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Aethlingo/r/seduction23/06/18 08:08 PM
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cuntplaining
/r/PussyPassDenied06/11/19 01:59 AM
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Yep, tease her and challenge her. This creates attraction. ​
/r/seduction13/02/19 12:58 AM
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What if the statistics showed that a certain race got in more crashes than another? Also, I bet if women were being charged more than men there'd be outrage and protests and marches and shit and the discrimination would end tomorrow.
/r/PussyPassDenied10/01/19 05:31 PM
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They deserver each other.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/19 08:13 PM
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Well they stick to gender as being rather important so they can't be that smart.
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/19 08:07 PM
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That gender discrimination has been bothering me for a long time. Everyone thinks it's ok because statistically "women are safer drivers". It's still the definition of discrimination - there are horrible female drivers and very safe male drivers, obviously. My 25yr old female housemate just got her drivers license and her insurance was cheaper than mine and I've been driving for 20 years with no accidents and hardly any tickets and I drove professionally and I'm a pilot. How could gender even be…
/r/PussyPassDenied07/01/19 08:05 PM
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I've been trying to crack this same nut for a long time, and I gotta say it's not easy. Trying to bone acquaintances in your social groups is risky and tricky if your already friendly with each other. What I try and do is flirt constantly and if the flirting is reciprocated at all, find a cool activity and invite her to it. This still doesn't always mean she wants you but it's a start. During that event, flirt hard and kino escalate. You should be able to tell if she is into it at that point. Th…
/r/seduction13/10/18 05:55 AM
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As long as you can tell that she actually likes you and she considers you her boyfriend, I would take things really slow. Do a lot of foreplay and get good at that before having sex. This will also help you become a better lover in general. Besides, why not savor the first times doing all the different things it's possible to do? Then again, if you're getting the feeling that she's not that into you, time to pump and dump. Just kidding. Sort of.
/r/seduction12/10/18 07:50 PM
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Basically, you need to learn Daygame. Check out Tom Torero's website. He has a beginner's youtube video that you should really watch.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:52 PM
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To create attraction you have to challenge her. Make bold statements and assumptions about her. Put her on the spot. Tease her. This demonstrates your higher value and build powerful attraction. After a little bit of this and she is now attracted to you, build comfort by asking about her life and telling her about yourself. Now and then tease her a little to keep the attraction.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:38 PM
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The first good advice I've seen on here.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:33 PM
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I don't like this advice. Don't "be you". Be the best version of yourself. Learn and improve your skills to become a better you. This is how you advance and eventually get girls.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:32 PM
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Well, you may be right, but OP's question is how does he talk to her so she will be attracted to him. So, I'd say don't just go find someone else and make the same mistakes, but learn some verbal skills in order to attract women.
/r/seduction24/09/18 09:30 PM
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Get a van. I've had a lot of nice sex in my van with girls of elastic virtue. But then I'm a hippy - might not work the same for you.
/r/seduction13/07/18 05:49 AM
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Yes sir, thepeanutbutterman, sir!
/r/seduction13/07/18 05:40 AM
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It's been an entire day since your post and I've only banged 8 girls goddamn it.
/r/seduction13/07/18 05:38 AM
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Or just divorced and dtf immediately.
/r/seduction13/07/18 05:35 AM
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These kind of situations used to happen to me a lot when I was younger. I often never felt 100% sure they'd be into it. Knowing what I know now, they would have been and i just pussed out. But I had experiences where I was sure, and then they pulled away shocked so either women are sometime fickle or I was inexperienced. Now, If I was in your scenario I'd just take her hand and hold it and go from there. But I would have escalated before and done compliance tests and put out a sexual vibe. There…
/r/seduction13/07/18 05:28 AM
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Maybe you were putting out the I'm gay and need to be fucked vibe. Jk, bro I appreciate your post.
/r/seduction13/07/18 05:15 AM
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Like most AFC's I rarely succeeded until I learned some skills. I would not say most men have succeeded by just going up to a girl and saying hi. Most men aren't confident in approach.
/r/seduction27/06/18 07:18 PM
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What you're describing as what most men do, is successful if the guy is handsome, confident, funny, socially adept, etc. I was most of those except confident in approach, and never gotten laid by going to a bar. Pua skills give guys the tools for success by making them confident and helping them to understand social dynamics.
