would make you bias to this one thing. If I had remembered before commenting some of the shitty things she's been saying I probably would have had the same thoughts as you, but when I saw this, my first thought was when you give someone something they're not used to, they're not gonna know what to do wi…
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/22 11:06 PM
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Of course, but that is a double standard. When talking about how toxic masculinity has effects on how men are unfairly treated, that is an analysis on mens rights. Just like men feel entitled to critique feminism, why can't women critique meninists?
/r/MensRights02/01/22 10:55 PM
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Obviously, I was more wondering what relevance that had to my comment.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 10:50 PM
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I do see what you mean. People who want to take the word ugly and adhere it to people who don't fit the societal norms is horribly judgemental and wrong. The way she worded it was horrible. As I see it, is the way I worded it. If you give someone whose not used to good attention and gain a lot of it at once, they aren't gonna know how to act, now mix that with an abundance of confidence and testosterone... Not to say if the roles were reversed an equivalent wouldn't happen, but usually the equiv…
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/22 10:48 PM
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Wait... relevance?
/r/MensRights02/01/22 09:58 PM
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If you want to take it literally and assume what she means, then I can too. And what I got from it is, a lot of men don't know how to humble themselves when getting attention they've never recieved before. To me beauty is in the eyes of the beholder so who is anyone to classify a whole group of people as ugly? Which also makes me question why you're okay with classifying a whole group of people as ugly. You can accuse her of being judgemental, you can even bash her for the way she worded it, but…
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/22 09:55 PM
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I don't think she categorized all men as anything. She said give an ugly guy a chance. Unless you are categorizing all men as ugly, it's a hard sell to say she categorized all men. Especially when beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. Why don't you bash her for being judgemental instead of taking it so literally, when she didn't even say all men, or even just men.
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/22 09:48 PM
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I mean is she wrong though? I had an ex who really struggled with his self esteem so of course as his girl friend I hyped him up constantly, helped him build confidence, so much so that he cheated on me, a lot, basically with any girl who came onto him. Back when he didn't have confidence he didn't think he deserved these women but after I hyped him up constantly it was okay for him to cheat and manipulate these women to get in their pants. I'm not gonna say All Men because that's not true but i…
/r/AntiFeminists02/01/22 09:11 PM
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Women hate pick mes because generally speaking they put down other women to gain the attention and approval of men. Enforcing the idea that you have to act a certain way to gain attention from a man.
/r/MensRights02/01/22 09:03 PM
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Have you noticed a lot of men on these mens rights pages don't actively speak on mens rights but throw out a lot of hate for feminists instead. Every and any time I've visited mens rights pages I see loads of misogyny. That's undeniable. Just like if you were to go to feminists pages you'll see loads of hate for men. That's why as a feminist and an advocate for mens rights, I specifically look for intersectional feminism pages. To the part about blaming it on toxic masculinity, that's not necess…
/r/MensRights02/01/22 09:00 PM
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I don't know why women consider this to make you a pick me. When I say anything to men about mens rights or try to actively participate in anything to do with mens rights, men constantly bash me and tell me I'm wrong when all I'm doing is agreeing with them. Supporting mens rights doesn't make men want to pick you because a lot of them just like a lot of fake feminists will hate you no matter what. Now if you're actively putting down feminism to talk about mens rights, well that may be the reaso…
/r/MensRights02/01/22 08:52 PM
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So privileged that we were equated to children? So privileged we didn't have basic rights like being able to vote, or work, or open a bank account, so privileged that our husbands were legally allowed to rape us, so priviledged that men literally thought women didn't orgasm, and that when women started showing signs of mental illness from being treated like shit and literally going insane from being stir crazy, they assumed it was hysteria and put them in mental hospitals. I never once said men …
/r/MensRights02/01/22 08:41 PM
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When speaking of the past it's easy to infantilize them. Women were treated like children but expected to do so much more. I mean remember when people believed women and children go first? That's because women were compared to children. Obviously everyone is capable of being sexist and passing down their own sexist ideals but fact of the matter is women never even had the chance to take away mens basic human rights where as women were assumed to not have any to begin with.
