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| 14 | Lost all respect for Fresh and Fit today.Let’s look at this pragmatically: yes, their methods “work” if your goal is to have some women find you attractive, but if your goal is to build a positive, mutual, healthy relationship with the kind of woman you’d like to build a family with, their method is a dead-end. Why do you think they only seem to spend time with the kinds of women they say to avoid? It’s because women who have their shit together and are the kind you’d want to have kids with will not have ANYTHING to do with red pill gu… | /r/ExRedPill | 06/04/24 02:59 PM |
| 1 | “My money is my money, your money is OUR money.”It seemed clear to me that they meant “Sick!“ as slang for a good thing. | /r/ExRedPill | 05/03/24 07:23 PM |
| 3 | I would travel the world with a 1/10 Girl and be happier than 99% of Red Pillers.I’d rather fuck an apple pie for the rest of my life than spend ten minutes with any woman who would consensually have anything to do with Tate, no matter how “beautiful” she is. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/01/24 01:46 AM |
| 4 | Does the Amber Heard story prove that men will leave good women if they have the opportunity to get with someone hotter and younger?Disagree. She’s a global A-list celebrity and he owns a few properties. Not remotely the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 05:06 PM |
| 7 | Does the Amber Heard story prove that men will leave good women if they have the opportunity to get with someone hotter and younger?Gal Godot’s husband | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 04:44 PM |
| 4 | Which pill explains what I noticed on datingoverthirty?Could you link me to a few of these? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 10:39 PM |
| 2 | What differences have you noticed between your "type" vs the people you actually end up attracting?I understand where you’re coming from, I do. I’ve been there. And I’m not saying that people aren’t important, or that loneliness isn’t detrimental. But self-love and self-acceptance are critical, and it’s more helpful to start there. Other people can’t give you those things (outside of childhood). And having those things will make it more likely to find the love you want in your life. Also, don’t fixate on an SO as the only source of love or meeting your social and emotional needs. Friends, fam… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 02:20 PM |
| 2 | What differences have you noticed between your "type" vs the people you actually end up attracting?Not everything in life is about having a girlfriend. Your relationship with yourself is more important, and also informs how desirable you are as a potential partner. And being willing to be with literally any breathing woman is a good signal that you don’t have a lot of respect for yourself. Take it from me: a woman won’t fix this for you. You won’t feel whole and healthy just because someone else loves you. You’ll still feel that inadequacy deep down, and you’ll be terrified that they see it t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/04/21 01:16 PM |
| 2 | What differences have you noticed between your "type" vs the people you actually end up attracting?It’s self-fulfilling. No one wants to be with someone so desperate. You’d be much better off with a reasonable standard based on self-respect. You might be alone, but you’re already alone! And at least you’d like yourself more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 2 | What differences have you noticed between your "type" vs the people you actually end up attracting?Wow, what woman wouldn’t want to be with someone that has literally the lowest possible standards for themselves and their partner? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/04/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | CMV: No women don't "care more about their appearance" than menHaha, ok, whew! No, I didn’t get that. I just saw “I shower every 2nd day.” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 06:28 PM |
| 1 | CMV: No women don't "care more about their appearance" than menWait, you do all that shit, including working out, but you only shower every other day?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 06:08 PM |
| 2 | Dating women who have advanced degreesThe sophistry bores me. So does your attempt to shift the ground from not being overly dependent on someone to the idea of being perfectly fine alone. Wanting an emotional connection is not the same thing as not being able to function or thrive in life without a partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 09:51 PM |
| 5 | Dating women who have advanced degreesIt’s bizarre (and very telling) that you view “real romance” as being based on needing the other person. In my view, the highest form of love is being chosen by someone who wants you, but doesn’t need you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/04/21 08:53 PM |
| 2 | Have You Ever Built Love Slowly?Damn dude. Maybe try a different approach for wife #3? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Have You Ever Built Love Slowly?This sounds amazing, thank you for sharing. How long have you been together? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/04/21 03:17 PM |
| 6 | If you hold that women are hypergamous, can you explain in detail what do you mean by that? What exact traits women as a group are seeking to what degree in men that makes them hypergamous? How is what men do is different than that?Well, she’s leaving for those reasons, and/or she’s immature and damaged herself. So much of the misogyny I see in this community is just observing the ways that some women are fucked up and declaring AWALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 12:35 PM |
