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Thank you for sharing, and that is beyond fucked up. The police is sexist, especially due to decades using the Duluth domestic violence model. Hell, I suffered it too, I was in the receiving end of a DV with my ex husband and since we're both guys, the police showed up, tried to intimidate me and ended up saying "There is no battered woman here, so you guys figure it out and resolve it by yourselves", then to me "Call us again for this, and we will cite you for wasting police and 911 resources".…
/r/MensRights27/07/26 11:13 PM
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Constant abuse from the mom against both Chris and his dad, emotional violence and in the episode I was exposed to, Chris landing in the hospital, with her shoe lodged in his rectum, as punishment for being rude with waitstaff at a restaurant.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 10:45 PM
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Even the US has a lot of enclaves where situations change, and places as close as Mexico and Guatemala have large amounts of English speakers, and sexism against women is a massive problem in those three, very close to home places. Plus, I don't understand which part of my original comment caused such visceral reaction, if you feel like discussing it, we could continue this thread or have a chat, you are mature, articulate and make your point come across very clearly, so I am genuinely intereste…
/r/MensRights27/07/26 10:34 PM
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Same as for abuse, resource allocation and support, I don't think absolute statements help when people on both sides are suffering, especially for things as global as a Discord server. That kind of statements, especially for members outside of the US is important. Especially for allies, sadly there is a massive in-group bias between women, so a woman speaking about the suicide epidemic on men will have a way higher chance of making other women think, but points of view that border on extremism a…
/r/MensRights27/07/26 09:53 PM
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Feel free to check my comment history if you think I am here to troll. Both genders suffer a lot more than the other, depending on the region. Pretending that the other gender's problems don't exist is straight up stupid. But if you think it is rational and logical, be my guest, but don't go pretending I am here tro troll and fake outrage. Female oriented organizations such as the UN, and it's branch UN Women are extremely sexist and cause harm to men by fudging the numbers, by only measuring on…
/r/MensRights27/07/26 09:34 PM
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There are some Discord servers, but honestly they all felt kinda scummy for me, with some homophobia, ignorance and misogynistic views spoused by staff and the rules, rules such as "Misoginy is not real" or views like blaming everything on "The Patriarchy" and acting if it was a monolithic and unchangeable human condition, which to me feel dumb because both sides suffer, are discriminated against in different ways. Edit: If you find any, please ping me so I can join too.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 09:11 PM
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This is a situation that as Men's Rights start to spread into the mainstream, start to get pushback, I just had a shock with that, in Everybody Hates Chris(Disgusting show in my opinion, with the portrayal of abuse against men, strongly advising not to watch it), it is all just played for laughs. Having been a victim of violence, this type of stuff really strikes a nerve, and I am glad more men are waking up to the horrors of it.
/r/MensRights27/07/26 08:59 PM
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Sadly, it is not according to what I have researched, going as far as the government officially denying it. That is just a fabricated rumor from last year.
/r/MensRights14/05/26 04:56 AM
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Partially, because we don't have religious trauma like yours. "my commitment truly was once in a lifetime (as it should be)", that is some religious belief that you hold, and if you feel that way, good for you, but not everyone needs to align to your belief system. There are marriages that work because of many reasons, good and bad. There is religious upbringing, love, companionship, building a legacy, common goals, found family, or mine, I am planning on marrying again so my family doesn't get …
/r/MensRights12/05/26 03:32 PM
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A lot of them do. Less centralized, but if we consider cases such as the Tea app, AWDTSG and all their local chapters, the grifters who perverted and used the #MeToo movement for their own gain, it shows that the following is anything but small and irrelevant, just more decentralized.
/r/MensRights19/03/26 05:30 PM
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You can find a lot here [https://www.reddit.com/r/WomenAreViolentToo/], but they often get next to zero ink. And add the famous cases from the last few years of lesbian, feminist mothers who murdered their sons for the sin of being male, I recall two of those in the last few years, but I only mention stuff I have heard of. I'm sure people more familiar with the topic have more examples at their fingertips.
/r/MensRights19/03/26 05:25 PM
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I watched it last night, and damn, the person you're responding to is eerily correct. Real MRA talking points are nowhere to be found, and the whole thing is just a freakshow parade of the most disgusting talking points of sexists and grifters who apparently are there only for the paycheck and to increase their own area of influence.
/r/MensRights19/03/26 02:38 PM
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I agree wholeheartedly. Issue is, how unenforceable it is. Finding an old dementia patient with no ID, and who often doesn't even speak any language one can discern, makes the cases rather complex. So we just did the best we could to help them and get them into a state-supported nursing home.
/r/MensRights18/09/25 10:04 PM
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Now that I'm aging, I am glad I never had kids. I always told myself, if I really wanted, I would adopt, lots of kids needs home, I don't need to be genetically related to someone to make them a place in my family. Turns out, it was a fantastic idea. I haven't formally adopted any, but I have helped a few older kids succeed in the world, because sadly, very few people adopt 8+ year olds, and their outlook in life is pretty dire due to not having any family or built-in support structures. As I me…
/r/MensRights17/09/25 09:43 PM
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After years of volunteering at a nursing home, let me tell you, having kids, being a good parent and being a good person, won't guarantee you won't be abandoned at a nursing home, and that is if you're lucky. A lot of elderly people with dementia are just tossed out on the streets, hell I lived in a region that was very famous vacation spot, and at least twice a month, we would find a disoriented person their family took on a vacation, to abandon them there, and go back home saying their parent …
/r/MensRights17/09/25 09:38 PM
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Holy fuck, that makes a lot of sense, and it makes sense why I have very few female friends. I don't put up with bullshit, and I lack one of the main thing those types look for, a guy who is attracted to them. Ofc the gay guy who calls them out on their shit is seen as persona non grata when I act and respond rationally, and call them out on trying to emotionally manipulate me. So glad to be gay and autistic. And based on the behavior of two polar opposite coworkers I have at work, that clearly …
/r/MensRights17/09/25 09:22 PM
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Sorry mate, I read the other thread, and I feel for you. This whole situation is so unfair. Fucking kangaroo courts.
/r/MensRights17/09/25 08:16 PM
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I studied criminology for a while and the dark figures on rape are a massive problem, the same is true for false accusations. I would certainly NOT go as far as saying that most allegations are false, and it is very dangerous to think of it that way, because it hurts the empathy gap. It is irrelevant if most claims are true or false, what is relevant is getting a justice system that actually investigates the claims and clear them up. And that also stomps out any consequences of being accused. Ho…
/r/MensRights11/07/25 04:20 PM
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Honestly, this. I studies criminology for a while and the dark figures on rape are a massive problem, the same is true for false accusations. I would certainly NOT go as far as saying that most allegations are false, and it is very dangerous to think of it that way, because it hurts the empathy gap. It is irrelevant if most claims are true or false, what is relevant is getting a justice system that actually investigates the claims and clear them up. We need to remember that women are people too,…
/r/MensRights11/07/25 04:17 PM
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The system is fucked up in so many ways. I hope the guy wasn't buried in an avalanche of hate and sexism. SA laws are important, but they really need to stop that sexist narrative that women are always the victim, and the whole "believe all women" fiasco.
/r/MensRights11/07/25 04:05 PM
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In principle, I believe in it, but when brought down to reality, it has several issues. What happens if the father is away, unavailable, deceased or otherwise unreachable? While of course, it would give men all over the chance to actually know if they are the father, we would also have to include the money for the test, which are not really cheap. And for real certainty and none of that blood type bullshit, the prices rack up. Then we need to add the fact of dubious paternity, such as identical …
/r/MensRights20/03/25 02:02 AM
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I've had them claim, don't know if it was satire or what, but saying that me watching gay porn meant denying wages from female sex workers, and the two slogans they love to switch between when convenient, "Sex work is real work" and "Porn is misogyny".
/r/MensRights09/03/25 07:48 PM
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Nah, not from what I have seen at least. A few of my friends self label as "MGTOW", and instead choose to bond with rational and mature people for their social needs, leaving the whole toxicity and drama some men and women bring everywhere, away where it belongs. Those traits and lack of a accountability can be found on either gender, however on women it is encouraged and excused socially by a lot of people. Part of what MGTOW means is not allowing ourselves to be trampled and used, and stop let…
/r/MensRights11/02/25 08:56 PM
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Oh, but you see, it isn't their fault because of [reasons], and scrutiny is the sexist tool of the male, and [the patriarchy], and believe all women, and stuff. Otherwise, you aren't supporting women, plus, any reply from you would just prove that you are part of the problem and the reason why she hooks up with bears every week. /s
/r/MensRights10/02/25 03:37 PM
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I fucking hate that. Or the blatant sexism when they find out I am gay, and try to treat me like a purse gay. Fuck right off, and treat me with the respect I deserve. I am not their "hunny", "babe" or "girl". I am an almost 40 year old man, often their boss, and while I am OK to be called that by my close friends, that doesn't give anybody a license to do so just because they feel like I am "one of the girls".
/r/MensRights10/02/25 03:05 AM
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Holy shit, way to accurately represent my autistic ass, lmao. Nowadays, due to empathy and stuff, I instead go for pointing out how rude it is to criticize someone's appearance, because it is an easy target and the overall lack of something relevant worth criticizing on the person, but more than once as a kid, I got beaten for reasons I couldn't understand, because apparently "It can't really be insulting if it is factual" is seen as a rude thing to say.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 10:08 PM
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Still is, at least as far a a few months ago when I accidentally saw the front page without my block list and got exposed to some mega upvoted, disgustingly sexist comic in there. Just the usual PizzaCake garbage.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 09:37 PM
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Also, doesn't the very existence of this comic mean that she went out of her way to put all this effort into sharing her own unsolicited opinion? Exactly what I found the most ironic about it, but didn't want to point it out myself, lmao.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 09:35 PM
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Exactly. Don't worry about it, it happens. But I fully agree with you, and the fact that tons of people donated for her defense, is extra worrying. Everybody knows what a difference a good, expensive lawyer can do, especially in a society that pretty much assumes the man is at fault by default. And at least from the article, it looks like some people are finally seeing that what she did is atrocious and we can't actually believe that being a perpetrator is a make-exclusive role.
/r/MensRights08/01/25 10:40 PM
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Nope, she actually went to prison, but for less than half of her sentence. She was sentenced in 2022 and in theory, she was going to become elegible for parole until 2027.
/r/MensRights08/01/25 06:31 PM
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Tagged as NSFW for the explicit pictures of violence she inflicted on herself to bury those men she falsely accused.
/r/MensRights08/01/25 04:37 PM
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DUI, attempted rape, conspiracy to murder and many other sentences are dictated on potential damage, not actual damage of the act.
/r/MensRights01/09/24 03:53 PM
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That is a dumb take. Honestly, it is the kind of stuff they feed people to get them into nofap. Porn is damaging, that is the only part of your statement that holds true to scrutiny, but masturbation does not produce enough dopamine to damage your receptors, addiction to masturbation being what people often mistake for burned out receptors. Preventing masturbation in animals leads to increased aggression, hypersexuality, depression, lethargy and sexual dysfunction. Pretending that just by no lon…
/r/MensRights14/08/24 01:38 AM
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Neat slippery slope, by being aware of it, we are already bringing change. We can vote, we can choose to be the person who this young guy needed at that moment, and we can make a society that is better for both men and women, and stop pretending that pointing a few fingers is going to solve a systemic issue that is plaguing everyone. Victim mentality is part of the problem, and so is pointing fingers, polarization and the whole "Us vs Them" thing, plus, you catch more flies with honey than with …
/r/MensRights16/07/24 08:28 PM
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"We" implies that even OP is guilty/responsible here. Plus, that is a very simplistic view of a problem that has been ongoing for a long, long time.
/r/MensRights16/07/24 02:39 PM
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By deception? No. By taking someone clearly intoxicated and performing a sexual act on someone too drunk to give consent? Yes. Morally, I think she should have disclosed it beforehand, but legally in most of the world, that is not an issue. Still, you are focusing on the wrong thing, you are performing self destructive acts, and getting yourself into very unsafe situations. What if it had been a woman who pierced the condoms or took advantage of you being drunk to remove the condom mid-intercour…
/r/MensRights20/05/24 01:51 AM
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I guess they meant to say "Men don't get a say in the matter of whether a woman has an abortion or not, so it is still entirely out of the man's hands, making it a slight silver lining, ONLY if the woman decides to, or agrees to have one."
/r/MensRights10/05/24 04:41 AM
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Honestly, it could go on any of two ways(But I have never seen the show so I can't state it goes to either), it could end with a powerful message telling all women who identify with the characters they need help, that they are manipulative, selfish criminals, or it could glorify the violence, glamorize that lifestyle and encourage man hating. Or a third one, never a statement and just walking away with all that money.
/r/MensRights26/12/23 04:55 PM
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That is true for EVERY human, not just men.
/r/MensRights22/12/23 01:19 PM
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Yes, we do. Reported for sexism to this sub's mods, they are quick to trample sexist stuff reported to them, but since being a mod here is not a paid job, they don't have the time to monitor everything live, just the stuff that is reported to them.
