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What
/r/seduction30/08/22 07:47 PM
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lost it at "Converse All Star pink Hi Tops"
/r/seduction05/11/15 12:15 AM
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I'm very interested in learning about cars. I don't know shit about cars except put gas in them. when people pop the hood and look in there, I don't know what the fuck I'm looking at. where would one like me take the first step to learn even the basics about vehicles? any recommendations?
/r/seduction05/11/15 12:03 AM
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if I remember correctly, Manson mentions the way to combat this is Self - Improvement. never stop improving yourself, never settle, even when you've settled.
/r/seduction04/11/15 11:58 PM
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Had to google. was not disappointed.
/r/seduction05/02/15 12:35 AM
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Walk up to girl at party, teller she has beautiful eyez, ignore her for the rest of the time, she'll initiate contact.
/r/seduction09/01/15 06:17 PM
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don't be unattractive
/r/seduction04/01/15 10:28 PM
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work on your inner game. be at peace with yourself and you'll see they'll be "dying" to have you instead of the other way around.
/r/seduction09/12/14 02:27 AM
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Please don't lose some good girl because some comments made by men who have not experienced it themselves. exactly. thank you for the insight. do you ever see yourself getting past your "problem" and befriending females again? or are you content with the way you are?
/r/seduction09/12/14 02:25 AM
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I agree. Some of these responses are preposterous.
/r/seduction08/12/14 11:17 PM
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mono relationship
/r/seduction05/12/14 06:36 AM
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Thanks for the insight. I'm very interested in this "phenomenon" or whatever you want to call it.
/r/seduction03/12/14 07:55 PM
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Best answer here! And I don't know why I even over think this. This ^ is something I had already thought of. Why would she downgrade? Guys like us are rare and a fresh breath compared to all these other chumps.
/r/seduction03/12/14 07:50 PM
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Me neither...
/r/seduction03/12/14 05:12 PM
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OP didn't deliver!
/r/seduction06/08/14 11:32 PM
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this is a great response! thanks
/r/seduction23/07/14 07:34 PM
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What's a man to do?
/r/seduction13/07/14 08:09 PM
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don't text her again. You probably didn't establish enough attraction priot to the number close. Move on, get more numbers
/r/seduction12/07/14 11:52 PM
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Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction12/07/14 10:42 PM
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Very interesting read. I noticed that i've fallen victim to not 'trying' as much anymore after making her my gf. In your guys' opinions, what's the best way to get out of this mentality. I mean, it's like "I already have her, I'm already having sex with her so why try?" How do you get out of this?
/r/seduction07/06/14 07:46 PM
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The fun little nose exercise is from Models by Mark Manson
/r/seduction31/05/14 08:22 AM
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Read Models by Mark Manson, he teaches you to incorporate different things in order to be attractive.
/r/seduction22/05/14 12:20 AM
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Don't take yourself too seriously, chill the fuck out, go with the flow homie!
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:38 PM
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It's great brah, covers all the basics.
/r/seduction08/05/14 12:05 AM
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IOI for an IOI. IOD for IOD
/r/seduction07/05/14 02:15 PM
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Tell her to stop and chill out somewhere real quick like a park and chill out in a bench.
/r/seduction07/05/14 02:05 PM
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"duh"
/r/seduction02/05/14 08:12 PM
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we can sit here and make excuses all day or we can make changes. No one cares either way, the world doesn't owe you shit. It's on you.
/r/seduction26/04/14 01:09 PM
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"If you are depressed you are living in the past. If you are anxious you are living in the future. If you are at peace you are living in the present" Lao Tzu
/r/seduction26/04/14 12:35 AM
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Wheymen.
/r/seduction26/04/14 12:29 AM
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This about sums it up for me, really great post. It helped me look at things in a different perspective.
/r/seduction25/04/14 03:57 PM
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How I went from being a sadkunt to being a sikkunt. I used to be a very shy guy and hated it, I always lived in my head too much, I always over-analyzed situations, I had very low self esteem despite being an attractive guy IMO, girls always hit on me ever since kindergarten but I only had like 4 or 5 girlfriends by the time i became an adult because I just didn't have the confidence. There's good news though, confidence can be learned bros. Honestly, with me, i cant pinpoint an "event" or occas…
/r/seduction25/04/14 12:30 AM
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being non-reactive is the best way to pass shit tests imho
/r/seduction21/04/14 04:36 AM
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The secret is to hold your frame. Most AFCs will automatically chase her when she walks away but if you built enough attraction, she'll either come back right away or will bluff.
/r/seduction21/04/14 02:47 AM
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Shit Test: You're weird Reply: And yet, you're here talking to me.
/r/seduction21/04/14 12:57 AM
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only to the ones silly enough to fall for it.
/r/seduction21/04/14 12:56 AM
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TLDW?
/r/seduction16/04/14 06:40 AM
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So this doesn't just happen in the movies?
/r/seduction16/04/14 12:58 AM
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Get ripped or die mirin'
/r/seduction14/04/14 09:20 PM
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He says, before you lay her, she looks at all your traits and uses them as excuses why she shouldn't have sex with you. Then after she does have sex with you, she looks at your same personal traits and uses them to convince herself that it was the right thing to have sex with you.. and to keep having sex with you. Do you agree with this?
/r/seduction14/04/14 06:08 AM
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Giving out numbers doesn't mean SHIT. They'll give you their numbers just to avoid rejecting you.
/r/seduction13/04/14 03:00 AM
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Read the FAQ
/r/seduction12/04/14 06:45 AM
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How do you even bring this up on a first date. Plus I thought the first rule of fight club is: Don't talk about fight club
/r/seduction08/04/14 05:06 AM
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However, I never feel like girls find me sexually attractive. Always Assume attraction!
/r/seduction04/04/14 02:14 AM
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So I texted her back, "Fuck [EXGF]. I'm a fucking attractive 20 year old with a great personality who any girl would be lucky to be with, and I'm sitting on my hands." Don't do this! It's all about not giving a single fuck! Let me show you the real me, you'll like it. You're still qualifying yourself, switch it up, let her qualify herself to you. It's cool that you found this sub and you're definitely going in the right direction, but you still got a long way to go. No worries though, learn more…
/r/seduction04/04/14 12:46 AM
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Something similar to what I read here once. Go balls deep. Continue to game. Don't bring up relationships. If she asks for a relationship, say you're not looking for that right now. Say something along the lines of "I'm not sure what I'm looking for right now, i need time to figure it out, you're welcome to hang out and have some fun while I figure it out". Keep your game tight, if you play it right, she'll still seek out the D. If not, on to the next one. repeat.
/r/seduction03/04/14 02:54 AM
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pretend there's a secret you know about her that she doesn't know you know. another less confusing one is to pretend you're fucking the shit out of her
/r/seduction01/04/14 01:53 AM
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You should throw in a false-time constraint at the beginning to make her feel like you're not gonna be there forever.
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:32 AM
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Mark Manson-What is needy
/r/seduction26/03/14 04:12 PM
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Mind sharing them?
/r/seduction26/03/14 06:07 AM
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no, i mean, what is it about pda that people get offended about? I never understood it
/r/seduction25/03/14 11:54 PM
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Why do you hate it when it's not you?
/r/seduction25/03/14 11:43 PM
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We're all gonna make it brah!
/r/seduction25/03/14 04:56 AM
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Girls say I'm weird but I'm just being myself, I would describe my weirdness to that of that one dude from rds (although not to that extreme) but i'm just being myself! What gives? (they dont say it to me, they say it to other girls)
/r/seduction19/03/14 01:07 AM
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what are you talking about?
/r/seduction14/03/14 02:19 PM