/r/MensRights29/12/21 01:05 AM
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It's deeper than just saying people have free will and can do whatever they want. Sadly if that was true, women wouldn't have been jailed/killed for "acting out". Men wouldn't feel the need to perpetuate toxic gender stereotypes because of social construct if they thought they didn't have too.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 11:39 PM
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So why did women have to fight so hard for basic human rights? Why are men fighting the stigma that they can't express themselves, they have free will right? Shouldn't they just do it and not worry about social construct or the backlash they recieve?
/r/MensRights28/12/21 11:35 PM
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I wouldn't say that. You can't treat a whole group of people unfairly forever. Intelligence evolves. Even though it doesn't feel like it.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 11:29 PM
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That's why it's so amazing my dude. Small groups of women decided they didnt deserve to be raped, beaten, cheated on and used as a live in maid/babysitter. That they atleast deserve an education or the freedom to decide who they marry.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 11:17 PM
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The phrase kill all men should be a hate crime tf, but I sure as fuck don't see how that should at all be compared to rape all women. Neither is worse honestly and neither needs to be worse, those are both horrible statements. Apparently you do need to spell it out, because I have no idea what you could be referring too. I would also like for you to point out old laws from back in the days when women weren't allowed to have bank accounts, that negatively affect a man, I mean shit you could legal…
/r/MensRights28/12/21 11:14 PM
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How so?
/r/MensRights28/12/21 10:57 PM
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Where did you get that from what I said? I never once said anyone deserves bad treatment, only that men are usually completely oblivious to history because they've never had uncontrollable things from the past hold them back as a whole so they don't fully understand how their treatment of women personally offends us as a whole because of the degradation and oppression we've experienced for decades specifically from men.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 10:55 PM
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So this is fucked up, but I just wanted to take the time to say Dr. Phil is a hack and i'm pretty sure he's not even a real doctor. He constantly victim blames no matter who you are, that's like his thing. He puts the narrative out there that he's only trying to help then victim blames the shit out of you to manipulate you into basically thanking him and admitting he's right when he usually never is.
/r/AntiFeminists28/12/21 10:50 PM
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It's kind of like racism in a way. If you call a black person the N word its gonna be way more offensive than a white person being called a cracker or something because of history. For example if a man were to call a woman, woman, in a degrading manner itd be a lot more offensive than a woman calling a guy, man. Not to say this is always the case, but it's still relevant.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 10:43 PM
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In a time where women couldn't even show their ankles, or when women weren't allowed to vote or in a time where it wasn't normal for women to get an education or open a bank account, basically becoming live in slaves to their husbands and never given the means to know better, they were only enforcing the ideals perpetuated back when men were quite literally in charge of everything.
/r/MensRights28/12/21 10:30 PM
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Not that she shouldn't be held accountable but usually women who think like this were trained to think like this because they're father or some other male influence in their life gave them a skewed idea of how a man should act. I'm tired of people blaming women, blame your male ancestors because they're the ones who fucked you.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 10:02 PM
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If they don't understand this then simply enough they are not feminist. Real feminists want equality and equality comes with treating rape victims the same no matter what gender. So don't let them fool you or let them claim to be a feminist because there is nothing feminist about believing women are the only people who can be raped, or that it only matters when a woman is raped. Whoever you're talking about is not a feminist but instead just plain ignorant.
