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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
44	Is it a red flag that the guy I’m talking to follows a lot of cosplayers and models? Regardless of what caused it, you literally threw up from disgust in relation to this dude. That's a red flag if I ever saw one. Unless this boba date absolutely rocked your world and your feelings toward him did a 180 I'd say move on, don't force yourself to be into someone who's given you the literal ick. You're 18 and there are plenty of guys out there who won't turn your stomach.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/24 08:47 AM
12	Red Flags/ Green Flags At first glance, my thoughts are: He "thinks he's found what he likes to do"... good, but what is he doing about that? Is he practically pursuing work in his chosen trade or a related field, or is he still just ideating? Depending on where your life is at and what you're seeking from a partner, you may need him to be a certain degree of 'established' in his career to be satisfied. "He tries to be a good guy"... I would want to get an understanding from him of what he thinks being a "good guy" me…	/r/RedPillWomen	19/02/24 06:40 AM
6	Not sure if this is appropriate to post here but posting because I have a more “traditional” relationship and having some issues. PLEASE help I agree with the commenter here. It sounds to me like your behaviour was entirely appropriate throughout and your boyfriend is blowing this all out of proportion. His insecurity and dramatic flair in this whole situation are not very dominant, an integral aspect of which is being in control of one's emotions through self-discipline, not trying to control others as a means of controlling one's emotions. Both you and he are expecting you to not have smiled when someone is being polite and helpful …	/r/RedPillWomen	09/02/24 09:24 AM
3	Red flag comment by man about his girlfriend? This comes across to me as X just wanting to ensure his speech is accurate. It can be awkward to clarify your relationship status immediately after you've misspoken, but that's much better than inadvertently misleading someone into an incorrect understanding of your relationship status and having to clear that up much later down the track. If he were to not correct himself, but then marry his partner in the future, then there could have been a period of time where people thought he was already m…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/02/24 02:58 AM

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