| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | My nvm expected me to put the groceries awayWhat's that? | /r/askFDS | 10/04/21 08:21 PM |
| 7 | My nvm expected me to put the groceries awayI dont im childfree | /r/askFDS | 30/03/21 10:27 PM |
| -74 | My nvm expected me to put the groceries away3 years | /r/askFDS | 30/03/21 11:03 AM |
| 23 | How to safely stop and leave in the middle of sex?Woah this is amazing advice. Thank you so much. | /r/askFDS | 30/03/21 01:07 AM |
| -25 | Don't live with a LVM or this is your reality.It is my reality. I pay for groceries and furniture because IM the one who cooks and IM the one who cares about making the house more nice and practical. He has a job, I don't, I struggle with welfare and selling my belongings to make money. Fucking sucks. If I don't cook, he sees me as less valuable and lazy if he has to order food. Not cooking is literally not an option for me. I have servere mental health problems that I hide from him (he already knows but doesn't want a mentally ill partner … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 03:01 PM |
| 23 | Vanilla is a word created by men to shame women for not wanting to re-enact porn and be degradedAll men are monsters | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 09:05 PM |
| 36 | Boys who believe its the womens fault she was assaulted, deserve to be lonely.I request this HVM's hand in marriage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 07:20 PM |
| 11 | How much of women's birth control use is simply to accommodate men?Yep that's the case for me... the fact that my periods are lighter is just a nice side effect... otherwise I wouldn't take it if it weren't for him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 10:41 PM |
| 3 | I know I deserve better but I can't leave himYeah I did | /r/askFDS | 13/03/21 09:09 PM |
| 1 | I know I deserve better but I can't leave himMe too. I'm literally addicted to him, extremely extremely addicted to the point if he left I'd kms. | /r/askFDS | 13/03/21 07:01 PM |
| 35 | A guy walked into my apartment & I realize to exist as a woman is to be constantly reminded of my own vulnerabilityWe are prey. Plain and simple. That is all we are. That is our existence. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Women who have overcome/overcomming body image issues, how and any tips/guidance? (F20)I still hate myself I still struggle so hard and I still fantasize about all of the cosmetic procedures I want to get when I have a job and money... but for now... as someone who is ugly and poor... I just pretend. I pretend like I'm gorgeous and baffled at how beautiful I am. Sometimes it actually works, it's weird. I saw my body which I hate, in the mirror yesterday and I felt like I really liked my small hips and waist. I absolutely despise everything about my face, believe me when I say I am… | /r/askFDS | 13/03/21 04:28 PM |
| 9 | Friendly reminder, ladies. You can't fix him.I can't stop trying. When he rewards me with itty bitty pieces of affection I feel like I'm in pure pure pure heaven. I'm so stuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 06:07 AM |
| 10 | I don’t know who needs to hear this butI'm sleeping on the freezing cold kitchen floor right now no blankets because I'm punishing myself for asking him if we could sleep together. He only wants to sleep apart because he loves his space. I hate myself for asking and begging because now he's so mad at me and hates me. I hate myself so I just want to punish myself for being so unworthy undesirable so fucking flawed. I'm purely a last resort. I keep overstepping boundaries and forgetting my place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 05:52 AM |
| 1 | I don’t know who needs to hear this butI don't deserve better | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 05:49 AM |
| 10 | This 43 year old bald disgusting man cornered my gorgeous 25 year old girl friend at church while she was volunteering and demanded her phone number.Yes all men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/21 08:38 PM |
| 1 | LVM tears make me more powerfulShe probably meant lvm tbh but doesn't know the term for it. I don't think she's implying wealth, "powerful" just means confident and self loving (how I took it) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 12:42 AM |
| 54 | LVM tears make me more powerfulExactly. I got nothing but pure love and respect for myself and that's all you need to step over LVM and continue being an unbothered boss. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 08:09 PM |
| 37 | 84k subs and how does this even exist?Wait until you find out there's a pro-rape fantasy sub that encourages men to rape, teaches each other how, shares their success stories, and women who share the same fantasy feeding men dangerous content | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 07:20 AM |
| 45 | 84k subs and how does this even exist?Yes all men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/02/21 07:18 AM |
