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Yes, don’t overthink it. I swear these armchair-fitness gurus online over complicate this stuff in people’s minds with their anal prescriptions. Keep doing what you’re doing, don’t overthink it, as long as you’re progressing.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:50 PM
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Reading literature and philosophy, weight-lifting, piano. I intend to take up martial arts in the next year after doing some more conditioning.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:41 PM
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Nonsense. A man who enjoys the ukulele and doesn’t care what people may think of it is a lot more attractive than a guy who plays guitar because he’s scared of being judged for playing the ukulele.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:40 PM
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Typically, a man would financially sustain a woman so that she can look after the home, the children, and other responsibilities. I don’t see an issue with this dynamic.
/r/askTRP16/06/21 08:19 PM
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Regarding your edit: Is a man's worth really defined by how many women he had sex with? No. In fact, I'd argue that the men of history who've eschewed women and sex altogether in pursuit of higher goods are the manliest of men, for that requires great strength and absolution. Would also appreciate advice on beating depression. Physically, have a healthy diet, exercise regularly, and maintain good sleep hygiene. Mentally, practice hobbies you enjoy, meditate, allow yourself to have leisure. Get o…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:40 PM
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The science is currently quite mixed on the question of how casual sex affects mental health outcomes. Certainly, men prefer it in greater proportion than women--women have reported higher rates of regret and negative mental health outcomes in response to casual sex encounters. There is also a distinction to be made between wanting it, and deriving satisfaction from it. Anecdotally, the men I've known whom engaged in serial casual sex encounters were psychological messes, and feeding the "sex mo…
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:29 PM
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Sure. My test came back lower than average a few years ago, despite me lifting and having masculine features, which is why I said that. Sometimes dietary and sleep habits can negatively affect your test levels periodically. It's not impossible that you have low test, so step #1 would be to check that in a standard routine blood panel. Deep connection is not a fairy tale, despite whatever some armchair "red-pill" philosophers in here may say, and despite whatever your past experiences have been. …
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:15 PM
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It sounds like casual sex just isn’t your thing. That’s certainly unusual You're right that it isn't his thing, but that's not unusual. Despite the prevalence of casual sex in our current culture, a decent proportion of people report it as not being something they find very gratifying.
/r/askTRP10/06/21 04:05 PM
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First of all, you didn't say that you got your testosterone checked. I don't care that you lift weights and are allegedly masculine and attractive. Get it checked before posting this. The good one is that I am exceptionally intelligent. The bad one is that I have a HUGE ego, sometimes I am unapproachable. I can tell. At least you're aware of it. If you're not yet aware, your huge ego is borne out of a deep-rooted insecurity, which I think people here would call 'beta'. if I manage to have sex I …
/r/askTRP10/06/21 03:59 PM
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I'm sure that the billions of people who've died under the age of 5 due to drinking disease-ridden water would think that you're living life on easy mode. It's all relative. Everyone has problems. Good for her. Get over it. She'll have her own problems, not the same as yours.
/r/askTRP06/06/21 05:24 AM
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It sucks. You should welcome any and all emotions and process them. However, tell yourself that he would not want you to be saddened and debilitated by this, and letting this bring you down will not help anything. He's gone, and all you can do is continue to live on, both for yourself and for the loved ones in your life who are still here. Also, seek professional help. Seriously. Best wishes.
/r/askTRP28/05/21 04:51 AM
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I’d recommend taking some time away from women entirely for awhile; in my experience, engaging in romantic and sexual pursuits with other women while getting over a heartbreak can make you feel worse. You’re a mess. Get off of social media, hang out with guy friends, focus on your mental and physical health for awhile.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:51 AM
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She’s going to sleep with other guys while you’re gone, no matter what. So really, your choice is between being lied to or not. Act accordingly with that knowledge.
/r/askTRP26/05/21 09:47 AM
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There's nothing wrong with loving to rap. There's nothing wrong with wanting to be a successful musician. Your desire for fame is borne out of an unhealthy self-esteem, and you're trying to cover it up with others' approval rather than addressing the root issue, which is a lack of healthy self-love. You're emotionally unstable and unnecessarily hard on yourself. I sympathize, I have been there and often still am. You just need to introspect on what is driving your ambitions. Once again, nothing …
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:51 PM
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I strive to be a famous musician I felt sympathy until I saw this. There is no reason to have 'being famous' as a goal in life other than pure egotism. People actually passionate about music care about the art, not the fame. Re-evaluate your priorities in life. Humble yourself. Fix your mental health. You have bigger problems than red-pill shit and women.
