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FundamentalsAelfredRex/r/seduction21/10/21 02:20 PM
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There's only one woman mentioned in the post. One. We have no clue how many other girls on campus are eyeing him up, do we? He doesn't have a clue, either. He's too busy being infatuated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:10 PM
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You seek a solution for what? That entitled men can't get what they want when they want it? That's what it all boils down to. "Why can't I get that hot girl right there right now? Why isn't she throwing herself at me? Why is she ignoring my advances? Why?!?!" Then some grifter comes along waving little "red pills" at the guy, telling him this is the only answer to his "problem", that it's not him that's the issue but women and society and a list of other scapegoats, and maybe in the process sell…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 01:05 PM
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You're trying to argue that legal contracts entitle you to the personal attention of individuals, which they have no legal obligation to provide. Stop projecting your narcissistic entitlement onto the rest of humanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:42 PM
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You actually think women get to pick any man they want? That they never get rejected?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 12:38 PM
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Boredom, mainly, but it's educational. Listening to other men be so shallow, jealous and entitled towards women teaches you how not to think or act. Gotta defend Love, ya know? It's better for the blood pressure than arguing politics, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:45 AM
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Maturity. Red pillers haven't grown up yet. Most are shallow entitled narcissists and refuse to grow out of an adolescent mindset due to the arrogance that comes with that narcissism. They refuse to self-reflect and blame women and society when "just lift, bro" doesn't make women drool over them. It's pretty damned childish to try to generalize all the nuances of life into a "pill".
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:34 AM
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You do understand that no man is entitled to the sexual attentions of any woman, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:28 AM
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Red Pill was always "incel light". Same whining about women, same misogyny, same obsession with looks, just a lower level of narcissistic entitlement, not as much jealous rage.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:25 AM
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He's so intelligent that he drools over one woman who doesn't want him while not looking for the women who do want him? That's not smart. And if you want a woman and think you should have her and the guy who is with her must be an asshole or worthless or some such degredation of his character, that's entitlement and signs of a jealous and spiteful personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:21 AM
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No, I'm not. Most people aren't. Entitlement is not mentally healthy. Usually the sign of a narcissist.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 11:00 AM
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It's noticeable that cold approachers only claim success late into the evening at clubs... when the women are the drunkest.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/22 10:56 AM
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Not because it's almost last call and she's so drunk she couldn't remember what happened the next day?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:46 PM
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I think they just like that he unapologetically beats women. They wanna do that so badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:45 PM
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"Everyone's entitled." There ya go, admitting you're entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:37 PM
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They're just looking for excuses to fail. Then they can blame it on someone else and play the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:34 PM
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"I demand women communicate with me the way I want them to!" Nah, no entitlement there, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:08 PM
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When you always seek out excuses to fail, what's that say about your personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 09:00 PM
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No, "interesting" doesn't do much. You can have climbed Everest or herded kangaroo, but if she's just listening to you blather on and on about your interesting life, she'll be looking for the nearest exit. The word you're looking for is "engaging", where you can hold an interesting conversation on any topic and she wants to participate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 07:04 PM
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They're not. Personality is. You can be the prettiest man on Earth but if the instant you start talking the women are like "Oh my god! Get away from me!", there you go. A pretty face isn't going to make up for a horrible personality. Marty Feldman, had thyroid issues that affected his eyes. Would never have made it as a male model, but women loved him. He was witty and charming. Had a personality that was fun to be around. I know a guy with cerebral palsy. He's gonna have trouble finding a woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 06:53 PM
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Because people who constantly dismiss the overwhelming importance of personality are the same ones always whining about how they can't get a date, how looks are everything, and refusing to admit that it's their red flag personalities that keep them from sexual/romantic success.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:20 PM
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But their egos have gots to have them high-fallootin' womens so they can brag to their friends. She's not a human bein', she's a fashion accessory.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:10 PM
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"shoot their shot".... here, have some tissues, clean up when you're done, don't get any on the carpet.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 05:01 PM
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Or it's all just made up bullshit by those young disgruntled men to cover up their own jealousies and insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 04:56 PM
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Yes, all those average women, dating average men. What is an average man to do? Do they teach logic in schools anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:42 AM
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There's some ego issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:34 AM
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Not really. If I get the gist correctly, it's basically "Why are you men so defeatist about life"?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:32 AM
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If the experiments and observations do not match the hypothesis, then the hypothesis is false. The Scientific Method. If such a thing were true, why is humanity mainly monogamous and not structured to have two partners for two different roles for every woman. Why are most men the father of the children that they are raising? What about recessive genes? Can a family history of diabetes or cancer be told from a man's height or shoulder width? Cherrypicking bad science to prove what? That she'll ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 11:30 AM
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"There are records, books, news articles, or television programs that document the abuses of the group/leader." https://culteducation.com/warningsigns.html When I worked help desk for a year, I spent my time between calls reading up on a lot the cults out there on that watchdog website. Even read a full book bio of L. Ron Hubbard. There's a stranger-than-fiction tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:52 AM
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That's one of the signs of a cult... when people are writing books and articles calling them a cult. When the term "male supremacist" is making its rounds in anti-terrorism circles, you know that it's a dangerous group.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:23 AM
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But it's NOT a hookup app. I had an account for a few month this year and almost all the women had "not looking for hookups" in their bios. It's only the men who seem to think every woman on there is just looking for ONS's.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:18 AM
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Yeah, but then the red/black pillers can't use that to claim victim status. All the "stats" they root around the net for and then shove in everyone's faces have that purpose in mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:14 AM
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But it's true. If your personality is a shut-in with social anxiety that never talks to women outside of a computer screen, always telling them you know everything about women (and it's all negative) just because you watched some "red pill" YouTube videos, you're not going to do well. Meanwhile, the guy who goes out into the wide world, positive and confident, receptive and observant, not putting off desperate and creepazoid vibes, smiling at the ladies and getting smiles back... he's not online…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 01:02 AM
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I'd think it would be the other way around. The desperate guy is the one most likely to be controlling, manipulative and psychologically, possible physically, abusive. Look at all the desperate guys online that go apeshit over a rejection or talk about how they have to dominate the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/22 12:54 AM
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Unlike men, women don't have a sets of organs that can be causing that issue: testicles, prostate, a series of ducts, etc. Frigidity in women does exist, but in men it can be signs of serious genitourinary tract problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 03:02 PM
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Beats starving in the streets or leeching off your parents.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:53 PM
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Some dirtbag who likes to beat up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:52 PM
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Having empathy does not mean putting up with whining. Whining is unattractive in both genders and in people in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:44 PM
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It's all toxic masculinity crap. Just ego wanking. But then that's all Red Pill is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:39 PM
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"She dated all those hot guys and then she chooses to live her life with you. You must be the loser!" No, you're the guy she thought was the hottest, the catch, the keeper, the best of the bunch. But nooo, that can't be true. They were all better. You're just the consolation prize. It's pretty pathetic the way redpillers go out of their way to sabotage themselves and then blame away their own insecurities and jealousies by trying to pin it on her. It doesn't even jibe with that hypergamy bullshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:36 PM
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The densest object in the universe is not a neutron star. Nor is it a quark star. It's the mind of an incel. Not even a single iota of logic can penetrate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 02:16 PM
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There's a lot of sexual wisdom in books. The Tao te Ching, The Naked Ape, The Art of War, many others, all hold profound insights into the human condition and therefore sexual relations.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:51 AM
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Good for Timmy. But I've never met him, he doesn't owe me money, and I wasn't invited to the wedding, so I don't care. I got my own life to take care of.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:42 AM
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"Toxic" masculinity = wife beaters. They aren't strong, just abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:37 AM
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Any man who thinks all of society will collapse solely based on the dryness of his dick is just incredibly self-centered and shows the world why women won't touch him with a 40' pole.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:34 AM
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"Pretty people have it so much better than meeeeee!" Keep telling yourself there is no envy in your thought processes. We'll keep pointing out the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:27 AM
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So they're misogynists who just hate women. There you go.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 11:25 AM
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That's not attraction, that's infatuation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:46 AM
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She should learn that anyone who says they're red-pilled is a massive red flag. Go to school and learn. Get a job and earn. Enjoy your youth and experience life. Stay far away from any man who wants to control you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:44 AM
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It's la dance d'amour, not a hit-on-and-run. Have some style. If you prefer to stay home alone, that's your own choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:37 AM
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You can change your personality and overcome your insecurities, though. Learning not to be so shallow and superficial and to realize that envy is a mind poison will probably do way more than any nose-job.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:27 AM
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Which requires superficially comparing yourself to others and therefore being envious of anyone you consider "better" than you and expecting those you feel "beneath" you to be envious of you. Two dimensional logic does not work in a multi-dimensional world.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:19 AM
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By living in terror of being compared to all her past lovers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/22 01:14 AM
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Again, ego issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:45 PM
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Yes, because you keep putting yourself "beneath" them. That's what envy is.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:44 PM
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And he proves me right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:11 PM
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Yeah, better to be jealous of her other lovers than enjoy the gift she's giving you... ego issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:06 PM
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Obsessing over how attractive other people are IS envy.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 09:05 PM
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They don't rate themselves very highly then. Again, ego issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:05 PM
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Because it's not about the sex to them. It's the status of having high body-counts to brag about to their friends. Got to factor egotism into it and then it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 05:00 PM
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Because we have three dimensional souls and don't live in abject envy of the people around us.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:57 PM
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Thing is, we have healthy egos. We're not terrified of her experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:54 PM
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I think, as narcissists, they envy the attention they think they could get if they were women. They'd immediately open an OnlyFans and be preening constantly for men's eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:45 PM
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All they do is sit in online echo chambers, regurgitating cult dogma over and over again with each other. The cult says most men can't be getting sex, because if they were, then that means the fault lies with them, not the world in general. That ruins their blame game.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 04:39 PM
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Like actually tell men that it's the immaturity, the desperation, the narcissism that they find unattractive? They do that all the time and the desperate immature narcissists refuse to listen.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:39 AM
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The truth is that they want to control women. An experienced woman is the least likely to be controlled, whereas the inexperienced is most likely to be. The whole concept of "grooming" works on that mindset. Their egos can't handle an equal relationship. They have to be "above" her in all ways. Plus you have to factor in the fragility of those egos. An experienced women is more likely to judge their performance on a realistic scale, whereas they think an inexperienced one would automatically rat…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:35 AM
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The word is "hypocrisy".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:27 AM
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When you look hard at red/blackpill complaints, it really isn't about the sex. It's about status. It's all about domination and control over women in order to satisfy jealous egos. Hence the obsession with n-counts, values, attractiveness ratings, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:26 AM
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Could you expect anything more from a two-dimensional philosophy like redpill? It's all looks and image, no substance. Pure narcissism wrapped up in pseudoscience and sophistry.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 11:11 AM
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I like that site. It really lays bare a lot of red/blackpill assumptions. Much bigger sample sizes than the GSS, too. I just wish they'd do another comprehensive sex survey like they did in 2002, instead of snippets here and there. https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/data/ad/ad362.pdf Funny watching all these guys try to discredit the results because it doesn't match their preconceived worldview. Women must be laying like porn stars while most men cry into their computer screens. Has to be. But turns out t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:54 AM
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Paying for porn isn't dating. Nowhere close. But this is really just another "Women is too uppity and we gots to somehow gets them back under control!" post. "Damn them mens who are giving them all that power!", am I right? A desperate need for domination and control over others.... narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/22 10:52 AM
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Women are only allowed to do what the men of the Red Pill cult want them to do... because narcissism is all about control.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:46 PM
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"from scientific readings".... all we need to hear.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:45 PM
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Look up the term "two dimensional".
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 03:45 PM
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Law of Opposites. If you understand the traits of the creeps in this world, know what the red flags look like, and where they come from in the psyche, then you can monitor your own thinking to avoid engaging in them. A kind of constant cognitive behavioural therapy to improve one's self-awareness and interactions with the world. I also got into studying up about the cults of this world. Read a bit on L Ron Hubbard and Scientology, some of the others. Incels are a cult. Red Pill is a cult. Andrew…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 01:03 PM
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Some. But being shallow is nothing to aspire to. Never has been. Yet Red Pill is incredibly shallow and not only unapologetic about it, but praises it and calls it "truth". It's a philosophy for children who are incapable of or refuse to graduate to three-dimensional thinking.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:47 PM
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Imagine thinking sex is the only way to enjoy being with a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:34 PM
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Why do people wear jewelry? Why do people wear T-shirts with sayings or pictures on them? Self-expression and "accessorizing" has existed since the cave days.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:22 PM
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They're not dating. They're sitting in here day after day telling themselves how awesome they are for being in their little ego-masturbation, woman-hater cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:19 PM
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"Be shallow, narcissistic, and disrespect women as people" has nothing to do with being successful. It's just assholery.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:17 PM
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No, it doesn't. It tells you you will never be as adequate as Chad. Never as perfect. And that women will always seek perfection and that's not you. It demands its adherents be shallow and narcissistic and bring nothing but red flags to the table. That's not self-improvement. That's abuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:12 PM
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It makes it's adherents think of everyone as percentages and not as people. Not healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:10 PM
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Narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:09 PM
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Because some of us have healthy egos and can enjoy being with the person inside the shell. Others are two-dimensional narcissists only looking for a human sex toy to wank their damaged egos with.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/22 12:08 PM
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It is true. This is just the most wrong place to look. Nuthin' but little woman-hating boys here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:35 PM
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Eh. I could care less about what angry little boys with fragile egos will think. Just having my morning coffee and watching the clueless being clueless.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:19 PM
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What? A woman with a solid foundation in life with the resources to have lots of fun experiences with? Yeah, that's just so horrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 12:05 PM
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Guys who throw temper tantrums when they get rejected. Guys who think women are just fleshlights on legs. Guys who get off on berating women at every opportunity. Guys who play the "I deserve pity sex" card constantly. Plenty of examples out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:54 AM
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What? The little boys have to grow up and take responsibility for their behaviour? Nah, way easier to hop on YouTube or Reddit and get their narcissism validated by other narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:48 AM
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Nah, don't listen to the comments. They're just bitter little boys who think they need a college co-ed to make themselves feel like a man. Plenty of good men out there. Not in here, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:44 AM
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Why use words when the eyes can say it far better?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:30 AM
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Speaking for myself, my masculinity is not threatened by her income.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 11:21 AM
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Since whining is unattractive for both genders, then to continue whining is only going to make the problem worse. "I'm a man. I deserve pussy. Waaaah!" No one wants to hear that, especially women. Just a massive red flag that he's immature as fuck and should be avoided at all costs.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:56 AM
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So obsession is the cure for obsession. Logic is just something other people do, isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:52 AM
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How is it transphobic to point out that Andrew Tate is a ho-beating pimp, an abuser, while Fresh and Fit's whole show is based on verbally abusing the women they bring on? Who are their fanboys? Men who get off on watching women being abused.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 10:51 AM
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They have built an entire career out of psychologically abusing women in front of a video camera so that wanna-be abusers can watch and cheer along as they do it. They are POS and so are their fans.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:44 AM
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Telling young men to continue obsessing over their dry dicks. Which is to continue being desperate and whiny. Not helping them. Telling them to redirect their minds onto other things, i.e., exercising self-control, becoming mentally stronger. THAT is self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:41 AM
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Cause it's clickbait. You expect depth from clickbait?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:25 AM
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Abusers never pick women who will fight back.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:21 AM
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You really think they would let a smart woman on their show? They pick weak women they can berate and belittle... aka, psychologically abuse. When a woman does go off on them, they threaten to get physical and throw her out. They're POS.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:20 AM
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Given that those men are just trying to play for pity as a means to get into their panties, why should women respect that kind of weaselly cretinism?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:16 AM
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Yeah, the sociopathy inherent in the philosophy is completely forgivable, especially when you consider that the movement's past and present gurus all seem to be abusive towards women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:13 AM
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Desperation isn't attractive in either gender. Neither is whining. So constantly complaining about how you need to have sex or your world will end isn't going to seal the deal. In fact, it's gonna drive the punters away. Exercise some self-control over your lusts. Don't try to dump them onto other people with a "pity my dry dickness" play. Cause that's not sexy at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:10 AM
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You have to remember that the guys who think that there even is an Alpha/Beta game going on are sociopaths incapable of any kind of Love other than narcissistic Self-Love. According to them, no woman can love because they only want looks, bodies, money, and status, which is merely a projection of the narcissists' own wants and desires onto women. They can't fathom anyone, especially themselves, actually caring about another human being. Hell, they don't even like women. They just want to use the…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 02:03 AM
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And in the three dimensional world, it still all comes to compatible personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:51 AM
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No, sex is important to women. They just don't want to give it up to entitled cretinous creeps who whine constantly about how dry their dicks are and only want to use them for ego validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:50 AM
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Oh, c'mon. You know that all that matters in the universe is that the man gets his rocks off with a woman. It's just mind-numbingly horrible when some horny desperate man goes without for another night. The foundations of society, nay, life itself, is destabilized because some poor suffering innocent somewhere has a dry dick. What must we men do to make you women understand? Can't you realize how our entitlement to your bodies is a matter of life and death? /an S so big you can see it from space
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:47 AM
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Better to be called cute than creep or cretin. "protect and provide"? In case you haven't noticed, women can protect and provide for themselves and have been able to do so since the days when we made fire with a stick. They're not helpless invalids. And do you really think women only have two modes? Either cold as ice or horny as hell?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 01:34 AM
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It's a three dimensional concept that two dimensional beings can't fathom.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:15 PM
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Do you ever go outside? See all those working class couples out there? MOST people will never make six figures. MOST people are getting together. Use. Your. Head.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 12:10 PM
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No, most guys do "have that ability".... it's the shallow narcissistic ones that can't accept their partners for their best and accept the rest of them for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:25 AM
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No, they don't owe you anything. If you're complaining about it, then you think they do. There's the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:22 AM
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Neither, if their personalities are shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:19 AM
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Because all women care about is money... because they're all racists !!!! What kind of shallow misogynistic crap-science clickbait can we find next to prove women are evil?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 11:17 AM
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Given the crap personalities of the "single lonely men" that is evidenced all the time on the Net... the guys who send dick pics, who throw tantrums at any woman who rejects him, who only uses OLD, thinks women only exist for his sex pleasure and ego validation, who joins misogynistic online cults, who thinks all of society must change just so he can get his dick wet, who idolize abusers, who are shallower than a Kardashian, more immature than a 3 year old... It's all their own damned fault. Wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 02:37 AM
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So she left you because of your grief... yet you only conveniently mention that when you get called out on blaming ALL women for being unempathetic. I think you're lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:40 AM
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You sure seem to be kissing his woman-beating ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:35 AM
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You mean they'd have to acknowledge their weak, immature, shallow, narcissistic, misogynistic and/or downright toxic personalities might actually be the problem? Never!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/22 01:34 AM
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No one. Who made you idolize a dirtbag like Tate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:03 PM
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Do you want to be with a partner who's always negative and chocked so full of insecurities that you feel like you're walking on eggshells whenever you're around them? Gee, wonder why she left. Take some blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 08:01 PM
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Funny how personality is completely absent from these calculations. Well, that's not true. It does show a particular type of personality, but not a deep one.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:51 PM
4

Give up, man. All you'll get back is "It's not true. It's all looks. I'm too short. I'm not pretty enough." All defeatism wrapped in shallowness. Which is totally personality, but they'll never admit that because it destroys their list of lame excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:48 PM
1

Can't imagine a short guy being self-assured and confident, can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:32 PM
1

"Love bombing"... always a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:30 PM
2

Nah, what's really sad is all the jerks who idolize Tate and think he's a god for being such a total asshole towards women.... because they really want to beat, abuse and exploit women, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 07:09 PM
1

Everyone does. It's called "consciousness".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:59 PM
2

Start a non-profit and sell rich people moral salvation from their greed? Been done a million times over. In Medieval days, they called that the Catholic Church.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:52 PM
2

And 3.. 2.. damn, they've jumped the starters gun and are already headed for the first post. Must be their awesome social skills in action.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:40 PM
3

Being "emotionally available" means empathy, understanding, a willingness to communicate, not a neurotic manipulative man-baby crying all the time that she's about to leave him for Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:38 PM
0

