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| 4 | Where do you get the enthusiasm to talk to women?Little by little | /r/seduction | 17/07/26 08:39 AM |
| 9 | Game is keyI knew a really good looking guy that was 28 and still a virgin. I've also seen pretty mid looking guys in clubs pull hot girls. It's absolutely not just about looks when it comes to women. It helps a lot but it's not the be all and end all like some people think it is. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 08:52 PM |
| 3 | How to escalate for a kissI like to think of any failed interactions or rejections as invaluable data. Thinking of failures like this and shifting Ng my mindset has helped me improve so much. | /r/seduction | 08/06/26 04:33 AM |
| 1 | How do you safely sleep with hoes?Do the dirty with a condom on and get an STD check immediately afterwards. Maybe this doesn't work for Americans who probably have to pay $50,000 to get tested but if you live in any of the other first world countries with actual healthcare it should be free or extremely cheap. | /r/seduction | 03/06/26 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Have a girl thats super into me, but I need to know how to keep her like this.Great words to live by | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 11:50 AM |
| 2 | Some tips with regards to sexual health?I usually get a test every month or so just to be safe. | /r/seduction | 24/05/26 09:20 AM |
| 1 | How often do you work out?I find trying to log reps and stuff demotivates me because it creates an expectation in my head that if I don't do more/better than before then I'm failing or going backwards. Also it will make me go for number of reps over quality of reps because big number go brrrr. I guess what works for one person is the opposite of what works for another | /r/seduction | 18/05/26 01:06 AM |
| 6 | How To Show Interest to Women Without Looking DesperateIt's like working out. You can't just do 1000 reps all at once and be ripped in a couple days | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 10:15 AM |
| 1 | How often do you work out?Your looking really good now especially compared to those before shots! Keep it up you should be proud of yourself! | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 08:50 AM |
| 11 | How often do you work out?Trick for me was to enjoy the feeling of my muscles hurting from using them. Knowing each time I feel that, it's making me a little bit stronger. | /r/seduction | 17/05/26 08:47 AM |
| 4 | Places To Meet Women?Festivals, nightclubs and raves I find easiest. Any social hobbies can be great too | /r/seduction | 15/05/26 02:36 AM |
| 3 | Things NOT to Say to a Girl You LikeI love hearing women's perspectives in this subreddit | /r/seduction | 14/05/26 08:25 AM |
| 17 | Why do my dates feel great conversationally but not romantically?This is a good question, I'd love to get others opinions on it too, but for me I usually start with some light touches on the hand, arm, shoulders waist etc and get more flirty with the touches if she seems open to it or otherwise reciprocates. If she pulls away or seems awkward from it I back off. | /r/seduction | 09/05/26 12:30 PM |
| 2 | How long does it take a woman to decide that she wants to have sex with you?In the words of professor Farnsworth: "It could take an hour, or it could take 100 million years!" | /r/seduction | 06/05/26 07:31 PM |
| 2 | Low confidence - any tips to develop it?This is a dumb take. Even in your example saying hello and then running away. They might find it weird but they will forget about it by tomorrow, you on the other hand have overcome a big milestone that will make it easier to say hello and not run away next time. | /r/seduction | 05/05/26 08:18 AM |
| 1 | If flirting isn’t your cup of tea, is it bad necessarily to just straight up have a discussion with the girl about if she wants to get intimate?It sounds like what you need is some concrete examples of actual lines people have said that have worked that you can add to your brains algorithm so you know what kind of things to say and how you say it. I can't think of any examples off the top of my head sorry but reading some women's romance novels might be a place to start. Keep in mind just because women fantasize about something, doesn't mean they can't still freak out if it actually happens to them (depending on what it is and the execu… | /r/seduction | 04/05/26 10:48 AM |
| 1 | Curious what yall do when you’re having a girl over to hook up.Bit risky. Relies on them understanding the reference otherwise it just sounds weird. | /r/seduction | 03/05/26 10:40 AM |
| 7 | I have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Any ideas?I've met a tall handsome guy who made a ton of money who was still a virgin at 28 and had never been in a relationship before. I also knew an averge looking guy who was average height and dirt poor who always pulled chicks whenever we went clubbing together. I think people like to focus on looks/money/wealth because they seem out of reach and gives them an excuse for not having any success instead of doing the hard thing and working to improve themselves. It TAKES TIME. You aren't going to climb… | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 05:36 AM |
