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| 16 | Disappointed but resigned re: the company of women | Discrimination | Affectionate-School3 | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 11:56 PM |
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| 3 | Called a misogynist for being a men’s rights activist.Ridiculous. Being a Christian is a choice. Being a man is not | /r/MensRights | 25/10/23 02:46 AM |
| 1 | Called a misogynist for being a men’s rights activist.Communists want an end to fiat currency and centralized government, which is rather similar to libertarians | /r/MensRights | 25/10/23 02:42 AM |
| 7 | So, I mentioned Men's rights in a psychology class! Could have gone worse!Nice job. The reason people don’t push back on it is not due to any difficulty in supporting a position, but out of fear of being vilified. Once you start saying things, there is no rebuttal. College age women are far more brainwashed in this regard. Todays feminism is like the story of the emperors new clothes. It takes bravery more than anything else to expose its fallacies | /r/MensRights | 25/10/23 02:35 AM |
| 4 | Does patriarchy actually existYou’ve touched on one of the stupider points: “power structures are disproportionately male so that means average men have it made” 🫠 Yeah cause oligarchy doesn’t exist. Everything is patriarchy. Joe six pack hangs out with bill gates and Rupert Murdoch. They give him stock tips. If middle class men are somehow recipients of some overarching societal patriarchy, why wasn’t my vasectomy covered by insurance? Anyway, patriarchy is a real thing it’s just certainly not the prevailing system in any w… | /r/MensRights | 19/09/23 10:56 PM |
| 1 | One of Russel Brand's most vocal accusers is Katherine Ryan, an unfunny feminist "comedian", who only got famous cos she is female-previously made money by carrying out SEXUAL FANTASIES for men. Yet HE is the "creep" in her view...JFK was a cold warrior and signed women’s rights into legislation. Does that mean he didn’t sleep with Marilyn Monroe? | /r/MensRights | 19/09/23 10:46 PM |
| 1 | One of Russel Brand's most vocal accusers is Katherine Ryan, an unfunny feminist "comedian", who only got famous cos she is female-previously made money by carrying out SEXUAL FANTASIES for men. Yet HE is the "creep" in her view...No way man. One accuser, I’m skeptical until convincingly proven. Multiple accusers? Not so much. And for Brand to call the accusations “baroque” did him zero favors And women (or men if it was a different case) “come out of the woodwork” because that is psychologically sound behavior. Rape victims tend to freeze as part of the otherwise fight/flight response. Another person busting through the freeze helps other victims do the same | /r/MensRights | 19/09/23 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women hate men?I can’t help but reach a similar conclusion. That’s not supposed to be true, but what other explanation is there? I popped over to the fem sub yesterday and a gal was complaining about a thread where people complained about women with this: “women☕️” (meaning “women what are you gonna do” sips coffee Apparently she complained to the group, who told her to take a joke. The fem sub response was vile of course, putting this up “men🍼” as if that’s the same thing So they went for the jugular, calling… | /r/MensRights | 02/08/23 11:20 PM |
| 2 | Why do so many women hate men?Political extremes don’t ever get more and more dissimilar the further along the spectrum they go, but more similar. Political spectrums are shaped like a horseshoe, with the furthest extremes ending up side by side | /r/MensRights | 02/08/23 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Why do so many women hate men?What about autistic dudes who often lack the ability to engage in the necessary dialogue to form those authentic relationships? Can’t they at least be allowed to pay for sex in a safe, legal context? | /r/MensRights | 02/08/23 11:10 PM |
| 1 | The feminist hypocrisy: Lizzo is getting sued by ex-employees for fat shaming and hostile work environment. It's not a joke.Wish we could have some less cartoonish figures commenting on feminist hypocrisy. Democratic voting men need to grow a pair “Anyone who disagrees with democrat party is racist.” I’m not investing fifteen minutes of my time to hear about something through the prism of a twelve year old mind. Any middle schooler can point and say fat | /r/MensRights | 02/08/23 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do feminists always say “you’re proving my point”?Even Kevin Spacey I’ve seen blasted as a violator of women even though he only went after boys. Hopefully this was just an ignorant assumption that he victimized females, but gee whiz, a guy abuses males and this only hurts women? 🥴 | /r/MensRights | 01/07/23 12:29 AM |
| 1 | Why do feminists always say “you’re proving my point”?Except everyone here who abides by the spirit of the forum already has had the same experiences and little proof is required. You’re behaving disrespectfully by asking adherents of an unpopular opinion to justify themselves to hostile visitors. The failure to acknowledge this basic right…proves our point. | /r/MensRights | 01/07/23 12:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do feminists always say “you’re proving my point”?Too true. It’s a religion, why try to rationalize it? | /r/MensRights | 01/07/23 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Why is there such a miscommunication between men and women?OP, you seem to insinuate that generalized hatred of males is justified because of a woman who was r*ped by a man. If this is not the case, disregard my response. My mother and father both r*ped me when I was three and younger. Then, to cover her tracks, my mother arranged a new assault from a teenage boy so that when my memories formed, I would blame everything on the most recent predator, the teenage boy. I acquired CPTSD from all this and have a deeply embedded suspicion of all people. Your r… | /r/MensRights | 29/06/23 04:51 AM |
| 3 | Declining female dating standardsTake note of the very kind and informative responses to your…rustic suggestion, and compare it to the reactions when men post something contrary in the fem sub | /r/MensRights | 29/06/23 04:35 AM |
| 23 | Why do feminists always say “you’re proving my point”?I once argued with a feminist interlocutor, in which I raised several good points. Her response? “Why debate when I know I’m right?” 😆 I don’t know if one can reason someone out of a position into which they did not reason themselves | /r/MensRights | 29/06/23 04:15 AM |
| 1 | Disappointed but resigned re: the company of womenI’m not very sex driven. I would rather avoid interacting entirely than have to wade through these attitudes. It helps being on the autism spectrum. Social consequences just don’t have the same bite. Moreover, a woman instantly becomes unattractive to me when she talks that way, regardless of what compensating characteristics she may possess, so there’s really nothing to salvage. Thank you for your comment. Sorry for the late reply. | /r/MensRights | 29/06/23 02:59 AM |
| 61 | Social media companies must prevent online abuse against women and girls or face jail time and fines, under a proposed change to a government bill. Online abuse against men and boys is perfectly fine and should remain legal.I’m already tired of reading the needlessly long phrase ‘women and girls’ because of my polisci book. It’s really distracting to read such awkward language when ‘females’ or ‘women’ is perfectly fine. Female is a bad word now. Just let that sink in to show you how goofy and paradoxical the present zeitgeist is. How can you promote feminism and condemn the term ‘female?’ I don’t care if text reads ‘men and boys’ instead of just ‘males.’ In fact, the former is rather creepy. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/23 02:21 AM |
| 4 | Disappointed but resigned re: the company of womenTrue, and this is why my wife is so great, she listened and adapted to feedback, which was particularly difficult because we had a femifascist for a marriage counselor. Her bunk ass advice for me to not mention the obesity problem in the family, and to just work on not being angry, has now resulted in my son’s fatty liver at age 15. But anyway, it would be nice to come across women who don’t require reminders to be civil and fair. Perhaps their possibly fictitious existence is what I’m mourning. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/23 02:03 AM |
| 0 | What makes us differentThis is one of my all time favorite forums on the internet period. it invites my two political rivals into the same basket: feminists and right wingers. Right wingers are useful because they, more than anyone else, can point to possible informational defects in my positions, which I can then repair. But it’s not that way with feminists. They aren’t nearly as likely to want to debate, and when they do it doesn’t even resemble anything academic, its really just them insisting really hard that they… | /r/MensRights | 17/05/23 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Ex-feminists of this sub, what made you turn away from feminism?Thanks! My wife complains of feminism’s ‘black and white’ thinking, which you seem to have covered. The absolutism seems to be related to a lot of feminists’ complete lack of curiosity about the male experience. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Random question : I am expecting a son in 7 weeks should he be circumcised or uncircumcised ?I’m glad you’ve decided against. I bemoan my juvenile choice to have our son cut. I hate that I can’t wear snug undies very easily because the protective hood is missing. Good for you, thanks for not being a lemming. | /r/MensRights | 16/05/23 11:35 PM |
