| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 8 | mybex | AffectionateFactor84 | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/24 04:02 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 1 | Gave her a 2nd shot. Blew up in my face. Once a cheaterGetting married was probably the best decision. You have a great relationship with your son bc of it. That really matters. Of course there’s a possible financial risk but, it’s just money. We can make more | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/03/26 05:16 PM |
| 9 | Ex spreading false sexual rumoursShe’s petty. These types always have to tear down their men after a split. I was the abuser. The other was gay. It’s never them | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/02/26 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Men over 45 after 27 years of marriage I haven't been intimate with my wife for 4 years. Thinking of calling it quits but I am afraid of not finding anyone. How hard is it out there?I’ve found that a high majority of the women I have dated over 50 have huge issues. I assume you’re looking for drama free relationships. Well it’s not a given. I’m sure there are some out there but I didn’t see any | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/11/25 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Men who went to therapy during or after the divorce. What did you learn?Sounds like my ex. She tried to blame it all on me. The 50k on credit cards, bankruptcy while she refused to work. Go figure. I knew something was up years before it came to an end. Didn't seek therapy, maybe I should have. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/08/25 02:45 AM |
| 8 | Getting a divorcelawyer up b4 doing anything. if her dad and her came up with the plan, it might not work legally. again, see a lawyer first. | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/08/25 02:05 PM |
| 19 | Wife Crash and burn storiesshes hot a short period of time where she could land a dude. but after 55, too old. my ex left thought she'd land some dude. nope. shes 54 and single. I think her time is done | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/08/25 10:56 PM |
| 3 | What ruined your marriage?a lot of things. Money. Lied saying a doctor said she needed to go on disability. She didn't want to work, was the issue. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 01:09 AM |
| 3 | What ruined your marriage?Once I realized I was married to a pathological liar. | /r/Divorce_Men | 07/08/25 12:45 AM |
| 5 | My Wife Left and Hasn't Filed For DivorceFirst rule, Never leave the house. This gives her the right to claim abandonment. Lawyer up..depending on the state her cheating may or may not matter. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/07/25 11:09 AM |
| 2 | Am I an asshole for saying this:it's your choice. if you have kids, you should be amicable. for them, not her. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/11/24 12:52 AM |
| 3 | STBX just threatened suicide. What do I do?I'd get the law involved via your lawyer. was there always this type of abuse from her? get her the help she needs. | /r/Divorce_Men | 12/10/24 02:16 PM |
| 6 | She want alimony included in prenupfuck.that. | /r/Divorce_Men | 02/10/24 08:40 PM |
| 1 | mybexty | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/24 06:05 PM |
| 4 | Dating during divorcesome never learn. I'm glad you moved on. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/24 04:06 AM |
| 6 | Dating during divorceyes, immediately after split. told me nothing was going on. it was an on again, off again relationship for many, many years. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/08/24 03:59 AM |
| 7 | Another thing I won’t miss from the ex….I like carving pumpkin mainly for the seeds. I do Halloween for the neighborhood kids under principle, I went as a kid, I should give as an adult. I put a tree in a pot on the table for Xmas. | /r/Divorce_Men | 17/08/24 12:29 AM |
| 1 | When do I stop wearing my ringI had put on some weight. and couldn't get it off. I obviously changed my diet, and one day, it slid off. felt great in many ways. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/08/24 12:15 AM |
| 1 | Is 10 years the lucky number?mine was about 11 years. but I think it was in her mind at 9 years | /r/Divorce_Men | 23/07/24 12:32 AM |
| 4 | She has HIVhim and their kid. | /r/Divorce_Men | 21/07/24 08:30 PM |
| 1 | How much did you spend?15k. 2 trials | /r/Divorce_Men | 13/06/24 03:47 AM |
| 1 | Red flagsprevious bk, claimed it was her ex's fault. ran up 50k on cc, of my credit. | /r/Divorce_Men | 24/05/24 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Could she have done anything?stop lying, using credit cards, we had 50k, went bk, she ran up 1200 on two different cards in just over a year. of course, don't cheat | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/24 10:41 PM |
| 4 | Why do all the men here get into a panic over Mother’s Day? It’s like anxiety takes over. I could be wrong but I highly doubt the same sentiment is shared on the other side of the fence.I never did anything for her on Mother's Day after the divorce. last year, when I picked up the kids, I asked if they had plans for Mother's Day. said nothing was happening. she emailed me Sunday evening saying she had emailed me about spending the day with the kids.. of course she didn't. | /r/Divorce_Men | 10/05/24 09:25 PM |
| 1 | WTF am I doing?idk. after 20 years of he'll and becoming single again, I first dated a few women I met. all weren't wrapped too tight. I tried the apps, only got attention from less than desirable. I'm not that picky, but being under 300 is the bare minimum. one side says don't bother, but then I met a cute one. I try, and it usually goes nowhere. I guess it's not that important to me anymore. I have 2 kids a house a decent job. I like eating what I want when I want and sleeping when I need to. having extra ca… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/05/24 03:31 PM |
| 3 | Does one ever get over her betrayal of choosing to open up our private marriage to her friends, over communicating with me?mine always shared private things. there wasn't anything private between us. she didn't get it. she tried, I think at least, to work out our problems with her friends. of course, they tell her what she wanted to hear. | /r/Divorce_Men | 05/05/24 02:43 AM |
| 7 | Childishdime for 2 dozen | /r/Divorce_Men | 01/05/24 12:46 AM |
| 7 | I just found out that I’m going to be forced to sell my house and pay around $1,500 monthly for alimony, child support, and health insurance. I only bring home $3,000 every month. How am I going to survive?child support is an old concept as well. it's both parties' responsibility for the kids. not just the man. | /r/Divorce_Men | 19/04/24 06:15 PM |
| 2 | Anyone is staying single permanently?divorced 12 years ago. dated 3 women briefly in the first few years. tired of the games. have little interest dating. she'd have to be a near perfect fit. times I'd think it would be nice to have that companion, but I just don't see it happening in reality. | /r/Divorce_Men | 16/04/24 12:25 AM |
| 1 | Starting Divorce with Wife over infidelityyou're doing the right thing. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/04/24 07:30 PM |
| 10 | Just discovered my ex-wife, who cheated and destroyed our marriage, is committing fraud. Do I report it or pocket it for later?report it. I did after seeing a picture of her loser bf and her at the grocery store. he's a sponge, who was sponging off my kids. she sent me an email saying she knew it was me who did it. I tried to get a record of it from the state but was told it wasn't public information. | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/24 09:32 PM |
| 1 | Just discovered my ex-wife, who cheated and destroyed our marriage, is committing fraud. Do I report it or pocket it for later?report. I did, after seeing a picture of her and her loser bf buying groceries. he was sponging off her and my kids for that matter. she got some notice and blamed me. I tried to get a record of it but was told it wasn't public information. 🤷 | /r/Divorce_Men | 11/04/24 09:27 PM |
| 2 | When did you know it was over?fall 2010. we split in June 2011. divorce final June 2012 | /r/Divorce_Men | 25/03/24 08:50 PM |
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