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Your situation sounds somewhat like my situation. My wife isn't controlling to that extreme, but she has cut me off from my friends, whether that be intentionally or unintentionally. I've been thinking I should get my Prius setup for car camping and just go for a week. Wouldn't cost me that much and would be a nice break. My wife also has her way of not letting me do what I want to do. There's nothing more that I'd like than to go fishing or hiking or just going for a walk together but she's not…
/r/Divorce_Men18/10/21 01:33 AM
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didn't get to read your whole post but if she's being abusive you need to figure out a way to get out. I'm in the same place. It's so hard to leave but it's not worth getting things thrown at you or getting put into walls. one of these days i will hit my limit and i will be gone. no kids been married 10+ years.
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/21 04:02 PM
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Frankly. You are insane for offering her anything financially if you're getting 50% or real close to it custody. Ideally she wants to move out and go "live her own life" while you bankroll it.... that's not fair to you and frankly that's her problem not yours. Now if we're talking about alimony there are alimony calculators for your state that will tell you how much you owe her for the given length of marriage. All I'm saying is that you're working really hard on screwing yourself. The money she…
/r/Divorce_Men18/09/21 02:25 AM
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Just get it over with and give her a divorce. You need to look out for yourself, not for her if it's already getting to this point.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/21 03:45 PM
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Your best friend is documentation documentation documentation. Take a snapshot of your financial condition before marriage essentially. As long as you have it well documented that you owned x amount of stuff before you were married and can prove that you had x amount of capital gains after marriage she is only entitled to 50% of the capital gains after marriage amount. Also document your debts.... she is responsible for 50% of your debts after you get married as well.
/r/Divorce_Men31/08/21 07:15 PM
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Yeah it depends on the judge and her lawyer I'm sure but women don't automatically get half of the guy's money..... like I said if she has a job that pays $100k and you have a job that pays $50k she'll owe you $25k with no kids. To dramatically simplify things.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/21 08:51 PM
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"She" doesn't get half of what you earn. All the money that is earned by both parties to the relationship goes into a pot and then the whole pot is split 50/50. At least this is the way it's supposed to be. Once you have kids you add them to the pot, and that's when a guy really starts getting screwed.
/r/Divorce_Men26/08/21 01:52 PM
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/r/Divorce_Men05/08/21 02:49 AM
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I do know that you get numb to the neediness after awhile.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 01:57 AM
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I have the same thoughts haven't gotten a divorce yet so can't advise you there.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/21 01:56 AM
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Why is this even an issue? As long as you don't sign anything keep something like this on the down low. She could transfer her legal guardianship upon death i imagine but you need to walk a fine line maybe put it off agree to her demands verbally but make sure there's nothing in writing. Time is on your side.
/r/Divorce_Men22/06/21 06:15 PM
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Precisely. And this team of horses ain't working.
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/21 12:36 PM
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I've had credit card debt and I'm still 15k in the hole. Got a eidl for corona and paid all my credit cards off. Now the interest is only 2 or 3 percent not 15 to 25 percent. And i keep the credit cards paid thank you very much.
/r/MGTOW02/06/21 03:25 PM
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Married here, had to kick my wife off of my business accounts because she would look on her phone and see "oh you have $5000 in the business account you can afford to spend money on me". Umm, no, bitch, I have $5500 I owe on my business and personal credit cards that has got to get paid off. Shut that shit down about a month ago and things have been much better since. Many women don't fucking understand money. My wife thinks that there's a weekly competition to see how little money she can have …
/r/MGTOW02/06/21 03:06 PM
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Sounds like she will owe you alimony and child support. If 50/50 then no child support. But she'll definitely owe you alimony and you should take it. I was told since my wife made $22K a year officially and I made $2K a year officially she'd owe me ailmony. If her business is profitable and she pays a good amount in taxes on her personal income she'll owe you a bunch.
/r/Divorce_Men18/05/21 01:03 PM
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Aha. The good old what's yours is mine and what's mine is mine. Keep it with no regrets
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/21 03:40 PM
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I agree. I even owned my own home before we were married and she's never made a house payment in 10 years. She makes about $400-500 a week and blows every penny of it. Our monthly bills amount to about $300 a month. Then I have to fund whatever she puts on the credit card. Try to talk to her about being reasonable with the credit card and she goes and cuts up her credit card because "I told her she can't use it so why have it at all". That's happened 3x now. I'm also hard of hearing. Hereditary.…
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/20 11:58 PM
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Yep I read that reddit regularly. Was banned from posting/commenting there. Married 10 yrs no kids she won't do anything about her own health.
/r/Divorce_Men12/12/20 11:46 PM
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I know what I should do, that's for sure. I've also got a bat shit crazy mother 15 miles away that thinks life isn't worth living if I don't live within 20 miles of her and she has to see me at least once a month, usually every two weeks. Since I'm married she'll leave me alone for the most part, if I get divorced she'll become a suffocating bitch again. I'm an only child for context. I already have notifications from her muted on my phone so I don't get her texts until I look at my phone. Tryin…
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/20 11:20 PM
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Right. It only happens a couple times a month or so and she thinks it's "justified" because I did something to piss her off, but still.
/r/Divorce_Men14/09/20 08:36 PM
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thank you for this post... that is so true... my mother is really bad about pushing my buttons and living 15 miles from her does not help. have been very low contact with her for awhile now.
/r/MGTOW27/08/20 02:19 AM
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Ill do it for three hundred bucks, plus materials cost. ;) ​ Ill do it for three hundred bucks, plus materials cost. ;)
/r/MGTOW23/06/20 11:06 PM
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