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start calling your bro and joking and smiling and forgetting they are there. be a ball of joy and fun. ur probably quiet and awkward instead of focused on yourself friendly free
/r/seduction29/07/26 05:01 PM
2

this isn't everyones strategy but im straightforward honest (but not fully transparent) in the beginning. imagine sleeping with multiple the same day. record was 3 in 24 hours completely unintentional.
/r/seduction23/07/26 08:22 PM
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it gets exhausting at times, but theres no better experience. Im becoming very good at managing my emotions and understanding how to approach women and help them to feel safe. being consistent with them and allowing them to be which in turn helps our relationship thrive some are going on 2+ years.
/r/seduction23/07/26 03:37 PM
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i have 5 good for u
/r/seduction23/07/26 03:31 PM
2

thats still a lazy way to look at life, and a lazy response. you asked the question and got a real answer. Go do the scary thing and touch some grass.
/r/seduction22/07/26 04:07 PM
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answered below
/r/seduction20/07/26 12:37 PM
4

add variation. lift heavier or play a gym sport, try mediterranean, read something new. infinite possibilities infinite growth
/r/seduction20/07/26 12:04 PM
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reading long form content. Anything that takes more than an hour to get through. It helps with comprehension, mindfulness, your vocabulary, expands your mind best form of media.
/r/seduction20/07/26 07:45 AM
6

oh yes therapy! great add. I like trauma informed (emdr) and somatic therapy specifically
/r/seduction20/07/26 07:43 AM
139

gym. diet. read.
/r/seduction20/07/26 06:30 AM
4

they dont even know what they want, and if they did they certainly will do their best to confuse you so they can remain in control of their situation. Women are such a foreign creature and I have so much experience with them.
/r/seduction18/07/26 03:54 PM
2

it doesn't work on me lol, my balls create an endless supply 😭. The only security I can get/give is time.
/r/seduction18/07/26 03:52 PM
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youre right nothing is permanent. all I can do is keep improving as a man, and learning and being better. The women will come (some will stay) and go
/r/seduction18/07/26 03:51 PM
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Not from my experience. Ive been going on two years with some women, but maybe its less casual and more non-committal. So I agree if you're treating a woman like an object primarily for sexual gratification and arent even being their boyfriend your time is limited.
/r/seduction17/07/26 04:28 PM
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the number of women who want casual relationships is low. the number of women who will "break the rules" and accept a casual relationship with a guy out of their league or a great guy is high.
/r/seduction17/07/26 02:47 PM
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real
/r/seduction05/07/26 05:14 AM
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body language
/r/seduction30/06/26 07:20 AM
1

god forbid, you never interact with a woman in natural everyday settings. seems impossible
/r/seduction24/06/26 03:55 AM
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I would be exhausted if people kept bothering me just because I was a girl and they saw me.
/r/seduction23/06/26 02:51 PM
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20 sets of harassing women
/r/seduction23/06/26 02:50 PM
6

Here's where you need help. Learning to accept rejection, learning that any other approaches are considered harassment. Learn some empathy and respect women. Put yourself in her shoes if someone you weren't interested in didn't respect you after you were polite how would you feel? good job at asking her out, not good job at moving on when its time too.
/r/seduction19/06/26 06:41 PM
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im neurodivergent af. you'll figure it out. probably at an advantage if you put yourself in the right environment
/r/seduction27/04/26 02:40 PM
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I really do not engage with negativity, at all. I will make space for it to try to hear valid concerns, but if it drags. I immediately exit and she has to deal with herself by herself (like an adult)
/r/seduction07/04/26 03:00 AM
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There's a level where you get to a point, where you don't care what she does, as long as she does what she wants you to do, when you want it. Typically women get much more from you, than you get from them (or it should be) So when she argues with you, or does something you dont want you leave until you want something again. I frame it like my feelings are hurt, but I really dont care all that much. (its just a language she understands and can focus on)
/r/seduction07/04/26 02:59 AM
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do you gals like black men? If so where can we find you? and whats a good way to approach?
/r/seduction12/03/26 04:31 AM
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no fr
/r/seduction08/03/26 03:46 PM
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tell her ur single and u dont plan on doing anything serious for the time being and that and let her choose what she wants
/r/seduction08/03/26 06:37 AM
4

