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| 10 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partner | Lifestyle | Affectionate-Bet8956 | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Anyone ever done game in Tbilisi/Georgia? | Outer Game | Affectionate-Bet8956 | /r/seduction | 30/08/25 12:10 PM |
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| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerThanks. Good ideas. I think there's unlikely to be many women doing these near where I live, but I am considering moving at some point. For the next 4-5 months I'm here and saving money fairly aggressively, but maybe I'll move to somewhere with more dating options too | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerYou keep making assumptions. This 'you don't wanna hear me though' doesn't make much sense. I'm not making a fortune but I'm well educated with a secure job and will be able to increase my salary. The only thing I 'don't wanna hear' is the idea of adoption, because if I am going to be paying for a kid then I want it to be for my own (biological) kid. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 04:05 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerEarly 30s is fine for me. Late 20s also could work but obviously more risky. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 10:58 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerMy job isn't bad. Though I specifically said that i don't want a woman 'around my age', as i want kids. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerThanks. And what about showing interest and closing the deal? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 10:18 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerGive me some tips. How do you find them? How do you approach? What do you recommend doing or not doing? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerDo you do well with the hookups? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerI guess you're not after your own family etc? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerYou didn't give advice. Obviously (like the vast majority) I don't have interest in adopting because I want my own children. You just said yourself that 40s and 30s age gap isn't big, so it's a strange response tbh. You didn't answer if you were male or female. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerAre you male or female? 40s and 30s really isn't a big age gap at all. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerDamn. Guess I'm way off then (in terms of earnings). How much do you earn now? What would you say is needed to live relatively comfortably in London? And do you live fairly centrally? Or is it bad even if you live a few zones out? I was hoping that if I managed to increase my salary to close to 50k in my job then it might be doable. I'm in South Wales..dm me if you want to know more detail etc. Yeah..I also feel like I need clear signals from her. It's been a long time since I tried so I don't h… | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerI sometimes think about moving to London. I'm in a much smaller city (almost a town), and while my social life isn't too bad here, the options for women seem very limited. Either young students or women who are mothears.. not much in between. Would need to earn a lot more money to move to London though. I can work remotely from anywhere in the UK but am only earning 38k currently. Think I'd need closer to 50 for London. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:54 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerNice that you have that. What country are you from? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerDo you feel uncomfortable at all going out with people in their 20s on nights out though? Do they treat you any different? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:36 PM |
| 2 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerWhere in real life are you meeting them? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerWhat sort of hobbies would you recommend? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerWell, I do tend to meet nicer women when I travel. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:25 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerUk. Had any success? | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Guys in their 40s, who needs to get back into this stuff to meet a partnerConfused on that last part. Explain please | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:24 PM |
| -1 | Dating much youngerLol. You did it yourself and then as you got older you don't like it. Often the case. | /r/seduction | 16/04/26 12:48 AM |
| -1 | For those who have a lot of experience in the field, how accurate is the female dual mating strategy theory?Honestly, I don't have either the time (busy day in work today), or the interest, in reading through the original post again or scouring the internet for studies to debate with someone online. I KNOW what I have seen with my own eyes. I have lived it. I.e. I have seen (and even heard) how many partnered women react when they meet a supposed 'alpha' guy that they're attracted to. It was no coincidence that these women were hanging off my arm and asking me 'are you an alpha male?'. It was in their… | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 01:22 PM |
| 0 | For those who have a lot of experience in the field, how accurate is the female dual mating strategy theory?What ARE you talking about? Nothing i have said has been proven wrong, let alone conclusively wrong. What I'm saying isn't even controversial and it is basic common knowledge. That we have contraception today doesn't change the fact that on an evolutionary level dual mating is what is happening. These women who cheat aren't cheating with the guy who is less attractive than their husband/partner that's for sure. In fact I specifically remember a guy - Macken Murphy - (who I don't like at all, as … | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 12:45 PM |