Nah, we all know they want immature meatheads who throw tantrums whenever she won't do kinky stuff and toss massive amounts of jealousy at her because they're terrified that she's always thinking of her ex's instead of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:36 PM
1

Comparing lipstick to lounge lizards?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/22 06:23 PM
1

I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:08 PM
2

No, being bothered by complete strangers having sex lives and turning it into some moronic "pill" religion is.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 07:07 PM
1

Ask their egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:58 PM
-2

Mature men understand that beauty is subjective, that women don't stay young forever, that faces and body types aren't the only criteria, that you have to suppress your own egos a bit if you want a successful relationship, that not "all women are like that"... and on and on and on. Oh, the big one. Assigning idiotic "pills" to everything is feckin' stupid.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 04:56 PM
2

Or they're saying "Christ, can his ego get any bigger? I really hope he doesn't come to the Christmas party. What a boor."
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:43 AM
1

So basically the same old "if you don't get ego validation, it's not worth going to work" crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:42 AM
4

Fearmonger? Yeah. An incel was just arrested for plotting a spree murder at a New York ag festival. Nothing to fear from that quarter, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:39 AM
5

And giving her the respect of trusting her not to cross the line doesn't matter.... just what the man wants. Possessiveness, jealousy, trust issues.... not the signs of a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:35 AM
6

She won't be in that relationship for long. Jealousy kills relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:33 AM
5

Dude, this is Generalization Central. If they see a guy painted green with a superhot cosplay chick, they'll all start touting how painting yourself green makes you a man. Not the brightest bulbs.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:32 AM
2

Trust issues, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:30 AM
2

Maturity. They grew up and now know what they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:27 AM
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Immaturity. Too many 20-something young men that still think like 14-year old middle schoolers. The women are growing up and moving on while the little boys refuse to budge an inch on that road to mental adulthood.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/22 11:25 AM
1

It has nothing to do with it. It still all comes down to personality. You can be a rich idiot who's terrified of women or a working class idiot who's terrified of women. It's the being terrified of women that's the problem, not the bank accounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:41 PM
4

His sexual satisfaction is all that matters, right? She could be the most compatible personality he's ever met, true love, soul mates, but if she won't do that thing with the cucumber and the wet celery, he's outta there! You have no clue how egotistical that looks, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:22 PM
1

That is purely on an individual basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 09:18 PM
6

And of course it's her fault for not giving in to the sexual demands of the man of the moment, because all that matters is his sexual gratification and he can emotionally blackmail her with her past in order to get what he wants, which legally borders on psychological abuse and rape. Too many men approaching sex with a rapist's mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 06:19 PM
9

Those "average" people aren't shallow gymrats with the personality of a piece of cardboard obsessed with BMIs and "Red Pill" dating strategies. They're actually living their lives, not desperately trying to find the magic key to open an Instagram model's legs on Tinder just so they can brag to their lifting bros about it later.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:13 PM
5

Oh, she loves him more because she's with you now? You keep tripping over your jealousies, dude. Too busy worrying about getting that ego bruised to ever trust and enjoy a lover. Too busy comparing yourself to other men to ever have a future with someone. Trust is the cornerstone of relationships and jealousy is the relationship-killer. You don't want Love. You want ego validation. Your partners won't enjoy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 04:04 PM
4

So it's you just being jealous of him while refusing to enjoy her in the moment. My point stands. Ego validation is no substitute for Love.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 02:28 PM
0

How do you think you cure anxiety? By piling more on and refusing to change?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:24 PM
1

"It's over!" is only heard from drama kings who want to elicit undue sympathy from the crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:22 PM
4

Who cares? You're with her at that moment. What she did in the past with someone else is irrelevant.... unless you're the pathologically jealous type who has to judge yourself against every past partner she may have had, in which case you got serious issues and I feel sorry for her. Trying to justify personal jealousy issues is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:16 PM
2

The only problem is people who bitch about their own problems and try to generalize them onto everyone else. The solution is for them to stop their bitching and work out their own issues without trying to drag everyone down with them. And we know they ain't gonna do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:07 PM
2

Everyone tends to have a higher income over time. More work experience leads to higher paying positions. It has nothing to do with sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/22 12:02 PM
2

Only men terrified of women whine about "modern dating". They seek excuses to avoid facing their insecurities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:37 PM
10

Google the word "prude".
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:34 PM
14

Yes, teaching children how babies are made and how to avoid STDs really ruined sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:24 PM
8

And that's saying somethin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:22 PM
6

It's you that's terrified of women. The sooner you admit that, the better off you'll be. Then you can address the truth and overcome those fears.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 09:19 PM
1

Because of the children. Remember them? Those little people that are produced from sex? The ones that benefit the most from a strong and stable two parent home?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:53 PM
1

4 billion women on this planet and you're starving at the buffet? You're the one putting women on the pedestal and out of your reach. You're the one telling yourself they'll never want you. It's not "modern dating". It's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 06:49 PM
1

They probably did but he was too naive to notice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:15 PM
1

Incels are misogynistic woman-haters. You can't love women while, at the same time, screaming at the world because they won't give you sex on demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:04 PM
9

Just more proof that the Red Pill scene makes crap up.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 03:19 PM
3

So they're fascists for not giving you sex on demand... yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/22 10:19 AM
28

An internet pimp with a cult following who's facing felony charges for human trafficking. He likes to make videos of himself wanking his sociopathic ego and other wankers eat his shtick up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:46 PM
5

And once upon a time other people were the most searched and then were not any longer... "Flash in the pan" is the phrase.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:40 PM
6

If it quacks like a duck, it ain't an emu.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 10:35 PM
9

Eugenics and Darwinism? Thought that stuff died out with the Nazis.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:14 PM
7

Just shows there's more than enough misgynistic douchebags out there to keep those grifters in the money. Nothing to aspire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/22 09:12 PM
1

Pegging is when she puts on her strap-on and tells you to bend over.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:42 PM
1

They're drunk. They intentionally get those women drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:34 PM
2

Honestly, these "average men"... little boys, really... are just terrified of women, so they have to theorize and come up with all kinds of bollocks to shield their egos from the truth....that women scare the living shit outta them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:27 PM
2

Given that a man and a woman had to get into a relationship just for those guys to exist, it can't be that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:20 PM
1

If it works here, it must work elsewhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:07 PM
1

When I look at the "Manosphere", all I see are immature narcissistic men pissed off that they can't control women and that no one is giving them sex on demand. Let's not forget the crimes attributed to Manosphere members. If you voluntarily belong to a misogynistic movement that is inspiring spree killings, you may want to question the company you keep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 01:05 PM
4

So you just proved that "they hate most women". That was predictable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:49 PM
0

It works... if you're not terrified of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:42 PM
2

4 billion women on this planet and you're starving at the buffet?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 12:22 PM
22

Hmm, the women don't have conmen "gurus" telling them what to think? That tells ya somethin'.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 09:00 PM
22

Let's look at the components of the Manosphere: MGTOWs. Angry divorcees pissed they have to pay child support for their own kids. Incels. Psychopaths demanding the world give them women to rape or they'll shoot up a school. NiceGuys. Men who fly off into rages whenever they get rejected for a date. RedPillers. Constantly berating single moms, fat women and any man who isn't a gymrat. MRAs. Persistently bitching about men's rights but doing nothing but bitching. PUAs. Conmen trying to manipulate …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:42 PM
1

That's because it's nothing but PUA bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:26 PM
2

It's not a fine line. It's a chasm. If you are confident, you just are. If you're trying to fake it, that's insecurity on display.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 12:00 PM
6

Because the "wall" is a made up concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 11:34 AM
3

It lies between the Neutral Zone and the Red Zone. Take a left of the Forbidden Zone and then a right at the Twilight Zone. When you come across a place full of guys wandering about in tears, whining that she only dates jerks, and that NiceGuys always finish last while making devils shiver for some obscure reason, you're there.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 08:30 PM
12

PUA manipulation crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:54 PM
5

No, it's not. Variation is required for successful evolution. If all women were only attracted to one type of man, we'd all look the same. And that cuts down genetic variation, which reduces adaptability, which increases chances of extinction. One of the reasons humans are so successful and adaptable is our predisposition towards variety.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 05:52 PM
1

You kill him, then call the police. The chances are that he will kill you and your wife afterwards so you haven't got time to wait for the police to arrive. You end him as fast as possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:42 AM
1

"supposed to be yours".... smell that entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:27 AM
1

Cultism. Only the cult has the truth. All others are out to destroy the cult. They're uncomfortable with individualism. The herd mentality offers security and comfort.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 11:21 AM
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Nerdy is mainstream now. It's D&D night for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:25 PM
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That's right! I will never settle... for anyone other than that Instagram model... who lives 2000 miles away... and is married... with two kids... that I will never meet and has no idea that I even exist... but I will never settle!!! See how dumb the concept of "never settle" sounds in application?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 08:02 PM
17

If you're constantly looking around for threats to your woman, that's not masculinity, that's paranoia.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 07:51 PM
1

Nope. He's in the $20s an hour range. I make more than him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 05:27 PM
1

Paranthropus died out because it could not adapt to the environmental changes at the beginning of the Ice Age. Australopithecus could. It was NOT a competition between the two species. The Giant Panda is dying out because it is very poorly adapted to its environment, not because it's in competition with other giant pandas. Someone flunked biology.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:38 PM
7

You got to remember what his target audience is... assholes. They see him openly being an asshole, openly misogynistic, openly shallow, openly manipulative, openly abusive, and they feel validated. He's their hero. He's "making it" being an asshole. They wanna be just like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 03:30 PM
11

Cult leaders are manipulative sociopaths who prey on the insecurities of their followers by offering them the "only truth path" to fulfill those insecurities. Twat tells gullible idiotic young men that he has the answer to their adolescent fantasies of owning a harem of hotties and they jump on it like flies to shit. What they don't get is that the women are paid to be there. Like that Trash and Twit duo. Same game. Without money, they'd just be abusive assholes preying on drunk women in some ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:25 PM
1

No, evolution is adaptation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:07 PM
1

Only for the envious. Life's a ride, with ups, downs, curves, and you never know when the end is. And way too short of a ride to be always worrying what everyone else has.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 12:07 PM
3

It's narcissism. All these gender/identity cults are at their core. Loads of envy, lots of arrogance, tons of magical thinking. All the plots and plans are exploitative. Always whining they're not getting the sexual attention they think they're entitled to. Just ticks off the narcissism boxes one by one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:36 AM
5

There's a huge difference between knowing women will want you and trying to manipulate them with that knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/22 11:09 AM
10

Wow. You mean personality actually matters? Impossible!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:24 PM
1

They're way more lenient on car loans. My friend is a truck driver and he got a brand new Platinum. He's not rolling in money. He's in debt.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 11:17 PM
1

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bHlbryOTgYM All you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:31 PM
1

What? That the average woman is dating the average man and 8 billion human beings are proof of that? There's a real world out there beyond the screen. Go visit it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 08:26 PM
1

Which is why they're dating the majority of the guys.... Logic. Try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:47 PM
1

They don't own those trucks. The banks do. When you see "Affluence" what you're really looking at is "Debt". Those guys don't have money. They give their paychecks straight to the credit companies.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:44 PM
1

Welcome to the PUA world, where insecure and lost men will pay thousands of dollars to snake-oil dating coaches to confuse and con them out of even more money. You'll get way more success out of a single Aerosmith album.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 05:20 PM
1

Confidence is knowing you can get the job done, or at least make a good effort to get the job done, and you learn that by trying to do the job and gaining experience and wisdom from those efforts.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:53 PM
1

Knowing you have the skills to sit on and control a large animal like that is a definite plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/22 04:43 PM
2

Number one on the list... "They won't give me sex on demand! They're so mean!!!"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:43 PM
0

All those women are dating someone. All those marriages. Not all to one guy. Is logic a lost art or do they just try really hard not to think?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:38 PM
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Then you step outside and all these insane theories crumble to dust.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 06:32 PM
1

And you guys wonder why you don't do well with the ladies. It's like your personalities seek out reasons to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/22 11:35 AM
1

The personality that obsesses about their height versus the personality that doesn't even care.... which one do you think has the edge?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 10:32 PM
0

And lifestyle has little to do with personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:13 PM
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The women didn't desexualize him. He did that to himself. They probably suspected he was gay.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:11 PM
-3

Because they need to blame something other than their personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 04:07 PM
1

Depends on expectations. I've dabbled in the porn biz before, hired a few models and tried to sell vid clips, but never made a profit. If I had the right full-time model to work with, I'd probably use OnlyFans as a possible revenue source, but not the only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:36 PM
2

The people at the top would have an operation running, with paid employees, assistants, photographers, publicists, etc. That's not self-employment, that's small business.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/22 12:16 PM
1

Food, housing, clothing, vacations, toys. Plenty of reasons to work.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 09:15 PM
2

So they were coming on to you but you somehow blew it. Let me guess... went 180 degrees from prey to predator and knocked them off their track by coming on too strong. When women come on to you, you don't pounce, you bait. They are the hunter and you are the prey. That's their game. You play along. Just entice them into getting more aggressive. All it takes is a smile and a knowing look. Dogs chase the cats and the cats chase the rats. Let the cats have their fun before you let them catch you. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:46 PM
1

No, everyone has. Do you think those bodies had no personalities in them?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:59 PM
1

Think of it from the woman's perspective. Some random guy comes up outta nowhere and starts hitting on her, putting her on the spot and making her feel very uncomfortable. Do you really think that's gonna work? Even the PUAs will admit to very high failure rates with that strategy. They claim it's "game" but it's sheer luck to come across a woman that desperate or deranged to make a date with a complete stranger. Think of it also in a broader perspective. The "cold approacher" is just like the p…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:57 PM
1

Because that's exactly what the PUAs tell them to do. "Hello, compliment, ask for contact info", then leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 12:00 PM
1

Watch the rest of that movie. Her character has bad experiences with sex: her first time is very unromantic and disappointing, gets pregnant to another guy, has an abortion the father wimps out on taking responsibility for... otherwise fun flick with great music. Now all they give us is comic books in movie form. Can't imagine Thor tackling teenage pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 11:56 AM
2

A scumbag and slimeball who doxxed women and posted their nudes without their permission, even hacking their accounts to steal photos, all for his own profits... other than that, the guy's a total douchebag.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:43 AM
2

Peterson destroyed himself. He gobbled up that instant fame and fortune the same way he gobbled up them benzos. You could almost literally see the man's ego expanding on screen. Preaching to too many fools and sycophants made him think he was the smartest man around. And it still amazes me that, as a psychologist, he never recognized the essential narcissism underlying the entire identity cult culture. Too busy looking for Jungian archetypes, I guess. As for Tate, he's what the misogynists want …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:20 AM
15

Yeah... the Amway of Assholery.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:03 AM
12

He's paying people to promote him.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/22 01:01 AM
0

I knew a guy with Aspergers and ptosis of the eyelid. His wife cuts my hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:19 PM
8

Let's take something that doesn't exist and make it go away... when it's not there to begin with. Meanwhile the number of "red pilled men" who can't get a date to save their souls continues to whine to the world that they are the superior beings... something else that wasn't there to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:07 PM
0

The mainstream... which ignores or dismisses the Ice Age and blames mankind of the warming. Frauds. Current minor warm period began around 1700, Mankind didn't industrialize until 1850s, so 150 years of warming without them evil fossil fuels in play. So it can't be man's fault. Hottest year on record? 703 AD according to Greenland ice cores. 2C hotter than today. World didn't flood, world didn't end. Contrary to all current predictions and prophecies of doom. Scientific Method. If observations p…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 03:00 PM
2

Because they have the sexual intelligence of a potted plant.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:48 AM
1

Shallow men complaining about shallow women? Look up the word "hypocrisy".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:47 AM
0

No, they're cyclical and based on the orbital eccentricity and axial obliquity cycles. That's why they keep repeating. The EPICA Dome ice core studies from Antarctica prove that. Skeptical Science is run by a fraud.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 10:37 AM
2

I'd move to Europe and buy a brothel.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/22 01:10 AM
1

Really? Or just the biggest egos?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 08:56 PM
0

Interglacials follow the upper arc of axial obliquity. Obliquity peaked 9000 years ago. We'll be halfway between peak and trough in about 2000 years. Gonna get cold.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:17 PM
2

Because our egos are not fragile and our personalities not shallow that we absolutely must be seen with a younger woman in order to feel like a success in life? Falling for someone your own maturity level is what's supposed to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:05 PM
0

"Ugly" is subjective, so there is no argument to be made. Perhaps the question should be "the main reason shallow men fail is because they go for women looking for substance in a partner, not a hollow shell".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 12:01 PM
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The truth? The whiners hope women will give in to their pity game and give them some. What they refuse to acknowledge is that they are whining and it is one of the worst personality traits anyone can have, man or woman. Very unattractive and manipulative behaviour. A total red flag. So they're trapped in a Catch-22. Whining they can't get some guarantees they can't get some, so they whine they can't get some which guarantees... an endless loop they refuse to break out of. All they got to do is s…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 11:55 AM
2

Given that NEETs are mainly leeching off their parents and MGTOWs are usually jerk dads just whining they have to pay child support... they're not fighting much of anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 05:40 PM
0

The Quaternary Ice Age began 2.6 million years ago and is still going on. Long 70ky-120ky periods of cold with short 15ky-20ky warm periods in between. The current warm period is ending. Look it up. It's reality. It doesn't make for good clickbait or a panic that can be exploited, but it is reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 02:52 PM
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Identity cults, especially these new modern bratty middle-class ones like the Manosphere, are built on narcissism. Selfish immature young adults using a supposed victim status to browbeat others into submission, which is the narcissistic trait of "exploitation". Another of the main traits of narcissism is "magical thinking". This is where Chad was born. The fantasy that if a man possesses certain traits he can just step outside and all women will immediately offer him meaningless sex. It also of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:27 PM
0

The surplus in Japanese women is mainly in ages over 60. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Demographics\_of\_Japan#/media/File:Japan\_Population\_Pyramid.svg
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 12:02 PM
4

Whiny selfish incel types were always out there. The Net just allows them to gather together and whine even louder.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:58 AM
1

Well, in 2000 years we'll be well into the beginning of the next glaciation and we'll be facing a radical change in climate where the winters will be longer and colder and growing seasons shorter and less productive, so famine is probably going to be the biggest threat to humanity, not "hot girls only want rich Chads!" "Humanity will die out because I can't get a date! What will we do???"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:54 AM
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Do you really want to be an asshole? People don't like assholes. That's why they're called assholes. Women who marry assholes tend to be assholes themselves. Contrary to what Jordan Peterson says, hypergamy doesn't exist. He spouts shit, therefore he's an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/22 11:47 AM
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If they act shocked that you don't know some lame pop singer, then they're more conformist than you are. Why would you feel inferior to people like that? They're slaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:53 PM
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Jut because you can't love doesn't mean the rest of the world can't. Stop projecting your issues onto the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:38 PM
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I know it's big in England, too. It's a type of identity cult. Herd animals in need of a herd to belong to.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:32 PM
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Why do you have to know the main musicians? That's just conformity to pop media.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:29 PM
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Depth is way more important than Shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:26 PM
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But there's that 5% that do. Those are the ones you need to keep your eyes open for. One out of every twenty? You should be seeing a lot of eyes upon you at those odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:19 PM
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And those women in college are still raging with the hormones of the tail-end of puberty and surrounded by young men. You don't think they're looking at all the boys around them and thinking sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 01:11 PM
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You just need to improve your sexual intelligence. That's usually the problem. Take a passive approach, let them seek you out. Look for the ones that are eyeing you up. Step across the line from being a man who wants to be a wanted man. It's a totally different world on this side.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:59 PM
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Unfortunately, yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:18 PM
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The key point there is "go out". We're talking about men who think the entire sexual world revolves around Tinder swipes. Their sexual/social intelligence consists entirely of a mass of assumptions built from clickbait studies and YouTube grifter videos. Their bodies are sitting in a college classroom or corporate cubicle while their heads are still stuck in middle-school and their eyes refuse to leave the screen. Unfortunately, their idea of "improvement" is still stuck within that "the rich ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 12:14 PM
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"Settle" is just a term adolescent-minded men use to complain about not being able to date that Instagram model they've been fapping to (who lives a thousand miles away and has never met them) so they have to "settle" for that cute woman at work who's actually in to them but is doing nothing to stroke their fragile immature egos. Ego fragility is the core of the Manosphere, so it has to be factored into everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/22 11:38 AM
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Which is why I pointed out that they use "magical thinking".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:20 PM
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The base problem here is that you equate sociopathic creeps with "average men". Average man are not having a problem, only the sociopathic creeps, and that's purely because they are sociopathic creeps, not because of the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:09 PM
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This is the difference between Pride and Vanity. Pride exists on its own. Vanity requires the praise of others. If that praise is denied, Vanity rages. Therefore Vanity is dependent and weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 06:00 PM
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It is projection. 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:32 PM
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One of the traits of narcissism is called "magical thinking". That's where they build a fantasy that if they own the fancy car or wear the designer clothes or have the prefect body shape, people will worship them like gods. I've heard women say that the gym guys are some of the worst when it comes to rejection. They put in all that effort to fulfill that Charles Atlas fantasy scenario in their heads and when she turns them down, they fly into "narcissistic rage" because the fantasy collapses and…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 01:19 PM
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It all boils down to attitude. Guys who know that there are women out there who will want them versus guys who refuse to accept that fact. Even if only 1 out of every 100 women will find you attractive, that's still 40 million women. That's like the entire population of California. Imagine all those women in one place looking at you and thinking "Ooo, he's cute." So all ya got to do is get outside and look around and see who's looking at you, cause it's guaranteed that some will. Every man carri…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:57 PM
2

