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Lol, all of them have those limitations, they mention it explicitly saying it's based on reportings I showed both men and women exaggerate differently, showed men do it even more, you're here stuck with women only , i don't really think this conversation would go anywhere
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 03:02 PM
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It's quite well documented in studies mam, Women heavily underreport their body count while men over report it Both men and women over-report their height , although men do it slightly more Men over-report their pp size as well You want sources? I don't have them right now but i can find them for you
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 02:20 PM
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Also , these are based on reportings, women heavily underreport their body counts whereas men over-report their body counts Also one of these 3 sources are only including sexually active men and women, it's not a rocket science to get how many young men and how many young women are going to be sexless in reality, especially after underreportings and over reportings Not to mention it's mostly about women's choices , the total amount of sex done by men and women have to mathematically equal, but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/26 01:10 PM
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Umm Don't know what are you talking about , whether you're agreein or disagreeing with my point , i don't even get that you understood my point She said that the ratio of men : women is higher because women don't want to go on dating apps , i said that ratio is 60:40 and for a completely different reason
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:54 AM
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I would reply to all yout points Okay I'll be waiting but Between 2 to 2.5 million (20 to 25 lakh) Indians leave the country annually for work, education, or permanent relocation. Of this demographic, an average of 200,000 to 225,000 formally renounce their Indian citizenship every year to settle abroad permanently. Aka most of these people aren't talented white collar workers but someone who went to the Gulf or countries like Russia , Israel etc etc for blue collar work. Not getting the point ,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:30 AM
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Although i disagree with a lot of things with the person you replied to I don't really know what you're high on , like average men view half of women as hot and attractive, we aren't women who'd seek top 1-10% hot men for social status , that's what he meant Stop thinking men think the same way you women did , we aren't looking for social status and other checklist in our women who we're attracted to, we just like them And even that's false the most women are backing out from dating and hookups,…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:21 AM
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If I say what I want to say I would get banned by redi Oh say that to me then delete it soon, I'll reply to you once I've read all of that, it'd take a minute, then you'd not be banned I mean I hate reservation(I'm an upper caste) on basis on caste , freebie politics(I'm upper middle class) and muslim politics but what can one do about the first 2 if the majority of India wants it? Then it's fine if talented people are leaving here then , if you can't do shit about it then you have no right to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:12 AM
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Oh well he cummed within 30 seconds, if he'd have said he's a virgin before then that woman wouldn't have even done hookup with him and with this disaster , i don't think she'd have cared that he's a virgin or not Considering he's 6/10 , I'm pretty sure she'd be only attracted to him a little , because that's how the standards of men are for women
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 04:00 AM
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No , reddit or any social media for that matter are filled with racists especially when we talk about indians, talking about race would attract those racists which makes it a disaster for the mods
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:56 AM
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Yeah that data is of 2009, back then dating apps attracted a particular type of women, for example indian women who wanted to date indian men back in 2009 wouldn't be on dating apps, they'd have been dating from connections Race part is real , race affects sexual attraction of women, but looks, height , social status which comes from finances (indian men are the most successful ethnicity across all the western countries with the lowest crime rates), etc have far more significance in dating than …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:55 AM
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Tf are you high on, as an indian from india , if he's leaving his country then he deserves racism? How about you make this country free from reservations, freebies, vote bank politics , etc and deserving people would stop leaving here , who'd want leaving his own country if his talent and hard work is appreciated and respected but it isn't, that's why despite such high racism they leave this country
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:52 AM
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I mean yeah it's 60-40 on dating apps in US because as pew research centre clearly stated , 63% of men under 30 are single whereas merely 34% of women under 30 are. And the gap gets smaller (i guess 24% men and 17% of women) between 30-50 but still remains. After that men die significantly more than women that's why most women remain single after 50 which balances the ratio of single men : single women and they're not gonna be in dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:49 AM
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He gave a hint, do the math
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 03:45 AM
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Why did men get a long list of things that might contribute and you only put one or two things for women? Let’s look at conditions that can cause uncomfortable sex for women. Let’s see how little the percentages are Well then let's go Baby blues affects between 50 to 80% of women They're literally harmless and it's experienced by 80% of new parents , if we're going by that then stress is experienced by 100% of men , wtf are you high on , we were talking about mental problems and you're bringing …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/26 12:53 AM
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Do i think that 95% of men do that - hell yes. Those are shitty men - well i agree, hence me not wanting to date them. Well not getting it , you've experienced these things but not dating them.... Anyways it's 95% is what you think based on your experiences or maybe not even your experiences as well , the above women is clearly disagreeing based on her experiences I'd not get into these strawman arguments but yeah ig you should read actual studies and surveys
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:07 PM
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That's literally 1-6% women who have vaginismus Everything women claim is experienced by very little percentage of women, from postpartum disorders to everything Comparing it with men , the erectile dysfunction, ejaculatory disorders, anxiety and expectations problems, etc is 5-10 times more common than women experiencing ppd or vaginismus
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/26 02:03 PM
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Yeah that's why i said , most not all , most men who never approached a women also said that they didn't find anyone attractive enough to do that according to the dating psych study (although the biggest reason was fear of rejection, social and legal consequences)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 04:28 AM
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Oh i agree , it's partially because of desperate men , although men compete among themselves for women across almost the entirety of living organisms , infact they literally evolved to attract women more , peacocks for example, etc but yeah if there wouldn't have been desperate men then tje dating market wouldn't have been even 10% that bad as it is right now . Like even if 1% of men are desperate, they are enough to give huge attention to all the women in the dating market
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:22 AM
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Well happily singles are mostly the ones who aren't that desperately looking for relationships but would take it anyday if they find their ideal men It's quite the same for a lot of men like me who are happily single as well , I'd be happier if i find the love of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/26 03:17 AM
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For sure, it's of mommy kafka from honkai star rail 😍, i can send
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 04:34 PM
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Again someone asked the question that how many women get profit from the welfare schemes, i was simply answering that
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 12:58 PM
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How's that blaming here !? Are you even listening to yourself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/26 02:41 AM
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So why make the statement that women specifically receive welfare since childhood? Male children receive the same amount, Umm probably because men don't even remotely recieves advantage of that many welfare schemes and even in those they do they get 75% of the amount Then there are other benefits like tax benefits , diversity hirings, etc for women as well and it's not as if the children can be blamed. Who's blaming children or even women in this aspect, someone asked the question that how many …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 05:18 PM
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That's children, not women receiving more. Are you against children being feed clothed, and sheltered? Do you think if they were not, women would need men more? What are you talking about? I'm not getting it lol, the data is literally about men and women , who recieve the far higher share of welfare schemes , i don't know why are you bringing kids here , both men and women have both men and women in their family, if anything it's women's choices of being a mother especially a single mother rathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:08 AM
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I'd not let her being none of those girls going for casual sex regularly , drinking and smoking, going to clubs and bars late at night, etc etc . But then I'd have become a controlling parent who's taking her freedom, so it's her choice and her responsibility in life now, women asks parents and especially men to not interfere in their lives at all , so we shouldn't now, we should stop caring about our kids after like 15 or something , stop caring about their lives , if they need us in anything t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 04:03 AM
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Lol , you should've let me answer bro Like she's saying women are supposed to be pleased with decent guys , but they don't choose to have sex with them , but with which they choose to have sex are the asshole guys with whom they aren't pleased. Lol, it's not making sense at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:58 AM
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Well serotonin and dopamine are pleasure hormones released for pleasure only, they're not oxytocin , and all of which'd be released less if you're having a bad sex in hookups i.e. not emotionally connected or attached to the person at all, if anything you're far more likely to get more pleasure with the escorts. None of that refuted my point
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/26 03:55 AM
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It matters quite a bit actually and is well established across the board. And that's what I'm asking, where and how's it established? Not true, not all eggs or sperm are viable. The number of children had in actuality is totally unrelated to the reproductive logic responsible for behavior. Observable reality coincides with the theories presented regardless of any flaws. I'd like to hear your theory of how sperm is actually more valuable than eggs and disprove the entirety of biology as collectiv…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:02 PM
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So i guess that ends the debate here , both are on the same page, the asshole guy wins and he'd get more casual sex than a decent guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:31 PM
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How many eggs does a woman make over a lifetime? How many sperm does a man make over a lifetime? None of that matters, you literally need just one egg and one sperm for a kid not millions , and the vast majority only have one or two kids as well Look into anisogamy, Batemans Principle, and Parental Investment Theory. They're all pretty well respected and established principles. No ofcourse not Bateman's principle was based on a single, flawed fruit fly study from 1948 whose original data doesn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:20 PM
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Umm i do have somethings to say but some other time because this isn't the point here It was about how men should go for escorts
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 07:01 PM
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Well then we're not talking about those plenty of men or women here anyways, we're talking about people in general and what they want in relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:55 PM
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Umm where have i critcised women anywhere in my comment? Where have i criticised women anywhere in my whole reddit history for their preferences or desires? Yes i do debates and criticise about how they refuse to accept certain things especially about their preferences but never criticised them for their preferences, i infact like far fewer women than most women liking the number of men This comment was strictly about how men should go for escorts overwhelmingly as women in hookups would infact …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:48 PM
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Probably? Just like how women say about a lot of things about how women are "conditioned" by the society till 1900s to explain what women do nowadays But in reality though, women receive far higher share of awareness programs for everything including mental health, the help women can get , etc as well And a lot of different things like the stigma around it , how men are supposed to be breadwinners by the society and women don't like men who aren't like that vastly, hence many men refuse to take …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:39 PM
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Women are open to go for escorts in hookups then , everyone does the same in hookups In relationships men wants to be desired like they desire women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:31 PM
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Ofcourse they do Like men have women in their family and daughters
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:13 PM
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Im gonna just answet to your first question. Paying for sex doesnt help, because, contraru to what some women hare are parroting, men dont simple care about getting their dick wet...men want to be DESIRED... While it's true that men certainly wants thenselves to be desired, loved , etc The desperation is highly dueled by not being able to get sex, you're rarely gonna find a woman who's gonna care for you and be loyal with you till eternity in this day and age , so an escort is the best bet to ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 06:00 PM
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you may be vastly underplaying their desire to be seen as attractive...and also underplaying their desire to be loved and seen in an intimate and loving capacity Agree with this one , most men want romantic connection far more than men statistically I also imagine you're greatly underestimating the difference in sex with someone who actually wants you and someone who is punching a clock (best case scenario) Lol, Women don't genuinely desire you as well in hookups, etc , if you're extremely attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:36 PM
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Sure, if you just want to get laid, paying for it is sometimes the easiest way to do that, but an escort isn’t going to genuinely desire you, care for you, grow old with you, etc etc etc Women don't genuinely desire you as well in hookups, etc , if you're extremely attractive and rich then it's your body and money they're desiring, none of them care for you or wanna grow old with you An escort is going to be the best bet for the best sex infact if that's what you're looking for , i can get casua…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:32 PM
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I'm loving the flair battles "Feminist + leftist" Vs "Feminism is terrorism" Lol Though statistically, it's the asshole men who's going to get more casual sex , although personality rarely plays a role since physical attraction and money far outshine them for women especially for casual sex and casual relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:28 PM
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That's actually false that society wasn't intended to operate in a certain way . It's literally about women's standards completely although men are now realising it and changing now, avoiding women at way higher rates, 60% of young men are not approaching women, vast majority are avoiding one on one interactions with women at work, many more things
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:25 PM
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when did i say that men don't recieve any welfare , you asked how many women recieve it and i answered If it's a comparison between men and women then women not only recieve higher welfare than men , the gap is way higher Program Women Men Public Health Insurance (Medicaid) 73% of poor women 58% of poor men SNAP/Food Stamps 49% of poor women 34% of poor men Cash Assistance (TANF) 5.7% of poor women 1.2% of poor men Housing Assistance (HUD) 74% of assisted households 26% of assisted households Be…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:22 PM
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Reported btw *
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:15 PM
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is desiring validation just thirst for a vain and meaningless ego boost or is it fundamentally human? we celebrate birthdays, graduations, marriages, and conversely, we mourn deaths. being noticed and considered important enough to be missed matter to us While it's true that men wants to be desired a lot and that's actually human to say, but that's controllable, you can't absolutely control your thirst for validation and being desired just like most other desires It's true that men need and want…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:14 PM
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As you wish, i don't even wanna debate about it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:05 PM
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The vast majority of them receive welfare in some way or other atleast since childhood
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:05 PM
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the egg is more valuable than sperm Not only that's false , that's actually nothing which proves anything There is literally no study nothing which proved anything like that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:04 PM
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So your news say average men can attract women easily right?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 05:02 PM
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Lol when i was desperate i thought i should do the same , my friend gave me a step by step plan how to do it . And if anything I can be even more manipulative than him if I'd want to (i can say I'm intelligent, atleast more than him both socially and educationally) but yeah I never really tried it , was too soft to do that, and didn't get any point in having a relationship by manipulation, didn't feel like I'd get the love and other emotions i want
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:03 PM
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Oh ny every means Education system biased for them (multiple studies proved it , wanna see?) Social, Political and legal system biased for them , they can destroy the life of almost any man they'd want by every means with negligible consequences in most cases Almost all of the funding for targeted welfare in healthcare is for them Job market having diversity hirings and many other things is biased for them Media biased for them From National to international levels like UN , only women's commiss…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 03:00 PM
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Umm nah not gonna spoonfeed , just for the record , this was what i said , let's see till when you'd get it the current system is far more to do with matriarchy even though that's not completely true too , currently it's top people's dominance over others with women's dominance over men .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:36 PM
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Again expected that you'd not be able to even read what i said
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:10 PM
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Yeah i expected that I'd get a similar reply
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 02:05 PM
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That system is still active and has been active forever Exactly!! Now you get it Someone has to be on the top and then you have a hierarchy of people below and below that and below that and so on. No equality is possible as long as we buy into a system of hierarchy. Men just keep it alive in the hope they will get on top of the hierarchy. "Men just keep it alive" Nobody keeps it alive, or probably everybody keeps it alive, i don't really get whatever you meant by that and what was your basis But…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:57 PM
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How is that lol ? That's not patriarchy at all , that's not the definition of patriarchy at all , the system back in 60s was surely about dominance of whoever is at the top (not patriarchy btw), common men didn't have shit power or priviliges, right now it's dominance of whoever at the top with dominance of women over men .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:37 AM
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Lol so if we're going by that, so is feminism ? Everytime you guys play from both the sides , blame bullying of men on patriarchy which's by definition is supposed to give power and priviliges to men , but then feminists doing shit becomes "pseudo" because hey that's not following the definition right? .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:35 AM
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Not making sense at all, what is patriarch according to you , explain that first and then make it make sense Patriarchy definition after just a google search- a system that gives power and control to men rather than women Your turn?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:30 AM
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While talking about op's post, a lot of things are wrong for example women doesn't depend on men economically but even in Switzerland or Scandinavian countries women overwhelmingly for richer guys especially for long term irrespective of looks and this hasn't changed significantly at all in the recent time Some Bullied men going on to find confidence (one example is me muself but i got a glow up and growth spurt at 20 so not much relatable to all) doesn't change the trend, men with a history of …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:24 AM
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And it's always funny how somehow we blame everything on patriarchy lol Like patriarchy by definition is supposed to give priviliges to men but bullying men also comes under this lol Oh btw, feminism still means the fight for equality, i mean that's the definition right Talking about op's post, a lot of things are wrong for example women doesn't depend on men economically but even in Switzerland or Scandinavian countries women overwhelmingly for richer guys especially for long term irrespective …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:17 AM
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Lol no no war but class war. I definitely support this It was always about innocent vs criminals and that's what i talk about all the time But don't blame me about reciprocating the hate and gender based targeting whose effects ARE there and way more just being significant
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:06 AM
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Well not necessarily, there isn't any threshold, it's like a bell curve whose peak is about 6-6'1 , probably it'd be 6'1-6'2 right now as the study done was over a decade ago and women's standards risen quite fast But in any case , height is one of the multiple factors women are attracted to (some part of what op said is right ) , a 5'6 guy sure is below average in height but it's still recoverable when he's rich, attractive, etc. those married men would be the same as well if we're talking abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 10:01 AM
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when someone says she was afraid of whatever situation shes in, very very very few of those fear all men all the time. So men can say they hate women or women are gold diggers , etc right? Because very very very few say about all women right? That's not how it works , oh we can't because only women are allowed to say they hate men or they are afraid of men ,etc right? What do you think is more common btw? Men now being afraid to approach and infact even afraid of interacting with women one on on…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 09:47 AM
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I mean if it's going like that then if I'm a woman, socially, legally, etc far stronger , one lie from my side can destroy the whole life of almost any man I'd want and negligible consequences in most cases, can get laid with almost any man I'd want , would've far less mental problems to deal with, isn't expected to initiate everything in the relationship and do all the efforts , would've the whole legal and political system stacked with me , and way many things . I'd definitely not care one bit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 08:25 AM
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Where is this coming from lol? What's your basis ? Like just certified ragebait fr, Like okay, so somehow there are not enough 18 years old for all the men that's why men settle , but also almost the entire population of women in even 30s have no problems in finding dates whenever they want but most men don't get shit And still it's easy for men but not for women Wtf is this reasoning fr !?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 04:33 PM
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So in disagreeing you feel that after your marriage that fun, spontaneity, and mutual beneficence are ENTIRELY gone from your relationship? That seems unfortunate. Umm nope, i know most have even more unfortunate than this But in any case, YES, there would be certain time periods where you'll not have ANY FUN in relationships and after marriage as well and these time periods will happen sometimes, there would be certain time periods where you'll not have even that much spontaneity as well after …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:40 AM
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Umm i personally will disagree with you especially after marriage They won’t always be that way, that’s just life. This is the actual part The reason of 40% divorce rates after marriage, people take time and so much thinking to marry and then leave the moment the relationship suffers. Like 40% people somehow choose wrong people to literally marry, we aren't talking about break ups and all, literally marriage. There are lows in all the relationships, my relationships suffered lows as well, where …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 02:03 AM
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Whatever you said isn't backed by data at all . Women prefer exciting and interesting things like bad boys , etc for short term relationships not people with interesting career choices for either short term or long term relationships. If we talk about that swiss study particularly then the major things which gave signals to women that the man is higher earning is it's clothing and accessories, the higher earner is mostly in expensive suits , expensive watches , etc which gave women cues that he'…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:36 AM
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Lol, it's actually reverse, women don't "end up" with higher paid men, women's "preferences" are higher paid men, it's not a comprehensive breakdown of the whole country's married couples in Switzerland or Scandinavia, these are the studies where women's preferences are recorded and it's found out women are inherently hypergamous which explains some parts of why men "Have to" earn more
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:02 AM
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As a submissive guy who's pretty dominating in real life lol (before anyone starts calling me that I'm not a man because i somehow don't just mindlessly fuck my partner) , well I'd rather let her use my body than me using her body lol , but yeah in any case sex is an intimate act which is supposed to give pleasure to both the partners involved
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 06:47 PM
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Swipe apps are all about attractiveness and don't give you much else to work with Well it gives like hinge but women don't like to read that much or give efforts to understand much from the prompts , etc . So they just go with the attraction anyways probably why the ratio of men to women is so terrible. In US , it's 60-40 , and it's mostly because of how easy it is for women to get laid or get male attention which although indirectly proves you right lol cause' dating apps are mostly about physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:52 PM
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Lol you and the other guy I'm replying to are saying completely opposite things He's saying don't approach a woman just because you find her hot and you're saying just approach when you find her attractive enough lol Im any case, I'd actually go for the serious way ,like most men, we don't want just hookups and sleep around like those playboys so we'd actually approach when we have some connection. Especially considering how much the media has convinced young men to never approach women and the …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:46 PM
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You said - No, I’m saying the male body itself isn’t the central appeal as it is for men regarding women’s bodies. But that's false when it is for men's appeal in sexual attraction i.e. hookups and short term relationships for women , and even more central than men considering women's preferences In long term relationships women go for financial resources the most statistically across the world including US, switzerland and Scandinavian countries
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:43 PM
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Well even you're wrong as well statistically , but i just wanted you to say it explicitly that you disagree with op's point Now my point As expected, men were more likely than women to prioritize physical attractiveness in a long-term partner. But importantly, the researchers found that much of this sex difference could be explained by differences in sexual desire. Men reported higher levels of sexual desire than women on average, and those with stronger sexual desire—regardless of gender—tended…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 05:17 PM
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Umm you know his point is women Don't get even attracted to men's bodies much, like that is completely optional and they're infact asexual with a preference of male's body That's exactly what he's written in other comments, you agree with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:54 PM
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Umm you know his point is womdn Don't get even attracted to men's bodies much, like that is completely optional and they're infact asexual with a preference of male's body That's exactly what he's written in other comments
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:54 PM
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Using the dates of the studies, lol. Most millenials were barely adults in 2012 and Gen Z were all children Your maths isn't matching here , millenials are born between 1981 and 1996, even someone on 1990 would be 22 years old in 2012 . And that's not the actual study I meant too as it was a swiss study This is just the abstract. Where is the actual study they're referencing? How did the women know the mens financial status by just walking down the street? Again, an abstract. Where is the actual…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 04:23 PM
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No lol It was literally Let's start A Swiss study literally tested this by having men of different income levels ask women for their phone number higher financial resources directly increased compliance, independent of look. It's of 2012 . https://econtent.hogrefe.com/doi/abs/10.1024/1421-0185/a000083?journalCode=sjp This is the latest one of 2019 https://cepr.org/publications/dp13606 Where are you finding "only boomers" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:29 PM
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exactly And I'm a pleasure sub as well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:15 PM
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I mean yeah it's definitely a reward or something for subs if you're into that dynamics, but you can't solely keep it as a reward like you don't want it and still giving it to him .
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 03:01 PM
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While i disagree with op You'll be quiet surprised once you look at actual stats Women in even Scandinavian countries heavily go for richer man for marriage and the numbers Haven't changed much significantly in the past decade While women who go for short term relationships mostly young women sure go for the men with dark triad traits more i.e narcissists, psychotic and manipulative as it makes them feel excited. And these traits are independently attraction to them not because of confidence or …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:27 PM
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Fr, i know op as we've engaged before, we had a bit of agreements too, but this take is insane, creepy and stupid asf. Like I can't even turn on that well if my partner doesn't feel pleasure in sex (submissive male for a reason lol) , let alone a reward where I'm supposed to use her body or something?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/26 01:23 PM
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All of that is bullshit, divorced from reality. 🤷‍♀️ Totally expected such a response. I literally quoted studies, but who cares because Miss "Women Were Too Nice" apparently gets her facts from vibes and a gut feeling , far more reliable than peer-reviewed research, obviously. Also f off. Who are you to tell me what to do? I think you like being treated badly, you certainly are annoying. Now, this conversation is over. If I see you in my inbox anymore you're getting reported, since the sub won'…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 05:46 PM
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Lol Although it's like 2015-2016 a decade ago so dating apps were already so popular even back then, me too was on its peak, men were told all over media to not approach at its peak, etc I'm not surprised that they started doing it back then as it's the exact time these things even started . That's why we see a huge gap between how previous generation men used to approach women vs how the newer generation one.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:18 AM
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Umm yeah I'm repeating the same one, why do you think i mentioned dating apps now Also it's a comprehensive data of women's perceived attraction between 2009-14 ( a decade ago sure but women's standards and perceived attraction standards only went higher from there anyways). It wasn't even about swiping rates , it was just about who they find even reasonably attractive, the okcupid directly asked this . Like This wasn't a random sample , these were men who had already curated their best profile …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 06:16 AM
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Lol , peak ragebait
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/26 03:24 AM
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There are no studies on how nice people are Remember this- you didn't say shit about how women and girls being anywhere near nice to men at all despite the fact that it's actually men who do by far the most efforts in dating and courtship, women don't do anything, men initate everything, plan everything, learn different skills to attract women , etc "Less socially calibrated" is a nice way to say "creep/psycho". Oh like the majority of men especially younger ones? Cause' the majority of younger …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:00 PM
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Lol, i don't base my opinions based on personal experience otherwise I'd have considered this world a far better place than it is right now. And the blame game is insane lol, I'm literally saying things based on studies and source, meanwhile you - "maybe you're just so off putting otherwise girls are angels" ,lol amazing. Again, I'm not like op , you don't want to be to nice to men? if you are representative of women and saying from the side of all women that they'd not be nice to women? Do it .…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:49 PM
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What survey are we talking about here ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 01:01 PM
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Well don't make this a gotcha moment as op suggested , it's better if we don't do that In any case, if you'd read the options carefully, first one is just about sex , i.e. the romantic relationship with the hottest partner wouldn't be there as well, and 2nd one is about a sexless marriage where you'd have a pleasant relationship I didn't mention what people would think because that's outside noise for me so i didn't care If you ask me what I'd choose among these options, I'd go for the option A …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 11:19 AM
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Collectivist narratives are often bullshit, though. I mean for sure because in real life a lot of things are context dependent and all people aren't the same at all . But again , as i said , i was talking about why young men stopped approaching. It's not entirely about the media but for sure one of the important reasons , women and feminists said men, please stop approaching women now , just completely , they called men are creeps , men are r@pists, etc etc, it's shown all over media and promote…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:13 AM
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Lol, this meme made me chuckle bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:43 AM
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In fact, my interactions with single women as a married guy who can get the unfiltered truth about things since I no longer have a horse in the race. Being reasonably attractive (or at least, not unattractive), socially competent, and able to communicate directly and playfully is more than enough to go on dates with attractive women in 2026. I don't really think women are sharing "unfiltered truth" to you rather than just gaining sympathy from you saying how shit these men are and how low their …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 08:41 AM
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Oops sorry. Most are decent men, we care , most feel guilt, empathy, etc and most are not gonna change themselves for this only, it they find a good partner who likes them this way then it's fine otherwise they are now fine not approaching women now as much as they wholeheartedly desire a romantic relationship far more than women , they'd rather remain single doing better in career, friendship, etc now
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:16 AM
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Oh say whatever you want or teach whatever you want, I'm not op, i am not going to stop or ask women to ease on men, I'd say be even harsher, let all the men realise what kind of women are in this generation and what do they think about men because many men still live in this delusion that it's different. But yeah again, I've given stats with sources, my point is strictly that you can be harsh or non empathetic or cruel to men, that's your choice but don't start defending it as somehow you have …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 05:12 AM
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The fact that anything you say after "the fact that" and end with "is wild" doesn't automatically means it's actually wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:54 AM
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Bro that's not how it works , those are casual approaches done in clubs , bars , etc and those are mostly done by men who have already slept with women because they've seen how women are attracted to them . Those who approach seriously especially initially, even one rejection destroys their self esteem, and believe it or not most do it seriously. Now combine it with the risk of approaching nowadays , and boom , you get the point
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:29 AM
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You can’t expect to get women if you’re fat, at any weight, really. Exactly lol That was the point, op was saying you can, no you can't I agree with that most men or just young men are objectively more attractive than they think they are or the society behave they are, they should have far more confidence, but that's false that young women would be even remotely themselves on even a 5'10 man with a decent jawline , above average money and 17% body fat. So young men should be just confident in th…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 04:14 AM
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This is exactly what i think as a straight men as well lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 12:08 PM
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But women did give a f**k., tried to guilt tripped men , it worked, though not for perverts
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:42 AM
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It's false that those who got rejected most often are the ones dating , those who get rejected often have infact even lower self esteem than the ones who never even approached . Now I'm strictly talking about the point you're trying to make , not caring about others opinions on your work or yourself or your performance surely is easy as you can easily have the confidence to that if you'd have worked hard on it , but that has no relations with dating because others have a say far more in it , eve…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:38 AM
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Definitely, you caught the point I actually engaged with him before as well, he said he's married for quite some time , i assume he's in the 30s. Things have changed a lot since then
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:26 AM
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Well what you're saying is partially good for the real life implementation, this is what should happen in a real world . Like even if all the woman in the media says things like that and 80% are like that, you don't need that, you just need to find that one woman in your life who'd not be like that . Although you can't blame young men for increasingly not doing this anything at all because in most of cases, yes , you have to convince a tribunal of women to date one because of innumerous reasons,…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 11:09 AM
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Those papers are analyzing data that is, in some cases, 50 years old. You are aware that much of research actually doesn't collect new data, right? It simply looks at old data and attempts to synthesize it to evaluate a different premise than the researchers who originally collected it, or to comparatively include data from multiple datasets to consider a different facet of a tangentially related premise, right?Because the underlying data, largely from the Baby Boom generation, including in the …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 10:14 AM
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Approaching is fine, if you get rejected which is 99.9% of the time polite af then walk away. Very few women are horrible in rejecting a guy because it’s dangerous, men are fucking awful when it comes to rejecting women, a girl approaches them they don’t like they are often rude, then they tell all their mates about it and how she’s an easy lay, so everyone hits on her to get laid, some are manipulative, and sometimes that works but always, she is a “slut” so often saying yes to a man is as bad …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 08:09 AM
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Ohkay so basically, men , if you want to approach a woman , you have to put efforts in learning things tougher than qualifying for ivy league . And even then it depends a lot on luck that what mood she is in and how she'd take it , whether she'd just destroy your whole reputation then and there calling you a creep or making fun of you there or making fun of you in their friend circle, etc . None of which you have to care about if you're gonna approach men for basic talks as well . No wonder men …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:32 AM
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Not caring what others think of them is good for sure in places where others are not influencing their results that much. Others might call you bad at engineering, or bad at your work, but you shouldn't care about it at all if you're confident enough that you're good at it , that's how men who take risks or go for promotions they're not "considered to" be qualified of by others many times get that because they deliver performance which is measured. That's not how it works in dating, your results…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 07:26 AM
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Well since there's no hard data we're just having a guessing game. It's not water is wet moment. I'm in my early 20s and I'm one of those guys as well who is atleast more attractive than average (especially in my south asian country where 6'+ height with jawline and muscles is like statistically top 1% part of the country although here women in metro cities somehow asks for similar standards like 6'+ as bare minimum like western countries lol while generally being 4 inches shorter than average w…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:26 AM
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I mean you started this rating thing like people in dating apps being less attractive, etc If it's irrelevant, i mean if anyone can like anyone then I think in real life has a bit of a mix of average and hot people but online dating skews unattractive. This can't happen , both would become contradicting to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 06:13 AM
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Oh sure
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:26 AM
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The majority of the data used in the studies you are citing is ancient because it studies Boomers My data is comprising evrything, the 2023 paper in Norway is talking about economic hypergamy right now The 2016 paper of heavy attraction of dark triad traits of young women actually while older women actually were less attracted to it Just because a paper was released in 2023 does not make it relevant or contextual today.. Why? Because it changed completely in 3 years or something? What are you ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 03:26 AM
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Fr
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/26 02:07 AM
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Money has made exactly 0 vaginas wet and aroused in human history. Most women aren't gold diggers. The mistake socially inexperienced men make is assuming that every man doing interesting things who's attractive is "rich." The only thing that's changed with the older generations and today is that performative bullshit like courtship doesn't work anymore, and women won't be tempted to marry men they're not attracted to for "resources" because they can earn their own. Well I've got news for you A …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:12 PM
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Well then, my point is clear here
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:09 PM
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Men don't really have a lot of varieties and neither us common men prefer to try a lot of those trendy ones Different types of t shirts paired with jeans or trousers Different types of shirts paired with pants or trousers or jeans Some suit or kurta for festivals or parties That's pretty much it. I don't like baggy clothes and others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:12 PM
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Although agree with a lot of things here, what is fashion sense anyways? People follow cringe trends and call it current fashion. I'm an old school guy despite being a gen z , i don't like the current fashion trends , i just like to wear what looks good on me according to me , but since it doesn't matches with the current trend so it'd make me having lack of personality or consistency or effort or thoughtfulness lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:51 PM
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Objectively there are as many men below 5 as women. Subjectively it's different because of the huge differences in men and women's preferences, a 5 man dating a 6 women is considered a catch lol . We don't see below 5 men with attractive men with women all the time lol, most are just friends , siblings, coworkers, etc which strangers assume as they being in a relationship; many of these men are highly rich which is by far the most soughted trait or a man by women who're looking for a long term r…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:48 PM
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Well the ratio is 60:40 so there's not much of a difference And if we're considering that attractive people matches irl, the situation irl isn't that much different especially in this era from dating apps , women's standards are sky high anyways so this would be like above Average attractive women and extremely attractive men who'd be easily getting relationships irl Now even after all of this , if the standards of such women are so high, you can easily guess what actually attractive women's sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:42 PM
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that's not how it works lol, it's like saying women can 100% choose not to go at bad places alone, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:28 PM
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Men being willing to bend over backwards for her isn't really attractive behavior for most women. >That's the domain of simps, and most women don't actually like simps. Most women realize that these efforts are performative and unsustainable, or those efforts are so all-defining for the man that she has no idea who he is beyond the favors and performative bullshit, so that prevents any kind of real connection. Some inexperienced women will be wowed by it temporarily, but that usually has a shelf…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 06:36 AM
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While i definitely have a lot of things to say here, I'd prefer if you read my comment again, i edited and added a word "their"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:20 AM
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I think it's about looks, resources, status, height , etc all of them But mainly it's just a statistical number, the classification is solely based on likes and messages they got .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 05:09 AM
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First of all But again, congrats on “sozualizing” tremendously!!! You sound like Trump. All you’re missing is no one knows about “sozualizing” as much as I do. 😭 I don't know man, I'm a human , and i make human errors while typing with the Android keyboard , I'm sorry us humans are not as perfect as you (lol) but yeah we certainly sometimes mistakenly type two wrong alphabets among millions of alphabets we write everyday and didn't notice . The majority of men don’t have issues talking to women.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:50 AM
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Oh yeah i agree with your whole comment Honestly, i never formed my opinions on anyone from social media anyways . I usually come here for some satisfaction of personal feelings as well, and I'm not a red pill guy so I'd say it out loud that i love women and i need women in my life quite a lot , especially someone close to me , there's a reason why i write submissive male and all of these in my flair lol .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 04:29 AM
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Umm who said that it's about cold approaches only? Men are talking and communicating to other men at higher rates than previous generations so it can't be social skills problem for men The sequence didn't change , Men were complaining about women's standards much before than they stopped approaching, now when all the media , everything said to men that stop disturbing women or women don't want to approach men or women hate men or things like that, after that men's own experiences as well as wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:54 AM
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Oh so you think men aren't doing that nowadays? Which hobby groups are we talking about here? The vast majority of groups, events , etc are dominated by men and have always been I don't really think that's true for most cases , your case might be the one off exception
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:49 AM
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Umm which rankings? I mean just the recent elections showed that how many women are conservative
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:47 AM
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Well that's actually false lol, men call out each other far more often than women on anything they disagree with, although the problem is men can't do that to women or be men to women irl even remotely as men can do with other men. In any case, just because your or others' views doesn't match with conservative's views wouldn't mean that you can be spiteful of that, which was exactly that guy saying.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:39 AM
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A lot. If those men were socially visible and interesting. If the man sat on the sidelines and didn't do anything, it would be much more rare. Woah, that's quite different experience of most people here Makes me curious now, what was the criteria of being considered "socially visible" and "interesting" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:31 AM
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The majority of men aren’t losers, no matter how much the red pill tries to project that so it can continue to keep men trapped inside of it. The majority of red pilled men are. So don’t fucking put words in my mouth Okay, the majority of men aren't loosers , i got you I also don’t give a fuck about whatever shit men do with themselves. But to answer your questions, yes to all. If you can’t talk to women for any of these dumbass reasons you listed it’s because you’re a loser who spends way too m…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:19 AM
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In your decades of life experiences, how many women did you find initiating conversations with men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:10 AM
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That's not exactly how it works lol, the stopping to approachbpart came much later after complaining about women's preferences started. Now it's simple risk analysis, you're gonna be rejected even if you approach and then high risk of social and legal consequences, so no need to approach at all .