/r/MensRights15/11/23 01:46 AM
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Exactly this. Had a conversation with a feminist at my low wage job a while ago, she was complaining about the pay gap, I told her how much I and everyone of us in that job is making, since we all start at the same rate, and seniority does not give you anything extra due to gender, all raises are given based on performance, and they are the same for everyone on the same performance tier. All that misinformation is hurting everyone who doesn't sit to analyze it and probe it. Modeling, porn and OF…
/r/MensRights15/11/23 01:42 AM
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That is the thing, men suffer violent assault from strangers at a rate way, way higher than women do. We feel unsafe yet our needs and concerned are rarely to never addressed, and knowing those statistics + seeing that nothing is done to protect us, while taking actions to protect a group that is statistically less at risk, is just salting the wound.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 11:30 PM
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We don't want to be treated like providers, because we are under no obligation to be providers. We want equality but either way, no need to feed the troll that you are. Reporting and moving on, because your blanket statements and extreme bias stink to high heavens.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 11:25 PM
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Absolutely this. People love grandstanding about the flaws of the police, but they love to forget that most of the civilized world have a properly trained police force, who actually have to study and train for years before even being allowed to call themselves cops, and actively prosecute racism within the force. Unlike in the US. Not without corruption of course, but at least where I live, people don't look at me as if I had three heads when I say the police saved my life from what almost was a…
/r/MensRights22/09/23 05:00 PM
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They are in a few ways, but what that sentence(And practically all feminists) ignore is that everyone who is not disgustingly rich is systematically oppressed in the West. Abortion rights affect both men and women, and the lack of existence of paper abortions directly oppresses men, however women are also affected. The gender pay gap, which is almost inexistent in most professional fields, and while it exists in fields such as adult entertaining and modelling, disgustingly wide with men being in…
/r/MensRights22/09/23 12:37 PM
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You got it! For real dude, you managed to find a place where career and talent meet without selling your soul for it, and that is fucking fantastic. Stay true to yourself and best of luck with your anorexia. One thing that helped me overcome my ED was looking up healthy ratios of body fat and how a low score can endanger not only my body but also my brain, and that is when I noticed how absolutely horrendous media is about the male body expectations, and I even rewired my taste in men after that…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 01:47 PM
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Just saying that I am super fucking proud of you. I am an interpreter, so I know what a pain the language field is, but at least they rarely ask for a college degree, so that is great for you and I, lol. I hope that the fact that doing your sister's tests for her, especially for a prospective surgeon, is not lost on your parents and that they are literally placing lives on risk. Hugs from a distance, and mate, if you ever need to talk and vent, you have this sub and in a pinch, you can even DM m…
/r/MensRights14/09/23 08:00 AM
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And even if you were trans, we would support you being who you want to be, trans rights are human rights. But back to the topic, you get to define what "woman" is to you, the key is to do it for yourself and not for others. Is a woman who never had children still a woman? Of course she is. What if she never married and chose to have a career? Same. She could be the breadwinner, have a stay at home husband, never have kids and adopt reptiles instead, she is still as valid and as much as a woman a…
/r/MensRights20/08/23 07:03 PM
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do you think the problems men face are the collective responsibilities of women? Of course not. Collective responsibility is a tool to demonize entire groups of people, and to escape personal responsibility. You haven't abused me in any way because of my gender, so it would be silly to blame an entire gender. I thought the purpose of this sub is because people dont ackowledge the problems men face. You are correct, that is the point. why is the focus more on the potential female accomplices of a…
/r/MensRights20/08/23 01:34 AM
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Often I lay awake legitimately wondering if it's misandrist to claim woman are equal, often I wonder if it's even true I often have to justify to myself why it's OK I want a job, but it never feels ok. It always feels misandrist Nobody is by default equal to anybody, there is always some variance of raw skill, training or education, and that is OK. However all genders are equal in the sense that nobody should be given priority or barred from anything based on gender alone. If you are the best sh…
/r/MensRights20/08/23 01:25 AM
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The point is if you want to complain about problems men face Problems men in general face because of their gender. you need to also acknowledge the heinous things men do to women. And there you are once again, painting it as if it was every man's responsibility. You need to learn about systemic issues(Such as, denial of the right to abort, taxation of menstrual products on the same league as luxury items and such) and the difference between those (which I care about), and your strawman of "the h…
/r/MensRights20/08/23 01:12 AM
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Cognitive dissonance hits so hard, I am too autistic to get it I think, so I can't fully understand it, but seen so many intelligent people fall face first for it I don't doubt it is a real thing.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 12:44 AM
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Oh, then I agree wholeheartedly. It is fantastic that you managed to declutter like that and that it also helped your marriage, I haven't had that target on my back for so long that for a moment I forgot about it but you are absolutely right. Most of the time, it isn't even worth it.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 02:48 PM
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It is sad that you don't have any women of value in your life. I am openly gay so I don't have to deal with romantic interest from their side, which has allowed me to have a few good friends who happen to be women, friends who have been with me and cared for me when I have been down, friends who have helped me the same way I try to help people around me. And for the record, I hate gay hags, my sexual preferences should only matter to people with romantic intentions, not as the root of the friend…
/r/MensRights12/08/23 02:02 PM
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By having boundaries and not letting yourself be used by people who don't put in any effort?, By not letting yourself be a victim of being horny and debasing yourself for crumbs of love? Damn, if that is what you think, then you really don't value others, but then again that is not a surprise coming from someone who loves hanging out in feminist spaces and is afraid of men, while also believing all women are afraid of men as well. Well done, sexist.
/r/MensRights12/08/23 01:42 PM
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It is already illegal in Germany without the OK from the mother. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/DNA_paternity_testing#Germany
/r/MensRights12/08/23 05:10 AM
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That depends on what meaning you choose to give to the word, however in a lot of cases, it is used as a dog whistle and a strawman to pinn pretty much anything negative and say "It is the men's fault, let the women lead", when stuff isn't even about genders, it is about the vast difference in power and wealth between the ruling class and the rest of us.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 06:04 PM
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In most of the world, prenups are either hardly worth the paper they are written on, or straight up illegal. Also, paternity testing is illegal in France and Israel, plus a lot of countries banning it unless both alleged parents sign off on it.
/r/MensRights26/07/23 02:02 PM
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I get it, it is a difficult balance, hell I am against NSFW stuff on the Pride Parade because it is a public event, and parents shouldn't have to lock their kids for that day and people have called me homophobic for that opinion, when for me it is just common sense. And the way certain people promote LGBTQ+ and feminism to kids, especially abandoning cis boys by telling everyone they are special, valid and important except them, is an easy recipe to fuck boys up. We men are already on the top on…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 10:36 AM
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LGBTQ+ should be optional, anonymous and on demand. I knew I wasn't straight by age 12, and the only thing that got me through it was from the human sexuality encyclopedias my dad had at home, knowing that it was a normal thing, not much talked about but not evil, helped me develop into a balanced person, instead of what some people tried to do, which was pushing me into the church and into the pipeline for conversion therapy camp. It shouldn't be glamorized, but kids, at least not straight ones…
/r/MensRights08/07/23 10:26 AM
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Super. I am not from the US, and that stuff changes from state to state.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 02:29 AM
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Not having a girlfriend. Newsflash, I love cock. Or for saying that false accusations carry real consequences for the victims.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 02:27 AM
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In some states it would. Any semblance of you taking a paternal role, no matter how small, even if the kid isn't yours can make you the "de facto" parent, and liable for child support. Great catch! But for all that is holy, unholy and anything in between, talk to a lawyer now. And if you can, keep proof of the requests and denials on her part to get a paternity test, because if the child was yours, that is perfect ammunition to try for parental alienation, which gives you a far better shot at so…
/r/MensRights06/07/23 10:41 PM
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And a lot of it is conditioning. Men are conditioned to feel that way about it. I am not saying holding hands, but a good hug between friends when saying hello/goodbye can work wonders.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 07:54 AM
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That sucks mate. You could mix an escort/sex worker with allowing male contact. Making friends with men and getting hugged in a platonic way can really help. It won't satisfy you sexually, but it really helps ease the loneliness. It is vile what society has done to men, shaming close relationships between them and labeling them as gay, then making us depend on women for any physical shows of affection. It is a true issue.
/r/MensRights26/05/23 07:43 AM
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Illegal in France, to the point where they don't ship there. https://www.myfrenchroots.com/dna-testing-in-france/
/r/MensRights17/05/23 03:37 AM
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They rarely jail women for it, it has a far lower lower sentence, and it is often met with no time served when the perpetrator is a woman. My bad, that is a brand new account, guess it will be banned soon.
/r/MensRights29/04/23 10:55 PM
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That is the part I am wondering about. Does she "have" to pay back the same way Amber Herd "had" to pay back victim and in truth, will never happen?
/r/MensRights12/04/23 10:01 PM
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Briana Nashae Muhammad, 22, of Newport News, was sentenced by Judge Sarah Deneke in Caroline Circuit Court to 10 years with eight years and six months suspended. So, Just year and a half in jail? And, Does she have to give the money back? What is even the use of a suspended sentence?
/r/MensRights12/04/23 05:20 PM
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I'll harass you buddy, don't feel lonely
/r/MensRights11/04/23 05:39 PM
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Reported the troll btw, may that sexist person never again darken our doorstep. But of course, their alt accounts will, lmao. It is amazing, how much hatred, sexism and straight up abuse a person can spew, but if you are a man, your reports will get straight up ignored, and then we are the ones who get called crazy. Stay strong brother, and when you aren't feeling it, remember that this is a safe space and you are listened to, understood and supported here mate. Cheers!
/r/MensRights07/04/23 11:22 PM
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Damn, some people are just that dim, wow.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 01:06 AM
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First red flag, not attacking your argument but you personally instead. Now it makes sense they would say something so unhinged and disconnect from the issues that were being discussed.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 12:41 AM
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Reported for hate speech. Because that is exactly what you are doing.
/r/MensRights07/04/23 12:23 AM
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Sorry, I am not familiar with any, but posting a reply and upvoting to generate engagement and make the post more likely to be seen by someone who actually knows. It is a great thing that you are doing, mate.
/r/MensRights01/04/23 05:40 PM
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Archived version of the post. https://www.unddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/122gn7q/aita_for_leaving_a_trip_early_because_of_my
/r/MensRights29/03/23 01:47 PM
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And, suspended.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 11:27 PM
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Similar. I am bi and didn't even think of dating men because of the stigma there was in my home country while growing up. Until enough awful experiences with women led me into a depressive episode, And who was there to support me and be a friend? A male fuck buddy and friend. Been "gay" for over a decade now, no regrets. Personally, I would suggest being truthful to the guy/guys you have sex with, both to set clear and healthy boundaries, and to make sure nobody gets hurt.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 08:00 PM
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Still, from my perspective as a bi guy who also gave up on the abysmal odds on the straight market, feels like it is a healthier ratio on the m + m dating pool.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 07:57 PM
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Go away, brand new troll account. Get banned again.
/r/MensRights16/03/23 07:55 PM
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Says the brand new account, Haven't you been banned from this sub enough times already?
/r/MensRights15/03/23 09:00 PM
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Yeah, guess they just stop reading mid post, when I stated that nothing should be accepted as truth without evidence, makes sense.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 10:41 PM
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I don't care much about the downvotes either, it is more of a wanting to know what other people think sort of deal. I am truly curious of why anybody not consider those scenarios rape.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 06:35 PM
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Well said. Bet that sexist troll didn't even read the article.
/r/MensRights05/03/23 05:20 AM
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Reported, go away 😜
/r/MensRights05/03/23 05:03 AM
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Having sex with an intoxicated person(Diminished ability to consent due to drug effects), having sex with someone legally unable to consent(Children, senile people, mentally ill people deemed unable to do so), through coercion(I am the head of the admissions board, if you don't have sex with me, consider your scholarship terminated), through intimidation(Showing you pics of your children at school and on the way home, and pics of murdered/missing children, telling you that if you resist, they're…
/r/MensRights04/03/23 04:11 PM