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Diet is more important than exercises but lifting is what sculpts the body. Lift weights and come back in a year and see if you still feel the same after shitloads of compliments from all the girls you pick-up, they practically orgasm when the find out/feel your amazing body. Like the a fellow sedditor on here said this week "biceps on guys are like boobs/booty on girls"
/r/seduction14/03/14 02:15 PM
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ah, the ol' calibration method ;)
/r/seduction14/03/14 05:43 AM
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Been lifting for a year, you're right, girls are always mirin'. It's a bonus, clothes look great, you see a nice body after the shower, just do it!
/r/seduction12/03/14 12:41 AM
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How would you do this? How many days in advance, Making same day plans work, but is it better to ask her in advance would you say?
/r/seduction12/03/14 12:31 AM
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Sometimes women have been so brainwashed into being polite and making others happy they do not speak out about what they really want. I'm actually seeing a girl that acts this way and don't know how to handle it, I'm a senior at college and she picks up my slack at school, she does my work, she let's me copy her work, she even writes essays for me and we're not even going out, we've never even kissed. I just see her as a friend and nothing more, she has strong feelings for me. I've come to the c…
/r/seduction12/03/14 12:29 AM
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bunch of men giving other men advice without actually listening to women Women don't even know what they want. Trust me, everything I learned here definitely works on women. It's like asking a fish how to catch a fish
/r/seduction11/03/14 03:06 PM
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Some prefer girls 80% of the time and guys 20% of the time That's not full on lesbian, that's bisexual
/r/seduction06/03/14 04:24 PM
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Homosexuality is not a choice, it's like if a gay guy asked you "can I game you effectively and if so how?"
/r/seduction06/03/14 05:30 AM
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Don't it man, don't do it!
/r/seduction05/03/14 11:23 PM
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it's hormones. Having "open" body language raises your testosterone levels and decreases your cortisol levels. Having "closed" body language lowers your testosterone levels and raises stress hormone/cortisol. I can honestly say that watching that video is one of the most life changing things I have ever done. Having open body language really does make you feel better than having closed body language. Overtime it becomes internalized and it comes naturally. Seeing other people's body language is …
/r/seduction05/03/14 11:09 PM
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I remember last week HB said 'That haircut makes you look like a kid." AFC-me would've said "really?" :( Actually giving a fuck. But I took it for what it was and said "Now I can get into Disney Land at a discount" Sometimes shit tests aren't so obvious.
/r/seduction05/03/14 01:54 AM
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Don't be so negative, Nancy. Change your mindset, lose the ego.
/r/seduction01/03/14 05:27 AM
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Kino, SHOW your intentions, SHOW them your desire for them, don't bullshit around.
/r/seduction01/03/14 05:25 AM
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Anyone have the link to the original video?
/r/seduction01/03/14 05:22 AM
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Well I do slack on my school work, she ends up doing a shit load of my class work and homework with out me asking or saying shit. I figured girls are just wired to do shit for you so I just let them. Any thoughts?
/r/seduction01/03/14 05:04 AM
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That comment made me realize how far I've come. I used to be depressed and anxious, I'm more of an alpha now, I'm the leader among men, I don't doubt myself, I talk to women with supreme confidence I'm at peace with the present. I'm just chillin. You just blew my mind, it resulted in an automatic save.
/r/seduction28/02/14 10:34 PM
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no why?
/r/seduction28/02/14 02:42 PM
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What the fuck dude?! You just described a girl I'm seeing! I guess her mom is physically disabled, and she gets money from the gov because of it and her mom tends to buy useless expensive shit for all her kids including her, and she gets pissed off that she buys useless shit. The girl I'm seeing does a lot of shit for me, she "takes care" of me as if I'm her husband. I'm scared now o.0 WTF bro!
/r/seduction28/02/14 05:06 AM
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I have the same problem, I notice that it gets worse when I wear lotion, not so much when I don't. There's nothing that I found that works so I just don't give a fuck and own it.
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:59 AM
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You don't. You let her know straight up, be assertive, don't give a fuck but don't be an asshole about it either.
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:56 AM
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Work on Inner game, be non-reactive. Don't take yourself too seriously, be fun, positive, high energy, be the bringer of good vibes. Kino a lot
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:54 AM
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When you are in a conversation with a girl, dont touch your itchy nose Why not?
/r/seduction28/02/14 12:51 AM
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I'm only 5'9 Fuck you. I'm 5'5 and still succeed with the ladies. They always shit-test me but I pass with flying colors!
/r/seduction27/02/14 04:17 PM
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Stop assuming things
/r/seduction27/02/14 04:15 PM
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Don't ever talk about her ex-bf, just change the subject as if you didn't hear it. Don't be a chump
/r/seduction27/02/14 04:15 PM
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Damn, its seems simple when written on paper
/r/seduction27/02/14 03:32 AM
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Don't shoot the messenger
/r/seduction24/02/14 02:52 AM
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What's wrong with steroids or what you decide to put in your own body? I'm not sayings kids should be doing steroids or coke but he wasn't advocating that lifestyle and no one is, what people decide to put in their own bodies isn't what makes them. Plus I'm sure Zyzz wasn't doing coke every day, I'm pretty sure it was a weekend thing, there's no way you could stay that dedicated if he did it daily. Dan Green is more impressive but he does way more steroids than Zyzz ever did. (Not that there's a…
/r/seduction23/02/14 10:33 PM
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Johnny Boii Boii Boii, I know you're reading this. My advice is to read the sidebar. Especially the Inner Game stuff. It'll blow your mind! Try some of these (some of them are ridiculous but a lot of them are creative), try to stay away from the "what are you doing?" texts. Either way, keep texting at a minimum and set dates instead, try to use the majority of your texting for logistics. we need to get married. think about it tho… I'm hot. your semi-hot. imagine how hot our babies would look (wh…
/r/seduction23/02/14 10:16 PM
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You can die any day, live like him in the sense that today is the best day you'll ever have.
/r/seduction23/02/14 10:09 PM
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Be non-reactive. Get out of your head, don't take yourself too seriously. Read the Inner game stuff in the sidebar.
/r/seduction23/02/14 09:56 PM
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Yeah, I wouldn't listen to sparklesdarkles, they gave you very beta advice. Just apply everything in the sidebar, be confident, assertive, kino, escalate and close.
/r/seduction23/02/14 08:04 PM
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that's what kino is for
/r/seduction23/02/14 07:59 PM
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First of all, NOT EVERYTHING IS A FUCKING SHIT TEST. No, not everything is but this definitely is.. and you should see yourself as already waaaay behind. Never do this ever, no matter what it is. I would move on and go find somebody who isn't going to outright reject you right away. Persistence is key, op just has to run game and is he does it right, HB will end up letting op seduce her.
/r/seduction23/02/14 06:40 PM
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It's a way of life..
/r/seduction23/02/14 05:12 PM
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escalate, kino.
/r/seduction22/02/14 07:33 PM
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People will downvote me for this, you should move on but what I've learned on how to rebuild attraction is Be postive, high energy, be the bringer of good vibes when around her (and always) Strong eye contact listen and smile when she speaks Strong body language Kino escalate
/r/seduction22/02/14 04:09 PM
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Don't take yourself too seriously. Say something like "I was in the middle of a sentence! thanks for interrupting! Gosh! How rude." In a fun, light way, not getting hurt about it at all, you'll usually get a laugh and will let you finish your story.
/r/seduction21/02/14 04:00 PM
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neediness is an attraction killer
/r/seduction21/02/14 03:54 PM
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Alpha males don't put beta males down, don't put anyone down.
/r/seduction20/02/14 03:52 PM
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overtime, these things become internalized
/r/seduction20/02/14 05:36 AM
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great FR, seddit needs more of this. its rare nowadays
/r/seduction19/02/14 05:17 AM
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You're fun, a lot of people here need to stop taking themselves too seriously.
/r/seduction18/02/14 06:10 PM
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Stop labeling them as numbers, in my experience when I used to refer to HB's as HB#, especially HB8+, I would put them on a pedestal
/r/seduction18/02/14 05:16 AM
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Being needy
/r/seduction16/02/14 09:32 PM