But he said he's a Nigerian prince. Why would he lie?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:31 PM
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He's a conman. The only people that fall for him are the gullible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:29 PM
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So men should band together and demand women sleep with us.... they call those "incels".
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:09 PM
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He has to be someone she likes. And since that is a subjective variable, it's completely down to the individual in question.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 12:06 PM
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Women are all cold calculating reptiles who consider all possible factors to improve their wealth and status whenever they encounter a man. So sayeth the Manosphere. Or they're just humans who make mistakes, or get bored in a boring relationship, or have neuroses that make them more promiscuous, or....
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:59 AM
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No, that's just immature men trying to justify their own inability to control their libidos.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:56 AM
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What I find funny is that they see their evo-psych concepts as immutable, which flies entirely in the face of evolution itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 11:53 AM
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Conformists love convention.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 09:40 PM
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I really feel like screaming "Stop generalizing everyone! Individuality exists!"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:13 PM
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Sounds like some men don't have minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:11 PM
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It's a cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 06:09 PM
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And Love is nowhere to be found.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:11 PM
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Yes. Shallow. Very. Incredibly. Like beyond People magazine/award show runway commentator shallow. Does it every occur to you that people date people because they actually like them, not because they're playing some sociopathic superiority-inferiority game?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:09 PM
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Wow. What an offer. No woman can refuse that, can they? He'll only want her for desperation sex and thinks she'll only want him for money. We'll have to add "self-respect" to the list of lost concepts, right under "love".
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:05 PM
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Tate's a sociopath and a conman. The only person he can love is himself. Unfortunately, there's a lot of them about these days. Don't listen to anything they say. They are totally full of shit. Love is what it always was... two souls coming together to make a life with each other. It's not about money, not about looks, but all about compatibility. The more compatible, the stronger the bond. It's just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 02:02 PM
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Loads of lean, college educated average men. Average is just that... average. Just another sheep in the herd. Conformity.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:53 PM
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Intelligence is a positive trait just to have as a human being. Beats being a dumb-ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/22 01:40 PM
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I did. I'm currently sitting on the front veranda of an old mansion admiring the view as they get things together for tomorrow's wedding. I'm literally looking across counties right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 06:00 PM
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Yeah, how dare they think that they need to know the guy has good intentions before she lets him in her body with the distinct possibility of making her pregnant. Them stuck up, uppity women. Don't they know they should be grateful that us superior male specimens even deign to look in their "average" direction?!? /Sad I got to add this, but with the sorry state of the male egos about, it's necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 12:01 PM
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Love is a lost concept in the land where 80/20, "sexual market values" and "n-counts" are taken seriously. If you can't love women, how can you ever expect them to love you? Not a question they're equipped to answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:56 AM
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They already are riddled with that insecurity. Hell, they've made it a central dogma in their cult religion.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:49 AM
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Out there, in reality, beyond the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:40 AM
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The media has never been objective. Look at Hearst and the "yellow journalism" of the late 1800s. Even in the colonial period, the printers were often attached to one faction or another. The history of newspapers worldwide... always a bias somewhere. Caveat emptor is not taught in the USA. It hurts sales.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:39 AM
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Ego conflicts. It can all be traced to that. Think of the mental place where possessiveness or inattentiveness comes from. Where cheating really begins or fights over money. It's all in the egos involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:28 AM
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My nephew is one of the smartest, most well adjusted teenagers I've ever met and his parents were late 30's when he was born.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:16 AM
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Life is what you make of it. Guys who never go outside, only interact with women through a screen, and spend all their mental energy complaining that life isn't handing them everything on a silver platter aren't gonna succeed. That's just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:14 AM
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Yup. Think about it. You just left puberty. You might even still be in school. And you have no idea where you're gonna end up. Everything is uncertainty at that point in life. Hit your 50's and you got a wife, a mortgage, and a steady job to keep you and yours off the street. You know exactly where you are and what's ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:10 AM
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What? You mean we actually have to talk to them? Can't we just text them, even when we're in bed together?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 11:03 AM
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They're clueless. They wouldn't be bitching that they have "to put on a show" if they weren't. That just shows they go into the date with the attitude that she's gonna just reject him anyway and that defeatism is gonna colour their every movement and utterance. Self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:55 AM
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Go outside and actually meet women. Works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:45 AM
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"another man's kids".... but not hers, apparently. You know, the woman you supposedly love enough to live with.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/22 10:38 AM
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Yep, I had to fight other men every day for the last 14 years just to keep my woman happy.... Reality, it's out there, somewhere, once you turn off the screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:46 PM
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But they are entitled. And that's why they have a problem socializing with women. They don't see them as people, just sex toys and ego accessories. It's narcissism. That's why it's all about who gets more matches on Tinder or followers on Instagram. It's all about wanking egos online, not actually connecting with a real human in real life. The psychology behind all the whining is just so blatant.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:42 PM
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Of course you won't learn a damned thing from fictional explorations of people, personalities, and psychologies communicating and interacting within various situations. Nothing at all. Just go watch another Marvel movie and drool over Scarlett Averagohanson because they told you to. Doritos for the mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:18 PM
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My advice? Grow up. Stop thinking like a 14-year old boy. Sex isn't everything and she's a human being, too. You will only complain about it because you feel entitled to it. Those who don't aren't complaining. It's called "logic".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:07 PM
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Ya know, you actually have to talk to real women out there in the real world in order to have real sex and real relationships. Competing with hypothetical men for hypothetical women purely online is insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 03:26 PM
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Chad is up there with the Rake and Slenderman.... just teenaged copypasta that refuses to go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:38 AM
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Relationships are better sex, plus you get the companionship as well. This mythical male desire to bed every woman in sight is just an adolescent fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:37 AM
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A gentleman doesn't kiss and tell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:33 AM
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With other shitty people. Not something to aspire to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:27 AM
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That's why they invented Chad. He's their adolescent fantasy life and their excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:24 AM
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I left virginity with a hooker, too. It was awkward and not very memorable, but it's usually like that. She had an awesome body, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:21 AM
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Most have narcissistic personality disorders, hence the insane levels of entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:17 AM
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No, it's almost 100% immaturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:16 AM
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Yet the "dad bod" is in right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:14 AM
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Those "pills" are based on unrealistic expectations, that ageless adolescent wet dream of instant meaningless sex with women of your choice. The key word being "adolescent".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:13 AM
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Nah, it's like reading books written in crayon.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:07 AM
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Do you even see women as people... or just as marks to be conned and exploited?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:05 AM
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Connections come from the heart, not from a game of "who's more popular online". Do you know why the "Daddy" thing is so in right now? Because young women are looking at the young men and realizing they refuse to stop being 14 year old boys, so are looking at the older men and seeing what men their own age won't offer.... maturity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:04 AM
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No, that is exactly why. Egotistical = entitled. Therefore they complain when they don't get what they want.... like a child does. Immaturity is unattractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:59 AM
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Things that aren't attractive.... being desperate and whiny. If you read, you'd know that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 09:57 AM
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You're not looking to date, you're looking for "followers". Ego tripping. Not a solid foundation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:12 PM
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The "coaches" and PUAs are con men. They don't know any "secrets". All they do is confuse and obfuscate to make themselves sound like they do. You go out, you dig on the ladies, and you see who digs you back. There. For free. No secret. Just common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 11:01 PM
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Yes, I do. I recommend they feed their heads with more than junk food and con artists. Smart guys are sexy. Just ask Jim Morrison.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 10:47 PM
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Chad and Stacy from Oklahoma will pack up the family homestead on the back of his Ford F150 and head out to California to pick grapes in Napa Valley when their YouTube business fails.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:36 PM
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Some "nice guy" mad that women aren't texting him back and trying to justify the abuse he lays on them for not doing so by projecting his own narcissism onto those women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:24 PM
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The way they make it out is that we have to restructure society completely, just so they can get their dicks wet. Talk about entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:21 PM
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No one's gonna just hand it to you, no matter how much you whine. In fact, whining just pushes it further away.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 03:10 PM
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Whenever some guy says "I'm just playing. This isn't the real me.".... he's lying.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:46 PM
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There's entire libraries full of books out there. Books with characters of all types in all kinds of situations. Books about real people, their flaws and fascinations. Books about events, places, and possibilities. Books that expand the mind and feed the soul. Or you could read a "self-help" book written by a conman who wants to keep you insecure and scared and coming back for his next book. Currently reading HG Welles "The Bulpington of Blup". Strange title, but it's an interesting character st…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:44 PM
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Just another Manosphere grifter cult leader conning morons out of their money and minds.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:23 PM
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There is no problem. What we got are bitchy young men expecting to be handed a woman just for breathing and being exploited by a bunch of PUA conmen who are teaching them to hate women as people and see them only as ego accessories. Then they whine and wonder why women aren't flocking to them. A surplus of idiots.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/22 01:13 PM
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Brasil has 300 "women's police stations", staffed by women police, to protect women from men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 09:00 PM
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It's simple. They're incredibly immature and shallow men who only want a string of hot sex dolls on their arms to wank their fragile egos. Any relationship with them would be him dominant, her doormat, and he'd dump her the instant he met someone he thought would raise his standing among the herd.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:12 PM
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Get a woman who can protect herself, because you can't be hovering over her 24/7 in fear some guy might attack her. To do that would actually be creepy and paranoid behaviour. Tate's a wanker. It's all about his fragile ego and even more fragile masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 04:08 PM
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It is in how you carry yourself. That's how confidence works. You can stick an insecure man in an Armani suit and he'll still carry himself like an insecure man. A confident man will attract even if wearing rags.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:24 PM
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They don't care if they pleasure a woman. She's never mattered to begin with, because women only exist to stroke the male ego. The entire Manopshere is based on that. They're not seeking sex, they're seeking to be wanted for sex and only by women that they think they can exploit for ego masturbation purposes. It all comes down to the egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:21 PM
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Enough phonies in the churches already.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 12:00 PM
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Right. They're attracted to guys who kick dogs and set fire to the elderly.... Do people ever use their heads anymore?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/22 11:50 AM
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About a third.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:09 PM
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Yes. You should. If you're incapacitated, they're the ones to get asked about it first.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 07:06 PM
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Here's the problem with all that.... most of a relationship is spent NOT having sex. Even if you did it for one hour every day, there's still 23 more to fill up. You'll both spend 8 hours sleeping, but that still leaves 15 hours for other activities. That time is where the relationship lives or dies, not that brief period spent in the bedroom. I know it's hard for the middle-school minds to grasp that adults don't spend all their time humping like rabbits when they get together, but that's how r…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 06:16 PM
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I married her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:52 AM
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Unfortunately, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:52 AM
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Great idea.... telling a room full of confused, insecure teens all messed up by puberty that some are less value than other simply because of what they look like. Marketing has already got them doing that to each other, and you want classes to reinforce that self-hatred? Can you people get any more shallower? This sub keeps hitting some serious levels so far, so can it get any worse?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:51 AM
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It's nothing but middle-school logic in here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:46 AM
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What do you expect shallow men like that to say? Go read a book? Work on your garden? Try writing a novel? "Just lift, bro" is all they got. Sign of a weak mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 11:25 AM
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"Hi, I'm going to project my shallow subjective preferences on to the rest of humanity and claim it's purely biological and applies to all."
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:30 PM
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Average = not looking average, just being average. He walks average, talks average, thinks average, does all the average things. And the average women is perfectly fine with that, because she's average, too.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:23 PM
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This is where the difference between confidence and insecurity comes in. If you adapt to going bald and own it, you're confident. If you panic and immediately start looking up hair loss solutions, you're insecure. So thank you for telling young men to be insecure. So helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 05:05 PM
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Don't you guys love how we're always reduced to an uncontrollable penis? Usually by other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:41 PM
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Two words... "arm candy". These guys don't want a woman to love, they want a woman to be seen with. She must be an accessory for their fragile egos. Hence all their obsessions with attractiveness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:26 PM
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Yes, we should enforce arbitrary subjective attractiveness ratings onto women in an attempt to shame them into submission in a hierarchical system controlled by very shallow men.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:17 PM
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Ah, that old "get revenge on women for not giving us sex on demand by replacing them with technology" fantasy. Lame. Try "warming the heart of the coldest tsundere" daydream. Much more fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:14 PM
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No, it's always been subjective, but some people have to refuse that fact or they would have to face their own personality flaws instead of blaming their social lives on their looks. It's a poor workman who blames his tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 12:06 PM
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They're all narcissism at their core.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 05:34 PM
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Yup. So better we sit about bitching how hard life is than getting out there to live it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:49 AM
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What? Positive mental attitude actually works? Personality over looks? Impossible!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:47 AM
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You should make an e-book out of that. Guaranteed some PUA idiots will buy it and try it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:44 AM
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It's all in the way she does it. If she tilts her head to the side, exposing her neck or if her eyes widen and her hand automatically goes up to her hair, usually positive signs. Or she could just have a loose strand that's annoying her and she brushes it behind her ear. It's all in the overall energy she's giving off.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:43 AM
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I've known single moms these guys would drool over. It all comes down to narcissists unable to deal with the fact they won't be her sole focus of attention and won't put them first above her children.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:35 AM
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A "bad boy" is just a guy who flaunts some rules, not all of them. Don't have to be a thug or serial killer to be one. Plenty of compassionate "bad boys" out there. You'll find a lot more sociopathy among the "nice guys", hiding behind a veneer of respectability.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:28 AM
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A narcissist would.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:23 AM
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Should just post a link to a picture of a manikin because obviously on this sub nothing other than the outside appearance matters. You don't date the person within, just her body, right? Warm, adventurous, positive, mature, intelligent, a bit freaky... that's the energy that I would date. The shell doesn't matter that much, though I do like a big pair.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:22 AM
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Unlike the personality that rates women solely on their looks? That's a great personality, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:05 AM
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Don't lose hope. Just keep your eyes open for the red flags, one of which is any guy who claims to be "red pilled". He will refuse to commit and will just try to manipulate you. Caveat emptor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:00 AM
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Elitist. Narcissistic. Shallow. All crap personality traits. Kind of person people don't like to be around, no matter how hot he thinks he is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 10:58 AM
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AF/BB = just pissed he didn't get to be her first. That whole virginity hang-up, ya know. Terrified of being compared to her past lovers. Chad never commits. He just pumps and dumps all night long. You're not Chad. You can't be since you weren't her first. Only Chad gets to go first. She'll never love you. Chad didn't want her. You only get Chad's rejects. She only wants your money until she can get a Chad again. You'll never be good enough to be Chad. You'll never get to be first. Self-improvem…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:55 AM
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Oh, so they're not allowed to choose? They have to be manipulated to do your bidding?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:43 AM
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I'm a guy. Real observant there. You'd think a male name and a male pfp would make that clear.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:42 AM
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"Oh, hi, I'm here to patronize and look down on you. I think you're ugly and probably really desperate for a date so why don't you let me use you for a quick release and then dump you right afterwards. Really, I'll be doing you a favour since you're so unattractive."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:23 AM
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An equal level of maturity and life expectations as compared to widely differing ages.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:15 AM
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How To Be Called An Asshole 101
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:12 AM
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Quite a lot of ugly, poor men out there with girlfriends, wives and families. They're doing just fine. Lots of them. Go out into the real world, you see them everywhere. They're the majority! Meanwhile, in Red Pill Land, where the shallow gather to obsess over their looks, and money, and status, everyone is bitching about not getting a date precisely because they don't have a personality beyond shallow bitchiness. Why in the world should we be dumb enough to think the losers have all the answers…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 01:10 AM
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Well, for one thing, a man doesn't spend his days whining that he can't get a date, or pissing and moaning about bollocks like hypergamy or AF/BB idiocy. He doesn't spend his time listening to YouTube conmen telling him to hate women and act like a jerk towards them and believing that somehow that's going to make them magically want to jump in bed with him. He doesn't make long drawn out ramblings about how modern dating is screwed up because he can't get porn sex with every hot girl he sees. He…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:57 AM
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Give it time.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:45 AM
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Oh, so you intimidate and browbeat a woman.... yeah, a recipe for sheer assholery.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 12:43 AM
2

Narcissistic personality disorders in the Manosphere? Get outta here with ya. No way. It attracts NPD types like flies to a corpse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:32 PM
2

They'll be 70 years old and whining from the nursing home that they still can't get a date on Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:20 PM
1

The religion of America is "America".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 07:05 PM
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Oh, pretty simple. Way too many little boys who refuse to grow up and become men. They'd rather whine that the world isn't giving them a woman as a prize for breathing and blame women for their own immaturity. A surplus of brats.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:46 PM
2

A relationship is a friendship. Your spouse is your best friend. If you think it's just sex and sitting about staring at how pretty each other is, you ain't got a clue.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:20 PM
1

Wow, people grow old, fat and end up on medication before they die? Welcome to reality, kid. You think this show is gonna last forever?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:16 PM
3

For guys that would be lucky to just get one woman willing to lay with them, being desperate for many is pretty dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:12 PM
3

But Red Pill turns that into "treat her like dirt and cheat on her at every opportunity" because she would if she could. Black or red, it's still just misogynistic narcissism projecting hatred onto women. Then they cry they can't get the girl... Gee, we wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 05:58 PM
2

Every cult has to offer salvation to get the fools to join, but once inside there's no exit, just exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:27 PM
1

Says a lot about the poor performance of most men, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:15 PM
1

She's trying to stay on the edge and enjoy the experience longer? Learn to pace yourself and switch it up. May want to get a vibrator to assist you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:09 PM
2

I think his style is mainly to get the interviewed to open up and do all the talking. It's a good strategy. If he was too confrontational, he be just like the mainstream media and get as few listeners as they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:55 AM
1

Confidence means he knows he can get the job done or will give it one helluva try. Compare that to the insecure man who just tells himself "I can't!" over and over again. Which one would you choose?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:50 AM
9

Right. You have no agency. You only do as the "rules" dictate. Even if those rules only exist in your own head. We need to bring back the concept of "the will". Seems to have gotten lost in all the marketing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:45 AM
5

Yet here we are, listening to the Red Pillers complain about women and the dating scene non-stop. They don't sound like they're winning the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:22 AM
3

Red Pill is not made to succeed. It's made to look down upon women, to denigrate them and project the insecurities of the cult members upon them. How are you supposed to form a strong loving bond with women if that's the "answer"? Relationships require trust. Red Pill says to never trust. It fails at such simple concepts, because it's core belief is anti-feminist misogyny, not self-improvement.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 11:21 AM
7

But you don't. So you keep popping more red pills and still it gets further and further away.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 01:56 AM
30