/r/MensRights27/12/21 03:33 AM
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It won't, because sadly it does next to nothing about misogyny as well. At this point it's 50/50 to me. Unlike a lot of other subs I see you guys actually talk about mens rights instead of constantly bitching about women, which I love but on the other hand their are quite a few people who claim to follow certain subs in order to degrade and invalidate women in return creating the man hating narrative they claim to hate so much.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 04:15 AM
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Attacking this sub by asking how they let people get away with harassing rape victims? Cause apparently this sub is known for that. I think that's a pretty fair question.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 04:11 AM
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Because I won't kiss all of your asses and agree with everything you say for approval? Okay, and it clearly wasn't a lie when people admit to harassing women on said sub.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 04:04 AM
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I, for one didn't make the accusation, I just voiced it on this sub, because I was curious as to if the people of this sub think that's acceptable, which most of the people who commented on my post had no problem with it and instead of trying to prove me wrong attack me, which pretty much proves the whole point.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 04:00 AM
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Or it's like I call out women for acting horrible sexist then claiming its feminism .
/r/MensRights24/12/21 03:57 AM
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I DON'T KNOW HOW LMAO, I can't post screenshots as a reply to your comment, so teach me or look it up for yourself because I don't care to prove you wrong that badly lmao
/r/MensRights24/12/21 03:52 AM
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Wow, ignorance is bliss isn't it? I didn't come here to harrass, in fact I followed this sub specifically because I care about mens rights but apparently I can't find a sub that advocates for mens rights without men hating me for advocating for mens rights. The whole reason I'm a feminist too, because I fight with men for men and yet I'm still hated by men for it.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 03:49 AM
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Bruh look at the comments on this post and tell me you don't see the guy who said women call harrassment, harrassment .
/r/MensRights24/12/21 03:47 AM
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Assumptions get you no where. Seeing as though I can personally relate, I would/will fight for any SA victim. Male or female. I don't understand how you really think I hate male victims.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 03:33 AM
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I honestly don't know how. I'm not very good at working with this app. This post isn't that popular, find it for yourself.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 03:32 AM
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Uhm ??? Relevancy? can you make that make sense?
/r/MensRights24/12/21 03:27 AM
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So you know the definition of feminism and refuse to use it. That seems logical. People who actively participate in misandry are NOT FEMINISTS, quit allowing them to ruin feminism and the very real struggles women face every day. If men were capable of doing that then women wouldn't be so ignorant and brainwashed into believing all men are misogynistic pieces of shit.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 03:21 AM
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There is a comment on this post saying if you tell a women you don't believe she was raped because there was no proof, they call it harrassment, which it is. Which leads me to believe it has happened.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 03:15 AM
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You don't take a womens word for anything so how do you expect me to do that?
/r/MensRights24/12/21 03:07 AM
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Their beliefs come from pure ignorance, no amount of educating will change these womens minds. They're completely biased based on mostly personal experience, which is depressing and fucked up.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 02:49 AM
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I mean I can't believe people actually believe that because that is actually really stupid. Now a days it's a very equal problem. Some women still truly believe that though because of history and honestly understanding history, can you blame women for believing it?
/r/MensRights24/12/21 02:43 AM
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If you can't realize that if you're a woman and you're not a feminist you're basically perpetuating your own oppression. It's a choice and a lifestyle. Neither is deserving of unfair stereotyping.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 02:19 AM
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I don't see the relevance. Their both blanket statements based on personal bias.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 02:09 AM
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Only because saying that, and actually believing that gives them that power. I refuse to believe that, because I want to be taken seriously when I talk about both mens and womens rights.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:38 AM
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No, please explain the difference. They're are both biased blanket statements that help no one.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:37 AM
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I mean I get that, and I think it's wrong. But I also get that a lot of men come to feminist pages in order to basically diminish the whole point of the sub, like their issues are somehow more important when in reality they are all important. Like when speaking on womens struggles and someone chimes in to say men struggle with this too, like you're right that's true but that is also not the purpose of the sub, almost like their entitled to change the entire topic of discussion.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:35 AM
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Ah I see, blanket statements. So in other words you're opinion is biased and irrelevant.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:14 AM
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Well any feminist who equates mens rights with anything negative isn't a real feminist. Whether they claim to be or not is irrelevant.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:12 AM
