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If you are ok with dating down in attractiveness it is easy. I am 5'5 so dating is borderline impossible. I also made 300k last year in my 20s. Height means substantially more than a well off man to most women so if you take care of yourself and are an OK human being then it should be fairly easy. You are just not going to get rhe 6'2 guy with the iron jawline.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/25 06:09 PM
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When you haven't convinced any woman to let you take her out let alone have sex, it's a different story. I have one more year. Your self worth isn't tied to it when you can't get a date with literally anyone. Sure if I could have sex, I'd be less desperate but I can't. I am a genetic mistake and if my mom weren't around to be sad I would have already jumped off my balcony. I just can't make her that sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 05:06 PM
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And also there is the whole idea of highly paid women being miserable because they want to date a man that makes more than them but they also need him to be tall and handsome and can't find both. I wish they would value the success portion enough to be forgiving about the height one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:49 PM
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Oh I'd date for money lol. I don't care about "equality" among partners financially if I don't need to work tomorrow lol. That's not about outdated gender dynamics. I do hobbies with my limited spare time. They tend to be fitness oriented so they are male heavy and ghr women are out if my league (because I don't think it's possible to be ugly and fit as a woman)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:36 PM
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Every woman has options though or thinks they do when tall handsome men are swiping right on everyone to get laid. I don't have standards. My preference is you're not morbidly obese, as our lifestyles wouldn't work well and that's my only shallow preference and not awful person, but other than that I'm open to basically anyone. I'm down to be used for money too. Heck I don't care at all. All I want is a woman to let me buy her dinner lol. I haven't had a date in so many years idk how to even dat…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:20 PM
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I mean I look short. It's obvious. I have a standard short buy body. Thick frame, big head, short legs. Hinge also requires you to put your height. It's why women pay for premium to filter by it. Hinge wouldn't allow you to leave it blank between then women would never get premium. You just don't understand the reality for men that got unlucky in the genetic lottery. Looks are the most important thing even in social settings, and looks for men are about height almost exclusively (and about fitne…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:13 PM
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Oh I've seen blank women's profiles get 99+ likes lol. Men will swipe on anything. It's why things are so imbalanced in terms of dating. I've been poor (growing up) and am no longer poor (lucrative career and academic scholarships). I have been fat and am no longer fat (calorie counting and exercise). I have gotten 0 likes then and 0 likes now. Those poor people are NOT this short and unattractive lol, even if they are fat. Genetics are the end all be all, particularly height. I don't want my ow…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:47 PM
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Ok so your genetics are fine. Try being 5'5 lol. I wish i could get the time off for leg lengthening so any woman will be willing to use me for my money instead of saying I'm too short for even that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:30 PM
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No you can't lol. Not if you're short and not genetically gifted. I'm in a very high paying field, ivy league educated, in decent shape, and well dressed and groomed. Have never gotten a like on ANY app from anyone. Tried changing my height on my Hinge as an expirement and got dozens upon dozens of likes in 24 hours. Genetics > effort every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:24 PM
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Honestly the amount of times I've had a woman ask for my number (and call me) and we have made tentative plans, and I'll still never hear back is nuts. I'm quite short (trust me I get it but still) and I feel like I'll vibe with someone at some point then she will go home and realize she has so many options that aren't short, so why let me take her to dinner. Darn do I hate being cursed with this short body because apps havr introduced height as the ubiquitous filtering mechanism
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:22 PM
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As a candidate of camp number 3 (get told regularly I would be datable if I wasn't so short), this is accurate. The pool of datable men only includes ones with the correct genetic attributes, and it seems folks would rather get played than date anyone who doesn't meet their physical standards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:52 AM
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Wait doesn't OKC prevent you from messaging multiple times?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:30 PM
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Disagree. The issue is that it's popular with folks in other countries with fake locations, so most people you see are not local
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/24 09:28 PM
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I mean i don't get dates lol. It doesn't matter what I lead with. That's tbe problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:28 PM
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I've never gotten a single like on Tinder. Clearly this guy has something in the face at least to get right swipes. Self improvement cor men is nonsense when genetics didn't work out. I have no issue with high standards for women. I just wish I was good enough to meet them
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 06:28 PM
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6 feet was hyperbolic. But I'm 5"7 and so tired of every woman i talk to rejecting me for it. I used to be obese and broke. Lost the weight. Make 300k a year. Dress well and still can't fix my height. High standards are not about doing well or self improvement. They are about picking tall parents
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:06 PM
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Yes. Next question. Every girl would prefer a taller man. I'm judt hoping that by being wealthy and not fat, some woman will lower her standards lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 04:02 PM
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Ah yes because I am going to wake up and be 6 feet tall tomorrow
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 03:59 PM
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The funny thing is women try to unalive themselves more. Men are just better at it
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 11:04 PM
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I mean you can always just take a break from dating until you lose the weight. Then you'll be able to have the 6'2 handsome men. I'm sure plenty of men are into you. It's just not the ones you want (which is totally fair). Caloric deficit is key. Use myfitness pal and just lower your calories till you're losing at a speed you want
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 10:41 PM
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I don't know a single man with that preference but know dozens of women that have expressed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:07 PM
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Because they know girls taller than them will reject them. It's going for where there's the highest chance of success. Unfortunately, the 5'1 girls also want a boyfriend who is 6'2 that makes them look like a literal child, so it isn't the best strategy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 03:55 PM
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Absolutely. Why tf would my masculinity be so fragile that I would have a problem with a tall queen towering over me? I think you'll find the problem is genetally women refusing to date men shorter than them than the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 06:35 AM
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Nah 30 or so. Depends on your chosen profession of course. Medicine, law, banking, tech are all options for it
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 04:50 AM
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Men can't just grow taller or get the right facial features. Self improvement doesn't get you to meeting the high standards people complain about. If high standards were just you need to be at 10% body fat or make a quarter million a year, fewer dudes would have an issue with it, as these are things that are realistically achievable
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 10:44 PM
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Yeah NY is the opposite. It's at least 5 men to a woman and the women tend to be extremely picky about physical characteristics because they sre trying to treat real life like a dating app And if it's speed dating, men's tickets are twice as expensive as women's and the events sell out for men days in advance but never get enough women
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/24 11:31 PM
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Never been to one that wasn't 80% dudes. Women prefer apps but maybe that's a NYC thing
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 10:46 PM
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5'6 on a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:58 PM
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The dates aren't long enough. It's still almost exclusively about appearance with the women being just ad picky as they would be on apps. I went to one once and the moderator literally said that they have an issue with men clicking yes on every woman in the system and women clicking yes on no one
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:07 PM
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Every one of these events is 80% male lol and they charge more for men. Idk where you're seeing ones that aren't. And they are dominated by a handful of 6'2 handsome guys that go just to hook up
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 07:05 PM
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I'm short so I avoid them now. It's like a daying app. You get looked up and down and it's an immediate no. The girls that go to these are single b/c they are very picky. I try to get my job out as soon as possible b/c that sometimes buys me some time to plead my case (have a very high paying job). It's still an exercise in futility when you weren't able to grow long enough legs
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/24 05:51 PM
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