Ever notice it's the guys who are in the Red Pill cult that constantly complain about dating the most? That should tell you it doesn't work. If it did, they wouldn't be bitching. But it seems to make things worse. Yet they cling to it like the cult that it is. But then again, according to the Red Pill, you will always fail. You will never be good enough. There will always been someone better. There will always have been someone better. She can never love you. You're just not good enough. Never g…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:18 AM
2

What is "Status"? Money, fame? Does that make someone better than others? We all end up dead, so it doesn't really matter, does it?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 09:30 PM
3

Cause there's no mention of one.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:41 PM
1

Only in troops. We don't do troops anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:18 PM
5

So a make-believe TV show is mirrored by a make-believe self-improvement cult? Yeah, I can buy that.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:15 PM
7

I notice that a woman isn't included in your plans.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:06 PM
-1

But Red Pillers just hate the idea of committing to any woman, so they figure out ways to disparage marriage and women in the same breath.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 08:04 PM
4

I'd date a porn star so none of that matters to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:56 PM
5

And then she actually talks to you... and finds nothing inside. All you got to do is smile at the ladies. You don't have to build some giant construct to get their attention. We're not a species of bird.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:52 PM
0

Ya know, you can always just go outside and see people face-to-face. That option has always been available and is where it ends up anyway, so cut out the middle-man.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:39 AM
1

Sure they are. They love that disaster porn clickbait. They eat it up like candy to get that false moral superiority buzz from it. Then they can wag their fingers at the industries that give us today's modern civilization while benefiting from them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:35 AM
1

Because there's piles of dirt smarter than they.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:26 AM
3

We did it in person. We went outside a lot. We went places. We interacted face to face. That's why this generation is so screwed up. They think all interaction occurs on a screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:25 AM
1

But it's not self improvement. No matter what you do, she will always want someone better. You can never be good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 02:13 AM
1

"game people" = scam them. A cult leader who tells you to manipulate people. Why not? He does. It's a cult and you're in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:30 PM
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So the state is the problem you can't get any attention from the ladies... I'm surprised none of them have blamed continental drift or cosmic rays yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:31 PM
2

No, they turn to the Red Pill because they're idiots who believe anything some guy on YouTube tells them. Can't run a con on smart people who see through the bullshit. Got to look for the gullible fools. That's where they're making their money. From the Warning Signs of a Cult: "Followers feel they can never be "good enough"." The Red Pill preaches that there will always be someone better than you and she will always be comparing you to him. Get out of the cult while you can.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:21 PM
1

So he hits on every woman in sight until he finds one too drunk to stand who says "Yes"? Not very impressive, to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:48 PM
0

Those guys are just so full of assumptions that they wouldn't notice signs of interest even if she was beating him over the head with the signpost. Most women are not gonna run up and grab a man, understandably because they're nervous, too, but they will try to send subtle signs to let him know. It's their way to get the conversation started. Just gotta be receptive to the signals.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:45 PM
1

But given that humans are natural and therefore all they do is also natural.... There is no such thing as artificial.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:05 PM
1

What? There's more poor people than rich? The poor are having more babies than the rich? When did this start happening?!?! Bit classist, isn't it? But then the UK has always had a snobbery problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 12:03 PM
2

Go to bathroom, look down... there's a penis! Masculinity confirmed. No need to affirm it because it doesn't go away.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:55 AM
2

Oh, they do, do they? Or they just say that they do... they're conmen. They lie for a living.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 11:42 AM
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One could say that they are not looking for an advantage with women, but an advantage over women. That makes a huge difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:44 PM
5

Nah, they're just pissed they ain't getting porn sex like they dream their imaginary Chads are. They make up that bollocks to cover over their own inability to love and commit and project it onto women. We're not dealing with logical minds here. There's a lot of pathological jealousy in play.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:37 PM
3

You don't need a pill to smile at women. This stuff takes the simple and complicates it. It has to, otherwise the "red pill" reveals itself to be empty air. "Those who know that they are profound strive for clarity. Those who would like to seem profound to the crowd strive for obscurity."... Nietzsche
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:31 PM
2

Pot's an aphrodisiac.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:22 PM
7

Roadied for a glam metal band in the 80's. Pre-AIDS. Our parties were insane. Our road manager had this knack for finding the kinkiest women at gigs. None of the bands I worked with afterwards were like that, but the AIDS scare was on and people got real picky. That's why I gotta laugh at these "You gotta be Chad!" idiots. The high school "Chads" I knew all went off to college like good little boys while I was hanging with the rockers at the height of the 80's band scene. We were poor, grew our …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 10:17 PM
2

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=M18ktTn-O30
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:45 PM
8

Tying self-improvement to misogyny and pathological jealousy of other men completely defeats the purpose.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:35 PM
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The truth? It's narcissistic masculine ego masturbation. It's all about their egos. Look at their gurus. Egomaniacs who get their kicks belittling women and conning insecure men out of money. They all look like coke dealers. They're slimy people. Jerks, creeps, and assholes. Conmen and manipulators. Sociopaths. But they have the "Red Pill", so they know everything and are better than everyone else, especially women and the men who can actually love them. No one can tell them otherwise. Wanking t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:27 PM
2

If someone is aroused, they know that they are aroused. They don't need to break out a spreadsheet and figure it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 09:04 PM
0

You've never gotten hit on by cheerleaders, have you? It's fun when they chase you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:58 PM
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Yeah, violent misogynists are totally the Chad! Red flags from the Red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:56 PM
-1

And this is the shallow negativity that keeps you complaining that women aren't interested in you. Just got back from taking the dog for a walk at our favorite spot, collecting smiles from all the moms and wives as we walked past. PMA works wonders.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 08:47 PM
1

Those types don't win as often as you think. Lot of women can see right through them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:44 AM
2

Free to choose by being made to have more girl children than boy children just to satisfy the men of the society? That's not freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:42 AM
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Yes, being positive and friendly is the wrong way to go! You must be negative and nervous and stare at the floor when you're around women. That'll make them want to talk to you! The point is that making endless screeds about "how hard men struggle" is not changing the fact that it's the man's negative attitude towards life that holds him down.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:41 AM
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An engineered society with no free will, people assigned at birth to Greek letter statuses, considered the height of impoliteness to turn down offers of sex, a shallow empty dystopia with no purpose other than to consume.... You don't see that in your own human engineering plan there?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:36 AM
1

Beta bux does say that. Stop trying to lie away your misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 11:33 AM
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Being that I'm a guy, you'll get a friendly wave or a nod of recognition and that's about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:23 AM
1

That's almost three times my mortgage. Get out of the city and get yourself some property.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 02:22 AM
1

Am I the only one in here that's read Huxley's Brave New World?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:57 AM
2

Yes, because nothing matters more than a man's ego. And they wonder why women avoid them.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:54 AM
22

Why can't you just smile at women like normal guys? Why does it have to be a massive strategic calculation?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:53 AM
1

Here's a box of tissues. Remember to throw them away when you're done.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:49 AM
6

Because they want you to fail and come crawling back to them for more useless advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:41 AM
1

You're renting for that much? That's five months mortgage payments for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:40 AM
0

If their heads are firmly wedged up the Manosphere, hell yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:37 AM
2

The sad part is that, given this place, I can't tell whether you're being serious or sarcastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/22 01:35 AM
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Lest we forget.... Forcing women to sleep with men they don't want to sleep with is called rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:52 PM
0

Uh huh, yeah, right, sure. Believe you. You gonna clean up that pile? It's really stinking up the place.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:37 PM
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If I was a prosecutor in a trial, I'd just stay quiet and let you guys keep incriminating yourselves into the conviction.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:24 PM
-1

It's called a rhetorical question. I already know the answer. You hate women. You refuse to accept that they have a capacity to love a man because you have no capacity to love a woman. That's called projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:15 PM
1

Which is what you think every woman who commits is after.... again, look up the word "love". I know it's a totally foreign concept in the Red Pill cult, but out here in reality, it's everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:13 PM
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A. Stop trying so hard to be "average". Get your ass some cool. It ain't that hard. It's all in the culture you choose. The stronger the culture, the more confidence you can derive from it. Red pill ain't cool. It's weak, conformist culture. It's for dogs. B. Dogs chase the cats and the cats chase the rats. If you want the kitties to hunt you down, stop being a dog. Dogs beg. Begging isn't cool. Rats are cool. They don't beg. They get chased. See A. C. If she has the looks that kill, she can hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:56 PM
0

You just proved my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:07 PM
-1

You hate women, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:07 PM
1

Google this word.... "love".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:04 PM
0

People that age have always been like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:03 PM
1

Not efficient. Large targets that are easily immobilized. They tried playing around with exo-skeletons for infantry and found the same problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:01 PM
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Eh. It's pretty cringy to see so many men who can't understand Love and think it's all a game of who got in her first.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:31 AM
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And if you become a stepdad, you're not allowed to have children with her. Just raise someone else's... which apparently isn't hers, either, because they solely focus on the biological father and ignore that she's a parent, too. Their fragile egos just can't handle not being the sole attention in the relationship. Even the whole "she'll never find you as attractive" bit... they don't want love, they want worshiped. Egos. All about the egos.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:25 AM
0

Factor in narcissistic envy and it makes complete sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:18 AM
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Which is stupid logic since they get the girl in the end. They're technically the winners. They're just looking for reasons to feel jealous and inadequate towards other men. Masochists.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:17 AM
0

But most of us don't have egos as fragile as egg-shells and are happy knowing she chose us over him.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:09 AM
0

But... but... Chad! He never has to commit. He lives in a porn dream and never has to pay. I wanna be Chad!!! The Manosphere is composed of men who either refuse to or psychologically can't love. Therefore they make up loads of excuses as to why commitment is for the "weaker men".
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:06 AM
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"Either put out or I'm not paying for that burger!".... not really a romantic gesture. And that protect thing. Does he stand by the door with a gun while she vacuums the rug?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 11:01 AM
0

No, this means they just don't go outside enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:55 AM
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No, I'll never remarry. I won't take the vows again. That experience will be for her and her alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 10:32 AM
1

I'd certainly put you in the category. You're just hunting for reasons to whine. Shallow isn't an attractive trait, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:51 AM
2

Yeah, they do. They get conned or make a mistake. "He was nice to start with, then he changed." Happens quite a lot, unfortunately.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:37 AM
2

Simple. Think of the worst possible personality and the opposite is therefore the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:28 AM
4

Seriously, go to a doctor. If it's a urinary tract infection, that can get into your bladder and kidneys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:22 AM
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Only 20% of widowers remarry. I would suspect most of them are religious and want to be married to avoid "living in sin". I know a preacher who got remarried after his wife died, but my grandfather didn't with the woman he lived with after my grandmother passed. There's also legal considerations if you have children and a new spouse in regards to estates. I will never remarry. She will always be my one and only wife, no matter how many women may come through the rest of my life. I will never hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 01:07 AM
-3

You think it's funny. They see a liar. But it's all about you, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:56 AM
0

Yeah, they are. Especially women. Why do you think the word "creep" was invented?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:55 AM
1

Sivlio Berlusconi is only 5'5" and he makes more than everyone on this sub combined. Yes, people who whine that they can't get a match on Tinder are showing their personalities. Whining is a very unattractive trait, ya know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 12:54 AM
0

They can see you. It's in your eyes. Windows to the soul and all that. How you walk, how you stand, how you non-verbally interact with others, where your eyes look, whether you're calm or unable to stop moving, all that shows the inner self.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:36 PM
-1

Women have to put up with hordes of insecure short men and you think it's funny to "catfish" (your words) a woman by putting a tall height on your profile? Again, personality on display.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:24 PM
1

No, I said the men who bitch about being rejected and who claim it was their looks. Doesn't even have to get to the date level.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:22 PM
1

Some men have the personality where they'll will make the best out of the body they've been given, not care how they compare to others in looks, and make the most out of their lives. They'll be positive, happy, and attract people with their inner fire. Some will have the personality to always be pissing and moaning that they weren't born beautiful and go on and on about how they need to get surgery or get rich to even talk to a woman. They'll be negative and miserable, and that repels people. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:00 PM
2

Can't do body language or eye lines on OLD and I take a lousy picture, so in person is way more productive. I did meet my wife on a dating site, but I don't even think I had a picture up, just a profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:29 PM
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I don't think so. They just want reasons to blame women for anything and everything. She leaves the relationship? Nah, it's not cause he was a jerk and an asshole, it's because she's trading up. She rejects his advances? It's not because he's being creepy and rude, it's because she's too stuck up, looking for a Chad. Got to get inside the ego of the misogynist and it all makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:14 PM
3

But the Manosphere is a collection of neurotics, narcissists and downright sociopaths. We're supposed to take their word on reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:08 PM
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But you lie in the bio on purpose. Red flag. That's your personality on display.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:07 PM
1

This just in! Redditer discovers body language. Film at 11.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:56 PM
7

So you have the personality that lies to women by catfishing.... think on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 06:39 PM
2

I think they're brats. They were given everything they wanted by their parents but when it comes to dating, they're pissed that women aren't falling at their feet for just putting a profile on Tinder. "I got to put in an effort? It's so hard. Women are mean! It's not fair!" The immaturity is through the roof.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:26 PM
7

That describes the sociopaths. They're just good at manipulation. They know how to play people but are just leeches and slugs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:19 PM
1

You had to write all that to say "Waaah! I can't get the woman I want when I want them, right here, right now! Women are too stuck-up! It's not fair!"? Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:08 PM
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Because AFBB is pure bullshit made up in shallow insecure men's desperate minds? The real world doesn't work like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:01 PM
1

Women hope to get a relationship from the men they have sex with, then over time they make that decision whether it's worth pursuing that goal with that particular person. It's not an either/or situation. Personality makes all the difference in the end, not money. And no, they are not "seeking genes", they are seeking a mate for life, and that's way more than just bodily functions. I hope most can tell who the immature ones who don't have their shit together are. The serious use of terms like "A…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:58 PM
1

Simple. He can stop being a shallow shit who thinks only looks, money and status matters and find a deeper meaning for his life than just begging for women's sexual attention. Write a novel. Direct a movie. Paint a landscape. Be something more than just another body in the herd. Feed that inner fire!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:43 PM
5

Let's ask you this.... would you like to date a miserable, insecure, depressing person?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:35 PM
4

But Real Life is kicking ass! You know. Where it all ends up anyway. Where you actually have to talk to people without typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:28 PM
5

No, the elites are firmly in control. They're just playing a game of divide-and-rule on the sheep.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:52 PM
0

Or they'll go "This is stupid." and astound us all.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:51 PM
-2

Negative aspects of dating? What's there to be negative about?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 08:49 PM
2

Sure you are. You're told this or that person is better than you, more important, better looking.... it's all marketing. There are entire industries built around it. Generating social anxiety has been a key technique of the advertising industry since the 1950's. Now look at us. We have entire online cults built around trying to figure out how we match up to the marketing ideals or being psychopathically angry that they don't. Loads of men do find fat girls attractive. Always have, always will.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 01:14 PM
1

LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:52 PM
1

I blame Jordan Peterson. He came along acting like he knows all the answers to life, the Universe, and everything; started getting worshiped as a surrogate father by a herd of little boys all lost in the supermarket; started spouting a lot of statistics and studies with no attempt to judge methodology, objectifying every human interaction; and his groupies just imitated him, objectifying themselves in the process. I can definitely see his influence in the Manosphere over all, which this red pill…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 12:44 PM
2

No, we're told they're attractive to sell the products they are in. Marketing. Hype.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:57 AM
2

The key word there is "immature". If you're crying because a parent died, that's a reasonable emotional response. If they can't understand that, they got problems. If you're crying because you can't buy a yacht on your salary, then you got deeper issues and that's gonna put any person at a distance. Context matters. Why does "lifting" always find it's way into this stuff? Are you people that obsessed with going to the gym?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:48 AM
2

Good luck on that. Some of these guys probably have vitamin D deficiencies with as long as they've been inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:27 AM
1

Pass. Boobs too small. I think the brunette was in front of me in the checkout line yesterday.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:24 AM
-1

You can't expect much from guys who put everyone in "leagues" and assign themselves subjective numbers. Not much of a will to be something higher than a statistic on a study.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:19 AM
0

It's one thing to cry when your dog dies, quite another when you break down in tears when your game console dies. There's deeper issues going on there. We need to define "emotional".. is it normal or is it neurotic? People of both sexes tend to back away from the neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 11:07 AM
1

It's rude, narcissistic and basically begging for attention. Look for interest first.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:13 PM
1

What do you think happens to porn women when they leave the biz? They all move to Montana and become nuns? They meet a cool guy and settle down, probably swing a little bit on the weekends, maybe even have kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:08 PM
6

So not because looks are subjective and inner character is far more important than outward appearance? Rating systems are things middle school boys do. Not grown men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:03 PM
5

Yes, use and abuse the hearts of women to sociopathically manipulate your way up the looks ladder.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:57 PM
13

Nah, it means she hates you and hopes you die in a freak gardening accident.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:53 PM
4

I don't think they ever go outside, and if they do, they're probably staring into their phones the entire time.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:50 PM
4

Oh, there definitely is such a thing. It's just that some people aren't capable of it... well, beyond self-love, that is.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 10:15 PM
4

Treating women like equals makes them like you? Who knew?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:54 PM
2

Yeah, them stuck up womens! How dare they look down on us?.... ad nauseam.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:48 PM
9

Yeah, there's this thing called Love. I know it doesn't fit into any of the Red Pill equations, but then they're all bollocks any way. The longer you love your partner, the more beautiful they become, because there is far more to Beauty than just the superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:41 PM
10

"when you have eliminated the impossible, whatever remains, however improbable, must be the truth"... Sherlock Holmes Obsession with looks, submission to other men (Chad concept), creating submissive concepts like "market values", subjective ratings systems, hypergamy, high standards, just to make themselves out to be the weakest link in the process ... whole lot of self-flagellation going on there. Do they even like women or do they just think they must have one for appearances? "If I get a hot…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:33 PM
9

Guys that obsess over their looks, their bodies, other men's looks and bodies, and feel this compulsive need to denigrate and demonize women.... maybe they haven't figured out their sexuality yet. And their image of Chad is a gym-obsessed, over-groomed, rich metrosexual that they feel submissive to.... another sign that they might be in the closet since he sounds like a gay stereotype. I've had to sit through enough episodes of "Will and Grace" with my wife that I can see the possibilities. She …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:21 PM
8

Have you bothered to ask? I have.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:56 PM
15

They make those standards up just to give themselves a reason to bitch about women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:49 PM
17

The average woman is perfectly fine with the average man. That's what average means. Women are looking for a good man, not the best man. Hypergamy is made up bollocks used only by the Manosphere to denigrate and demonize women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:41 PM
20

It's masochism. They make up stories in their heads to put themselves on a lower plane to women, and some men. Her standards and those men are always above them. "I'll be never be Chad. She only wants Chad. If she wants me, then it's just to use me till Chad comes along. I'm a loser. I'm not Chad." Self-flagellation of the ego. A form of cuckold fetish. As self-centered and obsessed as they are with looks, body shapes and what other men look like, makes you wonder what they do when out and about…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:28 PM
1

But personality determines looks. How you hold yourself, how your eyes interact, hygiene, vibe... you can have a chiseled jaw but smell like a urinal and never make eye contact. That's all personality. We're not manikins. The energy within matters most.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:26 AM
2

Their world is full of assholes, jerks, creeps, and two-minute men who wouldn't look for the clitoris even if you covered it in Bitcoin.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:21 AM
1

Oh, so now those 80% are just getting less.... keep moving them goalposts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:19 AM
1

Yeah, that horde of creeps and jerks are just there on hand for all women to choose from. So easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:14 AM
1

Yes, when there are 100 men or more to every 20 women on a dating app, 80 of those men will go without because those 20 women will not date all 100+ men. It's not a rule. It's just population ratios. And it's going to get worse from the sheer number of creeps and jerks driving women off OLD. All you'll have left is tens of million men all hitting on the same three Instagram bots at some point, then bitching online that women are too picky. Real world stats show your odds are about 3 outta 4 of g…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:34 AM
1

You're describing a manikin. Is there anything inside the "average man" or is he completely hollow?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:19 AM
1

