Affectionate-Base645 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
14	When women complain about the "slut-stud double standard" are they actually complaining about women being called "sluts", not so much about men being called "studs"?		Affectionate-Base645	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 07:48 PM

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7	CMV: Males are more likely to accept being fetishized in a LTR than women. I am a single guy, but if I was married I would feel flattered if my wife truly desired my body . I would feel lucky if she found my body beautiful, or if she had a “fetish” for my body . I think the reason men feel flattered about being “fetishized” is because most men don’t know how it feels like to be desired .	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 04:13 AM
7	CMV: Males are more likely to accept being fetishized in a LTR than women. The way I see it , as a man, most men have never experienced someone from the opposite gender desiring their bodies .	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 01:10 AM
9	CMV: Males are more likely to accept being fetishized in a LTR than women. The problem is that most women are going after the same guys , and many of these women aren’t interested in polygamy , so obviously they are going to have difficulties getting the men they desire .	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/24 01:05 AM
3	Having a partner with the same/similar hobbies is much tougher for men. Why are you so aggressive ? I didn’t see OP disrespecting anyone , yet you have been so rude. Regardless of what our liberal society says , men and women are different. You ask “What are men’s hobbies according to you “.. Well, I could mention watching or attending sporting events . Part of the reason as to why women’s sports generate so little revenues (and as a result they are “underpaid”) is because women as a whole , don’t care about sports . It’s depressing to wnba games with such low atten…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 02:32 PM
1	Why is popularity and social standing in a partner so much more important to women? I have witnessed in my own family how my female relatives who are why have no difficulty at all finding boyfriends or husbands with good social skills . Men (on average) just don’t care about a woman’s social skills, humor skills, social status , height and so on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 08:13 PM
1	A man buys a woman a drink, or takes her out to dinner. Why do some feel they are entitled to receive sex afterward? I am pretty sure that this kind of behavior was unheard of back then when feminism hadn’t normalized premarital sex yet .	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 07:52 PM
1	Femininity is largely considered inferior to Masculinity and there are no good reasons for women to embrace femininity At the end of the day, she is the one who suffers the most as a result of rejecting her feminine nature. For instance , as you pointed out , women have rejected modesty and charity .. this has caused many women to become single mothers, and as it is well known, single motherhood and poverty go hand in hand. Women rejecting their appearance had caused many of them become overweight .. and studies show that people don’t benefit by being overweight . Lastly , the fact that some women are rejecting …	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 07:11 PM
1	Debate: I don't believe up to 3.7% of men raising children that are not theirs is an insignificant number, and here's why. This is what happens when a society normalizes sex outside of the marital bed (premarital or extramarital). While I feel bad for fellow men who are unknowingly raising children that aren’t theirs , the reality is that kids are the ones who suffer the most as a result of sex taking place outside of the marital bed, since many of them are aborted, whereas many others are raised by single mothers, and as we all know, single motherhood and poverty go hand in hand. Furthermore, most people in jail we…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 07:00 PM
3	Women complain about traits of high T but don't want any side effects of a low T male Maybe I am wrong , but I don’t think the average man wants any of those things in a woman . We just want a woman who isn’t addicted to food, drugs, alcohol , sedentary lifestyle, etc . I personally have never heard a man say “I want a woman with a hourglass figure” or “I want a petite woman”. Now, good luck finding a woman who doesn’t dream about a tall man .	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/07/24 06:43 PM
2	Conscription squads send Ukrainian men into hiding OP: It is the intelligent thing to do. I think you made good points, but should Ukraine give up its territories just because most people living there are ethnically Russian ? So, should the U.S. give up states where were ethnic Mexicans are majority ?	/r/MensRights	19/06/24 07:41 AM
3	gpt o4 opinion abt mutilation But in the U.S. circumcision has little to do with religion ..Do you think most boys who are circumcised in the U.S. were conceived in the marital bed? I ask since pretty much all religions condemn premarital sex. In the U.S. boys are circumcised for three main reasons : 1”Circumcised penises are prettier than uncircumcised ones” 2”Circumcised penises are cleaner than uncircumcised ones” 3 “I want him to look like his father”.	/r/MensRights	19/06/24 07:32 AM
8	Children - The forgotten victims of feminism Feminism is a joke, if they cared so much about women then they would help women in Afghanistan who are being denied an education , but privileged western feminists are busy fighting for their “rights” to abort kids and be promiscuous .	/r/MensRights	19/06/24 07:22 AM
1	Women claiming men should "hold other men accountable" just want to deny their own responsibily Do men listen to men who hold different moral and political views than theirs? Do you think a 'pro-choice' man would be willing to listen to a fellow man who believes that life should be respected from conception until natural death?	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 02:02 AM
–	What’s your gender, and what are the 3 most important qualities in your ideal partner? I was reading some answers from women, and I can't believe how shallow they are. Anyway, I'm a man, and when I think of the ideal woman, I don't consider her age, looks, height, race, or any of those things beyond a person's control. Instead, I focus on aspects that anyone can manage, such as morals, habits, and hygiene. To be more specific, my ideal woman is someone who: Has good morals—for instance, she doesn't judge people based on things they can't control. She's always ready to help those…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/10/23 01:54 AM