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 02:09 AM
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Well First, i don't use grok because I don't have it's premium and it does not have that much of a unique use for me anyways , i use claude premium mostly since I'm an engineering major and it's the best for coding as well as chat gpt premium for other everyday tasks . Claude is more objective than chat gpt but yeah both are far more women biased because that's how the mainstream media is so ai chat bots are trained based on that, when i debate with them from a different pov then they give other…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:47 PM
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It’s a nice way to say loser as well. Like the majority of men ? I mean women and some men like you tag majority of men as "loosers" anyways although just don't explicitly say that . Like those men especially young men who avoid women because of the fear of rejection, social and legal consequences are loosers right ? Those men who prefer to not interact much with women because of the fear of being called creepy are loosers right ? The men at work avoiding one to one conversation with women compl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:30 PM
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Oh nobody is telling you to feel anything related to men, everyone know women especially like you aren't capable of that anyways otherwise we'd have seen as many women fighting for men's problems as men fighting for women's problems but that's not the point. The point is pretty simple lol, you said women are somehow "too nice" to men already so they should not ease away to "less socially calibrated" men which you called creeps btw. I'm not op at all, I'm not gonna expect women to do shit for men…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:22 PM
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Great decision bro , like he just came out firing at you that how dare you said anything against the mainstream narrative lol
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:12 PM
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Women should never ease up on men ever. Women and girls are already too nice to men and it gets them in trouble Well he gave reasons for why he thinks women should ease up, you didn't say shit about how women and girls being anywhere near nice to men at all despite the fact that it's actually men who do by far the most efforts in dating and courtship, women don't do anything, men initate everything, plan everything, learn different skills to attract women , etc "Less socially calibrated" is a ni…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:10 PM
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+1 to this guy And bro, actually, that's happening, younger generations aren't approaching women anymore , many studies are proving that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:05 PM
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Hey op, well first of all i had a simple question for you, you never actually explained your title ? "It's been never easier to date for men who knows how to talk to women" Now , although again i don't align with a lot of things both red pill or blue pill says , it's actually true that if you're rich or good looking or any combination of that then you just need basic talking like how you interact with a normal human not those mind reader abilities or manipulative skills or flirting skills or any…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:02 PM
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Yeah similar to what you said as well, none of them are problematic
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:54 PM
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Yeah i agree Another skill which average guys can learn to increase their chances of dating with women Me? I know a bit of it and do it for women I'm interested in short term relationships or hookups (though I'm actually not much interested in it) . Most women don't know anything about any such skills and are mostly focused on just their looks since there are many men , so many desperate ones infact who'd bend over backwards for them for short term relationships, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:52 PM
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Lol That's why i call myself purple pill I'm neither those red pill guys who think women's attractions solely depends on physical traits or how much money men make as well as all women would leave the second they find better men And I'm not one of those blue pilled guys who think you'd be c+ in looks with average socio-economic background and you'd get into relationships with women easily especially with highly popular or high status women . I try to be objective most the times , and all this in…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 07:34 PM
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Are you serious!? Her whole "reasoning" is wrong, she's proving a poll is wrong where the surveyors are essentially lying with the basis being random twitter posts I claimed something with proper reasoning, i just didn't give the sources because i didn't feel it's needed as i thought it's well accepted , since you asked , as you wish Pew Research Center's 2024 nationally representative survey of U.S. adults aged 18–34 found a clear gap in stated desire: 57% of young men without children say they…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 03:01 PM
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Although it's not about me , you do realise women aren't like just waiting in wild for average men to come and date them lol , as well as what percentage of such women exists there anyways. Edit - You can read my other reply as well
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:40 PM
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Although it's not about me , you do realise women aren't like just waiting in wild for average men to come and date them lol , as well as what percentage of such women exists there anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:40 PM
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Men don't even have remotely that much options or power to choose, that's exactly what i meant , i don't know whether i have to explain even this but whatever the og comment has claimed happening to him isn't even remotely true for the vast men at all especially in this generation. Someone c+ in looks isn't chosen at all by young women, and then add being an average guy not someone from a wealthy family; women in late 20s though have less preferences for looks for sure but then another earning f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 02:34 PM
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Seriously!? So all you have is random twitter posts and their comment sections to prove that men somehow are lying in the polls !? Infact statistically it's much more proven that it's women who have a stark difference between what they state and what they do or respond to , either it's in preferences of dating i.e. choosing what kind of personality traits they find the most attractive, what do they find the most attractive between personality traits or physical traits; or their preferences of mo…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:01 PM
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Well such scenarios aren't that far from reality The datepsych study said More than Majority of men of young generations aren't approaching anymore in US , the reasons given by them are fear of rejection, social and legal consequences Many surveys and studies said that majority of male managers are avoiding interacting with women one on one especially alone Majority of men said the fear of being called creepy makes them avoid women. Although men are talking and communicating to other men more th…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 09:11 AM
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that's not how it works lol, it's like saying women can 100% choose not to go at bad places alone, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 08:07 AM
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"if" men can choose that is
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 12:15 AM
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Empirical data, dating apps stats and real life support this. When women say they want to be approached, the real meaning is approached by men they consider worthy. No i meant there's no source that those 46% of guys consist of only "non worthy" guys lol Let's be real – one of the biggest unsaid motivations for me too was planting the seed of fear into unattractive men when approaching. I don't want to downplay bad behaviour by man that was considered standard for decades and even less cases of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:13 PM
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Empirical data, dating apps stats and real life support this. When women say they want to be approached, the real meaning is approached by men they consider worthy. No i meant there's no source that those 46% of guys consist of only "non worthy" guys lol Let's be real – one of the biggest unsaid motivations for me too was planting the seed of fear into unattractive men when approaching. I don't want to downplay bad behaviour by man that was considered standard for decades and even less cases of …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:12 PM
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It’s not biased, it’s not designed for girls it’s still the patriarchal model it always was Tf , I've literally shown studies and facts lol, Otherwise I'm elon musk ? Like give logics or counter arguments, you can't just say "you're wrong without anything to back it up" of course women are more likely to date men with higher incomes.. that is part of the gender pay gap Tf there's no gender pay gap, if anything it's actually reversed considering loads of diversity hirings , extreme welfare progra…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:56 PM
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Aa what!?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:07 PM
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First of all , the statistics you're considering is false that's not how it works It's proven in every studies , what women say initially and what women do or respond to later are completely different It's the same in personality traits for dating, it's the same for what they prefer in personality traits vs physical traits and it's the same in child bearing as well Now , coming to this point , pew research centre study said - 57% of young men without children say they want kids someday 45% of yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:03 AM
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Although The 77 % of women want to be approached more but not by men from that 46 % group. So There's nothing which supports it but i get where you're coming from Men avoiding women might be more common but it does not change the fact that a massive majority of those who claim to be happy about it and enjoying it are totally lying. So i definitely agree with it Both men and women wants to form a relationship with their ideal partners , although the standards for the ideal are completely differen…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:59 AM
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Nope, that's false , see my other comment to the woman
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:56 AM
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that's not how it works lol It's proven in every studies , what women say initially and what women do or respond to later are completely different It's the same in personality traits for dating, it's the same for what they prefer in personality traits vs physical traits and it's the same in child bearing as well Now , coming to this point , 57% of young men without children say they want kids someday 45% of young women without children say the same On marriage, there is essentially no gender gap…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:56 AM
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Well probe the misinformation, start from wherever you like
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:49 AM
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Umm then prove that the science is pseudo, if you can't then i don't think there's any need to say anything at all Same to you
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:29 AM
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But... that doesn't matter? Like, you can have complaints about the education system and whether they are biased or whatever. That's irrelevant to the point that women are outpacing men in terms of the educational outcomes they are receiving. More of them have college degrees, master's degrees, doctorates And more single women are buying homes than single men. Umm did you even read my comment ? Yeah so , education system is biased , women are given more scores despite the fact the education syst…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:23 AM
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As i already mentioned in another comment of mine Women are statistically outpacing men in lots of metrics, including home ownership and college degrees The statistics are far too oversimplified because of this biased system for women Even in Scandinavian countries, women are extremely hypergamous and the numbers Hasn't changed much in the last decade too There are multiple studies done in Scandinavian countries for example norway as well, women overwhelmingly choose better resources than any ot…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:13 AM
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Women are statistically outpacing men in lots of metrics, including home ownership and college degrees The statistics are far too oversimplified because of this biased system for women There have been LOTS of studies showing how teachers are biased against boys and give them lower grades than girls for the same quality work. Plus, there are more female-only scholarships and assistance programs than male-only scholarships and assistance programs. https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/09645…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 12:13 AM
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For real lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:20 PM
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Well its not a research just random theories which say women "may" need more sleep They are saying women suffers more mental health issues so maybe Although statistically it's false , men suffer far more mental issues and way more than most of it is unreported because there's very little spending on men's health especially mental one and spreading awareness about it as well so much so men don't even notice most of it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 04:09 PM
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Ah I see I do think overall that point is valid that plenty of men especially in countries like the US and UK do a large share of chores and childcare that their fathers never did but they also work longer hours than women too. I agree There are still some husbands that are terrible absent fathers or bums who dont help around the house and dont even work in extreme cases. But thats not a trend or anything to do with RP its just some men. I definitely agree
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 02:44 PM
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Well i agree with your points lol, both fool each other Although men avoiding women is significantly more common according to studies and that's because of me too and how women post random things as creepy on social media . Like many studies for example date psych study showing how over 46% of young men have never approached a woman in their life (close to twice of previous generation) and the reasons given are fear of rejection, social and legal consequences. While 77% of women aged between 18-…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:57 PM
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So its women taking care of the kids more. Not sure what point you're making? Umm simply that even after spending far more time in work and study with more physical and mental requirements, men also spend around 60-70% of the time of women in housework and childcare as well Both men and women have similar time for their hobbies and other stuffs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:53 PM
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The housework is including everything like childcare or other jobs
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:42 PM
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Umm they do it mostly If we look at the average hours spent of men and women,women often dedicate over 3 hours to housework/childcare, while men typically spend around 1 hour and 40 minutes to 2 hours. Men often have slightly more leisure time, whereas time spent sleeping is generally similar, with minor variations (sometimes 15+ minutes higher for women). While men spending far more time in work and study i.e. generally more physical or mental demanding work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:41 PM
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Umm they do it mostly If we look at the average hours spent of men and women,women often dedicate over 3 hours to housework, while men typically spend around 1 hour and 40 minutes to 2 hours. Men often have slightly more leisure time, whereas time spent sleeping is generally similar, with minor variations (sometimes 15+ minutes higher for women). While men spending far more time in work and study i.e. generally more physical or mental demanding work.11
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:35 PM
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Yeah and also she's talking like it's men who want kids more , like what is the source behind that, it's literally women who want commitment and kids far more than men And honestly, no, we shouldn't prioritise kids , it'd be at the same level as our other family members , including our parents or life partner (i don't really know about the west culture in this particular area, where i come from , both the parents and the life partner are given similar importance although 90% couples don't live i…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:22 PM
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Umm how are men supposed to give opportunities to women to make hobbies btw?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 01:21 PM
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Well i can find the studies but i don't wanna get into it much so just proving it with well established facts Women overwhelmingly go for more financially successful men in long term relationship than any other trait across cultures and countries Married men have significantly higher income than unmarried ones Both really proves that they're already higher earning when women married them
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:46 PM
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you would have universal welfare programs that would apply equally, i do agree you would not see things that specifically benefit women - not nearly to the same extent Yeah exactly And looking historically how things end up, it never ends up in equality, it always ends up in over compensation so .. again, as for the wage gap thing, look it up married men lap everyone else Yeah , and i didn't get the point you're trying to make from this, like married men even before marriage was earning higher ,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 08:04 PM
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Umm really? Well maybe the situation didn't change for that generation yet but it's changing extremely fast for the younger ones The studies for example the date psychology ones is easily saying young men are stopping to approach women at record rates whereas young women are wanting to get approached more than the previous generations , the particular statistics are - Over 46% of young men have never approached a woman (double of previous generation) Over 60% of young men have never approached w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:57 PM
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men would be at least as reliant on those things, trajectory thus far is showing so - due the psychological distress of loneliness that exceeds women's when single and the lack of purpose Yeah , that would be one of the reasons of why men wouldn't let this extremely one sided gender based schemes letting go anymore at all if you look at the gender wage gap, for instance, its entirely a byproduct of married men lapping everyone else. Umm Don't really get the point, although I don really get the w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:52 PM
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Okay, so what do you think is happening more ? Women going 2b ,choosing to stay single more and not wanting to be approached or men stopping to approach women by themselves these days?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:43 PM
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so manosphere gets it wrong in both focus and who will be more miserable - it'll be men, by far, no matter how you slice it I don't really think so for a simple reason Most single women recieve extremely high welfare benefits for their survival and especially single mothers while most men who marry are pretty successful before marriage (well documented hypergamous behaviour of women ) so they remain successful and happy after marriage as well Once there'd be that much disconnect between the gend…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:40 PM
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As someone who's from right wing in his country and supported trump in this election, i don't really think any person who's sane would support trump at all right now. Like biden was physically not that capable because of his old age Trump is mentally unstable fr , the Republicans are so doomed now
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:29 PM
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Oh yes definitely, only blue pill is the real reflection
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:26 PM
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Umm yeah definitely, anyone who gives obvious signals like if a women is giving obvious signals that she has like triple digit body count or stis, well why'd men want such women. But that doesn't happen lol, nobody gives such obvious signals and no one actually is that bad in bed or have stis moving around so much , although yes there are many narcissists men and women actually prefer them the most in any kind of relationship but especially short term ones So it come down to extremely high looks…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 07:24 PM
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Umm not completely getting your point and facing some contradictions Yes. Attraction matters. Ie, if I think a man is unattractive I do not want to have sex So, I can really be horny and desire a man for sex you find traditionally unattractive. Cuz I have had sex with him and know its good In any case maybe it's you specific, for women entirely in case of short term relationships and hookups , looks the matter the most to get to the door, so if you don't have one of the highest looks then it doe…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:36 PM
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Umm both sincerity one and i was proving exactly opposite, that's why i had this question
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:17 PM
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Umm so which one were you thinking about? Like you were the one who claimed that men think like that in this particular discussion and it was based on your particular experience which i talked about there not someone else saying this to you that men think like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:11 PM
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Well it was actually her who was suggesting that https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/HjAMSpstX7 i was trying to prove that men like everything about women but it's not the same for women although it ended with her giving a strawman example for discussion so i didn't answer the last one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:02 PM
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This was the discussion i had with her being a purple pill man which she's using as the base for the post https://www.np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/HjAMSpstX7 In which i was trying to prove that men like everything about women but it's not the same for women although it ended with her giving a strawman example for discussion so i didn't answer the last one
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/26 06:02 PM
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You want to kiss a woman’s boobs. I want to scratch my nails down a man’s chest. You want to get a bj. I want to be eaten out. You want to dig your fingers into her ass. I want to dig my fingers into his shoulders. You want to hear her moan. I want to hear him moan. You want to make her cum. I want to make him cum. Well you didn't have to say all these things , made me horny , like if you ask me personally then I'd want every one of them including eating out , getting scratches on chest , etc lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 03:28 PM
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So you want the women to do the work. Be a tool. To suck your dick so you can cum? How is that different than a woman wanting her man to touch her. Squeeze her. Kiss her? Arouse her? Again, that was just one off example, if anything men would like to kiss and touch women's b""bs especially even more Also kissing and touching are not different at all , but both of us know these are not even the basic things enough to arouse a woman. And it's accepted in this discussion already lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:54 PM
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Congratulation. You need a hole, maybe two. First of all it wasn't about me at all, if you read my comments I was talking about most men A bj isn't something where just a woman open her mouth and men do all the work, is it so tough to get ? And that was just a one off example, infact if you actually ask then men like touching b""bs way more . Okay same question to you Just tell me what're the things someone do which proves that he loves someone's body ? I'd have asked what things women do to sho…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:47 PM
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It's not even about me, did you even read? And same question to you Just tell me what're the things someone do which proves that he loves someone's body ? I'd have asked what things women do to show they love men's body but in this discussion, it's already accepted that women don't love men's body and they mainly love the context and situation, etc (i myself am not sure whether it's actually true for the vast majority of women or not) A bj isn't something where just a woman open her mouth and me…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:45 PM
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No She was saying majority of men can just go ahead and wouldn't care if women can play dead , but also would want to listen that they gave the best sex ( i mean that's also something I'm finding weird , not like it doesn't happen, it just means that high chances most men are unaware of what women want actually , they feel this is what women want ) Your response to that was nah some head is great too. No i just gave that as an example, and that wasn't even just a hole , that means some actions a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 01:19 PM
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Oh i already read this, yet to find the point where it's mentioned what things someone do when he loves female body ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:26 PM
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Just tell me what're the things someone do which proves that he loves someone's body ? I'd have asked what things women do to show they love men's body but in this discussion, it's already accepted that women don't love men's body and they mainly love the context and situation, etc (i myself am not sure whether it's actually true for the vast majority of women or not)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:19 PM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:14 PM
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Her: “men do not have sex like they like the female body, they use it as a fleshlight” You: “nuh uh they like getting their dicks sucked too” Umm yeah? Although that was just one of the various examples men love to do with women Me ? I actually love ... Nah i won't say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:14 PM
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You're generalising men based on your experiences (which i don't have any idea how you got , like did you play dead with any man or what?) I'm just countering you based on basic facts , 99.9999% aren't necrophilic , they are wholeheartedly attracted by women , their bodies and their action , like i don't know what men you met but as much as i know, most men love blow jobs , many even more than penetration. And those who don't like it much, like me then it's simply because it feels demeaning to m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 12:05 PM
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I'd like the source op ? I.e. the research you claimed which says women are more aroused by other women's bodies than men's?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:59 AM
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Well i don't know why you got offended but that's how men "like" female body. On a physical level it doesn't matter if there will be fleshlight with a bit of hips to hold on to. Not all men, but enough. They don't like to touch really, they don't like anything. A woman can play dead for all they care. That's objectively and factually wrong , most men don't have that high standards for women especially when we talk about sexual things like women's standards for men i.e. 7'11 muscular vampire bana…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 11:58 AM
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Likely bc they can easily avoid those issues. They just don't do anything and then they won't have those issues. Yeah simple, that's why they don't approach women and they avoud this completely Similar to how women can avoid most of the other issues as well if they don't do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 08:03 AM
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Read the whole comment again
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/26 02:44 AM
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Oh is it really like this? And then these have the audacity to say misogyny is more rampant and the biggest problem of the world Fun fact over 46% of young men have never approached a young woman in this generation (almost double to that of previous one) for the obvious reason, i.e. fear of rejection, legal and social consequences, but they don't start hating on the other gender , i don't know why .
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:13 AM
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So you're literally justifying that misandry is ok even if 80% of women are doing that whereas just 20% of men have unfavorable view of women but ofcourse misogyny is far more rampant and the biggest problem of the world lol Talking about whatever you claimed And men are cruel to women they think are ugly and to beautiful women who don't want to be with them. Oh, but the problem is unlike women, men don't view over 80% of the other gender's population as ugly at all It almost never happens. Sour…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/26 03:11 AM
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Wait really , like you getting constantly rejected by men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/26 02:49 PM
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You gave no sources. I quoted ncrb there, seriously!? And nona country that still allow to legally rape their wifes will absolutely under report to those rapes. Okay I'm done here, i already said it's illegal, i even quoted the article under which it's illegal, even a f*****g 2 years old would've got that , but if someone don't have the basic ability to read that then there's no point explaining anything and wasting my time here
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 01:15 PM
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Are you guys dumb or what!? Can't you read simple statements !? I've literally said about marital rape there , it's included as abuse under article 498a not rape directly , And also the unreported cases as well, I've given so many stats with proper sources, I'm not even an English native and do i still have to spoonfeed this !? Edit - read again this part- while the unreported rape cases were 70% back in 2006 (ncrb report) , USA literally has over 74% unreported cases back in mid 2010s , women h…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:12 PM
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Marital rape is not consensual sex. Who said that? I'm talking about rape under pretext of marriage law , read again this part Let me tell you what it is , women in india can file a rape case if they got intimate with a man consensually and he refused to marry her later , it'll be considered as rape and the man would be considered as a rapist , and women are filing over 55% of rape cases under this law alone , that alone tells you about what's the situation in india. The marital rape is included…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 12:10 PM
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Nope , i changed the flair to red to comment here, I'll change it again after sometime
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 10:31 AM
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Someone replied to me but then deleted his comment, i wrote a whole ass essay in his reply so I'm pasting it here - Ofc an Indian man defending this lol. My gf is from and lives in Mumbai, and what the poster says is generally true. Ur a man, u don’t feel it, or ur spreading propaganda there is no in between. Get a grip. Are you dumb or what !? Okay then , let's look at the statistics then ,or even unreported cases then ? Just because shitting on india is cool right now and everyone does that do…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:57 AM
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Which part of india are you in ? It's literally not even remotely as worse for women as you're making it here , let's meet if you're actually in india then , it wasn't even as worse in 2010. I f****g lived in the most backward area of india , bihar, infact it's rural areas , then moved the the most developed areas and still travel. Even Statistics and even official reports of unreported cases aren't even remotely as worse. No data support you at all except biased indexes like world happiness ind…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/04/26 08:34 AM
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Oh okay, get it , I'd not do it , i get your point Although like i was active an year ago and i used to discuss that a bit. But I won't from here on, i totally get what can happen
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:27 PM
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Okay I'm deleting all the comments but i still think i was right and I'd continue to post this data with better language
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:19 PM
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Okay I'm deleting all the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:17 PM
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Umm i didn't make any stereotype, i said what i found in the study, I've given the source as well, I'm just kinda quoting that study. Should i not do that?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:06 PM
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They are more reserved and quiet than western women, especially publicly. But that does not mean they are submissive — they just employ different tactics to get their way. They are mercenary and will often use in-laws, family pressure, shame, and nagging to get what they want. That's where the "tiger wife" stereotype comes from, where she controls her husband to achieve her own goals. Oh i definitely agree with this , it's the same or probably even more among south asian women , but that works o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:02 PM
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Oh i believe you bro, but tbh i don't care about it nowadays, i don't insult or anyone at all, i just say the facts and stats with proper sources, if someone feels bad after this then i can't do anything
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 02:02 PM
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Are you talking about those women's preference? They are under the cognitive bias of distant stuff is better than nearby. The same as passport bros. And "First World Country" is better on top of that. It's like a rural person thinking the city is better without living in it. In my last comment which you replied to? No i didn't talk about any preferences there, it was specifically about women from asia already having so much power in relationships that more money would just increase their standar…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:56 PM
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As someone from one the most visited passport bro countries in the world, the quality of men going there is average/plain to ........ good riddance, I guess. I'd not comment on that much because I'm much more knowledgeable about the women in these countries than the passport bros specifically coming here I also find it fascinating that men think women in Southeast Asia do not get high body count, but they do… and it is because they are hoping to land a western man and will have sex with him lol.…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:46 PM
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Where did i do that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:38 PM
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That’s not natural selection tho, natural selection is about something genetic that helps you procreate. Not necessarily , it's more about survival than just procreation.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:26 PM
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It is ofcourse, but not considered as much especially as the differentiating factor between western women and Asian women because they already have so much power in the relationships,it comes down to preferences more Also, edited the previous comment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:25 PM
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And they're younger on an average as well
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:19 PM
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One thing I know for sure is that if those foreign women get same privilege and earning as western women, they never even glance at those passport bros. And i agree with that, but it's not about power , women are hypergamous , it's a basic fact, so if they'd earn as much as white women then they'd prefer higher earning white men the most (cause' they love white men the most) .