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Yeah, I saw that thread, got insulted by him for calling him out on not actually doing anything to benefit men's rights, wellbeing or mental health, and instead asking for donations. Sure, crying is fine for the people it helps, but for me crying is nothing but an escape valve. It can help feel better in the short term, but unless you address the actual causes for it, your situation is not going to get better, and that is something that sub does not work on. Shortly after, the mods locked the th…
/r/MensRights01/03/23 04:45 PM
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I cant beleive the moderators here allow that sub to promote itself in mens rights. Then do some research and don't. It was exposed as a grift with an unhinged leader, thread was locked, its leader was banned I believe, and I haven't seen it be promoted here after that.
/r/MensRights01/03/23 04:31 PM
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No issue mate, just bringing some awareness into the issue, back when I was young, always hearing "Men are x, y and z" gave me a lot of self hate, so I try to keep other guys from feeling the way I did back then. And what you say is both sad and true. I have seen countless men chase after women and simp their savings away, then get bitter and stay lonely. It is hearbreaking.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 04:42 PM
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Great point. But even when targeting neurotypical men, you can easily traumatise and give them an anxiety disorder from just the process, harassment, despair and helplessness they are thrown into after an accusation, dragged through a kangaroo court and judged for the crime of being men.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 04:14 PM
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Well, all those generalisations are part of the problem. A lot of men don't fall for those traps, so saying "a lot of men are idiots" instead of "men are idiots" goes a long way. Are you okay with claims saying that men are rapists because some men are? Anyway, your post still rings true, a lot of men need to wake up.
/r/MensRights21/02/23 04:11 PM
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Well, that sucks. I don't condone the likely sexism of leaving your partner AND your daughters out of your will just for being women but we don't really know if that was the case. Still, breaching the contract that is a will, that is just wrong.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 02:34 PM
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Well, that sucks. I don't condone the sexism of leaving your partner AND your daughters out of your will, while leaving all your wealth to your male heirs, but still breaching the contract that is a will, that is just wrong.
/r/MensRights17/02/23 02:20 PM
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https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Category:Massacres_of_men
/r/MensRights14/02/23 08:44 PM
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She had lied to the doctor, saying I wanted the baby to be vegan (I had no idea she had told the doctor this). Want the truth? She lied because it is easy. It sets a precedent of you taking bad and unhealthy decisions for your kid, and her as the victim of your will and manipulation, so in the end, she can claim to be a victim and demand enormous spousal support + child support when she wins custody. Heaven knows how many lies she has told others to besmirch your reputation and to use them as ch…
/r/MensRights14/02/23 03:53 AM
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Wait, Go to prison for sending requested nudes to a person of legal age? That is fucked up. Can I ask you what state would that be? You can send me a DM if you don't feel comfortable saying it on an open forum, or not say it at all, but I fear you are either under a bizarre regime, or someone might have maliciously explained some laws wrong.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 02:54 AM
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First of all, everybody sends nudes nowadays. If you can, get screenshots of the whole conversation, they are the proof that you need, unless it was by voice. And either way, you come across as a very young person, so if you are underage, you can use the child p*rn approach, dare them to share them and you tell them that there are laws against nonconsensual pornography, blackmail, and sharing pictures of a minor(if it applies to your case). But most of all, seek help. It is not something that yo…
/r/MensRights10/02/23 02:43 AM
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If you can and have a decent relationship with your landlord, tell them about your situation. At least where I live landlords tend to have connections, and the word of a friend can encourage another landlord to take a client. After my father's hours were cut, while my sister and I were still kids, he talked to the landlady, told her he couldn't afford the current rent rates anymore, so she ended up moving us to a cheaper apartment she had elsewhere in the same town, after my father tried and fai…
/r/MensRights10/02/23 01:53 AM
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Hard agree. I know that the venn diagram of people who would recognize the lyrics, be old enough to have heard the song when it was famous and be MRAs is nearly zero. Thanks for your good work on this sub.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 01:43 AM
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Attaboy! It is so hard for men to defend themselves for fear of the backlash, I am glad Nick is in a position where he actually has the means to seek justice and doesn't depend on public opinion as much as to fear backlash for doing so.
/r/MensRights08/02/23 01:39 AM
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Agreed, thank you for making this post. I wasn't even aware of that person but it is basically Tate 2.0, fishing for a get rich quick scheme. It is a lot like pyramid schemes and MLMs, heartless assholes starting a "business" where they know most people will get screwed while they laugh all the way to the bank.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 11:50 PM
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You do realize that was just a gender swapped, word by word copy of the lirics of tlc's hit song "no scrubs" right? https://g.co/kgs/77iL6K
/r/MensRights07/02/23 11:32 PM
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Awful and all, but that is a song from 1999. I am sure you can find songs as awful as that and more recent. But hatred for men, and songs putting men down are even considered empowering among the feminist movement.
/r/MensRights07/02/23 07:27 PM
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It is because men are the violent ones causing the violence, Don't you know? /s But really, it is very widespread and well recorded, when my dad was in need and raising two children all by himself, he looked for help and got nothing but ridicule and "We will add you to our waiting list and call you back", which never happened. I was lucky one of my aunts is an accountant for a non-profit, so she told my dad to send my sister and I to her place for a week or two, she applied for support, we were …
/r/MensRights06/02/23 08:10 PM
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Of course, brand new sock puppet account, of course.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 08:03 PM
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Or was it some kind of childish method of "winning" an argument? It is, leave the person unblocked so they get a notification, then block before they can respond, and pat themselves on the back.
/r/MensRights06/02/23 08:01 PM
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You got it, and glad to read you are doing better. It is completely understandable to feel that way after trauma, and if you are ever feeling isolated or anything, and want to just chat, you can drop me a line, and I promise not to judge. As far as affordable counseling, if you are in the US, you should check this post, it helped one of my cousins find affordable help there, and if not, there are some subreddits with country specific help as well. https://www.reddit.com/r/YouShouldKnow/comments/…
/r/MensRights06/02/23 07:27 PM
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Agreed. The mother should have taught him about red flags, emotional manipulation and better ways to choose a partner. What he said was sexist, but somewhat understandable due to his limited world experience + having a mother like the one he has.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 09:12 PM
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Fucking corrupt assholes, deciding not to investigate clear sexism from people in positions of power, just because the perpetrator's gender. Swap the genders and picture the backlash, it would be enormous.
/r/MensRights05/02/23 01:45 PM
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That is bizarre and extremely fucked up, but most importantly, it was not your fault. You are probably sick of hearing that said to you, but it is true, you were just a kid and nobody deserves to go through that. Are you OK and are you safe now? If you are not, you can reach out in this sub or privately, you are not alone.
/r/MensRights04/02/23 01:31 PM
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Violence doesnt discriminate by gender, women CAN kill. And this also displays how hateful and dangerous any ideology can get. That is so true. People really need to take off those rose-colored glasses and see what is going on, both men and women are capable of equal greatness and equally fucked shit. I remember when this case came up, sucks that sadly there haven't been any major changes on policy about the mother getting the perpetual upper hand on custody matters.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 09:02 PM
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Thank you. With "victims" like Amber Heard and Eleanor Williams, people need to fucking wake up and see that having a bruise or a wound doesn't mean their partner or alleged rapist caused it. And, leaking only one minute of a very long recording is really suspicious. Plus, with how hard it is for a court to drop a case, especially with photos like those and claims of violence against a woman, the fact that they did means that there is a lot to see there. I really wish they made the new evidence …
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:44 PM
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Exactly this. If someone got messages, video or evidence of her planning to bruise herself, actually causing the wounds she is accusing him of, or the rest of the small audio clip she uploaded and it tells a completely different story, the public deserves to know.
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:37 PM
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Exhibitionism and consensual non consent are fetishes that can really murk the waters on a recording. Lawyers are there to coach EVERYBODY, that is literally the reason why they are hired, because most of us don't know the law and with the innocence project showing how many jailed men were in fact innocent, the need for a lawyer to coach you is even more evident. BDSM, safe words and such practices can lead to what out of context, looks like straight up abuse. But let's remember why consent and …
/r/MensRights03/02/23 12:23 PM
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It is silly to say "western women" India is not western, https://groundreport.in/false-rape-cases-in-india-8-times-when-women-falsely-accused-men/, neither is South Africa https://www.news24.com/news24/southafrica/news/men-falsely-accused-of-rape-lose-r3m-damages-claim-20220614 No matter where you are from, nobody is truly safe.
/r/MensRights02/02/23 11:10 PM
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Now he will have to deal with that stigma of the accusation for his whole life anyway. Cute how innocent until proven guilty doesn't count for men, when as soon as the allegations became public, he was suspended from either playing or training, meaning that if he wants to train, he must do it alone and at his own expense. A lot of people proven innocent still face harassment, get turned into pariahs and whenever you google their name, the accusations are the first thing you find. Even if their c…
/r/MensRights02/02/23 04:08 PM
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Well, once a real article comes out, with proper sources, double blind studies and scientific, repeatable proof, I will consider it. But then again, homosexuality in both humans and animals has been a thing forever and a day. Plus, I honestly don't think listening to someone with takes as dumb as Andrew Tate is the masculine Jesus Christ🤣, no fap, and "a cold shower at night curing both depression and porn addiction", would be a good idea. Porn addiction is a real issue that takes a lot more tha…
/r/MensRights31/01/23 04:16 PM
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"owww are you gay is that why?" Typical shaming tactic, not that being gay is a bad thing, but if you flip the genders on that interaction, they would be assaulted like it was nothing. Yet understanding how what they are doing is harassment would require for them to accept that men deserve respect and all that.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 05:58 PM
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Sorry, that is not an option here, but you can always just make a post over there. Personally I don't think that topic has much relationship with men's rights, but reddit is surprisingly ample and you can always find a place to get info.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 04:55 PM
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There is r/AskMen which I think is better suited for such questions.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 04:47 PM
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There are r/OlderMan/ and r/AgeGap/, from a quick search. That kind of subs get a bit culty for my taste, but those are valid options.
/r/MensRights27/01/23 04:39 PM
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What I hate the most is the double discourse. When a man does it it is disgusting, but when a woman does it, it is empowering, such as Madonna. Relationships are hard and sure, in some the gap can be problematic but that is rarely because of the age(As long as it is within the legal bounds) but due to maturity, someone using someone else, intellectual deficiencies, power imbalance and such. I am in my late 30s, and have dated all age ranges, from wooing men in their 60s to being hit on by guys o…
/r/MensRights27/01/23 03:53 PM
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Innocent until proven guilty. I truly dislike the taint brothers, but that is no grounds for forgoing a fair trial.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 12:25 AM
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That is one(Or even a few maybe) insane person on a platform, not the whole platform. Sure, Tumblr was pretty horrid but you will find extremists and bigots in pretty much every place you look, even yourself with your generalizations.
/r/MensRights21/01/23 12:07 AM
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Doubt it. They will have the women stay in the truck as drivers or admin spots, or manning the hoses. At equal or higher pay of course, or create positions for them at the expense of men's positions and lives, as per usual.
/r/MensRights20/01/23 06:44 PM
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I have. The very last instance in that relationship was when I didn't want to have sex with her without a condom and spermicidal lube, because "She just wanted to feel what it was like to really feel me inside her, skin to skin". She ended up ghosting me and going no contact after about a year of relationship and I later found out it was because she was already pregnant with another guy's kid. Now that I have grown older, I can see the abuse for what it was, but I was just an easy manipulable ki…
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:40 AM
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Admit nothing, try and get a lawyer TODAY, ask for a physical copy of the proof of service (Document required as proof that someone was notified, if they don't notify you, they can't expect you to appear in court). Wish you had asked for help earlier, since I have heard that r/supportfortheaccused has some great sources, but with just one day left, the situation looks a tad dire. Accept no charges, as that would not only create a precedent, but also be on your record for a very long time. If you…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 09:46 PM
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Yes, there is. There are methods to stretch and basically regrow some of your foreskin, it is a long journey and allegedly might not be the same as before, but it is still better than not having one, or so an ex tells me. However, you still should visit a doctor, a different doctor of course, and if you can, report and sue the fucking butcher that maimed you. There are lots of ways to repair botched adult circumcisions, but it all depends on what they did to you and how recently it was, the more…
/r/MensRights17/01/23 11:55 AM
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Condoms are not 100% effective, and sperm stealing is a thing. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sperm_theft Check out the UK portion for some really interesting cases.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 01:46 AM
