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Why do you all act like FDS is new?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/21 03:30 AM
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Your parents told you to be nice and play well with others when you were a kid because you were a kid. You should be making your own choices as an adult. Parents’ main job isn’t delivering sexual success advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 03:23 AM
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I think it’s more significant from dads but important from moms too. Something about dad knowing how boys think
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 11:48 PM
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I mean both but part of knowing her value is seeing her parents especially her dad not tolerate bullshit on her behalf.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 03:09 PM
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They learn that from their parents having their back Teenage girls are not confident and are too agreeable. Sometimes they only have the courage to politely turn down a guy because she knows her dad would punch him
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:48 PM
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Except a lot of them didn’t learn at all and would just be feckless. Why do you want that for your daughter?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:59 PM
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IMO fathers also need to set high examples of not taking bullshit from feckless boys. Women can be so agreeable and have trouble saying no to men otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:28 PM
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True. Still when you’re under 25, even 7 years older cohort has plenty of layabouts.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:14 PM
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You can also join the circus but most women don’t want to. I personally did but most women prefer age mates. Also 5-7 years older still has plenty of feckless layabout time wasters when you’re 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:07 AM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:34 AM
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Maybe they just didn’t find the other guys as great as their current guy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:25 AM
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I was talking about real life
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 03:25 AM
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Not all women who delay marriage are ball busting shoulder pads wearing boardroom striving career ladies like people imagine. A lot of women get married later because…drumroll…lots of men now don’t want to get married young. Unless you’re in the middle of nowhere, plenty of young men actually think women seeking marriage are desperate and psycho.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 02:49 AM
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Do you believe LC women have lots of passive financially stable law abiding billy betas in their peer group requesting their hand in marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/21 12:46 AM
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Yes was born and raised in a major city and I saw thousands of people just like you from small towns move there and feel like big shots just for changing their geography and brag about knowing the city when they didn’t know it and add to a giant market of single people just hanging out not going anywhere. When I was ready to get married I just met guys 50 miles farther out and met my husband. In the city you have to filter through all the men like you who have zero plans for marriage but no issu…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 04:30 PM
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Okay so say that up front when you give this advice. You just want young hot women to move to cities hoping for a good prospect so guys who don’t believe in marriage can use them for a few years. Women who want families shouldn’t move to cities for the sole purpose of finding a husband. Yes it happens but there are many young men only interested in flings to filter through.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:55 PM
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Yeah okay so you admit it’s bad advice
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:50 PM
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A Buthisface?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:23 PM
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I was born UMC so I don’t have to make this choice. Some LC women will do #1 because it’s the only way to get a baby, not because they just have to have Chad’s baby. I would do neither. In real life I choose to have a baby with my husband to whom I’m attracted and who is good in bed and who is also nice and has good dad qualities. I also met him when I was 30.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:22 PM
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If you’re looking for marriage soon this isn’t always good advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:19 PM
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Yes and? My husbands actual stats on there tell me I’ll never find a man like him. What’s the point of this calculator? I don’t need 50,000 men like him, just one. I know a lot of guys with similar stats because we socialize with our peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 03:17 PM
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Women don’t care if an old church gentleman says she has a lovely hat
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:36 AM
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They’re not buff and roided. They are thinner. When I lived in the UK and traveled around Europe people were thinner. And yes smoking is part of that but I also didn’t smoke and found it much easier to stay trim because I had to walk everywhere and food portions were smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/21 12:27 AM
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We’re talking about when men take themselves off the market because they don’t feel established enough to focus on dating in any serious way. This is very common behavior for the type of man whom women find to be good husbands. A lot of women know this and the men make themselves unavailable. “It is a truth universally acknowledged, that a single man in possession of a good fortune, must be in want of a wife”. -Jane Austen, 1813 The point is the man who is established can now seek out a wife and…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 10:06 PM
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Right you have to actively be countetcultural to be fit. In Europe everything works to make you stay fit from portion size to walking requirements to food quality.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 07:04 PM
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Thanks for mentioning the income thing. I don’t know why it’s not talked about that for a great deal of men, they will not even want any kind of relationship until they’re more established. People assume women are rejecting these men when a lot of them will not be open to women who want to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 06:00 PM
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I wouldn’t agree all of it is moral and it doesn’t change the overall attitude of Gen z And again I hear all this stuff way more from millennials more than Gen z. Gen z makes fun of millennials for caring too much