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"I'm in the middle of a conversation here! geez, It's like talking to a brick wall" say it in a fun way but let her know you don't appreciate it either.
/r/seduction14/02/14 10:29 PM
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i always say "hellooooo? I'm talking over here...how rude!" In a fun and light way, they'll usually stop texting right then and there and apologize.
/r/seduction14/02/14 10:26 PM
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Be non-reactive and change the subject. Don't react to shit-tests
/r/seduction13/02/14 06:19 AM
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Don't take yourself too seriously. Be positive, be the bringer of good vibes. Be fun, mess her hair up, she wont expect it. Do random, funny unexpected shit that will take her out of her reality.
/r/seduction13/02/14 06:15 AM
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Why the fuck would you settle for a "desperate" girl? You want quality girls, not unstable girls. You are the prize. Most of you fuckers seem to have never read the sidebar.
/r/seduction13/02/14 06:13 AM
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Be outcome independent. Be non-reactive, work on yourself, work on your inner game.
/r/seduction13/02/14 05:58 AM
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It also helpful to learn to disconnect your image of yourself from what other people think of you. That's so true. I went through a period where I did this and everything was great, then I started to give a fuck and wonder how I look on the outside and ended up ruining my confidence
/r/seduction12/02/14 03:33 AM
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haha they tell me this shit all the time. I either say "so what else do you like about me?" or "yeah, that's why you're here talking to me and not no one else..." or most of the time I just remain non-reactive because frankly my dear, I don't give any shits. The secret is.. there is no secret. just be confident in yourself and carry yourself in a way that shows it. edit: just read your post. Maybe try being less serious. Don't take yourself too seriously be more positive, be the bringer of good …
/r/seduction09/02/14 06:13 AM
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Know yourself, know your worth, be confident in yourself, your abilities. Be outcome independent, focus on having fun. Look at it as their loss.
/r/seduction09/02/14 06:09 AM
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good shit
/r/seduction09/02/14 06:06 AM
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Good shit brah! Keeping seddit unique!
/r/seduction08/02/14 05:49 AM
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That being said I definitely go for girls probably out of my league. You have a terrible mindset OP, forget your plan, work on yourself. Focus on inner game. Valentine's day is just a corporate holiday anyway. Valentinez day could be anyday
/r/seduction07/02/14 06:02 AM
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read the sidebar, especially the inner game stuff
/r/seduction06/02/14 05:48 AM
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good shit, best shit i seen on seddit in a while..
/r/seduction06/02/14 05:47 AM
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This was written perfect
/r/seduction06/02/14 05:37 AM
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I'm going thru one-itis even though I have all this seduction knowledge and know more about women than the average man, but a phoenix rises from it's ashes.
/r/seduction02/02/14 08:41 PM
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Damn, this is a good one
/r/seduction01/02/14 02:16 AM
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Holy shit, that was awesome!
/r/seduction31/01/14 05:53 AM
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You need to work on you inner game big time
/r/seduction31/01/14 05:48 AM
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Nice!
/r/seduction31/01/14 04:06 AM
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And the hard ones?
/r/seduction31/01/14 02:02 AM
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Une femme qui ri est un la moitié dans ton lit Haha, I like it!
/r/seduction31/01/14 01:16 AM
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TLDW?
/r/seduction30/01/14 05:25 AM
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I'm convinced OP is trolling!
/r/seduction27/01/14 04:20 AM
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I'm not a good liar so I can't make myself seem cooler Why would you be a liar? Fake it til you BECOME it. Work on your inner game.
/r/seduction26/01/14 05:38 PM
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This happens to me a lot at parties and i know it's an IOI, that's as far as they'll go, it's like saying "come talk to me" so I do.
/r/seduction26/01/14 05:36 PM
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Keep being an AFC, it won't hurt us. You're only hurting yourself.
/r/seduction26/01/14 05:26 PM
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To not be able to say what you think and feel is a lack of confidence. It is needy, and therefore unattractive as well. How the fuck is that in any way "needy"? Like I said, the best way to let her know you desire her is KINO!
/r/seduction26/01/14 05:22 PM
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I had the idea in my head that if she was over then I’d ask if she’s still in relationship, state my intentions “Wait up, Sarah. There are a couple of things I need to say to you.” “ The first is that I’m not happy about what you did at my party two weeks ago. You and your friends just pregamed at my placed and left. I was pissed.” That was super AFC of you OP. Next time, don't take yourself too seriously! Be fun! Don't give a fuck! It doesn't have too be super deep and emotional like a movie. D…
/r/seduction26/01/14 05:09 PM
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yes
/r/seduction26/01/14 07:27 AM
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do stuff no other man would, go to places no one else would go to
/r/seduction26/01/14 07:11 AM
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Constantly change venues, my rule of thumb is no more than an hour at each venue and try to keep the date no more than 4-5 hours. Do shit that no other man will do
/r/seduction25/01/14 10:31 PM
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parties, mall, uni, dance classes, yoga classes, any classes.
/r/seduction25/01/14 06:29 PM
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Don't take yourself too seriously, I woulda laughed my ass off if this happened to me
/r/seduction23/01/14 04:01 PM
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Agreed, I only use the ones that I like, and delete the ones that make you sound AFCish
/r/seduction20/01/14 07:35 PM
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Comment by user: 6figganigga saved on Fri Dec 13 2013 22:52:40 GMT-0700 (MST) we need to get married. think about it tho… I'm hot. your semi-hot. imagine how hot our babies would look (when she pushes back) yeah but nothing a couple plastic surgeries can't fix. by a couple i mean no more than 15 (whatever bullshit she says) anyways we need to start working on mission: baby can you remember the (shirt/hat/whatever) i was wearing the other day? can you guess what material it was? father material /…
/r/seduction20/01/14 05:10 AM
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Comment by user: 6figganigga saved on Fri Dec 13 2013 22:52:40 GMT-0700 (MST) we need to get married. think about it tho… I'm hot. your semi-hot. imagine how hot our babies would look (when she pushes back) yeah but nothing a couple plastic surgeries can't fix. by a couple i mean no more than 15 (whatever bullshit she says) anyways we need to start working on mission: baby can you remember the (shirt/hat/whatever) i was wearing the other day? can you guess what material it was? father material /…
/r/seduction20/01/14 05:09 AM
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I mean I'm not going to be groping her up at first go. so I don't mind that we didn't kiss on the first date, or that I was feeling her up immediately upon meeting her This makes you look like a pussy. That's why people could tell it was your first date. First date or not, kino and escalate early on ASAP!
/r/seduction17/01/14 03:14 PM
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Whenever I described a girl as a 9,10 or model-status, I did find myself putting them up on a pedestal and seeing them as a goddess. I'm going to have to switch to a different scale!
/r/seduction17/01/14 03:06 PM
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Never thought of it that way. You can't build attraction over text but you can at least maintain it. good shit
/r/seduction14/01/14 05:10 AM
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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jk8JXvWYrPA
/r/seduction14/01/14 05:04 AM
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Basically, treat them like these guys treat this little kid. Laugh it off, see it as no threat. Also, be non-reactive/cool man/alright, that's it I heard enough, and go back to your set Edit: just read the post, the above was for the title. But the dude seemed pretty cool, befriend him. Be the cool dude that's cool with EVERYONE, be the bringer of good vibes!
/r/seduction14/01/14 03:14 AM
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Holy shit I want to take bachata classes now
/r/seduction14/01/14 03:07 AM
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right away, i usually call/text ~5minutes after #-close
/r/seduction13/01/14 04:47 AM
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stop watching disney movies
/r/seduction13/01/14 04:46 AM
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Attract rapport seduce
/r/seduction11/01/14 02:14 AM
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No, but this obviously is
/r/seduction08/01/14 01:04 AM
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Any source on the jealousy thing? I'm very interested.
/r/seduction08/01/14 01:02 AM
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I'm 5'4 and never let it get to me. I'm always confident as fuark, use body language, kino, etc. All the shit that applies. Also check out this manlet day gaming: https://www.youtube.com/user/CupidShmupid/videos Also, lift weights if you're skinny or fat
/r/seduction08/01/14 12:59 AM
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Always always always befriend the males first before you game the girls, and always be "non-reactive"
/r/seduction07/01/14 03:23 AM
2