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Pimphand? We don't condone violence here, and pay to get freedom without fighting back against unjust alimony and child support arrangements is just defeatist, especially in cases of paternity fraud. Everyone should get tested. pay that shit and move on. You will get it back I promise Yeah, because nobody has been bankrupted and ended homeless or worse due to said unfair arrangements. Plus, in most of the world prenups can be easily voided. Sure, sign one as a preventive measure if you must marr…
/r/MensRights10/01/23 09:09 PM
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As a masc gay guy, I do the same at work. My sexuality should be none of their concern, but the advantages are staggering to the point where not using them would put my employment at risk. Seriously, my team is almost entirely made of women and gay men, wish I could find a well paid job that doesn't uses its employees as brownie point tokens.
/r/MensRights10/01/23 12:47 PM
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I have some sympathy for them, because to me, just like child soldiers and people indoctrinated into religious beliefs from their youth, most of them are raised on simp juice from the day they are born, so some indoctrination is to be expected. However I still look down on them, they are grown-ups, and should be able to sit down and think for a moment, "She already cleaned me out before, What the fuck am I doing still chasing after her?". If indoctrination is strong enough to get people to drink…
/r/MensRights06/01/23 02:46 PM
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Eyeroll pardon my French, but stupid simps.
/r/MensRights06/01/23 02:02 AM
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About time. Accusations against him have been failing, and according to some sources, it all started because an ex tried to blackmail him and started a smear campaign. I am not a fan of Manson or his music but watching him lose roles several times over unproven accusations has been pretty sad.
/r/MensRights05/01/23 07:11 PM
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Sad but true. This kind of cases usually get zero ink because it doesn't benefit their narrative.
/r/MensRights04/01/23 03:26 PM
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Fixed! Thanks for pointing that out!
/r/MensRights03/01/23 10:22 PM
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Those are known as shadow statistics, and by the very fact of being unreported, you can't do more than an approximation. There are many reasons why men theoretically underreport said crimes, to the point where often times in cases of violence, men are the victims, call for help and are also the ones ordered to leave their own homes, because the police are moving the "most dangerous" part out of the equation. Sure, women suffer similar situations, especially evidenced in multiple cases of women v…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 10:10 PM
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Holy fuck, poor kid(I know he was 18 when this started, but to an older person like me, you all are kids). Seeing your abuser get that kind of attention, donations and support while you are thrown in a cell for 10 weeks with an actual pedo, sharing meals with rapists and other types of awful, dangerous people. That shit ain't right. He was harassed, and constantly revictimized, I really hope that evil woman, Eleanor Williams, rots in jail for the damage she has caused not only to Jordan(Featured…
/r/MensRights03/01/23 09:38 PM
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You clearly know nothing about French courts and legal systems. Those tests are inadmissible in court, and parenting/child support doesn't care who the biological dad is.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 05:14 AM
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Good luck trying to get the test kit undamaged through customs/mail both ways, and expose yourself to very significant fines.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 05:02 AM
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It is illegal and inadmissible in court anyway. They say nobody had been fined, but still ilegal.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 05:00 AM
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Thank you for sharing, also Tiktok is a trash platform that doesn't let you rewind or skip to time on vids without having an account.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 04:46 AM
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Sorry, English is not my first language and I could have worded that better. We have child support, that we have to pay. Court decides visitation heavily biased against men because women are considered the default best parent. And based on visitation/tutelage, the court decides who pays who and how much(Also depending on income).
/r/MensRights03/01/23 03:54 AM
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We do, because our health system is not a clusterfuck. All minors get free health insurance, and the rest is a bit hard to explain but you don't have such massive expenses to get it. Just have a job and a part of your income gets you in. Child support? Those laws feel predatory tbh.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 03:39 AM
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They are pretty ironclad. In France, if you take a paternity test that isn't court mandated(And getting a court approval to do one of those is hella difficult), will net you a huge fine. Plus, the results would be inadmissible in court, as "father" is a social construct, not a genetic one. I am not that familiar with the German one though.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 03:29 AM
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Some don't even know who the father is, how to contact him or he could be dead. There is also the fact that if the father is a low income person, alimony makes no sense, when they can easily take down juicier prey.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 02:59 AM
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Illegal to do in France, and "the forces" are already trying to make it illegal in Germany.
/r/MensRights03/01/23 02:55 AM
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All you did was say "well, MY experience wasn't that traumatic. Therefore, everybody else who is raped aren't suffering." Those are your words, you said that I said that everybody else who is raped aren't suffering. How is that not a lie? Direct quote only. I said 'I disagree,' No, you said I think getting raped is worse than a rape accusation. And another lie. This is getting silly. https://sketchplanations.com/the-bs-asymmetry-principle I am glad I am having a snow day at work, at least this k…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 07:40 PM
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Well, for someone who allegedly loves to debate, you certainly suck at it. Putting words into my mouth, saying that I said certain things, taking stuff out of context, lying. Cute excuse, though.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 06:57 PM
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Yeah, that only shows that you aren't paying attention. I clearly said it is different for everybody. You didn't say you disagreed, you literally said I think getting raped is worse than a rape accusation. And if that is not judgment without an ounce of nuance, empathy or kindness, who keeps acting as if there was absolutely nothing wrong with their attitude, show me where I said All you did was say "well, MY experience wasn't that traumatic. Therefore, everybody else who is raped aren't sufferi…
/r/MensRights28/12/22 05:14 PM
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So you learnt nothing and still choose to antagonize people just for the sake of being a rage monster. Some people are beyond hope I guess. Nobody wasted your time other than your blind bitterness and as I said before, better yourself. Who knows? Maybe you will find a decent human being under all that hatred and stubbornness some day.
/r/MensRights28/12/22 03:35 AM
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Yep, that is NOT something I said, nice try. Stop replying to me and think about your attitude and values.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 09:25 PM
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Thank you very much for saying that, it means a lot. With the depression and lingering trauma it was hard to do, but at least some very loud voices in my family and friend group came out to defend me against accusations and gossip, and even offered themselves as character witnesses and to vouch for whatever they had actually witnessed. It did serve a lot to prune the old family tree.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 08:28 PM
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So if both events can cause extreme damage, why are you making it into a competition? I think getting raped is worse than a rape accusation. Both direct quotes from you. If you still don't see how it is you, downplaying the severity of one of the two and making it a competition while claiming it is me doing so, perhaps you should really start an introspective journey and some therapy. Otherwise, it would seem that you are nothing more than a malicious troll, like the ones we face here rather oft…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 08:22 PM
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Are you aware that in a lot of countries it is almost impossible by definition for a woman to rape a man? She would need to penetrate him with her sex organs according to UK law, and those bits being on the inside, it is very hard to do. Plus, Victim blaming much? "Also, men can report rape, they just don't because they're scared of being called a pussy by other men", as if women didn't do it as well, there is such a thing as empathy and grace. Go spew venom elsewhere.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 07:44 PM
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Right back at you. People have killed themselves because of the never-ending emotional damage from a false accusation, from the constant pressure, loss of employability, that if someone googles their name the first thing to come up are the accusations, even if the person was already cleared of all wrongdoings beyond any possible doubt. Just because you consider the rape is worse, doesn't make it universally and unequivocally so. People deal with trauma in different ways, what crippled me and sen…
/r/MensRights27/12/22 07:37 PM
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Maybe for you, but as an actual victim of rape, it didn't change me or break me as a person. I was drugged and raped. It was an awful experience, but not nearly as bad as when I was being falsely accused of rape and DV which costed me my education, most of my friends, my job and even most of my family turned their backs on me.
/r/MensRights27/12/22 05:37 PM
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I wish we lived in a word where it was acceptable to point out how hateful and unhinged speech and beliefs like those are. Both her eternal victim entitlement, and her manhating.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:19 PM
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Distance yourself from her and her drama. Seriously, nothing good can come from associating yourself or even being exposed to that kind of people at the workplace.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:10 PM
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I acknowledged that in another response, since all the information I had on this case originally was from the link OP posted, but you are right, editing the comment.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 09:00 PM
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Thank you for posting that detail, I am not that well versed on this case and it is very important information, knowing that there is zero proof of said behaviour. And even if there was, it still does not justify premeditated murder.
/r/MensRights22/12/22 04:08 PM
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Hopefully your friends are understanding and helpful, personally I would not charge a friend for paying their rent with THEIR OWN MONEY, but that is just me being a not-shit friend. I hope it all goes well and that justice prevails. Whenever you feel down, know that you are not alone and as a fellow victim of a false accusation, feel free to DM me at any time if you need to vent but don't feel like making a public post. True friends will lend you an ear, understand and empathise with you and you…
/r/MensRights22/12/22 03:58 PM
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Even if he had been a creep(Zero evidence that he was, only allegations from the person who destroyed the only alleged proof, how convenient), even creeps deserve a fair trial. Defending premeditated murder adds validity to it, and that being wrong is part of what makes defences like gay panic invalid. There is a reason why our legal justice systems are not based on lynching the accused even before proven guilty, and why death sentences are saved for very few cases. Being a creep, spying and tak…
/r/MensRights22/12/22 03:52 PM
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Well, having dates with men is not typically considered masculine, so that. Both as romantic dates and platonic outings with friends, straight or gay. I am gay and have congenital ligament, joint and respiratory issues, so I can't really go to the gym to get that bro-time in with my friends, and I am glad we have the option to just take walks.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 03:07 AM
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Yes! I like my drinks to taste sweet and innocent, yet hit like a falcon punch.
/r/MensRights21/12/22 03:01 AM
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A bit too toxic-positivity flavored and pretty bone-dry resoircewise for my taste, but if it helps you, you do you. Plus, it does seem to have any supportive or growth related stuff, just feel-good flufff.
/r/MensRights19/12/22 07:06 PM
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It is sad that someone as young as you has taken this decision, however your reasons are absolutely valid. And if you factor in the fact that not even prenups can keep you safe, the future looks dire. Regarding your other comment about false accusation, it sucks that mo matter how good of a person you are, nobody is fully safe. I hope it gets better for your and future generation's sake. Stay safe, kid.
/r/MensRights16/12/22 01:41 AM
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Mate, thank you for being brave enough to stand up and share your story, this is truly horrible. I won't repeat advise that everyone else is saying, just wanted to tell you to stay strong.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 09:13 AM
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Perhaps it comes from English not being my native language, but I actually interpreted it as OP complaining about Asian women being touted as the solution to the western feminism, but I could easily be wrong. Thanks for being civil and pointing that out for me.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 03:31 AM
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The mother of computer programming, and an awesome cosmonaut, skilled enough to be assigned as both flight engineer and mission specialist. But that is stuff you can Google.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 02:29 AM
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Calling people nuts, which implies they are clinically insane, and thus voids any validity on their speech is abusive. Just as sexist and abusive as when feminists say "All men are disgusting trash" and other sweeping generalizations. If you don't see anything wrong with the person saying Just goes to show you all women are nuts. Then perhaps you should read up on the abuse we as men receive from mainstream media, the government and many other sources in the form of invalidation and other kinds …
/r/MensRights26/11/22 02:23 AM
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from Oxford Languages hate speech noun abusive or threatening speech or writing that expresses prejudice against a particular group, especially on the basis of race, religion, or sexual orientation. "we don't tolerate any form of hate speech"
/r/MensRights26/11/22 02:13 AM
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Why are people downvoting this? It is perfectly acceptable and respetable to decide not to reproduce, and with how biased laws court rulings are when it comes to reproduction, respect of the bodily autonomy of people should be a cornerstone of men's rights.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 01:56 AM
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I love my girl Ada Lovelace getting some recognition. Marie Salomea Skłodowska–Curie, Margaret Hamilton, and countless other women are great examples of the person you are responding to being wrong. Dumb generalizations like theirs hurt everyone, and thank you for standing up to blind hate. Edit: Fun fact, our mods actually check reports on stuff like hate speech, so reporting and downvoting help a lot.
/r/MensRights26/11/22 01:49 AM
5

