Advicer2020 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	The redpill ruined my last relationship Good luck in your life. downvoting simple questions from me. Well. Your choice if you want to spend energy on being bitter on red pill instead of doing the work to become your best version.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 08:59 PM
1	How does one prove they are genuine nice guy I’ll try to give you my best advice when it comes to this. Don’t use validation to try to impress a girl you like. If she likes you you will see / know it and if she has a burning desire she will hint it to you. If you try to be a nice guy to try to win here - not going to work. But of course be a man of honor, integrity, a man with respect and most importantly; confidence. Don’t use validation as a tool (being a nice guy that compliments and force comments on her for instance). Be yourself.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 04:55 PM
0	Question I think it goes both ways. I like the red pill mindset because it forces me to improve myself instead of blaming everyone else. When it comes to single parents it goes both ways. Richard coopers point is: it’s not necessarily bad news to date a single mother but it will bring a lot of extra stress. This applies to single dads as well. I as a single will hopefully find a woman that is single because if they have a child it’s not mine 100% , you have 100% responsibilities but 0% authority. It can …	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 04:25 PM
2	How do you not compare yourself to other people sexually? Put your focus in improving yourself rather than spending energy comparing yourself. That’s my advice.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 04:20 PM
1	How do you not compare yourself to other people sexually? Red pill says: don’t compare yourself to others. Compare to your self. Ask yourself: from a scale from 1-10: how good are you now compared to your best version possible? Never compare to anyone else. It only brings harm.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 04:09 PM
2	Is there anything remotely true about RP and how life works? True story brother. And that’s why this red pill dude Richard cooper points out in his videos and his book “unplugged alpha” that boys need to take better pictures - hire a photographer to take some smashing photos. Nevertheless: pictures lie and they gonna meet up and this is where the red pill maybe focus in girls high expectations and that they want to find a man that is high value / even higher than themself. To find the best possible man. (Hypergamy)	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 04:03 PM
0	I want to thank my parents, and my friends for preventing me from radicalization. What? Red pill is actually ABOUT focusing on life/purpose/goal. If they told you any different it’s none of my business.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 03:47 PM
2	Is there anything remotely true about RP and how life works? Exactly. Red pill mindset is quite productive because you blame yourself for not being in the right place in your life. You put in the work instead of blaming society for your unattractiveness. Become your best version. That mindset did red pill tell me and I’m 100% into it.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 03:27 PM
1	Is there anything remotely true about RP and how life works? I can see your point. Many dates equals even though they are broke. But I think it’s a study about tinder matches where it’s mostly based on picture / attractiveness. Most girls don’t find the 80% guys not attractive enough to swipe the “right direction”. So it’s basically that most girl will fight for the top tier boys while the least attractive boys must fight for the rest. But I’m quite sure that you need to be high quality to attract good looking, quality girls. If you are overweight and pla…	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 03:25 PM
1	Is there anything remotely true about RP and how life works? It’s not about that complements are a NONO. It’s more about: if the girl are not into you it doesn’t help to be a thirsty beta that throws here compliments. If she likes you , you will see it clearly and of course there is a good thing to compliment. But you didn’t win here “because you commented on her Instagram picture”. It’s more because she find you attractive and want to know you.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 03:19 PM
-9	The redpill ruined my last relationship You never complimented your girlfriend? You tried to become alpha? You were not yourself? You couldn’t show emotion? I think you have misunderstood the term red pill. It’s not about being cold or having lack of emotions.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 03:10 PM
1	Screw RP dating advice . Reality is a lot different and doesn't work like that. Red pill is about accepting rejection. Don’t whine but move on. If Casey states the opposite I do not agree with him. But red pill mindset is the way to think of it. But rejection is part of life and alarmist anyone knows this. If the girl is not interested- take the hint and move on. Can’t force anyone.	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 03:25 AM
1	Screw RP dating advice . Reality is a lot different and doesn't work like that. It’s quite obvious. How many times have you heard about this scenario. A guy trying to be nice to a girl , giving her validation and buying her stuff. The girl loves the free validation but don’t want to bag him. When she meets chad thundercock it takes 15 minutes and they are in the sheets. This happens everywhere. Ibiza, Italy , NY. Why? The beta believes being a nicely guy is the way to capture the girl but the girl wants the Chad. Its simple. It’s the reality. Stop being bitter on the red pi…	/r/ExRedPill	25/05/21 03:22 AM