2	It’s women fault men are such trash So you seriously think that I'm mad because my FEMALE RELATIVES didn't pay attention to me? I mention my female relatives since some of them are single mothers. So I know what I'm talking about. Also, I'm not "bashing" anyone. It's disheartening that in this liberal society, you're often labeled a 'hater' if you advise people to avoid engaging in self-destructive behaviors such as drinking alcohol, overeating, leading a sedentary lifestyle, partaking in premarital sex, watching pornography, doin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 07:25 PM
2	It’s women fault men are such trash Well, I actually think that men should be virgins until marriage. Now, if my previous answer "offended" a lot of people, then I guess this answer will "offend" even more people. We live in a liberal society, so it's obvious that most people aren't going to do what I suggested, as a result, I'd expect women, and not men, to be more cautious when they engage in premarital sex.. Remember, our society defends abortion by saying "pregnancy is a woman's issue", therefore, men who impregnant women can …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 07:19 PM
2	It’s women fault men are such trash You make a lot of sense, Spyro7x3. I don't understand why some women always defend the mistakes made by someone simply because they happen to share the same gender. You're absolutely right when you say that what leftists and liberals celebrate (single motherhood) ended up being a disaster. This doesn't just affect boys or men, as some answers suggest by saying 'these men need to grow up.' Society also suffers as a result of this. Consider all the looting that many stores fall victim to. I'm will…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 04:35 AM
3	It’s women fault men are such trash You make a good point. I thought I was sharing statistics that everybody was aware of, but I guess I shouldn't have assumed such a thing. Here are some statistics from a secular website: 63% of youth suicides are from fatherless homes (US Dept. Of Health/Census) – 5 times the average. 90% of all homeless and runaway children are from fatherless homes – 32 times the average. 85% of all children who show behavior disorders come from fatherless homes – 20 times the average. (Center for Disease Cont…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 04:17 AM
3	It’s women fault men are such trash Can lesbians procreate a child? What "statistics" are you referring to? Don't statistics show that when considering all types of "romantic relationships", lesbians are number one when it comes to domestic violence?	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 02:59 AM
6	It’s women fault men are such trash "Women ultimately choose these men. " Those are crucial words. I don't understand why women in the comment section seem to overlook that aspect of the equation.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 02:54 AM
-1	It’s women fault men are such trash I don't believe that 'most men are doing fine.' I observe many men living on the streets, facing unemployment, incarceration, and grappling with addictions like alcohol, drugs, and pornography. Fathers play a crucial role in a child's life. I find it perplexing why some women feel compelled to defend women who willingly engage in consensual relationships with men clearly unfit to be good fathers. If a woman doesn't mind that he lacks the qualities of a good boyfriend (and rarely a 'husband'), th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 02:52 AM
-4	It’s women fault men are such trash And the father? Good question. Why did the mother choose to have sex with him? Let me share something with you: I am a man, and I don't believe in premarital sex. (I mention premarital sex since single motherhood and premarital sex often go hand in hand.) Now, if I were to ever engage in premarital sex, I would be disappointed in myself. Moreover, I would be even more disappointed if I chose to have premarital sex with a drug addict, an alcoholic, or a gambler—or someone addicted to video games.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 02:43 AM
-5	It’s women fault men are such trash Who chose those men to procreate kids with??? Now, maybe those women were raped; if that's the case, then I totally understand your logic, and I hope those guys are behind bars.. However, I think most single mothers were never raped; they engaged in consensual sex with a guy they chose to date.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 02:39 AM
0	It’s women fault men are such trash Unfortunately, the way we experience childhood often shapes the kind of adults we become. If a child raised by a single mother hasn't been taught to respect rules, there's a high likelihood that the child may grow up to be a person spending a significant portion of their life behind bars. Observing teenagers looting stores, my initial thought is often, 'They lacked a father figure.' Your response suggests to me that you might be underestimating the impact single motherhood can have on a child. M…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 02:37 AM
2	It’s women fault men are such trash You can argue whatever you wish, but at the end of the day, statistics show that most people behind bars were raised by single mothers. Interestingly, this applies to individuals of all races. I believe fathers play a crucial role in a child's life; they are the ones who, while being the 'bad guys,' teach children to obey the rules. To complicate matters further, these boys go to school only to encounter liberal and feminist teachers who teach them to harbor self-hatred for being born boys.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/10/23 02:32 AM
-1	Why men are able to sacrifice , give do more for love than women How is a body count related to love? Is there anything more romantic than wanting to be someone’s first and last love? Is there anything more romantic than saving your virginity for marriage ? By the way, statistics show that people who save their virginity for marriage have very low divorce rates, compared to people who had premarital sex. When liberals hear these statistics, they respond by saying “people who save their virginity for marriage are religious freaks who don’t believe in divorce”,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 08:12 PM