I am homo, and I give you all a pass, brothers XD
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:13 AM
2

Mortgage insurance. In many countries it is standard that if one of the spouses dies (Not at the hands of the other spouse ofc), the loan is canceled and paid off by the insurance company, since it would probably become imposible for a widow to pay a mortgage on top of grieving and becoming a single income household.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 03:11 AM
1

I mentioned that their respective girlfriends think they are just renting a house together near the beginning of the text.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 02:49 AM
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Don't know if their girlfriends know that, but judging by how openly vocal they are against marriage and reproduction, seems unlikely that they are realistically expecting a marriage proposal.
/r/MensRights25/11/22 02:48 AM
2

I haven't, I don't use tiktok. But then again it is reddit r/nothingeverhappens
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:26 AM
16

Same, 100%
/r/MensRights25/11/22 01:04 AM
5

Please do, a lot more people need to learn to fight back against this corrupt and sexist system of "justice". Most men need to wise up about the risk they are facing all of the time.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 10:57 PM
3

Point is, we are not them. We should be better and call out the generalizations, the blind hate and any kind of discrimination.
/r/MensRights24/11/22 03:33 PM
24

Exactly. I am a medical interpreter and use "female" all the time at my job, but it is a matter of context. Some people seem to use the word to generalize and give some gravitas to bullshit arguments, but other than that, using the words "male" or "female" outside of the right context would only make people cringe. *spelling
/r/MensRights24/11/22 01:50 PM
44

Well, I do complain about sitting on the toilet with a semi and the tip touching the inside of the bowl, about my balls getting glued to my leg after sitting for a while on hot weather, about the last drop of pee always ending up in my boxers(Nowadays I just push from the taint to the tip when done peeling, issue resolved), but that doesn mean I hate being a man. Perhaps going to that hate filled pit is unhealthy, and coming back just to complain isn't much help. I have no idea why female is con…
/r/MensRights24/11/22 05:06 AM
3

Most countries have safe havens to drop off unwanted babies, no strings attached. Abandoning a baby means by default killing it through neglect, dropping it off at a church, CPS, firehouse or any other institution where someone will receive it and care for it no questions asked is a completely different scenario.
/r/MensRights23/11/22 04:51 PM
1

Let me throw in an example, What if it is an incurable infection that will just fester on for years until it finally kills the person? Requiring constant care, causing constant pain and incredibly high medical bills just for maintenance? Because that is what depression is to a lot of people. No matter how many pills some take, it doesn't get better.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 12:27 PM
12

So, Guilt trip and gaslight yourself into staying alive? That sounds gross.
/r/MensRights22/11/22 12:23 PM
111

This will sound harsh but, a lot of men need to be exposed to those situations, and stop simping. I hope this gains traction and men start to wake up to the harsh reality, you all need to protect yourselves.
/r/MensRights21/11/22 10:50 PM
9

"Her legal team requested no more than 18 months, preferably served in home confinement." which only proves how resentful she is not. Glad she got 11 years for that scam, a little anticlimactic that she is allowed to roam for 5 more months to give birth and then would be incarcerated. I am honestly convinced that pregnancy was nothing but a try for a lesser sentence, and with how many low income women give birth in prison, I am surprised she was given such special treatment. Now we all get to si…
/r/MensRights19/11/22 04:01 PM
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The issue is male issues getting zero ink. An article like this one read as an unbiased look into the financial situation of many women, but when all the articles are about women, feminist organizations get the funding and even government offices, while mixed ones and the ones that help men get defunded and left to rot. It doesn't say "women most affected", but when this and pretty much all articles focus only on the well being of women, while men make 70%(This means over two homeless men for ea…
/r/MensRights18/11/22 11:54 PM
2

I see. I don't visit that other subreddit and with OP's lack of clarity, I thought they meant the case I mentioned. Sucks that it is becoming so common. Sorry for the confusion.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 10:00 PM
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Oh, I see. I don't ever visit that other sub, so when you combine that with how old that thread and article are, and how recent the case that I found is, that helps make sense of the confusion. And as you said, OP not linking the article or the thread makes it even harder to pinpoint. And on that case, I agree, her salary for a full time job is appalling, plus a possible stalker outing her is just beyond(Slight assumption considering how complete his blog entries were and how targeted his action…
/r/MensRights16/11/22 09:28 PM
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*They are on breach of contract for the morality clause THEY SIGNED. *They produced pornographic content in a public place, maintained by taxpayers. *She posted links to adult content on HER PERSONAL social media accounts, same accounts she uses to communicate with her students. Just by the first point, I already think the firings were justified and if you add using structures maintained by tax funds as porn stage, especially ones used by children, I absolutely think they made the right call by …
/r/MensRights16/11/22 08:53 PM
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Allegedly they did that in OF(Just for their state), however most porn pages don't have an option to block by state, just by country. And blocking US as a whole is shooting yourself in the foot if you look at usage numbers. https://www.statista.com/statistics/1291915/onlyfans-global-monthly-visits-by-country/
/r/MensRights16/11/22 08:26 PM
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I wouldn't fully agree due to the morality clauses they signed, which would put them at a breach of contract. However personally I don't see an issue with teachers making porn as long as they take the appropriate steps to keep them apart from their public personas.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 07:25 PM
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According to an article, some material was viewable through a google search, so I assume she did what many OF creators do, make shorts and post them on public porn sites as advertisements. Plus, she posted her OF on her public social media accounts, to where many of her students were subscribed.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 06:38 PM
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I have. I am mostly gay, but I don't feel the need to share that at the workplace since it is none of their business. One time an employee from a department I was supervising sat on my desk, with a couple buttons undone and basically asked me to do her job while keeping her breasts basically at my eye level and on my face, I was so shocked that I basically stuttered to her not to sit on my desk, "That is what chairs are made for", and told her to either do her job or if she was having trouble wi…
/r/MensRights16/11/22 06:27 PM
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Honestly I think you should mention that her and her husband weren't fired only due to the OF account per se, she was fired for having links to it on her public social media, where many of her students followed her, and for using the school's classrooms to make adult content(Reason why her husband was fired as well). Sure you can't make money in OF if you don't advertise, but they certainly broke the morality clause of their contracts with those actions, apart from producing pornography on a pub…
/r/MensRights16/11/22 06:11 PM
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Damn, that is good news, send him our regards.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 05:59 PM
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Thank you for reading the article and pointing it out. This is at best an OP who didn't read the article, or most likely an attempt to do a "women bad", which is unfair and unacceptable. I am happy she has proof, and seems about to get justice.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 10:11 AM
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Moving the goalposts, how lovely. From asking about movies with women hitting men in the nuts in the last 15 years, to saying you watched all of them and don't remember. You are either in deep denial, just trolling or so used to that kind of violence you don't even notice it. https://youtu.be/0IMY_3rZPg4
/r/MensRights16/11/22 09:39 AM
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Avengers: Endgame, Birds of Prey, Shazam!, Spiderman: Far From Home, Captain Marvel. That is just big ticket movies from the last 5 years. Still, replying to a sock puppet account feels pointless.
/r/MensRights16/11/22 08:56 AM
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The video itself is not that bad, the quote at the end about ending violence against women and girls, excluding men and boys perpetuates the notion that only women can be victims. Plus, seeing a couple of ads about violence against women is perfectly acceptable and good, but when every ad, every public announcement and every parliament speech refuses to mention men unless it is as the attacker, then it is a problem. It perpetuates the idea that men, and only men are the abusers, and women are th…
/r/MensRights11/11/22 10:52 PM
12

It is fucked up, I am bi, but the straight dating scene and the massive biphobia is so rampant, I gave up on women since I was 15, and absolutely share your opinion. I always throw some litmus tests to potential dates so I don't waste my time with a Feminist gay. I don't mind if the guy is not masc, as long as he understands and respects the importance of the men's rights movement, ever since a guy went full #metoo victim and tried to gain sympathy by claiming I intimidated him and beat him whil…
/r/MensRights08/11/22 12:37 PM
2