The one thing I noticed with my brief stint on Tinder was the many, many, many women's bios that specifically said "not looking for hookups". Then you see all the screenshots of men who think it's the Amazon of instant sex and get pissed when she's not just gonna jump into bed with them after three texts. I would suspect most of the "red pill" men fall into that category.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:17 AM
1

Marriage statistics. Fatherhood statistics. Even that GSS study the Manosphere loves to push around as "proof" more men are now sexless still shows 72% of men got some last year. According to the US Census, 66% of all male adults have been married. How does 72% getting action equal 80% getting nothing? https://www.census.gov/newsroom/press-releases/2021/families-and-living-arrangements.html
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:12 AM
1

Unless they're in their 30's or up, then the majority will be in a LTR. Another reason 80/20 is bollocks is because... age. The whole world isn't made up of bitter 20-somethings who can't get a swipe back on Tinder. Men tend to be settled in with a partner in their 30's. It's that whole maturity thing the Manosphere is trying so hard to ignore.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:54 AM
2

And you are all women, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:49 AM
1

"Settle"... yeah, we all must pursue that fantasy girl/guy we saw in a magazine/movie in high school and "settle" for no one "less" than our ideal. Reality doesn't work like that. You accept people for who they are and take what's at hand. Those who hold out for their idea of perfection almost invariably end up alone. Chasing an idealized relationship is not mentally healthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:45 AM
1

We get old, we get fat. Welcome to the human race.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:37 AM
1

I can see why you don't factor personality into your equations.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:35 AM
1

Guys whine that women are too picky, but they never factor in the hordes of creeps and jerks they have to wade through just to find a decent man.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:32 AM
1

The guys who are miserable are pissed they actually have to talk to a woman without her just offering sex right away. "I got to put in so much effort. It's not fair. Chad would just get jumped on at the door.", they whine. I don't even think they like women. They're just looking for a sex toy that moves on it's own.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:23 AM
3

You're not factoring Love into your calculations. It's not looks, it's personality that seals the deals. Stop reading bullshit studies and go look at the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:07 AM
2

If you're fantasizing about marriage before the first date no matter what she looks like, you got bigger issues at play.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:04 AM
1

How big is your apartment that you can't clean it yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:57 AM
5

We're not all dogs eager to hump any leg that's offered.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:48 AM
6

I think we've raised a seriously terrified generation. It's OK to look at women, smile at them, talk to them. They're probably just as lonely.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:47 AM
1

I think it's pathological that you obsess over them. Have you seen a therapist about this?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:06 PM
2

When you've built an entire "gender cult" around denigrating women, PUA bullshit and the kind of shallowness you only find on celebrity worship and "reality" shows, don't expect most people to take you seriously. They shouldn't. What's to debate? Looks are subjective, attraction is subjective, there are no rules, and the psychology of those who demand differently is pure fantasy fueled by narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 12:12 PM
1

Because it's an adventure yet to come.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:37 PM
2

Yeah, enjoying bringing new life into the world and watching it grow, helping it along and nurturing the next generation is such a worthless endeavour.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:36 PM
7

I like when women start the conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:25 PM
0

Based on the world around us. Most people are married by that age. Of course, you guys will tell him he has to be super-handsome or super-rich, and to give up hope if neither, and to not trust women on top of that, so you're not gonna do him any good, are ya?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:14 PM
1

Overcoming challenges, mastering skills, knowledge and wisdom. Not from a jaw line or a height measurement.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:13 PM
1

So being a narcissistic ass who causes way more problems than he solves is your preferred way of life? Have fun being an asshole.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:11 PM
1

I'd date a porn star, but then I'm not hung up on ego issues like being terrified that I'll never measure up to the men she's been with before. Why should they matter? Got this thing called confidence. Try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:02 PM
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The odds of him being married by age 35 are pretty high, so patience is the answer. He'll find a woman who likes him for him. But the Red Pill says it's all looks and you have to be x, y, and z to succeed, and you can't rely on personality or patience, you need it right now, right away, or you're a life failure. You can never be content. She has to be a trophy, you have to be a Chad, or life is a horror. Great ideology. Abusive, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:58 PM
0

That "success" is usually abusive, so not much to look up to there, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:46 PM
2

What a stupid statement. People don't like assholes. That's why we call them assholes. We compare them to our bodily orifices where shit comes out. That is not a positive thing. Do you really want to go on a date where she ends up thinking "What an asshole!"? Use your head, man.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:57 PM
2

I see beautiful women all the time. Was out shopping today, saw several. You just have to keep your eyes open. People on movies aren't that beautiful. You probably wouldn't even notice them on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:18 AM
1

You go get a new chin and it won't get the results you want. You'll waste all that money and still feel worthless. Go climb a mountain and get a real result. Confidence is in the will, not the face.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:56 AM
1

It won't change the way you think inside. You won't become the "instant stud" you think will happen and you'll just find something else to blame it on.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:12 PM
2

Redpillers believe in Chad, which means there will always be a guy out there better than you that she will run away with the moment she sees him. You must therefore remain jealous of other guys, constantly comparing yourself negatively against them, and be afraid of women rejecting you for them. That way you will always return to the cult. It claims to have the answers to those problems, but it'll just keep you feeling miserable about yourself and instill serious trust issues regarding women tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 08:07 PM
7

The incels got all their own subs banned so now they infest others, like roaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:46 PM
0

It's not. Just have patience, stay chill and it'll happen. Go out, dig on the ladies, see who digs you back. Redpill is built on making men think they will never be adequate enough for women just to keep them in the cult.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 05:38 PM
1

Or you could avoid the stupid studies and talk to women directly, where they will point out that there's a surplus of entitled narcissistic asshole men these days and women are rightly avoiding them like the plague.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 08:56 PM
5

Oh, this is flippin' brilliant! It explains so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 05:10 PM
-1

You watch too much porn. Go outside and look at real people.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:12 PM
0

Yup, it's her fault! Point that finger! Just excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:07 PM
1

That people who try to encapsulate all of human experience into little coloured pills are fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 12:02 PM
0

...shared by misogynistic men... FTFY
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:52 AM
11

They're idiots, jerks and assholes. They think it's gonna be like ordering something from Amazon. She matches, he says hi, and she's delivered to his door ready to go in an hour. They have the stupidest fantasies about OLD and when they hit the reality of it, they whine, whine, whine. "Oh, us poor men! It's so unfair! Women are so cruel!" Yet there are subreddits devoted entirely to screenshots of men being total asses towards women on dating apps when they don't get what they want right away. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:48 AM
3

Why does the world need to change for men who refuse to get off their asses? Sounds like more entitlement to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:26 AM
0

Of course they do. Men have no agency whatsoever, no free will to make their own decisions. It's all (insert excuse here)'s fault that they choose to be jerks towards women. If you're getting angry that women aren't giving you time or attention online, that's not their fault. That's entitlement and that's all you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:20 AM
2

Those men struggle because they believe in nonsense like Chad, make up bollocks about society being against them, are paranoid about women, and are generally all-around neurotics in need of some form of therapy. They made themselves tools.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:07 AM
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No, you men just don't want to listen. At the end of the day, it all comes down to living together and that's all about compatible personalities, not superficialities.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 11:02 AM
1

Yeah, I have. The couple I was with.. he on his third, she on her second. Both deeply in love with the other. You guys never go outside. You just live here in this little bubble and tell each other stories about the outside world that you read in clickbait articles. Plato's Cave.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 11:24 PM
2

It's not about debate. It's about generating dogma.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 05:11 PM
3

We don't because it's bullshit that only matters online in echo chambers like Reddit and Twitter. We aren't mass freaking out because some guy on social media can't get a date on Tinder. That's his problem, not the world's.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:48 PM
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Turn off the computer, put down the phone, go outside... this forum is not the real world. I was married, now a widower. I was out for dinner with friends last night, a married couple. Other couples were having dinner around us. I went to the grocery store afterwards where I saw many couples. Next month, I'm best man at a wedding. There will be married couples there, including a gay married couple. I watch couples walk on my street and there's married couples in all but one of the houses that su…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:38 PM
4

Just the average misogynistic desire to control women and force them to behave in ways that satisfies their own fragile masculinity.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 04:31 PM
3

They need to touch a whole forest.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:38 AM
6

70% of those who get divorced get remarried. They find a new love and a new start. There's no crisis outside of those who just want to whine about their failures. And it's that propensity to whine that indicates why they failed in the first place. Given how incredibly shallow and immature most of those doing the whining are, that's also another indication.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:36 AM
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Yeah, we gots to do sumthin about them uppity stuck-up women. Put 'em in their place. Let them know we mens are more important than them! Who they think they is, passing us up for other men? Don't they know we deserve their attention? No, we demand it! Gee, I wonder what those issues could be? And they don't look valid, just entitled.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 10:21 AM
2

OLD population distribution is 5 men to every woman. So out of every 100 men, 20 men will connect with the corresponding 20 women, therefore 80 men don't. There's your 80/20 rule explained. In the real world the ratio is 1 man to 1 woman. So 80/20 does not apply. Different population distribution. And if you're always going to live in terror that some better looking guy will come along and steal your girl, then you got trust issues which will push her away eventually.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:24 AM
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Feed themselves, buy homes, cars, raise their kids. The things work is for.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:12 AM
42

Meanwhile, out in the real world....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/22 01:10 AM
2

We call those people psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 08:39 PM
1

You do know there's far more to life than sex, right? Women aren't just in it for the lay. They like relationships. There's a huge disconnect between real life and your Chad fantasies. You really need to reconsider your worldview.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 02:00 PM
1

That's because living with Mommy into your mid-20s is bad for your image. Most men that age are getting some. Your 10% claim is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:55 PM
1

Coming from the medical industry, depression is a highly subjective and way over diagnosed condition. There are many situations where depression is completely understandable, but put down as a diagnosis of its own. With new reporting guidelines, even a mild situational depression will be recorded as "major depression". We're nowhere as depressed as they report us to be.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 12:15 PM
1

Or you could just be content with the life you were given rather than pining for someone else's and making yourself miserable in the process.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:57 AM
1

Amazing how it eventually all comes down to personality and not just their looks. There's a lesson in there someplace for these men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:52 AM
1

Alone and isolated? You in a prison? Cause unless you are, there's an entire world out there to see and be seen in.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:50 AM
2

Speak for yourself. I've turned down several in my life. We're not all as desperate as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:44 AM
2

Don't burst their Chad fantasies. They might have to self-reflect and their egos can't take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:36 AM
2

How are they "removed from the market" if he's not committing to them?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:31 AM
2

Then why are over half the men out there fathers?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:28 AM
5

Incompatible personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:24 AM
1

No, it's not necessary. If you have strong positive energy, physique means nothing. You can be ripped to the nines, but still be weak and insecure inside. Remember, the end goal is to live together. That means compatible personalities, not pretty bodies.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:17 AM
1

A. I'm me. B. Because two people had a kid. See A. C. Boredom. It's like when in the old days they'd let people poke the inmates at the asylums with sticks. I like poking cultists. It's a guilty pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 11:07 AM
2

Who will takes us over? The Canadians, whose "civilization" looks just like ours? The US has 50 States. If the US ends, the States go independent. Same culture, same "civilization". And it will still have jack all to do with Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/22 01:24 AM
1

The "US civilization" is mainly Western European (Catholic/Protestant) with a touch of Eastern European, African and Native, now absorbing Hindi and Islamic. It's roots reach back into the BCs. In case you didn't notice, Western Europe survived the Black Death. Even though a third of their population died, civilization went on. So some guys whining they can't get a date on Tinder is certainly not going to bring about the End of Days. Look up the word "histrionic".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 10:10 PM
1

Solid, liquid, gas, plasma.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:30 PM
1

Civilization has existed for about 7000 years now. Some lame-o drama kings not being able to get a date on Tinder is not the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:20 PM
6

No. But then I don't see Tinder as the totality of the human experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:19 PM
9

These guys never go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:17 PM
2

First you put all women in a box and then claim you don't. You make shallow statements then claim you're not. You defend the cult dogma with typical hypocrisy. And it's misogyny to think women can't feed themselves. Go outside, look at the real world, all your studies and cult beliefs fall apart. You know you're in a cult when you can't give up your Precious, your "pill".
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 06:08 PM
6

But it's not backed by "Science". Just because someone does a study doesn't make that study truth. I've seen many studies that should have never been published, the methodology was that bad. Sociology studies are notorious for being crap. Just look at the "Conceptual Penis" test that was run on the sociology peer review process and how the "woke" cult slammed it for exposing their bullshit. Some study comes out that says you're not tall enough or rich enough to get the girl? Fuck them. The essen…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:27 PM
3

There is life beyond YouTube and Twitter. You should try it sometime.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 12:15 PM
13

To me, "Red Pill" is incel-light. It's narcissistic men bitter that the world isn't tossing the women they want at them, but not the full blown personality disorders you find in the incel community. It has the same background ideology, that the entire world revolves around looks and height and that mythical being called Chad. It has the same hierarchical thinking, that everyone is to be rated on subjective scales they claim are objective. It has a mountain of cherry-picked flawed sociology studi…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 11:27 AM
5

Most guys end up here because they just want that imaginary secret magical key to an easy lay with as many hot girls as possible and then get pissed when someone points out that it's down to personality and not looks, and that just wanting to hump legs does not make for an attracting vibe. They believe it's a competition, that it's all a sexual hierarchy, that Chad is real and he can't be beaten. They have all this boiling in their brains instead of being down to it being just you and her and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:42 PM
20

Or to scam some desperate American to send them US dollars, which go a long way in those lands.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:40 AM
0

It's not about averages. It's because they're Desperate Dans who have a million assumptions about women and dating and refuse to think otherwise. You also have to factor in that women aren't usually looking for casual. They want real dating. If your intention is just to pump her and dump her, then that'll put most of them right off you.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:37 AM
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And when she starts asking you to send money for plane tickets... You're only 24. The chances of meeting the woman you marry in the next few years is pretty high, so don't sweat it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:31 AM
3

That's most of the content here.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 11:23 AM
16

Another "Women are stuck up and need to be put in their place because they won't date me." post.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/22 12:15 AM
6

They're seeking scapegoats for their own failures and trying to project those excuses onto the entire populace. It almost invariably comes down to "Women are too stuck-up because they won't date me!", which just goes to show the mentality behind the typing.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 12:27 PM
12

Another "Girls are too stuck up these days" post.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 09:11 PM
1

Go marry a manikin. Be a perfect fit. Both plastic and empty inside.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 04:53 PM
2

Oh, so you don't want a woman, just an object. Figures.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:47 PM
6

I'm not a fortune-teller. We could have a few economic breakdowns, a civil war, who knows. Only the Fates know, and they aren't telling.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:44 PM
2

Ever see the old Johnny Bravo cartoons? Lampoons that mentality perfectly.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:41 PM
2

They're not interested in Love. They just want the sex. That's why they're so hung up on looks. They only see the body, not the whole person. And that's why they flop so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:31 PM
10

The ultimate goal is to live with each other, so personalities being compatible enough to meet that goal is key. So it's not about the shell, but the ghost within.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:26 PM
27

Yes, them stuck-up women, refusing to date slugs and creeps, not wanting slime in their beds. Those poor, poor men. Our hearts bleed. 72% of the men are having sex with 82% of the women? I don't see a dating apocalypse there. Notice it all begins in 2008... the year of the housing mortgage bubble bursting. It's economic. More young men continuing to live with their parents into their high 20s and therefore not maturing into stand-alone adults. And as we've known from the start, immaturity is a h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 12:20 PM
1

Define exceptional. People don't "settle". They fall in love. And the average man is doing fine. He has the average wife, the average family, the average life. And he's content. Nothing wrong with that. The ones who have problems are the jealous. The ones who always see what others have and want it. What they have is never good enough, they must have more. They're too busy dreaming of living someone else's life to live their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 11:01 AM
1

Chad is a fiction insecure men have created as an excuse to fail.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 10:52 AM
2

Yeah, sure. That's why most are with guys who never go to the gym. Try reality sometime. It's good for your head.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:57 AM
1

It's like falling off a bike. You got two choices. Either get back on the bike and try to ride it again, fall down again, get back up, keep trying until you succeed... or cry to Mommy that it's too hard. But she can't make you magically ride the bike successfully, nor is she gonna ride it for you. It's still all up to you. You get one life. You can either rock out or cop out. No one's choice but your own. Confidence isn't something other people hand you. You got to find that for yourself within …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:51 AM
2

Girls just love them musckles. Johnny Bravo strikes again.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/22 01:01 AM
2

If you're getting punched and bounced out of a bar, you're being a creep. Period. Bouncers don't throw guys out for being nice. My brother bounced and has many stories of throwing creepers out because they wouldn't let women alone. It works? When the bouncer has physically tossed you out the club? Yeah, it works... on making an ass out of yourself in a crowd and getting beat up.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:16 PM
4

I did, and you are. The entire post is about a strategy. If you claim it isn't, you're either clueless or a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:11 PM
0

People who buy into the "SMV" bullshit can't love. It's pretty obvious. They're just envious creatures looking for ego validation. Love requires setting the ego aside and being able to give to another.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 12:06 PM
1

Same old, same old. "Be a totally shallow shit and you'll get the girl!" Never changes. This time it adds "Cling to her until she realizes you're a completely empty shell and rejects you even more." Great advice. Become something more than a mere object. Feed the fire within. Then you're no longer "average" and your flame attracts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:54 AM
1

Don't go looking for it. Just go to enjoy the scenery and let it find you. But if you're the type to grope and get bounced for it, then you got a lot of self-realization to work on. That's pure Creep behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:38 AM
1

Yep, buy a woman with money. That'll make her love you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:27 AM
2

But they do date men who aren't like that. Given that the average male height in the US is 5'9", how are only the tall guys getting dates? Logic. Apply it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:12 AM
1

What is success?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:09 AM
5

So it is a manipulative way. It's also narcissistic... "Oh, he's so wonderful. All the women want him. And he chose me!" He's just so special. I hear the sound of egos being wanked. It would only work on shallow women with low self-esteem.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 11:06 AM
3

Alcohol is a depressant.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:47 AM
-2

Yeah, I can see it now... "We've gone over their annual performance reviews. Jenny has the much higher scores but we'll promote Sarah because she's three inches taller." You're talking pure bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:46 AM
4

What's the answer? Forcing women to have sex with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:42 AM
4

Maslow's hierarchy is bullshit, as any ascetic will point out. You don't need sex to be happy. If you're that desperate, hire some.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:41 AM
-7

Height is not a hindrance. Obsessing over it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 10:37 AM
2

A quick mind. A sharp mind. A witty mind. A curious mind. A deep mind. A mind with an edge that can cut diamond. A mind that can see into her soul. "Me throw football." Big deal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:11 PM
3

That's quite an advanced society. Think a clan of nomadic hunters.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:49 PM
2

Well, we're not plants. But evolution is dynamic adaption, not static.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 10:45 PM
1

It is about personality and compatibility. But that means there's no magical secret to just getting your dick wet, which is what so many men seem to be seeking, which is their personalities in action, so they refuse to try to understand women as people and not as mere vaginas, so they don't get what they want and complain about it, which is their personalities in action again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 03:02 PM
0

You go fight with the men. I'll go smile at the ladies. There is no competition.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:51 PM
0

They bought and sold you. They own your mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:47 PM
-3

I fish. I'm even thinking of buying a bass boat. When you fish, you drop a bait in front of a bunch of fish and ask "Do any of you want to eat this?" If they do, you catch a fish. If they don't, you either change bait or try a different bunch of fish and ask that question again. You have to literally ask the fish directly in order to catch them. So you call tell from that phrase that these are men who have never gone fishing. It is similar to dating. You have to ask the question "Do you want me?…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:41 PM
1

And the shallow immaturity reveals itself....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 02:28 PM
1

"resent the person", "you deserve"... smell that entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:49 PM
2

Resenting people for not being "perfect"? Very immature.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:40 PM
1

Why are you even "competing"? They get theirs. You get yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:32 PM
2

It just shows how shallow the worldview is for most of them in here. Whenever someone throws in a bit of depth, they screech and scream like plastic dolls too close to a flame.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:26 PM
-1

Then stop being so average.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:19 PM
12

Other than teach you social skills and how to be comfortable with yourself around other people. But I guess that's meaningless unless it guarantees you an instant woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:18 PM
0

