AetherAirlines Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	hot take: men need to adapt more feminine traits to resolve the gender war No one is entirely 100% masculine or feminine. A man can have some feminine traits, while also having the masculine courage to stand up and resist misandry directed at them for having those traits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/26 11:49 AM
3	hot take: men need to adapt more feminine traits to resolve the gender war But if being feminine and softer is your true personality, don't you think you should resist and not give in to misandrist demands?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/08/26 01:17 PM
1	CMV: It actually is terrible advice for feminists to tell high earning women who want to become mothers to seek a sperm bank and hire a nannie, because a stay at home dad is cheaper if they believe in emotional labor I was almost gonna say that for the first time, I agree with you. Until I read that last line.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 04:21 PM
0	CMV: It actually is terrible advice for feminists to tell high earning women who want to become mothers to seek a sperm bank and hire a nannie, because a stay at home dad is cheaper if they believe in emotional labor What is the true reason SAHDs do so little work compared to SAHMs? I believe there is more to it than SAHDs being simply 'lazier'. We often hear women saying they want to be SAHMs because they want to raise their kids, their kids need them in their growing years, etc. But we don't hear men saying the same. If a man said that to a prospective dating partner, no woman would want to date him. As a result, the vast majority of SAHDs we see in reality (and become statistics in these academic papers) …	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/08/26 03:46 PM
4	The overwhelming are women are painstakingly disingenuous about gender roles. They want gender roles not because "it's sexy" and more because a laziness and convenience We really need to stop acting like these generalizations apply to 100% of the population. There is always going to be a small minority of women who are more masculine than the average man. Likewise for some men being more feminine than the average woman. This diversity is biologically intended, just like how some women are taller or stronger than men. Why is it so hard to accept? I think we are just too obsessed with absolute conformity, forcing everyone to follow the exact same script.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/08/26 12:02 PM
3	Men live matter in China Out of curiosity, how is the treatment of househusbands and stay-at-home fathers in China?	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/07/26 04:55 PM
1	Men need to display invulnerability rather More fluff with no meaning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 04:38 PM
7	Men need to display invulnerability rather You have written a whole essay of fluff without saying anything meaningful. What is your actual argument? Regardless, my stance is that men should show vulnerability regardless of women’s opinions, and reject women who feel the “ick” from it. I wish more men had the courage to stand up against misandrists.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 01:17 PM
–	Men should also wear wigs, height boosters , normal makeup etc If it’s for fashion and expression purposes I will support straight men having more option. But this OP only seems to care about sex and relationships	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/26 05:14 AM
1	Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s risky It could be because he wants to spend his time and energy on the child, rather than his money? In this case, his perspective would be that it’s not worth having a baby with a woman who won’t part with $20 for him, make him work all day to support the family and rob him of time with his beloved child…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 12:13 PM
2	CMV: Men going Dutch via alternating is better than going Dutch via people paying 50% or for themselves, because it usually has plausible deniability that it's just trad if it's cut off at the first date Some guys don’t want sex, they want her to demonstrate a provider mindset.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 12:01 PM
5	CMV: Men going Dutch via alternating is better than going Dutch via people paying 50% or for themselves, because it usually has plausible deniability that it's just trad if it's cut off at the first date > wash dishes I thought you were the one talking all day about wanting to be a SAHD? Why is she doing the dishes?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/07/26 11:59 AM
2	Believing a 50/50 man will step up later isn’t just naive - it’s risky I want a relationship where I take on primary responsibility for my children. Raising a family is not an easy task, there are so many things to consider, from their physical health and wellbeing as a baby to more complex needs such as nutrition, education at a later age. Not to mention all the logistics and home maintenance needed. If I don’t “take money from women”, how do I raise my dream family? I can’t do all that while working long hours enough to support myself. And who feeds the kids? You…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/07/26 03:34 PM
–	do you truly believe the bar is lower for men? The bar for a typical man in a typical relationship is indeed much lower. A typical father will be held to a much lower standard by people and the general society than a mother is. But the bar for a man to be accepted to take on this role as their full-time role in a relationship is drastically higher than for women. Some men are willing to support women as SAHMs without having really seen any true parenting ability from the woman before they decide to have a kid, and as a result they do a bad j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 02:33 PM
1	What do you think women bring to the table and what do you want them to add? > Men should avoid crying in front of women at all costs. It's part of the contract. No. Never. Why should we be submissive and give in to misandry? We should openly cry in front of them, then shame them for being misandrist if they get the “ick” from it. You need to have the courage to protest.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 09:20 AM