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:58 PM
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The country’s infrastructure and cultural attitude towards food are all conducive to overeating and under exercising. As well as the addition of high fructose corn syrup and the relative difficult of getting in season good fresh foods compared to some other countries. It’s not just women be getting Starbucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:57 PM
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I always put my husbands stats in, I can’t put his exact age so I do the smallest range. I always get some small number and 4/5 cats. I didn’t marry him for his stats though.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:55 PM
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Millennials did that too and for both it’s still just a subset
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:52 PM
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It seems largely location dependent
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:34 PM
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They seem incredibly nihilistic and amoral. I don’t mean this as an insult but it’s practically a meme about Gen z.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:33 PM
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You should choose neither
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 05:05 PM
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Dear God I’m glad neither my husband or myself had the internet in childhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 04:21 PM
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That’s definitely not true
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:55 PM
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Beautiful people just assume that “you’re so pretty” “you’re so beautiful” is just something people say to be nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:25 PM
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They call it “empathy.” “Why can’t women have more empathy?” Meaning why don’t hot chicks blow me more just out of the goodness of their hearts?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:17 PM
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It would be so much easier to be able to just take the initiative and grab dinner and just go for what you want straightforwardly. Women can’t do that we have to do this balancing act and have pressure to have sex but not too fast, and act interested but not too much, and so on. Inb4 but women can ask out and pay, yes women who want a guy who’s only there bc she’a available can do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:16 PM
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Lol “But you said I was handsome! You have to date me!”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:07 PM
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I’ll take 100 compliments about my shoes any day. The thing is the only random people who compliment my clothing have been women, very old men, or gay men. Straight younger men give other kinds of “compliments”
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:03 PM
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Women aren’t complaining about actual genuine non sexual comments with no implication behind them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:43 PM
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A lot of the ones I’ve talked to seem pretty nihilistic and amoral. My brother and his peers don’t but they’re church goers. Idk the secular ones seem pretty bleak.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:41 PM
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Lol you think they’re very moral?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:37 PM
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Some women might consider it too tall
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:01 PM
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Yeah it really is surreal. I can’t remember when it started but one day I realized men with silver hair could be hot to me and not just “old” and I realized I was getting older too. And 20 year old kids that I know are objectively good looking still seem like children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 03:20 AM
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It does. I remember though when I started to notice that some 50 year olds were just attractive to me and no longer old guys. Idk if that happens to men but I def noticed it happening to me over time. My husband stays fit snd we both have baby faces and it’s easy for us to forget our ages lol. We will be older parents but that’s okay.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:59 AM
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My husband is ten years older. We met well past the age where anyone cares about age gap though. No ones said anything. The only thing I said was he will be 50 when our baby is 5 and then he told me to stop talking.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:39 AM
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Not marry no
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 02:38 AM
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My point is I don’t want to be harassed with increasingly aggressive questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/08/21 01:54 AM
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The problem is a lot of men are perfectly polite until they get rejected and then they become persistent and not mindful of boundaries. If you don’t pull the boyfriend card right away then it’s too late. I personally haven’t used it unless it’s true but I know why people do.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:52 PM
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“You’re not my type” “Well I must be if you talked to me / went out with me once / swiped right. What do you mean? Can you explain? Why do I have to be your type? Maybe you’re closing your mind. Give me a chance” etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:44 PM
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Ghosting is a good thing for early on yes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 10:34 PM
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Okay like a buff tan blonde extrovert guy is not my ideal partner
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 06:24 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:52 AM
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Maybe for rubes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:38 AM
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It’s a fallacy to even think the way the OP has about “good ones.” A lot of the standard guys that are considered good would be my nightmare. There are many types of people and various compatibilities.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/21 12:38 AM
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And yet millions fine a good match. Huh.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:53 PM
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That’s why it’s a numbers / timing thing. My husband and I were only briefly on the app that connected us. That’s just how it worked out. It’s annoying when you’re in it sure but that’s life on this planet. But tbh you’re making a mistake to talk about the good ones, there are lots of stereotypically desirable partners I found absurd and didn’t want to be with. It’s much more important to find your type and niche than to decide there’s just swaths of desirable or non desirable people on a binary…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/21 11:47 PM