I once asked HB, Do you know what Kino is? She said no. I proceeded to kino for what seemed like 1hr+, playing random hand games, thumbarz etc. after I finished Kinoing, I said "thats kino for ya" she just smiled as if saying "fuck, that was amazing!". Looking back though, I would never tell her what kino was, i think it's better if you game her and don't tell her wtf the name of every single move is.
/r/seduction07/01/14 03:20 AM
1

When I first started, I faked it. The continued "faking" eventually became internalize to where it's now second nature and my confidence isn't faked anymore, it's as real as it gets.
/r/seduction03/01/14 04:52 PM
2

First date, I take them hiking to some volcanoes we have here in my city, the walk is not far at all and it's lots of fun. After about 1.5hrs, on the way back, there's this view where you can see the entire city and we park there and I do lots of kino and go in for the kiss there. After another 30min-1hr, I take them to a local skate park that's also on the way and we just chill, talk, kino, smoke weed.
/r/seduction03/01/14 04:48 PM
26

Wtf dude? You don't have a shit smile bro! keep smiling!
/r/seduction02/01/14 05:31 PM
3

Nothing says you're comfortable like a huge grin. I used to think smiling was gay but now I smile 24/7
/r/seduction02/01/14 05:30 PM
3

I just say, "hey let's blaze it"
/r/seduction02/01/14 01:26 AM
4

There's no such thing as a fucking league, quit putting girls on the pedestal
/r/seduction31/12/13 07:11 AM
1

Thanks for your response. It's always great to see a girl's perspective
/r/seduction29/12/13 06:18 PM
1

Thanks for the response. My first thought when she first said this was "there must be something wrong with her, maybe she's a backstabber than can't hold friendships, or maybe the reason she said this was because she doesn't have friends in reality." but the particular girl that said this is actually a pretty down to earth person and there's actually nothing wrong with her. Just wanted to make sure I wasn't getting myself into crazy.
/r/seduction29/12/13 04:48 PM
2

be non reactive
/r/seduction28/12/13 08:41 PM
20

Or even better, ask her this when you're in a physical location. It's even better in person as opposed to boring ass texting
/r/seduction28/12/13 08:56 AM
1

lol, you won't end up that fat unless you don't exercise. Check out ICF 5x5 and get the Myfitnesspal app to get you started
/r/seduction26/12/13 05:17 AM
1

women flake, men do not
/r/seduction25/12/13 10:00 PM
2

bulk up and see if that helps. I too used too have a baby face, was skinny as fuck but my baby face disappeared once I gained weight, my jawline became more "squared" check out /r/gainit and read the FAQ
/r/seduction25/12/13 09:57 PM
0

Read the Inner Game stuff on the sidebar and constantly work on improving yourself
/r/seduction25/12/13 09:55 PM
1

Daily? Fuck no!
/r/seduction25/12/13 04:03 PM
1

This is how my first #-close went, my voice was trembling and my heart was beating fast but I confidently told her to give me her number... Kept my composure but on the inside I felt like yelling in victory
/r/seduction23/12/13 05:57 PM
1

I'm 19 and have grey hair (stress hair?) FMHair
/r/seduction17/12/13 03:48 AM
1

What should one say when they say "do you like me?" I clearly asked for their number, I kino, I escalate and I find that some still ask that stupid question as if we're in middle school! WTF does it even mean?
/r/seduction12/12/13 03:57 AM
1

Work on your inner game, nobody else should affect your being, you don't have to prove shit to no one. Also, try "cool man" "he'll say something asinine, it's not even deservetive of a response"
/r/seduction11/12/13 04:59 AM
1

She should be wondering "How can I keep him around?"
/r/seduction11/12/13 04:44 AM
5

Confident, Humorous, smart & fun
/r/seduction11/12/13 04:39 AM
4

If you're in college and you see known targets multiple times a day, should you be hugging them hi and goodbye every single time you see them/go your own ways? or should you hug them once when you first see them and a second time at the end of the school day?
/r/seduction10/12/13 03:08 AM
1

Work on your Inner Game #1 #2, Improve your physical appearance bro, you'll feel good both inside and out. Get on Myfitnesspal
/r/seduction09/12/13 03:52 AM
1

Get ripped or die 'mirin. Get on MyfitnessPal and start lifting weights bro
/r/seduction09/12/13 12:59 AM
2

You don't need to be a non-virgin to be sexual
/r/seduction08/12/13 07:46 PM
11

Try lifting weights. Get on Ice Cream Fitness 5x5
/r/seduction07/12/13 04:47 AM
1

Above The Game: Seduction Guide by TofuTofu
/r/seduction05/12/13 11:50 PM
1

OP, you just described me, I "warm up" by going out with friends early in the night, then we go out and part and stay out late into the night/early morning. I too would like to know how to combat this. Sometime I just feel like calling it a night early on but I want to do "something" so I stick around.
/r/seduction05/12/13 11:39 PM
1

Any free material that you know of?
/r/seduction05/12/13 02:24 PM
1

Dude!!!! Have you read anything in the sidebar? Do it now!
/r/seduction05/12/13 03:45 AM
2

What does passive aggressive mean?
/r/seduction05/12/13 03:40 AM
1

Ironically, I don't know how to palm read lol I just make up some bullshit, mind teaching me how?
/r/seduction05/12/13 03:34 AM
1

100% agree, you live and you learn. Thanks for the response!
/r/seduction04/12/13 05:46 AM
1

AFC as fuck!
/r/seduction04/12/13 04:42 AM
1

"playing too much angry birds?"
/r/seduction04/12/13 04:40 AM
3

is #closing her and asking if she wants to chill on the weekend basically like asking her out on a date? Yes, but don't mention it as a "date" Don't label it. It's called plausible deniability, you're telling her you wanna "hang out" but you both know hanging out is just an excused to have some alone time with her where you can proceed to KiNO/Escalate. after only talking to her once or twice? Yes. Focus on the interaction prior to #-closing. Go in there with good posture. eye contact (focus on …
/r/seduction04/12/13 04:35 AM
3

i feel like the last step is too quick to the punch? Noooo! Bro! You have to state your intentions early on. Tell her you're drawn to her and would like to hang out sometime. State your intentions early on or else she'll stick you in the friend zone
/r/seduction04/12/13 04:19 AM
6

Say you're a part time palm reader and proceed to KINO!
/r/seduction03/12/13 12:15 AM
2

90% of texting should be logistics
/r/seduction03/12/13 12:14 AM
2

One of the best lesson I learned and glad I did is: be outcome independent and do it to have FUN, don't expect shit, just focus on having fun! To answer your question: self improvement
/r/seduction03/12/13 12:02 AM
1

90% of texting should be reserved for logistics. You should be spending the majority of your time together in physical presence! Not on a fucking phone
/r/seduction02/12/13 11:19 PM
6

same here, I used to always constantly put my self down but through a combination of working on my inner game, improving my physical appearance etc., things like "fuck, I'm awesome" have become internalized and it's literally changed the way I and others see me. The mind is a powerful thing. You are what you think. Law of attraction
/r/seduction02/12/13 11:17 PM
1

Amen!
/r/seduction02/12/13 11:01 PM
2

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/pbkwv/glossary_of_terms_ag/
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:51 AM
1

With balls
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:33 AM
1

OP=AFC
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:33 AM
7

This year, she hooked up with another friend of mine, and I got so pissed AFC as fuck! Why would you be getting pissed when you could be talking to other girls? Well, yesterday we were at a party and started talking, and we decided to stay as friends anyways, we exchanged numbers, but the thing is... I still love her. Dude she friend zoned you, move on. Why would you be lying to yourself and her by saying you're OK with being just friends when you clearly want to be more than that. Move on, talk…
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:31 AM
2

You need more experience with girls OP, just because all the girls you came across are what you described above because of your own fucked up game, doesn't mean that all of them are, you just have to know what you're doing. work on your inner game!
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:16 AM
3

Dude! WTF!? Girls tell me the same thing ALL the time "You're sarcastic!" I used to use sarcasm as a defense mechanism when I was feeling a bit nervous or insecure - most of the time subconsciously. Damn, I think I'm the same way. I really need to stop joking so much and never doubt myself!
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:12 AM
9

90% of texting should be logistics
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:08 AM
2

What do you guys think about me asking one the mutual friends we have, to set me up with this girl? Super desperate/creepy. just go out and meet more attractive girls, there's literally billions of them out there!
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:04 AM
5

Work on your inner game
/r/seduction02/12/13 04:02 AM
1

Op you need to work on your inner game
/r/seduction02/12/13 01:54 AM
3

so I walked away making sure she knew I was disappointed. AFC as fuck! Anyways you're right, it doesn't matter wtf your mind is saying to talk you out of it, do it anyway!
/r/seduction02/12/13 01:35 AM
3