| 2 | I see a lot "HE"=Bad and "SHE"=Good ... Why is that so?Women talk amongst themselves, men don’t. What’s happened recently is women have made girl talk public talk, and they need to put it back where it came from, just like all these white supremacists that have suddenly made their bs our business. I think open misandry is largely a response to populist Trumpism. Conspicuous irrational right begets conspicuous irrational left. Two sides of the same very silly coin | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 10:39 PM |
| 1 | I see a lot "HE"=Bad and "SHE"=Good ... Why is that so?Ridiculous. Chinese racism against Blacks is different because the Chinese never owned Blacks. White Americans, on the other hand, were even more racist against the Chinese than they were against Blacks following emancipation. Democrats don’t protect democrats when they misbehave, that’s republicans. Democrats don’t make it harder to vote in order to keep power, that’s republicans. Democrats aren’t in the pockets of billionaires, that’s republicans. Democrats don’t strip rights away from women, … | /r/MensRights | 09/05/23 10:36 PM |
| 3 | "I think men should be frightened"Well, yes, men are frightened of frivolous accusations. This article mentions how this male fear is backfiring on women because now professional men (the usual power holders in an office) don’t want to mentor women or be around them for fear of being accused of something. So now women are deprived of advancement opportunities. The article tries to spin it as ‘there’s a myth that women will lie,’ but that idea falls apart when you look at what Amber Heard did. I’m not in a situation of profession… | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 09:58 PM |
| 3 | The gender part of African slavery you don't know hear about in school: men were more enslaved, female slaves were freed more, and some slave owners were women.Another point, current President of the US has a speech impediment. Pretty cool that someone with a speaking disability made it to the Oval Office, but we don’t hear about that broken glass ceiling, only the woman-shaped one. Speech impediments or being in a wheelchair and still gaining vast political power…yawn, no one sees past the penis. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 09:45 PM |
| 1 | The gender part of African slavery you don't know hear about in school: men were more enslaved, female slaves were freed more, and some slave owners were women.You’re underscoring one of our frustrations that feminists see the most elite slice of aristocratic men and apply those spoils to the general male public The average feminist needs to learn the difference between the words ‘men’ and ‘oligarchy.’ | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 09:39 PM |
| 5 | What do you think feminist gets right?You’re not wrong and I agree with you. If the men’s lib forum didn’t censor anything critical of feminism, we could have the two herds better culled. As it is, I need a sub for allowing a space to vent about mistreatment from women and the excesses of feminism | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 12:15 AM |
| 2 | Woman gone their own way is a thing, that probably receives woke acceptance in comparison to mgtowI’m kinda with you! I’ve always prized human relationships but no matter where I look and how I go about it, they’ve never been satisfying. I’d rather be alone, listen to music, watch tv, watch the trees dance in the breeze, meditate, psychs. I’m autistic and I have astral lovers. | /r/MensRights | 12/10/22 12:06 AM |
| 1 | Question for all you men.Sources would be helpful. I read about the white feather thing which was quickly abandoned. Women’s suffrage was not an automatic guarantee of the female right to vote, with many places disenfranchising them the way they had after black men got the right to vote in the 1870s. Voting disenfranchisement occurred often through 1870-1920. Cities and states couldn’t outright ban blacks and women from voting so they did things like poll taxes and literacy tests that were designed to indirectly keep lo… | /r/MensRights | 06/10/22 07:18 PM |
| 1 | NYT Opinion | The Crisis of Men and BoysHere’s the full article: “”If you’ve been paying attention to the social trends, you probably have some inkling that boys and men are struggling, in the U.S. and across the globe. They are struggling in the classroom. American girls are 14 percentage points more likely to be “school ready” than boys at age 5, controlling for parental characteristics. By high school, two-thirds of the students in the top 10 percent of the class, ranked by G.P.A., are girls, while roughly two-thirds of the student… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 11:21 PM |
| 1 | NYT Opinion | The Crisis of Men and BoysNYT is fine, excellent even. You just have to raise shields when you go into the opinion section. They keep the bull very well compartmentalized. Only the commenters (emboldened by the otherwise marginalized hate articles) seem to inject feminism into every little corner they can. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Upvote when you agree with comments, enjoy postsAnd then just try mentioning that boys are still circumcised and everybody’s just 🤷🏼♂️ about it. ‘But it’s not that same thing.’ If the question is presence or lack of bodily autonomy, it’s exactly the same thing. If you encounter a baby who’s splayed out spread eagle on a table screaming and a body part is being removed based on a religious tradition, and you have to verify a certain gender for it to be acceptable…sorry but there is something wrong with you. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Only one in four psychologists are men in the US. This is a problem for male psychological health.I can’t begin to state the psychological damage I’ve endured as a result of women counselors pretending to be equipped to counsel men. Don’t risk it, find a male counselor or just take your chances with journaling and meditation. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 09:01 PM |
| 1 | Isn't it dangerous that many women believe that the vast majority of men are potential rapists, and hence would never ask for help in a dangerous situation?Why exactly are you singling out the acts of rapists? Surely you are aware that most total crimes don’t get reported, and fewer than half of those result in conviction? https://www.pewresearch.org/fact-tank/2020/11/20/facts-about-crime-in-the-u-s/ While women are more likely to be raped then men, men are more likely to be the victims of any violent crime, and as I already mentioned, the conviction stats for their perpetrators are the same as what you posted about female rape victims. So if you’r… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 08:56 PM |
| 1 | Men under 30 are less accepting of women’s rightsIf people were really concerned about past discrimination, they wouldn’t stop talking about the Black reparations which still haven’t occurred. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 08:33 PM |
| 2 | How do people feel about Fred Rogers? A MAN who practically raised children through TV?Both my parents had molested me and arranged for further rape from someone else to cover their tracks. What were you saying again about an alternative for mom and dads ‘love?’ | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 07:59 PM |
| 2 | How do people feel about Fred Rogers? A MAN who practically raised children through TV?I love this shout out. There’s YouTube video of Mr. Rogers totally melting that belligerent senator in Washington. Rogers himself spearheaded PBS Speaking of pedophilia, I think he was consciously providing therapy to kids who were trapped in those abusive situations. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | attack misandry not feminism for strategyInteresting thoughts. I would also add that one’s delivery style is important to strategy. I don’t believe in showing anger to misandrists or their audience. I think it both validates their position and feeds their ego because to make men angry makes them feel powerful. In fact, I would argue that a mature, stable, flexible, informative, thought provoking, taking-the-higher-road-response is the ONLY thing that’s neutralized and informed misandrists in my experience. I would have to agree with so… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 07:51 PM |
| 3 | Question for all you men.You’ll probably see a partisan divide in answering this question. Liberal anti-feminists here are probably going to say that they were once feminists, like myself. So supportive of feminism did I used to be that I chose to be an at home dad at great cost to my reputation among people I was unfortunate enough to call family. I pointed to lack of women representations in government and corporation heads. I still point to these things. It changed for me during the ascension of Don Trump, but I know… | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 07:05 PM |