It is not only about parenthood, it is about monogamy, the relationship and diseases. Your ex cheated on you, with someone who might or might not have been in a monogamous relationship with. What if he had contracted HIV, passed it to your ex and then either in utero or through breastmilk to "your" child? Because that is a risk she was taking by cheating and rawdogging someone else. Because getting pregnant without being exposed to "daddy juice" is just not a thing. Plus, not all women are trash…
/r/MensRights06/11/22 06:53 PM
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And then they add sexist propaganda like this, and their gendered rape laws. A horrible part of me hopes a high profile case would happen, so Brits would wake up and smell the massive sexism. But people are so poisoned by all the feminism and Oppression Olympics, I don't think even another Lorena Bobbitt would be enough to cause a stir. Hell, Lorena didn't even see a single day in jail for her heinous crime, society really is failing men everywhere.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 07:30 PM
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For such a statement we would need data to back it up, hard numbers and statistics, otherwise we are no better than the feminists who try to paint all men as women abusing, power hungry, violent, impulsive and moronic monsters. Point is, I think you might be right by saying "most of them", but until we have a formal study with a proper sample size and such, I will stick to the line "A significant percentage". Still, unless something is 100% true, then one cannot generalize, two non-STEM college …
/r/MensRights27/10/22 05:12 PM
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"But he is a man, he can defend himself", yeah right, the moment he does that, that is assault and he is getting his ass beaten and cops called on him. It sucks, that women are rarely held accountable for their actions.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:27 PM
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Typical UK, "Women and girls", instead of "Everyone", or even "Women, Men and children", because you can't expect any help if you are a man.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 02:16 PM
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Pardon my French, but that is fucking disgusting. All this fighting is disgusting, all this rampant, institutionalized sexism makes me want to just give up sometimes. I have faced similar situations at work, so I know for a fact how realistic this scenarios are. Some women are just entitled leeches who will simply fail up due to the privilege of being identifying as women. And I make the provisions on identifying as, because at a former job I had, a trans woman managed to get one of my coworkers…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 01:00 PM
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Well, that is one tall strawman. Cool it with generalizations is the argument of those who have none. In the same post, OP complains about people making negative generalizations about men, then proceeds to generalize about women, saying that they are incapable of resisting the brainwash we all are being subjected to. If that was the case, we wouldn't have so many female allies, female MRAs and egalitarians of both genders. If you can't see the cognitive dissonance in that, then all hope of a rat…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 12:51 PM
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WTF, that level of disrespect and entitlement towards the person who is grading her, just wow. I am sorry you are going through this, and as always, we know how pointless a complaint against a female student is.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 12:40 PM
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Really? That is truly sad. When I left college, it hadn't spread so far. I know, as everyone should, that basically everywhere women get pushed through STEM, get glowing scores disregarding their performance and get jobs in the area despite their knowledge or skills, but didn't know the actual manhating brainwash had infiltrated the curriculum.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 09:54 AM
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It is partially the college's fault, since a lot of coursework, especially in social sciences is geared towards feminism, but as you said, one can't just generalize as a lot of people are doing in this thread, which is stupid considering how huge of an issue generalization against men is. This thread is going toxic fast. Makes me fear for the future of this sub.
/r/MensRights27/10/22 08:35 AM
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Dude, that is a horrible experience but cool it with the sweeping generalizations. Women can survive college without being brainwashed into man-hating bots. It is hard to do of course, and with all the validation it gets them, being wrong rewards them far more than being right does, but just as men, women are not a homogeneous institution, they are individuals, who are capable of reason, even when a lot of them choose not to scrutinize their own toxic behavior. Word of advise, discuss this situa…
/r/MensRights27/10/22 05:57 AM
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I was called a mysoginistic incel because I "try to police how LGBT+ present themselves". All I said is that I disagree with NSFW demonstrations in public, which are rampant during the Pride Parade in my country. And to be clear, I specified that kissing and PDAs are perfectly acceptable, but I don't want to see anyone tonguing anyone else's hole in public, especially during a parade, no matter their gender or sexual preferences. And for the record, I am gay myself.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 01:07 PM
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On that one I agree with that OP, as long as she discloses it early in the relationship. Everyone is allowed to have their dating preferences, and as long as she understands that nobody owes her a relationship or a vasectomy, then it is all rosey. However, a lot of those comments were downright nasty and misandric as fuck.
/r/MensRights25/10/22 12:52 PM
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Feel free to add that vid on your post, it is allowed under the sub's rules. Also damn, that video was pretty raw, that was a great production and very poignant. Cheers to anyone involved in the making process, and to the company for being brave enough to actually pay for airspace for it. Thanks for bringing it to the sub's attention.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 11:13 PM
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After watching the video, I don't see how it could promote abuse towards men.
/r/MensRights24/10/22 11:10 PM
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So, you are painting a picture of a whole movement based on what a few sock puppet, one day old accounts have to say, and that most of this sub downvotes? Seems like you are just bored and looking for something to be mad at, for attention, or both tbh. I am openly bisexual and homoromantic(meaning that biologically, I swing both ways, but emotionally I only get attached to people my own gender), and have never encountered anything but support on this community. Please take your strawman, and for…
/r/MensRights20/10/22 10:33 AM
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We call it out. Same as when women do it, and by that I mean MRAs. I don't care what you identify as, or what is between your legs, if you are being sexist, I am going to call it out. Hell, I have been banned from a few LGBTQ+ subs for calling out their sexism, and it is almost always misandry. Being a good egalitarian means knowing that even if you get banned from somewhere, pointing out sexism and discrimination helps uproot their lies. Plus, same as women and men, gays are not a monolithic in…
/r/MensRights18/10/22 04:18 AM
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That is a perfect acceptable position, as long as you don't have issues with them having the same liberties. If you are OK with a straight couple kissing goodbye at a bus stop, it should be the same for a gay couple, they should be allowed to. However, you are free to look the other way, check your phone or just close your eyes.
/r/MensRights18/10/22 03:32 AM
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There are several issues with that. I wouldn't want my civil partner to have rights equal to mine(POA) I legal matters unless I am incapacitated. And once I am incapacidad, I am in no state to fill and file a POA. That is the importance of gay marriage vs civil unions. Plus, spouses get protections and priorities in the case of death, as opposed to a will or a testament, that can easily be contended and disputed. There are countries where the Civil unions have the exact same validity to a marria…
/r/MensRights18/10/22 03:23 AM
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Agreed. Society has largely voided the social contract for a lot of people out of fear, fear of violence from antisocial people listening to music through the speaker of their phones in public, fear of judgment or acts of violence from simps when holding a woman responsible for publicly being an asshole(or even a violent asshole), people driving recklessly and all sorts of behavior like this. I am technically bisexual, but a few years ago I declared myself fully gay because I couldn't deal with …
/r/MensRights28/09/22 11:03 AM
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This subreddit is for equality, sexist comments get either mass downvoted or the posters straight up banned most of the time, as far as I have seen.
/r/MensRights27/09/22 08:18 PM
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Nice strawman, you fresh troll account. Glad that you will be purged soon.
/r/MensRights21/09/22 02:32 PM
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https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/21164210/#:~:text=Of%20the%20136%20cases%20of,between%202%25%20and%2010%25. Between 2% and 10%, and that is only considering those PROVEN false, not the ones where it is undecided if they were real or not due to lack of sufficient evidence. By your logic, rape is a really uncommon crime, and people shouldn't worry about it anyway.
/r/MensRights04/09/22 04:47 PM
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Brand new account on a subreddit constantly attacked and debased by sock puppet accounts, asking a question seemingly against the purpose of the sub(Reason why I didn't downvote them or you, both your questions are entirely justified). Sadly that type of questions are constantly used in this sub to launch ad hominem attacks and waste people's time, so a lot of members take a reactionary response instead of engaging.
/r/MensRights19/08/22 01:44 PM
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Dayum our mods are efficient, I literally just reported that account. Love you mods and thank you very much for not being like most other power hungry mods.
/r/MensRights18/08/22 11:18 PM
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Imagine being so racist that you ignore the long established and long proven facts that have been known by academia for ages. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/History_of_slavery is a good source, if you want to start learning the basics. And for that matter, the Transatlantic Slavery (the one in the US) is something really new in the big scale of things. Plus that one was not "The White Man™" going to Africa and rounding up all black people they found. Black slaves were purchased, from West African…
/r/MensRights18/08/22 10:57 PM
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Weird but reassuring fact. There will be no noticeable difference on your ejaculate, hormonal production or worth as a man after the vasectomy. Hell, other than a tiny scar that will be pretty much invisible(usually hidden in your perineum). I was dating a guy who got one while we were dating, and not even the taste or texture changed, so that is one less thing to worry about. Proud of you for taking that aspect of your life into your hands, and for actually considering the options.
/r/MensRights11/08/22 07:17 PM
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So according to you, men should never help women either, ever, since they are under risk of going to jail for doing so, Right? https://www.nzherald.co.nz/world/woman-who-accused-man-of-assault-after-he-fixed-her-car-admits-making-it-up/ICUS5UJMOCGFC664ROSQXIFZZ4/
/r/MensRights09/08/22 09:24 AM
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Oh, the moment she does that, even after she has been informed that it is what she does(In case it is a learned behavior or a trauma response instead of a conscious manipulation), and she chooses not to look at herself and what she is doing and become better, that is when you know the relationship is over. Can't build a life with someone who sees you as a second class citizen and themselves as the main character. I mean, you could, but it would be a shitty life.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 11:53 PM
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Feminism is a comparatively recent movement, and I wasn't there at its inception to be able to tell you if it is the only one cause to blame, but remember that sexism is way, way older than feminism both as a group and an ideology. And claiming every single women is infected by it is just a gross generalization, you are acting just like the feminists, when they are trying to silence movements like "Not all men", just so they can push their misandric narrative. And you are also shifting the blame…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 03:08 PM
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Close enough, Bi but mostly gay. And you also got to draw a line, it is hard for straight men to bond with each other, since most fear being judged as weak by their peers, but you also have to consoder, it is not your duty to be their emotional dumpster. If it is always you supporting them and never them supporting you, that is not healthy.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 02:38 PM
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It is not women, it is a significant group of women including your partner, but if you want change, you also need to stop with the collective guilt. You are being emotionally manipulated by someone who places their own goals and well-being above yours, she is just throwing emotions at you to silence you and maintain her comfortable spot where she doesn't have to work on her issues and is given attention instead. Instead of blaming women in general, which takes all accountability away from your p…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 12:52 PM
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Dude, men do that with each other. Not that often in public, but for instance, my best friend stays over and we sleep in my bed when we go out and get trashed, because we have clear boundaries. We know we can cuddle a bit if either one of us is going through some tough shit, but that is all. He is straight so I know he is not interested in anything else, so for that, it is just a matter of being mature enough to discuss boundaries and respect them.
/r/MensRights02/08/22 04:42 AM
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I went for the cheat code and started dating guys instead, but the viability for that depends entirely on the OS version you have installed. You can always choose to cultivate friendships with other people who share your hobbies, your mental health is very important, and socializing with people who you feel comfortable with is a huge help with that. After all, and this is going to sound callous AF, if it happens, it happens, but any woman you have to chase after, is most likely not going to reci…
/r/MensRights02/08/22 04:36 AM
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Hahaha, that is a horrible thing to say, but so fucking true. If that was enough for her to break up with you, and tossed the comparison to Bezos's ex, that does make one very suspicious.
/r/MensRights01/08/22 05:20 AM
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Awesome article, wish it would get a lot more visibility.
/r/MensRights30/07/22 01:10 AM
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It might. After reading the article and considering the gendered definition of Rape in the UK, plus their treatment of female vs male criminals, I wouldn't be horribly surprised if said law passed. Still OP set the title as if it was a fact, when it has been approved yet.
/r/MensRights29/07/22 08:24 AM
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Word of advice in case nobody mentioned it to you yet, NEVER tell them your real salary, if pressed, say something about 30% less if you can get away with it while it being credible. Chances are that as soon as you start working, they will try to make you the man of the house just to milk you dry. I fell for that trap when I was just a bit older than you are now. Most banks won't give you an issue making a separate account for you to save some money in it, and avoid credit cards. It is not unhea…
/r/MensRights29/07/22 03:17 AM
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If all it takes is someone to disagree with you for you to turn into feminism out of spite, then you are certainly not on our side. Instead of claiming the use of "weirdest sources", a quick Google search will tell you it is a solid newspaper from a small country, in case you weren't aware of Malta being a country. It is of such standing reputation it is defined as the newspaper of record for the country. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Times_of_Malta
/r/MensRights29/07/22 03:09 AM
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No, but I just read the lyrics. And although they are disgusting, they don't say that all women are like that, he says he treats women like that. Disgusting music all around really, lyrics full of disdain.
/r/MensRights28/07/22 12:48 AM
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Based on their repertoire and the fact that they have several albums on the same type of hatred, and the band self describes as black, brown and all queer punk, seems like the only satire they use is their very name.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 11:46 PM
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Are there recent ones? Say, from 5 years to now?
/r/MensRights27/07/22 10:49 PM
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I haven't, because I was lucky to be raised in a non racist home, with two parents who monitored the music I listened to, and educated me on the evils of generalization and discrimination. And if we justify fresh hateful content just because older generations did it, then we aren't any better than them.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 07:25 PM
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Absolutely. They are the ones spewing hate and building a strawman, just to say their strawman hates them.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 06:52 PM
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She might have realized that she fucked up by letting her bias show so openly and is trying to dodge the consequences of her bigoted actions.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 08:34 AM
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Sadly, there is no protection as far as I am aware. The main issue with an accidental pregnancy and keeping it for a woman in porn is that she will be blackballed by not only that studio but by most of the industry. They usually depend on day after pills, spermicide lube and vasectomies(After freezing sperm if they think they eventually would like to become fathers). But as far as real or legal protection goes, you are going in raw.
/r/MensRights27/07/22 03:24 AM
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Can you see how using incel as an insult is hate speech? I read the article and actually think those features are a good thing, but the article doesn't have much to do with men's rights, especially if the features are available for both men and women. Still, using incel as an insult is about as low brow as asking a woman if she is on the rag just because she is upset. And if you can't see how they are the same, I would gladly explain it to you. Edit: Fixed some grammar.
/r/MensRights22/07/22 09:37 AM
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Of course. Woman attacks woman? Blame the nearest man. First of all start by giving a proper definition of what the patriarchy is, instead of using it as a default strawman. And of course, if the child of a single woman commits violence, it is his fault and never the mother who raised him. See the double standard you are proposing yet. The crux of the issue is men being held accountable for anything they do, and women being infantilised, by never being held accountable for their actions, they al…
/r/MensRights22/07/22 12:55 AM
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I see it as interesting biological information, and 100% unacceptable. The critical population threshold is about 500 humans. We are almost 80 billion, so I see it as merely an exercise on critical thinking and on why it is immoral and disgusting to expect that from either gender, but I also see your point. It should never be the goal and anyone using that as an argument for oppression of either gender can go deep throat a cactus. It is irrelevant who popularized an idea, we use lots of medical …
/r/MensRights18/07/22 10:40 PM
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Begone, troll
/r/MensRights18/07/22 02:40 PM
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That is a great point you raise. And you are right, one should be wary, hence why I mentioned the KAM shirt on my post. As for the look, I have seen misandry from women who you wouldn't expect it from by just looks, job or marital status, while there are also cases where you can see it coming from a mile away.
/r/MensRights18/07/22 02:02 PM
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Hate comes in all sizes and colors. Sure, some misandrists share certain looks, but that is certainly no license for generalization, unless they are wearing a KAM shirt or something.
/r/MensRights18/07/22 12:00 PM
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We as a civilized society draw lines on what is acceptable and what is not, despite what biology and instincts say. While men are biologically more expendable, women are also more expendable as well in another sense, let me explain. In small populations, the main goal is to reach stable numbers and the safety of a village, and in order to do so, taking into account none of the medical care or the social advances of the last thousand years, women start reproducing as soon as they reach puberty, a…
/r/MensRights17/07/22 08:55 PM
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Not trying to be cynical but if she didn't, she will now. That is the default defense in pretty much all cases of infanticide or violence from women against anyone.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 11:12 PM
3