0	Why men are able to sacrifice , give do more for love than women Of course most men don’t care about it, since these men want premarital sex so they are not going to be interested in a woman who is saving her virginity for marriage .However, throughout history, men always looked for virgin wives, and back then the rates of single motherhood, abortion and STD were very low.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 08:06 PM
-1	Why men are able to sacrifice , give do more for love than women If what you were saying was accurate, then why is that throughout history men have looked for virgin wives ? If they are so “desperate” , wouldn’t they settle down with a non virgin woman?	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 07:55 PM
-4	Men, how much do you care about a woman’s personality? I care about her morals and habits (by habits, I mean she works out, eats healthy, doesn't drink alcohol, doesn't smoke, etc.) , however, I care little about her humor or social skills.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 04:16 AM
-5	CMV you don't need to be a whore to be good at sex I find it odd when women say they dislike virgin men because they prefer 'experienced' men who know how to please a woman. According to this 'logic,' they shouldn't get upset if their husbands cheat on them to learn 'new tricks' to please them in bed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 04:13 AM
2	When women complain about the "slut-stud double standard" are they actually complaining about women being called "sluts", not so much about men being called "studs"? Why would a man care about another man's sex life? Most men don't concern themselves with whether other men are virgins or promiscuous, as they don't plan to marry another man. However, some men (myself included) believe that men should save their virginity for marriage. Men aren't the ones who label promiscuous men as "studs"; it's often women who hold such views. Many times, I've heard men express a desire for a virgin wife. However, as our society becomes more liberal, men may feel apprehensi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/10/23 12:27 AM
2	Older women flirt with much younger men all the time Indeed, it's "interesting" reading these replies from women justifying older women complimenting younger men, yet if an older man compliments a younger woman, they cry a river; they make it sound as if he committed a crime that deserves prison time. My advice for these women is to mind their own business.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 07:42 PM
1	Women get a lot of credit for being “good” people for no valid reason Sounds like you're justifying it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 07:37 PM
3	Women get a lot of credit for being “good” people for no valid reason Thank you for the correction. I should have said that "the man most prone to abusing a child is the mother's new boyfriend".	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 07:36 PM
2	Why are people okay with the government being involved when child support is an issue, but want the government to stay out of it when it comes to the issue of mandatory paternity tests? But don't some women get mad if a man asks for a paternity test, even if he is willing to pay for it? I fail to understand why a woman would want a man who is not the father to raise her child.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 06:32 AM
3	CMV: if you feel it’s fine to ask your wife for a paternity test without cause, you should also be fine with a wife choosing to live outside the home for fear you might kill her. There's nothing wrong with your proposal. I always laugh whenever I hear a woman say that she "needs" a tall man because she wants a protector. This is ironic considering that the person most likely to abuse a woman is her husband, not some random guy. Now, if a woman thinks that her life is in danger, she could easily separate from her husband. Having said all this, how is a husband supposed to know whether the child his wife conceived is actually his? I wouldn't be asking this question if we l…	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/10/23 04:59 AM
0	Do Red Pill men try to eat their cake and keep it too with the: "Modern women are sluts... Women today have so high standers."? I don't even know what a "red pill" man is, but I'd like to answer: Our society's moral standards are extremely low. Many people believe they're 'good guys' simply because they compare themselves to serial killers, without considering for a second that actions such as gluttony, alcoholism, and watching pornography are also immoral. Why am I pointing this out? Well, in today's society, a woman is often labeled a 'slut' (I don't really like calling people names) if she has slept with over 100 men.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 11:32 PM
2	Are men with Christian personality traits repulsive: the biblical priority on grace, humility, servant leadership, kindness, gentleness, and many other qualities And who cares if others find his personality 'repulsive'? Would you rather be 'cool' and engage in questionable behaviors such as drinking, doing drugs, having premarital sex, watching pornography, being a glutton, etc.? It's worth noting that all these actions harm individuals' physical and emotional health, and they also have negative effects on society, being associated with car accidents, single motherhood, abortion, divorces, human trafficking, etc. Imagine how much families and society wou…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 11:24 PM
1	Women get a lot of credit for being “good” people for no valid reason So, you accuse those you don't agree with of being 'haters'? Let me ask you something: which political party embraces transgenderism? And which gender is significantly more likely to support this political party? Since you enjoy accusing people of being 'haters,' let me pose another question: which gender is more likely to label those who don't agree with 'transwomen' competing in women's sports or in Miss Universe as 'haters'? Ironically, it's not the gender that you seem to dislike so much.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 11:15 PM
1	Why are people okay with the government being involved when child support is an issue, but want the government to stay out of it when it comes to the issue of mandatory paternity tests? How would you propose protecting men? As long as premarital or extramarital sex is prevalent, paternity tests may be deemed necessary .	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 11:09 PM