| 0 | Question for all you men.Agree to disagree. I also think it was hijacked | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 06:49 PM |
| 9 | Question for all you men.I knew I had the feeling that outside the US people werent nearly as hung up on genders. | /r/MensRights | 04/10/22 06:48 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to cheat than menI come from a patriarchy (Utah). Patriarchy has not been dominant in the US for 40-50 years even with surviving pockets. There’s a resurgence from the religious right with the Dobbs ruling, but if we lived in a patriarchy it wouldn’t be controversial, and wouldn’t be failing and flailing like it is. Even stranger than interloping on a men’s sub is your promotion of toxic masculinity within it. All you’re doing is reinforcing its need🤷🏼♂️ ‘Wow,’ is almost always succeeded by poorly thought out c… | /r/MensRights | 30/09/22 07:40 PM |
| 2 | AOC predicts she won’t ever be president — because Americans ‘hate women’AOC is too progressive, which is the real reason she wouldn’t be seriously considered. Stacy Abrams is saying the same thing in the GA gubernatorial race, that there’s too much misogyny and racism. Again, the real reason is that her positions are too far left. Raphael Warnock, a centrist who is also Black, is polling better in his bid to keep a senate seat. People don’t just ‘hate women;’ it’s not that simple. People generally hate their partisan political rivals and that’s about as neat as we c… | /r/MensRights | 09/09/22 12:15 AM |
| 3 | Study finds men are more empathetic than women “On average, males are more empathetic and thus more altruistic than females.”The only real pro-male take I can offer is that male empathy is probably more resistant to cultural influence. Men are less likely to demonize outsiders. This is consistent with present day trigger-feminism’s poor ability to navigate nuances, and tendency to characterize gender conflict as simply a ‘male problem.’ In short, men appear to be more capable of rational character judgments, while women’s views of outsiders are more likely to be shaped by their peer group’s opinions. It looks like thi… | /r/MensRights | 02/09/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Do we live in an actual patriarchy?Ive heard so much talk about it I don’t know what to thinkUSA abortion restrictions are an effort to enforce patriarchal rule in an otherwise non-patriarchal society. But it’s not men controlling women, it’s Christians trying to control everyone. Gendering the issue confuses the issue. | /r/MensRights | 29/08/22 01:42 AM |
| 2 | Do we live in an actual patriarchy?Ive heard so much talk about it I don’t know what to thinkThe men you describe are oligarchs. They preserve an elite clique that is every bit as insular to the man typing this and the men to whom you are responding. Staffing more women there won’t erase gross inequality, it would only buttress affirmative action in the elite sphere. We do not live in an experiential vacuum. The last two decades have seen large numbers of female heads of state in Asia and Latin America and there is no evidence that their power inclusion has mitigated corruption or advan… | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Do we live in an actual patriarchy?Ive heard so much talk about it I don’t know what to thinkPatriarchy strikes me as a religious term. I came from Mormon Utah which is very patriarchal. But the Mormons aren’t a dominant social paradigm and neither are other patriarchal regimes that exist in pockets in the USA. Women are definitely second class in these. If you ask them about it they might express their ‘joy’ in their inclusion in a patriarchy, but will probably lack the cultural contrast to note that other options are available or valid. The ‘patriarch’ in my Mormon upbringing was the … | /r/MensRights | 28/08/22 06:21 PM |
| 1 | There’s nothing misogynistic about men preferring a virgin women over a non-virgin.Marital contracts are controlled by the state in the west? Should I expect a knock on my door soon because my wife and I are actually non-monogamous at this point? Is SCOTUS dialing this one up next? The state is involved in the material and child custody aspects of marriage, not the nature of its intimacy. Pair bonding (I was confused by your spelling) is not finite. It can be replicated again and again, sometimes called serial monogamy. I cannot find any confirmation that women experience a mo… | /r/MensRights | 26/08/22 01:08 AM |
| 0 | There’s nothing misogynistic about men preferring a virgin women over a non-virgin.Marital contracts are subjective. The specific arrangements vary by each. STDs and kids are pretty easy to spot in a potential mate. There’s a medical check up for one, and the other is obvious. Virginity needn’t apply. I don’t understand your other points. If you prefer virgins, no one is going to tell you you can’t. But for many it’s kind of a 🚩. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 11:22 PM |
| 0 | There’s nothing misogynistic about men preferring a virgin women over a non-virgin.I am serious. I will bite back against feminist overreach all day, but preferring a virgin as a sexual partner provokes a variety of uncomfortable questions as to why. I’m married to a woman who said she loved the fact that we were both virgins when we mated. I don’t like it. It’s like she is saying that I belong to her and she didn’t want me to be claimed by other women beforehand. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Yesterday and today I was treated like a piece of meat by an older woman, something feminist say men don't have to deal with.‘Congratulations on having half a brain’ is a rude way of showing gratitude | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 10:26 PM |
| 3 | There’s nothing misogynistic about men preferring a virgin women over a non-virgin.I love this sub and am an ardent critic of feminist overreach, but I find it reprehensible to prefer a virgin. It’s like you don’t want some other man marking her, like she’s property or territory. Full. Fucking. Stop. 🇺🇸 | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 09:55 PM |
| -1 | There’s nothing misogynistic about men preferring a virgin women over a non-virgin.You are reducing sexual partners to the ingestion of ice cream. This exposes a de-humanizing sexual attitude. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 09:52 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to cheat than menThank you for providing an example of why this sub is necessary | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to cheat than menTrue but a lot of it is mirrored by what is seen in feminist subs. I like to take a high road but there’s plenty of tit for tat here. There aren’t many places for liberal men to vent about feminist overreach because we are hesitant to be categorized with our right wing political rivals. Hyperbole is common in this context because we feel silenced in so many situations, that when we find a place to speak freely, the procrastinated release takes amplified forms. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 09:37 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to cheat than menIt’s complicated. The types you’re thinking of are here, but so are other kinds | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to cheat than menMens rights=responding to feminism | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Women are more likely to cheat than menI have no idea why your comment was downvoted. I found it intriguing | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 09:23 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to cheat than menAre you confusing it with the New York Times? That indeed would have been remarkable. The New York Post, however, has become a tabloid with credibility equal to National Enquirer or Fox News. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to cheat than menChiming in. The social reward for a man to claim a high number of sexual partners vs. the social penalty in being labeled unfaithful... There is no social reward for a monogamous man to claim extra marital partners. His reward is the sex itself, at risk to his image. Slut shaming applies to both genders. Popular media are useful gauges in illustrating prevailing societal attitudes, and how they evolve over time. In ‘Friends,’ Joey the man slut is considered one dimensional but not maligned for h… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to cheat than menNew York Post is a tabloid. Not serious news. It’s like the National Enquirer, but wasn’t always so. | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 08:18 PM |
| 1 | Women are more likely to cheat than menIt describes males being more selective in their discharge of empathy, while females’ empathy is more reflexive. Males discharge more empathy when there is a higher risk of doing so, than with females. Male discharge of empathy relates strongly to reproductive prospects. How this relates…hmm…women are less likely than men to go out of their way for others when it comes at a cost to them? Men are more likely to show empathy when it is associated with sexual opportunity? I struggle to see how this… | /r/MensRights | 25/08/22 08:15 PM |