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:19 PM
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That's definitely not true at all, you seriously haven't met an actual women from the places these passport bros go , they definitely not have less power in the relationships, they're always gonna have men around them , infact even more than the women in the west have And they're going to be better as well because they didn't grow up in US or the west , extremely different mentality, the place where you grow up has much bigger impact on your mentality and values than gender
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/26 01:06 PM
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I mean I'm not able to see his history because reddit is saying "something is wrong" but your post history isn't too good either
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/25 07:45 AM
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That was just a correlation, it's quite similar
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:36 PM
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First of all , that data is literally of before covid , the game has changed extremely rapidly in the last 10 years. Most of those 26 years old would've had sex already at the age of 20 back then. I'm pretty sure it'd be around 75-80% for 18 years old to be virgins in 2025 and 50% for 25 years old. In 2023 , pew research centre survey reported 63% of men aged 18-30 being single whereas mere 34% of women , it was 25% vs 17% for men and women aged 30-50 The numbers were far better before Now, i al…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 02:14 PM
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Bruh , sex isn't something only one person can enjoy , you're telling like women don't enjoy sex at all ? Women can get sex on their terms as much as they want , that's what my point was Free labour isn't enjoyable at all
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 06:08 AM
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Finding someone attractive =/= liking them. Then wtf is liking them ? Playing fifa with them ? You guys are creating definition from nowhere Plenty of physically super attractive women are jerks and unlikeable as person but a lot of men bear with them, same logic
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:43 AM
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Call it whatever you want 80% women can get sex whenever they want , 80% men can't get sex even after a lot of tries
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/25 05:40 AM
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Wait , really? Can we talk in dm?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 05:28 AM
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Haha , nah, saw someone with similar flair so did it for my flair as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:32 AM
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I'd like to see the data showing males and females separately
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:23 AM
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Men see a hot chick and like, women see a hot guy and look to see his profile is incompatible and don't. Well the 20% rule is just about "physical attraction" , the percentage of men , women swipe right is like just 4% on dating apps
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:21 AM
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In 2015-2017 CDC analysed sexual behaviour in youth and found that by age 20, roughly 78% of males will have had sexual intercourse. This is data from the modern social media era of 2015-2017 as well. False This is the truth- "In 2015–2017, 42% of never-married female teenagers aged 15–19 and 38% of never-married male teenagers had had sexual intercourse; the percentage declined by 17% for male teenagers between 2002 and 2015–2017." And if there'd be another study by US of around mid 2020s , I'm…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/25 04:19 AM
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Is it me or you're seriously active on these type of posts a lot bro like i saw you a lot on an another subreddit about similar thing, i.e. psyche something something
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/25 03:53 AM
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Call me a boy rather , for some reasons I can't be a man according to some cause' i love and am a bit subby to partner, anyways read again the previous comment , about "average man", food , water and shelter there , if you still didn't get it , anything more would be a waste of time
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:47 AM
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Honestly, i don't even want to say anything else from here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:40 AM
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If that was true then you'd have a lot of monks and priests dying of depression from lack of sex, but that's not the case. What a stupid comparison, they're monks, many saints and monks live without shelter with just a piece of cloth in the snow of Himalayas, can an average man even survive for a day there ? Many even live without food and water way way more than average men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/25 03:29 AM
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But the problem is most straight women are NOT looking for an average guy
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:59 AM
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Tho it probably varies from community to community, and for one person’s social skills to the Exactly, this is the point along with physical attraction as well .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/25 03:41 AM
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So what's your ideal flr like?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/25 02:55 AM
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Women in the dating market aren't some dumb 5 year old kids right ? They know that men say this on social media about a vast majority of women , but that's not reality , that's just online. and in fact even if we talk about this , according to the dating app okcupid study, men consider over 50% of women attractive , irl it's going to be even less so it isn't like men have actually 0 standards , it's just we aren't even remotely as picky as women . Women have super high standards and they all go …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 03:06 PM
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I guess where i live there are no women like you. I'm from india , most women are either into light skinned guys or rich guys, And being a submissive, I've left my dream to find a dominant woman here. so it doesn't matter whether I'm 6'0 or visible abs or decent face, the women i find attractive are not gonna like me . Being honest, i find only 30% of women attractive enough that i can approach as well but it's because rest just doesn't dress up and do make up like which attracts me otherwise it…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 03:59 AM
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Wtf, and you're saying it like it's nothing , like come on , just break up with her if you like someone else, why cheat bro , that in my opinion should be literally a crime
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/25 10:07 AM
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Yeah , times has changed a lot especially in the last decade . I really wish I'd have completed my uni before 2010. I don't know what to do from here, sometimes i think i should go on a complete isolation route where I would have nothing to do with relationships, I'd fulfill my emotional needs from friends and family as well as physical ones from internet. But my heart just doesn't listen, it still tells me to have at least some hope and if you can, try to approach girls without fearing conseque…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 04:47 PM
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Do you think we can connect somewhere else too ? Like dc or insta?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:02 PM
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It has changed a lot in a decade , i don't wanna say it out loud but i really wish I'd have completed my college before 2010. Tbh i saw somethings today about relationships , women, etc especially in my country and now i have lost my interest in relationships completely now, so i guess all the time you gave to me was wasted , I guess I'm not going to even think about these now , the internet seems enough to me now . I'd still try to better myself , take proper care of myself and learn the commun…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 06:38 PM
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Well even in cases where they did have at least some control over who to marriage to , they didn't marry for other things at all
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:50 PM
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Yeah that’s rough. This girl was a former coworker but I wouldn’t have asked her out when we had shifts together every week. Dating at school is hard. My approach definitely depends on being able to totally detach from the person if I pour my heart out to them and it doesn’t work. Yeah exactly And the place I'm from , cold approaches aren't so popular, it'd be considered creepy here even in the most liberal places like the national capital At the same time, even if women laugh or make jokes, i t…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 05:40 PM
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Tbh mostly i am scared of what'd happen later. If i confessed to someone i know our interactions would become awkward, not to mention the trend of making fun of the boys who aren't that attractive to girls of my age after they confess is quite popular at my place, etc etc . That's why I'm scared , my social life can be destroyed if i did it to the wrong person
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:50 AM
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I'm literally just 20 and as much as i don't want to believe this, most of the women of my age are more focused on looks whereas my seniors who are 25 and more say to me that at their age , the things that matter the most are money, carrier, etc. My experiences, my friends' experiences, their friends' experiences, etc haven't been contradictory and so kind to me. I don't even have any high standards for looks , a woman without a genetic deformity and who takes care of herself like her hair, her …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 07:47 AM
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I've been reading your comments for some time and .......yeah , I'm crying 😅. You are spreading too much hope here , I have almost given up, hope your son wouldn't end up like me in his late teenage years .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/25 03:55 AM
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That being said, given the responses a lot of men have towards women, particularly on this sub, I might be concerned for them long term I didn't get it What responses, can you explain a bit?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:43 PM
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Maybe that’s true. I’m a very sexual, horny person. If I was better looking and not so mentally ill id probably be running through dozens of women per year Man you want even more, well i can't even imagine these things for me. I'm very horny as well but my hands works great 😅. And I find it hard to sympathize with people who complain about dating but won’t do the same. Yeah i get it . I'm one of those people though, scared heavily from getting hurt. Life is fucking hard, not just when it comes t…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:42 PM
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That being said, given the responses a lot of men have towards women, particularly on this sub, I might be concerned for them long term I didn't get it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:38 PM
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Oh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:25 PM
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Well, it's still 5 years from now, i guess i can hope until then and survive half a decade of loneliness based on that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:25 PM
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Btw how are you typing so fast, you are a real human right , not an ai right ?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:12 PM
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I'm 20 , started my uni, so yeah what i said matters here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:12 PM
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I feel for women below the age of 25 , good looks are more prioritised but money too Status is easily attainable after having money and good looks Ambition and goals are along with money. If you have no money, they don't even matter let alone prioritised.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:11 PM
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No, money does matter , though less than looks, atleast for women of around my age like below 25. After that maybe money matters more. Status doesn't matter, you'll get it if you have money or good looks when you're young
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:09 PM
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Yeah, i guessed that
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:06 PM
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Seriously good looks > Money And there's a height threshold that should be crossed too Then there's great personality required for sustainability of that relationship if she wants it for long term
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 07:05 PM
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If i got who I'm searching for as a partner, I'm willing to do all the efforts it takes . But , yes, i believe a lot of women with their extremely high standards nowadays aren't that good enough
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:49 PM
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Well, if you've got good looks and rich enough , it can be compensated, that's what i guess have been happening with you till now. I've got good height, but that's pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:46 PM
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I personally have no idea, I can't compare what the dating was before and nowadays, i just know that it's just too hard for average men these days
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:44 PM
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Yup, no matter how much you groom yourself or dress good , you can't change somethings
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:42 PM
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Confidence without looks is called creepy bro
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:41 PM
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Only if it'd have been that easy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:40 PM
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No bro, this sub would seriously consider you a player with 6 ex partners already. I personally just want one woman in my life, i don't even care about hot or not , any above average women i see on the road can be attractive to me physically. I just want someone to be vulnerable with and spend my life. I'm exhausted after spending my life alone till now. All these f*****g , sex , etc things aren't even in my mind when i say partner , these are secondary things , i can wait for that as much as sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 06:39 PM
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It’s incredibly easy to attract women. Why do you need an AI girlfriend? Cause' it's not easy for average men and even men who are 6'0 with visible abs
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:40 PM
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Okay . Well never happened to me , never happened to any of my friends i know, never happened to most of the guys i met here and never happened to most of the guys they met as well . The study of pew research centre survey, dating app studies, etc easily proves it. Ig you're seriously underestimating your looks then .
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 05:37 PM
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I don’t earn money rn as I’m searching for a job. Ok, get it I go for social and hiking meetups. Social meet ups means ? Like for example how sometimes some particular subs in reddit organises meetups , something like that right ? You do hiking? That's nice The women are attracted if they give you their number So how does this happen, you guys are having a conversation and they give their number later on, or they approach you and give you their number, or you approach them and ask their number?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:45 PM
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Let's see more , do you earn? What kind of meet ups do you go for , tell me more , how do you know the women are attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:31 PM
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Why do you think so ? Like why do you think it's incredibly easy to attractive to women? What do you think what are women's standards? If you are a guy , tell me about yourself Curious to know your pov
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 01:20 PM
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It's kinda opposite for me , this sub lifts up my mood. Whenever i feel frustrated from my dating life despite doing everything I can , i come here to vent as it's the only place where i feel validated . As you mentioned you have a feminine side , you can see in my flair that I've written "submissive male" there, it is actually kinda what i want in my relationship. Someone to show my vulnerabilities, Someone to hug and someone to trust that i can let everything go with her. I still have no idea …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 09:22 AM
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Yeah Thanks , didn't expect that good conversation here.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:49 AM
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Being blunt and direct and assertive doesn’t necessarily mean being really masculine and dominant Yeah i get it I never had a lot of female friends irl ,but i have made them online. I have an emotional and a feminine side as qell And I don’t want to say that looks don’t matter at all. Even though i don’t consider myself attractive I’ve stayed in pretty good shape. That’s really the only thing I have going for me but it helps a lot. No one can complain about hypergamy until they develop a good ph…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:27 AM
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promise that it feels so good to be imperfect and say what you really feel. And a lot of good things can come out of it. I guess i should try it as well. I'm kinda the same though I'm young, I've just got into uni. I'm what you can easily describe a nice guy. Gotta directly say what i feel
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:14 AM
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Most men of this generation do not have this luxury
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:07 AM
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I’m 28 years old, a raging alcoholic who downs half a bottle of whiskey per day I’m severely mentally ill, and make $40k/year I guess these things contributed significantly in your attraction of your "personality". A vast Majority of guys especially of this generation, i.e. men under 30, are single and lonely according to the pew research centre survey, does that mean they don't have a personality?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/25 08:03 AM
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Man i love Scandinavia, only if I'd have born there 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/25 04:20 AM
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In real life it's more complicated if you start considering actual dating pools. Because women prefer same age and older, and that creates an average age gap that's generally reducing younger men's dating pool, while young women's dating pool is virtually all men. Add to this that most countries have a shrinking population, it's even worse. Because there are more older men than there are younger women, even considering a similar amount of year above and bellow. So you're competing for a tiny poo…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/25 01:23 AM
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How about the ratio of single men/women in real life , i believe it was 2 according to the pew research centre survey below the age of 30 and below the age of 50 as well
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 03:07 PM
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I'd not like it at all It'd be one of the basic things I'd expect we'll be doing together after being together So no, can't live like this
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/25 12:27 PM
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One more thing ,in his latest speech about the operation , the prime minister has said he dedicate this operation to the mothers and sisters..... And believe me when i say that he's the most pro men pm ever existed in india , rest were complete misandrist
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/05/25 07:42 PM
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Wtf!? Okay , I'm a guy , certainly not a chad but i can say I'm atleast more attractive than 80% of the guys out there atleast at my place, I'm 6 feet, have visible abs, jawline , etc etc And the average woman i meet certainly is decent looking atleast for my standards , i have high standards in values, personality, etc so it isn't like I'd get into relationship with them directly but atleast 2 out of 5 women i meet seems physically decent to me , and when i go to parties or clubs the number wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 03:28 AM
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Well, I don't know what country you are from so I cannot fact check most of what you have stated. Not that I don't believe you, but there are always two sides to any issue India Let's see what "other side" is there lol Though most of the points i have stated is about USA too As far as the false claims are concerned men are just as guilty as women. In bitter divorces both sides have been know to lie or exaggerate. Men have been known to claim that women are abusing or using parental alienation in…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/25 12:28 AM
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"my biological instincts said me to rape so i raped your honor"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:00 PM
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You aren’t reading. I asked why you think the top tier guys are bad?! Again, i never said that , please read again, i legit said that some are good others are bad among top tier guys And no you aren’t. You’re arguing in bad faith because you don’t want to read it. What !? I'm just asking to quote the part which is relevant in this argument from the article ,wtf are you smoking, you're just saying read the article read the article , i have literally read it and wasn't able to find that, that's wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 03:27 PM
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why do you think the “top tier guys” aren’t good I do think that women go for top tier guys than good guys , top tier guys can be good or bad both , after these changes , women would go for actual good guys most dudes are getting laid Source? I dropped the article- read it or just admit you won’t And I'm actually asking where in your article is the part which talks about the relevant data here ? Have you even read your article yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:52 PM
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If she’s only thinking about consequences, then she’s going to shut down anything that isn’t sure fire guarantee that won’t go bad AND therefore will only go with the best looking and highest earners and highest status. Which means no one other than those guys will ever be given a chance. Nah, if she'll go for those that won't go bad then she'll mostly prefer those who'd treat her good which would be the opposite of what happens nowadays for a lot if most . Like the rest of the guys never get a …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 02:42 PM
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How? How would any of theee things “stop” a woman? Ummm reas again, "without thinking about any consequences for dates and hookups" Especially since most women aren’t having any lots of these hookup anyways? https://www.bustle.com/p/the-size-of-hookup-culture-is-being-greatly-overestimated-report-finds-its-having-some-damaging-effects-61050 Can you show me where it has given data of women into hookup culture ? As much as i can see , the data was only about men, which was 5-10% (as expected) . I'…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:29 PM
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Humans are animals, literally Technically they are , but they are actually not and I don't think i need to prove it You have instincts and inclinations. Agreed You can supress them, but thinking that it's logical for everyone to is ridiculous and ignorant Let's see how This argument is funny to me because it's like other humans expect each other to have god tier restraint and honestly be perfect. And ofc you're going to say you don't expect perfection, but that's exactly the road you're on with …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 01:21 PM
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How do you know that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:25 AM
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No fault divorce is desired by both men and women. In fact it was Ronald Regan who pushed for it because he wanted to marry Nancy. Prior he was married to I think Jane Wyatt Why should it mattres who designed it first of all? Though i don't particularly agree with removing the no fault divorcee , i don't care about it Alimony is only rewarded in certain cases, technically it is gender neutral. Most of the time it goes to the spouse that wasn't working and stayed at home with children. Well in my…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:21 AM
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You really think having these things help the men who aren't the top 10-20% attractive ones ? These would just stop women from just going for the top 10-20% men without thinking about any consequences for dates and hookups , almost all of the rest of the men don't get these already
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:03 AM
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Stop blaming everything on "biology" , we aren't animals , we are humans, we have intelligence and we live in a civil society. Men being more desperate for sex might be biology but it's not like it's uncontrollable desperation, we can control our hormones and senses , that's what makes us humans
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 07:00 AM
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More than 40% of women voted for trump as much as i remember
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/25 06:57 AM
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I know dating is not as popular in the Gen Z crowd so I get that Dating is more popular than ever among gen z , though mostly among girls , sounds weird right , but that is the truth , check out pew research centre survey of single Americans of both 2020 and 2023 , you'll see some very interesting results about the fun life of top attractive men and how much girls settle for if you're attractive enough I do think that is going to change eventually, probably in the next 5 years as the biological …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 11:21 AM
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Well believe it or not , most men of this generation are involuntary celibates , so some of them become so desperate that here's the result , fawning and simping over anyone who can be a female especially behind the anonymity of social media
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/25 03:35 AM
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Going to see and capture all the fishes makes you desperate, a specific one who's your type wouldn't make you desperate at all, it's B/S that you only are supposed to go there without any other motives, you can enjoy fishing, the sight and search for that fish, though if you don't even know how to do fishing, it'd be hard to capture that fish. Man now this is tiring me out lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:43 AM
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However, again, it’s how it’s worded and the contradiction that amount to actually telling people who are asking for help « be glad to be single and toss a coin into that pond and make a wish ». And again, that's far from the truth, it's like giving advice to someone to go to a pond or sea if you want to see a specific type of fish , it's not guaranteed that you'll find that fish there but the chances would be exponentially higher than just sitting at home thinking that it'd fly out to you from …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 09:33 AM
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And once you do 3. Or if you can do 3. Then community no longer becomes necessary since you can just make a good dating app profile. Tbh, dating apps aren't that good nowadays atleast at my place to find the women who i would want to make my wife , i think communities are still the best way to go , my hobbies are a sport , maths , tech, gaming and anime , and after i joined a gaming server i got to meet with a lots of women online who were living near my area as well
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:31 AM
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Aaa, do you even know the topic which you replied too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:20 AM
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While i partially agree with you , there are some things which i wanna add and disagree with You can still find your partner without doing this - It’s supposed to be something you like where you can find people who also like that activity, and maybe you end up liking more about them than the shared interests. The love at first sight thing exists Though there's a difference between "sexuality" and "desperateness" , you can't just go and start approaching all of the women there , no woman likes de…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:18 AM
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I personally never met any woman who's in a family and living there happily with her husband without getting appreciated for her "individuality" , that she's a human before a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 03:05 AM
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Bro , we're talking about dating, you know what it means right? To get into a relationship with someone whom you connect and the basis of that relationship is love , it's not like getting some luxury item which'll have a practical solution. If someone asks how to get successful in a career, i personally will answer that hard work is the key , it's a wishful thinking as well but that's how it works I myself am fed up with high standards of women right now but some dating advice here like joining …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:59 AM
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Well the op thinks it is the main goal so that's what this comment means
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 02:39 AM
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I've almost given up bro. You can see yourself on the media even on social media as well, women are constantly telling men to not approach and tagging them as creep for stupid reasons. I'm scared.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/25 03:42 AM
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Dating app surveys are chronically online, yes. Well this generation couples are meeting online the most, especially during 2010 . It's mostly because this generation men (70%) Don't even approach women nowadays because of the fear of rejection and being called creepy (date psychology study). And I’d say that data backs up my previous statement that more people are still dating than not and more people that aren’t six feet. Again , most men aren't dating at all cause' most who aren't single are …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:37 PM
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Well , i try to be kind, have empathy, am funny, don't know whether emotionally mature or not and even in imagination i care about my partner's pleasure more than mine as psychologically it gives me a lot of pleasure. In my case , it has not served me well till now , I was tall . The moment i started working out and started calisthenics, i got better in looks and that's where i started getting attention So i think you can be kind and great in bed , but to show that you need a chance and you'll g…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 05:26 PM
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you look at statistics most people are still dating, which mean more people are dating that are under six feet than are. Well according to pew research centre survey, most young men of this generation aren't dating (63%) but most young women are (66%) Also , 25% of men aged 30-50 are single whereas mere 17% of women aged 30-50 are single And it has yeah, to chronically online people, most people don’t have that ridiculous standard. Check dating app surveys sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:57 AM
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Why do you think these things are mutually exclusive? Exactly lol
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:45 AM
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If women only wanted tall men, short men would be evolutionary weeded out. There are more short men than tall men, that means they get to reproduce more actually. You do realise the dating standards has gone super high only nowadays, don't you? You do realise the height which is considered tall has increased to several times than what it was before But it's not about just height
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 06:43 AM
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Well most men married before the age of social media , after the age of social media , male loneliness epidemic started Pew research centre survey shows the amount of single men currently of this generation are twice to that of women and the single men are still more than single women in the ages 30-50 Dare psychology study shows that 60-70% of men of this generation have not approached a woman since last year and 46% of them have never approached in their lifetime and the reason was the fear of…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 06:47 AM
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It's not false hope bro, what i said was a truth , maybe he was super lucky and your luck isn't too great , but these couples exist , try to be positive bro
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:35 PM
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Bruh !!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 04:28 PM
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I don't know man, i have a 4ft9 friend and he has a cute gf as well, he was a cute guy and nice in studies, i was so jealous of him till last year though i was even better than him in most things except looks . I can't tell you what your problem is because i don't know you that well, but , height, though certainly being a good advantage in the dating field, isn't like a complete game changer, in my experience social status matters the most
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:27 PM
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I can go on a first date right now because i changed myself I wasn't able to go on a first date just a year ago
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:17 PM
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Brun 15% men in USA are above 6 feet Also if you check more , looks and social status matters more than height bruh, i had 0 social status till last year when i started doing workouts I'm still a virgin, and you don't know how i desperate i am for a girl to just cuddle and hug, sex is far more special for me
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 01:12 PM
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Well i was actually disagreeing with you until this point , i agree with you now , if he'd have spoken for himself then it'd have been fine . There are many men including me who hate the idea of having sex with a woman they don't want to , i personally don't want to have sex with a woman who i don't view as my future wife atleast
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:55 PM
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Speak for yourself bro, i myself is a virgin , I've never even been to a real life relationship, I'm even desperate too , still , not for sex , I'm not going to have sex with anyone who i don't feel thay she'd be my wife , i really doubt I'm going to have sex before marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:53 PM
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What !?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:51 PM
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Why though? You should be way happier
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:39 PM
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In 2013, 28.3% of Americans 18-29 were married&wt=PWGTP) or living with a partner&wt=PWGTP). Ten years later in the most recent Census Bureau data (2023), 30.1% of Americans 18-29 were married&wt=PWGTP) or living with a partner&wt=PWGTP). You're correct that marriage rates are down, but the decline in marriage rates has been more than offset by an increase in couples in that age group living together unmarried (figure 8 illustrates it best across age groups). The ten-year trend in coupling rates…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/25 12:36 PM
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Well the pew research centre survey stats show otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 04:40 PM
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Are they? Well the pew research survey says otherwise especially about young men
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 02:45 PM
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Isn't that what he said too ? Besides , if you talk about myself , i myself can't enjoy it if the person I'm intimate with isn't enjoying it as much as myself or even more But it isn't like escorts can't enjoy it as well And atleast they'd be better than gold diggers because they'd not lie
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:59 PM
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Sexual validation? Heard this term for the first time Besides Expensive masturbation Isn't it even worse for a vast majority of men already?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:52 PM
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Aaa, did you read his post at all ? Especially the last point ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/25 01:52 PM
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As someone from india , you sure it's just western men and not just "men"
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/25 05:11 PM
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Ah first of all the US data doesn't make a lot of sense here as we are talking in the context of india 2ndly, well again, how does "thoughts" mean anything at all ? I have a thought that I'll work 90 hours tomorrow lol .... there's a huge huge huge huge difference between thoughts and action like both are more far away than sky and earth
/r/MensRights26/03/25 04:50 PM
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I didn't get it , please explain more ? And how does having more suicidal "thoughts" mean literally anything at all ?
/r/MensRights24/03/25 01:48 PM
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"tell me any reason why male suicide rate is that high" Let's start then
/r/MensRights24/03/25 02:07 AM
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Man can hardly speak English but insults my intelligence lol This comment is enough to tell about your intelligence bro lol 😂 Leave it, don't wanna waste anymore time
/r/MensRights24/03/25 02:06 AM
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That is !! And i don't need to explain it why But srill Like tell me any reason why male suicide rate is that high and I'd easily prove how women are responsible for it
/r/MensRights24/03/25 01:11 AM
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Bro lost the last braincell he had So listen bro when did i say the situation of men in UK ANd women in the middle east is the same (though if it'd have been india I'd have actually proved it ) Infact as you mentioned, it's so bad for women in the middle east ,still they'd say they're doing just fine , that does prove a lot of things about the reality
/r/MensRights24/03/25 01:09 AM
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Suicide rates would easily prove them ? They are statically the biggest problem of the world, men suicide rates , and we can guess why is that caused , like why only male suicide rates is that high
/r/MensRights24/03/25 01:06 AM
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Well we are talking about the step of UK mostly, and according to them it's the fault of the men so youn boys are taught that , to view women as angels who can do nothing wrong
/r/MensRights24/03/25 01:03 AM
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Well we are talking about the step of UK mostly, and according to them it's the fault of the men so youn boys are taught that , to view women as angels who can do nothing wrong
/r/MensRights24/03/25 01:02 AM
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https://www.theatlantic.com/politics/archive/2014/06/the-now-president-who-became-a-mens-rights-activist/372742 "DeCrow was nonetheless skeptical about many key aspects of latter-day feminism, including its focus on sexual violence and male abuse of women. She was also, for much of her career, a men’s-rights activist." How's your first link even not contradicting your points you have made in the comment let alone supporting it ? https://medium.com/%40info_6724/historical-first-women-advocating-f…
/r/MensRights24/03/25 12:59 AM
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Women following islam even in middle east says the same lol
/r/MensRights24/03/25 12:52 AM
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any other sub this would be an over-the-top troll post For some reasons , when any women would say " men are living life in easy mode" or "men are so privileged" ..etc etc, we get an insane amount of positive response on other subs, i wonder why, oh yeah then it becomes a rational take
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 06:22 PM
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Why are you changing the topic ? If a women isn't raped by any of the way you told then does it make what happened to her any less ? Wtf are you comparing? Men are raped by blackmails, men aren't murdered by women, they literally are abused to any extent that they've to fight their biological programming of survival and do suicides , etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:07 AM
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Bruh you do realise these are not even 0.01% of the voters? Otherwise such a huge number of women wouldn't have voted for trump rather than Kamala harris
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:03 AM
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Well the op can say The 0.01% of men who harass and assault aren't enslaved but rest 99.99% are
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:26 AM
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You could've easily elected a female president if she'd have been from the conservative side this time , like tulsi, people don't care about gender at all when voting , they care about policies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:24 AM
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Prove it wrong then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:44 AM
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In india actually, a male over 18 can't file a case against a woman or anyone for rape as it's legal lol
/r/MensRights16/03/25 02:18 AM
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But the top 5% men can have multiple partners before marriage right ? Women are happy being in situationships with those men or even wait for them, easily seen how mere 37% of men consider themselves in relationships in the age of 18-30 whereas 66% women , it's 75% vs 83% in the ages 30-50 as well for men and women respectively Source - pew research centre study of 2023
/r/MensRights13/03/25 03:22 AM
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In one of their studies - "The researchers suggest that while incels may overestimate general societal hostility, their perceptions of animosity from feminist subgroups appear more accurate"
/r/MensRights12/03/25 04:41 PM
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No worries , thanks for the reply
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 03:47 PM
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Oops, sorry, I'm 2 months late, can i send the pic on your messages if you are up for it , you can ignore it if you want to 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 02:40 PM
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A good chunk of men dont meet very very basic requirements for a healthy relationship (Im not talking about looks). What is the percentage of those men and what are the requirements? 63%+ young men ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:08 AM
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It's your choice, we can atleast condition ourselves and other men to just want to touch thek rather than want them to want us to touch the b...., societal conditioning wins
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:04 AM
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For a theft, in middle east, the criminals hand used to get cut and most of them used to be men
/r/MensRights10/03/25 06:58 PM
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This comment should be pinned
/r/MensRights09/03/25 06:43 PM
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Turning off Teacher mode now lol I'm sure you must be a pretty cool teacher irl lol I got some cool teachers too in my high school, they were the best
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:45 AM
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First of all thank you so much for taking your time and giving me your suggestions bro . I completely agree with you , i just meant that as a joke because I'm not in a rush , like come on we are talking about a relationship whose basis is supposed to be love. i'd not rush it just because I'll become a red flag for some women in my 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 02:36 AM
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I guess I'll be a huge red flag for women after 15 years lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:03 PM
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Didn't expect with a red pill man, are you an imposter 😠
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:26 PM
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Well I'm not talking about what "I" personally like , I'd be happy if women would've that standards as I'm 6-6-6 already (though I'm not earning for now , i'm still a student, so my 6-6-6 is like 6 foot , 6 abs and 6 inches lol) , i wanted to explain what op and majority of others wanted to say . Now Again Oh, he's tall, popular and rich and thus he must be better all the other men! The bar isn't in hell. Thr bar is in hell for men that women find attractive. Remember this ? Women can have whate…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:14 PM
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I've already talked about it .....