| 0 | For those who have a lot of experience in the field, how accurate is the female dual mating strategy theory?These women actively pursued sex with me. Even one while her unsuspecting husband was present at the same party. Men and women are different. Pointless comparing. Men cheat to 'spread their seed' (from an evolutionary perpsective). Also wrong by the way. Women cheat when they think they have found better genetics to have offspring with while keeping their nice, supportive provider partner at home. | /r/seduction | 13/04/26 12:29 PM |
| -3 | For those who have a lot of experience in the field, how accurate is the female dual mating strategy theory?It is true. Any guy who has been the type women lust after physically know very well that it is true. I've lived it. Women who their husbands and partners would never suspect have thrown themselves at me. It's not the case now but 10 years ago it was a huge eye opener for me. | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 02:02 AM |
| 4 | For those who have a lot of experience in the field, how accurate is the female dual mating strategy theory?Some years ago I was in very, very good shape (think pro-athlete level), going to the gym twice daily. I also worked an office 9-5 job in a team of mostly women (of varying ages). I experienced something that would change my view of women forever. Not only did I get interest from the younger single women in the office (one of whom I slept with, another I went on some dates with), but I also had one married woman beg me to f*ck her (and actually giving me a BJ before she even told me she was marr… | /r/seduction | 11/04/26 02:01 AM |
| 2 | How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding?I think intelligent women will see right through this stuff. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 06:04 PM |
| 4 | How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding?I'm not expert. It just all sounds so childish to me. Like maybe it might work on the less intelligent groups of younger women, but most will see through it. Or maybe I just have too much shame. | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 03:37 PM |
| 0 | How do you handle dead chats when girls suddenly go cold and stop responding?Jesus. Hate these | /r/seduction | 25/03/26 01:14 PM |
| 1 | This is WAY too easy now!How old are you and are you a good looking guy? | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Why is getting into a relationship significantly easier than finding a hookup.I asked partly because of the avatar. But I remember speaking to a black guy online and he said women would hookup with him but he struggled to get relationships. Probably some kind of fetishisation, bbc stereotype. Women are simple beings honestly. | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Why is getting into a relationship significantly easier than finding a hookup.Curious..are you a black guy? I hear a lot of black guys say women will hook up with them but not get into relationships (I.e. white women generally) | /r/seduction | 18/03/26 02:08 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why online-dating has such a negative stigma hereBecause it's awful | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 08:50 PM |
| 1 | I don't understand why online-dating has such a negative stigma hereCome on | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 08:49 PM |
| 5 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightThe hottest women often aren't on dating apps at all. Then there are at least twice as many men on apps as women. Results will typically be better in person if you have the confidence to approach. | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 06:53 PM |
| 6 | Dating apps seems to be a lot easier if done rightFine, but you'll get way less attractive women on them unless you live in an area of above attractiveness women like Eastern Europe. | /r/seduction | 04/03/26 06:36 PM |
| 1 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedWhat's your age and what would you rate yourself looks wise? | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 10:06 PM |
| 2 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedThey don't protect against herpes or hpv. Possibly even syphilis. Herpes is for life. | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Slept with 65 girls last year.. here’s what I learnedHerpes? | /r/seduction | 06/02/26 10:00 PM |
| 1 | Does getting older make game harder? Will it be harder to get dates?Where did you live during that prime? | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Does getting older make game harder? Will it be harder to get dates?Aye? | /r/seduction | 16/12/25 11:59 AM |
| -1 | At what age did you find yourself pulling the most women?Have a question for you..do you ever worry about sti's? Like the lifelong types condoms can't protect against such as herpes.. | /r/seduction | 05/09/25 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever done game in Tbilisi/Georgia?Yes | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 10:02 AM |
| 1 | Anyone ever done game in Tbilisi/Georgia?I'm hearing bad things about it. A guy on YouTube just said it was the worst dating experience he ever had despite being successful in many other cities. And I read Nick Krauser's blog where he spoke negatively about it. Supposedly it's a place where the women really are very traditional and much prefer Georgian guys to tourists. | /r/seduction | 31/08/25 09:31 AM |
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