| 3 | Overview of the rise of woke cinemaI’m a liberal patron of this sub and yes there is a prevalence of right wing attitudes. ‘Men’s Rights’ roughly translated means responding to feminist overreach. I frequent this sub because of the paucity of similar options in leftward circles. In the case of ‘woke media,’ I personally love strong heroines like Ray in the final episodes of star wars. That kinda thing has been needed for a while. I do not like the purposeful depiction of males possessing weak character. That doesn’t help because … | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 10:04 PM |
| 2 | Overview of the rise of woke cinemaI liked the heroine of the final episodes of star wars. I don’t mind Hollywood going out of its way to promote female lead roles as long as it doesn’t degrade the product. I think the final episodes of Star Wars were every bit as good as episodes 4,5,6. But I’m also attracted to strong women, and Star Wars isn’t my jam the way Star Trek is. Recently I saw the first episode of the game of thrones prequel ‘house of dragons.’ It depicted female brutality along with male brutality, in an obvious nod… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 09:43 PM |
| -9 | "However women, as an oppressed group, no, can not rape men". Apparently oppressed groups cannot rape. She goes on to say only if the woman has more power than a man could she potentially rape and that rape "it’s not the repeated signaling that you don’t want to enter the sexual act"Meanwhile the right has coalesced into an actual totalitarian model The threat of left wing totalitarianism pales in comparison to the right, which already has the necessary opposition-purging charismatic leader. The five traits of totalitarianism: ideology, charismatic leader, organization, violence, propaganda. The right wing currently has more of these features than the left (leader, violence). The only thing lacking appears to be effective organization. Totalitarians also thrive in power vac… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 07:03 PM |
| 2 | "However women, as an oppressed group, no, can not rape men". Apparently oppressed groups cannot rape. She goes on to say only if the woman has more power than a man could she potentially rape and that rape "it’s not the repeated signaling that you don’t want to enter the sexual act"Um ok….the article is entitled ‘women can’t rape men, here is why’ and then about halfway down it says ‘women can and do rape men.’ I was raped by my mother and aunt (separately). Why isn’t it concerned with women molesting boys? Seems stuck on adult male muscle. Very strange. The comments were just as critical as this sub | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Hypocrisy, one is strategic and the other is lonely. I really can’t believe the double standards!!The article did admit that some of these women expressed worry about being single, that there’s a loss of benefits with it. Almost seemed like it was questioning the automatic assumption of being in a relationship, but once the alternative is chosen it’s a game of waiting to see how singlehood stacks up. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | Hypocrisy, one is strategic and the other is lonely. I really can’t believe the double standards!!They don’t have the choice when a woman pretends to be on birth control but actually isn’t. This happened to me and countless others. We all know about shitty things that happen to women because the media are obsessed with them. Here we like a change of scene where we focus on the shitty things happening to men that no one cares or talks about. This is coming from a liberal. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Hypocrisy, one is strategic and the other is lonely. I really can’t believe the double standards!!For sure. My liberal brethren are always shocked that I begrudge feminism until I point out that all it does it distract us from true class oppression. You cannot be a good liberal that values equality and be a privilege feminist. I guess this means I’m okay with radical feminism in theory…I’m good with any feminist who is primarily concerned with the struggles of women in lower classes. Abortion is the litmus test. Any woman of privilege who doesn’t see that as primarily effecting poor women wh… | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 06:07 PM |
| 1 | "Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better"I happen to be familiar with the content of what I posted and the authors make no such intimation. I’m interested in references, not co-philosophy, so I will now exit this debate and wish you the best. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/22 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Feminism is losing.No, OP was talking about the doctrine of absolute female rightdoing and absolute male wrongdoing. Unless you’re talking to a right winger, no one likes the overturn of Roe | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 11:16 PM |
| 1 | "Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better"Strawman argument. I did not suggest that slavery and the civil war were the causes of gun production and ownership. The question is why Americans own far more guns than do other nations and why American ideologies around them are more intense. | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 11:04 PM |
| 2 | Just a reminder that Reddit is totally fine with harassment, bullying and threats of violence as long as they are directed towards white men.They don’t recognize white people as a vulnerable group but they recognize women as a vulnerable group? Do they not realize there are white women in existence?🤨 | /r/MensRights | 22/08/22 10:40 PM |
| 1 | Gabrielle Blair, a blogger has called for mandatory vasectomies of boys at puberty and she defends circumcision as well. How do these women not see that boys routinely being circumcised at birth is a violation of their bodily autonomy?Fetuses aren’t children so this prenatal gender breakdown is irrelevant. The vast majorities of abortions occur (90%) within twelve weeks of pregnancy. Fetal heartbeat is irrelevant because brain dead people also have heartbeats. Banning abortion is unconstitutional because its only criticism is religious in nature. The first amendment prohibits the government from making laws respecting the establishment of a religion. SCOTUS and every anti-choice state are in violation of the constitution. The… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 09:02 PM |
| 1 | Saw this in the restroom of my church and was pleasantly surprisedPart of the problem are overshadowing culture wars. The left is responsible for feminist overreach but only the right is in a comfortable position to criticize it. Here we have something from a church which automatically causes credibility loss to a leftward observer (which I am). Meanwhile the American right wing is purging intraparty opposition to the debunked narrative of stolen elections, so there’s a massive loss of credibility of anything coming from the right wing. So liberal men need to … | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 08:47 PM |
| 1 | Saw this in the restroom of my church and was pleasantly surprisedhttps://www.nytimes.com/2022/05/18/opinion/amber-heard-metoo.html?smid=nytcore-ios-share&referringSource=articleShare Three free articles per month | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | Saw this in the restroom of my church and was pleasantly surprisedYeah Michelle Goldberg is a piece of work. But seriously the comments sections on NYT have gotten very sick of it. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone else noticed this little switch-up?I don’t care about convincing them, I just like exposing their fallacies for others to behold. | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 08:29 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone else noticed this little switch-up?I’m struggling to make sense of your point but it seems like your seeing different topics presented because of the different ways individual MRA posters have been affected by feminist activism. For example I might be upset the marriage counseling I experienced was biased toward women and the counselors agreed with me when I called them out on it. So I might post about feminist bias in marriage counseling because I’ve experienced it, versus the very common post about bias towards women in custody… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 08:27 PM |
| 22 | Telling a feminist the truth.Feminism has entrenched itself in some very powerful positions, and even there it is not pushing for equality. It basically has the same bias as your typical misguided college hippie feminist. Two examples: The CDC basically fudging the numbers on rape stats to turn 1 in 20 women raped into 1 in 5. Effect: vilifying men irrationally and needlessly. https://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/ Canada’s new anti-stealthing law that makes it a crime for a man to lie about using a condom. Great law, s… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 07:04 PM |
| 1 | "Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better"Yes, they did carry them long before emancipation and they were heavily regulated by gun control laws, mostly local ones. The trend to high volume gun ownership is one of the things changed by the civil war, partly because of the surplus of weaponry following it. https://www.smithsonianmag.com/history/gun-control-old-west-180968013/ | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 06:34 PM |