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:09 PM
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That’s really a lie since most men manage to date women and aren’t 6-6-6 guys. Women merely state their preference and often settle for the best they can get Well actually according to pew research centre survey and other surveys too of 2023 , the post pandemic phase Most men , like 63% men , of the age 18-30 are single , whereas 34% women of the same age are It's 25% vs 17% for the age of 30-50 , so Most men manage to marry later, atleast till the previous generations, This generation? Well mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 04:08 PM
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Resistance fighters have always been able to gain access to these items when they were not legally allowed to have them. Seriously, do you not understand life outside of your mother's basement. Read some actual history about the suffragette movement and what they had go through to get women the vote. Why don't you mention it here what did all the feminist movements combined did and achieved alone in the last century until men joined but men did not "give" women anything. I say like both men and …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:20 PM
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Poisons, knives, and firearms override physical strength anyday. Whose complete access was there for men All the political power, financial power , everything was completely in the hands of men , women had the indirect power like managing the homes and it's budget , Completely wrong. Most men have not/refuse to understood this. What freedom women have women have fought hard for and won. Wtf, so how women fought , did they intimidate men that if men wouldn't have accepted their demands then anyth…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 01:56 PM
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See this point of the post - "Oh, he's tall, popular and rich and thus he must be better all the other men! The bar isn't in hell. Thr bar is in hell for men that women find attractive." If you already believe the bar isn't in the hell especially the shallow standards then you aren't the target of this post If you already believe the standards are already extremely high then you weren't supposed to answer that i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:45 AM
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Doesn't matter if shallow or better standards, one, no matter if men or women, does not need to compromise or lower their standards. The only risk of having those is being alone which still is better than being with someone you don't appreciate or are attracted too. Well then your choice but atleast don't lie or ignore the actual point
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 08:30 AM
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well technically he would be included in the “your standards are too high category” I mean yup ? But since he committed to you, i can guess you must be someone deserving of him But not all are , not even most are , but most on social media claims to have those standards, so that's what I'm saying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:59 AM
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So in your mind no man whose not among the 6-6-6 is dating women Yup , though it's not like "No", it's more like 70-90% of those aren't. Obviously many are so that can’t possibly be what men mean when they say “lower your standards”. Well it does, that's what shallow standards meant , by far the most women on social media mentions that , if your standards aren't like that , if it's not too high and rigid, then this post isn't targeted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:57 AM
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Why are you ignoring the actual point? The post is specifically about the shallows standards like 6 feet, 6 figures , 6 pack abs , 6 inches,etc Having high standards like being passionate, being kind, etc , which would make your life better should be the standards of both men and women , but men have standards in hell whereas the complaint in the post is about women's shallow standards being extremely high
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:25 AM
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Still got guys upset over everything else, i.e. compatible values, communication skills, shared hobbies etc. If some are upsetting over these, you and i both know that they're not worth the time and neither the majority too. Te post was talking about men complaining about women's shallow high standards , what you described is what high standards both men and women should have (sadly a lot of men are literally desperate, even i am borderline desperate too but I'm now getting more mature)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:19 AM
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It's you who's talking about biology Biologically men are far stronger than women , do you really think women would've been living freely if men wouldn't have allowed them too Though one thing i can say that if anything wrong would've been happening to women, the society would've crashed hurting men too , men need women to survive, free and happy women , so does women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:11 AM
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You said nothing about how she treats you in your original comment, you just complained that she slept with hotter men. Well first of all I'm a different other person Now , the complaint was about sleeping with f**kboys not just hotter men, it's about the people who just wanted her for sex , you get it ? Why should a woman marry a man that wasted his twenties wanting to date around? It’s the same analogy. Your choice , I'd not mind , I'd love it, I'm sure most guys would too Men and women both o…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 03:05 AM
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Well one thing i can say that not all deserve 6-6-6
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/25 02:58 AM
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It's more like i'd not marry anyone who's only marrying me because the person she wanted to marry Don't want her or she just wants an atm or a bodyguard or all of them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 07:01 PM
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First - Lowering shallow standards meant going on dates with someone who's non among the 6-6-6 category, that doesn't mean giving chances to 5feet 0 figure ones which would of course be bad partners 2nd of all , it'd be tough to even find those women who have ever lowered their standards or realised that they were having way too high standards than what they deserve
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:57 PM
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It doesn't seem like you got the point, OP isn't complaining non shallow standards like "non smoker" I can't even imagine being with someone who even has friends who smoke
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/25 06:54 PM
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You don't understand yet you replied with a bible sermon . The audacity is cute but unworthy fuck off with that ... It's is less than 30% of men that are lonely in US...stop over exaggerating the numbers because foreign men are doing fine . You men change the loneliness percentage daily to push a fake narrative EVERYONE is lonely men just feel entitled Are you talking about this - ? "Like i literally said it's not going to be "entire spirit and flesh" , neither it's just for just sexual gratific…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/25 03:24 PM
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Believe me bro , i came on this sub when dating was already hardest for me , i learnt a lot from this sub and i still love to debate here while improving myself . I transformed from a chubby relatively weak guy to a strong athletic guy with visible abs, started working on my appearance and now working on my communication skills , this sub , especially many women from this sub , has helped me significantly
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/25 12:39 AM
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That's life. Nobody said it was easy. You have to be creative and keep trying until you get what you want So there's nothing to even debate , we are on the same page, it's next to impossible , I'm upgrading and improving myself as much as i can to become the best version of myself , based on the objective part I'm an easy 7 by face (chiselled jawline, decent symmetry, etc) , height (6'0) and body (visible abs , athletic body, etc) for sure (by chat gpt rating models) objectively so that helped b…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 01:31 PM
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Yeah just like beauty is subjective Anyone can be attractive but the odds of meeting with women who find that guy attractive is pretty less if he's average or at 50th-60th percentile , especially enough attractive that she'd approach or give visible signs. If she doesn't do it then kinda tough to know who to approach because apparantly approaching a lot of women and getting rejected makes you unattractive too . Most men today are now even afraid to approach as apparently women on every type of m…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 03:27 AM
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What are you saying i don't get it. Like i literally said it's not going to be "entire spirit and flesh" , neither it's just for just sexual gratification otherwise the paid sex and sex dolls would have been way way way more popular considering 70% young men are now afraid to even approach women , but since most guys are lonely and unable to get a good human female partner they'd atleast get something to fulfill both of their emotional and physical needs together to a significant extent , atleas…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/25 02:18 AM
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Not exactly but yeah ? Other options ? Women neither gives any understandable hard indication of interest and neither approaches So yeah , not a complete stranger all the times , the 2nd option and even better option is if she's your mate like classmate or colleague or neighbour or friend , i mean at least you know something about her or met her multiple times , but come on the chances of it happening is already pretty low
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:01 AM
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So? If some random woman "gets creeped out", how does that impact your healthy relationships with other women? Aa remember the statistics the other guy posted there ? The 95% women one ? Yeah i think that's the answer If you don't "creep women out", at least occasionally you aren't trying. Or you are lying, or autistic and can't tell. I'm not trying, i don't cold approach now in masses , i don't approach at all , i want to make friends now not girlfriend, i want someone who I'd want to make my w…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:13 PM
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Are you sure about that it's the best and enough of a way to find the perfect partner for you ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:00 PM
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Cause' i don't want to, i want healthy relationships with women Besides i personally don't creep women now at all
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:59 PM
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I guess what I mean is that in most places striking up a conversation with a total stranger that is any way rewarding is rare. It's not about women being unapproachable So how are and will people get into relationships? Any other way except "men approaching women", there's no other way especially when women don't approach too
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:48 AM
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So basically, approaching women without creeping them out for average guys (who are ofcourse not that confident amd presentable as you) and especially enough to score a date requires more efforts than getting into MIT today That explains the title
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:01 AM
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Guys told me to “choose better” after explaining my experiences with creeps. Well if it's true then they must be misogynists and would have no empathy, the vast majority of guys on reddit, even on ppd wouldn't do that for sure I have, then got berated for my bad experiences It must be tough to believe for those guys that you have actually done that cause' again, real life experiences of mine and almost everyone of them shows the same thing , so maybe you're the exception who weren't treated like…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:51 PM
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Please read again, remember the suicide rates part? And fake cases part ? Adding in it - Jcdr . Net "According to NCRB statistics, approximately 74% of rape cases under section 376 of the IPC result in acquittals [12]. Research has shown that, 40% of these cases are due to the girl’s family filing a rape lawsuit against the boy after the couple eloped and got married. Additionally, 30% of cases were filed by women who claimed that, sexual intercourse took place after an arranged marriage [13]. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 05:04 PM
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you think mitherfucking INDIA of all place is women centric?! The brilliant young female doctor who was brutally gangraped to death with a metal pipe, her body discarded on the side of the road??? The huge protests and women led riots that occur everytime a woman is brutally raped and murdered on a bus? By a HUGE MARGIN , especially when we are talking about urban india where 40% of the population and 90% of the indian reddit population lives Even the biggest cases currently in trend in india fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:51 PM
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The response was as expected lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 04:39 PM
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You act like physical abuse doesn't come with psychological abuse Aa, the difference between the psychological abuse which comes with physical abuse and actual psychological abuse which's suffered by men without the media or government or ngos or even just other people standing behind them unlike women is gigantic And men "protect" women from other men And Women Accidents Natural disasters Fire Any other kind of emergency Wild animals Etc Etc
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:59 PM
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Though you've already got enough answer, still, Marriage ≠ dating, even long term dating ≠ marriage Though still, I'd like the looksmatch source Median Salary of husbands was like twice to that of wifes still in US . Also , population affects messaging patters , the percentage of men being called less attractive to women than the other way was still the proof there
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:51 PM
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I love to get the source that the overwhelming majority of men have the option to reject women , let alone they actually rejecting women , dating sites studies easily proves that average men view more than half of men attractive whereas mere 20% men for women , messaging patterns prove the same but it's affected by the population of men and women on dating sites. I personally am a fairly attractive guy and I'm attracted to a lot less women too but i can't say the same for average guys which i wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:44 PM
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Woman: I had a terrible first date! The guy was creepy and rude. Men here: Choose better. Woman: So Im vetting out friendless guys, broke guys, guys who are socially awkward, and guys who dont dress well. I'm pretty sure both aren't the same , the choose better aren't said to the women who chose the guys who are socially awkward, which in general are nice guys . I don't remember women choosing guys who are socially awkward and later they were complaining about guys who ended up a narcissist or a…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:40 PM
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Yeah so next is what, modern feminists are actually fighting for something called equality or equity , the sun rises in the west, media supports patriarchy rather than demonising men, Laws as well as the whole government in the west or countries like India aren't women centric
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:33 PM
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Can i get the source of that study?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:40 AM
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No it doesn't While i don't know whether there's any study or not but this conversation simply means A man with good looks will be rejected over a man with good hygiene but if a man has both then he'll be selected ofcourse Let's be honest , 90% men are far from having both As much as i remember a significant portion of young men are overweight , like some 30ish , many would be super skinny as well, already reach 50% from this
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:40 AM
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Bro be honest , none of the comments she posted has it's literal meanings that spread hate against men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:37 AM
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This is the only sub where men can say anything logical without the fear of being banned despite it having women in a large number whereas black pill content is completely banned , so yeah i agree, it qualifies as the incel hub cause' if it's not all the comments would've been just demonising men, are matriarchal, misandrists and always complaining as well as bitching about men exactly what happens twox and almost all of the women dominated subreddits (the only one i know which isn't just comple…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:34 AM
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And women commit by far the most child abuse and any kind of psychological abuse Whereas a lot more men literally risk their lives protecting people with women in priority let alone just help than the number of men doing anything wrong with women despite of the systematic accusations and demonisation of men by the media
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:30 AM
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Sure https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC11021038/?utm_source=chatgpt.com It's about income , the best height was considered 6'2 Another study - https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/after-service/201909/5-reasons-why-women-and-men-care-about-height?utm_source=chatgpt.com It proves how women prefer a height difference of 8 inches the most And a woman being over 5'6 is as rare as a man being over 6'2 I can show more
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:04 AM
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I'm not even saying that bruh wtf are you smoking
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:43 PM
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You know athletes hit the gym right? Yeah And I could always tell who has never been in a gym because you guys think just anyone could look like CBum with a bit of gear. That takes years of gear, years of hypertrophy training, years of a strict diet and above average genetics Aaa, nah, i don't think like that, read again For a hint - Not having a C bum body doesn't mean an athletic body especially with even average genetics
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:31 PM
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I don't ever recall being lectured that women are dying to be approached. Ah, my bad, i misinterpreted your comment, i thought you're saying women are being fine with approached , which's true for most women not to media though
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:11 PM
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No that's false I mean you're right but not having a bodybuilder physique doesn't mean most'd have an athletic one , I'm sure it's much more rare to find someone who got an athletic physique in gym to a bodybuilder I got to 15% bodyfat and an athletic body by doing calisthenics
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:58 PM
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Well actually a 6'6 man is as less probable to have success in dating as a 5'4 man 6'1 tops the list in US Whereas all the correlations for example being more rich and all for tall men is negatively correlated with men above 6'4 height
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:53 PM
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Despite what Reddit wants you to believe Every type of media wanted men to believe that Tell me which didn't? Social media ? News media? Movies? Everywhere it was lectured I know many women want to be approached, all studies prove that, 78% of young women as much as i remember ,but at this point of time it's kinda risky and that's why 46% of young men have never approached any women in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:47 PM
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If you those women are for you if we someone decided not to approach, well believe it or not they were already for you , it doesn't matter except giving validation
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 01:45 PM
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Yeah , maybe , i started caring about my skin and hair including my beard a lot now ( i went to a dermatologist just recently) I'm now learning more social and communication skills as well as just bought a deodorant. Tbh i just don't like the perfume smell a lot but i guess i should start using it now. I even have abs now by doing body weight exercises, my friends said i look significantly better mostly because I'm tall too, I'm utilising my free time now . Thanks 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/25 12:10 PM
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No I'm not saying that they aren't Especially the anger part (jealousy isn't even remotely that big of a difference among men and women as much as i know) I'm just saying except anger , every other major emotions whether it's sadness or happiness, men are going to express much less than women Even in anger too, i still think women are as much likely to get angry than men just men are more violent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 08:15 AM
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I kinda agree but i still think women when doing their hobbies would have similar or even higher levels of emotions , men don't express their emotions as much as women on an average . Though yeah i agree , societal pressure is the key reason but evolution and hormones is a thing too , the testosterone is the major reason because of which anger is higher among males. Though societal pressure is now decreasing (really good thing) but i still think men are still going to be less emotional than wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 07:58 AM
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Maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:38 AM
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Women far surpasses men in expressing any emotions except anger Whether it's affection, happiness, sadness , or anything you can think
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/25 06:37 AM
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It’s not because there is a high oxytocin spike after an orgasm that that means that you are instantly ‘bonded’ with the person you’re having sex with. Then you’re interpreting the science the wrong way. I can also get an amazing orgasm from my vibrator without getting too attached to it. And again, I'm saying that after a good orgasm the oxytocin really spikes which "increases" your bond formation with that person by several times, not instantly bonded though, also the person with whom you are …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 02:48 AM
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What does that prove? Most common doesnt mean most desired Most common among married couples certainly mean most desired or it just doesn't matter as much as other factors too especially after a certain point? Thats 8 inches taller Bruh read again - women are most satisfied when their partner was 21 cm taller, whereas men are most satisfied when they were 8 cm taller than their partner Again, "whereas men are most satisfied when they were 8 cm taller than their partner" Tell me, did you have suc…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/25 07:06 PM
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Hey, remember me? Anyways, tbh yeah most competitors are on steroids but many are just into fitness a lot (like op commentator's friend) , they spend most of their time in their gym, that's what their whole carrier is based on and since they're getting money of it too , they just keep on going to the best they can
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:15 PM
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The equivalent would be a man writing an article about losing his strength, size, and vigor in the workforce and watching young studs earn more respect than he earns. Or having a work lunch and noting that the server focuses on the younger professionals and treats him like a grandfather. Well i get it better now , but i just don't want to understand this completely , Op's post seems a lot confusing and stupid to me so anything closely related to it just seems equally confusing, though thankyou f…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 06:05 PM
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Man , i love your comments , it's always fun 😂 You sure you're 39, your comments seems it's done by women in mid 20s (I'm not saying in a ridiculing or sarcastic way if you thought that)
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/25 02:23 PM
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Good sex is as emotional and psychological as it is physical. They’re never going to fool their minds into believing that they’re having actual sex. Well they're not getting actual sex with a committed partner soon so it isn't too tough In any case, i call it as "best sex" otherwise hookup culture as well as promiscuity wouldn't have been popular if it'd not have been even good No it wouldn’t be sex with an almost actual female it would be sex with a piece of metal and plastic. Their pleasure fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 03:05 PM
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I agree with everything you said here Most men are refraining from approaching women now because of fear, this will make them approach even less as they'd be getting sex with almost an actual female , they'll be able to cuddle , hug and fulfill most of their fantasies to a great extent so the obligation of getting into a relationship would get decreased a lot. Most men still wouldn't be able to get what they long for the most,i.e. a good human female partner , but a lot of the things for which m…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/25 09:09 AM
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Nah many don't, they don't even need to, dark triad is actually more attractive rather than being unattractive Whereas for many the tricking part works for quite a long time consistently with different "good girls"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 06:54 PM
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Only arguably more men as it’s within 1-2% and considering that overly muscular men are counted and the body fat percentage to be classed as overweight is less for men it’s likely no different or slightly more women but not significant. Yeah , it's 5% more based on bmi as much as i remember, but it being even a little bit more strengthens the other fact Efforts that make zero difference in the outcome or success of their dating prospects. Why does what matter? Aaa again- " they do have to make e…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/25 11:50 AM
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Oh yeah of course because a huge amount of women age 18-30 aren’t overweight and obese, in fact in that age range it’s nearly identical. Its funny because the bar women need to meet is very obviously just be woman literally can’t get lower than that and no any work or lack there of they put in makes no difference Well first of all, yeah, it's almost identical buy still men have more , and yeah they do have to make efforts, from their skin , to periods and many other things to infinite more biolo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 09:15 AM
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If only being desirable enough to not be called a creep were enough for a guy to be able to date it would be far easier for men with far fewer left out. I mean it's not Like a huge amount of men even between 18-30 years of age are overweight and obese How many of them even use a moisturizer every day? I remember a woman i talked to, i guess her comment would make sense here - "Yeah, men are usually physically repulsive due to lack of hygiene and physical activity. I did say the guy I'm dating is…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 08:05 AM
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Yeah I mean you can win the lottery too, the facts are that, especially for a “pretty as fuck” woman as is the context, you would already have to be exclusively an incredibly desirable guy, certainly desirable enough to know it as nearly all women would share attraction to you, but at that point we are talking about something different entirely I mean winning the lottery just depends on entirely your luck as well as you , there's no other factor , whereas in this case , again - "you have to be j…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 04:32 AM
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men blatantly asking women to play games to preserve their ego If that's what you interpreted with it, well then see ya
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:56 AM
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Though i don't completely agree with above guy's statements , we are talking about a living woman with feelings , choice and preferences not some bags of cash, even if all the guys approaching her are conventionally hot as f***k there IS a chance that she can find you attractive if you're decently groomed as well as have significantly better personality, sexual attraction does matter but not completely, IMO you have to be just enough attractive to not be called creep (which is not that tough ) a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:32 AM
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Though most men i knew don't just approach, 90% who did got gfs without any repercussions (they're one of the most attractive ones among us and they knew it from the start as both men and women have said it multiples to them) , except those 10% (which was like just 2-3 guys) who were scolded, called creep, and one got socially obliterated by a girl, she mentioned his name in a group chat full of women and made fun of him a lot about how he approached, it gave her the validation she wanted as wel…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:29 AM
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Yeah agreed , like atleast 20-30% of young men are heavily proactive in approaching so even if rest 60-70% of young men rarely approach or just never , it'd not matter because those 20-30% of men are enough for the validation women want and they can simply wait for the best guy to approach them unless they find someone heavily attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:21 AM
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I don't think there's some hard line above or below which rules change. Also I think first of all there's a huge difference among women that who they find attractive enough to be in the top 20% , the conventionally attractive is a thing but it's just about top 1% men and everyone of them alone can't be the favourites of over 60-70% of women too, besides just because they're favourites in being physically attractive for those women doesn't mean they'd be the first choice for all of them in dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 03:14 AM
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I do go to a particular bar now and then and I people watch, and I might be wrong about this but I'm pretty sure if lone women approach men at a bar, the men will probably assume they are prostitutes. I guess either there are just wrong men in your locality or you're just talking about "some men" . Alao nobody is saying women to even approach, just give some "VISIBLE" hints that you're interested but isn't there an app where women have to make the first contact? It's not like that in the app, th…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:53 AM
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I do go to a particular bar now and then and I people watch, and I might be wrong about this but I'm pretty sure if lone women approach men at a bar, the men will probably assume they are prostitutes. I guess either there are just wrong men in your locality or you're just talking about "some men" . Alao nobody is saying women to even approach, just give some "VISIBLE" hints that you're interested
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:46 AM
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Well first of all there aren't a lot of men who are friends with women. There aren't a lot of men who CAN be friends with women. And another thing is the narrative that be clear about whether you want to be friends or something more to men, i mean men are constantly told that if you have feelings for some women then tell her directly rather than just being free friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/25 02:42 AM
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And I'm not saying that Read your comment again, you're saying the boys are the problem if they aren't attractive, but it's not a lot of the times
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 02:15 AM
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Most men view most women only as a sexual option I don't think so, like let's be honest here , most men can't even afford to have a lot of options, so yeah if they're attracted to someone (which actually are most women for average men) , they are most of the time both sexual and long term relationship options
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 06:42 PM
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Half of them aren’t looking for a relationship As young men often aren’t Source? Doesn’t mean they aren’t having sex either That does mean ig? Not to mention we're specifically talking about "fuck, date and marry" not "just fuck" , I'd have talked about the "fuck" part specifically if it'd have been needed but currently the "date" part is more than enough
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:42 AM
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Yeah , exactly, even what she says isn't right for this generation, most men in this generation don't get to fuck, date or marry
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:30 AM
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I guess it's like not being attractive to most women which 80% of men aren't
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:29 AM
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But most young men don't fuck , date or marry Studies show thar 62% men aged 18-30 are single as well as same percentage of men aged 18-25 have last approached a women more than an year ago (46% men among them have never approached) as well as by far the highest reason given was fear of rejections, fear of social and legal consequences
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:26 AM
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But most young men don't fuck , date or marry Studies show thar 62% men aged 18-30 are single as well as same percentage of men aged 18-25 have last approached a women more than an year ago (46% men among them have never approached)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/25 02:26 AM
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And they get them easily
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:12 PM
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Though i don't have any opinion on op's post , still, standards in women, but that’s fair. I also want men to stfu up about being rejected and used by women they chase since they’re choosing them Both things are completely different, most men are just chasing most women, but most women aren't choosing that, are they? So nah, it's not equality even remotely
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 05:11 PM
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"Submissive male" Well i guess I'm copying this flair here
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 06:04 AM
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This !! I believe it too
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/25 10:28 AM
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Oh shit , i missed this reply, thanks for answering this and sorry for the late reply. I always date the guys who are natural leaders . I would say that the ability to assert yourself naturally in a room (not by being aggressive but by conveying respect) and making others feel at ease makes you charismatic. Well i guess i lack it a LOT, I'm just funny, i can make you laugh all day, but that's pretty much it , i am not a leader , never been . I will be the best soldier in every field i'm interest…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:35 PM
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This is a type of comment in which i just know something is wrong but no matter how many times i read it , i didn't find a good one (except the generalisations ofcourse ) so...take my upvote. Maybe it's because i myself didn't get wtf op meant, his title seems way off from it's body. Though it was good to know - "I like to fuck, there are few things in life I look forward to more, and I’ll merrily put my feet in the air every chance I get with a man I trust and love"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:27 PM
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This is a type of comment in which i just know something is wrong but no matter how many times i read it , i didn't find any (except the generalisations ofcourse ) so...take my upvote. Maybe it's because i myself didn't get wtf op meant, his title seems way off from it's body.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:23 PM
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Agreed , one of the reasons I'm not a red pill guy is because of these generalizations. No one wins among battles of extreme ideologies
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 02:19 PM
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Ig the answer is No 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/25 05:32 AM
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Sorry for the late reply Now Women are quite picky. Most don’t have more partners than men do. Less than like 13% have more than 3 partners last year. Most women aren’t sleeping around. Most men can't even get laid vs almost every women can get laid, that's the difference. I can talk about it more but that's not the point here. (Though I'm still curious about the source so please mention it) Again, yeah as i said ," I personally would prefer women being more selective about who they're being wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:32 PM
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In normal circumstances a boss has many 1:1 meetings with his employees. If you need to borrow time from all your male employees to act as witnesses then this male employees won't be as efficient, right? because they are being forced to lose time in meetings they don't need to be. So this boss will take x2 more resources to complete a task What happens if the female employee needs to discuss personal things like PTO and salary? What happens in performance reviews? I'm not so sure that white hous…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:51 PM
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I agree to some extent, although 5'4 in US especially for gen z is like the least 20% men there bruh, he'd not look like a dad bod when compared to vince for sure but come on for most women for sure but this isn't even an average joe
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:43 PM
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What, that doesn't make any sense Please explain how? don't think you've ever had to deal with people's calendars, performance reviews, 1:1 and everything that goes on in an office Please explain the relevance?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:14 PM
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And I'm saying that we can't decide whether he CAN do his job or not , we can decide whether he IS doing his job or not because of being a tax payer and a voter
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 02:02 PM
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poor socialization Even if i agree with it here, fear of false SA accusations It is what it is Poor socialisation has led to fear of SA accusations then? Ah anyways I've discussed it with you just a minute ago , you can reply me there rather than here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:53 PM
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He can't fully do his job, no. Well again, if he's not doing his job then it's fine to criticise him for not doing his job but it's you who are deciding he CAN'T do his job without doing a certain thing . If he's convinced that he CAN do his job like that and he has done it as much as i know based on the president's actions, so yeah that's pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:51 PM
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But he can talk, just not one on one
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:43 PM
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Thanks for your suggestions 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:43 PM
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Oh sorry I didn't know ChatGPT is now the absolute arbitter of truth Did i say that ? Not even wikipedia is But i can certainly say both are one of the best sources of definition of terms atleast rather than your or mine opinion i guess Elon Musk is 188cm and weighs between 90-130kg, according to the information I found online. So depending on which way you look at it, he seems to fluctuate between overweight and obese (BMI 25-35). So not a dad bod, I agree with you there. But calling Vince a da…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:42 PM
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I don't disagree. Social media and just media had made it bad. A lot of men are just convinced that women just don't want to be approached because they are already being approached a lot. Covid amplified it to a completely different level as well, like extremely worse than what it was before. Media had complained a lot to men to not approach, hence almost all men who could've listened aren't approaching and almost all men who wouldn't listen in any case are still doing it , it's pretty easy to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:36 PM
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I don't disagree. Social media and just media had made it bad. A lot of men are just convinced that women just don't want to be approached because they are already being approached a lot. Covid amplified it to a completely different level as well, like extremely worse than what it was before. Media had complained a lot to men to not approach, hence almost all men who could've listened aren't approaching and almost all men who wouldn't listen in any case are still doing it . Now , it's pretty eas…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:33 PM
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See I'd not comment on what your experiences were, most of my friends who were actually afraid have never told it except once when it was us alone having some fun (we're together since middle school) and someone brought it up , we all agreed to it at varying levels. Though anecdotal experiences vary with people that's why anything i claim, i always back it up with a study. Though to clear my point , There's one person who replied to one of my comments , i think it's worth mentioning it here - ht…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:29 PM
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(i had done a comment here but for some reasons it's not visible here or maybe deleted so I'm doing it again) Well except the eyes (cause' i have brown) , i guess i tick all the boxes , i have visible abs , I'm at like 16% body fat, i was chubby back so it was a lot to surpass that muscle memory and sustain that body for over an year lol. Talking about intelligence and education, well I'd not list my achievements but i can say I'm good enough and i can have deep talks in almost any matter. So ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:23 PM
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He is 6'5 with shoes bruh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:18 PM
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Bruh elon is obese Yeah vince vaugh total physique takes a lot of things But he is a dad bod I asked chat gpt- What Is a Dad Bod? Definition: A "dad bod" refers to a physique that is neither very lean nor overly overweight, with some muscle mass but a noticeable layer of body fat. Characteristics: Softer appearance, especially in the chest and abdomen. Limited muscle definition. Healthy but not overly athletic. And by no means Vince has got even remotely visible muscles on his belly or chest He …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 01:13 PM
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+1 I asked chat gpt by giving him the image of the beach pic of vince vaughn, it analysed it to be having close to 25% or even higher , though ofcourse it's tough to determine body fat percentages even by an ai by a picture but it certainly shows the ranges, it gave me close to mid 20 % range Even if we go by bmi, Yes like at 25.9 to 29.9 (100 -115 kg wt) , means overweight to borderline obese. An average American body fat percentage is given to be 20-25% as well
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:57 PM
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I asked chat gpt , what's a dad bod This was the definition - What Is a Dad Bod? Definition: A "dad bod" refers to a physique that is neither very lean nor overly overweight, with some muscle mass but a noticeable layer of body fat. Characteristics: Softer appearance, especially in the chest and abdomen. Limited muscle definition. Healthy but not overly athletic. Vince vaughn has a body fat percentage of 25% or even slightly higher , bruh i had around 23% till high school and i used to be called…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:54 PM
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Lemme post the study he posted "As predicted, women rate muscular men as sexier, more physically dominant and volatile, and less committed to their mates than nonmuscular men. Consistent with the inverted-U hypothesis of masculine traits, men with moderate muscularity are rated most attractive. Consistent with past research on fitness cues, across two measures, women indicate that their most recent short-term sex partners were more muscular than their other sex partners (ds = .36, .47). Across t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:23 PM
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that is extremely unlikely to happen to them Again , that's your opinion So yeah if most people are afraid of something then I'm pretty sure it's not extremely unlikely to happen to them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 12:01 PM
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Again, when most people think that they're afraid of something, i think calling it an exaggeration is itself an exaggeration
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:52 AM
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Being rejected is not being falsely accused of anything. Social consequences could be simply being laughed at. Legal consequences could include being falsely accused but the percent you gave lumps them all together and does not clarify to what degree the surveyed fear being falsely accused. False accusations doesn't mean false accusations of sexual assaults or rapes all the time That study has specifically said that most women report sexual assaults to human resource officers in that office , ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:48 AM
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Yes. And rejection. I think very few are afraid of false accusations. I'm literally asking what causes' rejection becoming so big of a fear for men, you said it's embarrassment That just means you think most men are afraid of embarrassment after rejection ? Like they're rejected and they're embarrassed by it, that's it , no third party or no any other thing involved right ? As much as i know , even men are embarassed because of they being afraid of being understood creepy by women, she's behavin…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:36 AM
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Can this affect that? Yes Is he obligated to not let any of those effects happen ? I don't think so Can you tell me what effects do you have in mind which would be because he was obligated or responsible for something but he didn't do it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:05 AM
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Being an indian, well I'm just happy that at least we aren't stereotyped here too unlike in US
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 11:03 AM
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I don't know , never done that when asked to "elaborate" though i do repeat my sentences with a similar tone when someone especially knowingly misses or ignores something i said Though i g i should add a hint - "legal repercussions and social repercussions" "I'm pretty sure if the repercussions wouldn't have been so high...."