Got a source on that one?
/r/MensRights14/07/22 04:22 PM
8

And men get raped, even child raped and still forced to pay child support for the kid if their rapist gets pregnant. While we can agree that both situations are extremely fucked up and should be corrected, you only see news and public outrage about one of them. RvW situation is awful, but you still got to admit that as stated by the first poster on this thread, women in most countries still have a fuckton more rights and benefits than men.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 03:23 PM
2

At least the report button works when they use such language. Banned.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 05:15 AM
15

So, Was she having hallucinations or was she trying to make Mr. X stay away? Gods, she changes her story so often, sucks that she was given just two years, and that the offended party had so much troubles with access to his own child. She can come up with all the excuses and change her story as many times as she wants to, but point is she is fucking evil. Glad she is behind bars and got served with a restraining order.
/r/MensRights12/07/22 03:47 AM
3

I wonder if he actually assaulted her or if she just claimed he did, as there is no information on assault charges or an investigation against him. Still, good on them to actually charge her for trying to destroy his life with child rape charges.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 05:02 AM
72

Have you ever heard of coercion? Switch the genders and read it again if you still don't see how severely fucked up that situation is.
/r/MensRights11/07/22 04:30 AM
1

With how men are perpetually bombarded with "men bad" articles from all fronts all the time, seeing cases like this one, regardless of the victim's gender, serves as a reminder of a reality that mainstream media works way too hard to hide. Women can be perpetrators, predators and sex pests as well. Seeing this cases not being ridiculed give men the confidence to step forward either with accusations or to at least open up about their own abuse and start healing. For far too long men of all ages h…
/r/MensRights04/07/22 10:17 AM
1

How is this related to men's rights? Dude is just trying to get a rise out of people and being transphobic. If you have nothing good to say, and you are just giving an angry rant about something that doesn't affect you or concern you, you are invited to go away. Post reported as it is in no way linked with men's rights. If you want a pat in the back for supporting this person, this sub is the wrong place to do it.
/r/MensRights01/07/22 10:42 PM
3

A quick Google search did https://www.cnbc.com/2022/05/09/tesla-covers-travel-costs-for-healthcare-including-reportedly-abortions.html
/r/MensRights25/06/22 02:20 AM
6

Travel and lodging includes several types of travel, you know.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 02:07 AM
40

Honestly, I do see it as sexist, but it is not as if men could have an abortion, and accompanying your SO to have one is nice, but not really necessary. While I agree that they are most likely virtue signaling, and they are inherently sexist in their lack of support for men in any of the many areas where we are being pushed down, I see their sexism in the inaction toward the protection of men, however there are far greater evils than covering some expenses for women getting abortions.
/r/MensRights25/06/22 12:13 AM
12

Good first step, recognition of the fact that women can be the abusers. But do all that while having a Y chromosome and you will get far more than she got, jail for three years four months.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 02:16 PM
8

While I don't agree with your hostility, all the points you make are good and your logic is sound. Thanks for having the balls to speak up about that bullshit smear campaign trying to blame us for all the shit OP could come up with.
/r/MensRights24/06/22 06:53 AM
14

I think they are an atrocity, a huge moral and social faux pas. Exposing someone like that is barely short from pulling down their trousers themselves. I can see how they could be used for a scripted prank video, but actually springing that on someone in public is truly fucked up and sociopathic at the very least.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 06:15 AM
2

Yeah, they ask as if they wanted to know, but then tangle you in rethoric. Wonder if the mods would consider banning them. At least the troll raises the interaction within the posts, which I believe might be good for visibility.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 02:26 AM
2

Yeah, tried to educate them myself a little while ago, turns out they are just trying to get a rise out of people. Always the same questions, their level of rethoric is uncanny and their memory apparently gets deleted every few hours. Plus, when backed into a corner with facts, they just look for a distraction or stop responding altogether.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 02:15 AM
10

This troll is a time waster, this person comes to threads like this all the time and makes the same claims, don't know why they haven't been banned. If in doubt, check their post history. Disingenuous as fuck.
/r/MensRights23/06/22 02:05 AM
1

Because that has worked out every time. Humans are social animals and without a force keeping order, we would fall into chaos, power struggles, horrible abuses and even more carnage. Any person who grew up in a lawless territory knows that. In most cases, even a corrupt policeforce is better than none at all, by knowing they are corrupt and knowing the rules of the game, you can try to keep yourself somewhat safe. In pure unruled chaos you get hitmen, drugs, gangs, crimes and extreme violence. I…
/r/MensRights22/06/22 04:38 PM
2

Gods, This troll again? Get a hobbie, and bring your disingenuous discussion somewhere else.
/r/MensRights22/06/22 05:05 AM
5

With that note, then I would not say as far as being misandrist and actually seeking harm towards men, but really throwing us under the bis whenever a woman is involved. Hell, sometimes even if women aren't involved, by knowing the differences in how they do welfare checks for each gender, it is clear they play favourites.
/r/MensRights21/06/22 10:29 PM
6

Laws and policies are skewed in favor of women in many cases, but as a man who has been protected by the police a few times, I don't fully blame them. Lots of policemen and policewomen are just trying to help anybody who needs their help. However, beware of generalization, we don't want or need to fall in the dichotomy a lot of feminists use, we got to remember that the police force is made of people, people with their own morals, opinions and biases. And certainly, there must be some misoginist…
/r/MensRights21/06/22 08:42 PM
2

Drinking, I agree in most cases but depression, that is a tough one. Depression is a horrible pit that sometimes has a cause, sometimes it does not, and how difficult it is to get proper mental health is a societal issue that most often helps the feedback loop, making said depression even worse, especially for men, who have a shit-ton less resources on the mental health, and hell on the whole health front.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 03:47 PM
2

And just a slap on the wrist over defamation and mental anguish. So glad that men are protected by the patriarchy /s
/r/MensRights18/06/22 12:20 AM
44

Poor Johnny. A trial is exhausting, expensive and awful, but I really wish he would go for it. For the benefit of all men everywhere.
/r/MensRights16/06/22 04:23 AM
13

I wonder if I am the only one who is bothered by this articles always having "Mother" as one of the first words in the title. It is not an accomplishment, she is a female rapist. Or they can just describe her as "UK woman", like they do with men. Don't know if they are trying to generate pity and kinship by portraying that rapist as a mother, but at least for me, it just adds to how sick it makes me. Knowing that she raped and gave drugs to someone else's kid, and yet she has a kid of her own, w…
/r/MensRights15/06/22 06:14 PM
15

I got incredibly lucky. I got sick one day(I was a very sickly child) and since the principal's office couldn't get a hold of my mother to pick me up, one of my teachers called my dad, even though she was aware of the divorce proceedings, yet she had spoken at length with my dad in the past, as he was the one who would usually show up for Parent-teacher meetings and whenever I got sick. The teacher talked to my dad in private and to this day I don't know what they talked about, but he was at my …
/r/MensRights14/06/22 09:08 PM
3

Know what? You are right. And if the Heard - Depp case taught us anything, it is how easy pictures can be tampered with. Back in my day, it was fairly easy to tell when a picture had been modified, but times certainly change.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 01:21 PM
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I wonder if the trial information will me made public. With such strong evidence as audio and pictures, he damn well better have proof of consensual non-consent to clear his name. And even then I doubt his career will fully recover any time soon, which would be incredibly unfair if he is innocent and the claim was done to hurt him and his career.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 12:30 PM
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That is just horrendous, and I am sad to say, experience has taught me to expect it to get worse. I hope you get to see your kids again before she and her family brainwash them against you. This is incredibly common and as someone who was lied into hating my dad after the divorce by my mother and her family, it is hard for a kid to recover from that and figure out they are being manipulated and used as a pawn. Good luck to you, brother.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 12:20 PM
5

Those are some big words there, Are you sure you are not a man /s But seriously, thank you for such great insight, what you say makes a lot of sense, and of course, the hive mind aims to quell the voices who dare to deviate from the group think. And creating a classification just to put people in it down, instead of being themselves and lifting themselves up that way is just wrong and hateful. Thank you for raising your voice for what is right, you are truly fantastic.
/r/MensRights14/06/22 04:44 AM
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Because of course it is the UK, and of course, only for misogyny. Because we all know deep down, misandry is a myth we created to circlejerk and get upvotes in this sub. /s For real, I wish we could get good news regarding men's rights from the UK for once.
/r/MensRights11/06/22 03:26 AM
2

That is very true. At least in my country, we used to finish the marches at the parliament and protest that might or might not have including some egg throwing there due to the lack of protection and inclusion in regards to a lot of important topics(Gay rights, discrimination, legal rights, conjugal visits, gay marriage and such). Now that those issues have been addressed in my country, the entire march has changed, we start it from the parliament offices, as a representation of the fact that we…
/r/MensRights07/06/22 06:40 PM
2

The original message is that we are willing to fight for our rights, and beat the fuck out of people abusing and oppressing us. Public sex and nudity, kink and that kind of stuff should not be a public thing, for straights or anyone else in my opinion. I don't see how a little sanitization can dilute the original stonewall riots message.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 05:05 PM
2

Wow, that is bizarre. Sure, I am part of the alphabet soup gang, but I personally don't think public kink displays and nudity belong in the pride parade. I think the event should be somewhat sanitized to make it less unbecoming and also make it easier to accept for the masses. Then it would be a family safe venue. Seeing same gendered people hold hands, kiss and carry a few political messages should be the core of it, not just displaying obscene stuff, do that behind closed doors. Hell, on this …
/r/MensRights07/06/22 04:33 PM
6

Why the devil are people downvoting you? Guess they aren't even finishing the first paragraph. You are right and it is sickening, how the media tries to manipulate people into thinking it was a crime of passion, when it was premeditated and calculated AF.
/r/MensRights07/06/22 04:51 AM
1

This is incredibly true. She needs to face the consequences of her actions AND get the help she needs. Otherwise, no matter how many times she is caught red handed and forced to face the music, she will always perceive herself as a victim of an oppressive system rigged against her, which would lead her to continue acting out.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 05:10 AM
2

Her behavior actually matches that diagnosis incredibly well, for a person who was never helped deal with her emotions and mental health issues in a constructive way. One of my cousins has BPD, and the change on her behavior and attitude towards everything and everyone was drastic, after she finally got the professional help she actually needed and a couple of years of therapy, instead of the homeopathy and prayers her mom was feeding her.
/r/MensRights03/06/22 05:07 AM
3