| 1 | "Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better"Problems in self-reporting. The fundamental flaw with this claim is that gun advocates compare inflated survey defensive gun use numbers from Gary Kleck with National Crime Victimization Survey (NCVS) crime numbers. The defensive gun use surveys use different and more dubious methodologies from the NCVS. An accurate comparison requires comparing similar methodologies. A 2013 Department of Justice report compared NCVS gun crime numbers to NCVS DGU numbers between 2007 and 2011. The DOJ report det… | /r/MensRights | 21/08/22 06:28 PM |
| 2 | "Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better"It said that in the context of dating apps. Women are basing their perception of male communication skills and emotional availability on what they see in OKCupid. How much sense does that make? No one here feels the need to put on a straight face to address this article because it’s such a joke. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 08:35 PM |
| 1 | "Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better"I read it and it assumes that lack of women are the reason for the unhappiness. If you would commit to due diligence you would also discover the cause of unhappiness is underemployment, and underemployment often goes with being single (three guesses why) And yet men are supposedly given all the jobs Like most feminist rags it assumes women are at the center of things https://www.inc.com/bill-murphy-jr/a-massive-new-study-of-5000-men-says-this-1-very-surprising-thing-predicts-happiness.html | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 08:21 PM |
| 1 | "Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better"She didn’t post any references. Only I did and you are free to peruse. | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 08:13 PM |
| 1 | "Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better"61% of women happy being single compared to 49% of men is not a significant difference. Studies have also shown that work is a larger indicator of male happiness than relationships. Single men also tend to be the underemployed ones, so the ones reporting being unhappy being single also tend to be underemployed, which is the bigger contributor to unhappiness. We’ve also come to be suspicious of studies that break down gender because of feminist bias in many. Take the very glaring CDC bias in rape… | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 08:07 PM |
| 1 | "Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better"Same. I watched my sister abuse men all my life and then in her mid 40s decided she hated them and everything was their fault. I have stopped talking to her | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 07:20 PM |
| 1 | "Straight men, if you want to find love you’ll need to do better"Statistically speaking, people are not safer when they carry and keep guns. Martial arts tho👍 Here’s an interesting piece about the belief that guns provide safety, and how it dates back to southern fears of former slaves taking revenge https://www.eurekalert.org/news-releases/962307 | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Switcheroo on the dating tablesDoesn’t matter how you slice it, men are either more likely or equally likely to be victims of a violent crime, whether that crime is rape or just a good beating, and it includes all locations. https://www.statista.com/statistics/423245/us-violent-crime-victims-by-gender/ | /r/MensRights | 20/08/22 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Have you ever been a feminist?What am I misunderstanding with this? Feminist activism fudging numbers on rape… https://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/ Why in Canada are they making sexual ‘stealthing’ a crime only if a man perpetuates it (not using a condom when he says he is)? Women can and do lie about being on birth control and steal the man’s life, STD’s are not the only possible evil. I also think a lot of women who promote feminism have no idea the damage they do to balls in general. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 09:46 PM |
| 3 | Have you ever been a feminist?It promoted equality with men at times when there was actually an imbalance in fairness. Since there is no longer any real systemic disadvantage, feminism cannot mean equality and is therefore a power grab. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 09:30 PM |
| 1 | how men's rights is perceived as cringe and what to do about itWell I wouldn’t be here without the harm in my life that has come directly from hyperfeminist ideology. I believe I can support valid feminism while simultaneously countering its overreach. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 08:06 PM |
| 4 | how men's rights is perceived as cringe and what to do about itWe just need more vocal liberal men. There’s a safety in the right wing speaking out because their social circles, but liberal men are fed to the wolves if they’re honest. I mean, I’ve seen some guys here saying that women should actually embrace submissive roles and not consider it oppression. That’s not an attitude I’m here to champion. I also know that people really shut down around male anger. Our concerns cannot be expressed angrily, no matter how well justified. Anger has been cancelled. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 08:03 PM |
| 2 | According to a survey conducted in the UK 50 Percent of GenZ men believe feminism has gone too far. https://www.vice.com/en/article/y3zxmy/gen-z-men-attitudes-towards-feminismAre you seriously trying to criminalize the behaviors of consenting adults in a free society? | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 07:54 PM |
| 1 | According to a survey conducted in the UK 50 Percent of GenZ men believe feminism has gone too far. https://www.vice.com/en/article/y3zxmy/gen-z-men-attitudes-towards-feminism‘Any system of government is inherently oppressive.’ In political science we call this ‘the iron law of oligarchy.’ It means that the processes involved in managing a large organization inevitably result in the concentration of power in the hands of a few. Marxism characterizes any government as being a shill and protector of the corporate elite. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 07:52 PM |
| 0 | According to a survey conducted in the UK 50 Percent of GenZ men believe feminism has gone too far. https://www.vice.com/en/article/y3zxmy/gen-z-men-attitudes-towards-feminismExcept that the far right has been seduced into a totalitarian model led by a lone charismatic strongman who praises more established dictators. Political purging and attempted insurrection are actually occurring from this group. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 07:47 PM |
| -1 | According to a survey conducted in the UK 50 Percent of GenZ men believe feminism has gone too far. https://www.vice.com/en/article/y3zxmy/gen-z-men-attitudes-towards-feminismNo, it’s because extremism is actually on the rise and the right wing is responsible. It’s not death threats from the left wing that is causing government workers to retire | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 07:43 PM |
| 2 | According to a survey conducted in the UK 50 Percent of GenZ men believe feminism has gone too far. https://www.vice.com/en/article/y3zxmy/gen-z-men-attitudes-towards-feminismThat assumes that women are aware of their own sexuality and are conscious of their happy spots. A lot of this is fixed by giving women the dominant role and renouncing missionary sex. | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 07:39 PM |
| 7 | Switcheroo on the dating tablesThis. I’m an aspergarian and even when a woman and I openly like each other, I become paralyzed. Even if the threshold is crossed I get ‘body lock’ where I just tense up and can’t feel much. It’s better if I don’t have to do the work. They call it missionary position because in India Christian missionaries introduced the position. It was strange to them because they do it with women on top. This would be better for me because I am so sensitive that it’s hard to function and sense at the same tim… | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 06:14 PM |
| 1 | Switcheroo on the dating tablesStatistically speaking it’s not any more of a concern than a man being attacked. https://www.sbs.com.au/news/the-feed/article/myth-busting-the-true-picture-of-gendered-violence/hbbqupyt8 | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Switcheroo on the dating tablesIsn’t this what bouncers are for? | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 05:50 PM |
| 1 | Switcheroo on the dating tablesIt’s kind of a myth that women are at constant grave risk of attack from strange men. One of those socially conditioned beliefs. Women believe they are at great risk, when statistically men at are at a higher risk of ‘street attacks.’ Women are far more likely to be attacked by an existing partner. https://www.sbs.com.au/news/the-feed/article/myth-busting-the-true-picture-of-gendered-violence/hbbqupyt8 | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 05:42 PM |