/r/askTRP18/05/21 03:35 PM
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Every time when she's on her feed, and you see the new stories and his name is in it and it's for example number 4. She views the stories and stops at #3 and then starts scrolling. These little subtleties are what you look back on and kick yourself for not taking seriously.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 02:01 PM
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Will do, on your recommendation. Thanks.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 02:22 AM
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The former part of your statement was my exact thought when I read his comment. I suppose cultivating blind faith in this is necessary.
/r/askTRP29/11/20 02:21 AM
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Might be a selection bias on your part. There are lots of interesting girls in the 20-30 range who are passionate about meaningful things. They're probably just not in your network.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 06:48 AM
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I suppose it's true that being cognizant of the specific issue is some form of progress. Many people relate, I believe, whether they realize they have an issue or not. It is difficult to rid yourself of the fairy tale Disney characterization of romance into which we've been indoctrinated. Thanks for the comment.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 12:05 AM
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Yeah, most of that is pretty on point. I hate being alone with my thoughts, and I only really 'connect' with anyone in the context of a romantic partnership. In a way, it makes me feel complete to share a world with someone. But you're certainly right about how we're, at the end of the day, all alone. And I need to internalize that, along with the rest of your comment. Thanks.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 12:03 AM
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Yeah, I don't really desire multiple women or casual sex, which is a component of the issue.
/r/askTRP25/11/20 12:01 AM
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I believe it's some intrinsic desire for validation from, specifically, romantic love
/r/askTRP25/11/20 12:01 AM
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Very well put, I see what you mean.
/r/askTRP23/11/20 03:18 AM
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Lmao. Same answer for when she asks why you're a sweaty furnace at night.
/r/askTRP07/11/20 11:04 PM
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There's no fault in going through a rough time--but no, she will never see you the same way. Next her. And in the future, don't be so openly vulnerable and weak. Open up to male friends, or a therapist, or a priest.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 08:01 AM
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That's completely normal. Casual sex doesn't fulfill you. Finding a purpose will.
/r/askTRP16/12/19 08:00 AM
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everyone has issues lol, also this post is 1 month old
/r/askTRP16/12/19 05:56 AM
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Congrats, you're dating a slut.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:56 AM
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You're spending too much time online if you think every woman has a sexual past akin to that of OP's girlfriend. Many girls out there aren't nearly as degenerate, in terms of behavior. That isn't to say that they *wouldn't* be sluts, but their past behavior isn't that of a cum dumpster like OP's girlfriend.
/r/askTRP15/12/19 06:55 AM
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Can you explain what you mean by that? I don't understand.
/r/askTRP07/11/19 03:38 PM
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MGTOW is the sexual version of when someone gets fired and they say, "You can't fire me! I quit!"
/r/askTRP09/07/19 02:15 PM
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Sounds like she wants to see you but might get called into work. Stop overthinking shit like this.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 04:42 PM
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Read The Rational Male.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 12:00 AM
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This bitch is 16 years old, and you're trying to make sense of her? It's doomed just based on her age, regardless.
/r/askTRP08/06/19 09:36 AM
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Stop watching porn. Bust a nut ~2 hours before seeing the girl. Try to take your mind off the sex while it is happening, just enough to where you're not finishing too early but still staying hard. It may take some time and practice. Best of luck.
/r/askTRP21/05/19 01:09 AM
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19 isn't even that bad compared to a lot of girls I knew as freshmen in college.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 04:58 PM
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I can relate as I've dealt with chronic physical health issues as well that were incredibly taxing and only allowed me to socialize very rarely. I was very unwell for 3 years due to autoimmune issues, but outwardly I looked and seemed totally fine. Don't talk to people about it, be focused own what's best for you, and don't give in to peer pressure to socialize if it's going to be taxing on you. When you do go out, put on your best face, and don't let people know if you're unwell. If people ques…
/r/askTRP07/05/19 04:52 PM
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I don't necessarily know what "the red pill perspective of the bible" is, but if you want an introduction to the central message of Christianity, I would recommend the gospel of Matthew or John as the first thing you read.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 05:15 PM
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Word.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 02:13 AM
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One thing I struggle to internalize is that young hot college girls will still be as easy to be with when I'm beyond college-aged. So it seems as if my opportunity to game these hot 18-22 y/o's is running out.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:09 AM
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Yeah my grades are good. I'm on track to get a great degree at a great school. Spending the vast majority of my time in my room doing nothing ensured that. That's really the only positive thing I've had going throughout this situation.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 01:02 AM
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It was my first approach in that club. I wasn't being creepy; I didn't do more than shake her hand and talk to her normally. But you're right, no sense in getting into a fight. Although it is hard to overcome your ego when you're imposed on by another dude.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 08:09 AM
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Didn't get a chance to see how she reacted, it happened so fast and I ended up behind her after he pushed me back. I acknowledge that my desire to respond defensively is entirely motivated by my ego. I didn't like the idea of this dude thinking he could just push me off and get away with it.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 08:03 AM
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Depends on what you mean by "meetups." Personally, I don't find it hard to take things all the way on the first night *if* the intention from the outset is romantic (i.e. "Let's go on a date, I want to take you out"). The downside of that is the girl is expecting it to lead towards a monogamous LTR. You're trading your intentions of commitment for sex. If it's just "let's hang out" that's when it's a lot harder to escalate more quickly, in my experience. She may not be clear if the dynamic is "m…
/r/askTRP15/03/19 03:20 AM
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Isn't it weird thinking about how someone you were so bound to and close to at one point is with someone else in that manner? I know the right answer but it just seems surreal to me.