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If women are looking to be friends with a man or anyone for that matter they're usually not looking to fuck someone out of their time and company. If a woman is trying to use a man and pretend to have any sort of relationship with them to recieve certain things in return is a completely different topic. We are talking about actual friendships here and what you're saying sounds like you don't think it's possible for men and women to be just purely platonic friends.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:10 AM
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That's exactly why men should be all lovey dovey though, to break that stigma. If every man can do this, women will be forced to realize it is a normal thing to do. But also people shouldn't base their mental health on what other people think about them. When it comes to mental health you shouldn't be worried about attracting people.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:07 AM
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I know what you're saying but there are a lot of subs who say they advocate for mens rights but instead of advocating for anything all they do is degrade and talk about women without actually discussing any mens issues basically completely invalidating the cause at hand. That's why I was disturbed when I heard people from this sub harrass rape victims because blanket statements like that could easily become what represents this group, and I've been searching for men and womens rights subs that d…
/r/MensRights24/12/21 01:05 AM
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How does any of this justify women abusing mens time and energy, this whole post is about how men won't be an emotional support for someone who won't have sex with them, and your basically perpetuating that.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:59 AM
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It's not a bad thing to confide in your spouse. It should be a standard honestly. The thing is, most should have an emotional support system, by that I mean more than one person, because circumstances could always change.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:58 AM
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All men are pathological liars. Do you not see how horribly biased and unfair blanket statements like that are?
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:54 AM
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Of course everyone is capable of forming emotional support groups, not everything needs to be taken so literally. What was meant was that it's not common for men to do so. I don't understand how you see a women advocating for mens rights, analyzing and sympathizing with men, something that doesn't actually happen very often and make something bad out of it.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:53 AM
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Well you don't see that because I am new to this sub, but I frequently do call out fake feminists for being misandrist and blaming it on feminism. Also isn't that the whole responsibility of mods, and how do you run a sub that advocates basically for morals and then allow people with hardly any morals to represent the sub. If the sub I got banned from is capable of doing so, I can only assume this one is equally as capable.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:44 AM
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I guess that's what happens when you assume the worst.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:41 AM
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Well one comment I got on this post openly admits to it. So there's one person.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:24 AM
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I honestly don't even know what you mean by medium post, these aren't my screenshots. Like I said I found these screenshots on facebook. I do know what amoral means, and that's why I tend not to surround myself with people who seem amoral. Thanks for wording my options, but I'm already aware of them, hence why I am still here. I'm not gonna do something I don't want to do for a sub that has a problem with a rape victim who openly advocates for mens rights.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:22 AM
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How do you believe this analysis is a justification for anything?
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:17 AM
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Yet, you all believe everything posted on this sub right? Like men can't make up stories to victimize themselves, just like the majority of people here will tell you women do all the time. I believe most women yes. Unless you've been personally victimized, emotionally and physically manipulated and abused, I don't expect you to understand. I believe false accusations happen all the time, but I also believe some people don't fully understand consent and do things they don't even realize causes tr…
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:17 AM
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Because I genuinely want to know how this sub can excuse the actions of people who can openly harrass rape victims, which is a very common problem men face, and then continue to act like they're advocating for men. When it really seems like this sub picks and chooses which mens problems are worth advocating for.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:11 AM
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How so? I'm still here aren't I? Was a simple question that turned into people saying it's not true when some comments openly admit to invalidating and harassing rape victims.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:09 AM
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Well it's an unwanted opinion used to invalidate victims. That is harrassment. When someone tells you something like that has happened to them and your first thought is to completely invalidate and gaslight them instead of ask questions or show sympathy, it's still quite a jump but it seems almost implied that you're always trying to defend rapists by invalidating their victims. People who defend rapists are more than likely the same people who see nothing wrong with rape and act on it themselve…
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:07 AM
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No retaliation, that post is what got me banned in the first place. I recieved a message saying they will lift the ban if I remove any affiliation with this sub. I don't think the mods would go out of there way to not allow rape victims comfort and a safe space with a made up reasoning behind it. Whether or not it's happened as many times as it was implied is beyond the point.