| 1 | Switcheroo on the dating tablesOr a narcissist lol | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 05:35 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is losing.It’s not men treating men poorly, it’s all society doing it. Sometimes we talk about the empathy gap here, which is how people’s hearts don’t really go out to the suffering male, but they do for the long suffering woman. We feel there is a built in bias to rush to women’s issues, but not to men’s. This sub is basically a venting ground in light of that context, so while I always believe in treating other posters with respect, I kind of get the crankiness other men feel when they aren’t spared th… | /r/MensRights | 19/08/22 05:15 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is losing.It’s more about social conditioning. Women are taught certain things that an average man doesn’t explicitly endorse, and vice versa. Things are often taken for granted and passed to the next generation without open deliberation. You’re making me think of assertiveness, and how some are mentioning it as a reason for higher pay for men (the chief cause obviously being traditional female jobs earning less like teaching and nursing). If men are taught to be assertive to advance their careers, and wo… | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 08:36 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is losing.1) who is doing the teaching? Women, who occupy nearly all childcare roles. Slaves don’t get to leave, whereas you had the choice. 2) men are also taught, also by women, to earn money for their family. We are not encourage to pursue our dreams, we are taught to produce income. I think attitudes that over-emphasize the importance of wealth have obscured that this male role is not that enviable. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 08:23 PM |
| 3 | Feminism is losing.I think he was saying that being treated equally also means being treated like shit, and that feminists are surprised by it after telling themselves men have easy lives. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 08:15 PM |
| 0 | Feminism is losing.No, because a violent male is not broadly replicable within the rest of the demographic. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is losing.I’ve been noticing liberal men speaking up more. Their (our- I’m center left but never supported feminism after about 2017), silence had caused this in the first place. Edmond Burke: “in order for evil to thrive, good men must do nothing.” | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is losing.Separate wokeness from feminism. Liberals aren’t sick of pushing for social justice, but they may be sick of being told to push for the fake social justice of affluent women. Woke is just a buzzword now but it’s supposed to associate with systemic racism. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is losing.I get annoyed by NYT opinion articles that promote believe all women et al, but I’ve noticed a significant recent increase in the amount of commenters resisting and fighting the ideology, including self proclaimed fems. I think people, not just ones in a men’s sub, are sick of it. | /r/MensRights | 18/08/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Believe all womenCode-speaking is probably one of the reasons feminists or women aren’t well received. The recent news that men are more single and lonely because women have higher communication standards is pretty rich in light of this. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/22 10:14 PM |
| 1 | Believe all womenI have to believe that when I read Michelle Goldberg’s inane defense of Heard in a NYT column, that she is pandering to readership. Same with the inane comments from Tucker Carlson in his pursuit of viewership. Movements come and go. Right now is interesting because of the novel emergences from social media. But there was also temporary social upheaval after the printing press came about. If history is a guide there, the anti-reality social media tribalism we see now should subside. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/22 10:10 PM |
| 2 | Number of 'lonely, single' men is on the rise, says psychologist OP: More male hate from the Daily Mail. Another nail in the coffin for women trying to date.That’s all fine, but the problem is the absolute views on gender expectations. Your analysis applies as much to women as it does to men. We tend to complain here that men are expected to change and woman aren’t. Women also need to address communication effectiveness. Passive communication leading to mob communication is not adult communication. | /r/MensRights | 16/08/22 10:01 PM |
| 18 | Are WE really the sexists ones? Smh.I appreciate this optimism and I think you’re right. Social media fantasy tribes at some point take a bite of a reality sandwich as they attempt to allocate values in the real world | /r/MensRights | 16/08/22 09:27 PM |
| 5 | Psychologist receives hate mail after claiming more men are 'lonely and single' because women have higher dating standards OP: Well what a surprise.I learned how to engage in astral sex which is an exalted form of love making that makes the idea of a physical woman lose appeal fast. Sounds mystical and fake I know but I do this every day and the joy and euphoria is incomparable. I haven’t found the end of it, it is so amazing. The only limit is the ego. Yes, there’s no actual proof but that doesn’t mean you won’t find me drooling and glass-eyed in my free time😎. This article mentions astral projection but I almost never ‘leave,’ I usually d… | /r/MensRights | 16/08/22 09:20 PM |
| -5 | Psychologist receives hate mail after claiming more men are 'lonely and single' because women have higher dating standards OP: Well what a surprise.I’m just glad I’m bi, and that I have astral lovers. Women in the flesh weren’t all that appealing in the first place. So we’re going to deprived of the opportunity to play dating guesses games with insecure women? Darn. This guy says “all I’m saying is you need to be the best version of yourself.” It’s incredibly sexist, women are told they’re perfect the way they are. Neither of these generalizations can be true, which is the main problem in using gender as a lens for everything. Any man who i… | /r/MensRights | 16/08/22 09:08 PM |
| 1 | Is it impossible to discuss with people who believe in patriarchy?Patriarchy is an internalized script reinforced by social proof from other women. It’s a collection of beliefs and assumptions that formed out of reluctance to speak honestly and assertively with men. As the social media tribe of female peers assembles around them, they receive courage to express the very coarse belief system to men who never advocated it and wonder who has. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 10:42 PM |
| 4 | Is it impossible to discuss with people who believe in patriarchy?Feminism wouldn’t be nearly as ridiculous if they just replaced ‘patriarchy’ with ‘oligarchy,’ and if they talked about economic segregation of racial classes instead of how busy they are scheduling their families’ activities. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 10:28 PM |
| 2 | I am thinking about starting a Men's (Male-Only) Club and could use advice and critqueI thought needing a task or activity was just my autism lol | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 07:03 PM |
| 4 | Angry woman confronts blind man at the gym and accuses him of staring at her.I’m a tall, athletic man. I generally only feel to have been objectified, sexualized or sexually harassed by women who are intoxicated (not simply attracting a gaze, but catcalls etc). But I’ve been non sexually harassed or mistreated on account of my gender countless times by sober women. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 06:52 PM |
| 2 | Angry woman confronts blind man at the gym and accuses him of staring at her.Exactly why I do everything in my power to avoid women in public | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Angry woman confronts blind man at the gym and accuses him of staring at her.Even if he took a picture, that’s usually only a crime when there’s a reasonable expectation of privacy. But there may be non legally binding company policies that can be enforced at any time. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 06:48 PM |
| 6 | Angry woman confronts blind man at the gym and accuses him of staring at her.This all day. Sure, wear light colored uncovered leggings in coed spaces, you’re the only person in the world, after all. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 06:44 PM |
| 21 | Angry woman confronts blind man at the gym and accuses him of staring at her.LOL I must admit to purposefully avoiding my eyes pointing anywhere near a woman I think’s hot, and that means sometimes accidentally gazing at one I don’t. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Angry woman confronts blind man at the gym and accuses him of staring at her.I’m center left and I find nothing here related to political views, right or left. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 06:39 PM |
| 7 | Angry woman confronts blind man at the gym and accuses him of staring at her.So…Andrew Cuomo is in great shape today? Al Franken? John Edwards? The thing that sucks most about feminism, typified in the OP, is the lack of intellectual honesty. Let’s not mimic it here k thx. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/22 06:32 PM |