Red pill doesn't teach men to be confident. Exact opposite actually. It's a super-shallow belief system so it emphasizes "flaws" instead of minimizing them. It pushes women farther and farther out of reach. It has to. Otherwise it has no reason to exist. Red pilled men aren't out there slaying, are they? They're sitting around the internet crying that they're not good enough to attract women. That should tell you something.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:09 PM
11

Given that the entire red pill movement seems to consist of entirely of really shallow men constantly whining that women are too stuck-up to date them... good sign that they have no idea what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:04 PM
11

Says the men who never catch fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:02 PM
1

Hmmm... "Get off your ass and get out to meet people" sounds like great advice to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 12:01 PM
1

The "tall strong chisel looking man" is a MALE construct meant to sell men clothes and razors and cars and other stuff. Women did not create that concept. Men did. For other men. It's not looks, money, jawlines... it's energy. If you are weak insecure energy, you will flop. If you are strong confident energy, they will give you attention. I, for one, refuse to let advertising define how I feel about myself. I want to be in control of my own self-worth, not let others define it for me. That is we…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:46 AM
13

Starving? 4 billion women out there. It's a freakin' buffet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:42 AM
20

Dude, you sound like a stereotypical jealous high school nerd whining that the hot jocks get all the hot cheerleaders. Adult life is nothing like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:40 AM
6

A. Men don't get pregnant. B. Those "requirements" are your projections, not their preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 11:27 AM
1

And yellowpillers use orangepill and mauve pillers use fuschia pills and polka dot pillers use....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:43 AM
2

No.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/22 01:41 AM
1

"Just lift, bro." As if building muscle mass is going to cover over a shallow immature personality. Life isn't a Charles Atlas ad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 08:30 PM
2

Why would an attractive man need to cold approach? He's already getting their attention. All he has to do is go "You hungry, kitties? Here I am. Strong confident sexual energy. Worth the effort. Catch me if you can.", cause he knows the cats love a good hunt, to play with their prey. Dogs just roll over and submit. They're no fun. Feminists don't have playlists full of sleaze metal. I am a rat. I get chased. Redpill is nothing but submission. Everyone's in a hierarchy and you are never at the to…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 03:15 PM
1

Depends. Is she married? Is she gonna be clingy? Is she psycho? Questions must be asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:34 AM
0

One guy got dumped and the other became her boyfriend. Why would she be more attracted to the guy she dumped?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:29 AM
1

They just don't like women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:22 AM
7

Ain't you just a little ray of sunshine. I dated the most in my 30s and got married at 40 to a wonderful woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:20 AM
1

It is trying to force a conversation, no matter how you look at it. Getting up in her space and her face to get her to look at you and then hitting on her, no matter how much you claim it's not to hit on her, because that's the entire motivation to start with. You "cold approachers" never include any initial eye communication in your process, where the conversation has already started before you even say a word. But then that would be "warm approach" and you don't get that narcissistic kick out …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 11:13 AM
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That they are as varied as the stars and as alike as two peas in a pod. And that some love to make assumptions about all the others.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/22 10:58 AM
0

It's energy. Very weak energy? Invisible. Strong energy? Attractive. Average energy isn't strong, just average. And I'm talking offline here. Can't tell energy much from a picture. Doesn't take much to be not-so-average. Just the will to be so. Got to feed the fire within, make it burn brighter.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:26 PM
1

Went to one in New Orleans way, way back. They had this rotating cage-like structure on the stage and there was this woman, incredibly toned body, all oiled up, just glistening in the lights, doing twists and turns and gymnastics stuff using the bars on the cage. It was pure art. Wish there was one closer to me than over an hour away. Would be nice to pop in once a week, drink a few and joke around with women wearing only a garter and g-strings again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 08:03 PM
1

But.. but.. but.. that "lesser" man deserves her. She has to stop being so stuck up and give in to his advances. She should be his. Who does she think she is, anyway? She's not "all that". She's only a (insert subjective rating number). Can't she see he's a number higher than her? /s And this is why they flop.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:53 PM
-1

So basically you don't like yourself and expect a woman to leave you for shallow reasons if you ever got one. There's your problem. Insecurity, shallowness and trust issues. Fix yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:36 PM
2

He's the delusional product of shallow narcissistic minds, an impossibility to aspire to and to feel worthless against. An excuse for their failures that they can conveniently project onto women in order to avoid facing their own personality flaws. "Women only want Chad!" is just so easy to whip themselves with every time they flop. I always find it telling that Chad is imaged as a rich, ripped, over-groomed metrosexual, basically the "handsome college quarterback who inherited Daddy's chain of …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 07:25 PM
8

There is nothing healthy about getting angry if you don't get your way. That is something children do and they are supposed to grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:59 PM
21

It's not about gender, it's egos. A stable ego can handle not getting everything it wants. It can recognize consent. It understands autonomy, recognizes boundaries. A messed up ego... they end up on true crime documentaries. Entitlement is a symptom of narcissism, an unstable ego. And we are swimming in narcissists these days.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:55 PM
1

When you grow up, you'll understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:39 PM
1

There's nothing adult about this. It's just him being very selfishly immature about something that's not important.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 05:36 PM
9

Breaking up with your SO just because she won't do a sex act she doesn't want to do? She found a real winner there, didn't she?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:09 PM
8

The gene pool requires diversity to remain adaptable. Example, in dogs, purebreds often have congenital dispositions to medical problems, whereas the mutts don't. Hypergamy only exists in the bitter childish minds of the Manosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:06 PM
3

So you come on to Reddit to insult women because of how successful you are and call them shallow while proving how shallow you are. Gotcha.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:51 AM
1

No they don't. Most are getting along fine with women. It's you who believes in hypergamy and projects it on to them. It's you who's being misogynist and projecting it onto them. The problem is you.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 11:43 AM
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What we have here is a thing called "projection". You... yes, you... think only about height, weight, looks, jaw lines, etc... all that shallow shit... and are projecting that onto women. You might as well get to the back of the line in here, because almost all the guys here do the exact same feckin' thing. You know what really matters to women? Personality. Confident strong personalities. He's gonna get the job done and done right and he knows it. That's what lights their fire. What they don't …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 12:02 AM
0

And it's the women who are shallow?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:51 PM
0

You got trust issues. It's not women that's the problem here.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:42 PM
6

Why does Love never enter these calculations?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:25 PM
5

Average age a man marries is 30. Single doesn't mean he's not dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:24 PM
7

So you're trying to prove women are shallow by complaining about women's weight? Hoo boy. Do they teach logic in schools these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:21 PM
11

So she wasted your time by not being usefully fertile? Dude, check your entitlement.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:12 PM
0

But the arena is far, far better. You don't have to rely merely on a picture and a few words. You can put your walk into it, your eyes, get that body language talking. Hard communication, not texting back and forth.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:07 PM
1

How's he "top 15%" if he's wasting his time on Tinder? I just deleted the app. I found it worthless. Loads of dead accounts, chicks hawking their Instagram accounts, even escorts. Too many others looking for their second marriage and I'm not. On Saturday, I took my dog out for a walk at a nearby busy shopping district. Loads of smiles from the ladies. Why waste time fishing in a stagnant hole that only has one fish and five guys all trying to catch it? And the fish may be a dead account that has…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 09:01 PM
0

Is he really that shit of a human being? Relying on Tinder to define your life is insanity.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 08:35 PM
3

"With an image there is no attendant danger." They are more scared of women offline than on. It's safer to hide their insecurities behind the screen. But then when they emerge, it's all still there, probably worse because they were trying to hide.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:49 PM
3

On Tinder... where the ratio is over 5 men to every woman. Do you guys ever go outside? The ratio is 1 to 1 outside your phones, ya know. Way better odds.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 06:37 PM
2

I consider it a matter of pride. I want her gasping and moaning on the bed and giving me that "Fuck, he's good!" look. Makes the sex way better. She'll be eager for more. All these other guys going "Why should I need to know?!"... that just says it all. They don't give a shit. They just want to get their rocks off and they could care less about her. Same guys who sit in here whining that no women give them any attention. Gee, I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 05:00 PM
0

You have no clue what the clitoris is, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:45 PM
1

Physically, they are all the same pattern. Every one of them should come with a clitoris included. Why do you think there's a vibrator industry? They're not using them on their ears. So, yes, most women, almost all with very few exceptions, have that one prime anatomical organ that can be used to bring them to orgasm. Amazing how many men here are not only clueless, but actively resisting against this basic knowledge.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:44 PM
1

Condoms are way cheaper.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:16 PM
1

Why would you be asexual and an incel at the same time? One is about not wanting sex but the other is about wanting sex but not getting it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 04:13 PM
2

It's just being out and about, scanning the faces and you catch one giving you that hungry look. You shift eyes away fast and don't look back. It's down to raging hormones seeing sexually confident energy. Same reason high school girls get crushes on older teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 03:58 PM
2

Why are men these days so desperate to put themselves into pigeonholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:43 PM
2

Cost/benefit analysis. In one column is "I'm not getting any right now but my luck can change." In the other is "I've been diagnosed with penis cancer and the surgery to cut it off is in three days." Sure makes being single seem the far better option.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:36 PM
3

Why would you be angry? It's like you got the cake in front of you and are pissed off that it wasn't served sooner? Just enjoy the cake and know there's plenty of cake to follow.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:28 PM
3

I do get attention from younger women. Some younger women are into the maturity and experience of older guys and teens ( and I do not reciprocate that attention) are raging with hormones and hungry for experience. I don't seek the attention, just happens. It's an energy thing. The women I'm talking to at the moment are all about ten years younger than me, in their 40s.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 12:06 PM
2

But women's pleasure doesn't count. She's just there as a sex toy to please them. Why should he make any effort? He doesn't want to make her feel good, just himself. He's the important one. /s Her orgasms are music to the Goddess.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:38 AM
2

There's at least 5 guys to every woman on Tinder. You can't expect to get those same results with that kind of lop-sided ratio. If you wanted to keep on role-playing on there, you'd see the quality of attention those women are getting.... total creeps, angry NiceGuys, unsolicited dick pics, weirdos galore.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:34 AM
1

"Something must be done! You must pity us poor boys and give us attention and power and free stuff!" I rest my case.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:47 PM
1

Degrees are only considered important because the people who run the show are mostly those with degrees, mainly lawyers. They want us all to think they're the most important. Most farms around here are worth a million or more, so our local farmers are sitting on assets most of our degree'd folk only dream about.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:17 PM
1

Yes. They do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:10 PM
1

I hate that term. It says that people have no agency of their own, no free will. It's a cop-out for personal responsibility. Guy who chooses to become an extremist wasn't coerced to do so. He did it of his own free will. The Manosphere are just whiny bratty boys who saw the whiny bratty girls in militant feminism get attention for playing the victim card and decided to play the same game to get attention, too. Same pity party, different players.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 11:08 PM
0

Nah, they were complaining about this in the late 1950's. The noted sociologist Vance Packard wrote his "Lonely Crowd" in 1959. It still comes down to choices. You either choose to get out among people and communicate or you choose not to. Society has no say in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 10:47 PM
5

Let's look at the definition of incompetent. "not having or showing the necessary skills to do something successfully" Is society supposed to provide you with those skills? Is it supposed to force you to learn them? Or, like all human beings, is it the individual's responsibility to educate themselves and become competent as opposed to incompetent? We have at our fingertips the entire culture of the world to choose from. We can see art from any museum, hear music from other continents, watch sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 05:00 PM
10

The opposite of love is not hate, but indifference. That is the starting point to knowing.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:36 PM
4

If a woman is with you, it is because she is attracted to you. Put your trust issues away and get with the reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 04:31 PM
1

She still has to say yes. Again, what part of "mutual consent" can't you fathom?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:23 PM
-2

Well, not being a immature misogynistic woman-hating narcissist with a fragile egg-shell ego, I can enjoy just being in the moment with a woman and not worry that she's negatively rating me against her past lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:13 PM
0

It takes two to sign the marriage certificate. It takes two to say the vows. It takes TWO to have a marriage. Consent. Mutual consent. Why is that so hard to grasp?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:07 PM
4

Simple. Stable egos seek control over self. Fragile egos seek control over others.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 02:02 PM
1

No worries. The monied aristocracy have the system totally under control.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:47 PM
3

Ever see those posts where someone has screenshotted some guy being a total douchebag to women on a dating app and striking out in the worse ways possible? Guess who those men blame? Not themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:21 PM
1

But she has to be perfect or he can't make the world jealous. It's not about having a solid successful relationship, it's about his image, his ego, his status. Him, him, him. All you can expect from guys obsessed with looks, status, and money.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:17 PM
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Men who swallow the red pill don't want to be happy. They want to be bitter and angry and whiny and always complaining. And hate on women for not kissing up to their sorry misogynistic asses. Billy Beta is very happy because he's getting the love of the woman you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:12 PM
2

And she committed to him. He won the girl. He was the keeper.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:09 PM
13

"If women had no rights, I'd finally get a date."
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:15 AM
1

Are you jealous you can't hide your misogyny like an abuser does?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:13 AM
3

You've never fished.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/22 01:12 AM
7

It's not really about the sex. It's about status. Hence the obsession with "sexual market values" and subjective ratings scales. They're not looking for a woman to be with, they're seeking a woman to be seen with. Or having a lot of notches on their bedpost so they can brag to the lads about it. Their heads are still stuck in high school.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:29 PM
1

Did I not point out that abusers seek out the weak and naive, the ones who won't see the red flags?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:24 PM
4

No, you study the fish up close. You drop potential meals in front of it and see which one it goes for. You literally ask "Hey, you hungry? You want to eat this?". That is what fishing is. Women have told us over and over what they want.... a good, confident man who has proven he can take care of himself, that is good in bed and she doesn't need to play therapist or mother to. But no, they have no clue what they want, but there's some "pill" bullshit online that tells young men that women only w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:20 PM
1

Just because someone does a bad methodology study doesn't make it fact, and sociology is drowning in shite studies that can't be replicated or would get totally different results if you tweak a variable. All those things are just a bunch of cherry-picked excuses for young men who can't admit it's their own bland or toxic personalities that keep them from having success with the ladies.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:11 PM
1

Married couples buy more stuff. Homes, cars, kids, vacations, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 08:06 PM
4

Yes, you do ask the fish how to catch them. You study the ways of the fish. You learn when they eat, what they eat, where they eat, how they eat and you fish accordingly. If you talk to a good fisherman, he's just gonna tell you what he learned from the fish, so he's just a middleman. Any guy who says "never ask the fish" doesn't fish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:49 PM
2

Because abusers are great at hiding being abusive and they are good at hunting down the weak and naive. Predators do not hunt those who can see through them and fight back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:38 PM
1

Yeah, it's mainly a handful of corporations selling mass-produced garbage to the masses for maximum profit. But it's still the choice of the masses to buy the garbage. It's not mandatory. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=68dk01GkxDI
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 03:35 PM
1

The vast bulk of people on this planet are working class. The probabilities that single mothers will be in poverty are very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:21 PM
1

Of course. Sometimes you're just not feeling it or they aren't. Long tiring day. Not feeling good. Forcing yourself makes for bad sex. If people can't understand that, it's they who lack the empathy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:14 PM
1

Nah, it's just because pop culture is total crap these days and so many young men are dumb enough to buy into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:07 PM
1

Usually. You would expect some form of sexual contact a few dates into a relationship, even if just heavy petting.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:58 PM
1

But it's how you handle those insecurities that defines confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:57 PM
1

Most women can see through them. That's why they prey on the weak and naive. Like all predators, they don't want those that will fight back.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:55 PM
2

Your attitude towards women will affect your speech, your eye contact, your mannerisms, your body language, all your communication with them. Women look at the internal in a man. It's necessary. So if what's within is rotten, they will usually sense it. Your overall vibe will give it away.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:51 PM
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Which are all complete bollocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:42 PM
4

Same with the PUA guys. They have to hire women to hit on for the camera (legal issues, releases and all that). Many are married with kids. It's all to get them YouTube bucks or sell their over-priced seminars and books to the idiots. World is full of conmen and people that fall for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:40 PM
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It's actually quite popular, but it's mainly fans of foreign teams. There's a guy right across the street with a large Liverpool FC flag on his mailbox and I have a Manchester United thingie around my license plate. I see people wearing jerseys from all over the world around here and we're not that urban of an area.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:36 PM
2

Billionaires are not their own men. They are constantly scrutinized by boards of directors, shareholders, business partners, the financial press, etc. You have to put on some kind of an image of stability. That's why you don't see billionaires with harems. Even Musk, who's the most unstable one out there, has only one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:29 PM
0

D. You don't give a shit and live your life without rating yourself according to dumb number scales.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:23 PM
2

I picture the average college-aged young man behind all these "struggling" posts. He's so bog average it hurts. He watches the popular movies, watches the popular shows, listens to the popular music, takes the popular advice. Every interest he has that might make him interesting he hides away in fear that he might not be accepted into the herd. He's terrified of standing out, of being an individual. This is why he "struggles". He's so bland no kitty wants to eat him. As Jim Morrison once said, "…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 12:09 PM
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Confident people don't judge themselves and others on subjective ratings scales.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:48 AM
1

Would a confident person require validation from others? No. Would a confident person let others decide his self-worth for him? Hell, no. Confidence doesn't come from being pretty. Loads of insecure pretty people. It comes from inside. Are you the type that's gonna rock it in life or the type to cry in the corner that it's too hard? That all comes down to personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:47 AM
1

Two case scenarios. A. Man commits to a single woman for life. They raise three children in a two income household. All needs are provided. Children have health care, education opportunities, mental health support, etc. Low stress, strong family support network for life. B. Man sluts around, makes three women pregnant. He provides no support to the children. They are raised in a single mother household in poverty. Poor health care, poor education, poor support to be mentally healthy. High stress…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:20 AM
4

It's also the most correct. Have some dignity.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:33 AM
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No, they want it, they're just not gonna go out just to order lousy food when they can cook better at home and wait for that night out at the steakhouse. *bzzzzzzzz* Do you guys understand the concept of impulse control or do you just get hard-ons the instant a woman walks into view?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 01:32 AM
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Na, most pathetic are men that constantly whine they can't get any and blame women for it instead of their entitled whiny personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:30 PM
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They do, they're just not gonna screw any guy in sight like most of these men would with a woman, though. They'd rather be patient than desperate.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:26 PM
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Stop being shallow. Stop being desperate. Get a personality. You can do that for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:15 PM
1

Then be something more than a dick. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:17 PM
1

In a close situation, with no space to draw and point a gun, a knife is the best option. Tactics. That's the difference between life and death. Not firepower.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:16 PM
1

Stop theorizing, go outside, look at people. Just individuals looking for love or being in love. No pills, no studies, no theories. Just people. And that's all there is to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:11 PM
1

We need licensing, just like all the other industrialized nations... and Massachusetts. Not just background checks, but psychological evals, mandatory safety training, periodic random checks to ensure proper storage and strict punishments for mishandling. Adding that evil long word "responsibility" onto the right. After all, it's supposed to be "well-regulated". But... we're the only wealthy nation without restrictions and the gun industry is paying Congress big bucks to keep it that way. We're …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 02:02 PM
1

I don't go around judging people's relationships, especially not on something as superficial as what they look like.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:49 PM
5

So we got a guy telling us which guys he thinks are attractive and calling it objective as he complains that women are being subjective in who they think are attractive, which seems to be personality driven? I think the clue is in there someplace.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:28 PM
2

What? Gunfights over parking spaces? Never! https://www.wpxi.com/news/local/washington-county-man-shot-texas-over-argument-about-parking-space/G7ADYLLEK5FVFIBRZAQ5NA3I7I/
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:20 PM
1

Nah, knives. Guns are clumsy in close combat. Guy grabs her, she jabs a blade into his eye, she escapes, he's left blind for life as justice. Plus a woman willing to use a knife gives off way fewer "easy target" vibes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:13 PM
1

So not committing to a woman will make her want to sleep with you.... instead of dumping you for a guy who will? Red Pill doesn't seem to get that whole boyfriend/girlfriend-becomes-husband/wife-with-kids thing. Too buy fighting feminism and thinking with their dicks to bother, I guess. Even the rock stars write love songs.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 12:05 PM
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It's bullshit. Just take a look at the real world. It's obviously not working off some fixed dating algorithm.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:46 AM
1