"I'm gonna be at X place at Y time" what would be a better way to ask her? So she knows it'll be just you and her as opposed to being a "busy man with fun shit to do and she can tag along if she'd like"?
/r/seduction01/12/13 09:26 PM
1

Have him read the sidebar>>>>>> or the Above the Game series by TofuTofu
/r/seduction01/12/13 09:13 PM
27

You shouldn't be worried about her talking to other guys, she should be wondering how many girls you're talking to.
/r/seduction01/12/13 09:10 PM
1

Very well written, enjoyed the read.
/r/seduction01/12/13 09:03 PM
2

I text/call them as soon as I get the number and say something like "now you have my number"
/r/seduction30/11/13 09:04 PM
1

Before I got into seddit, I used to be "apathetic, cold, and indifferent" After I read everything on here and applied it, I became " loving, open, help others without expecting anything, nice to everyone without conditions" but with humor, and no where near a "nice guy" or an AFC
/r/seduction28/11/13 05:00 PM
2

what's "logistics"
/r/seduction28/11/13 04:57 PM
2

It started with Todd telling me to run a set without talking at all. How did that even work? Just pure kino in a club?
/r/seduction27/11/13 02:28 AM
2

try "cool man"
/r/seduction27/11/13 02:15 AM
2

Shit test guide
/r/seduction27/11/13 02:13 AM
1

Taken from Lesson 2: Alpha Body Language & Tonality AND MORE (from RSD) (16) Commanding attention -don't compromise your value just to keep her talking. If she isn't looking at you, call her out. If she is on her phone, call her out. A high value person assumes that when he is talking people listen. If there is a dissonance, he takes action. How would one 'call her out"?
/r/seduction25/11/13 04:26 AM
1

Can you summarize their philosophies?
/r/seduction24/11/13 07:32 PM
2

Lol it all basically comes down to calories in vs calories out. This is what helped me understand how it all worked http://www.acaloriecounter.com/diet/ My suggestion would be to go on a bulk, and get on this program http://www.muscleandstrength.com/workouts/jason-blaha-ice-cream-fitness-5x5-novice-workout Check out /r/gainit and read the faq there
/r/seduction24/11/13 09:52 AM
4

Believe in your mind that you're a rock star
/r/seduction24/11/13 03:17 AM
8

She has had explosive diarrhea like you have
/r/seduction23/11/13 10:31 PM
6

(5'4"), and very muscular (200 lbs, ~15% BF) Holy shit brah! I'm 5/4 as well only 140lbs, not to be weird but I'm very interested in what a 200lbs guy my height looks like! (No homo) To your question, I found that it's the same for me. Once I started making a conscience effort to make eye contact, I realized that most people look at the ground or pretty much don't make eye contact. The key here is to not take it personally. But also, smile as if you just got done laughing, that smile will make y…
/r/seduction23/11/13 05:23 AM
8

On to the next one
/r/seduction23/11/13 05:18 AM
1

Good post. I like it, will try it next time. And the ring thing works great, I've tried it myself and it's a great execution of kino.
/r/seduction23/11/13 05:07 AM
2

Always assume attraction and this will be less likely to happen
/r/seduction20/11/13 10:45 PM
0

Dont stick around for hours upon hours! Youll demonstrate that you dont have nuthing to do and will make you seem over available which in turn will lower your value, which will kill attraction. Like others have said leave in the middle of a high note, dont be forced to leave when everything is winding down and it gets a little stale. Youre a male of high value with goals to pursue! Keep it short but fun, youll leave her wanting more.
/r/seduction16/11/13 04:57 AM
1

I know what you say doesn't matter but whats a better response other than the AFC-like response of "ok"
/r/seduction15/11/13 03:43 AM
1

Well... not really a shit test. Maybe she wants to see how fast i say "ok"
/r/seduction15/11/13 02:21 AM
1

When your hugging a girl bye and she says "text me" is it a shit test? What should i say?
/r/seduction15/11/13 01:46 AM
1

Haha i meant necklace. When they start playing with their necklace in similar fasion that they play with their hair, is it an IOI would you say? Edit: necklace. i ment necklace, not chain.
/r/seduction14/11/13 03:37 AM
1

So when girls play with their hair, its an IOI. But what about when they're playing with their chain?
/r/seduction13/11/13 03:35 AM
1

Lol dont listen to him. He doesnt know wtf hes talking about!
/r/seduction11/11/13 06:28 PM
1

What is this supposed to mean?
/r/seduction08/11/13 10:34 PM
1

5) The "Sticky High Five": Go for the high five, but when your hand meets hers, let it stick. Start talking immediately and close your fingers around hers so you are holding her hand. Tried this one, it's cool how fast they interlock their fingers with yours with no hesitation.
/r/seduction05/11/13 03:04 AM
24

haha then he goes on to say If it’s a girl and she says something naughty smack her thigh or ass. Amateur.
/r/seduction05/11/13 02:50 AM
2

This is a horrible mindset to have. Shoot for the stars, don't set limits for yourself. You're lying to yourself (not to mention her) by saying your attracted to HB4 when you're really not genuinely interested in her. Be true to yourself and others.Besides, HB8-HB10s are sometimes the most easiest girls to talk to!
/r/seduction02/11/13 06:11 AM
0

How to kiss?
/r/seduction29/10/13 02:33 AM
5

none
/r/seduction27/10/13 06:58 PM
8

Yes
/r/seduction26/10/13 02:17 AM
2

Pretty much sums up Seddit, this should have it's own place on the sidebar. Nice job OP, it's very creative!
/r/seduction24/10/13 01:15 AM
1

Theres billions of girls out there in the world dude, what do you mean there's no more girls!
/r/seduction22/10/13 02:38 PM
1

How should one react to girls giving you gifts for your birthday? I feel like I should just say thanks but I want to have a better response, obviously the "oh you shouldn't have" is out because it shows insecurity, so what's a better response?
/r/seduction22/10/13 02:47 AM
2

I asked her where I went wrong Just asking her that alone is one way you "went wrong". It shows insecurity. been depressed and crying for 2 weeks Life's too short for that bullshit bro, fuck being a sad cunt. Move on to the next one, it's hard to cry for one girl when you're already having a blast with all the other girls.
/r/seduction22/10/13 02:42 AM
2

Anything. It doesn't matter. You're over thinking it. it doesn't matter what you do, the only thing that matters is that you and her are together.
/r/seduction22/10/13 02:40 AM
1

I've seen you around here before That's creepy as fuark, don't say this. you're an alpha male, you're too busy doing you and getting all the girls to notice that one girl.
/r/seduction22/10/13 02:38 AM
1

I especially have trouble with people that I already know that I have met in a 'normal' context where there was no implied tension. Make your intentions clear from the get go, friends or nothing. Also, Escalate and/or Direct Game.
/r/seduction21/10/13 02:54 AM
3

I went from 113lbs to right now 138lbs and still not done yet at 5'4 by going on a bulk and lifting weights. I started lifting because I was always self-conscience about how skinny/small I was even as a young kid. so I started lifting and it's been the best thing I ever done for my self. The advantage to being short is when you gain weight, it's more noticeable, and it doesn't take long before people notice, I remember the first time I ever got a compliment about my "muscles" It was about 2 mont…
/r/seduction19/10/13 08:36 PM
1

Beautifully written.
/r/seduction15/10/13 03:42 AM
2

Great post OP, I 100% agree. You have to know who you are, self improve/grow and love yourself before anybody else can love you. No girl wants to be with a pessimistic little boy, they want a man who's confident, knows what he wants and goes after it. Fuck being a sad little kunt, life's way too fucking short for that bullshit.
/r/seduction12/10/13 01:30 AM
1

No, you just have to include them both in your conversation.
/r/seduction09/10/13 12:57 AM
1

What should I do? Keep approaching, work on your inner game, have an abundance mentality.
/r/seduction08/10/13 02:46 PM
12

Say: "Hi, I'm twistednipples"
/r/seduction08/10/13 02:44 PM
1

I may actually be a moron. Stop the self abuse and learn from your mistakes, you live and you learn.
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:34 AM
2

I told her I demanded she make fifteen minutes for me so that I could tell her that she cannot continue to text me unless she's planning on fucking me at that very moment. Made you seem AFC IMHO. I would have already been way too busy having fun with the next girl. On to the next one.
/r/seduction08/10/13 03:31 AM
2