Some people are incredibly good at masking the signs, and not showing their true colors until you are already cohabitating or otherwise trapped with them. Plus, a lot of that mentality is victim blaming. I agree and upvoted your main post because it not only shows a reality a lot of people are not willing to address, but also includes accountability for the abusers. However asking people to just magically discern the good ones vs the bad ones is hopeful at best. True, a lot of guys ignore the re…
/r/MensRights03/06/22 05:03 AM
10

Fuck those people, you have people here man. Their lack of empathy and understanding is astonishing, sucks that you are going through all that. You are not half of a man, you are fucking brave bro, and she does not deserve a person as awesome as you in her life. She is not entitled to your stuff, your house or you looking out for her and her happiness. Let her somebody else's problem. If those assholes managed to make you feel guilt, retell yourself your story with the genders switched. You are …
/r/MensRights19/05/22 11:11 AM
2

In the US, none that I am aware of, but that is relatively recent. Right to adopt for gay people was approved on 2016. However in the rest of the world, there are lots of countries where the situation is far from that. In a lot of countries, things as basic as a will can be challenged by the families because "They weren't married, they were just roommates", despite the only reason for the lack of marriage is gay marriage being illegal at said country.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 04:42 AM
2

Twins, taking advantage of an otherwise impaired person(Pretending to be the husband of an inebriated, medicated or drugged person), not only to them but it can be done to gain access to the party to be raped, by pretending to be the husband of an unconscious or in a coma person, and then proceeding to have intercourse.
/r/MensRights11/05/22 04:32 AM
7

Holy fuck, that is horrible. Don't give up, please don't give up. Fight back, that is both immoral and illegal, the whole of it. A lot of judges are just too fucking biased, and a lot of divorced moms just want to get a nice allowance to become SAHM.
/r/MensRights02/05/22 02:01 AM
1

1) Not on Ireland. 2) Death through death penalty is supposed to be quick and efficient, letting someone die alone, coughing up blood for days, that is not death, that is torture.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 11:20 PM
29

That is not relevant to the issue. Nobody should suffer like that, especially in a place where medical attention is a right. For the record, he was jailed for assault, but was allegedly trying to turn his life right, to the point of getting his food handling license and quite a few other courses completed while in prison.
/r/MensRights29/03/22 02:53 AM
28

Just more blanket statements treating men and women as institutions, and not as individuals. Collective guilt is a hell of a drug. Sexism has made it "acceptable" to say stuff like this, but reverse the roles and you get labeled as an incel, misogynistic POS. Neither gender is an institution, and how normalized that way of thinking is sucks. This is why we NEED the men's rights movement.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 07:27 PM
1

The main issue is not marital rape. It is is that this rape law, as most violence laws in India is gendered. Thus, making men who are victims of marital rape, indefensible.
/r/MensRights21/01/22 04:21 AM
35

Mostly, because of feminist indoctrination. There are a few valid reasons that rarely affect those complaining, such as the loss of continuous employment and potential professional development from it, and lack of thinking ahead until facing the consequences. Smart and moral enough people will discuss it beforehand though, one of my uncles is a lawyer and so is his wife. He had his own small firm, she was corporate before they decided to have a child. What did they do? My aunt took half a year a…
/r/MensRights17/01/22 05:23 AM
7

If you read the case, she stated the defendant had a birthmark on his leg, as a way to gain credibility. That was proven to be false upon inspection, when neither a birthmark or a scar proving a birthmark had been removed could be found.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 08:57 PM
121

Stealing, forging signatures at sperm banks, raping the guy while he is either unconscious or has diminished abilities due to drugs or alcohol, the list goes on and on.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 03:33 PM
113

I was unable to find an article, other than the legal transcript because just as expected, since it is a men's issue, it got no ink on any news outlet. And this is just one of several cases I found while researching. Be careful out there.
/r/MensRights16/01/22 03:28 PM
20

Reported as violent or repulsive content on YT. That stuff is both violent and repulsive.
/r/MensRights08/12/21 10:59 AM
3

I have, one of my exes threw hands at me, but I just twisted his arm, forced him to lay down in the bed and asked him to either discuss things with words, or leave and never come back. I never reported it because it was a one time thing, and I left him soon after.
/r/MensRights04/12/21 04:18 PM
12

There is also the lack of alternative contraceptive methods. Having a single option (the condom), which can rip, be tampered with or even fail under many circumstances, leaves men with no alternative prevention methods. There is a vasectomy, which is not only invasive, but can also fail, is very difficult to get a clearance for if you are under 30 and have no children, very hard if not impossible to reverse, and a bit expensive too. Spermicides has a very high failure rate https://www.uofmhealth…
/r/MensRights24/11/21 09:21 AM
17

It can be if discussed properly and with enough maturity.
/r/MensRights22/11/21 02:01 AM
9

Women does not equal feminists. OP is against generalization and blanket statements, which leads to people accepting collective responsibility as a valid ideology, when it isn't one. Thinking like that ends up creating a men vs women ideology, and then we would be doing the same thing as a lot of feminists, that treat men as a single entity, instead of countless unique individuals with their own perspectives and their own point of view. While it is true that feminism is to blame for a lot of men…
/r/MensRights09/11/21 05:33 PM
19

Depends on what you mean by traditional relationship. Man woman relationships? Sure, if they are straight. Relationships with toxic women mascarading their traits, abusers, or even going in with prenup? Unlikely. And pulling that "99% of mgtow" statistic out of thin air is a bogus blanket statement. Especially the part where you mention OP. You don't know that person, so gross generalization, Are you sure you are not a feminist or got a different hidden agenda? Edit: According to their profile a…
/r/MensRights23/10/21 07:23 PM
6

And by law, innocent till proven guilty. So by definition, he is legally innocent.
/r/MensRights19/10/21 10:12 PM
45

Thank you for not giving this sexist publication any ad revenue. This is a particularly en raging example of "Men excluded from college, women most affected".
/r/MensRights18/10/21 02:50 PM
35

Rats, only AU residents can sign. Upvoting and commenting for visibility anyway.
/r/MensRights18/10/21 06:23 AM
2

And fighting to keep it male only, would only give them ammunition to keep their discriminatory behavior. It is not like they would easily change anyway, but we can at least choose a bigger hill to "die on".
/r/MensRights16/10/21 03:17 PM
5

Personally, I don't fully support the idea. If a woman's voice range falls within a typical male vocal range, I don't see why not include her. In that case, it is not about being men or women, it is entirely about vocal range. For instance, this guy https://youtu.be/3vQHUvG75uo . He is a Soprano and if you ignore his accent and give him proper training, I wouldn't mind him singing with opera legends such as Beverly Sills. A male choir is focused on Tenor, Baritone and Bass voices. If a woman's v…
/r/MensRights16/10/21 01:56 AM
27

Those men should ABSOLUTELY be admitted. Radical Feminism is pushing against male spaces, while also pushing for women only spaces, and it is absolutely hipocritical and disgusting.
/r/MensRights16/10/21 12:04 AM
1

That is exactly my point. There shouldn't be any gendered spaces, and that road goes both ways. And creating or maintaining any gendered spaces makes us look hipocritical, by the simple virtue of saying "You don't allow women in X space, so we have no reason to allow men in there". A choir that only admits men for the sake of tradition, is as sexist as an university that only admits women. The big difference is that the university is literally denying higher education to people based on their ge…
/r/MensRights16/10/21 12:00 AM
1

There shouldn't be any gendered spaces for reasons other than biological reasons. Women only educational institutions are an abomination and discriminatory in nature, and so is a male only choir. We should either allow or forbid sexual discrimination, but by cherry picking, we are doing the same as rad fems do.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 11:24 PM
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I don't see anything inherently related to men's rights in that article. There are no quotas or forced inclusion mentioned. If those women are good enough singers and fit the required vocal range to be chorists, I don't see anything wrong with allowing them to participate.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 09:55 PM
13

I would advise against visiting that site, giving them ad revenue and views for giving that sexist person a platform.
/r/MensRights15/10/21 12:17 AM
15

Well, I believe we ladies have to DO something about this! Why should we care? Well, for starters, we should be good human beings who have compassion for all. OK, I am surprised. That was a really great article, and made a lot of great points. It takes courage for a female oriented magazine to publish something like this.
/r/MensRights12/10/21 03:56 AM
2

With how disturbingly easy it is to make or even buy sockpuppet accounts, it would work as a deterrent, but it would not keep us safe. And for someone as determined and clearly unwell as some people over there are, they would see it as a personal attack, and retaliate even harder. But of course, with Reddit being such a pro-misandry platform, fighting back isn't really a choice.
/r/MensRights04/08/21 10:57 AM
11

Because nuance takes a lot more work than blanket rules. Both males and females are capable of abuse of either sex, but it is easier to stamp a paper once than provide continuous guidance, and interviews to already adopted children.
/r/MensRights18/06/21 06:17 AM
19

Does it worry you? #MeToo. That is what I call a well delivered blow. And a well deserved one at that, what they were doing(And probably are still doing) is horrific and awful. Reporters should be neutral observers, and this disgusting display of malice, even planning when to release it for maximum damage. That is just cruel.
/r/MensRights22/05/21 09:50 AM
2

I truly don't understand why you are being downvoted for a valid point of view. I really don't understand the point of this whole post or the inflammatory title. It has nothing to do with men's rights at all.
/r/MensRights20/05/21 06:00 PM
6

I disagree with the person above you. A dating profile, if you are looking for LTR, or even someone aware enough not to pull the usual "I am a queen, I deserve a king" shit, is the perfect place for a filter like yours. You have my respects bro. And making eloquent points like you did is an incredible way to raise awareness to the issues we go through.
/r/MensRights18/05/21 10:17 PM
5

Comments? It would be a massive shitstorm for a few minutes, followed by a ban, post deleted and personal threats. If it even gets to stay up for long enough before the ban and post deletion, that is.
/r/MensRights09/05/21 03:20 PM
4

Thank you!
/r/MensRights20/04/21 11:22 PM
25

That is up to the offended party(His wife) to decide, not the public, the state and especially not you. I am not defending him for cheating, but if you want to legislate private affairs based on personal morals, soon enough you will have undone a lot of progress we as a society have made, and anything judged to be immoral by powerful people will become illegal again, and this can easily include gay marriage, interracial marriage and even the ability to say "No" on an arranged marriage.
/r/MensRights20/04/21 09:55 PM
7

Then we are on the same page, all waves have their flaws but third wave is just a vile vitriol about victimhood.
/r/MensRights19/04/21 01:02 AM
2

Not exactly. There are a lot of cases where women fight against sexism and either tolerance of it or lack of awareness without faulting all men, or in places where it is systematic. Practices such as FGM, forced marriage and honour killings are horrible and are specifically targeted at women, so it is an understandable fight. In most cases they don't fight for us men, they just fight to protect themselves, but it seems like you are intentionally ignoring the ones who actually have valid fights. …
/r/MensRights19/04/21 12:46 AM
5

Unrelated, but I just referenced this same paper on a college course, I am glad this topic is getting attention. Keep up the good work.
/r/MensRights14/04/21 05:39 AM
7

You do know that rape is a form of assault, so it is included in the same static, Right? We all know that women are far more likely to be sexually assaulted than men, and I am not saying it isn't a horrid and traumatic event, however if you consider how traumatic and often life ending violent acts against men are, perhaps you can empathise with the fact that rape is not the most horrible thing that can ever happen to someone. I have been sexually assaulted, and also have been beaten and robbed b…
/r/MensRights12/04/21 10:49 PM
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It is the same argument for NotAllMen. Lots of feminists are like that, yet OP states "women" as a single entity. Lots of self serving and power hungry women who just want to make bank are taking advantage of the movement, claiming to be speaking for all women when all they care about is themselves. However, they are(or at least were) a loud minority, giving the movement a bad name. Sadly they are growing in number as their radical views become more and more mainstream. My issue here is entirely…
/r/MensRights13/03/21 06:55 AM
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Good job with your strawman, it works just as well as the ones some women seek to pin the whole patriarchy, racism, sexism and oppression on everyone who identifies as male. You bigot.
/r/MensRights13/03/21 06:00 AM
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