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:42 AM
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Social consequences could be embarrassment So you think men are just afraid of embarassment ? Yeah and sexual assaults could be just staring women for 10 seconds lol If you dont know what scientific data is then look it up So you can't explain the term you mentioned , as expected
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:38 AM
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Fear of approaching because of fear of rejection or 'social consequences' is not fear of false accusation. So please make me understand what are the social and legal consequences? If they're not similar to false accusations? Mind you false accusations doesn't mean false accusations of sexual assaults all the time What causes' fear in men of the rejection? Scientific data is not a survey. Lumping all the numbers and reasons together to attempt to get the numbers you want is not scientific data. Y…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:29 AM
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Okay? The discussion wasn't around whether men are afraid to approach. Its about the percent of men who are genuinely afraid of being falsely accused. And it's measuring a super specific demographic of men not all men who are dating. Okay? None of these things mean being falsely accused Aa let's try for the last time "By far the top reason given was fear of rejection , social consequences and legal consequences I'm pretty sure if the repercussions wouldn't have been so bad the fear of rejections…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 10:25 AM
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None of those are more than 60% "This means that about half of all single men in my dataset are effectively not approaching women for dates in person ." (As well as 62% of single men aged between 18-25 aren't approaching)." None of them are fear of false accusations. "By far the top reason given was fear of rejection , social consequences and legal consequences (70% ig)." Fear of rejection is not the same as fear of false accusations. Again , "By far the top reason given was fear of rejection , …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 09:11 AM
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Yeah bro i agree
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:40 AM
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Bruh, please, just talk in detail all the points you have for a good conversation, if you want to just play what i know and what I don't then i guess we're done here
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:33 AM
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Bruh read the whole study " 59% of men within the 18-25 age group (Zoomers) have not approached someone in the past year. 48% of men in the 26-40 age group (Millennials) have not. " "29% of men said they never approached a woman in person before. 27% said it had been more than one year. This was larger for men in the age 18-25 group: 45% had never approached a woman in person, 17% had not approached a woman in more than one year. “Never” and “more than one year” are discrete groups. This means t…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:24 AM
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Or a religious person refusing to be alone with a secular person? What was this? What if a woman elected to public office refused to meet with male staffers out of fear they would assault her? People are allowed to take reasonable precautions to protect themselves, but sequestering yourself from half of the population directly affects people in the workplace in a way that someone being across the street from someone else would not Well , actually, not exactly the same but a huge amount of things…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:19 AM
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I get what you are saying, though i disagree with a lot of stuffs and i want to add a lot of things too but the main point was that, the fear isn't exaggerated, it's genuine . Atleast don't make men's fear trivial, like even that study want to conclude that men are just more risk averse now that's why they're now more afraid to approach
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 08:11 AM
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How's it so different? No matter whatever his/her job is , he can take whatever precautions he want if he's able to fulfill his duties And he can do meetings with women just not one on one?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 07:14 AM
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Yeah, i get it , man this century is f****d up since it started
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:56 AM
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Explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:51 AM
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Statistics supports it Most young men are now afraid of approaching Most men in workplaces are now afraid on being one on one with women
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:46 AM
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False allegations are a greatly exaggerated issue If more than 60% of the young population of males think it's now enough of a chance for them to happen if they happened to approach women If more than 57% of men think they shouldn't be one on one with women on work places I guess it's not so exaggerating Though OP's post didn't make sense to me when compared to the title he posted
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 04:45 AM
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Aaa, thanks ..... or sorry? Like i don't get what you meant so please explain
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 07:14 PM
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But it's nice to know some people took our words as advice rather than just another thing to hate us for. Hey i was here to learn as much as i can along with taking out my frustrations and vent as well, many times i said things which i didn't mean because this was the only place where i could be a bit extreme ( i still never behaved like a misogynist even when i was at my extreme i promise) and your comments sure taught me many things I'd not ask you to come back , i know it's toxic here , but y…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:55 PM
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Well tbh, i find women after their 30s and in relationships especially long term relationships are the best human beings in the world especially when we are talking about someone from us men can get advice from . Based on your comment, you are a senpai fr👍🤗. The dating scenes in the world currently is f****d up so i'd love to have more your advice and insights senpai. u/egalitarian-flan and u/EulenWatcher were another good women i found here
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:34 PM
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Bruh there're literally many studies posted above
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:05 PM
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I'm not even 25 years old to accurately get what type of body was considered huge 30 years ago, but let me guess , arnold Schwarzenegger ? Was he considered big in the 90s ? Well he would be now You need 15% body fat for visible abs ideally , i have 16% so some upper abs are visible (especially with indian genetics) and I'd be considered an ideal body fat percentage easily by women or men both, especially according to this study (ask chat gpt what type of body fat percentage would've been consid…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 06:01 PM
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THIS!!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:35 PM
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Ig i'd not comment on that , it'd go on a completely different route here. Although, my point has been simple , most men do think like that irl too.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:32 PM
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"As predicted, women rate muscular men as sexier, more physically dominant and volatile, and less committed to their mates than nonmuscular men. Consistent with the inverted-U hypothesis of masculine traits, men with moderate muscularity are rated most attractive. Consistent with past research on fitness cues, across two measures, women indicate that their most recent short-term sex partners were more muscular than their other sex partners (ds = .36, .47). Across three studies, when controlling …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:29 PM
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Well i guess I tick all the points , i mean not to brag but i was a complete nerd in high school so that helped me having knowledge from maths to biology to geopolitics and that's why i can take part in a lot of things in the UNIVERSITY (I'm doing AI and data science from there) Though i do have brown eyes and brown skin (indian) Ig i just have to wish there'd be a women with similar standards as yours around me and she'll notice me soon 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:25 PM
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Well this post is teaching me a lot of things ig. I have a question about what shiuld i do , can i dm?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:12 PM
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Though I'm not sure how many men irl are this way vs those chronically online Maybe , but there's some truth that men irl too find women's standards too high for themselves, atleast in this era Check This study " 59% of men within the 18-25 age group (Zoomers) have not approached someone in the past year. 48% of men in the 26-40 age group (Millennials) have not. " "29% of men said they never approached a woman in person before. 27% said it had been more than one year. This was larger for men in …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 05:07 PM
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Well , found a homie here , tbh I don't even want to show my high libido to her unless she feels close enough, I'm Happy masturbating thinking about her , i just want cuddles and hugs 🤗
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:56 PM
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And since there is a huge lack of third spaces, men have it extremely tough to get what women wants . Women get mature way earlier than a man and generally are more emotionally mature too so they have it easier to understand their preferences, men around them, what men are doing as they basically see men growing in a way
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:53 PM
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Just being curious , what do you like in a man ? Like what personality or physical traits attracts you the most?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:46 PM
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Saving it , got some plan atleast I guess, I'd modify it with how i feel my crush likes
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:45 PM
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that tall, muscular men have BY FAR the greatest optionality with women. I'd like to know the source of the "muscular" one , and compare muscular with just a normal fit guy, rather than an overweight or obese one So yeah, please, go ahead
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:44 PM
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Found a senpai i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:41 PM
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It doesn't, it's still as exhausting as it was before, especially all of this and in the end you get a big NO, why do you think guys stopped approaching nowadays. If she said yes in the end, then those things do feel trivial, because you're with a woman who you like , relaxing in her presence and feeling yourself belonging to her sure gives you more pleasure every day than that by a huge margin , that's for sure, especially if she's a keeper. If the the standards and rejection rates wouldn't hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 04:40 PM
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Well then your opinion ig
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:13 PM
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Let's just say even if 30% of men would've been actively against it or atleast 50% of men wouldn't have supported it actively, feminism like innumerous other protests and movement which was against the privileges of the powerful people at that time would've been easily crushed and destroyed, let alone it being mainstream since 50s and 60s.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:59 PM
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I get the sense that men just want women to do for them what they did for themselves, which is never going to happen. No you totally didn't get it People can be your allies, sure. But you ultimately have to lead the movement That's where i agree though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:51 PM
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Y'all need to take your cues from feminism and the LGBTQ community and be willing to stick your neck out. Well I'd rather not comment on it here , as it'll go on a completely different topic than what we're discussing here , though just for a hint read the comment i did before the last one
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:47 PM
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One of the steps ? Yeah sure, although kinda impossible for men to alone do it
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:35 PM
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I see gender-neutral mental healthcare awareness constantly Yeah , although we have already plenty for schemes and all exclusive for women from both government and non-government funded organisations at a huge level , so targeting men's healthcare atleast mental one should be done too , if they can , though gender neutral one isn't a bad idea as well, atleast it does include men (i hope that it will include cause' many things for example title 9 is gender neutral for name only). Nor have any of …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 06:03 PM
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Though i think his comments are already enough, one thing to add that unlike for women , there are almost no targeted healthcare or any kind of schemes or supports to help men or to raise more awareness between them and their problems
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 05:48 PM
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It's not like that. It's like We can't get approval from women so at least men. I'm pretty sure if ten men say one other man that he is looking handsome or ugly, but after that just one woman says he's looking ugly or Handsome in respective cases , 99% of times he'd believe what the woman said .
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/25 07:45 AM
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Yeah exactly, the biggest reason given in that study was the fear of rejection, social and legal repercussions, and coming out as creepy Here's the study https://datepsychology.com/risk-aversion-and-dating/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 05:16 AM
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Oh nothing, leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 04:45 AM
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Bruh seriously, her age is the argument you've got!?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:56 AM
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Although i agree with you here , i hope you yourself agree with "a lot" and "at least" too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:08 AM
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Aaa? Companionship , love , care, respect, intimacy? I'm pretty sure it's almost impossible to find these all things combined in a single person who's not our partner, and 95% of us are Straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 03:07 AM
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I literally posted the explanation why above And i literally am unable to find it Especially of this - but they along with pew research centres show similar results of 2019 Not to mention, this too - It has nothing to do with most of my comments, it doesn't even talk about 80% of the comments (whether men are approaching or not , whether they are afraid or not,etc) Thank you for being a great example of Aaa, ig, thanks?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/25 03:05 AM
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Yeah , but I'm not henry Cavill or chris Hemsworth, so I'd not kill my chances even if there's a minute chance, especially when she's someone i feel is super compatible with me
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 06:04 PM
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That studies that link has posted clearly shows different results to themselves as well in 2023 , but they along with pew research centres shows similar results of 2019 , which was 52% single young men vs 32% single young women and 25% single men between 30-50 vs 17% single women 50-70 (even if the gender were reversed in the later part , it'd have still not be enough in explaining the previous huge 20% gap)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:33 PM
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Have you even bothered to read that link ? 1st - It has nothing to do with most of my comments, it doesn't even talk about 80% of the comments (whether men are approaching or not , whether they are afraid or not,etc) 2nd - That studies that link has posted clearly shows different results to themselves as well in 2023 , but they along with pew research centres shows similar results of 2019 , which was 52% single young men vs 32% single young women and 25% single men between 30-50 vs 17% single wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 01:28 PM
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I do understand being cautious on a first date, especially if you haven't met each other before. Same here, i mean i clearly get they are women and they've a lot of risks out there way more than men, especially when it's about sex . But the entitlement after this - What I don't understand at all is completely distancing yourself from your partner, hoping that they will interpret your lack of any action as a sign of interest. That's just bs , they want men to run and chase those women as well whe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 12:38 PM
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I’m starting to wonder if their world is more and more make believe and that’s why it only exists online Not particular about this post , though it's not done by a red pill /black pill man himself, but still How do you think it just exists online? Like let's say they claim men are now afraid to approach after me too , that's true Men are now afraid to be alone one on one with me too, again True Women especially young are almost only attracted to the top 20-30% attractive men and almost all young…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:57 AM
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Why are you guys missing the whole point of OP He has clearly said "You don't need to f***k him against your will" , just show signs , like at least flirting or kissing even on forehead or cheek , to show that yeah atleast he's likable to you physically, it's absolutely the right thing for women to have sex with someone they're close enough. Although I'm ready to wait for some dates before she ⁰ opens up to me , like 3 dates or something like that, i don't even want sex until we are close enough…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:31 AM
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Bro leave it , she's like "hey I'm a women I'm having a life risk simply being in presence of yours" in literally a date, imagine that. It's not worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:20 AM
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We women certainly take enough of a risk simply being in a man's presence Imagine being with someone who thinks she's having a life risk just being in your presence lol . No wonder 60% of young men have never approached a woman having the biggest reason as the fear of rejections, social and legal repercussions and coming out as creepy, by far in any generation. If women have this attitude in literally a date -"hey I'm a women I'm having a life risk simply being in presence of yours" i g their fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/25 03:19 AM
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i've been single for most of my life as a lady. as has most of my female friends. As much as i know, it is a choice not an obligation for 80% women we've all been judged on our looks since childhood. I guess same for men , although after a certain age they're judged for even more things like how much money they earn
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 05:12 PM
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Is it ? I interpreted is women who run on the logic of "my money is my money and his money is his money" , " i am a woman so how can i say sorry" , etc etc Women like this or feminists like These Basically entitled and narcissist ones ig yeah I personally am happy if i got this or this And I'm trying to improve myself to be worthy of her till I get her
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:36 AM
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Is it ? I interpreted is women who run on the logic of "my money is my money and his money is his money" , " i am a women so how can i say sorry" , etc etc Basically entitled ones ig
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:33 AM
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All because they're kinda rejected by the society and women? Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:30 AM
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Then i guess 80% of women especially young are beautiful Princesses and 20% men are those prince
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:29 AM
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Well it's a paradox for normal men who weren't that attractive since childhood
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:28 AM
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Yup , that was the point related to the post and the comment
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 04:26 AM
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But they do want relationships right?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 03:10 AM
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Aaa, although I've already replied to the other comments you mentioned this Still, i want to clear something here , I'm not asking for its justification, there can be many reasons imo, women in relationships with older men , lesbian rates , situationships, infidelity rates, polygamy, etc . But that's not the point here, the point is that women want relationships too ,so does men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:54 AM
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No I'm not asking for its justification, there can be many reasons along with that imo, situationships, infidelity rates, polygamy, etc . But that's not the point here, the point is that women want relationships too
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:52 AM
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Even that agrees with the 52 and 32 ratio of 2019. All the studies mentioned here were themselves showing a lot of different results with each other in 2022, 23 but they had almost similar results in 2019
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:42 AM
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Even that agrees with the 52 and 32 ratio of 2019. All the studies mentioned here were themselves showing a lot of different results with each other in 2022, 23 but they had almost similar results in 2019
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/24 02:41 AM
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Even in the Victorian Era, when religion had lost its hold somewhat, a man was considered incomplete w/o a woman, who was considered his spiritual superior. Can i know the basis behind the "spiritual superior" claim?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:10 PM
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In case anyone wanting source , it's pew research center 2023 study, 63% of young men were single whereas a mere 34% of young women were
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 07:06 PM
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Those are super common ideas, but they've been disproven. Here's the thing - studies show that while oxytocin is released during sex and other activities, it's not some magical super glue. Oxytocin is released in all kinds of scenarios for men and women alike (e.g., physical touch, cuddling, other nonsexual interactions) and does not automatically “lock in” a permanent emotional attachment. Well lemme copy paste the reply I've done to one another person, most of this reply is from the same study…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:51 PM
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Well oxytocin's highest impact is bond formation though it also increases empathy, promotes trust and social recognition, increases emotional maturity and works extremely well as stress regulators as well. Now , during orgasm especially in females , oxytocin not only gets released by far in the biggest amount (surpassing the amount released in even breastfeeding by several times) but also 25-60% more than men after orgasm (based on the emotional attachment, emotional security and others). Also w…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:47 PM
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My fav person on this sub replied to me , yay !! Aaa..anyways , coming to the point, no there aren't any studies supporting this idea and there are just correlation stats , although there aren't any correlation stats or studies which shows contradictions as well . The research about it is still going on, promiscuity especially of women this actively is not that old to have a huge amount of data present to research on . Although the correlation stats and biological theory currently, though far fr…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:30 PM
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I remember a decision by one court of my country that not having sex with the husband for a long time (like some months or an year or more) without any proper reason is "MENTAL CRUELTY" so i guess that indirectly proves your point
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:13 PM
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Well i guess then more than atleast 80% of young men (18-25) or 60% of men aged (18-30) are anti social because 60% young men or 45% of men aged 18-30 never approached any girl and 80% of young men or 60% of men aged 18-30 last approached any girl more than an year ago . By far the biggest reason they mentioned is the fear of rejection and social as well as legal issues , i.e. fear of considered creepy by women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:11 PM
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. Your partner declaring how much they need you doesn't feel empowering but suffocating. Well it's exactly opposite to me , if I'm being in a relationship with someone then I'd like that person to need me as much as i need them , just like the appreciation, love and respect part as well
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 09:06 PM
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Please, dude. Where those "survey studies"? Well here are those surveys and studies - https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC8133465/?utm_source=chatgpt.com Also studies also shows that face preferences varies extremely but they are considered in personality a lot too, sense of humour and confidence tops in personality You want more surveys? I'd just say go to youtube and search "which body/muscles do women prefer" , fitness influencers regularly do such type of videos, the influencers i follo…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 11:30 AM
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What a bunch of ignorant simps you guys are. Sure, faces are a little subjective, but all women go for the exact same features: 666 big muscles, tall, wide shoulders, square jaw No that's not even remotely true for appearances and . personalities, all studies and surveys show that face, skin health, grooming, etc are the most desired trait which makes you attractive to women, though being an overweight guy is a turn off, you just need to have like 20% of body fat and you'll already be better tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/24 06:38 AM
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Well guys just have different methods of giving a shit about each other . As i mentioned, if there's a fight or any kind of financial help needed, I'd not need to ask twice most of the time , but be vulnerable?well that's a no no; hugs and all , again same ; etc
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:55 PM
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Actually the reasons, as found in the study here https://datepsychology.com/risk-aversion-and-dating/ It is mostly fear , fear of rejection, fear of social and legal repercussions, fear of coming out as creepy. And i think you can easily guess what things caused this and the idea that women don't want to be approached at all especially by average men because they are already getting approached a lot to get and settle into the minds of most young men completely. Although i was a bit off , the stu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:53 PM
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Well i guess either you and i as well as most men i knew and meet all over the world on social media are from different worlds and you are projecting women's experiences, especially your anecdotal one for all or most men then , like most guys don't even have female friends unlike your male friends. The females i can say even close to be my friends are pretty much just my classmates with whom i can talk about work and career and pretty much it.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:47 PM
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I did. You literally asked a question that I already answered, so I felt like I was wasting my time immediately. No you didn't, all the three points you said are indirect answers , i wanted more elaborate ones to comment on anything That’s not even what I was replying to, more reasons why I didn’t want to engage in this conversation. Aa ,i guess , "guys are lonely" is pretty much the definition of "male loneliness epidemic" and most men (especially the young ones) aren't able to get relationship…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:38 PM
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Aa, source ? I think you are talking about the minority, like I'm pretty sure most non chads men i met are happy and content with cuddles , sex , though heavily desired , but not entirely expected to that soon. why do you think even for red pill, paid sex isn't considered an option to get laid ? Besides as much as the dating studies showed https://datepsychology.com/risk-aversion-and-dating/ 60% of men aged 18-25 have never approached a women and 62% of men aged 18-30 haven't approached women fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:28 PM
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Ig that is normal. At least to most of the guys i know , I've got a lot of friends and I can't share my problems with them unless I'm asking for financial or physical help (for these , I'd not have to ask them a lot) and neither can I get that amount of affection or be that vulnerable to them even if i am able to trust them that much to share those things. Most of the time it would be the result into being told to man up or gay , the solution of someone's problems for men are motivation not show…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:20 PM
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Well if that's what you think then bye . Though i just wanted more direct answers like what are the sources or what are the reasons behind you thinking Male loneliness epidemic is being caused because guys are not committed, cause' i think that's actually proving red pill ideas to me , or other reason because men are not making enough efforts , although the idea of men being clingy is indirectly proving that they're doing more efforts . I'd have explained more but since you don't want to have a …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:05 PM
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If i compare it with myself , I've got a lot of hobbies (workouts, games , anime and reading different scientific researches, books , etc) , have work and responsibilities (actually I'm in uni so most of my work is my academics ) , have a lot of friends who i talk to though I'm not sure it's completely dependent on a particular person to get a lot of supporting and caring family and friends, but that doesn't mean I'm not just barely able to suppress my desperation of finding someone for hugs, cu…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 05:00 PM
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Young men are not exactly as committal as you guys think they are. That’s why situationships are a thing. Aa can you please elaborate and explain more what did you mean here Well, considering my ex kept whining about being lonely but I had to struggle to even put effort into the relationship before I broke it off, I feel like this is another problem guys have Here too Because many of us have dealt with these guys Which guys , single and lonely ones ? There is a multitude of reasons why they're s…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 04:09 PM
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As a very closed-off guy w/ no experience dating, I take stuff like this to heart. I can't fathom how these dudes around me pour their soul out on women the second they get shown an ounce of kindness. Ive had it destroy my friend groups, lead to really uncomfortable conversations, stalking, etc. It must come down to putting women on a pedestal. They skip the whole getting to know this human being step and reduce them to a caricature of the perfect GF in their imagination. I guess this is my prev…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 03:59 PM
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Well i was just scrolling down my notifications again and i found out that i missed this reply Remember, women like sex too. (Sorry for the rant below 😅) Yeah, i was kinda convinced women don't like sex that much especially when compared to men, now just recently, i think women, if pleasured and stimulated correctly, would be more addicted and have even higher sex drive than men in general. It's because the orgasm gap is a thing and women's sexual pleasure especially to their extremes is ignored…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 09:27 AM
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I mean according to studies, average guys marrying have got the same average height or at max 2 inches more height as the average male height of the country and similar in the women as well In fact studies like these- https://www.independent.co.uk/news/science/how-men-and-women-find-a-partner-the-long-and-short-of-it-8454629.html#:~:text=They%20found%20that%20in%20more,be%20reversed%20in%20some%20partnerships. "The average height difference between men and women in the U.S is about 6 inches. Wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 08:26 AM
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Yeah , i guess i checked a stats which says like only 0.1% of males in the USA have got at least visible abs, when i go on social media , lol it seems 10% atleast I almost thought I'm too overweight in childhood , well atleast i got fitter now
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:57 AM
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That guy is almost black pilled bro, you can't argue your way Like they'd think tall guys are having life with women on easy mode lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:54 AM
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Why would they'd do sex with a man disgusted with the There's no any study about it nor any personal experience I've heard cause' no one does it, those who have got humiliation fetish might do it but they'd orgasm as well, if they exist among women
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 06:19 PM
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Well they're average misogynists or extremely bigoted then Also, ig, it's tough to know whether they've changed or not , in fact it's even tougher to know whether they're promiscuous or not, so these things just matter as a label in my opinion, not practical enough
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:58 PM
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We've found an exception here
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:49 PM
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You are red pill right ? In any case , i don't think so, if she now feels that sex isn't just a means of pleasure, i guess it's called changing, people change, although most promiscuous women i met are more into making world believe promiscuous is extremely good and have no impact on relationship rather than promiscuousity was a mistake and they'd not do that later on if given the chances
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:47 PM
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Do you think male and female bodies are the same , or just even act identical after sex ? Or even remotely?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:41 PM
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Exactly, same question lol Also, just curious, why are you red leaning though?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:40 PM
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Source? I mean they do masturbate too you know ? Well, many men who are voluntarily virgins do this because they don't want to have sex before they are close enough to someone, like me ? Why do you think red pill men aren't ok with having sex with the sex workers but just real women ? I'm pretty sure at least 40-50% of them have as much sex drive or even higher than even the chads they mentioned or the men who are getting laid Many women might do it for religious reasons Many women might do it b…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:39 PM
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Yeah bro, i recently studied a bit about biology from some doctors i knew and youtube (Dr. Reena malik) , man i got to know women enjoy sex more than men if they are able to get the physical and emotional stimulation required
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:27 PM
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Bruh, you know about a bit of biology? Yeah actually women enjoys more than men after an orgasm if they are able to achieve that to their max , the amount of dopamine and oxytocin released in women significantly surpasses to that of men after orgasm, though for women it's not just physical but also a lot more emotional stimulation required when compared to men, women's clitoris has literally 10k nerve fibres , way more than penis, it's by far the most sensitive part of the human body among both …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:25 PM
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Exactly lol, i mean like basic biology says this , during sex human especially female's body releases a huge amount of oxytocin which is basically the love hormone or the hormone responsible for bond formation, sex in a relationship increases the bond in that relationship, sex with a huge amount of different people disturbs the psychology and capability of bond formation as well as loyalty, there's a reason why divorce rates are so high among women who are promiscuous
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:21 PM
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I mean unless you wanted to change yourself and think that you'd never do this in future, past does matter bro especially related to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:18 PM
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Actually in conservative countries, most don't even know kinks , those who know are mostly open minded, i know it but I prefer women with body count 0-3 or 0-5 past relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:34 PM
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Even 1% too much, it'd be less than 0.5% taller than literally 6'3 even in US
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 01:05 PM
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I guess , he wanted to say everyone would've been able to get relationships by doing a fraction of the amount of effort you need to do as an average male , atleast most could , but they aren't i guess , atleast among generation z , all studies suggests that more young men are single than men atleast the studies in the last 5-7 years, it skyrocketed after pandemic. Also another study says that 60% men aged 18-25 have never approached any woman and 70% of men aged 18-30 have never approached last …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 12:48 PM
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Thanks sis ❤️ If i talk about myself, why didn't I get trapped, it was because of fear, like even if it'd have been true , all the dreams and scenarios i have thought that I'd do this with my partner when I'd meet her would be just shattered, so i just wasn't willing to accept that, ignorance is bliss many times.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:37 PM
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Though I'm not gonna debate on it , I'm still curious why do you think they are losers? Is it because 70% of those men have never approached because of fear of rejection, social and legal consequences? I'm giving the source of that data i posted- https://medium.com/heart-affairs/most-young-men-are-not-approaching-women-and-thats-a-problem-41a9a5d363a8 And yeah it's the men aged between 18-25 not 18-30 , sorry, i mistakenly posted it because in most of the places young men are referred to be aged…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 06:28 PM
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How about you prove that it is stupid ? Especially which proves that most men don't find most women attractive? Also, well then , another stat , which is not completely but partially related to this thing especially the average men part, another study shows that 60% of young men (aged 18-30) have never approached any women in their life , let alone those who've just approached once or twice, also the biggest reason was the fear of rejection and the other social repercussions
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:53 PM
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Yes, I'm sure based on the comments made here. I'm specifically referring to the men who frequent this sub So the men who are frequent in these subs aren't average men ? Omg. Enough of that study ffs. why though, like pretty much all the limitations I've heard of it just proves that men are attracted to far more men than they chose attractive in that study (which was like around half of women already)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 04:32 PM
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But they aren't pursuing or paying attention to avg women. Only porn stars, OF and IG baddies. Are you sure about that? I mean the dating apps studies atleast is authenticated enough to disapprove that if not that women find just 20% men attractive on an average
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:46 PM
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I guess that's the reason why 60% of young men (18-30) have never approached any women in their life
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:36 PM
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love can fade Don't know this is true or not but i'm just gonna ignore this shit, this feels extremely frightening to accept, ignorance is bliss
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:06 PM
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r/girlsarentreal lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:04 PM
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Well, i guess today's dose of positivity or hope , i hope that I'm able to find a woman like you who , somehow , loves me, i promise to treat her like my queen ❤️
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:59 PM
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Well I guess I'm not among most men then. I mean i admire a lot of the queens especially from the history, in fact one of the women currently i admire is the leader of what you can say men's rights activism in my country. I love and respect one of my older cousin's sisters a lot ( she's so proud of me from when i was a kid) . I love my mother (though I do not respect her as an intelligent and mature person a lot) . My aunt has been one of the best people I've ever met for me. Yet to fall in love…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:56 PM
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Plenty of breakup subs are filled with women. I’ve even met women in mental hospitals who have attempted suicide because of a breakup. Hey can you send me the name of those subs or some stories of those women Got a lot of negativity especially in my country's social media subs or sites (well almost the only way i can meet stranger women and know about women , irl, all the girls i know are mostly like just classmates)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:48 PM