/r/MensRights24/12/21 12:02 AM
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Well to balance it out you can follow womens rights pages, that's what I do. I started with following feminist pages and felt the same way you do but different fears. Now I follow mens rights pages too so I don't become a brain washed man hater.
/r/MensRights23/12/21 09:03 PM
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Isn't that exactly what this sub does?
/r/AntiFeminists22/12/21 09:40 PM
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It sure can, usually from a religious stand point though. Even people who are not religious believe women should be more reserved, for quite literally no reason. The last 10 years the double standard has slowly been brought to light, yet there are still plenty of men who will look down on a women for "acting promiscous" while completely overlooking the fact the men they choose to associate with aren't any better or less promiscuous.
/r/AntiFeminists06/12/21 07:20 PM
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Just because this is about past trauma to you doesn't mean it is to me. I'm not trying to get over past trauma, I'm trying to cope with something that happens to me almost any day I go out in public. I'm glad you've been able to get over your past but that doesn't make you any less of a victim. You were a victim, that doesn't you have to constantly be talking about it or throwing your a pity party, you were a victim.
/r/AntiFeminists06/12/21 12:51 AM
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This is why no one takes mens issues seriously. Men like you tell others it's not okay to be a victim.
/r/AntiFeminists06/12/21 12:38 AM
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This sub reminds me that we need more feminists. Ya'll are quite literally the reason we exist.
/r/AntiFeminists06/12/21 12:33 AM
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I'm a victim? Oh no honey. I cut out misogynistic pigs from my life cause I was tired of them constantly dragging me down and in return making me feel horrible about myself. I'm not a victim until things like not being taken seriously or being looked over at work because I'm a girl happens, then yeah, I can say I'm a victim. Quit making victims feel bad for being a victim, there's nothing wrong with being able to admit you were a victim of something, unless you have a victim complex and are alwa…
/r/AntiFeminists06/12/21 12:31 AM
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That's because ignorance is bliss, there's a reason why you've never been better. If you can comment back without reading what your commenting on, well that's ignorance, enjoy your bliss.
/r/AntiFeminists06/12/21 12:17 AM
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Because misogyny is ingrained in everything we do. Microaggressions and unconscious bias is very real and everywhere and once you start to recognize it, you see it everywhere. Just as you can be held accountable for what you do you can also be held accountable for what you don't do. If someone were to make a very sexist and demeaning comment to me in front of my boyfriend, if he don't back me up, I'd hold him accountable for not helping/standing up for me. Same concept.
/r/AntiFeminists06/12/21 12:15 AM
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I never said there wasn't a reason. He clearly said he was tired of her "man hating memes" which in my eyes isn't a good enough reason to completely cut off a family member especially if you know they're not talking about you. Maybe the father had had enough of her bullshit, but then why did OP feel the need to step in and help her out? Just as your idea that maybe he had had enough of her shit is just as valid of an assumption as my assumption that the father just doesn't care enough to help hi…
/r/AntiFeminists06/12/21 12:08 AM
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That's because these women have been tainted by internalized misogyny that have been perpetuated to them there entire lives by men who justify toxic masculinity. Men do not have more to lose from a woman who sleeps around. However women lose respect for something men get high fives for, what exactly do men lose from women sleeping around? That is entitlement at its finest. Men thinking they're somehow negatively affected by what women decide to do with their bodies.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 11:47 PM
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Only because toxic masculinity and internalized misogyny are still so common. Without either of those mens issues would be taken more seriously. Whether they are talked about more doesn't mean women don't recieve backlash for openly talking about situations that have happened to them and they're feelings about it. Exhibit A-this post.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 11:19 PM
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Which brings me to my next question, why is this posted here, like the entire joke isn't about how ridiculous the video is.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 09:54 PM
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If a women is raised to cater to men regardless of who their future partner is they're more than likely to keep catering to men. It's called internalized misogyny and women believe even if they're with someone who doesn't believe in that stuff that that is just how it's meant to be. So by being taught misogyny is normal at a young age keeps women catering to men (in check) for nice guys who don't think like that. The post is clearly not blaming the nice guys, and it's not clumping all men togeth…