it works on some men. But honestly if you understand that she's treating you like she thinks, then you just realize that shes trying to get your attention. So yes it is performative. Women are performative. You being shy, insecure and judgmental is ultimately your choice, when you can just ask her out, and ask her if shes been with/seeing anyone lately (at the appropriate time).
/r/seduction28/02/26 05:25 AM
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they try.
/r/seduction28/02/26 04:38 AM
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as i get older the age of the women I date tends to stay the same its actually getting younger. (34) avg girl age is 23
/r/seduction26/02/26 10:36 PM
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Naw, I get it. I just have my own pathway that works for me. Was just sharing my ideals I appreciate you sharing tho and ill add the "right to my place" to my repertoire. Women in my area are very cautious tho. So building saftey through a public meet is ideal. Usually Ill meet somewhere close enough and we head to on or the others place after so its just an extra step for a multitude of reasons. and im a very loving and affectionate person. despite that I communicate that im not tryna wife them…
/r/seduction08/02/26 09:05 PM
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I agree. She should definitely take that out the equation because when she considers it shes making space for lower value men, and men who she doesn't want for long term.
/r/seduction08/02/26 08:53 PM
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honestly I love the girls that are easy. I understand shes not easy for every guy she was easy for me. but that also requires discernment so I can be sure thats actually true lol. I do hate a male-centered women tho lol
/r/seduction08/02/26 08:51 PM
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kind of fwb/dating cause we're actually friends. I just call it relationship and let then define whatever works best for them. But im also probably "solo poly" so i value my autonomy but the closer ones we do exchange I love youd genuinely commitment for me aligns with compatibility. I imagine the women that stick with me and we have a great relationship. My commitment to them grows.
/r/seduction08/02/26 08:50 PM
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he really does. real recognizes real
/r/seduction08/02/26 05:09 PM
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im not bringing a girl to my place until I vetted her for quality before hand. id rather be with a few girls multiple times that im super compatible with than many girls just once. and yes thats what prevarication means deception, I value the truth morethan to joke with a girl that I'm going to wife her when I have full intentions of hitting and quitting. It's just not for me.
/r/seduction08/02/26 09:43 AM
3

this is a sex-work ad.
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:32 AM
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real, id do this too. Just not interested. Quality over quantity for me. Would rather get a few good girls I can be with whenever and have a genuine connection than just a bunch of randoms but i have my own thing I just say hello. Hello wife is a little too preveracative for someone who values honesty...
/r/seduction08/02/26 06:28 AM
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no such thing as the friendzone, shes not interested and you are, you leave... this doesnt need a post/
/r/seduction05/02/26 05:50 AM
1

start offering free services - as apart of your "new business" to attractive girls but be flirty when u do it. Hey i thought you were cute, im trying to work on my business doing xyz what do u think?
/r/seduction03/02/26 08:27 AM
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Hi -> what are you looking for? -> lets meet (then meet somewhere casual af - the more affordable the better) The fact they swiped is your go. in bars just be goofy and friendly, go after what you draws you.
/r/seduction03/02/26 08:25 AM
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wrong lol if you gotta pay thats prostitution. time is just scheduling
/r/seduction26/01/26 06:30 AM
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bro listened to nothing you said lol
/r/seduction26/01/26 06:14 AM
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u reach out dummy, and if she says shes busy next time keep it a light conversation and say youd like to meet up later then exchange numbers just text her youve been thinking about her and youd like to see her again, whens a good time for her? then depending on the date/time given ask her does she want to do something appropriate for that time (not expensive)
/r/seduction05/01/26 07:47 PM
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I just tell them im single and dont plan on changing that any time soon, I also let them know that I will always be honest (never lie when they ask me anything, but I wont be forthcoming so they have to ask me what they want to know) and That I prioritize my saftey and self-respect and the same goes for them if they stick around for a long time then thats good.
/r/seduction21/12/25 07:29 PM
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gemeni told me that men had three strategies rn ENM Serial Monagomy (Leaving when u want) Long term (finding a mother u want to raise kids with) the reat was moot.
/r/seduction13/12/25 10:53 PM
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i'vr had a 19 year old get mad I came to see her and we slept together (multiple times for months), because her friends told her it was weird. She was def attracted, but idk she let people get into her head.
/r/seduction11/12/25 06:49 AM
1

You let them go, I will set up a date when they are happy. See them for a night and then go about my day till they think about me again.
/r/seduction05/11/25 07:45 PM
1

Idc if shes talking to other guys. I care if shes sleeping unprotected with randoms (but for my own safety). I don't feel ditched so that isn't a problem. Or I don't put myself in the position to be "ditched". I'm the best man in their life (not read the most compatible) I'm not worried about anyone else. Im the one thats leaving not them. And it is acceptable lol. When you have a bunch of girls you're not thinking this way. And they know that and can sense that so they respond differently . Now…
/r/seduction24/10/25 04:49 PM
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Let them? That's good. I love when girls give me space (to talk to other girls). Be someone they want to be around, someone they will wait by themselves for. And don't get stuck on any1 chick thats not giving you that attention.
/r/seduction23/10/25 09:34 PM
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dont take it personal. thats the goal. if she comes back be gently surprised and open.
/r/seduction21/10/25 10:51 PM
1