You don't want to get friend zoned, you friend zone whoever you're not genuinely interested in. Girl friends definitely come in handy, you can hang out with them and show other girls you're pre-selected AND she can introduce you to her cute friends.
/r/seduction06/10/13 11:19 PM
1

Fuck being a sadkunt, be a sickunt! Life's too short!
/r/seduction06/10/13 12:24 AM
3

Meet her IRL, forget okc.
/r/seduction05/10/13 05:03 AM
1

"i'm not sure about you yet." LMR, read the sidebar on how to handle this. Now move on to the next one, don't focus all your energy on just one girl.
/r/seduction05/10/13 05:00 AM
11

/r/NoFap
/r/seduction04/10/13 01:55 AM
16

On to the next one.
/r/seduction04/10/13 01:48 AM
0

Open body language, good posture and smile.
/r/seduction02/10/13 10:51 PM
3

Look around you and look at your life, I'm sure you can find at least ONE thing that is awesome.
/r/seduction02/10/13 10:50 PM
4

As a manlet, I feel good seeing this perspective :)
/r/seduction02/10/13 10:36 PM
7

Girls constantly tell me "I can't picture you being mad" which is something I've been working on, I try to be the bringer of good vibes, and be as positive as I can be. When I think of Mystery or Style etc, I also can't picture them mad. My question is: Should an "Alpha male" ever be mad? When is it "ok" to be mad? I'm not looking to be mad just looking for some input.
/r/seduction01/10/13 01:52 AM
3

Be the cool dude you are. Show them the time of their life. Make her say "Damn this guy is amazing, I never met anybody like him". Never judge her and just be the confident cool guy you are. She'll learn some of your confidence, she'll be a completely different person by the end of the relationship.
/r/seduction29/09/13 10:09 PM
1

Work on yourself. Start lifting weights and go on a slow bulk, I also used to look like a 16 year old at 18 years old, I used to be very skinny and felt feminine/weak/small around girls and guys. That all changed when I started bulking and lifting weights, my face changed from an oval feminine shape to a masculine square jaw/face. More muscle mass makes you look like a grown ass man, when you're as skinny as I was, you still have that young boys body. (Look into ICF 5x5) Ever since I improved my…
/r/seduction29/09/13 09:59 PM
9

This has happened to me before... in middle school..
/r/seduction29/09/13 09:54 PM
2

Stop thinking so negatively and having that bad self-image of yourself and quit putting yourself down, you are what you think, your negative behavior can be unlearned. Catch yourself every time you think negatively about yourself (same goes for other people, never talk bad about anyone) and turn that negative thought into a positive one. I used to be exactly like you but I changed my mind set, I wrote a detailed post last week on how I changed my life. I hope you can use the information to turn …
/r/seduction29/09/13 05:09 AM
9

Stop taking yourself so fucking seriously This is what most of the world needs to do, lighten up people! You never know when you're going to die! Be the guy that has a shitload of women at his funeral, form relationships, get out there!
/r/seduction29/09/13 05:06 AM
2

Good shit Op, I'll try this
/r/seduction27/09/13 09:59 PM
2

Is it wrong to think "I'd go out with her..... if she lost some weight" I feel like an asshole but I can't control those type of thoughts, I know I'm not perfect but that's just the way I think.. or better yet, the way our culture has thought us to think. I guess I answered my own question. Fuck society/ads/corporations, purposefully feeding us shit that will make us fat while portraying an anorexic standard of beauty.
/r/seduction27/09/13 09:56 PM
1

What's the best way to handle other males bothering you? Nothing to do with girls but let's say you're friends with a guy and during class he might smack you with a pen in the arm or, he'll push your arm while writing? I usually just ignore them so they'll feel like assholes when they get no reaction from me (I usually play the "non-reactive game" with them and completely ignore them but it bothers me inside and I wanna tell them to stop but I don't wanna go full AFC on them by being "mad/negati…
/r/seduction27/09/13 03:35 AM
1

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1mt31r/how_i_went_from_being_beta_to_loving_life/
/r/seduction27/09/13 02:09 AM
1

Talk to EVERYONE, not just girls, if you can't even talk to the old lady in the grocery store, how are you gonna talk to HBs?
/r/seduction27/09/13 02:03 AM
-1

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1mt31r/how_i_went_from_being_beta_to_loving_life/
/r/seduction27/09/13 02:01 AM
4

Most guys are AFC and won't spit game to you. there's probably a lot of guys that want to hit on you but are too AFC to do anything about it.
/r/seduction27/09/13 01:59 AM
2

That's why I prefer indirect game vs direct game, direct openers have their place but coming off as the friendly guy who just wants to randomly talk and joke around is what I feel comfortable doing, but that's me, do what works for YOU.
/r/seduction25/09/13 10:38 PM
2

Befriend the football player ASAP!!
/r/seduction25/09/13 03:20 AM
2

How should one respond to girls throwing pieces of paper at you during class, like they're trying to get your attention. should you look back right away, ignore and not respond at all or throw the paper back? Also, What should one say when a girl asks for a ride?
/r/seduction25/09/13 03:00 AM
6

Don't even do it in the first place, it shows her that you don't get many females, which lowers your value. Make it a habit to catch yourself and not even go there, looking a girl in the eyes is the best thing you can do, practice!
/r/seduction25/09/13 02:38 AM
28

"You mean this week?" "You mean today?" "Let me get my journal out" "Im actually a virgin, I never even kissed a girl :P"
/r/seduction24/09/13 10:11 PM
1

But this one is just different One-itis is a bitch. Although I do agree with this. Make their lives better by knowing you! Be adventurous, spontaneous, daring, and confident.
/r/seduction23/09/13 08:43 PM
3

I'm gonna do it! .. tomorrow..
/r/seduction23/09/13 08:30 PM
1

Thanks bro :)
/r/seduction22/09/13 07:44 PM
1

good read.
/r/seduction21/09/13 07:43 PM
2

I said "only" because I know I could've had way more, I could've had any girl I wanted but I just didn't believe in myself, through the process of changing my mindset, that's changed and am going after every girl that I'm interested in, I said "Fuck it" and just went in with my head held high and open everybody.
/r/seduction21/09/13 05:44 PM
8

me too bro, at first i lifted for aesthetics but now the only thing that matters to me is adding more weight to the bar, the aesthetics is just a bonus.
/r/seduction21/09/13 03:12 AM
7

Disregard the "getting ripped to be noticed" part, everything else is true
/r/seduction21/09/13 03:07 AM
1

I did the tic-tac-toe game plan with a slight variation curious, what tic tac toe game plan are you talking about? is there a thread i missed? or just regular ass tic tac toe?
/r/seduction21/09/13 02:47 AM
2

Negativity is a turn off/unattractive, say "hey, i'm trying to have a good time here" then change the subject into something positive, or completed ignore her shit and talk about something positive/change the subject.
/r/seduction21/09/13 02:39 AM
2

wait, so how do you get it, is it going to be a physical copy delivered to my house? if not then, do you have to have a kindle to download the digital version?
/r/seduction21/09/13 02:32 AM
10

On getting a job, stay persistent, never give up, apply everywhere every single day multiple times a day, meet new people, you'll end up meeting lots of people who might have a job for you, network, you're bound to get a job sooner or later, it's a numbers game just like pick-up. As for going out, find out about events that are going on in your city, go to concerts, go to the fair, go to cool events, go everywhere, the important thing is to show up, even if it's by yourself, as a matter of fact,…
/r/seduction21/09/13 02:13 AM
7

don't get too hung up on Eunice bro, don't focus 100% of your attention her, talk to every girl not just the few. told her she's really pretty A lot of PUAs disagree but you should never compliment a girl's DNA, (her hair, eyes, beauty etc) Instead, compliment something she's wearing (shoes, shirt, bracelet, earings, hat, purse etc) other than that good job on finally killing your AA. Practice bro, keep pulling them left and right, whichever girl you see that you're interested in, approach them,…
/r/seduction20/09/13 10:55 PM
5

I thought the best way to deal with AMOGs was to befriend them? It's been working wonders for me.
/r/seduction19/09/13 03:29 AM
1