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 09:52 PM
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Love how anti feminists love to talk about how feminists take things to seriously and can't take a joke, but also can't recognize a joke when they see one.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 09:38 PM
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As long as you don't think that while taking accountability doesn't mean you still can't be a victim of misogyny. Unless a women believes in internalized misogyny it is never their fault when they're a victim of misogyny. Cutting her off basically perpetuates her entire "man hating mindset". Its ultimately a form of gas lighting by disregarding very real struggles women face against misogyny and saying they aren't allowed to feel any kind of way about it, is basically like telling men they don't…
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 09:19 PM
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Have you ever stopped to think that maybe your dad has more to play in this then you? If you support your sister and help her in many ways there's no way she could be referring to you. It sounds like you're taking it too personal. You're dad should of been the one to act like a father and help her out, instead you stepped up, something you probably shouldn't of had to do but out of the kindness of your heart you did. Do you think maybe she could be spiteful that her own father couldn't show her …
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 09:09 PM
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I want to know why you're complaining about a post on a very specific sub about women dating with a flair aimed at cultural misogyny which seems to be very fitting for the post, giving out poor advice that generally speaking hurts both men and women. You can't complain that generally speaking it goes both ways while actively perpetuating bad behaviour that you specifically said goes both ways but hurts both men and women. Its contradictory and at this point just seems very spiteful and hateful t…
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 08:57 PM
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That's not what they are doing at all. It certainly looks like this sub complains about very common womens issues that aren't talked about enough. Why is that a problem?
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 08:49 PM
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That's generally speaking. Women are more likely to bring up how boys need to learn consent because traditional gender roles perpetuate the idea that women owe men sex. That isn't something men are forced to deal with or even recognize but up until a while ago men could legally rape their wife without repercussions. Women are told from a young age that they need to "save their body for their husband" or "you need to keep him sexually satisfied so he doesn't cheat on you or leave". Basically sayi…
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 08:27 PM
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So instead of telling people to run, maybe bring attention to the fact men can't bring this up to their S/O because of toxic masculinity stereotypes without being looked down on. You're advice is to run instead of communicate like mature, grown adults. You wanna act salty saying tHiS HaPpEnS tO MeN tOo, then you give advice that basically perpetuates and contradicts what you just said. This specific issue can't be fixed by just running away, male or female.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 08:10 PM
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Erm, this is something that happens though. A lot of women can't tell their man they aren't getting them off anymore and they're too scared to say anything because of this mindset. Instead of trying things and working things out, guys wanna run because they think they're not worth it, with that mindset they ain't worth it themselves.
/r/AntiFeminists05/12/21 07:56 PM
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Sad that women like this put the blame on feminism. Feminism don't claim this and any real feminist would think this is disgusting whether or not its satire.
/r/AntiFeminists30/09/21 08:18 PM
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This post has nothing to do with paying anyone anything. It really sounds like you're just mad that some guys have to pay child support.
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/21 05:39 PM
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A friend of mine reported her rape. When she reported a bunch of other women came out with similar stories. Which I believe because that same guy has sexually harrassed me and my little sister. That girl, at 17 was getting death threats, took him to court. He got probation, violated probation many times and is still roaming around free. Not only did that guy rape a minor but he got away with it, even his friends who were in the same house, made a statement about it being true, he also texted her…
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/21 01:12 AM
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I wish my school was like this maybe my rapist would have understood that my no actually meant no and not well you just need to try harder. Maybe if my school was more focused on rape instead of coming up with different words for penis and vagina I wouldn't have been raped countless times.
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/21 12:44 AM
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What do you believe radical feminism is then? Because it's not that.