0	CMV: Asking for a paternity test is not an accusation of cheating, and women who think like that are red flags You make complete sense. As long as sexual activity outside of the marital bed continues (whether it's premarital or extramarital), paternity tests will remain a crucial tool for men to use. I wish extramarital sexual activity wasn't a thing.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 08:02 PM
5	Women get a lot of credit for being “good” people for no valid reason I've always found it incredibly strange that men who are in jail for having committed horrible crimes often receive love letters from women	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 07:43 PM
1	Women get a lot of credit for being “good” people for no valid reason If men's crimes were "legalized" the same way abortion is "protected" by the law, then you wouldn't be able to make such a statement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 07:40 PM
-4	Women get a lot of credit for being “good” people for no valid reason If we were a rational society and perceived abortion as what it is, MURDER, then you wouldn't have dared to say " I'd speculate that men are often labeled the bad guy more because the damage they do is usually obvious and visible", However, since our liberal society perceives abortion as a 'choice", then you get away with making such absurd statements. I find it amusing when people discuss a 'patriarchal' society. Interestingly, these same individuals often applaud the selection of 'transwomen' …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 07:35 PM
-3	Women get a lot of credit for being “good” people for no valid reason Very interesting points you brought up, such as: If I had to choose between living with a random woman or a man, I'd opt for a woman." Are you, by chance, a woman yourself? It is a fact that women are less likely to face attacks from random men. However, statistics suggest that the individual most likely to cause physical harm to a woman is her husband. Similarly, the person most prone to abusing a child is often the mother's new boyfriend, and mothers themselves tend to be the primary perpetrat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/10/23 07:28 PM
1	Most men cause their dating issues Since getting rich is 'relatively easy,' I'd like to offer you two pieces of advice: Please share your secret with all the women who aspire to find a wealthy man. Please share your secret with the underprivileged people around the world, particularly those in third-world countries who have earned a college degree but are unemployed or working in jobs that don't require any education. This is often the only employment they can secure. Thank you	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 07:59 PM
1	Most men cause their dating issues Leeola: Allow me to ask you something: In your opinion, what percentage of people who prioritize healthy eating, do cardio, lift weights, abstain from alcohol, etc., are not fit? My assumption is that it's almost impossible for an individual who follows such practices to not be fit. Now, what percentage of disciplined and hardworking individuals are wealthy? I would say that a very small percentage of people with these traits achieve wealth.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 06:40 AM
1	Women cannot love men like men love women I guess you're probably correct, though men also love their kids and pets.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 06:02 AM
3	Single mothers lie about having raised their standards after having a baby? Having 'standards' shouldn't involve judging a person based on superficial traits such as social status, social skills, humor, height, etc. Instead, it should be about assessing individuals on more meaningful aspects such as personality, habits, values, ideologies, etc. If people adopted this approach, the rates of single motherhood, abortion, divorce, and STDs could potentially be significantly lower. Ideally, single mothers have learned from their past mistakes and are now capable of evaluatin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 05:53 AM
1	Most men cause their dating issues Thank you for sharing your thoughts. I believe there are many people who are 'skinny fat.' They may appear 'skinny,' but when they remove their shirt, you can see fat in their stomach area. While these individuals might seem 'skinny' when they're younger with a fast metabolism, as they age and metabolism slows down, they may not enjoy such an 'advantage.' Now, what percentage of people can indulge in unhealthy food and still maintain a low body fat percentage to the extent that their abs are vis…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 05:40 AM
1	Most men cause their dating issues Well, if getting rich were so easy, perhaps you could share your 'secrets' with your fellow women who aspire to find a wealthy man. In some countries, there are individuals who have worked diligently to earn their college degrees, only to end up working as cab drivers because that's the only job available to them. It's disheartening if you're suggesting that most people in Africa or Latin America lack what it takes to 'get rich,' when, in reality, they are victims of the challenging circumstance…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/10/23 05:32 AM
0	Most men cause their dating issues Hi. My guess is that men neglect their body weight because they have never heard a woman say, 'I want a fit man,' yet women sure say, 'I want a tall man.' My prediction is that, in the upcoming future, a large percentage of short men will undergo leg-lengthening surgeries. Currently, this procedure is very expensive, costing around $100,000, so few men can afford it. I also believe that men who are out of shape and love unhealthy foods are not interested in women who exercise or eat healthily. I…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 09:18 PM
-1	Most men cause their dating issues Do you really think that in order to get rich (what a superficial goal), all you need is sacrifice and discipline? Really, Leeola? I guess you aren't aware that in some poor nations, you can find people with college degrees driving taxi cabs because that's the only job they could find. If getting rich was so easy, then you could apply your same principles everywhere and get the same results, just like you can get fit by eating healthy and exercising, regardless of where in the world you live.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 09:11 PM
1	CMV : why can’t it be true that far less men are objectively attractive than women? I think they're referring to a scenario where all women exercise, eat healthy, avoid alcohol, drugs, etc. In such a world, I believe that we would find most women attractive. Now, obviously, most women in the U.S. don't do those things, so as a result, we are unlikely to find 100% of women attractive. However, if you visited countries such as Russia or Finland, chances are that you'd find a large percentage of the female population attractive, since in those countries, people tend to live a heal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 07:21 PM