| 1 | If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class?But this isn’t that different for women either. Women will have casual sex with someone below their socioeconomic / education level if he’s hot. Like the cliches about pool boys, personal trainers, waiters, etc. They just won’t be in a relationship with those guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 09:51 PM |
| 16 | If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class?Wait, if men are willing to date down and women are willing to date up, why don’t we see those relationships more prominently in the marriage data? Could it be that men are more likely to date (fuck) down, but won’t actually marry down? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 08:13 PM |
| 4 | If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class?Saying that men care less than women isn’t the same thing as claiming that men don’t give a fuck at all. Most men I know who are educated and have professional careers wouldn’t marry a woman with a HS diploma and a retail job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 08:09 PM |
| 6 | If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class?There’s no straw man here, this wasn’t a claim about the degree of difference. I’m responding to the claim that “men don’t care about education and career”. I’m a man, and I do care, especially in the context of a relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 08:04 PM |
| 5 | "Body positivity" excludes overweight guys in favor of normalizing BBW fetishismCan you point me to any of this shaming of fit men who aren’t attracted to fat women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 04:37 PM |
| 13 | If men here are so bothered by educated and careerist women, why don't they date someone from a lower class?I’m a man, and while I’d sleep with someone well below me in terms of education or career ambitions, I wouldn’t get into a serious relationship with them. The intellectual and character qualities correlated with those pursuits are important to me, especially if this is someone I’m considering building a family with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/03/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Do you agree with these statements?I couldn’t even get through most of this since you have such a bizarre view of “testosterone” that I’m not even sure you know what it is. Source: male, and on TRT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/03/21 03:41 PM |
| 5 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?The number of single mom vs single dad households is irrelevant. What’s more relevant is the percentage of single moms who are competent at running their households vs single dads who are competent. At best, it’s equal. And yeah, we do have shitty low standards for men pulling their weight in the home and family. Welcome to patriarchy. That’s more the reason that men perform badly there than some inherent advantage women have at managing complexity or minutiae. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 02:08 PM |
| 4 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?Again, I think you have a very naive and bizarre view of many jobs as not requiring juggling lots of small details and variables. Tons of single dads have their household on lock because they have to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 01:21 PM |
| 5 | What double standard between men and women **should** exist?lol...imagine thinking that running a household requires more organization and mental labor than many, many jobs that men do. Men are typically shitty about running the household because of many factors, but capability isn’t one of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/03/21 12:40 PM |
| 2 | Girl branch-swinging, how to be the possible replacement?I vote #3. Tell her to call you if she ever sorts her shit out. Or just find someone who doesn’t sound like hot garbage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/21 09:31 PM |
| 2 | Do you *want* to attract shallow women? When you complain about women with long list of requirements for sex/dating that you find ridiculous, are these the women you want to attract?They’re not more shallow, they just are attracted to people at their level of attractiveness, just like all of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:49 PM |
| 0 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.I barely read the end of your post, and it was clear you were joking about her. It’s also clear that you think you’re entitled to more than you’re able to get, which is a self-fulfilling prophecy. But you do you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:46 PM |
| 1 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.You definitely can hide the rage, contempt, entitlement, and bitterness in your soul from quality women. They don’t pick up on this at all. Definitely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:32 PM |
| 2 | There is no gender strategy and people should just work on themselves & understand their value.Maybe you get the women you get because 1) you settle for them even though you think you’re better than they are, and 2) your attitude is ridiculously unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/21 04:28 PM |
| 1 | 26 year old virgin. Going crazy, becoming more and more aggravated. Need help.If you can afford an escort, you can afford a therapist. And sorry man, but your root cause is not sexlessness, it’s deeper. It’s probably shame and rage from all the trauma you’ve been through and caused. Healing is possible, but it’s a long road, and getting your dick wet won’t help. You’re very unstable and dangerous in your state. You sound like the kind of guy who would strangle a woman to death if she innocently laughed at something during sex. Please, get help. You’re very young and you h… | /r/seduction | 05/03/21 12:49 PM |
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