| 8 | Apparently Now Men Are Single Because Of A " Skills Deficit ". What Skills Are We Talking About Here?Skills? Napoleon Dynamite was right | /r/MensRights | 14/08/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | People have ragged on the Momlife Comics a bunch recently, but this may be the worst one. Minimizing "Not providing for family" to one small bullet pointMe too. When I was in massage school in downtown Seattle I remember being catcalled by like tweaker homeless gals. There had no chance with me but I didn’t mind the attention. Meanwhile, the massage school itself was blatantly sexist against men. A female student would loudly manbash every day and when I took the issue to those in charge, they told me they were just jokes. Try reversing the genders on that one. The school closed down shortly thereafter. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 11:23 PM |
| 1 | Indoctrination, the Natural wayHis sign may as well read “please sleep with me!” | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Single fathers vs. Single mothersMy sister had engaged me with much vitriol after I wouldn’t automatically take her side when she divorced her ex. She seemed to feel that his infidelity automatically disqualified him as a father and I wouldn’t accept that logic. “He cheated on you, not your kids,” I told her. She then threatened me with physical violence. I later learned that she had lost custody privileges. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 10:30 PM |
| 8 | What are sexist moments in tv shows that piss you off?Anytime Lisa Simpson opens her mouth anymore…. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 09:47 PM |
| 6 | What are sexist moments in tv shows that piss you off?Jeeezus. The woman who asked the question seems uncomfortable that the audience and the host seemed to agree with her friends that she should entrap her husband. So men can’t control women’s bodies, but women can control men’s lives✅ I think women are the ones way too focused on bodies. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Men Have Been Psychologically Abused by Feminist Ideology For DecadesI find that they aren’t interested in logical objections and factual presentations that counter their emotional conclusions. They’ll often pay lip service to good points but it does nothing to inform their cognitive operating systems. They’ll both operate on misandrist points from their female peers, and use those peers as insulation to avoid intellectual integrity. This is why they are equal in threat with Trumpers to a universal perception of reality. All that’s left separating the two is a pe… | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 09:29 PM |
| 1 | Men Have Been Psychologically Abused by Feminist Ideology For DecadesI agree. My opinion is that if women want better treatment, they should train their sights on each other. The ‘patriarchy’ is really an internalized script perpetuated by women on each other. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 08:10 PM |
| 2 | Men Have Been Psychologically Abused by Feminist Ideology For DecadesWe don’t expect them to support male rights, we hope they will stop actively attacking and undermining our ability to do so. Male problems often directly stem from feminist activism, like me in my marriage after couples counseling in which there was a built in characterization of absolute male wrongdoing and absolute female right-doing. I called the female counselors out and they agreed that there were issues in the counseling but that the problem was systemic 🤷🏼♂️. Certainly didn’t stop them p… | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 07:33 PM |
| -1 | “Studies show young & middle-aged men are the loneliest they’ve ever been and it’s probably going to get worse. They found that the most vulnerable people to loneliness were young men living in individualistic cultures.”Cooperation and safety nets are not slavery. Slavery happens when individualism is promoted at the expense of everything else. ‘Personal liberty’ was the mantra of slave owners. Collectivism ended slavery in the nineteenth century. | /r/MensRights | 12/08/22 07:17 PM |
| 3 | Thinking about a vasectomy...First off, I don’t think it’s wrong to reproduce in a difficult world. Human survival has always been about facing tough odds and trying anyway. But I was vasectomized at age 27 I think. You should know about the small chance of post-vas pain syndrome which I had for about seven years. It was truly miserable though my pain was only about 3-4 on the pain scale. It was mostly not knowing what it was or when it would end. It turned out I had a hernia that the vasectomy made “noticeable.” Easily res… | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 07:25 PM |
| 7 | Thinking about a vasectomy...Happened to me. Look at Canada’s law making it a crime to lie to a woman about wearing a condom. Good law, of course, but obviously no reciprocal action when women lie about being on birth control and then blame the male for getting her pregnant. Happened to me. | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 07:18 PM |
| 2 | Thinking about a vasectomy...Yes | /r/MensRights | 11/08/22 07:17 PM |
| 1 | CNN blames gender wage gap for Griner arrest, claims player wouldn't have been in Russia if WNBA paid like NBAIt’s just disgusting that this is primarily viewed through the lens of a socio/political collective ‘injury,’ rather than as an individual person running into terrible luck in a despotic country. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/22 12:05 AM |
| 2 | When you can't get social help (outside of MRA) because talking about men's rights is disgustingI agree. Everyone wants to insulate their views among the like minded. People aren’t interested in being challenged which means they’re not interested in truth. | /r/MensRights | 05/08/22 11:42 PM |
| 3 | When you can't get social help (outside of MRA) because talking about men's rights is disgustingChristians shouldn’t infuse their beliefs into court rulings and legislation, but they do so those criticisms are valid. Keep church and state sperate. Otherwise no one cares what Christians believe. None of us like how feminism took over the CDC and inflated the rape stats, why should we give Christian activism a pass? | /r/MensRights | 05/08/22 11:41 PM |
| 3 | Can men be oppressed?Oligarchies made the draft. Their class far outweighs their gender in importance. This is the key confusion in privilege feminism | /r/MensRights | 05/08/22 07:50 PM |
| 6 | CDC alters web page on teen dating to hide male victimizationThey already have zero credibility about what constitutes sexual violence. In another rape stat document, CDC called inebriated consensual sex ‘roofie rape.’ Also, having sex with a male partner when you’re feelings are hurt counts as him raping you. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 11:54 PM |
| 1 | These replies are disgustingly insightful.Except that BLM doesn’t have the means and privilege to proselyte like feminists, which actually gives them credibility. I don’t know what wokester means, but I would take one over a proud boy I’m sure. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 11:50 PM |
| 2 | Beware the Gender Gap Index 2022 is outIf you still have the appetite after this, check out the BS CDC rape stats, obvious feminist bias. 1 in 5 women raped is more like 1 in 20. Lying about rape frequency seriously makes light of actual rape victims. https://www.google.com/amp/s/time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/%3Famp%3Dtrue | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 11:02 PM |
| 5 | What’s your guy’s thoughts on misandrists, blaming everything on a “patriarchy”or “toxic masculinity”?Yes, it’s called oligarchy or bourgeoisie. A few privileged families get to basically write laws. The wealth gap is increasing yeah after year. The disparity is between socioeconomic classes, not gender. But feminists aren’t having that conversation. They aren’t simply using separate labels, instead they’re confusing the actual oppressors with regular men. They are using intellectually dishonest talking points about gender pay disparity. They are helping to divide the labor classes which only se… | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 07:58 PM |
| 11 | Dangers of complimenting women?I think you just explained the lifeblood of feminism: Punishing vulnerable men for what creeps and predators do because the former is capable of feeling. | /r/MensRights | 18/07/22 07:48 PM |
| -20 | "if men could get pregnant, we would have abortion clinics everywhere "Silly thought experiment anyway. If men could get pregnant the sexes would be reversed and women would be the imaginary oppressors instead of the religious right (religious left in this case). Still in that scenario, abortion clinics shut down. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 04:27 AM |
| 2 | Im tired of being a man and i just wanna die.You are exhibiting one of the more frustrating and divisive elements of popular feminism: lack of curiosity of male emotion. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 03:50 AM |