2	CMV : why can’t it be true that far less men are objectively attractive than women? Your conclusion doesn't surprise me at all. In order for a woman to be considered 'attractive,' all she needs to do is engage in activities that benefit her physical and emotional health, such as fasting, eating healthily, exercising, abstaining from drinking, and avoiding drugs. If a woman leads a healthy lifestyle, she will be considered 'attractive' by most people, regardless of her race, height, eye color, hair color, etc. Men don't enjoy the same luxury. Women aren't going to consider a man…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 07:13 PM
9	Most men cause their dating issues Really? Do you think becoming rich is something we can control? If so, please share your secret with all the homeless people in the world! As for my "secret" to avoiding being overweight, it's simple: "eat fewer calories than you burn." You can achieve this goal through fasting, maintaining a healthy diet, and regular exercise	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 01:22 AM
12	Most men cause their dating issues I have heard people say that men have very low standards when it comes to women, yet others say that men have high standards. So which one is it? You mentioned three kinds of women that some men reject: Fat women Women with a high partner count Women over 30 Out of these three criteria, the only one that is truly superficial is the last one, since age is something that we can't control (similar to height, which women judge men on, is a trait that we can't control either). Regardless, any person …	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/10/23 12:50 AM
0	Contrary to what has been posted here lately, STD rates among pregnant women are exploding and have been increasing every year since 2012. I think it's a well-known fact that heterosexual women and gay men have the highest rates of STD.. Heterosexual men are lucky (because of anatomy) and don't have to deal with high rates of STD.. Either way, sex belongs in the marital bed between one man and one woman... It doesn't belong anywhere else.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 11:47 PM
-1	Contrary to what has been posted here lately, STD rates among pregnant women are exploding and have been increasing every year since 2012. Those "wonderful" contraceptives aren't 100% effective at preventing STDs or "unwanted pregnancies". So, "contraceptives" aren't the solution. The real solution would be 100% effective, but liberals/feminists might oppose such a solution. In the meantime, as a society, we will have to deal with high rates of abortions, single motherhood, STDs, divorces, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/10/23 11:44 PM
–	Society's push to create more FUTURE SINGLE MOTHERS I genuinely have no idea what you're talking about. May I ask where you live? I reside in the United States. In this country, we experience extremely low birth rates, and as a result, there's an influx of illegal immigrants, especially supported by Democrats. Furthermore, this is a society where morals hold little importance, with a large percentage of the population seeing nothing wrong with abortion (over 60 million kids have been aborted in the U.S. in the last five decades). Having said this…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 05:31 AM
6	Thoughts on the idea that for women attracting men is less about what you are but what do you ? I'm pondering something. Statistics indicate that a significant percentage of the female population identifies as liberal. Would these women respect (respect without agreeing with) the political views of a man who is pro-life, anti-gay marriage, pro freedom of speech, pro guns, etc.? Furthermore, isn't it disheartening that you're suggesting that a man needs money or status for a woman to find him 'attractive'? By the way, you forgot to mention that he also needs to be tall. Lastly, I don't beli…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 04:56 AM
1	What portion of men are actually loathsome slimy creepy scumbags in your experience? In nations such as the U.S., I would say that a significant percentage of the population exhibits the traits you described. This is a society where it is considered 'cool' to reject values, morals, religion, etc. and 'uncool' to behave in a moral way. Now, some liberals want to create their own 'set of morals.' For instance, they may say that having sex with someone who isn't your spouse is wrong 'unless' they have 'authorization' from their partner to engage in such activities. They might also …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 04:44 AM
3	Non virgin men shouldn't ask for virgin women Firstly, do you truly believe that a man who engages in premarital sex is interested in marrying a woman who won't engage in premarital sex with him? Secondly, even if there were a non-virgin man seeking a virgin wife, I wouldn't find this hypocritical at all. This is because women generally don't express a desire for virgin men. I've never heard a woman say, 'I want a virgin man,' but I have certainly heard some women say, 'I want an experienced man.' While I find this preference peculiar, that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/10/23 04:34 AM
2	Young women have even more traditional standards than their mothers generation I think it's great if women are looking for traditional men; this benefits children (they are less likely to be aborted or end up being raised by single mothers). It also benefits society; a decrease in the single motherhood rate means that delinquency rates also drop. As you might know, most people in jail were raised by single mothers. What I find odd is when a woman who is 'pro-choice,' wears revealing clothes, sees nothing wrong with premarital sex, etc., demands a traditional man. Why would…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/10/23 02:32 AM
–	What do women think they accomplish when they say how offended they are when someone calls them slut despite doing slutty acts and/or think that someone is obligated to care what they think? Well, even though many women like "experienced" men in bed, I also think it's wrong when men do slutty acts; their acts are not only slutty but also humiliate another person. I don't know much about MGTOW, I thought this was mostly a misogynist group, since that's how many people describe it, however, if you guys would rather be single than with a woman who allows men to humiliate her, then I respect your group. It always surprises me when women think that a woman having sex with a man who isn't…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 04:38 PM