That is her personality in action, her style. And she's made that effort to look good for you, so appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:29 AM
1

That's always the worst case scenario, but all else applies.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:28 AM
0

So what you supposed to do? Hop up on the table and sing a show tune? Wrestle an alligator that you brought special just to do so? Recite the dictionary backwards? No wonder you guys flop. You try too hard to impress and it's not even necessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 11:24 AM
2

Ahh, "Public Image", that bass beat that gave birth to the entire post-punk movement.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:31 PM
2

Never liked being called Gen X because that band sucked. We had the Clash and the Dead Kennedys to listen to instead of Billy Idol's weak-ass pop-punk.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:38 PM
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So women would have to wait till marriage... but redpillers don't want to marry... and they can't have high n-counts... but then the redpillers wouldn't be able to "have options"... and they can never be single mothers... but redpillers don't want to marry... Sounds a bit schizophrenic to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:27 PM
3

But you're the one who chooses to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:18 PM
3

This is where "just be yourself" comes in. If you're putting on an act because you're terrified she might not let you into her pants, you should just put on a jester outfit cause you're a fool.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:17 PM
1

It certainly increases their chances.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:15 PM
1

And those are the ones who are assholes themselves, and all they do is fight. Like attracts like.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:14 PM
4

Can't you just enjoy her company? Do you have to make it so hard for yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:11 PM
1

Yes, all men. Every last one of us. We're all to a dick drooling over the Kardashians. Because we can't love women for themselves, only the power and status we can glom onto to make ourselves feel more important to stroke our egos. Speak for yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:20 PM
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You don't think she's nervous on that first date? She's not worrying about the impression she makes? That she went to all that trouble choosing an outfit and doing her makeup and it's not "performative"? If you think you have to do a song and dance to impress her, you're doing it all wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:08 PM
1

Some men. Please don't generalize us all. The guys you see complaining about it are usually the socially inept or the socially conformist. Usually both. Guys trying so hard to be bog average. Weak souls consuming weak culture. But someone has to fill that niche. Better them than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 12:02 PM
1

I go by cup sizes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:47 AM
2

We rockers used to do that in the 80's. Just an easy way to "urchin" up jeans that has made a come-back.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:46 AM
2

What? They're not sexual commodities subject to economic theories and only exist as means to validate and masturbate men's egos? Impossible!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:35 AM
1

"80/20" is just a load of bollocks unsuccessful men are telling themselves in order to escape the fact that it's their own insecurities and prejudices that are holding them back. If they would get their asses offline and outside, stop treating women as sexual commodities and stop being jealous of other men, they'd do far far better.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:32 AM
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The GSS has very small sample sizes and is not reliable at all. 65% of US men are married and and 60% are fathers. That's Census stats, therefore the max sample size. Make of that what you will, but at least 60% did enough banging to produce a baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:28 AM
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Or you could just like women and not think of them as some kind of NFT.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 11:21 AM
1

The issue is gangs armed better than the local police and a Puritanical war on drugs fueled by US demand. And we're supplying the weapons to all the worse off nations. Can't give thugs a weapon and then take no blame for their killing with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:26 AM
1

They also can not. So it doesn't matter. Personality is the main factor, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 10:21 AM
0

Attractive misogynistic assholes don't get the ladies, either. Personality does matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 07:52 PM
3

If misogynistic assholes are getting laid, why are so many of them online whining women won't give them any? Hell, they've even started movements around it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:13 PM
1

Then you're doing it wrong. Go get yourself some funk. Get some groove in your move.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 06:10 PM
2

And that's exactly how it is. All the "nice guys" ... boring conformist corporate types who are terrified of women and everything else... and the "bad boy" working class guys who are rocking it out and giving all the ladies that certain smile. Dogs. Cats. Rats. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hnJMCSfXvy8
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 05:48 PM
1

It's actually quite easy... offline. You go out amongst the masses, dig on the ladies, and see who digs you back. It's gonna take a little patience and a bit of leg work, but it'll happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 02:36 PM
4

There's a serious problem with cross-border gun-running from the US into Mexico and the drug cartels have almost total control over the Mexican side of the border. The US ATF is practically powerless to stop it and the Mexicans can't. If it were far harder to get a firearm in the US, it would be the same in Mexico. But then the USA is the world's largest arms maker. We export and profit from weapons violence. Why stop making money from the deaths of others? It's the American Way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 01:14 PM
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Hmmm, choices... straight-laced altar boy, obeys all the rules, boring as all get-out... or bohemian guitarist who has a few pot plants in the basement and rocks out on stage every weekend.... Dogs chase the cats, and the cats chase the rats. All you need to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:49 PM
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They're just not the catch they think they are. Usually so blandly average they blend into the background and as sexually exciting as a piece of cardboard. Can fix both with an eye-catching T and an Aerosmith album.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 12:42 PM
2

It was the MGTOW movement that started it. They said that taking the blue pill was agreeing with militant feminism and the red pill was for agreeing with them. The problem was that they were just a mirror of militant feminism and nothing more. Instead of rising above the misandrists, they stooped to their level with their own misogyny. And like all the identity movements, they attracted all the narcissists because it all boils down to trying to exploit a phony victimhood for personal gain.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:33 PM
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The real reason is because they don't like women. They only see them as something to be controlled and dominated and used.... they're blatant narcissists. What women is gonna want a guy who is himself obsessed with looks and status and wealth unless she herself is exactly the same? Relationships like that are nothing but conflict, because it's two narcissistic egos fighting for dominance. Most women aren't like that. They have substance and expect substance. They don't have to have the "perfect"…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:21 PM
1

Speak for yourself. Sex is just a shared fun experience. If you feel this need to "conquer"to stroke your ego, that's all you, jack, not the rest of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:04 PM
2

Speak for yourself. Flirting is fun. It's you that turned it into a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:02 PM
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Individualism? From people who think you're either one "pill" or the other? Gimme a break.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:54 PM
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Just go outside and look at married couples. Most are not the beautiful people. Most are working class. Most are very content with their lives and love each other deeply.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:45 PM
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If you have a movement that claims only they have the "real truth".... cult warning.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:43 PM
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No, I'm Cruepilled. Bluespilled. Pillsarestupidpilled. I have to laugh. "I have to be rich or famous or jacked or beautiful or all the hot girls won't look at me." Screw that. Just walk like you got the coolest music in the world playing inside your head. Because you do. That's all you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 12:39 PM
1

And those philosophers were idiots as well. You can't box up existence or the universe and condense it into tiny little pills. Sure, misogyny will always exist. Sure, there will always be those who try to make it into a cult religion. And just as sure there will always be people calling them out on it. The red pill = "Women are whores who only care about climbing the social ladder. So in order to buy them you must obsess about looks and money and climb the social ladder yourself to chase them, b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:39 AM
1

That ain't love. That's infatuation. Totally different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 11:08 AM
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No, it started as a militant reaction against militant feminism. It's just the mirror of the other. Misogyny versus misandry. But somehow it became a juvenile strategy session on how to pump-n-dump the hottest women like some kind of gigolo porn stars. Probably because it attracted narcissist jerks who need to wank their inflated stuck-in-adolescence egos by looking down on women.... just like its extremist child, the blackpill.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 02:06 AM
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You've condensed your entire worldview down into stupid "coloured pill" references and are determined to fight an idiotic "gender war". You've obviously bought something. You might want to ask for your money back.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:55 AM
1

Most studies aren't worth the paper they're written on, especially sociology studies. Just because someone publishes a C-grade grad paper does not make it absolute proof of how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:23 AM
1

Recently ghosted a woman when I noticed her profile mentioned she was a Satanist. Not a Christian myself, but folk into Old Nick tend to be more than a bit unstable.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:17 AM
0

It's not. All you need to do is love her. Unfortunately, too many seem to be too interested in loving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:15 AM
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Guys who think like that are assholes. They're the ones who hit up a ONS three years later and try to get her to cheat on her present man. r/NiceGuys is full of examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:12 AM
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Or all of it is complete nonsense and you're just a fool for buying a load of total bollocks. Still just dogs with their heads all still stuck in high school drooling over the kitties and barking for their attention at the end of their leashes while the kitties are all hungry for the rats from the underground.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/22 01:01 AM
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Because you dismiss a woman explaining her marriage to you. You think all women are just calculating their way up the social ladder. You use misogynistic terms like monkey branching. If you understood Love, you wouldn't being doing any of that. It's as transparent as glass.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:59 PM
1

Let's call it a metaphor for a meathead gymrat. Here's a bag of nits to pick.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:56 PM
1

But you did force conversation. If she has to respond to you, then you have forced that conversation upon her. There's always the other option... turn on your passive radar and see who's "pings" you. Then the conversation has begun before any words and you can meet her half-way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:55 PM
1

So those socially awkward and inept men are not suppose to look up and around and study the situation and learn to read the signs. Instead they're supposed to just go get in her space and annoy her and make asses of themselves. Because that's what socially awkward and inept men do. Yeah, that'll work. You know why you guys are addicted to cold approach? It's an ego wank. "She was hot! I hit on her! I'm cool!" No matter the result. It's selfish behaviour. That's why pick up artists have hundreds …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:53 PM
1

When you look at women in a room, do you ever bother to look at their eyes? To see if they're looking at you? To see if they're interested or not? Or do you just go "I want that one!" and go hit on her?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:42 PM
3

You have no clue what Love is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:39 PM
1

Because women pay NO attention to the world around them so you have to go up and get in their faces just to make them see there's a man in the room.... If you've caught her eye, you'll know it. But if they are ignoring you, then they aren't interested in you. Going up and getting in their space is not going to change that. And you can't pull that "I just wanted to make friends" bullshit. Because that's not what you want. That's lying. That's being a creep. I just look around to see what there is…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:31 PM
0

Yes, men who read studies are more knowledgeable than married men with married friends and have had short friends dating women and have a lot of women in their families and ..... You guys have no experience with women, but claim to know everything. Could that be a clue as to why you have no experience with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:15 PM
1

Non-assholes meet her halfway.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 08:11 PM
1

And cue the projector....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:15 PM
2

So you're approaching without expectations on the hopes of expectations.... no. It's still you forcing your way into a woman's space to force her to give you attention. Force is the operative word.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 05:13 PM
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But.. but.. but.. you have to be a with a millionaire Chad who looks like an Olympic bodybuilder or you can't be happy! Impossible! They're just projecting their obsession with looks and status onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:15 PM
4

65% of men in the US are married.... so saying 80% are having dating problems is a huge fat LIE.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 03:07 PM
1

The only time rejection hurts is if you have already invested an emotional attachment into a woman before the suggestion. If she's someone you already know well, and there's going to a be a negative change in relationship after the rejection, then I could see a lot of inner turmoil on how to handle going forward when she says no. But if she's just a profile online or some stranger offline, and you're putting your ego on the line based on her reaction, that's not healthy. You see that with NiceGu…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 12:08 PM
2

Not much you can do with "Women are evil because they won't date me.. I mean, all men!"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:47 AM
3

Stop speaking for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:44 AM
3

But there will always be some guy better than you and she will drop you in a heartbeat to be with him. So it's about keeping men insecure and never trusting women. That's not making anyone better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:43 AM
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Because the entire Manosphere is built around making women the scapegoat for every problem a man may have, from dating to the workplace. Every cult needs an "other", an enemy, an outside threatening force to enforce internal cohesion. They just copied militant feminism, their parent religion, which they hate passionately but can't do without.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:41 AM
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Guys who obsess over height... it's not the height that drives the woman away, it's the obsession. The personality. Don't have to be tall to walk tall.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:34 AM
0

No, all the stuff on IncelTears is taken straight from the incels themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:29 AM
1

Thing about incels is that they're playing a pity game. If they called themselves "single", "unattached", "bachelor"... none of those will work to elicit sympathy. There's no implied victimhood with those terms. They need that "involuntary" part in order to blame others and make it look like they're victims of a cruel world, not their own toxic behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:26 AM
0

That, and those mass murders some of them did.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:22 AM
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They're just seeking out confirmation biases to tell them women hate them for everything but their weak or toxic personalities. And given that all the Manosphere cults revolve around "Don't trust women."... what kind of positive results can they expect with that mindset?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:19 AM
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Stop saying "men" when the correct word is "me". Sick of these guys whining they couldn't get a date on Tinder acting like their situations apply to the entire gender. If you would make it about you personally and ask for honest advice, that's one thing. But to lump every man in with you just makes it a whine. We did not elect you our spokesman. Your problems are your own, so own them and stop trying to make them all men's.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:13 AM
1

So it all boils down to what the men want and the women can just lump it, eh? If the women are saying "Stop approaching us when we show you no interest." and you're saying "How else are we going to force you to look at us?"..... You don't see a problem with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 11:05 AM
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No one is entitled to the sexual attention of others. Crying about it to get them to pity you and give you that attention is exploitation. So don't be surprised when they look down on you for trying that kind of sympathy manipulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:50 PM
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Chad is what's called a tulpas. He's the embodiment of all the fears and fantasies of the men who have feared or desired to be him. He's totally a male creation. What's interesting is how he's portrayed, a rich gym-addicted hypersexual metrosexual. You'd expect him to be wilder, more bad boy, more like a rock star, but he sounds like a gay urban stereotype.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:50 PM
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No. You don't have to approach. That's just a choice of strategy, and not the better option. What you want is to meet half-way... you show interest, she shows back, or vice versa. Then the approach, from either of you. It's not really an approach, just turning an already non-verbal conversation into a verbal one. Too many guys think that hitting on uninterested women is somehow going to succeed, and that's just idiotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:35 PM
2

They sit on Reddit subs and make up arbitrary ranking systems to put people in: 80/20, n-counts, n/10, stuff like that. They make up weird excuses like "hypergamy" to justify their own insecurities and prejudices against women. They constantly make references to "pills" from an old sci-fi movie. They cherry-pick irrelevant and poorly done sociology studies to "prove" no woman will ever want them. And complain that society has to change so supermodels will end up in their beds.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 02:16 PM
2

My wife wasn't conventionally "attractive" but I fell in love with her for many reasons. She had a kind and caring soul, she was adventurous and loved to travel, she had a quirky smile and could be damned adorable when the mood hit her. I just loved being with her. The woman I dated before her, also not a looker, but always complained about her ex-husband, never wanted to do anything, just dull all around. Sex was good, but there was nothing else. It really does all come down to personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:52 PM
1

It's usually narcissism. They feel entitled to the perfect little trad wife simply for being alive and when the world doesn't drop her on their doorstep, they rage. Close-minded, don't empathize, selfish, see "feminism" lurking everywhere, very cult-like in their worldview... no wonder they don't have dating success.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:28 PM
1

That last question just sums it all up, don't it? "I'm not Chad, so how do I pump-and-dump supermodels?" That's the kind of thinking that keeps so many young men alone. Hopefully, they grow out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:23 PM
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No, their dating issues come from only thinking about themselves and not putting themselves in a woman's shoes. The whole concept of dating hinges on having a woman so comfortable with you that she's willing to let you enter her body. Making women uncomfortable just to satisfy your lusts is how rapists think.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:18 PM
1

That's why you read the mood first. If she's not showing any interest, leave her alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:08 PM
1

Yes, lack of empathy. It's "pick up artist" thinking. They're narcissists who only care about themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 01:07 PM
3

Too many of theses guys think women are only looking at a man as a fashion accessory, someone to wear on their arm when they go out to make other women jealous.... because that's how they see themselves having women. They don't factor in having to live with someone.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:49 PM
2

Life is what you make of it. If you're always comparing what you have to others, you'll not have a good life. If you're enjoying the moments, you'll be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 12:43 PM
1

No, the problem is their misogyny. They have bad personalities and just expect women to fawn over them for their muscles. When that fails, they get all pissy about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:52 PM
1

Take notice that all these women are describing men with poor or toxic personalities.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:46 PM
6

65% of the men in the US are married, so their "standards" can't be that high. It's easy to be not-so-average. A little non-conformity, a bit of punk in your soul, a touch of rock n' roll.... that's all you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 07:25 PM
1

Why do you think most serial killers prey on prostitutes? They're too creepy to pick up women the regular ways, so they use the motive of money to get them into a position to be preyed upon. Alcala was the same way. He used his camera as a method to get around their basic instincts about him. Bundy would trick women with fake injuries. Gacy would offer young men jobs. Creepy is an obvious sense that he will refuse to respect boundaries. Most guys who get called creepy are being creepy. Just bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:45 PM
3

If you can't fathom Love in a marriage, do women a favour and leave them alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:23 PM
1

They do. They just do it more subtly. If you know what to look for, you'll see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:20 PM
1

Can't say I "look up" to anyone. I admire people for what they've accomplished, but I don't place people above my life. And I don't consider actors worthy of much. They play make-believe for a living while other people are doing the real work keeping things going. I'll watch and applaud an excellent performance, but they're not role models. The people on the cleaning staff at a hospital provide more real world value than any actor. Kinda irks me the way someone does something heroic in real life…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 12:09 PM
2

That guy offers an abusive relationship. He's showing more red flags than a communist party event.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:53 AM
3

I worship Freya, the Norse goddess of Love, with a strong grounding in Taoism. This pill stuff is bullshit. Masculinity and femininity fit together in harmony, not opposition. If your ideology is conflict between the genders, that's all you'll get in return.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:50 AM
2

Because most fathers are still clueless about it themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:25 AM
6

You're marrying the person who is supposed to be your bestest friend of your entire lifetime. How you turn that into prostitution.... Love is lost concept to too many.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:24 AM
1

It's that most guys who do the approach thing are trying creepy PUA crap and don't care what she thinks to start with.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:16 AM
5

Try to do some cognitive behavioural therapy on yourself. Take what makes you feel the least insecure and neurotic and build on it. Take what makes you feel that way the most and diminish it's presence in your life. Then as you learn to control yourself more, the confidence comes with that. It's not forced, it's just maturing within you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 11:06 AM
1

Here's an example. Rodney Alcala. Serial killer. He was good looking enough to get on the old Dating Game show, even won the date. But when she met him backstage, refused the date because he creeped her out that much. According to redpill/blackpill bullshit, she should have been drooling over him and eager to do anything he asked, but personality mattered to her and she dodged death. It's not about looks, it's about attitude. If you can't respect her boundaries, that's creepy. That's what the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:57 AM
1

You forget, to them "options" means only sex, not boyfriend/husband material.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:48 AM
1

There has to be an element of misogyny and domination in it or their egos won't buy it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:46 AM
0

But they are sound advice. At the end of the day, you will be living with that person, presumably til death do ye part. So faking it, only caring about looks, and ignoring personality will make for a horrible relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:43 AM
3

You read it wrong. Substitute "90% of men" with "me" and it makes sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:35 AM
3

Yeah, it works so well they all sit around bitching they can't get any.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:32 AM
1

Who you think is working those dancer poles? Masturbating in front of all those webcams? Why is there a massive industry making sex toys for women? Women are just as horny as men are. Most just don't wear it on their sleeves like men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:30 AM
0

If you don't approach dating knowing that women hope for a LTR, then you'll fall flat. The guys only chasing casual sex tend to ignore that and do miserably. Then make up subreddits and movements to whine about how it's her fault.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:15 AM
2

It's obvious... "make women sleep with jerks who only see them as sex toys". The one's who don't aren't the ones complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:59 AM
6

It always boils down to "force women to sleep with us and be grateful for it."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:56 AM
1

There's nothing wrong with "modern dating". What's wrong are whiny little narcissists who have a compulsive need to bitch about not getting the girls they want and try to blame society for it, instead of self-analyzing and realizing they're as empty inside as a tennis ball and as shallow as a flat plane. What women would want that?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 09:45 AM
0

Hypergamy = "There's always gonna be someone better than me that she'll run off to the instant my back is turned." Just an excuse men use to cover up their own insecurity and trust issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:35 PM
3

Women don't pay for male nudes. Men do. He's just playing the system.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:30 PM
3

They're outside that room.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:21 PM
2

Then go online to cry that it's all women's/society's/OLD's fault because the women aren't throwing themselves at a shallow empty shell of a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:17 PM
2