Work on yourself, self improve first, girls are just the icing on the cake, when you're too busy doing you, people are attracted to you
/r/seduction17/09/13 02:48 AM
5

Good open, the "study" thing was gold. The only thing I would say you did "wrong" was > "Omg I totally just met this weird chick in ____ ,I think her name was ____ ?" I wouldn't call anyone weird or talk bad about someone, I know you were just playing but negativity is unattractive, say positive things about everyone, whenever you're about to say anything negative, make it a habit to catch yourself mid-sentence and turn that negative into a positive, other than that you did great!
/r/seduction17/09/13 02:43 AM
1

This is actually a pretty good opener, it always brings out a smile
/r/seduction13/09/13 10:17 PM
6

I have confidence Confident people don't talk how you did in your post, your post is full of doubt bro. Maybe look into therapy, I never been to a therapist myself but a lot of sedditors recommend it.
/r/seduction11/09/13 04:42 AM
1

Looks don't get you girls, confidence and humor does. You can be the most aesthetic guy in the world but if your confidence is shit and you don't know how to hold a conversation, girls don't see you as anything special. Sure looks are great for first impressions but http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1m4fu7/trust_me_its_not_about_looks_or_confessions_of_a/
/r/seduction11/09/13 04:05 AM
1

Small Steps bro, make eye contact with everyone you see, after you're comfortable making eye contact with people, move on to holdin eye contact with people, After you master that, smile at people, when you're comfortable doing that, greet them etc. Write down 30 things you like about yourself and you'll see you're an awesome human being, if you can't come up with 30 things, go out, meet new people, form relationships, pickup hobbies, constantly seek out new experiences. Set goals for yourself an…
/r/seduction11/09/13 04:03 AM
1

Openers dont mean shit, what you say doesn't matter its all about saying it with confidence, positive vibes and a great energy!
/r/seduction11/09/13 12:34 AM
2

what do you mean by congruent?
/r/seduction11/09/13 12:25 AM
1

You're not shy, just introverted :) work on your inner game brah
/r/seduction11/09/13 12:12 AM
1

Thats not a very good opener IMHO. Negetivity is very unnattractive and is a big turn off, negativity makes you seem AFC. Be the bringer of good vibes!! Walk in there with a big smile and your head held high and open her with a joke! It doesn't matter how you open her, as long as you have a great energy. Lifes too short to take yourself too seriously.
/r/seduction11/09/13 12:01 AM
8

Nope. Dude, i used to be a very shy guy and hated it, I always lived in my head too much, I always over-analyzed situations, I had very low self esteem despite being an attractive guy IMO, girls always hit on me ever since kindergarden but I only had like 4 or 5 girlfriends at age 18 because I just didn't have the confidence. There's good news though, confidence can be learned bro. Honestly, with me, i cant pinpoint an "event" or occasion that gave me confidence, it was a gradual process. MINDSE…
/r/seduction10/09/13 03:15 AM
5

Yup, i live to have a fun, spontaneous life. The confidence and fun just naturally attracts girls. I find that when youre too busy doing you/ improving yourself constantly/ setting goals for yourself and meeting them, thats when guys seem to attract girls without even trying. All traits that make up an alpha male biologically attract females. I dont even use this subreddit for seduction, i use it to learn useful information that i can apply in the real world and to improve myself and to become t…
/r/seduction10/09/13 01:53 AM
2

" I Keep my head up like my noze is bleeding" - Lil Wayne Seriously guys, hold your head high and proud like your nose is bleeding, it does wonders for your appearance and it gives you a little confidence boost.
/r/seduction10/09/13 01:42 AM
1

isnt the best way to "disarm" an AMOG by befriending him? Open AMOG before you open HB no??
/r/seduction09/09/13 02:45 PM
1

Read the sidebar, especially the inner game stuff
/r/seduction08/09/13 06:08 PM
1

Talk to everyone! First, try holding eye contact with strangers, then Start conversations with random people. Say watsup to everyone! Befriend everybody. Talk to everyone abd talking to girls will be easier
/r/seduction08/09/13 06:00 PM
1

Anyways, the rest of the night went well and there seems to be no real difference in how L and I interact That's all that matters bro, don't over think.
/r/seduction07/09/13 07:46 PM
3

Alpha's don't talk about how great they are, people see how great the alpha is. It's like a an insecure guy that works out, he wants to tell EVERYBODY how much he loves working out but he doesn't need to say shit because in reality, people can tell that he works out.
/r/seduction07/09/13 07:37 PM
7

don't bother contacting me anymore IMO that makes you sound like you got butthurt which in turn makes you seem AFC. After they flake, move on to the next ones, don't bother "letting them know when you're done with them" If you were talking to 8 other girls, you'd be too busy with them to even think about the other girls that flaked on you.
/r/seduction07/09/13 07:30 PM
1

There is no league homie, quit doubting yourself. Read the sidebar, expecially the inner game stuff.
/r/seduction06/09/13 03:55 AM
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It's all about how you make them feel. That's why girls say "he's funny" and not "he says funny things!"
/r/seduction06/09/13 03:52 AM
1

All the times I opened a girl was spontaneous, canned material definitely helps though!
/r/seduction06/09/13 03:42 AM
2

Ask her "how do you spell your name?"
/r/seduction05/09/13 04:19 AM
1

r/nofap
/r/seduction02/09/13 05:46 PM
0

It's all about confidence, own it!
/r/seduction02/09/13 05:40 PM
1

I used to be the quiet guy that can't get out of his head, then I started to work on a lot of inner game stuff. I started setting goals for myself and meeting them, I started being more outgoing, I started to smile at everybody, be comfortable and friendly, look everyone in the eye. Dress nicely, work on improving your self both physically, through exercise and mentally, through learning and new experiences. Talk to EVERYBODY! Talk to the cashier, talk to the old lady at the grocery store, talk …
/r/seduction02/09/13 05:03 PM
1

Confidence CAN be learned bro, fake it til you become it is real legit advice, watch the TEDtalk by Amy on Body language
/r/seduction30/08/13 10:34 PM
1

The good news is that you can change your status. You can climb. For a woman can only change her looks to a certain extent, but there's almost no limit to what a man can achieve with his status. So fucking true bro, like Mystery says: Beauty is common. We can EVOLVE, confidence can be LEARNED!
/r/seduction30/08/13 10:29 PM
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Yeah fuck all that other shit, it all starts with you. YOU YOU YOU! You have to project confidence, be fun, be nice but don't be a nice guy, smile at everyone, talk to everyone, don't judge anybody, don't put anybody down, just raise yourself up and be the fucking best human being you can be! It's not complicated guys, it all starts with you.
/r/seduction30/08/13 10:16 PM
9

Fuck yeah, I'm that asshole type with girls, it's nothing at all like what everyone here recommends. But I think the key is to be "jokingly mean" with them, I neg them a lot, then they laugh, punch me in the arm and say "haha you're mean to me." I'm smiling throughout the whole process. Smiling, is the other key to being Alpha, it's all about smiling guys! Don't underestimate your smile!
/r/seduction30/08/13 02:50 AM
2

When YOU are no longer interested, she has to be able to keep your attention, even then it's better to interact with her in real life, only text to set up dates or meet up in person.
/r/seduction24/08/13 10:36 PM
2

I always say "no" but they ask over and over. So what to do when they ask you multiple times?
/r/seduction19/08/13 03:43 AM
1

fuck those girls. If they're that close-minded then I wouldn't even want to waste my time knowing who they were anyway. Exactly!
/r/seduction16/08/13 12:22 AM
2

It's NOT good, she was saying that the way you stand/sit/posture makes makes you feel more "alpha" and closed/shy/scared posture makes your cortisol levels rise and testosterone levels drop. TLDR; have open posture, dont you dare ever have closed posture ever again.
/r/seduction15/08/13 11:29 PM
11

Hell yeah, I watched it a while back and holy fuck, it's changed the way I walk, the way I sit especially and my overall body language, it's truly a life changer, my confidence has skyrocketed ever since I watched it, I suggest you watch the whole thing ASAP!
/r/seduction15/08/13 03:49 AM
5

Actually I cant link on this shitty computer, (have a filter) It's the TEd x talk by Gary Wilson where he talks about porn damage. Go to r/nofap and check the side bar or maybe search gary wilson no fap or gary wilson porn. As a matter of fact, I think it might be on his site www.yourbrainonporn.com
/r/seduction14/08/13 11:33 PM
15