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Men’s standards might go up but it would make no practical difference. If men all had state mandated hookers most women other would just avoid men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 12:05 PM
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it explains why they are single The comment was saying single women don’t have to think that way to get dates or a boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/21 11:24 AM
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Aw thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 02:45 AM
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It’s so weird how this sub never got over high school and is so obsessed with being conventionally cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:57 PM
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I know you believe all that and tell yourself that. You have no concept of the full story. I mean that’s cute you can logic yourself into this argument but it’s not the facts. Those younger women only seem more fun because they’re too naive to not let someone waste their time and men like you only like them because they’re younger (looks) and allow their time to be wasted. As you said you keep them around for months, wasting their precious youth; the slightly older women don’t do that. Not becau…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 03:17 PM
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Thinking love = sex is their problem
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:05 AM
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Yes, that’s why they all say if they can’t be ultra Chad they don’t want to bother. It’s vanity and ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:04 AM
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They’ve been going on for ages and women always reply “lol ok”
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:03 AM
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So you like all the category 2 guys think you either have to be super Chad or be nothing. God forbid you have to try a little harder by comparison. That’s the real issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 05:01 AM
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So basically you’re not serious about dating and are a see what happens guy, and the women in their 30s are saving their own time filtering you out. (By acting what you consider difficult or not fun.) Good for them. Everybody wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/21 04:55 AM
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The sun improves your mood and it used to be very trendy to tan showing you had time for tropical vacations. I avoid the sun now but there’s no doubt the vitamin D helps mood.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:19 AM
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Just lol everyone here is assuming she’s single.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/04/21 06:14 AM
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Yes and help me scoop ice cream too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:08 AM
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In stories like this usually the message is that he acted with more confidence and owned his personality without apologizing for it, which is what attracted the woman, not the nuances of his personality themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:05 AM
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Men hear these aphorisms as teens and don’t really grasp the meaning of them. They’re blinded by hormones and all that. For example women are less visual than men when it comes to instant sexual arousal. A lot of guys seem to have misheard this truth as “women don’t care if you’re ugly fat and slovenly.”
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:04 AM
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A lot of human being male and female have a lot of thoughts like that. Just look at the dead bedroom or adultery subs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 06:01 AM
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Mine divorced when I was the same age and neither of them think about each other now. I’m pretty sure my dad wanted us all to pretend we didn’t have a mom.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:59 AM
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Men have the privilege of being able to afford being romantic in a way and to an extent women do not.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/21 05:57 AM
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A pile of semen festering in a tube is still grosser than a sticky vibrator Ultimately the discrepancy is the difference between men and women. Women who turn down low value sex offers are seen as discerning and clearly some sources are marketing vibrators as part of that discerning effort. Men who are using toys instead of sex are seen as losers. Also there’s the fact that some men get way too devoted to masturbation as an end in itself. Women generally don’t have an issue with a regular guy wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:49 AM
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Men’s masturbation also has more emissions than women’s. Fleshlights conjure to mind a neckbeard who doesn’t clean it out.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 05:41 AM
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You don’t know how we vote.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 12:58 AM
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Lol oh honey child
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 09:20 PM
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They imagined in their heads that being a trad in the past meant getting a hot sex bunny virgin who was super loyal and obeyed everything he said.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 12:33 AM
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Lol Aw nice try
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 03:01 AM
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Your whole entire premise is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 11:08 PM
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I’ve been on PPD a while and I’ve seen this exact nonsense over and over. Stop trying to make women stop protecting themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 10:51 PM
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Nope you’re just AMALT, your lack of self awareness and psycho babble doesn’t change that.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 10:41 PM
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You’re just doing what a million guys have done here which is act out your imperative to isolate and seduce women by trying to frame women letting their guard down before they’ve established trust as moral.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 10:28 PM
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Don’t agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:36 PM
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You’re literally AMALT trying to get women to let their guard down. You’re not special.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:35 PM
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You mean revenge fantasy
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:43 PM
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Men literally hate women existing near them who aren’t as attractive as they want. They then protect this onto women and insist “women want ugly men to all drop dead.”