| 10 | Hey ladies 👋, I wanted to try something. List all the hobbies that women can't have as they are feminine or hobbies they can have and will be respected forDespite the fact it requires a license to obtain through college because it's dealing with harmful chemicals, it's literally chemistry | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:11 PM |
| 37 | Yep...Yes, I always want a one floor house but I'm terrified of it being broken into | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:03 PM |
| 54 | Yep...The elevator one is fuckung real... when I lived in an apartment and I would go home late from work, for some reason, I would always end up in an elevator alone woth a man going up to my apartment. They'd either try to talk to me or be silent until I get off and then they say "have a nice night" fucking predators, immediately makes me feel like I'm powerless and fear for my life | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 11:00 PM |
| 27 | Rape Culture Makes Me More SuicidalHoly shit word for word except I'm 22 that is literally my situation in the first paragraph literally all of that. IM EVEN CANADIAN TOO sorry this is so weird it's like I wrote this Dx and the culture makes me feel the exact same way. Especially knowing that self defense is illegal... | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/21 10:28 PM |
| 4 | Men seek validation from other men, like x1000000 times more than PickMeishasOmg I love her | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:52 PM |
| 12 | If they ask u to go for a walk 🥴Lol simple yet effective response | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/02/21 08:50 PM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on dates that last all night?In the future, never ever ever ever ever go to a man's place on the first second or third date. E V E R !!!! | /r/askFDS | 26/02/21 01:13 AM |
| 29 | He understood my boundaries around strip clubs but told me his friend would be hiring one at his bachelor party.You are with a future cheater. Forcing you to accept the stripper at his party is him trying to condition you for him cheating in the future. He is pushing the boundary and seeing what he can get away with. You are with a cheater. Dump him and let him waste his money on queens who rob him to pay their bills. | /r/askFDS | 26/02/21 01:07 AM |
| 13 | how do you feel about a man who is friends with his exs?Absolutely fucking not. You're just an option to him because he's still waiting for the day those girls will give him another chance. BLOCK AND FIND YOU YOUR KING. He literally doesn't have a single ounce of respect for you, I hope you know that. He practically hates you. He couldn't care less if you got hit and killed by a train, that's how little he respects or cares for you. If you stay with him, he will cheat on you. | /r/askFDS | 25/02/21 10:49 PM |
| 11 | What could this mean?: Guy I'm seeing ejaculates easilyThis gave me the creeps. He sounds like a little boy ew. Not in an insulting way, but only children deal with this. | /r/askFDS | 24/02/21 10:35 PM |
| 23 | I DID IT!!!!!! I STOOD UP TO MY P*RN ADDICTED LVM CHEATING ABUSIVE BOYFRIEND!!!!!!You are right, thank you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:33 PM |
| 2 | I DID IT!!!!!! I STOOD UP TO MY P*RN ADDICTED LVM CHEATING ABUSIVE BOYFRIEND!!!!!!He is 29 I am 22 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Looking to improve my looks as a LVM. Any advice from queens here?Women don't care about looks. We just don't. Men care about looks while women care about being in a loving relationship with a man who doesn't fantasize about raping or killing us and others. The best place to start is your personality, confront all of your issues, traumas things you KNOW you need therapy for, and CHANGE. Don't change for women, change for yourself. If you just want to be called a HVM by women but don't want to be one in private, you're a LVM. Get rid of the idea that "looks" pl… | /r/askFDS | 22/02/21 02:04 PM |
| 66 | I DID IT!!!!!! I STOOD UP TO MY P*RN ADDICTED LVM CHEATING ABUSIVE BOYFRIEND!!!!!!He has already killed my cat last year :( | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Guys who use too many emojis?Wow you called it | /r/askFDS | 22/02/21 04:11 AM |
| 8 | Guys who use too many emojis?Emojis are immature. Always. | /r/askFDS | 22/02/21 04:10 AM |
| 1 | Be a 50/50 lady, they said. Anna Bey gets it.Yes queen | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 03:34 AM |
| 46 | Be a 50/50 lady, they said. Anna Bey gets it.If men can't even provide money, then what else do they have to offer? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 03:59 PM |
| 41 | Our fav guy just dropped another gem 😂I want to date him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 05:41 AM |
| -33 | Why do LVM believe they deserve only the hottest perfect woman to be their girlfriend?I love him unconditionally, it's bad | /r/askFDS | 20/02/21 10:18 PM |
| 3 | What do arguments look like in a relationship with an HVM?They don't happen! A HVM won't allow for arguments, they know how to communicate any issues you or he presents and works to FIX the issues, not argue about them. HVM DO NOT ARGUE. ♡ | /r/askFDS | 20/02/21 07:16 PM |