this is why i dont text unless im trying to maintain a relationship. Build the bond in person. Dont even match her energy. its been so long imy. when are u free? if she doesn't respond delete her number until you remember her again and do the same thing.
/r/seduction21/10/25 10:50 PM
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Second question, where are you from? But usually from the first question you can gauge the level of interest. Club isnt a great place to talk to girls, your goal is to get their attention. So maybe ask them to dance right after. whats your name? nice, my names ___. Where you from? > Say something quirky. Oh you definetly give this state vibes. Or I wouldnt take you to be from here. > whatever her response is > ignore > tell her shes hot af > response > ask if she wants to dance > dance for a bit…
/r/seduction18/10/25 03:27 PM
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it's a non-issue. i actually ask this question because im looking for women who arent looking for courtship off jump. Its so easy to say something general and make it cute and joking. Im looking to find my person or people but these dating apps are a mess. Then you arrange to meet. I dont build desire or attraction through text. at most I give one compliment so she doesn't doubt i find her attractive and thats it. Disclaimer: Probably attractive.
/r/seduction27/09/25 05:45 AM
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idk I use clue and make a login for each of them.
/r/seduction12/09/25 02:51 AM
5

someone like this so i can come back
/r/seduction11/09/25 05:31 AM
1

lol same thing if you can do 1. idk why you are hanging out and not finishing waste of time.
/r/seduction08/09/25 08:28 PM
5

as a handsome man, the girls be so nervous around me so they might not smile. if youre handsome just approach.
/r/seduction07/09/25 03:46 PM
55

love you dude, thanks for sharing this important story. best to you in finding yourself again. Enjoy THAT moment, now be excited to create a better one that aligns more with you. thanks again for sharing
/r/seduction05/09/25 08:34 AM
5

i had one of these . just saw her pulled her in and said she was cute af. we somehow made it to my car and then back to the party.
/r/seduction02/09/25 02:13 AM
2

Work on your looks. If there isn't immediate interest move on immediately.
/r/seduction29/08/25 11:57 AM
11

why don't you find thins you enjoy like s hobby and meet people there. otherwise its empty.
/r/seduction24/06/25 05:26 PM
11

Bro what is your goal? You sound bored. I don't think youre looking at the right issues.
/r/seduction24/06/25 03:50 PM
1

i wouldn't even count this a rejection. Maybe im desensitized. I dont expect everything to always go my way, nor do I feel entitled to their time/energy just because I ask. Im just trying to find the ones that align with me.
/r/seduction19/06/25 04:37 PM
1

Also consider a balance between being yourself and ignoring others, and ignoring yourself and focusing on others needs. I'd say ideally it would be a balance. Where you are self-aware , authentic while being able to read the room, and connect with the other person the way the wanted to be. I am completely different person (ADHD), but most people dont know that. For example I worked and practice on good communication, and working communication. One thing im not good at is I need specific and expl…
/r/seduction11/06/25 10:07 PM
1

I love being horny, it's my drive. If a girl is using it against you, you're doing something else wrong and its not being horny.
/r/seduction11/06/25 03:37 AM
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For me, potential wifes are few. I have a rotation because they cant fulfill the role of a LTR. No ONS just dating not exclusively. they dont have the pressure to give to the level that I give, I dont have to commit to someone not worth committing too. To me its better than being single and the girls will save themselves months for me. As long as I stay safe and get tested consistently. And no they are not allowed to get mad, because I dont tolerate negativity. Because other girls arent being ne…
/r/seduction04/06/25 07:18 AM
5

fuck money as a priority. Health is wealth.
/r/seduction04/06/25 07:15 AM
1

Its likely subconsciously intentional. Its definitely easier to pursue from dating apps because the intention is inherently already there. But meeting women in person its a little different and requires a tiny bit more intention and interaction
/r/seduction25/05/25 01:43 AM
1

Just in person vibing. Sometimes at parties, bars, friends. When I was at college it was alot easier.
/r/seduction24/05/25 04:29 PM
1

95% of the women i meet are from online interactions, dating apps, video games, and social media. AMA
/r/seduction24/05/25 05:51 AM
3

Go where they go, they usually tag them.
/r/seduction10/05/25 01:42 AM
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This is a good question that no one has answered yet. The answer is you get lucky, either by accidentally running into them in the right environment, or you just live in a place where attractive people gravitate. I experience the same thing, I just tell myself they don't exist until they do. Other option is to be highly sought after on IG, and DM them.
/r/seduction10/05/25 01:24 AM
2

I'm an intimacy whore lmfao.... I get both #humblebrag
/r/seduction06/05/25 07:19 PM
4

I just show them the best time of their lives, and then let them know I'm single and intend to continue to be what that entails unless I say otherwise. I also let them know I will never lie to them, ask me whatever they need and that health/safety is primary for me. they rather live in the delusion its just them, then I just continue as usual.
/r/seduction08/04/25 07:18 AM
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