-1	sex toys How is male sexuality shamed? Aren't many women vocal about how they want an 'experienced' man? Or are you referring to people "shaming" virgin men? To "shame" a virgin man is as illogical as "shaming" someone for not doing drugs.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/23 01:47 AM
6	CMV : Older women (30+ so called cougars) chase young college aged boys more than 30+ men chasing college aged girls I find it strange how some people on Reddit suggest that individuals who have the right to vote, consume alcohol, buy cigarettes, etc., are not mature enough to choose their dating partners. If they are considered too immature to date whomever they wish, even if the age difference is significant, then perhaps these rights should be revoked. Only individuals with fully developed brains and minds should be granted the right to vote, drive, drink alcohol, etc. Allowing those whose brains are still …	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 09:55 PM
9	CMV : Older women (30+ so called cougars) chase young college aged boys more than 30+ men chasing college aged girls You find that odd? Why? If he is a "creep" for dating a 20-year-old woman, then, according to that "logic", he has every right to call 30-year-old women "cougars." Actually, he should call them "grandmas".	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 09:49 PM
2	Why do people choose their spouses based on physical attraction rather than love? I'm not sure if I'm mistaken, but it seems that those who engage in this behavior are typically women. If you were to ask a woman to describe the man of her dreams, I can guarantee that one of the first few things she would mention is something about his height and skin color. Now, pose the same question to a man, and I assure you that you won't receive such superficial answers. However, a man is unlikely to say that the woman of his dreams is a drug addict or a food addict. There's nothing inhe…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 07:34 PM
1	Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage? So are women being illogical when they claim that tall men are good protectors?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 07:29 PM
1	Being short it s a huge problem in males Thank you very much for your reply. I really appreciate it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 01:03 AM
0	Q4W: If women are afraid of getting attacked on dates, why not go for smaller guys so you have the physical advantage? I don't get it. Don't women say that they are crazy about tall men because those men are "good protectors"? Therefore, aren't they implying that height and strength are correlated? Now, this is something I have always found ironic, because the person most likely to physically abuse a woman is her boyfriend or husband..	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 11:28 PM
1	Being short it s a huge problem in males Are you a man? or do you have brothers? if so, what's your/their height? I often hear women say that one of the many reasons they want a tall husband is because they desire tall children. However, many times I have seen couples with tall men and short women producing shorter children. My theory is that the mother's height plays a major role in the height of her sons. So, if a woman is above average height for her gender, there's a high likelihood that her children will be tall or at least abov…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 11:22 PM
1	I think men's compliments are fake Haha, You're really funny, Uterine. Do you think the "strategy" of calling yourself "ugly" to receive pity compliments works for men? I guarantee you that such a "strategy" only works for women. Let me get this straight, you think a man who calls himself "ugly" is going to get a woman to say something like" what are you saying?? you're so handsome.." If that's what you think, you don't know what you're saying. Now, if a man has money, he is certainly going to think that many women will be intere…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 11:12 PM
2	I think men's compliments are fake " My unpopular opinion is that humans, MEN and women, vastly overestimate their attractiveness. " I'm sorry, but did you seriously say that we MEN overestimate our looks? I sincerely have no idea how you reached such a conclusion. Many, many times I have heard men calling themselves "ugly". How on earth is a man going to "overestimate" his looks when he has never ever heard anyone call him "handsome," "cute," etc.? Most men aren't 6 ft tall.. and at an early age, we learn from our female relativ…	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 05:12 AM
4	How important is “virginity” to men? Throughout history, men have always desired virgin wives. It wasn't until recently that western countries started encouraging women to have sex outside of the marital bed, and now we have high rates of single motherhood, abortion, STDs, divorce, etc. Society benefits when sex is kept in the marital bed. Now, it is not men's fault if women think highly of non-virgin men. Men couldn't care less about the sex lives of other men. The ones who celebrate male promiscuity are women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/10/23 12:05 AM
0	Quick thought, men don't have instant beauty tricks and it makes it harder for them! I partially agree with you, I think you're right about how a man's appearance isn't going to improve much (from a woman's perspective) just because he is a fit guy... I mean, I have never heard a woman say "I want a fit man", but they sure say "I want a tall man". Now, it could be possible that a man finds his own body attractive when he has muscles, six pack, etc. Now, I disagree with you when you imply that women have an advantage because they wear makeup... I mean, at the end of the day she h…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 08:05 PM
0	Quick thought, men don't have instant beauty tricks and it makes it harder for them! Losing weight or gaining muscles are things that we can control.. but have you ever heard a woman say "I want a fit man"????// Because I haven't.. They're more concerned with his genetic traits, such as height, skin color, amount of hair on head, etc.. Having said this, I still think that we should eat healthy and exercise because it benefits our health. Now, "cosmetic surgery" can certainly help a man improve his looks. for instance a man could get a leg lengthening surgery to increase his heig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 08:00 PM