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but y’all can’t have one conversation without bringing it back to some 666 rule that basically never actually plays out in real life. I mean isn't it the same as what you're doing too? Like you were just saying men find only hourglass figures attractive Men , especially some men ,might find hourglass more attractive but they aren't even close to being the only ones being attractive Like, 90% of women in the Uk and the US don't have Hourglass figure but neither men are only attracted to them nor …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 02:30 PM
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But in their 30s right? Besides according to pew data, In 2023, 63% young men were single whereas mere 34% women were Of the age 30-50 , 25% men vs 17% women In 2019, it was 52% vs 32% for young men and pretty much similar for people aged 30-50 Different dating app studies too indicates that mere 20% of men were found more attractive than medium by women and the unattractive ones didn't even get responses a lot whereas for men more than half of women were considered more attractive than medium a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:31 AM
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So have you done whatever you can to obtain the result? Atleast most young men in US didn't as not only they're more overweight than women but literally 34.1% , combining them with other problems especially mental ones which's making their personality and appearance unlikeable , I'm pretty sure this number would reach above 60% which'd be the exact amount of US young men who are single (pew research survey)
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:11 AM
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And guys here aren't double it? Like house parties and hitting the bar?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 03:00 AM
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Oh, i guess copy paste time but more on the red pill you have guys say that men need to have high n-counts to have a chance at understanding female nature, I don't know , most red pill guys i met never liked chads i.e. those men who were able to become promiscuous these are the guys who fall back on “well being a promiscuous man is harder than a promiscuous woman so thats why it is valuable” I mean even i used this too, not to support male promiscuity but as arguments about the same thing mentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:18 PM
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Well i don't save or remember the posts exactly talking about mutilating men especially on private parts and things similar to "kill all men" trend , killing men based on just accusations of sexual assault (not even rape) , etc But just for the hate part, I guess , I've got even better and more authentic thing Probably the best sub of women on reddit in my opinion - https://np.reddit.com/r/AskWomenNoCensor/s/mswqo9cAGw
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:18 PM
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Aaa not want to debate about other things but i wanna just say the name of this sub PURPLE PILL 'DEBATE'
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:55 PM
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I wonder why two x and many many of it's subs are still in trend then ? Well we know the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:53 PM
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but more on the red pill you have guys say that men need to have high n-counts to have a chance at understanding female nature, I don't know , most red pill guys i met never liked chads i.e. those men who were able to become promiscuous these are the guys who fall back on “well being a promiscuous man is harder than a promiscuous woman so thats why it is valuable” I mean even i used this too, not to support male promiscuity but as arguments about the same thing mentioned here , that female promi…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:44 PM
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Is it ? I guess then the men I've found who hate chads , male promiscuity as much as they hate female promiscuity, were exceptions
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:37 PM
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I guess it's already replied but another thing to say is which a man can do in a committed monogamous relationship by making efforts An average or below man most certainly can't do it till like it's late 20s after the dating and hookup culture is common To make efforts you have to atleast get a monogamous relationship, I'm pretty sure a lot of men who talk about the chads or things remotely similar to that would settle for a monogamous relationship and wouldn't say anything after that about them…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:35 PM
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I mean I'm not a red pill i guy but i do agree with a lot of it's things , especially the 80:20 rule or in fact i believe it's actually 95:5 rule though those 5% men aren't the same for all women so after all the overlappings we can say probably like only 30-40% men can be considered physically attractive for way more than most men. I guess that's another reason why more than 70% of young men aren't even approaching women nowadays and more than half have never approached Talking about the hard w…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 04:02 PM
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I mean I don't want to debate on other things but The men who say this shit also call women used up if they have more than a few exes I'm pretty sure the men who would say things like this or who literally hate the promiscuousity of women also hate the promiscuousity of men too and call them fuckboys, though it wouldn't matter because not a lot of people from opposite sex have a lot of problems with the promiscuity of men
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 03:54 PM
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For me it’s caring about and liking my company, not my body Well if that's what you want , it's kinda rare of course, i mean if i am going to be with someone it's impossible that I don't like her body along with caring about and liking her company. It'd be almost impossible for me to claim that i love her but i don't love her body too , for kissing, for cuddling, for spooning, etc , even sex as well though it's not coming into picture sooner most probably , it'd be when we'd be close enough, pro…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 10:40 AM
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So based on what ? And How's it tough to get it for you from men ? Again, men means vast majority of men not just the top attractive ones
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:36 AM
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I mean again i guess I guess it's more like women don't even find way more than most men attractive And the narrative was about just being good in attractiveness, hygiene, etc and focusing of more things like personality , being respectful to women, etc, what they got was you have to be attractive, have high social status, etc and everything else will go out of window . I'm pretty sure these two parts of the comments do have the answer of your next comment too
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:22 AM
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Each and every man who claims that they assumed women would settle for any nice guy no matter how unattractive he is because “sexual attraction isn’t important to women” is solely responsible for objectifying women and putting them on a pedestal It’s wild that men here are still sticking to the story they are disgusted to discover that women are also human beings with the very same desire to mate. I guess it's more like women don't even find way more than most men attractive, and the narrative w…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:09 AM
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fat people don’t have a right to comfortable clothing and products designed and marketed to them!! Well I'm pretty sure it's way less common than the 666 which I don't think i need to prove is way way way more extreme
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 03:04 AM
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I guess it's not that wrong to accept that the "the grapes are sour" thing is close to being what the truth is . I mean it's obvious modern men are complaining that modern women have unrealistic standards before marriage and even in the relationship, but they still are the other gender who were supposed to be the potential future partner , hence the resentment that women not only are not attracted to them but also they aren't those ideal good people he thought before
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/24 02:29 AM
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Well i agree with you in the first comment, let me rewrite it in the best, the moment any attractive guy compliments them , though rarely the men who they consider attractive are below their "standards", in most cases it's above. For the 2nd part , I'm pretty sure it'd have been much much more if the men who are not that attractive were having so many social and other problems after approaching /complimenting them I mean just see the era after women started saying men not to approach them at all…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:58 PM
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I guess the obsession with height is by far the highest in South korea
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:25 PM
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I don't think there'd be a place where white , asians and latinas are there but is so different from the general trend in the US
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:23 PM
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I'm literally chronically online but who tf is Lilly Philips, i just know her from the other sub of women that she had some mental problems like self harm fetish , that's pretty much it i know
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 07:19 PM
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They would be the least qualified to talk on it actually Please give the reasons like i gave Youre the one who brought up 6ft in that context. You just seen my comment that said I am 5'6 so what are you even talking about? Im seen as less that men who are 5'9 which is average height. If you are below average height it is the most important trait Well first of all 6 feet is considered as the epitome of the exaggerated height consider as tall, so i used it Now , no it's not , that's not how averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:38 PM
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Please read again, those 7 % are the cases where females are "taller" than their partners, when the average height differences are 5-6 inches too , it proves the things you already knew are pretty similar to what I've said already
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:15 PM
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I've never said too that it isn't important "at all" for "all women" , ofcourse it'd be important for a lot of women (maybe even most) and with varied choices as well , but again that's not even the major factor (which the statistics shows). Also i think the tall guys would be the most authentic one to tell you these because they are the ones who know what they experience. All the other traits are as important , like again , see for yourself, go to parks and the places where couples hang out , I…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:13 PM
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so I'm not sure why you think women should be approaching ugly men they're not interested in? Aa , where did i say so ? Get a hair cut, lose some weight, apply a moisturizer, and have some sense of style, that's really all it takes to be more attractive than 80% of men which is a really low bar to meet. 🤷‍♂️ Aaa, okay, I'm checkmate lol I personally do all those things , and have by far the perfect bmi i ever wanted (17% body fat) ,etc (except i don't have a single idea about style lol ) but nev…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 08:02 PM
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Well, I don't know why you went so personal I mean you just declared them "jealous" , so i just tried to explain it, that it's not jealousy that's it. Also, well as much as i know promiscuous men are called f**kboys, they're very few in number and for some reasons i never heard it in social media that they're looked down on by women, in fact they are the ones who attract women the most , whereas men who are virgins are one of the least attractive Also, if you wanna go with stats and all then mos…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:32 PM
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You know he's using promiscuity not virginity there right? It just means treating sex as just a means of pleasure not a sign of intimacy, trust, love, etc If you are focussing on things like ‘promiscuity’ and ‘n-count’ over finding your own special good match, that insecurity will stay and will stop you in your ways. Though i agree with you there
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 06:03 PM
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I think it's more like "since you had sex with all kinds of people and treated it as just a means of pleasure not intimacy and love, i guess you're not worthy enough to invest emotions and efforts in" I mean he used proper words like"promiscuous" rather than "virginity" so it doesn't mean just having partners before
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:59 PM
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Yeah but as op said below, it's almost an exception because external validation is one of the best things to remove insecurities and make someone more confident, not to mention most of the times those people are in need of therapy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:54 PM
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I mean it feels the opposite of "i can fix her" i guess It depends on you that what do you think is needing to be fixed, he thinks it's promiscuity
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 05:53 PM
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Well again, based on what you said , women approach all kinds of attractive and "appealing" men Red pill ideology majorly is nothing but the 80-20 rule or things similar to it , i mean that women are extremely selective in choosing people to date AND all the women goes for a very small number of men , most other things are subsets of the similar rule as well Even though they stick with mostly things like height, body, etc and explains these with biology and other things but before going into tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:39 AM
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Personally, the kind of woman I go after is the kind of woman who makes the first move on me. I know for a fact that it's not about my looks. Last week a gay guy asked me to take a picture with his girlfriend because it would make her very happy (wink wink). But my personal case isn't interesting. I'm actually quite confident in myself and far from hopeless, my therapist even told me that given my characteristics, my lack of success with women was a statistical anomaly. Whether he was sincere or…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 03:00 AM
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Honestly bro i had the exact same experience when i was in middle school and high school
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:32 AM
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+1
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:30 AM
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I mean height, despite being an attractive trait, isn't solely considered for relationships especially long term, not even the biggest factor. Check out any statistics of promiscuity, average height differences between couples (5-6 inches, and average female height is 5'4 in US, in fact in 7%+ relationships women were taller), studies showing what females consider attractive (it includes all kinds of things from face, social status, popularity, tall, social skills, personality, grooming , etc , …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 02:29 AM
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Well I'm from india originally and in india too, fair skin is considered way more attractive (I'm more of a wheatish brown skin you can say), so in indonesia as well , etc so i get where you are coming from. I can't say what you derived was wrong because it's what your experience taught you . But my feelings as a guy and experiences being with different guys are completely different . Also I'd agree with that last part if you are 100% sure your feelings are safe with that person. I thinn it's tr…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 06:40 PM
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The comment has been deleted so can't see that But A lot for women actually do approach men they just don't approach YOU personally. I approach men all the time, and have male friends that have women approaching them all the time, because they actually like women and are receptive to them Ig then less than only a few men are receptive and like women including your male friends ? Cause' even your males would agree on it that way more than most men they know have never been approached , go on any …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:39 PM
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because it happens all the time Aaa, where ? I mean go on any sub you want with significant numbers of men and lemme see how many of them have ever been approached, especially young men (men aged between 18-30) , unless you agree that only less than a few men are attractive and appealing to women i g
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:37 PM
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So ig in a way you agree that only less than a few men are attractive and appealing to women, because that's the exact numbers of men who are being approached, well looks like you agree with red pill ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:34 PM
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I used to approach men I like when I was younger but I always get rejected coz men find it repulsive when a woman pursues a man. So I stopped chasing men. Eventually I got the men that I liked, they are the ones chasing me. But the moment I pursue them back, they push away Can i ask where you live, cause' there's only a few young men i know who's ever "rejected" a girl and most of them already had relationships or just didn't want to be with those girls or just didn't want to be with anyone at a…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:30 PM
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But he can be one to argue and show his opinions on it Can't he ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:27 PM
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I guess 60% of young men would disagree with you atleast because they've literally never approached any girl and the biggest reason is the aftereffects of rejection It's by far the biggest in any generation till now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:22 PM
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There are plenty of physically attractive men in the world I mean based on studies, that isn't true , for women, only a minority of men are physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:13 PM
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Attractive Men, Rich Men, Charismatic Men and Funny Men are all approached by women I guess being funny, while is an attractive aspect, still isn't even remotely close enough to get women asking you out , it's more of a long term benefit Attractive (which also include charismatic i guess , don't know what actual it is to women though) and rich men sure do get
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:10 PM
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Man the flex lol , and then some say that "below average women are unattractive lonely women who are invisible to boys" whereas the way you have shown yourself, it's contradicting them Anyways i think red pill ideology was clear about this, the 80-20 rule, the safe guy thing, etc ? You're still in early 30s , not to mention everything you mentioned was about your past Based on the stats though, young men are leaving dating in much much more numbers than women lol, have you even seen the stats , …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 03:54 PM
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America I guess it's not just in America atleast now
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:58 PM
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Lol i chuckled 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 12:50 PM
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Lol i chuckled after seeing this
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 06:11 PM
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Wtf , i wrote a whole essay for the answer and for some reasons it wasn't posted lol Anyways , if i have to just short it up, Then I'm the same person who commented this too https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/1h8zaw6/comment/m161999/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=mweb3x&utm_name=mweb3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button What i said there would feel different from what i said here but it isn't in reality if you read both of them carefully And i agree with you on dating sites thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:32 PM
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If this was what you got from the comment , well see ya
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:19 PM
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Well for average men, the bare minimum is close to as much attractive as the top models , there's not that big if a difference For women, it's a huge difference, not to mention they can even get into relationships with the men they want but not the commitment of being forever her whereas they know they can get average men whenever they want (safe guy thing ig) So yeah they'd not date other men after that especially when they are young
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:23 PM
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Well one way to think that they can't get the commitment from 666 , and just sex, so they've to settle for 555
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:19 PM
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Tall anythings get dates. Hey, one tall guy here , didn't get dates when i had belly fat, in fact still only was proposed once and that too was a long distance relationship (so she didn't even know i am a tall guy lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:40 AM
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Even though I'm 6 feet , i do agree with you to a large extent . I think even though looks are a large factor especially to get you to the door , social skills, personality, how good you are in bed with her (if you are getting intimate) , etc do play a major factor for average women in getting the relationship successful Looks become way bigger of a factor when you just want to get laid , when you want a relationship being successful too , despite being a big factor, aren't alone enough, women s…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:36 AM
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Dear women, just because everyone tells you you're beautiful, doesn't mean you deserve top 1% men. actually compare yourself and realise maybe 80% of women aren't in the top 1%. I mean if it isn't hurting them , if they aren't complaining about it , if they are getting the top 1% men , why should they sacrifice this and believe you that they don't deserve the top 1% ? Dear top 1% men, stop cheating. you dating 5 women at once is the reason that there are so many single men compared to single wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 08:05 AM
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Yeah bro
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:58 AM
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Being in shape? How many overweight women need to lose weight to get sex? Why should they be, they already have more biological risks than men after sex? Weight is 80% genetic Source? I was a bit overweight till middle school and in EARLY years of high school, didn't take much, like less than 2 months to have like 20.3 BMI This says 40-70% https://www.thehastingscenter.org/the-genetics-of-obesity-a-new-narrative-or-the-same-old-story/#:~:text=Body%20weight%20is%20highly%20heritable,for%20height%…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:54 AM
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Was tough to understand? Same here But I got it after reading 2nd time
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:47 AM
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This is a fallacy. There are a great number of men who are in committed relationships with women. Even on this sub is a recent post I made, many dudes shared that even though they did not possess all qualities of the 666 that did not hinder the success they had w women Well 666 isn't 10% , it's less than 0.1% men , also at your post people said there was a huge difference after they had two 6 when compared to one Multiple studies of dating sites and others do prove that women indeed find even le…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:46 AM
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No no i was serious, they are actually good to look at when feeling insecure about your looks and all , even if it isn't me
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:17 AM
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No they don't say it for sexually satisfying your partners (though it is different from just "women" too), they say it for just being attractive to women, they mean women's advice wouldn't make it attractive enough to get laid but they don't say anything for how to be good in bed especially with a particular woman (Even though i personally do listen to women's advice, even though I don't just blindly trust all of their advices)
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 07:10 AM
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I mean people like me who're from a very traditional household especially in asia sooooooo just can't talk about this from their father, that's why internet 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:53 AM
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Saving these comments here , they are gold
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:51 AM
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Well confirmation bias exists in all frameworks (including feminist and egalitarian perspectives), the RP community often uses empirical data and anecdotes to validate its points. This is not inherently different from other schools of thought relying on case studies or qualitative data. it often cites studies showing the 80/20 rule (in my opinion it's more like 95-5 rule). This aligns with research on online dating trends and evolutionary strategies. Many RP proponents use data and reasoning to …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 06:32 AM
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you’re learning from are actually viable sources…. Which, the redpill isn’t. How? What are the viable sources and how are they better than the red pill?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:29 AM
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Overall the West is a better place to raise kids. So it's probably a good idea to come back home once you have a good stable relationship. I mean i disagree with it here, i think west is better to get success and living a luxurious life but after your kids are mature , to raise kids both culturally and financially, it's better in asian countries like India , especially their non-westernised urban part
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 03:16 AM
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I mean sure but it'll be one of the least ones but it'll still be among the "crazy" thing (Btw loved your rant , we are gods lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/24 11:14 AM
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I don't even get what you're saying, fault? On women? Wasn't the topic supposed to be about 6 pack and desirability? Women are entitled of their preferences and who they're attracted to , so do men We are talking about "what" are those preferences not blaming women all for anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 10:48 PM
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You know I've replied to her already, check again
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:39 PM
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Seriously sad how you can't admit men aren't perfect. That they like women are shallow cunts some of the time. Men? Perfect? Aaa, you know we are talking about sexual/physical attraction right? And getting attracted to most people in the other gender by no means makes you more perfect Now I know you didn't read it cause bullshit that ain't what it said. Well that's exactly what it said
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:35 PM
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Well your source of information, cause every dating app study we have proved the same- "A data scientist representing the popular dating app “Hinge” reported on the Gini coefficients he had found in his company’s abundant data, treating “likes” as the equivalent of income. He reported that heterosexual females faced a Gini coefficient of 0.324, while heterosexual males faced a much higher Gini coefficient of 0.542. So neither sex has complete equality: in both cases, there are some “wealthy” peo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:29 PM
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Not a study a blog post and it said women found 20% of men attractive, they didn't say they were the same 20%, it was very individual per woman Well it's about average ratings of women and men, average ratings were extremely skewed towards men in the top 20% , in my opinion for women just 5% of men are attractive and the men in those 5% changes with different women but they still overlap a lot causing only the top 20% one to be attractive for women It also didn't stop women from interacting with…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 07:23 PM
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Sorry tell yourself whatever you need to, to feel superior I don't get what part of my comment makes you think I'm feeling superior? balls do men find most women attractive Actually, they do, appearance wise, every dating app study we have proved the same- "A data scientist representing the popular dating app “Hinge” reported on the Gini coefficients he had found in his company’s abundant data, treating “likes” as the equivalent of income. He reported that heterosexual females faced a Gini coeff…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:24 PM
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Tbh I've suffered that, did not confess directly but i was pretty much an open book about it towards the end of the middle class (puberty eas hitting me hard and my hormones were completely out of control) and all the girls in my class always seem to be giggling about it, it used to feel humiliating that they know i'm not in the same league as her but it's funny that despite this difference i dared to have feelings for her , fortunately it was the last year so i didn't have to suffer it a lot bu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:24 PM
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I really don't get why you think so, i personally would love to have that and so do the men I've known, it's just they can't fandom a woman earning more than them willing to marry them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:11 PM
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Even one time does so much damage that it's just enough , even watching something like this happening to someone feels so much intimidating
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:02 PM
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Aaa.....ok?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:43 PM
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Yes, and men rarely abscond being providers I really doubt it , i doubt most men wouldn't like to marry a woman earning more than him You’ll find someone who fits. If not, perhaps it’s better to stay single than to be with a woman who would be able to find a man who would enthusiastically pay for her meals. It's not better for many men cause loneliness hurts a lot There is no “male loneliness epidemic” that wasn’t directly caused by modern men’s shortcomings. Y’all used to fight in wars and buil…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:39 PM
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Most men are attracted to most women but not the other way . Yeah it isn't and shouldn't be required to date or to be loved for all men it kinda IS if you can't wait for ages and if you missed that one opportunity you got then maybe you'll never even get that
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:31 PM
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Then ig your circles are really rare then , tough to find non-shallow ones
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:26 PM
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Well women rarely want to provide for anyone , and being single..... way more than most young men are (unlike a minority of young women) but as said earlier ,that caused the men loneliness epidemic
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:18 PM
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Aaa , so ? That doesn't make the above comment wrong but his comment does make yours wrong Also psychological abuse exists as well which literally cause suicides......not need to go further And these are all when men are societally conditioned to not notice themselves Being abused whereas women have been incentivised to notice it for like ages especially after me too (which also caused men to be afraid so much that more than 60% of young men never approached a women and men are just completely a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 02:12 PM
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Well probably because most men don't have any other option, they have not won the genetic lottery so the only women who pretend to give them the care and love they crave are gold diggers Or The other reason would be why many women are still in abusive relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:56 PM
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What tf did bro have in the morning
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 06:18 AM
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Well I'm imagining it , it's pretty easy as it happens almost all of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:55 AM
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I don’t know how it is for other women, but a man not showing any sexual interest in me at all will make me think he is low libido. I would not even ask for it or ask why he is like that, I would just think he is not interested and move on. That's why EQ and common sense matters , every woman (or even man) is different so you'll have to get and understand what kind of women are you getting in with rather than blindly using the same strategy everywhere (unless you're just in for sex and power)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:52 AM
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Well both, but former of course is more important, the latter is bizarre to me but men can have whatever standards they want and that's fine Agree with you What's the source for infidelity being much higher in promiscuous partners? It seems at worst a slight correlation I guess the post on the same sub will be enough https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/Yi4Q0zv5mG We know men overall cheat more than women. Well don't really get the relation of "overall" "men" cheat more than "women" with t…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 05:48 AM
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So no alimony and maintenance then ? Oh yeah sure then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:05 AM
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+1
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 04:03 AM
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Why can't men respect women who are promiscuous? Treating with respect as like just a woman /human being? Or someone as their potential future partner? For me personally, the idea that many people especially many of which you knew has already slept with the woman you're going to make your better half seems uncomfortable , especially when she celebrates it I don't view sex as just a means of pleasure but an act of showing vulnerability, intimacy, making stronger bonds, etc and biologically it mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 03:56 AM
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What!?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:56 AM
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Is everyone going to remember this and laugh at you about it? No I mean, yeah, it happens a lot of the times
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:51 AM
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I can say about Indians though , they're extremely more afraid and their success rate would be lower as well
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:41 AM
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While not agreeing or disagreeing with you , one thing to note that the method used is BMI and we forget that "BMI is useful because it’s a quick, convenient health assessment for the general population. But it’s one-size-fits-all,” says Dempers. “And there are key differences across genders that could affect its reliability as an indicator of health. For example, women typically have more body fat than men. But there isn’t a separate BMI chart for women and people assigned female at birth.” " h…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 08:32 PM
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I guess same comment you did before as well ,so yeah I'm not gonna copy paste
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:04 PM
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This is incorrect. It was .73 for men and .63 for women. Well this is indeed correct, several other websites has posted the same and similar to the website you posted , none of them have given a direct link of the source And the only reason this is posted so many times endlessly all over the internet is because of its anomalous results. Other sources show gaps closer to 10-15%. Moreover, even in this anomalous survey the gap was caused primarily by cohabitation and marriage, meaning it offers li…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 06:02 PM
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You can add unreported cases as well which's high everywhere and as much as india, laws, etc etc But that's not it, at any place why this generalizations? I'm pretty sure 95%+ men at any place would be good and most among those 5% can easily be seen as well as recognised that there's something wrong with them from a far , so why tf this generalization for men!?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/12/24 05:00 PM
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Lmao, I wish I could have slept with celebrities, models and pro athletes let alone have them competing for me I mean yeah that's a bit too exaggerating for average women, like there are less than 0.01% men who are those People tend to date in their own economic class Don't have any stats about just dating but atleast the median salary difference between a husband and wives differs from that And I wish I could say I never suffered from loneliness. If you did, i guess your standards were just too…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:38 PM
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Aaa, ok, please read again
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:43 AM
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Well for confidence both matters, you will always be insecure even if you're the hottest man on the planet if you don't view yourself like that But internal validation easily changes with how validated externally you are
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:34 AM
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Come on we are talking about business, if women wanted any other things then I'm pretty sure businessmen would've figured it out in this much time, it's not like a rocket science
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:31 AM
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As long as you aren't straight ugly and play the numbers game and message first/take initiative, you will get matches. Can you explain a bit more, like numbers game means ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:18 AM
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Anything in which you excel build confidence but not necessarily related to being attractive, for example if someone believes that playing games isn't attractive, then doesn't matter how much he excels in it he wouldn't have that confidence , yeah if there's someone he met who like games then he'll feel pretty confident around that person External validation matters
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 07:12 AM
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Literally the exact words which are always just roaming into my mind
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:55 AM
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Yes, because MEN in the publishing industry made those choices. So men can even choose what women would love to fantasize about, right? And really Fabio was popular in the 1980s and 1990s. 🙄 Aaa so ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:53 AM
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A hobby (like working out) builds internal validation Correction - A hobby which makes you feel that it'll make you more attractive builds internal validation But does that completely overshadow the impacts of the previous reactions your heart has suffered especially in the case of fat men ? Well i doubt it happens most of the time (I'm an ex- fat guy myself)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 06:46 AM
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Indian men are dealing with this same BS too. Yeah, just recently we had "all indian men are rapists" trending on every social media app for over a month here on a rape case of a doctor, fun fact was that the initial strong rage and protests against the state government here (which is led by a woman) was started by male doctors I even remember an old news going on in trend here recently https://www.hindustantimes.com/india/student-denied-german-university-internship-citing-india-s-rape-problem/s…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/12/24 03:50 AM
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Reality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:42 AM
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To be clear, I’m not defending all male sexuality. I’m defending healthy positive male sexuality that doesn’t degrade or harass women So you just mean the male sexuality which just doesn't degrade or harass women is not toxic and it's a positive one They way liberal women have overused this term along with misogynist and incel everywhere in the media and social media, again, it was tough to find any liberal women defending just male sexuality Also , going a bit away from the point , that's how s…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:34 AM
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That's still better than being completely demonized from the other side
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:20 AM
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And that's called politely roasting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:02 AM
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Well atleast he doesn't hate men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 02:01 AM
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You didn't get it, i said even if some women will hate men , they'll still f**k the hot ones, similar to misogynist men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 01:54 AM
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It’s already happened with many, many men who, not coincidentally, tend to lean progressive. And i guess i was a bit wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:41 PM
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Vice versa means your husband is perfect for you but majority of men aren't Nope. There are traits that make a person a better option as a life partner, like secure attachment, being attractive/well dressed, being able to afford to have children in the future, coming from a well rounded not dysfunctional close family and extended friend group, etc. But when you don't have one of these traits, you are not a match for people that do Aaaa .......ok , don't have any opinions on it
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:39 PM
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I mean both of your comments don't seem even remotely related to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:38 PM
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Exactly, even if they'll hate them, they'll still fuck them
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:36 PM
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So this is how most of the young men are in your opinion..........