| 16 | Why do LVM believe they deserve only the hottest perfect woman to be their girlfriend?Exactly :'( i'm in so much pain. | /r/askFDS | 20/02/21 06:42 PM |
| 70 | 6 Marginalized & Vulnerable Groups of People Porn Has No Problem FetishizingI am suicidal because of p**n i wish i was a troll i wish i was just being dramatic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | Why am i only attracted to men who don't want me?Thank you! I know i'm going to get very sad reading them | /r/askFDS | 20/02/21 04:48 PM |
| 3 | How are any of you Christian ladies holding onto your faith?You are right about women being objects as gifts for men in heaven, this is how heaven is described in islam - men will be granted dozens of sex slaves in heaven. It's fucked up. Hell would be so much better. Heaven is the real hell. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:40 PM |
| 7 | “Traditional” relationshipsThis hurt | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/02/21 04:09 PM |
| 1 | Why am i only attracted to men who don't want me?I know and i do! | /r/askFDS | 20/02/21 05:55 AM |
| 2 | Why am i only attracted to men who don't want me?With respect, i don't wish to discuss my mental health with strangers online x | /r/askFDS | 20/02/21 05:46 AM |
| 8 | Why am i only attracted to men who don't want me?Thank you for that insight!! I wonder about this too sometimes, however, i do possess heavy childhood trauma that explains why i act/react in a childish way as those with BPD do among other very very specific and weird behaviour, before i started dating (only been with 2 men thus far) | /r/askFDS | 20/02/21 02:53 AM |
| 30 | Why am i only attracted to men who don't want me?You are abusive and why you target me i don't know | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 09:12 PM |
| 35 | Why am i only attracted to men who don't want me?I am mentally ill. I have bpd, as you said. How is that relevant to be used as a weapon to demonize me for this question? And what does role reversal have to do with anything at all?? Why are you so mean for no reason. FDS is my safe space, you are scary and giving me anxiety. | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 08:51 PM |
| 28 | Why am i only attracted to men who don't want me?i re-read it in a "troll" way and i guess that makes sense you'd think that, i can see it. But yeah no this is just me putting myself on blast, i'm tired of being attracted to pain & suffering 😞 idk where it comes from, why it's here to stay | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 08:34 PM |
| 13 | Why am i only attracted to men who don't want me?What :( | /r/askFDS | 19/02/21 08:32 PM |
| 36 | How to be emotionally abusive 101Good luck telling me im fat, im 90lbs 🙃 good luck telling me someone else is cute, you single now. Humble him ladies, by leaving his ass❤ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 07:28 PM |
| 6 | How do you handle insecurity and jealousy with dating?RUN. GIRL, JUST, RUN. THIS IS YOUR SIGN. | /r/askFDS | 17/02/21 03:15 PM |
| 24 | What do I need YOU for?Men need us, we don't need them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:22 PM |
| 22 | Just finished this book and highly recommend to all my FDS queensNo drugs, no alcohol, no cigarettes. The worst thing i put into my body is sugar and that's how it's staying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 05:02 PM |
| 10 | How disrespectful. Two mentions of sex in your pregnancy announcement.In today's episode of all men are pedophiles: | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/02/21 03:42 AM |
| 10 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏That's how i found this place, feel so safe to be here | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 05:32 PM |
| 9 | Why do men waste our damn time?Love this energy. God you're such a queen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 03:23 AM |
| 25 | A cautionary tale.It's terrifying how girls see this as just a joke to laugh off with that "boys will be boys" mentality and continue accepting the bare minimum or worse for their relationship. I don't care how "happy" she's brainwashed to think she is, she's married to an irresponsible wreckless little child. Making a joke of this further enables men to think it's acceptable to be lazy and not give a fuck and as girls, we just accept that behaviour as the way they're supposed to be and choose to "love them anywa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:21 PM |
| 41 | DM from a friend of a friend set alarm bells ringing... A lot to unpack here.First mistake was not taking no for an answer. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 04:14 PM |
| -17 | Women please take note!I know how bad it is. If it was ANYONE else holy fuck i'd be gone. But it's him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:15 PM |
| 58 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?Same for me, i'm petite so 5-7 is exactly what i like but anhthing below or above i will not dedicate my life to and i'm allowed to feel that way because men have wanted me to be tan, change my hair, dress a certain way, get body injections, etc. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 10:00 PM |