3	How come there aren’t as many women into fat guys as there are men into fat women? Because society doesn't tolerate or celebrate male obesity... Yet, society and women strongly defend female obesity. Now, I understand if a fellow man believes that it's unfair that society loves fat women and hates men, but, as a man, I don't think this is such a bad thing (I think it's way worse how society loves women of all heights and hates short men since height is a genetic trait). The reason I don't care that society condemns male obesity is because I think it's a good thing!! Being an o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 07:40 PM
2	No one is telling women to have sex with anyone they don't want to have sex with. Thank you for sharing that statistic! It's astonishing (and disheartening) how women's bodies have become so big in just a few decades. It surprises me that some women not recognize the potential health risks associated with being overweight. Additionally, it disappoints me that awareness about the negative example it sets for their kids might be lacking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 12:45 AM
1	No one is telling women to have sex with anyone they don't want to have sex with. You're funny. Men and women are different! Women don't "use" men for sex; it doesn't matter if liberalism or feminism says otherwise. For starters, in order for a woman to experience an orgasm, she needs to be with a man who is "skilled" , "caring," "experienced," etc. Now, how do you know if the "hot guy" she is about to "use" for sex has any of those qualities? Furthermore, women (as a result of their anatomy) are a lot more likely than men to contract STDs, not to mention that they also have …	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 12:32 AM
6	No one is telling women to have sex with anyone they don't want to have sex with. I think people use "high standards" as synonymous with "superficial standards." If women had "high standards" then they wouldn't deal with such high rates of abortion, single motherhood, STDs, divorce etc. If they had 'high standards" then you would hear women say "I want a man with good morals, ethics, integrity, compassion, and sincerity—a person whose character shines with authenticity and kindness" but instead what you hear is "I want a tall guy, of x race, who is funny, outgoing, popular et…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 12:26 AM
8	No one is telling women to have sex with anyone they don't want to have sex with. Fat people? Seriously? The body positivity movement couldn't care less about men.. And as a man , I'm very happy that this movement doesn't encourage my gender to be gluttons. couch potatoes. I wouldn't be happy if the "body positivity" movement ever included men! Being overweight is not a good thing! I want my fellow men to be healthy, I don't want them to deal with any of the many health issues associated with obesity! Furthermore, I don't want men to set a bad example for their kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/10/23 12:18 AM
–	Happily partnered folks, does your (heterosexual) relationship seem at all similar to RP beliefs or is very different? I could have provided this answer to any of the women who have answered since pretty much all of them have a boyfriend/husband who is significantly taller than average. Why is a man's height so important to women? What is strange is that many of these women claim that they don't judge on height, yet, "somehow" their boyfriends/husbands are significantly taller than average height.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 07:01 PM
–	Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him? Thank you for your reply. I think some guys on this forum have talked in the past about how men with mental problems such as autism or social anxiety suffer a ton of discrimination from women. I'm glad that women with those problems aren't disliked by men. Also, If short men face discrimination in the dating world, I can't even begin to imagine the level of discrimination that men in wheelchairs experience.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 06:31 PM
–	Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at all Why would a man want to date another man? Now, I don't see anything wrong with a man dating/marrying an "unattractive" woman, provided she isn't "unattractive" because of unhealthy habits such as gluttony, a sedentary lifestyle or alcoholism. Not only are those habits a big turnoff, but additionally, kids don't benefit when their parents engage in those habits. I also assume that a woman who engages in those habits wouldn't want to marry a man who doesn't enjoy doing those things.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 07:52 AM
3	Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him? I wish you and your husband the best. May you continue to live many more happy years. I just wanted to say that less than 15% of men in the U.S. are 6 feet or taller.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 07:41 AM
1	Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him? What's the point of hypergamy in a society where the rates of single motherhood and abortion are so high? I thought hypergamy was mainly for the benefit of the kids.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 07:35 AM
2	Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him? Better looking? I had never heard a man say that he wants a woman who is "better" (or equal or worse) looking than him. The thing is that women are very vocal about how they want a guy who is tall, strong, extroverted, brave, has good social skills, makes money, etc. Men, on the other hand, aren't vocal about what superficial things they want from a woman. My guess is that most men just want to marry a woman who is polite, loyal, respectful etc...	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 07:33 AM
3	Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him? But there are lots of men who are shorter and weaker than women. Why do so many women refuse to acknowledge the existence of these men?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 07:27 AM
3	Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him? I don't think the OP said that men are "better" than women. However, it could be argued that women think that they are "better" than men who are shorter than them, men who make less money than them, or men who are more vulnerable than them.. This could explain why they don't want to date/marry those men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 07:24 AM