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:32 PM
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Well i guess he's also saying that since the progressive ones wanna 4B , let the feelings be mutual
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:24 PM
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There is no best in general. I'm perfect for my husband, I'm not perfect for the majority of men. The vice versa of it would make more sense
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:07 PM
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Didn't expect liberal and progressive women defending male sexuality on this sub and that too with such great arguments Even though wouldn’t be dating a man if I didn’t like men. This is not a good logic imo, many misandrist do date men for sex, money , etc Even though it's obvious that you're not one of themd
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 07:03 PM
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single men with the "80/20" study from OkCupid that's also been taken out of context Well I stick to 90/10 rule because not just OkCupid study but various other studies of dating websites like tinder or honge , the studies of pew research centre giving data of percentage of single young men and single young women , personal anecdotes , etc tend to support it more
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 06:47 PM
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Well if that man has done and said exactly what you mentioned here then he's an outright misogynist , that's it But again there are certain issues especially related to modern feminism and feminists related to misandry so if we was talking about that then it's different. I personally would prefer women being more selective about who they're being with as they've infinitely more risks than men , but the frustration comes from the mainstream media, narratives, etc as well as what women should want…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 05:49 PM
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...but then you enter REAL LIFE and realize a number of things: Let's go in real life ugly people are just as likely to be assholes a pretty people; being pretty doesn't make you an asshole Except it's not "as likely" as pretty ones among men to say the least , the ugly ones (rest of the 65-80% men) aren't even remotely as likely as the pretty ones atleast in that way with women in relationships Being attractive does not guarantee that you will have happy, supportive, loving relationships Agreed…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 01:28 PM
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Well then I'm sure most boys would rather have the problem of plenty than problem of getting selected
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:40 PM
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+1 Best worded
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:39 PM
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I think you don't notice the women who struggle with finding dates and partners. How much are they? Just a small minority Like this data of pew research center has been posted in the sub many times , just 37% young women were single whereas 63% young men were 25% men aged 30-50 were single whereas 17% women were Subtracting the women who are just willfully single because of their careers and others, I really doubt those women would be a lot Other studies like this one - https://quillette.com/201…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 12:35 PM
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Oh , got it , thanks The last one is probably the best one , that means your partner is considering you for long term
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:13 AM
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and being pestered for sex that she won't orgasm from So wife materials aren't viewed sexually attractive but still pestered for sex ? Cause' as much as I know men rarely refuse their wife for sex , it's the wife who do that The Instagram models , the OF girls, etc aren't paid only by a single man that he runs their house, the fees aren't even remotely that high , it isn't even remotely comparable neither the money nor the time he spends there . Most married men subscribe onlyfans or watch porn …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:09 AM
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I believe men here not believing what women think is a projection of their own Madonna whore complex Or probably it's just complete opposite Since men don't have the power to "choose" and view most women sexually attractive , they'd neither reject a Madonna or a whore , in fact many would settle for whores as well cause' again, they can't get the Madonna Hookup guy = Extremely sexually attractive Safe guy/nice guy= Less sexually attractive, always available and better in long term so can be wait…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 04:02 AM
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Even for purple pill as well to an extent , looks matter to get you to the door atleast
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:53 AM
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That's a really great approach to gauge the commitment of your partner Can you explain more about the 3rd and 4th point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/24 03:46 AM
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Also , she's considering most guys are dating and get laid I mean atleast the young guys disagree with it Red pill gives clear strategies on improving looks , status and money How to improve personality? Is it the nice guy one ? Or the confident, self centred , risk aversed , success oriented one based on this lady - https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/ud86Gjvf0u
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:54 PM
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Aa, you know I've wrote a whole ass paragraph not just 2 sentences before jumping on conclusions
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:47 PM
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Yeah agreed , just for women less than 10-20% men are attractive and they almost don't entertain less attractive men at all even a little bit, men on the other hand find more than 50% of women attractive and even respond to less physically attractive women as well , it's not that rigid for me
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:44 PM
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You give the link of a whole book lol whose research is 15 years behind , I haven't read it but it still says that tall men have more sex partners than short men Now, we have seen me too and the 4th wave of feminism , I'm pretty sure the expectations of women have grown much much much more and became more rigid after that The drastic increase of young men being single which got up to literally 52% in 2019 and even more , 63% in 2022 proves that
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:40 PM
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Well I hope then the narrative changes then , boys shouldn't be "the nice guys" and should be self centred , success oriented , etc . The mainstream narrative was always about having empathy , be nice, treat with respect etc etc , that should get changed, attractive traits should be given priority and shown to them 1st rather than these irrelevant simping beta traits
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:24 PM
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Most men IRL are pickier and have a type. I guess then the men I've met and the men they've met are among those few exceptions then irl Just like 64% of young men who are single whereas just 34% women are (Source - pew research center) I mean I do have a type as well, it's just not that rigid and over half of women are under it so found physically attractive to me The dating subreddits are full of men who find 10%: of women attractive Well then maybe they're the chads everyone's talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:02 PM
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Well then this study would work as well that men find 80% of women attractive https://medium.com/@worstonlinedater/tinder-experiments-ii-guys-unless-you-are-really-hot-you-are-probably-better-off-not-wasting-your-2ddf370a6e9a
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:56 PM
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I have the stats Same here And old men don’t date their age match. Old men want 18-25 year old women. Somehow the average age difference is just 2 years
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:11 PM
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Except women don’t have those expectations en masse. Especially height and dick size. Exactly, the way you just put 80% men was the same as well , men well above age 40 or 50 don't have those expectations rigidly as well, even young men don't have those rigid expectations with just being overweight as well I didn't even bring unmarried men without kids as well in that otherwise it'd have been even lower Salary is needed to survive. Where I live, $100k is barely enough to not live with roommates …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:10 PM
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The whole of society is mainly set up for your benefit as a baseline....... Why would companies want to stock specific harnesses for women over just hiring men? You gotta be kidding me , so this what do you have as an argument for the whole society. It’s about practical logistics and market demand, it's not men's fault that women don't want the dangerous, grueling jobs like construction or oil rigs, it's not a privilege dying at work or breaking their bodies while women pick cushy desk jobs Safe…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 01:20 PM
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Where do you live? Yet to find women irl even agreeing that this is a problem which requires solution (There aren't a lot online as well)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:53 AM
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The only people who have ever “killed all men” have been men Well they didn't do that because they hated the gender of the other person Not to mention there were only a few women in power in the history and in general were more cruel to men than men with men Why are you bringing up culture, when your OP was about economics? Op was talking about both economics and culture (shitting on incels remember?) By the way, you do know that the people that receive the most services and benefits from our ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:52 AM
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It's because as he said earlier already, men makes and pay more and gets nothing in return as a reward whereas women despite getting way more extra opportunities, schemes, laws for their development and safety don't make more than men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 09:28 AM
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Can you give me the source of it? I want to know more about this study
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:34 AM
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That's what I meant, yes. Yeah and I didn't disagree with you , I actually supported you, no more radicalisation will happen as both the guys who can be radicalised and who are radicalising of others will get someone to love and care for them atleast to some extent ( 65-80% men) I don't think we find most men unappealing, just apathetic Well we have discussed it a lot of times here in this sub.................
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 07:10 AM
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She's just being absurd, if we go by the same then - https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/JAy8WNrmZo Women will only find 0.0056% men attractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:58 AM
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She's just being absurd, if we go by the same then - https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/JAy8WNrmZo Women will only find 0.0056% men attractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:57 AM
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She's just being absurd, if we go by the same then - https://np.reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/s/JAy8WNrmZo Women will only find 0.0056% men attractive lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:57 AM
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Men do date within their age range and so do women , the average marriage age gap is just 2 years in US
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:53 AM
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So you are spamming it everywhere, well ig I should do the same
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:46 AM
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Well wow , then I think actual calculations for women's wants would be even more narrower than just 10-20% we say generally Let's see - The 6-6-6 6 Feet or Taller About 14.5% of adult men in the U.S. are 6 feet or taller, based on data from the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC). 6-Figure Salary Approximately 10.3% of individuals in the U.S. earn a 6-figure salary or more, according to the U.S. Census Bureau. This percentage is even smaller when focusing solely on men, as it depend…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:44 AM
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Well those lot of men most probably would be the top 10% even among men aged 18-25 as well Cause' generally men find 80% women attractive And still 64% young men (18-30) are single whereas just 37% young women are
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:13 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:07 AM
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No emotional connection < some emotional connection even if it's functional Just being alone , crying, chasing and failing again and again, ignored, used, exploited, betrayed. < being with someone who can atleast make you feel loved and cared for to just some extent , even if it's not real But of course AI gf <<<< A good gf who loves and cares about you (which are almost impossible for majority of men to get )
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 06:01 AM
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But the fact is men who aren't successful in relationships still are in the dating pool, men are looking for relationships , chasing women for their emotional needs (physical ones have already many alternatives) but are just used and exploited or just ignored In fact as per pew research centre studies of 2019 and 22, more than majority of young men are single but more than majority of young women are in relationships (drastic change has been seen from 2019 to 22) AI gfs would increase it way mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 05:56 AM
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Somehow it IS Especially when said in the other way "eventually we'll have someone who'll actually make us feel loved and cared for rather than just using us"
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:59 AM
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as that is about half of the amount of young gen z men who were never in a relationship in the U.S I think it's 63% now , in contrast for young women it's about 33% , this is similar to men and women in the ages 30-50 as well
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:55 AM
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I'm pretty sure they'd not need to "radicalise" others after AI gf , they would have someone who make them feel loved and cared for even if it'd not be sentient, so they'd not need to even care about women . Women will happily be able to go on their 4B and men on their MGTOW , men will get some percentage of love and care they want and women will be happy as well because no more men who they don't want (like 65-80% men) will approach them .
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:48 AM
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Correction - Relationship with good women who love and care about their partner will be better than dating an AI So yeah OP is right almost completely
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:40 AM
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But it's also a fact that the number of these guys has been increasing rapidly especially after me too and COVID , there has been drastic changes between 2019 and 2022
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 04:37 AM
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Nope, for men 50% or more women they see generally are attractive to them , they're not the choosers here that they can go for the top 10% , they don't even have the ability to go how would they develop this mindset and confidence Unless they're those "chads" For men, the women they see at the 20th percentile in looks is almost as attractive as the top one
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:50 AM
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Exactly my situation (even though currently it's not that great situation with my cousins and mother but anyways it's generally good)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:29 AM
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That's why I always try to find better logics and facts which's against the ideology/mindset I have for authentication Every article or website is going to be biased atleast somewhat, so just listen to both the sides
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/24 03:27 AM
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Just like Kylie Jenner is as rich as Elon musk, since both are billionaires
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 07:57 AM
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So charismatic isn't something you can do better , it's just out of your hand, so that's purely luck and genetics We should focus more on grooming, even though style again is something weird
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 03:50 AM
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The claim was "women were far more (not just more) violent on those they have power on" The data I have also proved that and was the explanation of your data as well, women aren't even remotely as physically powerful as men in general so even though women hit more on those.... they'd not cause more damage where even when men just try to defend, they'd still end up doing more damage
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:51 AM
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It doesn't right? I personally am really curious about the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 10:47 AM
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Modern spaces demonise even a little bit of insecurities/confusions/misunderstandings as like doing a crime and then keep talking about being more vulnerable
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:43 AM
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Only if there would've been spaces where men and women can actually talk about each other like this without extremists and haters roaming around
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:39 AM
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Wait, india?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:33 AM
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Well , same situation here I guess, this conversation made me feel a little bit confident ig
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:32 AM
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Like this one- https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1854883/ Results. Almost 24% of all relationships had some violence, and half (49.7%) of those were reciprocally violent. In nonreciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases. Reciprocity was associated with more frequent violence among women (adjusted odds ratio [AOR]=2.3; 95% confidence interval [CI]=1.9, 2.8), but not men (AOR=1.26; 95% CI=0.9, 1.7). Regarding injury, men were more likely to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:20 AM
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Like this one? https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC1854883/ Results. Almost 24% of all relationships had some violence, and half (49.7%) of those were reciprocally violent. In nonreciprocally violent relationships, women were the perpetrators in more than 70% of the cases. Reciprocity was associated with more frequent violence among women (adjusted odds ratio [AOR]=2.3; 95% confidence interval [CI]=1.9, 2.8), but not men (AOR=1.26; 95% CI=0.9, 1.7). Regarding injury, men were more likely to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:17 AM
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Bro cooked
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 08:16 AM
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Damn
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 07:52 AM
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Do you think women should have equal rights? Yes, boom, feminist But those who wish men didn't exist or treat men lesser if they think women should've "equal" rights not "more"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/24 03:19 AM
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Increase your comprehension skills and Please read again A hint- There are "at that time" and "still" written there Until then
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 09:48 AM
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Well if you still didn't get it ............ Then see ya , think about the question I asked and you'll find how the stats are backing the claim
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 06:05 AM
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Well 1st of all I didn't post the link , I just gave the source in text and then quoted some of it's results Now , what conclusion did you draw from that? I know one, the top 5% men are enjoying a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 05:54 AM
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Is it really just that? Then I guess, most of the young men I know are caring I guess, somehow , still most of them are struggling
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:21 AM
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The Patriarchy has sold men lies. Back when more men were getting married, it was because women had to marry BY necessity. This had made men think women have lower standards like men, and any man could just get any woman simply because he wanted her. I wonder what patriarchy are you talking about lol In patriarchy there wasn't the "dating" and the "hookup" culture , just the marriage one in which traditional gender roles were forced, men had to earn money and social status those days to get the …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 04:02 AM
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Same , Except, I like a bit of make up , more makes it like a clown to me
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/24 03:22 AM
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So what does it say ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:40 PM
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Aa, pew research center one ? I forgot to write 'source' explicitly there , lemme edit that
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:37 PM
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Furthermore, as she ages and becomes 30+, the number of older men whom she is willing to take a chance with and date becomes larger, so the number of her options never really decreases much I mean it did decrease though, the older men were still available when she was younger
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:35 PM
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Really!? Where ? Source that it's common ? Then why is the vast majority of young men are single whereas more than 65% young women aren't? Why am I feeling like you're saying here exactly opposite of your post?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:30 PM
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For a women's body, being intimate is much more ,I can say, special biologically, when they're being intimate the oxytocin got released in much much more amount than in men , it alone is the binding hormone in females ,in men it's a mix of vasopressin and oxytocin but again all of them combined doesn't make up to the amount of oxytocin release in women. Women are much more vulnerable biologically , their risks are way higher , that's why their bodies react like this . Being into hookup culture f…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 06:18 PM
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Well I have the statistics which backs up the claim that women gets mostly attracted with the top 5% and they'd overwhelmingly prefer those men especially when they're young. The men in that too 5% changes with different women but since it's just too small and mostly overlaps , most men are still left out until the safe guy thing . 63% young men are single but mere 34% women , 25% men aged 30-50 are single but 17% women (in case of the age gap argument) (Source -Pew research center study of 2022…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:33 PM
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I think at some point of a time , the whole world including both genders should do research and make a dictionary for women's words
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:02 PM
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Do you have any idea how to better our fashion sense which's attractive to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:00 PM
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Charismatic? Can you explain about this more ? And with groomed you meant basic hygiene or something else?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 05:00 PM
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Yup , some I know was the "be yourself" and "be nice" one , that it's attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:55 PM
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No it has always been , the red pill community, being the subset of manosphere , has always been talking about the game , took many things from PUA ,all the self improvement techniques was based on the ideology of reaching close to the level of the genetically gifted ones , yeah ofcourse the ideology has become more rigid now than it was initially but it was pretty much the same . The ideology has always been that the confident chads are getting an overwhelming level of attention especially when…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 04:07 PM
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Both “improve yourself and you can get laid” as well as “women’s standards are too high and pretty much only the Chads can get laid" have been integral part of red pill since it's starting periods
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:35 PM
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Well it was like that - Still with all that being said, in modern dating women still continue to struggle. Most women will say something along the lines of “the options in men are terrible or every guy I date is a liar.”............Women seem to want a good man (plenty exist) but in reality often don’t date them. Back to supply vs demand, if women demanded a higher quality of men, that would reflect wouldn’t it. I actually love women, but the lack of responsibility is so off putting especially w…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:51 AM
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The guys that are very succesful with a lot of casual sex and honest are confident, fun and generous. You forgot the most important part - have got looks Other way to say is the guys are confident , flirty , assertive and have got looks They very rarely settles and most of them who do become abusive
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 10:30 AM
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Aa probably because there are no other options, if any of the two genders suffer then the other one will eventually suffer as well
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:45 AM
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Somehow the nice guys was saying that "women" should stop blaming "men" that they all are abusive (because the partners they got or simply the men those women find attractive were abusive) That wasn't a rocket science to get
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:44 AM
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Replace real with ideal everywhere and it'll be a fact
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:37 AM
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this is how a HVM behaves. As opposed to an always horny desperate guy who is driven by impulses (and might cheat for this reason) Yup that is how men generally should be and they'll easily become a HVM , they just think not just cheating is enough for women, until they'll give the sexual power to other they'll be looked down and used
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:35 AM
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How old is he?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:13 AM
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Aa can you please elaborate how you got the 85% ?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 02:59 AM
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We are talking about relationships not just marriage There's another stat from the same pew research center - 63% of young men are single whereas just 34% young women are 25% of men aged 30-50 are single whereas just 17% women are Today most of the young men just aren't just "worthy" for most of the young women for relationships , only the top men are so they are having way better life with women than we know Ig.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 05:06 PM
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There’s plenty successful men in their 30’s and 40’s, some even millionaires who can’t get women… Like who? meanwhile plenty men without much money get plenty women. And way more than most of them are the chads which IS mentioned in the "cope" Well I don't get plenty of women, neither I want that, I'm happy with one
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:55 PM
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Am not sure whether it's true completely but wouldn't be surprised
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:50 PM
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Well nice try to make these sound hypocritical and funny😂 I do disagree with red pill a lot of times but ofcourse they're pretty clear about their ideology, atleast from what I understood. Women only get attracted to the top 5-10% men especially in their peak fertile years when top 50% women can easily attract the top men . Ofcourse for different women the 5-10% men changes but they overlap quite a lot. Then there are "safe guy" and "nice guys finish last" things . The rest of the men who those …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:49 PM
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Well nice try to make these sound hypocritical and funny😂 I do disagree with red pill a lot of times but ofcourse they're pretty clear about their ideology, atleast from what I understood. Women only get attracted to the top 5-10% men especially in their peak fertile years when top 50% women can easily attract the top men , this is mostly in looks . Ofcourse for different women the 5-10% men changes but they overlap quite a lot. Then there are "safe guy" and "nice guys finish last" things . The …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:47 PM
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Well I agree with you The fact that multiple studies shows 45-60% young men have never even approached a girl , let alone those who just tried once or twice , are a proof of that
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 04:31 PM
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Also several people heavily misunderstand and misuse the "personal space" ,the definition is the real deal, balance is required not ignoring the 4 and 5
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 01:14 PM
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Done, it isn't a lot helpful, unless you just declare their relationship unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:34 PM
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There are SAHM now, men get alimony and men get child support and most courts default to 50/50 custody. After a century, finding any of these is rarer than the chances I have of becoming richer than Elon musk , and yeah sure "most courts defaults to 50/50 custody" , what's next , all are equal before law and order? Not to mention none of the feminist asked for that, they asked for alimony and child support for women exclusively, the most reaction we got from feminists about men getting alimony w…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 12:26 PM
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So that's what you define adjustment? Women just "adjust" up not down I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:21 AM
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For dating or arrange marriages? I see otherwise most of the time, unless the social or financial status is just extremely higher than others
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:17 AM
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Somehow men judge those promiscuous men being a chad all the time , it doesn't even matter because women don't do it , only the preferences and judgements of opposite gender matters to the promiscuous people
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:12 AM
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She isn't saying men are evil, but that any man could be tyrants- it's impossible to tell if someone is tyrant until it's too late.... Let's see again - "Remember all Men would be tyrants if they could. That your Sex are Naturally Tyrannical is a Truth so thoroughly established as to admit of no dispute " I mean I'm not a native English speaker so I'm not that good in it but I'm pretty sure what you wrote is entirely different from what she said Any man could be one vs any man would be if they c…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:01 AM
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I was saying more about the 2nd statement of yours
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:41 AM
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Amazing bro For me, more than half of the women are attractive, even though I see far more things than just appearances to get into relationship The men I've been friends with or simply talked to , thinks the same as well
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:38 AM
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Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:34 AM
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For young men and women, 63% are single vs 34% respectively For men and women aged 30-50 , it's 25% vs 17% (Pew research center study of 2022, similar research was shown in 2022) It's more like the safe guy thing
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 02:34 AM
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Since women are generally poorer already in marriages , yup
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:16 PM
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Abigail Adams: wrote that in the context of begging her husband to give women the same rights and liberties as he was fighting for men to have.... So ? How does it change anything? Let's see again what she said - "Remember all Men would be tyrants if they could. That your Sex are Naturally Tyrannical is a Truth so thoroughly established as to admit of no dispute " I mean sure , the context justifies everything said here Feminist Convention: Not sure what you're implying is the misinterpretation …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 06:03 PM
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+1 Only if majority of men and women (nowadays especially women) understood this basic thing
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:42 PM
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You used the word oppressive to describe feminism for men, not me. You compare it to the patriarchy and its effects on women - yet you have not given examples of how feminism has had those kinds of impacts on men. Again, I asked the question repeatedly, unless the Patriarchy especially at it's extreme and the current feminism wouldn't have identical level of oppressions , it doesn't matter ? Patriarchy too had multiple levels , and every one was oppressive , the things you mentioned about the pa…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:33 PM
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Certainly more likely than trying to control a lot more women right? Well certainly yes , and it'd be ofcourse in that way if women do the same for the chads as well , infact much easier How? You said it yourself, he picks who he wants or he doesn't pick anyone at all to settle with. What do you expect people he's sleeping with to do? A lot of the women even know he won't end up with them and are just doing so for fun. If a really hot woman was offering to sleep with you, would you care she's al…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:18 PM
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Well it's not , for men 70% of women are attractive, some women at the 20th percentile would be almost as much attractive to a man as the top 1% women , men would be way way way more content with a woman at the 70th percentile for the attractiveness part than women who got a man of the same percentile Ofcourse the people in those percentages and percentiles of attractiveness changes with different men and women
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:04 PM
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Well it's not, the "way more often" for men far far surpasses that of the women For men , 70% of the women are attractive, for women it's 10%
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:01 PM
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Why am I supposed to answer that in this thread?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:26 PM
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If that's what you learned from the comment , well so be it , I'm not going to explain what I wrote But before going, just a statement Today men need women in solving most of the large issues they're suffering like the extremely high suicide rates as much as how women needed men in their issues back then for feminism If any one among men or women are suffering , the other will suffer eventually too
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:55 AM
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Well exactly what you've written in the comment I replied to
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:49 AM
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I would really like some concrete examples of how men are oppressed by women? Not just examples of certain areas here and there where women have been given advantages under certain circumstances or have an easier time getting sex - but actual, systemic oppression of all men based entirely on their sex, through all socio-economic classes. Not bad words from some women online, or mainstream media portraying men in sitcoms as idiots or even incarceration rates, custody battles or mental health help…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:48 AM
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I would really like some concrete examples of how men are oppressed by women? Not just examples of certain areas here and there where women have been given advantages under certain circumstances or have an easier time getting sex - but actual, systemic oppression of all men based entirely on their sex, through all socio-economic classes. Not bad words from some women online, or mainstream media portraying men in sitcoms as idiots or even incarceration rates, custody battles or mental health help…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:47 AM
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I would really like some concrete examples of how men are oppressed by women? Not just examples of certain areas here and there where women have been given advantages under certain circumstances or have an easier time getting sex - but actual, systemic oppression of all men based entirely on their sex, through all socio-economic classes. Not bad words from some women online, or mainstream media portraying men in sitcoms as idiots or even incarceration rates, custody battles or mental health help…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 05:45 AM
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Because those women then in .........leo's YOUR competition after all. Well how would it change anything to him, he'd still be getting women because women want him, why would a chad listen to other men saying him to settle down , in fact he would actually be happy that other men are jealous as he's topping the competition It's only the women can as they're the ones getting to him I mean it's way way easier for women to get promiscuous than men , that's why the chads , despite not being supported…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 03:19 AM
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I think it's more like the percent of men who used to get a relationship some two-three decades ago was way way more than the proportions of men today
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:54 AM
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I don't think he's saying anything specifically about cheaters, he's just saying about players
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:49 AM
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I mean I don't have that bad situation still I believe that because of the experiences I had atleast till completing UNI The data of the studies and surveys I get is also supports this than any other way
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 02:44 AM
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CEOs and celebrities are much much much much more rare than just hot men , status and power do matter but is it greater than looks? Well certainly the level of that status and power required to surpass the limitations of looks is almost unachievable for men in their youth .....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:07 PM
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Well I completely agree with you for the 1st part and the past feminism more or less was about equal opportunities, well for some reasons since the 3rd wave and especially now it IS about identical results , the whole debate about wage gap is about that and many others
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:53 PM
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One is that fathers are now permitted and welcomed in the delivery room with their children.......................... Modern fathers have a vastly richer connection with their young children than the greatest generation or before. So what's next, LGBTQ, democracy , etc happened because of feminism ? I mean I don't really get how feminism was the major , let alone the only , force which made this change
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:50 PM
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So you don't just care whether feminism and feminists has been bad , oppressive, etc for men or not but since it has been good for women, it's been a massive net boon and ofcourse how come anybody dare to counter your statements Well irony is that feminism basic ideology was fighting against patriarchy which was the same just opposite genders , but feminism is some noble movement and patriarchy is a devil (well atleast the latter is true lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:44 PM
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Somehow he said he pretty much agree with she said so yeah, he wasn't debating her on that
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:39 PM
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I think that mostly the chads would be the men that aren't part of the collective celibacy, I really doubt a lot of average men would be able to exploit that market. The average men there would still lag behind the chads as they are now , the chads number might reduce so just more women would be single and dreaming about the chads until he's free rather than getting with the other average men , in fact they'd be exploited and used way more than how they are now Chads wouldn't get significantly m…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:33 PM
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You know what, if men have even bothered to shut them up as a whole , feminism would've been destroyed long ago let alone being mainstream today On reason being the top people who had almost all the political , financial,etc powers were almost all men Men accepted that women are oppressed in many areas and they need to be uplifted for the betterment of the society and even men themselves too Well for some reasons it's almost impossible to accept the other way by the opposite gender for the most …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:22 PM
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Well ofcourse the man hating thing wasn't the stated goal as a whole but in many steps and demands it was clearly seen and it ofcourse has been demonstrated by many of the things they achieved and actually celebrated Feminism was supposed to be a movement of equality not a movement of oppression based on the definition, well multiple times it wasn't and it didn't seem to mind
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:18 PM
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Well a lot of those bunch of women have been on one of the top positions , have a huge influence and getting almost no visible criticism for their misandrists behaviour by other feminists who were supposed to do that especially when those misandrists are claim themselves as feminists, it doesn't matter what the textbook definition is , what matters is what it Is in reality , feminism has way far gone from just an equality of movement ages ago , feminism was supposed to be a movement not just an …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:10 PM
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I mean since the start of feminism it has always been, multiple acts , schemes and laws have been made and still going on specifically for security and success of one particular gender and that's not men atleast, like there can be a book on each of them
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:00 PM
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Exactly, only difference is men find 70% women attractive, that's why they'd approach a lot if they could
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:25 AM
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True but here most means mere 51% as of 2022 Another fact about relationships- 63% of young men and 25% of men between 30-50 are single whereas just 34% young women and 17% women aged 30-50 are I guess this speaks a lot In my opinion, 80% is still small, it'd be 90-95%
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:23 AM
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It's not like it's much of a difference now, the so called "savvy" ones which are often called chads are the ones who're exploiting the mass already, the stats don't lie. 63% of young men and 25% of men between 30-50 are single whereas just 34% young women and 17% women aged 30-50 are (Source - pew research center studies of 2019 and 2022) It's not much of a choice there for young men , and for some the other choice is waiting to be exploited and used later on The collective celibacy, while bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:02 AM
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It's not like it's much of a difference now, the so called "savvy" ones which are often called chads are the ones who're exploiting the mass already, the stats don't lie. 63% of young men and 25% of men between 30-50 are single whereas just 34% young women and 17% women aged 30-50 are (Source - pew research center studies of 2019 and 2022) It's not much of a choice there for young men , and for some the other choice is waiting to be exploited and used later on The collective celibacy, while bein…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 07:01 AM
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You credit them to yourselves whenever women share their experiences with men by getting defensive. If you aren’t one of them - why does it bother you? Probably like women share their experiences and then just directly blame men , not just those men. Ok I can agree with having empathy ,get that something bad happened to them and this is just their anger , so ignore that , problem was that it wasn't just anger , many meant what they said as they consistently had similar views as far as we know an…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:58 AM
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Well somehow it was more about "taking advantage when someone is earning less" I agree with you on the upbringing for a large extent
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 02:34 AM
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I mean I don't remember a lot of men refusing to accept a woman earning more than them, in fact only a few wouldn't feel grateful of their luck to have that, whereas I don't remember a lot of women who are willing to marry a less paying man , let alone jobless ones
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 05:24 PM
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It has been eradicated almost completely, it's almost negligible when compared to what it was when Feminism wasn't there, women has been enjoying way way more legal powers , freebies and opportunities for decades I never said it's completely eradicated, at this point of time both patriarchy and matriarchy exists
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:23 PM
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No that's completely wrong, atleast according to all the studies and surveys conducted, 63% young men are single when compared to 33% young women (age range 18-29) even in the next age range , 30-50 , it's 25% vs 17% (for the women marrying older men argument) Source - Pew research center Way more men are getting single than women 60% of young men haven't approached women now which's by far the most eaver A lot of men are now refusing to mentor , help and get one on one alone with a women (Sourc…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:15 PM
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Obviously there are millions of Gen Z men who didn't vote for Trump, and they'll have a major dating advantage for the foreseeable future. I don't get it , how ? I mean conservative women are ofcourse preferring conservative men whereas , even though more women voted for Harris , it was still not that big of a difference and they're now going on movements like 4B , hating on men and Saying that they're not gonna date at all , so I think the non-trump voters are gonna suffer a lot for the foresee…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:51 PM
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Let's see,I 'm egalitarian but against feminists As I'm with both female and male equality not female supremacy If anything hurts any gender then ofcourse it's bad , I mean like patriarchy primarily hurted women and feminism was brought to eradicate it ? Right ? So I guess , by your logic , it directly means it values female dominance over any kind of equality So anyone who's pro equality is inherently against feminists and patriarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:41 PM
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But we can blame modern feminism or feminists for it, right? Like as you said feminism doesn't have any set ideology besides stopping the oppression of females , and since many who are feminists, i.e. criticise the oppression of women, are completely misandrists (one type was given by throwaway) whereas many claims feminism as a movement of equality not oppression of and hatred against men, now both are completely contradictory , but again both are in feminism, why is it wrong to blame feminism …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 02:33 PM
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But we can blame modern feminism or feminists for it, right? Like as you said feminism doesn't have any set ideology besides stopping the oppression of females , and since many who are feminists, i.e. criticise the oppression of women, are completely misandrists (one type was given by throwaway) whereas many claims feminism as a movement of equality not oppression of and hatred against men, now both are completely contradictory but since both are in feminism why is it wrong to blame feminism the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 09:32 AM
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The gender roles doesn't just mean the patriarchal extreme ones It's more like accepting the biological gender and sex differences , for example men's body release way less oxytocin and a bit of vasopressin when being intimate with someone as compared to women , so even though both shouldn't sleep around , it affects women much much much larger than men , their capacity of bond formation weakens severely , and it'll affect both then and their future partners who they're going to get settled with…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 04:18 AM
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Level? Anyways check the ppd survey
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/24 03:10 AM
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The only useful advice the red pill gives is be fit, be confident, and get money which is advice pretty much anyone can give you. Actually, these are the only advice the red pill give
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:53 AM
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I guess we've got a lot in common and probably I'm on the same path as you were , was a red pill, now purple, just don't have enough hopes on finding someone who's going to accept me if I'm being vulnerable to her, somehow that feels frustrating to me and that's why , I take parts in these debates of reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:47 AM
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Well somehow other men's faults are credited to us though , somehow gender exclusive laws, acts, schemes , etc giving way way more extra opportunities and security to a particular gender were made because of mishappenings happening to other people of the same gender
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 05:42 AM
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I have no idea why it couldn't be? Well I've nothing to say then, I'd like you to consult someone with an average level of data analytics , they can be the best ones to give you an idea Between that and bi/homosexuality (which is remarkably higher in Gen Z, especially women) Somehow that remarkable population isn't even 5-6% of US population and the differences between men and women is just slightly "A 2017 Gallup poll concluded that 4.5% of adult Americans identified as LGBT with 5.1% of women …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 04:18 AM
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Aa, the age range has 20 points difference, the average age difference in marriages is just 3 points as you mentioned ,do you think it's enough to explain for literally 63-34 percentage difference? Not to mention, in the next age range as well , more men are single than women , as I mentioned (sure you weren't supposed to notice that) And in any case, this has nothing to do with my point in the first place Aa, your point was that there wasn't enough sex guys so women are being more single, I men…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/24 02:56 AM
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Yeah same question
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 02:09 PM
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For some reasons twice young men are single than young women (Pew research study , 2023, of sample space of 20k people) In fact, 25% men aged 30-50 are single as well whereas 17% women are Well the sex guys are sure getting a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:29 PM
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I really laughed after reading this comment lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:25 PM
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Well you forgot to read there's "in relationships" after most men there , please read again
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:24 PM
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Do you think women have sex more often with a random hookup than the man she is in an ongoing relationship with? I mean , yes ofcourse
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:18 PM
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it’s pretty easy to find so I do not overlook flaws in that area Most men don't get casual sex, 30% of young men are virgins today, etc etc , I guess men are just naturally talented then
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 01:01 PM
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Second, women get some genuinely bad messaging from other women in my opinion. They're told they don't need someone to be complete and that they should be satisfied by themselves. I tried hard to embrace that, but was perpetually feeling empty and incomplete. Until I was willing to reject that and accept that at least for me I'm much happier with my partner, where we're both depending on each other than I ever was trying to live out some sort of fantasy where men are irrelevant to my happiness. …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:59 PM
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But a significant population of this group is in relationship.......