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/21 12:38 AM
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Uhm, that's not radical feminism. Feminism is wanting to be equal to men, not wanting to take over the world lol such a simple concept, I don't know why most men can't grasp that.
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/21 12:26 AM
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It doesn't matter if you're accused of anything, harrassment of women isn't taken seriously even with proof, so what makes you think you could be convicted of a crime that hasn't happened, without any bit of proof? Makes me wonder why you're so paranoid, are you doing questionable things to women that could be taken wrongly?
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/21 12:22 AM
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Invalidating womens fears, something that's ingrained into every womens mind from a very young age now a days has literally nothing to do with racism. Personal bias? I think so
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/21 12:19 AM
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When the bias comes out lol
/r/AntiFeminists05/09/21 12:17 AM
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The issue is a lot of men pretend like they'll be there and act like they want the child up until it's too late to abort it and then dip, basically leaving a women whose understanding was that her child would have 2 loving parents and 2 incomes to better provide for that baby to now only have 1 income and full responsibility. Where as the dad skips out on child support and considers himself a good dad for texting how is our child every few months.
/r/AntiFeminists02/09/21 06:20 PM
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What are all these options? As far as I'm concerned women are literally being locked up over having "all these choices".
/r/AntiFeminists02/09/21 06:13 PM
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6 feet under hopefully
/r/AntiFeminists31/08/21 01:00 AM
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I just want to point out that women are constantly competing with eachother. I remember being the ugly friend in middle school, and people making jokes about having an ugly best friend to make yourself look better, I wasn't getting asked out more.. besides if men weren't constantly trying to win people over they wouldn't have to feel so insecure about just being themselves. We call women like that a pick me bitch because there is no point in constantly trying to win the approval of a man or anyo…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/21 05:18 AM
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I think it's kind of like racism. Racism works both ways, but it's almost worse because of the oppression. Yes, men are oppressed by many things, but they've never had their humanly rights questioned specifically because their a man.
/r/AntiFeminists26/08/21 05:10 AM
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I wouldn't say the accountability of a child😂😂 that implies that children aren't held accountable or disciplined, and even though a good old fashioned ass whooping isn't much of a thing anymore, it's very common for people to hold their young children accountable in order to teach them what they did wrong. Also I'd like to add a lot of indoctrinated women feel entitled to those privileges because of old fashioned way of thinking and how they've been treated by men basically their entire life. Th…
/r/AntiFeminists26/08/21 04:54 AM
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Somehow men judging women for something that doesn't concern them at all is abuse to men. Woow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:44 PM
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So everyone there was mentally ill. Explains a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:43 PM
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What people do while they're single and otherwise free to do so has no business representing how someone actually is during a relationship. It's pretty presumptuous and otherwise kind of awful.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:39 PM
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I mean I see how that can be a turn off because I wouldn't want to date someone who cares so little for their well being they'd be willing to raw dog strangers who could give them a life threatening disease for some money. But that's why real brothels have regulations, because there bosses actually care for there employees unlike the place your talking about where there more worried about money then the girls well being.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:29 PM
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Most women who act promiscuously take their health very seriously. Birth control, getting checked, getting regular pap smears. If you don't want an STD wrap your shit like a respectful man would when having sex with a stranger.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:23 PM
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So because men assume that promiscuous women wouldn't want to carry their children they demean and objectify them? Makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:21 PM
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Having been promiscuous in the past doesn't mean they don't stay faithful in a relationship. What consenting adults do when they are single doesn't represent how they act or what they'll do in a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 09:19 PM
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Actually I've slept on the floor with a boyfriend who didn't even have a bed, who wasn't taller then me, didn't have a job, was considered over weight, with crooked teeth. I don't have shallow standards. My only preference is that I won't date shallow judgemental pieces of ignorant shit like yourself. I don't think that I should stay faithful because my boyfriend wants me too, I think people should stay faithful because they want too. Funny story my boyfriend right now has been begging me to fli…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 08:26 PM