| 39 | If size doesn't matter, why don't they make 3-inch dildos?Fuck it's too real | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 09:58 PM |
| 167 | Wow dude, wow..! Don’t you think you gotta figure out how to make WOMEN say “wow” first..?So it's a woman's job to "wow" him while all he has to do is have a high school education and call relaxing a hobby lmao | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 05:23 PM |
| 28 | 50/50 is a scamIf you want her, pay for her food you poop stains. If she wants you, she'll take care of you, be loyal to you, cook for you (not necessary but you're damn lucky if she does), and bare your god damn children. Paying for her meal is the god damn least you can contribute to the relationship. Men wanna call themselves the providers. Ok, where? Where are you providing if you refuse to pay for a meal and expect her to work a job and keep your kids alive 24/7? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:55 AM |
| 97 | Hint that I come straight over to your place and then ask me to decide the plans? BlockedSounds like a cheater tbh | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:43 AM |
| 640 | If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't.So all i'm hearing is that men want to be treated by their gf like a son but when it's one day of the year where it's their turn to reciprocate, suddenly they conveniently become a woke "anti-conseumerist" hippy for 24hrs | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:40 AM |
| 54 | If a man tells you he won't put in effort, he won't.Despite the countless times i make it clear that all i want to do is spend time together and maybe cook or bake him a treat 🤡🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 12:37 AM |
| 17 | Can we start a fundraiser for this cause? 😂I KNOW SO WHY AM I FORCED TO BE REPULSED BY THEM it makes no sense !! Why am i grossed out by the sweetest most intelligent group of people but only attracted to the dumbest most abusive group of people! I am fully willing to endure conversion therapy, being shocked at the thought of men and everything, i want my brain to stop loving the worst human beings | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:58 PM |
| 77 | Can we start a fundraiser for this cause? 😂I genuinely wholeheartedly want to be permanently changed to lesbian. I don't mean to sound like i'm making a quirky joke, i'm so fucking depressed that i'm attracted to monsters against my will. I'm attracted to a group of abusers, the cause for all of my PTSD, pain, suffering, BPD, trauma, i'm attracted to the ones killing me against my fucking will. I try so hard to convert myself, to force myself to find women as life partners but the hardest part is i'm repulsed by the body that's the only … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 06:35 PM |
| 49 | "it's just biology" is psuedoscience that LVM gravitate to. In the past it was used to justify slavery and racism. And now it's used to justify mistreatment of women.Please never delete this | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 05:50 PM |
| 14 | Ever since I was a little girl, it was drilled into my brain that the Male Gaze is dangerous. Now that I'm an adult woman, I'm supposed to just "get over it"?Right but if you use them you go to jail | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 02:38 PM |
| 99 | Ever since I was a little girl, it was drilled into my brain that the Male Gaze is dangerous. Now that I'm an adult woman, I'm supposed to just "get over it"?Canada 🤮 where just the mere idea of self-defense is illegal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 08:05 AM |
| 2 | Which age you believe is ideal for a straight girl to start dating?20s+ !!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/02/21 12:00 AM |
| 119 | NOBODY can stop herI HATE BEING HETEROSEXUAL | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 11:34 PM |
| 32 | What is a HVM?This is the female experience | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:53 PM |
| 3 | Woman posts about fiancé who refuses her request for help carrying something while she’s on crutches. He admits that he doesn’t feel empathy, and many comments telling her she needs to help him. Also, my reply triggers angry scrotes.So... he's a, by definition, psychopath... she needs to run | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/02/21 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Why cOmMuNiCaTe simply doesn't work. Extras is from "Men who hate women and the women who love them" by Susan Forward and Joan TorresThe fact that this is loterally the life i love today and have full recordings of these conversations (fights) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/02/21 10:29 PM |
| 40 | Why is it that I’m supposed to specify “not all men” when discussing rape when 1 in 10 men are rapists?Every single woman knows a woman who has been sexually assaulted. Most men don't know any men who have been sexually assaulted by a woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 07:42 PM |
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