| 6 | I have absolutely no idea how to attract women. Any ideas?I've met a tall handsome guy who made a ton of money who was still a virgin at 28 and had never been in a relationship before. I also knew an averge looking guy who was average height and dirt poor who always pulled chicks whenever we went clubbing together. I think people like to focus on looks/money/wealth because they seem out of reach and gives them an excuse for not having any success instead of doing the hard thing and working to improve themselves. It TAKES TIME. You aren't going to climb… | /r/seduction | 02/05/26 05:36 AM |
| 1 | I get the number 99% of time but never the dateOne tip I have is to organize some other event before getting the number or part for the night. Not foolproof but it helps | /r/seduction | 27/04/26 03:35 AM |
| 1 | How to not seek female validation on social media?Don't give a shit about what anyone else thinks and post stuff for you. It will make you look more insecure if you're always trying to seek validation from women and will probably look obvious eventually. | /r/seduction | 23/04/26 10:27 PM |
| 31 | For the guys with 100+ bodycount, what’s the 1 girl you can’t forget?That guys dead wife | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 09:42 AM |
| 3 | If she is "easy" with you, does it mean she is "easy" in general ?If you aren't looking for a long term relationship who cares? The whole 'x chick is too easy' thing is why girls feel the need to be difficult to hook up with in the first place. | /r/seduction | 19/04/26 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Best way to recover/ avoid hangover?Drink a lot of water before the end of the night. If you can keep some water nearby to where you're sleeping. This has worked for me pretty much all the time that I do it and I can sometimes have 10-15 standard drinks in a night | /r/seduction | 14/04/26 10:46 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone here been able to pull hot girls irl but unable to on dating app?Me | /r/seduction | 08/04/26 01:07 AM |
| 3 | As a good looking guy,how do you have options when you have a girlfriend?Agreed, jumping from relationship to relationship only masks personal problems. You need to face your demons head on before moving to the next relationship even if it feels hard. You and your future partner will be better off for it. | /r/seduction | 28/03/26 12:26 PM |
| 3 | Keep getting rejected at the club by her friendWhat examples do you have of false time constraints? | /r/seduction | 09/03/26 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Feeling hopeless about my dating lifeYeah imagine it like job applications and getting the second job you applied for. | /r/seduction | 07/03/26 02:18 AM |
| 1 | 25F Keep getting feedback I’m attractive but intimidating and hard to approachProbably just caught off guard Depending on how your approach is they might think you're trying to sell them something or scam them which is something to consider. | /r/seduction | 02/03/26 02:41 PM |
| 3 | What are your most effective ways to make a woman horny?Gets them wet everytime without fail | /r/seduction | 16/02/26 10:20 AM |
| 1 | What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them?Set on fire obviously | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 08:39 PM |
| 2 | How to record yourself when cold approaching?You can probably get a lot of the info you want from just audio recording in the background on your phone to see how you sound looking back on a convo. | /r/seduction | 13/02/26 02:16 PM |
| 2 | No sexual tensionIf you aren't attracted to them then just break it off or just stay as friends if you get on well. Just be clear with your intentions. | /r/seduction | 12/02/26 11:25 AM |
| 1 | how i manage to get girls to come over directly from dating apps with no effortI doubt the hundred or so people who read this advice and take it on board will massively skew things for the rest of the population | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 02:01 PM |
| 1 | how i manage to get girls to come over directly from dating apps with no effort!remindme 4 months 1 day | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedThat's why you keep like 3 in your pocket/bag when clubbing | /r/seduction | 09/02/26 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Vulnerability is consistently rated as one of the most attractive traits in men by women. Not weakness—vulnerability. The willingness to be authentic even when it's uncomfortable.There's a difference between doing something that makes you appear weak and doing something that is your own style and you don't give a fuck who knows it. | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 10:14 AM |
| 3 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedThat's why condoms exist | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 12:43 AM |
| -4 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedIt's just the nature of this sub. You're going to get people that get funny about anything. | /r/seduction | 07/02/26 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Base level attraction matters — no game can override itI've seen mid looking guys go home with a girl at clubs plenty of times. I also knew a super attractive guy who was still a virgin at 28. Looks aren't everything. They just give you a good foot in the door. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 08:37 PM |
| 1 | I'm going to kill myself if I cannot get laid with 20 girls by the end of 2025Please don't internet stranger | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 05:16 AM |
| 2 | Those of you who don't get rejected...Just spend your life playing adult visual novels instead. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 01:54 AM |
