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| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 4 | Hard Nexting is tough..“Some guy she had known for a couple months vs a childhood dream of her...” yeah I don’t think I stood a chance there lol | /r/askTRP | 05/06/21 01:38 AM |
| 3 | Hard Nexting is tough..Not so much a question but me leaning on AskTRP for support... as stated caught some feels and it has been a little difficult moving forward | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 08:26 PM |
| 1 | Did I make the right decision to go NC?Grew tired of having plates (this probably has more to do with feeling burnt out from my job and not wanting to deal with multiple chicks at once rn) combined with extreme job stress and fatigue. Think I ended up leaning on this one harder than I should've hoping she was going to be the answer to my stress. Got into a mindset of feeling happy and stress free when laying next to her as opposed to a random plate that I feel absolutely nothing for and would rather her leave at the ass crack of dawn… | /r/askTRP | 04/06/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Soft Next or Hard Next?So whats the best way to move forward if the other chicks in rotation aren't cutting it? I've been plating all throughout college and now some random girl who won't give me the time of day has become my focus and more important than any of my plates. | /r/askTRP | 29/04/20 03:59 AM |
| 1 | Should I Soft-Next?That’s exactly what it is. Would it be best to just hard-next? I know if I soft-next she’ll Snapchat me a selfie the next day & I don’t respond she’ll do it again the next day. Definitely just need to get my mentality back and stop worrying about this girl. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 06:08 AM |
| 1 | Should I Soft-Next?It’s definitely oneitis but I’m not sure why I’m having oneitis all of the sudden. I’ve spent the last year - year and a half having a lot of abundance. Plating girls and just doing my own thing. Have had multiple in the rotation at times and then I meet this girl and I completely lose my frame and my mentality. What would even cause that? Idk if I got tired of plating and thought because this girl was so attractive , she’d be the perfect LTR match for me. She has the personality of a brick wall… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 05:48 AM |
| 1 | Should I Soft-Next?I didn’t really go off on her , just told her I was confused why she blew me off after telling me she was down asf to hang out. I was drunk and shouldn’t have said it but she explained the situation. When it comes to her leaving me on read/open, it’s just at weird times. And there are days where we talk maybe once. If she’s busy she’s busy but I’m just trying to decide if I’m her top option or not. I also wouldn’t say I’m purposefully leaving her on open but if she sends me a basic snap, not rea… | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 05:07 AM |
| 1 | Should I Soft-Next?I should’ve probably soft nexted after she blew me off. Not sure why I decided to bring it up almost two weeks later. I have a bit of abundance rn but the others haven’t pulled me in the way this one did. It’s a case of oneitis when I don’t have a reason to have oneitis | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 03:17 AM |
| 1 | Should I Soft-Next?All I said was “you’re confusing, you flaked on me and then acted like nothing happened”. Was definitely out of frame and I shouldn’t have said anything. Not sure where it came from either | /r/askTRP | 22/12/19 02:03 AM |
| 1 | What do I even do in this situation?No I did get laid that night, just not with her; passed out because it was almost 4 am lol. She was just snapping me back and forth for whatever reason, wasn't going to invite her over if i already had someone else over. Just legit curious as to why shes doing this back and forth if there wasn't anything between us before | /r/askTRP | 10/09/19 01:42 AM |
| 1 | What do I even do in this situation?Outside of the hookup and the two times we hung out last semester, I've given her almost zero attention. We occasionally snap like I said but I've tried my best to give her minimal attention after all the bs. On top of that, its odd to me that she complains about this other dude to me because any time she starts talking about it, I just roll over and go back to sleep. Definitely don't wanna be any girls emotional tampon so why she picked me to be that, I'll never understand lol | /r/askTRP | 09/09/19 03:58 PM |
| 1 | I [M21] Finally hooked up with this girl [F20] I've known for a bit at uni..I have a few girls in rotation but none of them cut it for me. I'm at that crossroads where I don't know what I'm in regards to relationships, with women, etc. I think its because I've been so focused on my grind that I haven't had time to focus on what I want. Then I found someone who cut it for me? and thats why I'm now dealing with this. I texted her back and forth a few times tonight and then told her I had a good time... thats when she left me on open. So getting close to 24 hours after sai… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Should I [M21] end it with her [F19] over these Red Flags?Well lucky for me, I never asked her to be my girlfriend or anything and didn't cut any plates off. So its more of whether or not I should just cut her off completely. | /r/askTRP | 12/07/19 06:53 AM |
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