1	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? And why are we giving in to these women? We should stick to our vision of being househusbands and SAHDs. Start with managing your own home well (which should be a bare minimum for everyone), then look into the kinds of additional planning and logistics you will need when you have children, plan for their physical needs, health, nutrition etc. And actively talk to parents about the things they did for their young kids, and ask them for advice. If being a SAHD is something you really want, you sho…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 07:51 AM
2	What does the future of dating look like in a job market that favors women yet many of whom still won’t “date down”? Why do you have to give in to women’s standards? You can hold yourself to your own definition of value as a family man, focusing on your future family management, responsibility, and parenting. Constantly trying to improve these skills in preparation for your future family. And if women do not value you for these skills, don’t date them. Many women remain single and do not give in to men’s standards. Why don’t you do the same?	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/07/26 07:44 AM
6	Would you like to live in a post gender society? It would be an appropriate expectation for 90% of men. But not every man is stronger than the average woman. If natural biology meant for every man to protect women with no exceptions, then every healthy man would be stronger than every woman. But this is clearly not the case. Since this diversity is intended, why are we still suppressing it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 07:56 AM
1	Would you like to live in a post gender society? It would be an appropriate expectation for 90% of men. But not every man is stronger than the average woman. I don’t know what your religious beliefs are, but if God (or nature) intended for every man to protect women with no exceptions, then every healthy man would be stronger than every woman. But this is clearly not the case. Since this diversity is intended, why are we still suppressing it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 07:55 AM
3	Would you like to live in a post gender society? I believe that polarity would still exist, and that a post-gender society would encourage more polarity, not less. Traditional gender roles reflect the preferences of the majority of the population. In a post-gender society, the majority will still follow them to some extent. The issue with our current society is that we are obsessed with conformity, to the point that we choose to suppress the minority. Especially the minority who wants to do things opposite to traditional roles. This is the key…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/07/26 07:35 AM
2	Men nowadays want babies to grow up in paid care People like you are the reason why SAHDs and prospective SAHDs have such a bad reputation. Can you guys keep your mouths shut? I want to be a SAHD because I care deeply about giving my future children the best childhood and upbringing. There is a lot of planning and logistics to consider when raising a child, and especially a newborn child. And I want to do it personally because I know I will give it everything I have. How could you even suggest that the mother returns to work within a week of g…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/07/26 10:46 AM
1	What Aspects of Men's dating life do you have find yourself getting jealous of? But in some situations, men get judged for prioritizing family over work. Especially if the kids are very young. People may think they are slacking off and give them little credit for the things they do for their kids. Society is only understanding to fathers who want to spend time with their kids at an older adolescent age, not infants or toddlers.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 07:20 AM
0	Women who choose to remain single are viewed as empowered, men are not Typically when women choose to remain single, their reasons are legitimate grievances towards gender roles. They do not want to be objectified and pressured into sex, both work a job outside the home and be primarily responsible for domestic and childcare labor. These are the factors that have given rise to movements such as 4B in South Korea. However among men who choose to remain single, their reasons are often (not always) rooted in misogyny. They think modern women are no longer submissive, …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/26 06:58 AM
4	Men who want women to do more housework and childcare should be pro-alimony, pro-child support, and support access to divorce. You have a serious obsession with talking about wanting to be a SAHD for all the wrong reasons, and spamming it all over the subreddit. It’s seriously disturbing. And more importantly, you’re further ruining the image of prospective SAHDs. There are already enough SAHDs not doing their fair share at home, and the good ones are struggling to be seen and appreciated. And here you are portraying SAHD as some way to fight back against women being awarded custody, among other disturbing reasons. If y…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/07/26 09:44 AM
–	Question for bluepill: why do all the same rules apply to men who want to be stay-at-home dads? > Those men are unicorns, most would see no point in trying to look. This could be true, but it could also be used as a convenient excuse for people who are reluctant to re-examine the patriarchal gender roles that they grew up with. It’s hard to tell. The best way to tell is to see how these women respond if the ‘unicorn’ suddenly appeared in front of them	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 01:48 PM
1	Question for bluepill: why do all the same rules apply to men who want to be stay-at-home dads? Most women do not proactively seek out and date men who deeply value homemaking and parenting, know and plan for their future kids’ developmental needs such as nutrition, and are proactive in planning for the family’s everyday needs (i.e. mental load) without being told to. This group of men are quite rare, certainly, but women are not choosing to date them if they express these desires openly. They have been eliminated from the role even though they truly want to do the hard work of parenting. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/07/26 10:06 AM