Just bored and floating in the shallow end of the human pool, studying the empty shells.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:10 PM
1

By making everything completely transactional and all about the man's fragile ego within a marriage situation, then obviously the vows are meaningless and his ego is all that matters. Only a narcissist would even consider that kind of hypothetical, especially when you throw in all those meaningless "ratings". So you writing and posting that is completely a reflection upon you and your view of relationships, which show you have no respect for marriage vows or the spirit of Love in which they were…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:08 PM
1

But his psychology is written all through it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:11 PM
1

They're not outliers. They are the norm. You're the one making stuff up based on your own insecurities and prejudices and not observing reality. Only a masochist would believe that 20% of the world is better than they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 12:10 PM
1

If there is no "top 20%", which there isn't, then it doesn't matter, right? Plenty of short guys out there with women and there's quite a few vagrant couples, so it's all just subjective bollocks that only exists inside shallow little minds. If you are actively making up reasons to feel inferior to other people, sounds like a form of masochism to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 11:01 AM
1

You have nothing to do with it... yet you're the one who wrote and posted it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:57 AM
1

Only about half do. And 70% of divorcees remarry. I do suspect that anyone that transactional in their romantic thinking will end up getting dumped.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:56 AM
0

"There's always someone better, lurking around every corner and when she sees him, it's all over! She'll drop me like a dirty shirt and run off to be with Mr Better-than-Me!" And this is why shallow guys sit online whining about not getting the girl. They have serious problems with trust, all made up in their own insecure heads.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:54 AM
1

Speak for yourself. Most 18 year olds look like children to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:27 AM
1

Marriage vows are meaningless to you, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:21 AM
-1

But there is no "top 20%". There is no objective ranking. It is all subjective and more shallow than a copy of Hello magazine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 01:18 AM
1

I date women I'm mentally attracted to. She doesn't have to be the greatest physically as long as she's got an attitude I like. I'm not shallow and looking for ego validation. That's why I'm not one of the cast here bitching that they can't get the girl. Depth is power. Shallow is lame.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 08:43 PM
1

So you blame the world for you being shallow and superficial? How shallow and superficial of you. It's also submissive... "They're prettier than me! I can't compete! I'm not as good as they are!" Self-deprecation. Self-flagellation. Here's a copy of People magazine. You can hate yourself to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 06:38 PM
1

It's a typo. The 13th Amendment was ratified in 1865.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:48 PM
2

Sod that. Vanilla or kinky?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:39 PM
3

No. We all came from one. Be like hating ourselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:35 PM
-1

Be amazed at how many average people are in porn. What these guys want is the hottest girl in town on their arms to impress the other guys. It's about status and ego wanking. If it was really about sex, they wouldn't be so damned shallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:29 PM
2

So if Kate Upton asked, you'd reject her?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:25 PM
1

Sounds like a dating profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:23 PM
1

True. These are some of the emptiest shells I've ever come across.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:14 PM
1

You do know what the words "shallow" and "superficial" mean, right? And that they are not considered a positive way to look at the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 05:12 PM
2

Why do you require studies to make your way through life? Most studies aren't worth the paper they're written on. Look outside. See all them non-rich guys with wives and families? All you need is a job, not a million in the bank. They just want to know that you're not going to be a bum leeching off them.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 12:02 PM
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Go 3 days without food and you'll change your mind fast. Sex won't even enter your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:54 AM
2

No. Not something I have any interest in.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:51 AM
2

It's about inflated egos. They have to denigrate women in order to stroke their own. Lot of narcissism floating about, especially in the "Manosphere".
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:45 AM
1

People like to get sexual attention? No kidding.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:42 AM
1

So your advice is for him to stay insecure and just buy a relationship? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:36 AM
1

Cognitive behavioural therapy does work, recognizing a negative thought or action and redirecting or halting those thought or actions to become more accustomed to not think or do them. But like alcoholics, they have to admit there's a problem, recognize it, and make a conscious effort to correct it. You can and should be constantly cultivating your personality. With control over the inner self comes great confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:33 AM
1

They know what it is, but they don't care. They just don't want to face their own. Shallow as all get out, empty, only care about looks and status, jealous of success, think everyone is just a cardboard cut-out.... not attractive personalities. Then they make up a massive list of excuses about why women aren't looking in their direction, none of which include the faintest hint that it could be their own attitudes towards the world. You gotta laugh.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:29 AM
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Nope. It's not the package, it's the fire within. Not being tall, but "walking tall". How your confidence makes you carry yourself. How it affects your eye contact and body language. Vibes. Energy. She's not looking for a man just to look at him. There has to be conversation, connection and compatibility and that is all personality.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:22 AM
2

Dealbreakers... into himself too much, pathologically jealous, mistrustful, empty, whiny, and many more. If you're as dull as cardboard or controlling as hell, not good.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:17 AM
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You see that in here all the time. Guys who live in the gym, dress well, etc. but no woman gives them the time of day.... because they refuse to put their personality into their calculations. Unfortunately for them, shallow superficial men just don't grasp the importance of personality. It's so over their heads that they'd need a telescope to see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:10 AM
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No, it's just shallow men telling themselves that. And the guys on here are so shallow you could step in them with bare feet and not get wet. The deep man will always have the advantage because he's far more socially, emotional, and sexually aware and isn't working off a set of empty assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 11:02 AM
1

Feed his head. Listen to strong, confident music. Read fiction to understand inner personalities. Meditate upon the clitoris to become more sexually aware. All you learn in the gym is how to do repetitive movements over and over and over. It's mindless.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:57 AM
1

The women group of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:45 AM
1

Rubbish. It has nothing to do with "value". It's either a selfish desire, a drunken mistake, an act of revenge, or an escape from a failed relationship. The thing with people that think everyone is playing this "climb the value pyramid" bollocks is that they themselves cannot trust. Since trust is the basis of a sound relationship, their mistrust will push any partner away and create a self-fulfilling prophecy,
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:44 AM
2

Is she kind, caring, fun to be with? Does she do adorable things, make you feel light inside? Does she engage your senses, engage your mind, broaden your horizons? Many ways for a man to be attracted to a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:39 AM
1

It's not about receiving. It's about giving.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/22 10:34 AM
1

Being jealous of other people is a "you" issue. That will exist irrespective of age.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:19 PM
-1

Nah, just refusing to admit you're the problem. If you think it's legit to bitch women ain't chasing you, it's you. You feel entitled to women, otherwise you wouldn't care. It's you. PERIOD.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 07:16 PM
1

And if they're all college kids, it's a tight age bracket. Another flaw in the study.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:13 AM
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Cause he's a jerk with women? As sexually exciting as a block of wood? Nowhere near as wonderful or nice as he thinks he is? That's usually the case. There's entire subs dedicated to showing men being total dickheads towards women. They're also the ones who gripe the most when they aren't getting what they want, but refuse to realize they're their own worst enemy in the romance department.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 11:10 AM
0

There's incels doing escorts and still acting like they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:56 AM
0

Look at the methodology. They only used five people to rate the popularity of the participants and it was based on videos, not actual meetings. You could change out those five people and get completely different results. You could have them meet face-to-face and get completely different results. This is why most sociology studies are bullshit. There's almost always a fatal flaw in the methods used to come to the conclusions. And the one thing that it completely misses... it's not the popularity …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:55 AM
2

It's mutual consent. If you're that desperate that you'll sleep with any woman that offers... talk about dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 10:45 AM
4

There's always a surplus of fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 02:42 AM
2

I'd rather take the money and buy a bass boat.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:35 AM
2

Love. Of any kind.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:28 AM
6

Damn, there are some desperate men here.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:24 AM
10

Speak for yourself. There's no pussy out there worth being made a male sex slave to a bunch of Albanian gangsters for.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/22 01:19 AM
13

I don't see a high value in people who assign subjective numbers ratings to other people.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 10:44 PM
10

Maybe Match or eHarmony, or Fetlife if you're into that scene, but most of the rest are crap. Tinder won't tell you when anyone last logged in. I suspect most of the women's profiles on there are for dead accounts that haven't been touched in years. Online dating is on the way out. It's nothing like it was in the early days. Everything's pay to play, there's way too many scam sites, and the creeps are driving off all the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 09:25 PM
8

The youth are all screwed up, and it's no wonder. You got prophets of doom in the mainstream preaching that the world will end, you have identitarian cults trying to recruit and dominate, you got everyone trying to sell more mundane products "to empower our lives" than ever before, they see their age peers getting money and attention by doing dumb shit online, the political propaganda is all fear, hatred and obedience, very little originality in the arts.... Culturally, this is a shitty time. It…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 03:21 PM
1

Yes. That's what I said to begin with. I don't require 100% attraction. I'm a realist.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:57 PM
2

I told you. They're in the publicity game. Being seen with big names and models is how they sell their product, which is themselves. Meanwhile, out in the real world, where people don't have small hordes of paparazzi following them around with cameras and paid publicists trying to push one's career by getting invites to any event with a red carpet...
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 02:52 PM
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It also perpetuates and amplifies all their insecurities. They will always be looking for yet another "flaw" to improve.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:59 PM
7

Because when the commercial-driven dreams of childhood finally fade, you find yourself at the middle of your adult life wondering "Is this it?". Then you go off seeking a bit of self-actualization. If you're young, you'll be there some day.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:52 PM
4

Frankly, many of us guys think "metrosexual" is just another word for "gay". Those guys are way too into their grooming. Of all the items in my wardrobe, the one that seems to get the most attention is a Cowboy Bebop t-shirt. The old saying is wrong. It's not the clothes that make the man. It's the way he wears them. You can stick some insecure neurotic guy in a Savile Row suit and he's still gonna be insecure and neurotic.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:47 PM
1

Go ask the waitresses married to the welders. It's not a factor. Most people understand that they're not gonna be millionaires or Hollywood celebs and adjust their lives accordingly. They're not chasing wealth or status. Just living their working/middle class lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:17 PM
1

You can type, but can't read?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:10 PM
1

So true! They see those all those pay-to-play porn bods and drool, thinking the only way to get one is to fork out the cash. They ignore the other options.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 01:01 PM
4

Proof that beauty is subjective. I don't find her attractive. She looks too much like a child to me. Too thin with no boobs. She wouldn't even register on my radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:50 PM
0

You can still enjoy the scenery. Hell, one might even enjoy you back. Can't score a goal by sitting in the stands.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:28 PM
5

It's not about "lowering standards". It's about understanding what's important. Are you looking for a woman to live with or a woman to be seen with? Are you looking for the one to grow old with or the one to impress the guys? The mature men of depth will be looking for women who are more on their wavelength, who will complement their lives in a positive way, and with whom they can enjoy the joint adventures to come. He doesn't have to be the most good looking or the richest. His stable ego accep…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 12:22 PM
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First off, not all women are chasing rich old men. Only a few. So it's not some kind of biological thing. Second, models are products just like other celebs. They want their product to be seen with other products that sell. That's why the job title of publicist exists in that world. They arrange camera dates for celebs and models to get their pictures taken at events and such. That's why they have so many events. It's all one massive non-stop commercial selling names and faces.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:27 AM
1

I already told you that answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/22 11:02 AM
1

Guys who reject "be yourself" don't like themselves. So they try to be someone else, wearing a mask over their insecurities and neuroses. But the mask will eventually fall off and they'll be back to hating themselves even more when the lies they've built come crashing down.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 11:07 PM
8

Old saying... "A poor workman blames his tools."
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:06 PM
1

No you didn't. I can see the original comment. The 100% wasn't there. I don't expect perfection in women. I can accept and overlook their "flaws" if there's enough there for me to be interested. It's this thing I do. It's called "maturity".
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 03:00 PM
2

You're the one fishing for pity here. You do need therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:39 PM
1

Depends on how big her boobs are. You don't have to be attracted to all of her.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:15 PM
1

No, it's just because they're assholes. People don't like pretty assholes, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 02:05 PM
2

Why are you "working" for it? It's supposed to be fun. Fun is not work. You need to step back from yourself and see all that negativity. Women are the negative pole, not the men. They have to go through monthly menstruation, the pains of childbirth, being drooled over and hit on by idiots and assholes, fears of rapists and serial killers, death during childbirth. Not us. We men have it easy. We're the positive charge of the magnet. It's Yin (woman) and Yang (man). So if you're negative, and sinc…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:25 PM
1

Yeah, bringing serial killers into it really makes for a cogent argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:01 PM
1

You're the one complaining, dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:01 PM
2

I think I see the problem more clearly. With all this emphasis on friendship, I'm guessing NiceGuy behaviours. Rejection of sound advice, the need to constantly emphasize the negative, looking for pity... probably narcissism. It's you, not them. Seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 12:00 PM
1

You're supposed to enjoy the show, not bitch about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:31 AM
11

It's called diversity. It's an evolutionary thing to spread the genes about and mix 'em up and keep the species going. If everyone was only after a single archetype, we wouldn't adapt very well and would have died out long ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:20 AM
1

Ahh, I see. You tried so hard to force it to happen. Therefore it didn't. And you got frustrated and tried to force it even harder, and got even more frustrated.... just building a big mass of negativity inside yourself. No wonder they don't look. You're too busy desiring them that you can't just enjoy their existence. It's like going to an art gallery and getting all worked up that you can't have the paintings on the walls. And you're trying so hard to get them to look at you that you're not lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/22 01:08 AM
2

It's the positive energy behind the smile! Christ, all you guys do is make up excuses.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:26 PM
2

You'll never get to the destination if you give up. Just keep feeding him that negativity, though. You'll make sure he never gets there.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:24 PM
2

Yea, smiles are so hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 11:20 PM
0

Can't be doing it right if he's getting no results.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 07:22 PM
-1

So you gave up. After a month. Gonna succeed for sure that way, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:17 PM
2

Positivity is attractive. Negativity is not. Again, afraid of succeeding?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 03:14 PM
2

Welcome to the Age of Narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:35 AM
10

Or you could just go outside and smile at all the women and see who smiles back. Why do you guys have to come up with a million excuses to fail? Afraid of succeeding? It's that very negativity which ensures you get ignored by them.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:23 AM
1

Haven't read any ethnography, have you? Not many orgies going on in primitive cultures. Making up stuff is not good for the old credibility, you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:10 AM
0

Sounds like gynophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/22 10:06 AM
3

So if they don't know who the father is, how do they keep the genetic defects from consanguinity down, especially in tribal societies which are usually based on extended families? Some one fed you a load of horseshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:37 PM
1

Guy bragging he bangs 10 to 15 a month and you believe him? Wow. Talk about gullible.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:34 PM
1

Confidence is attractive. Positivity is attractive. That's all attitude. If you're going around telling yourself "I'm not rich enough. I'm not famous enough. I'm not pretty enough." all day long, don't expect results. It's all attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:16 PM
1

Yes, very. Blaming women for one's own insecurities and feelings of inadequacy is not solving one's personality problems. Yet the entire "Manosphere" has made a religion out of it. They don't even like women. They just want to use them as ego masturbation. Then they whine that no woman wants them. Gee, I wonder why.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 10:08 PM
3

No, they projected all their own feelings of inadequacy onto women, just so they can blame women for them feeling inadequate. A neurotic ego defense.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 09:54 PM
1

All I see is a cult of fear. Little boys terrified of women and telling themselves that they have to "buy" one with status or income, and she'll run away as soon as some guy with more comes along. No confidence at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:46 PM
0

Why what? To stay afraid?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:37 PM
1

You guys really do insist on proving me right. "It's so hard!" Of course it is, if you have that attitude. World full of women. All you gotta do is enjoy it. So damned easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:33 PM
7

Confidence is attractive. Positivity is attractive. Liking yourself is attractive. They all change the way you walk, the way you make eye contact, the way you communicate with the world. If you're walking about, staring at the ground, scared to meet her eyes, telling yourself over and over about how you're "out of her league" and how inadequate you are compared to "Chad", just being a moving mass of negativity, don't cry that people are ignoring you. So yes, it's the man's insecurities and lack …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 07:27 PM
2

"Dating's so hard!" Really? World is full of women yet there's always some guy whining that it's too hard to smile at them.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:48 PM
8

Why does it always boil down to some war between two egos? Just have fun and none of that shit matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:43 PM
19

The guys that complain most that women have high standards are the ones obsessed with looks and status and "sexual market values" and all that other bullshit that those imaginary "leagues" are made from. Their heads are still stuck in that high school "All the rich jocks get all the hot girls. I can't compete." mentality. They make up those "high standards" in their heads to excuse away their own insecurities and lack of confidence.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:35 PM
2

It's called pity fishing. They want you to pity them so they can control you through that sympathy. It's a form of narcissistic exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 06:13 PM
1

Sometimes?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:38 AM
2

Have you looked at the people ruling the world? They don't look like catalog models.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:34 AM
-2

Nah, it's just a shallow woman being shallow. Only Red Pill men would immediately see this as an example of why they have to "up their game" to please her. Submission.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:32 AM
2

And having the personality of a piece of cardboard. She can only "look at your pretty" for so long before she gets bored.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:23 AM
11

That's a rather shallow outlook. Very shallow. Ignores personality, compatibility, companionship... you know, all those deep things that makes for an interesting relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:22 AM
1

What can you expect from guys who are trying to turn being single into some kind of transcendent religious experience?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:12 AM
5

And on a guy with an obviously male name and pfp. Not too observant, is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:01 AM
6

I doubt most people outside the internet give a shit. From what I have seen, it's a staple premise of the PUA world, where they're really after that little adrenaline rush they get from hitting on a woman. They fail almost all the time, but they get their little fix from it and can't think of anything else. Then you have the shut-ins that think women will never hit on a guy, but they get all their info from online echo chambers and ignore anyone who proves them wrong. Of course they never have w…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:28 PM
12

Recruiting for the He-Man Woman Haters' Club, eh?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 04:03 PM
5

What are you supposed to say to some guy that's whinging on and on about how he can't get his dick wet? If he's that desperate, rent some for the night. Or he can stop whinging about it and that'll improve his chances of getting it for free big time. But there's too many complainers out there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:54 PM
1

"All women want Chad" is not science. It's an assumption.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 10:15 PM
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But that doesn't push the agenda that the women are shitting on the men, so we better ignore those inconvenient truths.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:47 PM
1

And since both are bullshit based completely on assumptions....
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:46 PM
0

Greenland ice cores. We have records going back tens of thousands of years. They show the beginning of the current Ice Age interglacial and the temperature fluctations within. There seems to be a 600-800 year cycle of warming and cooling, irregardless of CO2 levels. Hottest year on record was 703AD, 2C hotter than today. The current warm period, and it's not the first, began around 1700AD, 150 years before the Industrial Revolution, but right after a solar minimum ended. We're in another solar m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 04:36 PM
1

If you get upset that a woman on the other end of an electronic communication is not giving you all her total attention, take that as a sign that you're just a selfish jerk.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:44 AM
3

We should force everyone to be exactly the same! Then the world will be perfect!
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:40 AM
1

Already built him. Me. Put a lot of effort into this mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:38 AM
1

So go out of your way to annoy her and if she leaves.... No.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:22 AM
-1

They have to. Keeps people working on the supply side. The carbon doesn't matter. It's all solar cycles. We're at the peak of the warming. It'll be slowly getting colder for the next 300 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 11:19 AM
1

They fail because of the same reason they fall into the redpill bollocks... they're narcissistic and shallow. They make assumptions about women based on their own projections and shallowness and therefore can't connect with them. Instead of re-examining themselves, they seek out an ideology that blames women, society, and everything but them. And are still failing.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 01:23 AM
2

Red Pill is about narcissistic and very shallow young men arrogantly thinking they know everything about women but crying because they aren't rich enough or handsome enough or famous enough to get with that woman they're too bloody scared to even make eye contact with. They're fools.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:44 PM
-1

Hmm, a society where people are forced to be happy. What a Brave New World.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:07 PM
12

Yeah, but you must actually be going outside to see the real world. Most of these Redpill guys never notice the outside world and think all mating occurs over Tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:06 PM
4

When this thing started, it was mostly British and American YouTubers driving it. It was supposed to be a reaction against militant feminism, but turned into a shallow misogynistic cult of idiocy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 12:01 PM
5

I don't think that's anywhere near the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 02:12 AM
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