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THANK YOU. YES. UGH. You are your actions! That’s it. That’s what is boils down to. So glad you connected this thought to Bojack.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 10:38 PM
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Yuppppp. Oftentimes the disconnect I see is intent vs. behavior. When the intent is genuine, it can blind this type of person to how their actual behavior is harmful to others. Like internally, all they see is their good intent so they get confused and angry at why we’re demonizing their “attempts” (in their mind) to be a good person. It’s impossible to explain your feelings to them when they’re fixated on what they’re trying to do instead of what they’ve actually done.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/03/21 08:44 PM
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YOOOOO this was my whole MOOD this past year! I left a dead relationship, went back to school and got my degree, and cultivated meaningful friendships! I did a whole lot of growing and got in touch with my own individuality. It's mind-boggling for me to look back, still even a year ago to this day, seeing where I was mentally compared to now. However, I had a lot of help and resources .I had a stable living situation, didn't have to worry about food, and had lots of support from friends and fami…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/20 05:47 AM
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I don’t know why you’re being downvoted. That’s the definition that I first knew. With graffitied genitals, it’s possible the person was alluding to that definition. Or maybe it was a double entendre. But that’s giving them way too much credit lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/05/20 01:03 PM
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Exactly. It's about respecting one another, and ignoring anyone is a clear sign of disrespect. Screw that. I wouldn't ignore my friends, so why would I ignore my partner?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:45 AM
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I mean, I play video games, but not to the detriment of other parts of my life. It helps my anxiety and is something to connect with people about. This post just gives manchildren validation that ignoring their gf to play video games is okay in ANY circumstance. There’s a time and place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/04/20 03:16 AM
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That makes a lot of sense. Without being able to be present in his everyday life, I really didn’t get the whole picture—just the idea of him that he chose to share. I remember seeing your last post a while ago—I’d just read through it then, but it hits different now. Thanks so much for the kind words and encouragement.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 05:35 PM
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Lmao. This made me cackle. Thing is, he did all of those 🤡 But yes. You’re right. I think we always kept each other as like, a backup. None of my exes were happy about this guy. I don’t know what his exes thought of me (he said that he talked about me to them), but if my partner had that weird friendship I wouldn’t be happy either. Not HV behavior from either of us.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 05:03 AM
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I sure did. I disrespected myself more than he ever did by giving him chance after chance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:31 AM
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Thanks sis. One thing my counselor used to tell me when I talked about being alright again someday--she said that I will never be able to go back to what I was. Whatever I was idealizing about myself in the past lacks perspective and experience, so whatever I will become can only be better than I ever was, because of it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:27 AM
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tysm sis. I will take that all to heart. I'm more disappointed in myself for going in with that assumption of HV. I've always looked for the best in people to give them the benefit of doubt, but after this--after five years--I see now that that rosy lens will only lead me to making mistakes like these. Like breaking my own boundaries. Never again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 03:25 AM
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Gah, thank you. I needed to be told that first bit. I looked it up, and while some of the attributes apply, I don't think this guy is quite a covert narcissist. But I feel like I'm learning more about some other people in my life, lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 02:02 AM
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It's a disgusting excuse, as if it's a reason to not be in control of yourself. Between this guy and another guy I was saw last year who almost went too far because of his nofap thing, I'm definitely seeing red flags when I hear that now. It's like they tell you that you feel safer. And thank you, I will. I've been reading through it, but this whole situation has made me feel the opposite of the strong person I am-- and I totally forgot about the handbook.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/20 01:57 AM
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