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In that example you judge that man because he resorts to violence when intoxicated. Violence is almost never an answer. A man willing to fight for dumb reasons is a giant red flag and worthy of being judged. What about women having sex is worthy of judgement? Men have loads of unprotected sex with a lot of questionable people and no one questions there self worth. I am assuming it bothers you so much because it bothered you enough to follow this page and comment on this post. I think that's a fa…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:46 PM
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Okay but it's true. Why do you think some men prefer women to have a completely shaven vagina? Because it resembles that of a child. It's an ego boost to be desired by someone so young and naive they could be your child? and you don't think that has any ties to pedophilia, that's just plain ignorant. People find young people hotter because there body has not aged, like a child. People think there more fun because they are experiencing things for the first time unlike women who have already exper…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:37 PM
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You didn't prove anything just saying sex workers and people with high body counts disgusts you, you never explained why that's so disgusting to you. Most of my comments were towards the video you posted that you think explains your opinion best, which was complete and utter garbage. If your a shallow judgemental piece of shit just say that. Jealousy stems from insecurities and it is not healthy or natural. Neither is being territorial over something that is not yours. When your in a relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 07:29 PM
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Maybe because it's not a logical reason for anything. Sounds like mental illness mixed with pettiness just to equal out some malicious guy who thinks he's "the nice guy"..
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:48 PM
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What the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:42 PM
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Over paying for something you get for free? What in the actual fuck. WE ARE NOT OBJECTS OR PROPERTY. That's some of the most ignorant and disgusting bullshit I've seen. I don't give a fuck if men get territorial, that shit is toxic and there is no logical explanation for men acting so territorial that they have to have complete control over a womans body.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:41 PM
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I mean you expressed your hate for sex workers and women who enjoy sex but you never explained why you feel such a way. Just that that's how it's always been so that's how its gotta be. Sounds like indoctrination if you ask me. Have you ever once tried to think for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:38 PM
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Can I ask why other peoples sexuality bothers you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:35 PM
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Simple answer. Men feel entitled to our bodies. That and men can't stand the thought of other consenting adults wanting to spend money for something you can get for free even though its literally none of there business. Honestly guys just hate sexual women. Especially the women who do it for themselves and not for some guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:26 PM
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Theres nothing wrong with being attracted to someone younger as long as their not children of course. It's only wrong if you act on it. It is more popular for men to date younger but that doesn't mean women don't for the same reasons. Dating younger can be very malicious. Women, I think are more mature about things like body count and experience and the effects time has on your body. Hence why things like the dad bod are considered desirable. Where as men mostly prefer young women with tight sma…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 05:09 PM
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I think women, from an early age are pressured into being a house keeper. They are judged based on how they keep their homes so when women finally get to see how a man lives it's easy to judge because we've been judged as children and it's only fair to hold men to the same standards we are held too. Personally as a kid, I was told I had to do all the laundry, dishes and go grocery shopping to help my adult father who apparently wasn't capable of doing any of that. I also noticed as children, gir…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/21 04:35 PM
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Neither is okay honestly who gives a fuck what society thinks. Society is not for body positivity so personally I don't give a shit what society thinks. Plenty of women are shamed for being fat just as men are shamed for being short, both are fucked up but it's not a competition to which one is more accepted because neither are. Having standards for women is empowering because women were literally married off and still are today, to people of whom they have no choice in. Not even allowed to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:29 PM
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I mean people are entitled to their preferences and opinions that doesn't mean their preference doesn't make them an asshole. Shallow standards aren't something we should defend.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:23 PM
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I mean it depends on what specifically you're talking about, but most women don't get paid for being a woman. I know growing up and still now I have some self esteem issues so just trying to take a good nude is pretty difficult and really hard on my self esteem. So recording yourself or taking pictures is a lot more difficult for some than others might think. Along with that, forcing yourself to sexualize yourself constantly for money is exhausting and draining, I can only assume because half th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/21 10:22 PM
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