/r/askTRP14/03/19 11:27 PM
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That's just life, man. That fantasy that at one time you may have mutually held that you two were bound together and would live your lives together is just that--a fantasy. One that at some point one or both of you determined will not come to fruition. It was fun while it lasted, but she was never yours; it was just your turn. Your time together was special but it has ended and she's moved onto her next chapter, for better or worse. And you'll probably be much better off in the long term without…
/r/askTRP14/03/19 11:20 PM
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girls like to feel, and I'll make her fucking feel stupid My new mantra, thanks boss.
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:45 PM
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Is 2 days without sex really 2 days wasted to you?
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:43 PM
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You're putting way too much mental investment in a girl that you haven't even met in person with yet. Who cares? Next.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 05:05 AM
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What rules do you find are different with HB9-10? This is generally not my experience. I find that not supplicating to HB9-10's works even better because it's so rare for men to not bend to their wills.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 05:01 AM
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Fucking lol. This board in a nutshell.
/r/askTRP01/03/19 04:53 AM
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Redpillers don't care about virtue anymore? Or are you just a LARPer?
/r/askTRP22/02/19 10:40 PM
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Of course.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 11:10 PM
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Why do you say that?
/r/askTRP17/02/19 11:09 PM
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No, I mean that I don't click with them. I don't know about everyone else here, but I won't just fuck anything with a vagina and a tolerable face. Why must I fuck the few close girl friends I have when there are millions of other hot girls out there?
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:25 PM
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I have female friends who have had entire relationships over the course of our friendship, and it was never an issue nor did that ever affect my friendships with them.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:20 PM
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You can be physically attracted to people without wanting to have sex with them. For me, I don't want to have sex with someone unless their personality meets mine on a sexual chemistry level.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 06:19 PM
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Nah, it doesn't redeem her from thank u, next which is literally just a song about glorifying hypergamy.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:17 PM
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I dunno, her new track break up with your girlfriend, I'm bored is normalizing girls pursuing those of us in LTR's, which is a win for us men in my opinion.
/r/askTRP17/02/19 04:12 PM
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Nice blog, faggot. Just kidding. But are you content with where you are in life? Imagine yourself in 30 years looking back on your current self. Would you be content with having lived the way you are now? Doubtful. Life is short. Your life could be better. Get to work on something.
/r/askTRP14/02/19 03:16 PM
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Holy shit, this faggot. Might as well just end it all, you 6'2 manlet
/r/askTRP14/02/19 03:07 PM
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It's not even an insult for low value men, it's just a generic insult for any young white guy.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:16 AM
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I get called a school shooter/serial killer all the time by my friends because I'm white as fuck and have male RBF. Quit being a little bitch and grow some skin.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 12:14 AM
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Thanks man.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 04:55 AM
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How'd you ultimately get over the ex that you got stuck on? Other girls isn't helping me, either.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 02:57 AM
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She didn't during the time we dated--it was the reverse. I became her bitch way after the breakup because I romanticized the past.
/r/askTRP10/01/19 02:56 AM
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You are right, I am her bitch now. I'm going to commit myself to cutting contact within a few days. I just don't understand the psychology behind it. She loved me, deemed me attractive and worth fucking before. How does that change to seeing me as just a friend? Does that retroactively falsify her past attraction to me? I still find her incredibly attractive, if not moreso now. To be fair, I broke her heart awhile ago and treated her like a side bitch when we were dating. But I've more than made…
/r/askTRP09/01/19 10:22 PM
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