/r/seduction25/06/18 05:28 PM
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Well, I ended up using a combination of direct and indirect. It worked and I couldn't have done it without all this outstanding advice.
/r/seduction25/06/18 05:19 PM
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Please tell us what country this is so we know not to go there!
/r/seduction23/06/18 08:10 PM
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Giving a random girl a compliment is intrinsically hard, having been conditioned the way we have. You're boldly putting yourself out there in a romantic way. Society always taught me that girls don't like to be hit on, so that doesn't help. If you're having trouble with it you could start with the beginner challenge of just smiling and saying hi to girls. I haven't tried that though, because it doesn't seem like anyone makes eye contact anymore and it seems awkward to say hi to someone who isn't…
/r/seduction23/06/18 07:54 PM
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Me and a buddy of mine have gone around giving random complements to women for approach practice. It started off feeling a little awkward but soon we realized that women loved it. I find it hard to come up with a tailor-made compliment for them so I just say they look nice or they have nice style. After giving a few random ones in passing, I started stopping women and saying something like "Hey excuse me, hey I just have to say you look really nice." I could have then transitioned to a direct pi…
/r/seduction23/06/18 05:42 PM
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I'm 38 and as I age my angle is to become more of a sophisticated, mature, successful, gentleman adventurer type. I've moved to day game and have worked on cultivating an aura of wit and mystery. Also, get good at partner dance. The combination of these things draws girls in their 20's to me (at least in my imagination lol), and I can avoid being the creepy older dude.
/r/seduction03/06/18 04:22 PM
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I take that back. Your first step is to learn how to take some goddamn initiative.
/r/seduction27/05/18 04:52 PM
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Become a PUA
/r/seduction26/05/18 10:49 PM
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You guys are on the same level in your ability to string together a sentence, so it's a shame it didn't work out.
/r/seduction26/05/18 10:47 PM
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I sympathize with your problem. I've spent a lot of time in hippie type communities and there are always cute girls who are very friendly and touchy and it's very hard to know if they are in to you or if it's just the hippie vibe. I wouldn't assume any touching are IOIs (if she is that type). It seems like she's sending you mixed messages, so you should definitely go for it but don't have too much emotionally invested in the outcome. If I were you I'd ask her if she wants to grab a coffee (or wh…
/r/seduction26/05/18 10:43 PM
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I hate clubs and never go near them but I love to dance - especially partner dance. Skill at partner dance is probably the biggest crutch a guy could have. You don't have to be good at it, you just have to know slightly more than all the other dudes that are just standing around. So, take some classes in whatever style you like (and that young people are doing) and lap it up. Or don't, and stand there awkwardly on the side while some short latino guy out there moves his hips and gets all the gir…
/r/seduction25/05/18 04:48 PM
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I'd relax and don't beat yourself up about it. She obviously likes you. I've failed to go for the kiss many times (when I was younger - haha), but it still worked out because I was playing the long game (like you are). Definitely escalate physical contact so the first kiss is not such a big step (and to make sure you're not misreading cues). Flirt, tease, talk about sexual things and see if her eyes light up. One idea is to engineer your evening together so you're slow-dancing together at some p…
/r/seduction25/05/18 04:41 PM
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Do you think you act more normally around kids? If you don't feel awkward around kids but do around peers than the cause might be social anxiety rather than some kind of innate awkwardness. One remedy I've found helps for confidence/extrovert training is to do some traveling in a remote country. If it's off the beaten path, you'll get a lot of attention being a foreigner, will be forced to extrovert yourself to get anything done, and won't see anyone else again so it doesn't matter if you do/say…
/r/seduction25/05/18 04:25 PM
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One thing you might try is to teach kids. Teaching kids forces you to talk and joke around nonstop but without the social judgement.
/r/seduction25/05/18 05:23 AM
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Someone is going to say that's an example of system racism.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/18 03:43 PM
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In this type of situation women really should get a pussy pass.
/r/PussyPassDenied28/04/18 03:39 PM
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She's not shallow, she's just not afraid to so say what most women think, or at least secretly hope for.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/02/18 10:29 PM
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