The Ted talk by Gary Wilson is also good. It's a response to this.
/r/seduction14/08/13 10:54 PM
1

Where's the best place to go sarging excluding bars?
/r/seduction02/07/13 03:54 AM
1

coke, lots and lots of coke..... but in all seriousness, get an energy drink or some caffeine pills or something, preworkout... anything is better than passing out like a dumbass
/r/seduction29/06/13 03:11 AM
1

"to defend it is to validate it"- tofutofu on Primer On Who You Will Become
/r/seduction28/06/13 10:56 PM
1

They mean they don't want an AFC
/r/seduction25/06/13 09:29 PM
1

Like Mystery said, take the hula hoop and make her jump through it
/r/seduction24/06/13 11:38 PM
1

You want to Kino ASAP, hug her when you first see her
/r/seduction24/06/13 04:23 AM
0

He must learn to love himself before he can love her
/r/seduction24/06/13 04:19 AM
9

Went to a party this Friday and introduces myself to everybody, small stuff but to me it's huge because I'm not that social, it's good to get out of your comfort zone people!
/r/seduction23/06/13 02:48 PM
1

Bill?
/r/seduction20/06/13 06:31 PM
1

All I can say it gets better, I know it's cliche but it's true. I used too have very low confidence, very low self esteem despite the fact that I'm an attractive guy. I'm still not the most confident guy but I'm at a way better place than I was just a year ago. Start to change the things you can change about yourself, like workout, get a 6 pack like you said, read, practice, meet new people, seducing girls can REALLY be a confidence booster just practice practice and practice some more. Accept t…
/r/seduction15/06/13 06:17 AM
2

Saved for future reference
/r/seduction14/06/13 11:51 PM
1

How does the Jelous girlfriend routine work?
/r/seduction14/06/13 11:18 PM
2

hello fellow gainer! Picking up girls too eh?
/r/seduction14/06/13 10:49 PM
2

What are some good "openers"
/r/seduction14/06/13 10:40 PM
9

I've always thought of this, don't get too fucked up because you're only going to end up making a damn fool of yourself, ALWAYS. Just drink enough to have fun but don't black the fuck out
/r/seduction12/06/13 09:15 PM
1

What do you mean by "a course of action"
/r/seduction12/06/13 08:17 PM
1

Goodshit bro
/r/seduction09/06/13 10:37 PM
1

Simple yet, effective
/r/seduction09/06/13 10:36 PM
1

I read the 1st exercise as "pee in mouth" haha
/r/seduction06/06/13 09:57 PM
1

What challenge are you referring to?
/r/seduction05/06/13 02:03 AM
36

What a coincidence, I came to seddit looking for text game and this is a top post.
/r/seduction30/05/13 11:06 PM
2

I had the same problem, but I decide that i took too long to make a move, so I just stayed friends. Sometimes I wonder if I just stayed friends with her and didn't escalate because I was afraid of losing her. We flirt heavy.
/r/seduction27/05/13 09:29 PM
2

What do you mean by "projecting neediness"?
/r/seduction25/05/13 12:42 AM
1

What does "cold" approach mean?
/r/seduction25/05/13 12:40 AM
1

Where can i find Tofu Tofu's Above The Game
/r/seduction17/05/13 11:48 PM
3

What if you don't know anybody at the party except for the one person that invited you, how do you introduce yourself to everybody? even guys? I'm going to a party tomorrow night for the first time ever.
/r/seduction17/05/13 11:39 PM
3

damn dude that's actually a really cool way to look at it, going to a club looking to have fun and NOT get hit on, but then you get hit on, its a pretty unique way to look at what hb's go through.
/r/seduction10/04/13 10:10 PM
1

Great tips. I've been hearing if the hand steeple a lot lately, I'll have to try it one of these days :)
/r/seduction25/12/12 03:17 AM
1

PHYSIQUE: This one is dead simple. Get fit, stay fit, shut the fuck up about it. Nobody wants to hear about your routine anymore than they want reminding that they don't have one. Unless you are talking to an aerobics instructor or some shit, just keep quiet about your fitness and relax in the confidence that when you get to fuck her, she will be impressed. BOOM!!!
/r/seduction25/12/12 03:13 AM
1

This is a success, not a failure, even if you got rejected, you're progressing
/r/seduction24/12/12 08:43 AM
1

What's AFC?
/r/seduction21/12/12 03:57 AM
1

Dude I'm in the same place as you! I can't get this girl out of my head for the pat two months! Everything is connected with her now! I'm going crazy! I know the quickest way to get rid of this is to talk to more girls, but I just don't And its drivin me crazy! I need help on intro to seduction because I don't know how to spit game, I mean u read all these seduction 101 buy I just don't apply it!
/r/seduction15/12/12 06:00 AM
2

DONT GIVE A FLYING FUCK!
/r/seduction08/12/12 06:04 PM
1

I've read so many pickup thingys but I never out them into action! Hell me! I'm not good at social interactions that much much less go up to a random hot girl! Help me know how to put them into action!
/r/seduction08/12/12 05:37 AM
1

No it wasn't desperate for you to walk up to the circle of friends and break into it, if anything, that shows that you got the BALLS to join in on a group that you totally don't know.
/r/seduction03/12/12 11:18 PM
1

"you say that you're taken, that's cool with me, cuz you and your boyfriend ain't got shit to do with me" - Wiz Khalifa
/r/seduction03/12/12 08:44 PM
-3

What's IOI, n00b here
/r/seduction03/12/12 08:41 PM
1

In person is the best way no shit about it, texting is the worst, phone ui ok but only if you have to. But try to do it in person whenever possible.
/r/seduction02/12/12 05:42 PM
1

I used to always tell my ex "kiss me" she though it was funny the first time, she was like "haha kiss me he says" but i always told her kiss me
/r/seduction27/11/12 08:42 PM
2

That guy is not alpha at all!
/r/seduction27/11/12 08:25 PM
2

That was so alpha
/r/seduction21/11/12 04:15 PM
3

LMFAO that's funnier than fuck!
/r/seduction21/11/12 04:11 PM
-8

Thanks for the help :) Get money, fuck bitches
/r/seduction06/11/12 08:55 PM
-12

Fuck you don't judge me/drug me then love me/eat me some pussy when I got the munchies
/r/seduction06/11/12 05:45 PM
2

Where can I find these "improv classes" and public speaking classes, are they free?
/r/seduction06/11/12 05:25 PM
1

You're both adults, I think you'll know how to handle this
/r/seduction04/11/12 02:52 AM
2

?
/r/seduction29/10/12 02:47 PM
2

r/NoFap
/r/seduction28/10/12 08:15 PM
3

I fucking hate texting, I rather be in the physical presence
/r/seduction28/10/12 07:52 PM
-9

I felt comfortable with silence over the phone with my last gf. It was the first time where it wasn't "awkward silence" like it usually is, n it felt good :) I guess I just felt like that because I felt dominant over her, usually I'll be bleeding from my nose just from being around a HB10 lol JK but I'll be pretty nervous.
/r/seduction28/10/12 07:51 PM
1

Be assertive! Say "you SHOULD go out with me sometime" or "come see a movie this Friday with me, I'm gonna watch X, I hear it's good" or "hey where do you wanna go to dinner tomorrow " and then give her choice A or B
/r/seduction26/10/12 04:18 AM
14

Make her feel comfortable with you, relate to her, be your true self so she can be herself
/r/seduction22/10/12 05:08 PM
2

Teach me your ways
/r/seduction22/10/12 05:01 PM
0

Be like "hey I had to come over and meet you because I thought you were really pretty/adorable/cute/beautiful, it took me a lot of courage to come up and talk to you so just give me 2 minutes to get your number and I'll be on my way"
/r/seduction22/10/12 04:57 PM
4

What's third base? What are all the bases?
/r/seduction21/10/12 03:38 PM
1

Thanks for the advice man, any books or anything else that helped you along the way?
/r/seduction25/09/12 06:55 PM
1

You*
/r/seduction25/09/12 03:07 PM
1

How did you he over shyness/introversion?
/r/seduction25/09/12 03:07 PM
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