2	Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him? And do men ever express that they want such a thing? I have never heard a man say something like that. Now, women sure are very vocal about how they want a man taller than them, and "not only" does he need to be taller than them, but usually they want a guy who is like at least 6 inches taller than them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 07:18 AM
1	Does a man have to be better in some aspects than a woman in order for her to be attracted to him? Have you never encountered a guy who is shorter than you? I apologize for asking this, but is it possible that your subconscious doesn't recognize the existence of men shorter than you?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 07:13 AM
3	Can we finally admit that men who find women unattractive, that they are openly mean to them, or simply don't think they exist? How can you say that women are "far less shallow" than men when it comes to looks? Women judge men on genetic traits. Now, men "judge" women on things that any person should be concerned about such as our weight, hygiene, attitude, etc. I fail to understand why would a man waste time and energy insulting a woman that he supposedly finds "ugly", it makes no sense! Only women waste their time and energy calling names men they find ugly. Furthermore, men don't judge women on their race. We can find…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 02:49 AM
7	Can we finally admit that men who find women unattractive, that they are openly mean to them, or simply don't think they exist? It seems that you think that men act just like women do. After all, lots of liberals/women think that "men and women are identical." Many times I have seen/heard women refer to unattractive men as "Creepy" "weirdos" "losers". Now, tell me, according to you, what adjectives do men use to describe "ugly" women? Do you think a man is going to call names an older woman who asks him out? really? Also, men have no problem finding beauty in women of all races, again, we aren't like women who are known …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 02:15 AM
7	Can we finally admit that men who find women unattractive, that they are openly mean to them, or simply don't think they exist? Do you think men think highly of fellow men who are addicted to food and a sedentary lifestyle? Now, I guarantee you that most men would rather be "judged" on something that we can control and that says a ton about our health and habits, such as our weight, than judged on a genetic trait that we can't control, such as our height.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/23 01:57 AM
1	Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at all What on earth are you saying? You sure have very high self esteem! You remind me of the woman who accused a BLIND man of "staring" at her at the gym. Please watch the YouTube video titled "Girl Accuses Blind Man of Staring at Her at the Gym". There's also another video where an adult woman accuses a CHILD of touching her.. Please watch the YouTube video titled "Mom, son accused of groping woman speak out". Let me tell you something, men, unlike women, when visit a store (regardless if it's Walma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 07:44 PM
-1	Women are happier "single" because they're aren't really single at all It's very, very easy for a woman to be considered attractive" by the opposite gender, all she needs to do is not be addicted to food, alcohol, sedentary lifestyle etc.. You know, things that HURT your physical and emotional health... I sometimes see women in their 50s or 60s who live a healthy lifestyle and I can't help but think that they're beautiful.. This is also another thing you have to keep in mind, men are extremely unlikely to refer to an older women as "creepy" or 'weirdo", whereas wom…	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 07:32 PM
1	If you're struggling in dating you only have yourself to blame This is a good thread. I agree with MOST of the things you said. For instance: sleeping around or having an addiction to food are choices that we make, so yes, we only have ourselves to blame for those things that not only turn off some people but also harm our health. Now, how is someone to blame for their short height or for their hair loss? Those things are genetic traits. Are you suggesting that a 6'3" man did something to earn that height ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 12:15 AM
3	Q4All: Words like 'virgin' and 'slut' carry negative connotations. What other words would be more positive or at least neutral to help people who carry such monikers be accepted? I don't understand why our "modern society" makes fun of virgin men. Can't people really not see how society would benefit if men saved their virginity for marriage? if a virgin man was so concerned about losing his virginity, couldn't he visit a prostitute? but maybe he is a virgin because he doesn't see the point of engaging in meaningless, premarital sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 12:07 AM
1	Women and Men screwed up dating... u/lovestocomment you made very good points. Now, if a woman doesn't care about being abused and used, that's sad, but that's her choice. The problem is that she isn't the only one suffering as a result of her choices! We can't forget the high rates of single motherhood and abortion, which are consequences of the hook up culture. Also, let's not forget that most people in prison were raised by single mothers. So, in conclusion, children and society suffer as a result of all this. Very unfair.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/23 12:03 AM
–	Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble? You asked, " What do you expect black women to do in this situation? " Well, based on the statistics that you shared, I'd expect these women to NOT support the political party that defends criminals.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 11:47 PM
–	Should men be expected to intervene when random women are in trouble? I'm neither black nor a woman, however, in the past I visited a subreddit called "black ladies," and I couldn't believe how much hatred these women had in their hearts! Then again, the xx subreddit isn't that different. The OP rightly mentioned that women as a whole tend to support the party that is known for protecting criminals, however, black women are even more likely than women of other races/ethnicities to support leftist parties.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/23 11:44 PM