| 529 | It's easy as fuckFirst draw a circle, then draw the rest of the fucking owl | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 01:56 AM |
| 30 | Date was going very well until I said one sentenceAutism Spectrum disorder | /r/seduction | 28/01/26 12:30 AM |
| 3 | What are the key things to learn / develop to become good with girls?It's like a puzzle in that makes perfect sense in hindsight but it's really hard to figure out for people who aren't already there. There's a lot of nuance that's entirely situational and can't be easily be explained with "just do xyz". Best advice is just to get out there, try, fuck everything up 8 times if you need to until you eventually start to understand what is working and what isn't. | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 10:40 AM |
| 9 | What are the key things to learn / develop to become good with girls?To point 3: Be persistent not insistent | /r/seduction | 22/01/26 10:35 AM |
| 3 | What are some underrated qualities a guy can have that can be absolutelly magnetic?There's a big difference in your energy if you are playing to impress someone vs having some spontaneous fun playing on a piano you came across. | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 02:24 PM |
| 6 | She asked me out but already had plans after, would you still go?You cant observe an art piece and talk about it with someone next to you at the same time? Bruh... | /r/seduction | 12/01/26 03:55 AM |
| 1 | How to get dates/laids?Good tips in there that align with stuff I've learnt too! | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 10:45 PM |
| 3 | How to get dates/laids?Just keep practicing. Start from scratch and talk to anyone, Male, female, cashiers, whoever to get your skill up with talking to people. What's worked for me is going to clubs and raves and just trying to engage with people. A-B test and see what people like and what turns them away. Don't go into it trying to or expecting to get laid as this changes your energy and makes it harder to get laid. Try and find out who you are and be unapologetically yourself. If you can create a good aura around y… | /r/seduction | 05/01/26 10:19 PM |
| 1 | I am sick of not being able attract womenSounds like the issue is you are trying to hard to attract women which is often a turn off. Try and start doing things for you and not because you think it will/won't attract women. Be unapologetically yourself. Also try and see things from a girls perspective. They are their own person with their own thoughts feelings and desires. Not saying you're doing this but this is often overlooked way more often than it should be. It can be difficult to get in the right headspace of not caring about attr… | /r/seduction | 23/12/25 11:17 AM |
| 5 | Pro Tip: Make friends with womenIt's called jealousy | /r/seduction | 26/09/25 05:38 PM |
| 5 | How do you guys start conversations at the gym with pretty women?Eye-fucking lmao I've got to remember that one | /r/seduction | 24/09/25 06:52 AM |
| 1 | 5 Tightly Guarded Secrets of FemaleI don't think OP intended it as 'they want the opposite of what they say', what they were trying to say is what the girl is feeling in the moment isn't the be all and end all like most guys think (because guys typically think like this). And guys might ruin any potential second chances by going all doomsday mode right after. | /r/seduction | 23/09/25 02:13 PM |
| 1 | from 1 to 10, how bad is it to cry in front of a woman?Depends on the girl Depends how far into relationship/how close you are Depends on context | /r/seduction | 04/09/25 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Full blown got laid in the club [field report]In a dark club with flashing lights and off to the side? There's a lot of stuff you could miss in plain sight. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 01:37 PM |
| 7 | Full blown got laid in the club [field report]Dunno why people are calling cap this sort of thing happens. I also think it's helpful to hear what's worked for some people, even if it is just luck or good timing. | /r/seduction | 02/09/25 01:36 PM |
| 5 | I wanna get a girl obsessed with me in a good way. Cuz I love her.As in focusing in and obsessing over a single person like OP is doing is bound to scare them away. | /r/seduction | 28/08/25 03:14 AM |
| 18 | Best Cold Approach Openers – What Actually Works for You?Instant lay | /r/seduction | 21/08/25 11:45 AM |
| 2 | I Made Duolingo for SeductionI'm interested. | /r/seduction | 31/07/25 05:35 AM |
| 1 | How to handle the "I'm not ready" type of situations with girls?Just respect her boundaries as she probably just has a lot going on in her head emotionally and she needs time to process it. If by chance she is playing a game of sorts than it's not the kind of person you want to be with anyway. So being polite and stepping back works either way. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 12:05 AM |
| 2 | 3 Texting principles that consistently get me laid with online dating💀 | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 12:39 AM |
| 2 | How to make a girl laugh?Nitrous Oxide | /r/seduction | 02/10/24 12:27 PM |
| 7 | “There’s a lot of girls in ur area, why don’t u have a gf?”That you've been just trying focus on improving yourself during that time helps too. Hopefully with some sincerety. | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 10:45 PM |
| 15 | Favorite responses when a girl says she had a dream about you?Omg the replies here are such memes | /r/seduction | 25/09/24 04:19 AM |
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