| 9 | Im tired of being a man and i just wanna die.I hear you about not being taken seriously in therapy. Marriage counseling was really biased in favor of my wife. I was jealous that she was able to cry, but the therapist only cared about her. I was basically on my own. Called therapist out, she agreed with me, but said the problem was systemic. Marriage was sculpted in bad therapy’s wake. Not happy. I’ve not wanted to live here and there. I wouldn’t end my own life because of my family and I don’t think I have the right to, and I have post-mor… | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 03:35 AM |
| 10 | bro what is up with all the toxic groups on reddit?Appearance is basic in attraction. How popular culture got itself twisted into a pretzel pretending otherwise is beyond me🤷🏼♂️ | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 03:16 AM |
| 1 | bro what is up with all the toxic groups on reddit?If I had the same views 20 years ago that I do today, I would be considered more liberal today than 20 years ago because the whole political continuum slunk to the right. Right wingers think gun control is so novel, when it was normal until midway through the 20th century. So in other words, just wait a while and you’ll be right back to ‘pretty left leaning,’ as long as you don’t slide right, with the rest. | /r/MensRights | 16/07/22 03:08 AM |
| 2 | What are your thoughts on feminism subreddits?Men are like the government: easy targets for unrelated misfortune | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 10:53 PM |
| 4 | What are your thoughts on feminism subreddits?Privilege feminism is what’s irrational and hateful. Feminism dealing with developing countries or oppressed classes is not the same, but those types aren’t talked about in the sub OP mentioned. Privilege feminism is by far the most proselytized because that’s the class with the means, which is tragic. Privilege feminism straight up fudges numbers. (Gender pay gap, CDC rape stats, for example) | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 10:52 PM |
| 5 | Why does no one care about male genital mutilation (circumcision) ?I’m sorry to say we had our son circumcised before I grew a brain and realized how terrible it is. I am also circumcised and I hate that I can’t wear tight clothing because the tip isn’t protected. ‘But it’s cleaner to circumcise!’ Mmkay, maybe just date guys who shower? The way I see it, babies are circumcised and abortion isn’t protected anymore, and religious barbarism is the reason for both. | /r/MensRights | 15/07/22 10:42 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone else here been to the r/sexstrike sub? I've seen some misguided attempts in my life but man..The sex strike is perfect evidence of feminism’s view of itself as a zero sum contest between the sexes. That means anything lost by one side is gained by the other and vice versa. In other words, equality be damned. Problem is, men didn’t take abortion protection away at the national level, the religious right did. A sex strike in that context is like me boycotting a sporting goods store because of the beef industry’s Washington lobbying. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 09:15 PM |
| 4 | The American College of Sports Medicine argues women need exercise, no mention of menWomen are also better fat-storers which means that fat is less dangerous on them. Men build visceral fat while women distribute it equally. Visceral fat is more dangerous than other forms. I bet this helps contribute to earlier male death. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 9 | Men are never supposed to be themselves.Sorry to hear that. Hating on porn-watchers also means that autistic guys with zero ability to approach/be with a woman can’t even have a simulation of love making. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 06:47 PM |
| 0 | Why is this sub so hostile towards womenOP trollishly affirms the existence of this subreddit | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 06:42 PM |
| 3 | Why is this sub so hostile towards womenWell, that’s a narrow situational scope of abortion. Many times there is not a male involved in the decision. But if feminists were really about equal rights, infant circumcision (for which consent is impossible) would be as high on their list of outrages as forced gestation. | /r/MensRights | 14/07/22 06:27 PM |
| -4 | Inflation is at record levels, women most affectedInflation is not at record levels. Inflation hit over 14% in the early eighties. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 07:02 PM |
| 0 | A question for those who identify themselves as feminists.‘Men’s rights’ can partially be defined as a response to feminist overreach. Men’s rights are often only a thing because of poor treatment from female partners who are cheered on by their feminist heroines. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 06:37 PM |
| 1 | A question for those who identify themselves as feminists.That’s what’s so irritating and counterproductive. We expect this kind of post-truth tribalism from the militant right with its proud boys et al. The feminist wing degrades otherwise reality-based positions on the left. | /r/MensRights | 13/07/22 06:32 PM |
| 10 | Please explain to me feminists or your experiences with them. I live in the most Red state in America. Most women here are happily married and love their sons, brother, and Dads. Is this just mostly in Cities?I think it’s become really tribal and intellectually dishonest. If there’s a disparity at all, they’ll make sure it sounds ten times worse than it is. Gender pay gap is actually a fraction of what they say it is in terms of actual discrimination. The rest is just women choosing jobs that pay less because they are often earning a second income for the house. Yes, those jobs should pay more but let’s hear feminists say anything about male nurses needing more money. It also overshadows the much mor… | /r/MensRights | 03/07/22 12:50 AM |
| 3 | Would you like to see more female construction workers?And yet you’ll be far more welcomed than a male in the femthreads. Why don’t you ask the 50% of young males who think feminism does harm why they think that? | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 09:34 PM |
| 3 | Women who say men don’t have empathyInteresting. My wife has more compassion/sympathy than I do but now that you mention it, I believe I see through the eyes of another more so than she. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 04:19 AM |
| 1 | Why is it fair for men to get permission from wife but unfair for women to get permission from husband? Honestly, neither should have to ask permission from anyone they should be just able to get it.I could not find any instances of a wife suing a doctor for performing a vas without her consent. I found this on an ask a lawyer site, indicating that such a thing was impossible. https://www.avvo.com/legal-answers/can-i-sue-my-husband-and-doctor-for-performing-a-v-4101341.html | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 04:00 AM |
| 2 | Let's not let this sub be anything like r/TwoXChromosomes.It’s the exact same way in the fem one. I even commented from a feminist perspective and got downvoted. Just anti-male | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 03:23 AM |
| 1 | Let's not let this sub be anything like r/TwoXChromosomes.Codependency is a thing. It’s the habit of finding self-worth in the caring for others. It’s often believed to be more common with women but the data are mixed. Now, someone who engages in codependent behavior may find one day that they aren’t happy doing that. I think a lot of the ‘men need to stop using us for emotional regulation’ talk coming from the other side may actually be that they are/have been codependent and have been nursing their male partners to get a codependent ‘fix.’ Perhaps th… | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Believe all women.Man here. I wish it were easier to exhibit a broader range of emotions. ‘Negative’ emotions get transmuted quickly into apparent anger. The worse part is the difficulty was held against me in a marriage counselor’s office, where my wife cried a lot so she got all the service. I seem to need certain pharmacological agents in order to free more vulnerable feelings. I am a sex abuse survivor. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 02:44 AM |
| 1 | Believe all women.Gender movements certainly have flaws too | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 02:41 AM |
| 26 | "Why do the World Health Organizations’ gender equity gatekeepers struggle to acknowledge that masculinity can be good for health?"Maybe the same reason the CDC inflated rape stats, obvious feminist bias. https://www.google.com/amp/s/time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/%3Famp%3Dtrue | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 02:15 AM |
| 9 | When i first realised that feminism is not about equalitySame here. I thought I was a feminist until around 2017 when I saw what I guessed was a lopsided reaction to Trump’s election. As it stands, popular feminism is the left’s version of post-truth reality. I still want to see more women in leadership spots in corporations and government, but on a proletarian level feminism is just another incoherent tribe. | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 01:49 AM |
| 30 | When i first realised that feminism is not about equalityAnd then they wonder what they’re doing wrong when they see polls come out that say more harm is done by feminism than good | /r/MensRights | 02/07/22 01:45 AM |
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