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:45 PM
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Young women cheat way more than men, women after the age of 40 aren't able to cheat that much so they don't, but before that they far surpass men so that's not a basis
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:40 PM
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This is in the US after almost twice young men are single than young women (source - pew research center study of 2023) , if those stats would've been closer I think the differences wouldn't have been that large
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:35 PM
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So koreans does that !?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:32 PM
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That's why I gave my interpretation about the leagues- Like I interpreted the leagues here as like percentile in attractiveness, and since average guy don't get dates here so it has to pay to get access to women who are even below average, I mean men find more than 70% women attractive so ofcourse Women find just about 5% men attractive, so for an average guy , the average girl isn't in his league at all, there is a huge spike for men who are at the top of the table That's the reason I almost ne…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:24 PM
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So you want men to become an idealistic being (except a decent earner part) which are only desired by the women that they're almost never gonna meet We are happy if we are liked and accepted by just average women , even if they're not angels
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 12:19 PM
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The study about 63-34 was in 2022 , it was done in 2019 too (published in 2020) then it was 51-32
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:19 AM
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Looks matter. Why shouldn't they? But "macho man" is something different. Macho men can have good looking faces, and they can have average faces, and they can have ugly faces. Macho has nothing to do with looks.Maybe you don't interact with very many people. There are plenty of couples out there where the man is not macho. Somehow looks and appearances doesn't just mean faces and I didn't specifically say anything about macho men and looks Let me repost what he said - The "I don't care about any…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 05:12 AM
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I don't agree that "macho men" are popular with girls. They are popular with the girls who attracted to that type. Not everyone is attracted to the same type. And somehow those men are the type of some 99% girls ? Well conventionally attractive is a thing, ofcourse not everyone has got the exact same type but for almost all the women , the type of appearance of men who they are attracted to is almost the same and the differences are just minor
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 04:03 AM
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Well 1st of we were talking about girls being attracted to macho man or not , marriage is way far in the topic. So I assume you accept confident macho man are popular with girls , and so attracted to him Now, starting the next argument, somehow a guy wasn't popular with girls and he changed almost nothing at all but those who weren't interested in him before for dating and sex are now interested in him for marriage? So I guess it's proving the safe guy thing or the nice guy finish last thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/24 03:49 AM
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Well this argument is decent about heights and earnings but yeah in the public space , in way more than most couples we see the dudes are way more in the tough side than the other way. The more confident macho man side he has, the more popular among girls he is , that was the thing I saw since high school and it never even remotely changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:56 AM
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Exactly my thoughts, even if the red pill strategies are not completely perfect, they're are the best things we've got , I don't agree with all red pill ideologies but their strategies are the only working methods we know
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 08:46 AM
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Agreed I don't really get the problem here, like what are beta males ? Simps right? Simps give women a lot of attention so they don't have to care about them and they wait for the chads or just attractive men , but it's not like women who don't want to but still remain single for the most parts as well, they really get the attractive ones so there's no way it's gonna change Especially when women are getting more and more successful
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:40 AM
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Bye bye get well soon
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:32 AM
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Aa, 2×2=?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:04 AM
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Agreed , in fact I saw a study that women are getting more attractive with evolution https://www.abc.net.au/news/2009-07-30/evolution-makes-women-more-attractive/1371676 It's always going to be like that , it neither changed before nor will it change later on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 05:01 AM
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Men will always pay to access women out of their league I don't think adding "out of their league" was necessary, men pays for women in their league or even below as well , whether it's the most handsome man or just an average guy, everyone is into the sex industry. Like I interpreted the leagues here as like percentile in attractiveness, and since average guy don't get dates here so it has to pay to get access to women who are even below average, I mean men find more than 70% women attractive s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:59 AM
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Reading the comment, I had the exact same question lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:51 AM
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Man, this was really cringe lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 04:50 AM
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Women are regularly not talked about positively in media. Women are constantly made to listen to a male point of view. Women’s rights and feminism are not considered mainstream media that is looked at approvingly. Typically feminists are characterized as ugly, masculine and angry. Women’s expertise is taken less seriously. Female beauty standards are held more rigorously against women. So everything you wrote has this as the basis right ? "Inadequate women’s coverage seems to be a worldwide phen…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:20 AM
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Many people have debunked this “stat” and it’s impossible to replicate anywhere else. It’s a gotcha - not a real data point. There is no use in arguing something that isn’t real. Many people in this thread alone explained how they came upon this data, and all they heard back was nonsensical arguments about women being terrible I'm sorry but I'm yet to find any argument "debunking" this stat and proving it unreal. Like I just can guess three ways by which it can happen, one is it being a biased s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/24 02:00 AM
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Where do they work like magic?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 04:09 PM
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I agree with you but i still think the media has the largest influence , like take the feminism as an example again, women did many protests and all but what affected most was how the media reported it , ofcourse to make it mainstream the offline things have to happen but currently, online can have a decent impact .
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 03:56 PM
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You can just start to agree , the problem is even that isn't happening, feminism didn't start from scratch and got attention, everyone agreed that women need to do it in some cases and that's how more and more people joined it making it mainstream nowadays
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:28 AM
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Agreed with everything Even though I'd like to add something, don't complain but if you feel something is spreading wrong information or hate then you can surely debate about it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:23 AM
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I don’t see a problem here. Men have the option to get their money up and you can get a woman that way. I didn't get that. I mean women can do it too now as it was against 'equality'. Young women are out earning young men and so their expectations are drastically increasing as well, that's the reason things like men's height , abs, etc are getting more and more relevant in the dating field , whereas men's expectations have remained the same or even have gone to hell in some cases. That's why 60%…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 06:15 AM
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I believe that women nowadays are more shallow and superficial but I think women just adapted to how men have moved since almost forever. No matter how ugly a man is most men before and now would absolutely never get with a woman who he believes is unattractive and could not offer him what he would want in a relationship. Now that women can pick their own partners, women adopted the same mentality Aaa , there's a problem here , for men , 70% of women are attractive , for women it's just 10-20% ,…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:10 PM
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Average ppd post I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:03 PM
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Everyone provides nowadays, the majority of women work as well. Might be , but still 55% of marriages are in which men are either primary or sole providers whereas just 16% where women are the primary providers, the difference today is still huge and based on the data of 10 years ago, it's not changing that much at all, especially when we remove gender exclusive schemes, acts and laws from the country and actually give equal opportunities to everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 11:01 PM
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Women are more likely to view themselves as in a relationship earlier in the dating process than men Really? Source ? I thought its men who considers even a small gesture as something more ? And even if it is true , by what difference it is really? Can it justify the huge difference of percentage present there? Women also tend to date men 2-5 years older which would affect this data Ok another data from the same report, 25% men aged 30-50 are are single when compared to just 17% women This doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:59 PM
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Young women are more likely to go to college than young men so it’s pretty obvious they aren’t just entitled mooches. How much more likely, 1% ? Even 10% wouldn't be that of a difference Maybe they aren't the entitled.... , I neither disagree or agree with it , but the logic is flawed
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:55 PM
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Most of the "young men" are single and "depressed"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:50 PM
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I mean I'm neither disagreeing or agreeing with him but he has given a stat backing his claim For every young woman who's single, there are two young men who are Whereas even among men aged 30-50 , 25% men are single whereas just 17% women are..... The math isn't mathing here
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 10:49 PM
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Agree with both the statements, it has nothing to do with men or women, it's just how the society and the apps developed into what they are today, in fact I'd say it's more on men as the apps are taking advantage of them not being able to control their hormones that much
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:42 PM
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When they say “women should have empathy” what they really mean is “women should have sex with them.” Can I say , women should think about men's issues as well ,don't dismiss these like it doesn't even exist, just help them like the men helped them to make feminism mainstream otherwise way stronger protests and movements were easily oppressed in those days as it was harmful for the people at the top at that time . I hope I didn't make it sound like "you should give sex more to them"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:39 PM
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Dude. Are you seriously whining because you went into a women's space spouting red pill propaganda and had your post removed? Read the room. Bruh he mentioned two things Also it was more like , you went to a complete misandrist sub saying that modern feminism is bad for women , ofcourse he was about to get banned Now that's different that except a few female exclusive subs like the r / askwomen no censor, every other is misandrist
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:32 PM
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What!?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 04:27 PM
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+1 Similar things happened in india , but it was more about religion and other kinds of politics than gender one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:16 PM
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I guess he would say a neutral one
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:15 PM
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So if it's not successful and women are still doing it , what should we think about them then ? I mean I'm pretty sure if it actually is happening then it wouldn't last long and women will realise it soon otherwise it's great for men that they aren't with those women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:09 PM
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So you mean 60% of young men can't get a relationship, cause' it's the exact same percentage of young men who are single and who never approached women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:06 PM
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Let's see , 60% of young men have never approached any woman today (14% more than the previous generation) , similar amount of men are single (again , way more than the previous generation) and 30% are virgin currently ( the biggest proportional difference) The movement might be the minority but somehow what it wanted to do is a majority to a large extent
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:05 PM
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Exchange? It's not about exchanging rights, it about having equal footing, and being treated as humans, not treating ppl different based on gender I don't think men would love an exchange of rights. Men cannot fathom a society where their rights are ever debated nor challenged because they live in a world that suits them. Somehow, there are exclusively huge amount of legal rights specifically mentioning women in them , in numerous acts and schemes were brought exclusively for women and many othe…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 03:17 AM
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Still confused on the exclusionary bit though. I think the articles talk about how it's understandable where the unease comes from. Well even though I can still say a lot against the article , it was the best one I found and way below than the top and popular websites talking about that, I'd say search yourself on google , the top one would be of "The guardian" proving that men are just angry and jealous that women are getting successful, and many others , you'll have to scroll down to find an a…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:23 AM
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The point. You missed it. Are you talking about the single one? I've wrote the data as it is in my comments? Yes Elaborate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/24 02:18 AM
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Then again I don’t recall men in droves avoiding professional women Aaa, then start doing now I guess - https://leanin.org/sexual-harassment-backlash-survey-results https://www.ellevatenetwork.com/articles/9666-dear-sir-don-t-let-metoo-make-you-afraid-of-me
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:21 PM
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So I guess you're ending up single for life or the man with you is going to be completely oblivious of what's happening in the world
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:09 PM
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+1
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:07 PM
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I mean I don't see any problem in it as it's completely normalised for women to do things like these in the name of caution Like the example of the baby one given ? Doesn't it paint men as something similar as well ? Like every act or law additionally made for women especially their safety and particularly mentioning women there paint men as something similar as well if viewed in the victimized way , doesn't it ? These things are happening since ages but somehow it was about women safety at that…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 08:07 PM
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How did you get that from what she said? Oh with this - I mean he just said if he feels someone is attractive then he approaches to talk with her , he didn't say just because she looks good he's going to have a relationship with her , in fact he even explained it later that he'll know about her whether they both are compatible or not Wtf did you want from him ? I think I must have mentioned it already Yes. Something entirely superficial. He was attracted to her superficially and then immediately…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 06:46 PM
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No thanks. The favorite red pill revenge fantasy that women are sharing attractive men is horseshit perpetuated by men who cannot interpret statistics. Take Statistics 101 and I'll reply. Barring that, apply logic and simple mathematics before spreading terper disinformation You've read my whole comment and still said "no thanks" I've got the source of everything I've said , but just one Google search is already enough for it , if you can't find them , sure I'll give it here Women tend to date m…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:42 PM
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I have edited my last comment, please read the last part again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:14 PM
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Wtf !? what was the point of bringing anything like that here ? I mean he just said if he feels someone is attractive then he approaches to talk with her , he didn't say just because she looks good he's going to have a relationship with her , in fact he even explained it later that he'll know about her whether they both are compatible or not Wtf did you want from him ? To not approach someone who he finds attractive and approach those who he feels unattractive? Or just stops approaching? He just…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 04:09 PM
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Cool 27% is a minority Never said it isn't as and also I've added something more after that Although these aren't real statistics. Because this data gets gathered from small surveys. Those small surveys has random 10k people as the sample space scattered around the world or the country, this is by far the most authentic data I know. Not just that it also coincides with my experience as well . If you know any other trustable source with similar or bigger sample space saying contrary to it then su…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 10:43 AM
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My husband is shorter than you and doesn’t have flat abs. He didn’t start making 6 figures until he was in his 40s. He doesn’t have trouble getting laid. Neither do I, I just don't try and focusing on my career currently But if he doesn't have trouble getting laid then he must be in the 20% just not with the height
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:36 AM
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I mean do we really wanna exchange the current rights of men and women? I'm up for it, give all the men's rights to women and give their rights to us , I'd actually love that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:32 AM
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But the percent of young men in relationships (40%) vs the percent of young women in relationship (70%) doesn't
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:29 AM
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I mean you are among the 30% who are virgin and among 60% who are single
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:28 AM
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It has nothing to do with being married or single I mean I don't see the above comment saying that it has anything to do with it Even I agree with it , never married men suffers way more than married and divorced men when compared to women , the study of the mortality rates proved that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:27 AM
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Not because you think that most men don't get laid. Which is definitely not the case. Source ? My source says that majority of young men are single, majority of young men has never approached a girl and 27% of young men are literally virgin (let alone those who got laid just once till their 30s)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:22 AM
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A MGTOW would most likely drop MGTOW in a heartbeat if a hot 22 year old was DTF him. Likewise, a 4B woman would drop 4B fairly fast if a hot man came along and “swept her off her feet.” Well somehow the 2nd one is already what is happening today (relative to the 1st case) so 4B wouldn't change at all whereas the former one neither was nor is that common , so mgtow just changed men to not approach anymore as it'll stop giving those women the validation they want and less men will get hurt, resul…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:16 AM
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But that's what he's saying that better be celibate than choosing party girls I don't have any opinions on this though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:03 AM
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So you agree with the 80-20 rule?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:02 AM
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This comment should be the top one lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/24 03:01 AM
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Exactly !
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/24 11:35 AM
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Aaa did you even read my comment?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 05:26 PM
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That's what happened and men are now blamed by feminists that they did a crime lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:04 AM
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We aren't ..but that's why there's such a focus on supporting each other. Men seem like they're more interested in getting women to care, instead of relying on their own community. It's not like men don't support each other, it's more like men can't support each other in the way women can , just like women needed men to support them on every step of their feminism movement atleast since 60s Men support each other in different ways already but there are some things they can't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 03:01 AM
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No, they just don't allow baseless attacking if feminism/women. So somehow there was never any "attacking" done on the modern feminism on that sub which had a "base", sure. I mean, they really don't. But that doesn't mean they won't. As elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:39 PM
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Okay, who has TwoX bullied into suicide? Oh all the ones who did suicides due to misandry which is the biggest reason in most of the male suicides, and I don't think I need to prove why that sub tops in misandry Sure, can you share the link to this thread where feminists said that it's all men who are bad all the time? Well they don't use "all" every time, they just say "men" , also as mentioned before I visited that sub some 6 months ago, only interacted on just one post with the feminists and …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:37 PM
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I literally said that the point of men's lib is for both groups to work together. Aaa, modern feminism ≠ Women, and men's lib can't tolerate anything which is against the current feminism's narrative Anyways my whole point was about your reply, someone wrote that "men need to help but women don't need to help men" but you replied with "nope...." implying that "women neither need men's help nor need to help men" That's what I was replying
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:33 PM
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Well common sense sometimes is pretty uncommon But since you agree with it , I guess it's the point that for men to deal with their issues currently women have to help them just like both genders have been helping each other before
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 06:13 PM
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Who? Probably all the feminist spaces I know ? Who don't? The funny thing is that the best feminist space I found was r/ askfeminists and that's why the only feminist subreddit from where I'm banned too as I dared to disagree with the mod lol But it's the least misandrist one out In fact the last time I visited (just after getting banned) in every post and comment about men, people there were like how they are trying to be sane and have a complete valid views but it's just men who are bad all th…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 12:26 PM
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We’ve served men for a million years. And I'm Elon musk
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:57 AM
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Come to urban parts of India my friend, any place where Indian laws are enforceable (which covers 40% of indian population and way more than most of its wealth) , men are suffering way more than women there, the laws here are entirely misandrist, so much so even many courts called them legal terrorism
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:56 AM
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Somehow I have a feeling we are from the same country
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:51 AM
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And sun rises in the west
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:35 AM
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Nope, women have accomplished quite a bit on their own. Like ? In what context are you talking about ? Women individually has achieved quite a lot on their own As a whole gender or call it group/community? alone ? without the help of men ? In anything? I want to know that Also just recently, we saw that , how men are blamed because they snatched women's rights by voting for Trump , but if they'd not have and helped women then they deserve no praise as it was just "basic human decency"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:26 AM
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Well, didn't expect such a mature comment for these kinds of posts, I thought it's going to blame game in the comments as the language of the post was like that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:22 AM
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No adult, well adjusted man has a problem with promiscuity or calls women that fuck a lot " hoes ". And what's next, Elon musk isn't rich , sun rises from the west , etc etc Well maybe except the 2nd part, an adult well adjusted man would rather not comment on these promiscuous women and ignore them rather than calling anything to them let alone something like "hoes" Also another thing , people change with time , so do women , and adult men understand this as well, so yeah I know many promiscuou…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 11:08 AM
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That's why people say context matters and common sense is very uncommon
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:58 AM
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Women need to Do whatever the fuck makes us happy, regardless of how many men think they should have any say or influence over that It's hilarious that you directly say we should care less about our own preferences, only to later imply we should give a fuck about yours You know there's a comment above him done by a woman asking for men's opinions on their standards so someone replied to her Another one suffering from the selective blind disorder or you're just dum
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:52 AM
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It’s more than no dating. No casual sex will affect a lot of men too and no childbirth with hurt the government. Can you imagine a South Korea level drop to the US birth rate while having a closed boarder!? 4B in south korea wasn't even mainstream, the claimed participants numbers were from 500-4000 , that's it , but it's birthrate is still decreasing, and it was decreasing with much more speed way before 4B was a thing, I really doubt 4B had even remotely a significant impact on birthrates Also…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/24 10:39 AM
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Love isn't about YOU. Its about your ability to see the beauty in something outside of yourself. Well loving someone is what you've explained, being loved IS about YOU Loving someone is a great feeling sure , being loved is that great too, since we have scarcity of it and we can't control it, this becomes way more important for us than loving someone
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 01:48 PM
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He specifically stated women’s lack of an “equal contribution”. The fact that men HAVE to compensate by producing more and earning more to match women’s innate reproductive ability could be perceived as evidence of men’s biological INferiority You really want to debate about it? Just for the argument and I don't mean it (before I'm declared a misogynist) men don't have a choice if women can't earn more without system and government helping them additionally , men have to live with those very sam…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 03:04 AM
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These women will tell you that werstern men treat them a lot better than their local men Aaa , you don't need to put others down bruh But if you're serious about it, source or the logic behind it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:59 AM
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I think it's just bad wording, it just means men having different biology enabled them to earn more, they can dominate in the areas which pays more, whereas women have a very different biology Or he is dumb
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:43 AM
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I think physical abuse should warrant this as well. Oh yeah completely agree with it and for mental abuse too but if husband suffered this then again no alimony
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/24 02:22 AM
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Well I'd hope if you'd have decided to look into actual data.- https://datepsychology.com/are-27-of-young-men-really-virgins-and-why/ Well let's go for some more - https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2020/08/20/a-profile-of-single-americans/ (Somehow 60%+ young men and 25% men aged between 30-49 are single when compared to some 34% of young women and 17% of women ..., seems mathematically impossible lol) Also , 60% of young men aren't even approaching women anymore https://datepsychology.c…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:13 PM
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For the exact same reason why it bothered you when a random men got bothered about.......
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:34 PM
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What you said is completely true but i'd suggest reading the 1st link completely, you'll get what I want to say
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:29 PM
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Agreed Only that way more than most of the men aren't spinning plates and way more than most men are active on the dating market , but somehow more than 63% in 2022 (51% in 2019) of young men are single but just 34% (32) of young women are , in fact 25% (27) of men aged 30-49 are single too but women are still at 17% (19) Yeah one thing I can say that the % of men approaching women is going down drastically , today 60% of young men has never approached a woman And it's happening because of the f…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:46 PM
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Ofcourse, they're different and among the 40% Whereas many have stopped it because they've been labelled creepy of even worse things
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:47 PM
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Couldn’t find one from this century? Didn't know I was supposed to , I just posted what came into the top of my mind They started using more aggressive tactics to get woman the vote. They didn’t start shooting innocent people because they couldn’t get a bf You 1st claimed it has never happened and then started asking of evidence if it happened from me who never even talked about it , but still when i gave it then you started justifying it lol I'm done here, see ya
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:45 PM
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And if you are an underrepresented minority you are more equal than others, especially law abiding, tax paying citizens of a certain gender and skin color. It was just a really bad strategy based on a losing ideology. Somehow this disease is in a lot of major countries, the liberal parties in India are exactly like that , just add religion, and many others in that too
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 12:11 PM
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!? Seriously? I mean since a man is voted by both men and women in similar numbers that's why only the men are responsible for his actions lol Yup , I'm stupid lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:43 AM
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I think the 2nd part of my comment is atleast enough to prove that it has nothing to with 4B What is the actual reason? well I'd rather not explain till necessary
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:38 AM
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Surprise, I'm not the person who claimed that 1st of all, i was strictly talking about the logic you have about the "celebration" and "small" part Tick Tock But still if you want from me then - "The women's suffrage movement, also known as the suffragette movement, included some violent acts, including bombing and arson campaigns, assassination attempts, and hunger strikes"
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 09:26 AM
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And then you woke up
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 03:05 AM
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Oh well, I Accept, I became dumb for sometime
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:33 AM
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Idk why the feminists of all people don’t believe that Oh a hint- Modern feminists are way way different from the textbook definition
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:31 AM
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The birth rates were decreasing with much more speed way before 4b was a thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:17 AM
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Somehow it was said a lot of times before and it didn't happen so.... ofcourse unlikely
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:14 AM
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And it's the same for previous generation as well, the last generation had less sex before the previous one Not to mention, men are having way less sex than the previous ones when compared to the decrement in women so I doubt it's because women "withholding" sex
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:12 AM
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A hint - "Patriarchy" made men having all the political, social , etc powers to themselves ,especially in the last century
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:07 AM
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Don’t worry men are working to change that. Before men were just lazy and whined about it, now they are actively working to take away women’s rights while gaslighting women. Well , as per her men liked women suffering, and since "patriarchy" made men having almost all the political, social , etc power, way more intimidating and powerful movements/protests happened in the last century which was badly crushed , I really doubt if men would've remotely hated the feminism it'd have went last 60s or 7…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 02:03 AM
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The types of men hitting on women think that they are attractive enough to get away with that kind of behavior. The men who don’t think that they are attractive at all usually don’t even bother with approaching because they see it as futile. So let's see , 60% of young men haven't even approached a woman in their life , let alone those who rarely did it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:55 AM
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Probably - It's not just 'A LOT' but literally 45%, it's almost half 45% of women are voting for something but if the majority of men voted for the same thing then Men took the rights of women lol, I guess you don't know logic
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 01:48 AM
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Let's be real honest here. Men have no desire to help women. Most men like women suffering Let's be honest here , if any of that would've been remotely the truth , feminism would've been crushed pretty badly way before , let alone being mainstream currently
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:27 PM
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The "most women" have decreased drastically especially after me too...... Fortunately I'm atleast decent (atleast to me) in attractive most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:20 PM
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I wasn't disagreeing with your comment as well, just wanted to add
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:17 PM
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In addition, men often think that they are more attractive than what they actually are. Explain? I thought it was women because for men let's say the 20th percentile is almost as attractive as the top one Way more than Most of the men I met either view themselves as less attractive than what they are or were completely right about themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:15 PM
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Promiscuous men, while being less in number, on an average have way more body count that after a certain limit, let's say 100 , they surpass promiscuous women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 05:04 PM
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Well, nobody is telling men they are wrong. In fact, they are being empowered to take womens and girls rights away. We have become desensitized to women being raped. Women being forced to give birth against their will. Women dying from lack of abortion care. Men don't care. Boys especially don't care. What's the viral saying right now, "Your body, my choice." Somehow 45% women (more than before) voted for Trump and less percentage of men voted this time for Trump But yeah men are to blame lol No…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:59 PM
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And the other choice were democrats led by Kamala Harris, well I guess those men would rather be brain-dead than choosing kamala and I'd do that too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:14 PM
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Are you offering any evidence cause you’ve not linked anything Which part of mine required the evidence ? You didn't ask for the evidence of anything related to any of my replies as much as I remember ? What am I supposed to link to prove? Yes, these examples are the same Nurses vs firefighters/rescue teams/ army men/ etc who have to risk their lives........ Same? Well then , see ya
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:06 PM
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I'm afraid now that the healthcare is disappearing, the jobs will be disappearing too, and sadly more and more men will be killing themselves. What minute mental health care was available before will be gone. How are you so sure about it? Come on , this is politics. I'd rather not debate about it as it's almost nothing to do with the sub and the post but I'm really sure that under democrats US suffered much more in these than under Trump , especially when we talk about the situation of young men…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 04:02 PM
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Amazing comprehension skills lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:38 PM
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The same way millions of nurses and other woman help care for men and children around the world in not only disasters but in everyday life too? Are these examples really the same way or rather say even remotely comparable with what examples I have given? A hint - I can include doctors, etc as well for the nurse part and even those works wouldn't be objectively comparable, let alone risking their lives to save others Also I don't remember a lot of women caring for other men in their day to day li…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 02:35 PM
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I feel fortunate that my wife does not feel this way and actually appreciates it. These kind of positive comments especially by spouses always makes my heart melt Hope you guys will be like that forever 💗
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:59 AM
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Oh , one of the methods were suicides
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:49 AM
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I think that the young men's life and the loneliness epidemic would atleast stop getting worse as it was under democrats with that speed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:46 AM
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Well atleast he's not going to make male's life as worse as it was under democrats, it was bad vs worse
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:43 AM
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I've read that link completely, it was all about that if a dad is being engaged with it's child more and more then he's a feminist because it's against the "patriarchy" ....... Modern Feminists caring about men is even rarer than politicians caring about citizens
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:37 AM
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It'll still be small, not to mention way more percentage of men have saved women in their daily life from violence , way more do these along with saving them before other men in case of any emergency whether it's natural disaster or anything as part of their jobs, as well as even more percentage of men celebrate them but somehow these doesn't take part in generalizations lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:26 AM
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Exactly, anything worse from here would barely matter
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:19 AM
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Nah, the situation is already at it's worst, worse would barely matter to me
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:16 AM
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Well, 1st - I doubt the modern feminists are half of the population Also The epidemic currently is already at its worse , more would barely matter
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:16 AM
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Well both men and women were losing their fathers, brothers, sons, friends, etc , wouldn't change the politics
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 07:13 AM
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