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:33 PM
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Omg men blaming women for men’s shithead behavior. What a new hot take for PPD.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:33 PM
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It’s insanely imprudent to live the way you’re suggesting and no one ever tries to push people into it for altruistic reasons. YOUR lifestyle proposal is the immoral one.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 05:13 PM
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Sounds like a male projection. Besides. Men in uniform are fit and hot and confident so not low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/21 12:39 AM
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No dummy I’m talking about what you said about being victims of violence and how you tried to get women to let their guard down. But what you’re doing in the OP also sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 09:44 PM
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Excepting a few outspoken lib fems most women don’t think their degree makes them attractive. They just know that the lack of a degree excludes them from better cohorts of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 07:35 PM
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What’s objectively stupid is putting yourself at risk to every random person because a guy on the internet said he’s a good dude and you should trust him and all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 04:06 PM
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You said my way is a worse way of living but you’re just wrong. Stop trying to tell people not to protect themselves. What you’re doing is messed up.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/21 01:58 AM
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I’m happily married and have avoided being tied up in trunks. I don’t care about your stats lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:38 AM
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Basing your worldview on exceptions severely damages your chances of ending up tied up in someone’s trunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 03:09 AM
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Most of us never experienced any of your examples even once.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:19 AM
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I don’t buy into the values of my secular culture but you’re being insane. Respectable familial non criminal relationships don’t involve parents seeing their children nude. If a parent is going around invading the personal space of a child or teen who isn’t dressed that really isn’t cool and it’s very weird and concerning. And you keep insisting that so many teen kids have all kinds of outlier scenarios where a parent must see them naked and yet most of us reached adulthood without ever experien…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 05:16 AM
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Wow okay and how is this relevant?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 04:43 AM
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I am from one of the most western cities in the US and the world and it is not normal. Even an accidental incident would be something considered embarrassing and to be avoided. I do not have any clue what context you’re imagining.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 02:53 AM
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No. It’s not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/21 01:56 AM
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Oh good God dude if you think what you’re describing is normal you’re from the weird culture.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:32 PM
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You can only lead a horse to water
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/21 08:25 PM
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I’m gonna get the vaccine but wasn’t at least one company exempt from liability?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:17 PM
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Sorry to hear about your gramma
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/21 11:16 PM
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It also has been since at least the emo years. It’s literally just women who notice girls have nice hair or a pretty face. And because everything is sexualized now they don’t think “that’s my friend,” they think it’s a sexuality. They don’t want sex with women though. Also, it gets male attention and that’s another reason women say it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 08:51 PM
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How is it “not fake?” I’m pro surgery if people want it I just think it’s weird you would define one cosmetic surgery as more fake than another.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 04:58 AM
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Both of these examples are solipsistic in different ways. Solipsism isn’t gendered. It’s just when a man or women is incapable of seeing something from the opposite sex’s POV because their own view is so strong.
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 04:55 AM
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It’s not about if men put on weight, although they do. It’s about them stopping seducing or romancing their wives, then being so confused why she isn’t into sex with him and wants to eat cake instead. The whole idea that women give up after the wedding because the chase is over, is a male projection. Women don’t think like that. Men do. There’s an old joke about the husband who never says “I love you” to his wife because “I said it on our wedding day.” Men routinely feel that the chase has been …
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 04:52 AM
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Women aren’t chasing men. Men chase women. There’s no “the chase is over so now she can let herself go” because women don’t chase. Women stay skinny and into sex before marriage because the man pursued her and made her feel like an object of desire. When men stop making a woman feel like an object of desire that’s when she loses interest in sex, stops caring if her body is hot, and eats cake to cope. The whole sermon sounds like a projection. Men, not women, are the ones who think, “the chase is…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/21 04:44 AM
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Just because men mostly notice wild crazy bpd sluts doesn’t mean they make up the majority of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 04:38 AM
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Rate! Rate! I’m a 5 star man!
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:51 AM
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Yes most of us absolutely do want to filter out violent criminals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/21 03:48 AM
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I don’t have a boyfriend but my husband is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/21 11:07 PM
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No it’s not a state wise thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 11:45 PM
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No one in America does this either, PPDers are weird and most of us don’t know what they’re talking about on this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/21 10:05 PM
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I drive stick
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/21 09:10 PM
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Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:41 PM
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I know. Non sequitur
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:41 PM
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I’m not even arguing that only disagreeing that the phrase “I feel used” supports that view I swear the same women will also seethe on the internet and tell people women don't lose value by having sex Your words. You said they lose value.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:40 PM
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I’m only contradicting your argument that because women say they feel used after pump and dump sex, that is somehow definitive proof of the “women lose value with each partner just like cars” argument. That argument is incorrect because you’re misunderstanding the colloquial meaning of feeling used.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:22 PM
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He clearly said women are referring to themselves as used in the sales descriptor sense, like a used car or purse. “I was once new but now I’m used.” The implication being women feel old and worn out the more partners they have, especially due to prior partners being equivalent to prior owners of a car or other item. But that isn’t how people use the phrase “being used” colloquially. It just means “people had ulterior motives with me and didn’t genuinely like me.”
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:14 PM
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I don’t know or care, the point is women do not feel “previously owned” that’s not why they’re upset and not what they mean by used It’s like saying if a guy is mad a woman just let him buy her expensive dinner and didn’t sleep with him. He feels used for money. He doesn’t feel, oh no I’m devalued because that woman put wear on me and I’m pre-owned now.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:08 PM
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Lol yes that was one part of my much lengthier description you took out of context And the feeling used is not because of being pre owned like you’re saying It’s being not treated as a person or liked for your own sake The issue is being treated as an object at all NOT the amount of “use” How is this common colloquialism most people innately know so confusing You’re arguing that women are upset about the degree to which they are used, women are saying they didn’t want to feel used at all. But th…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:04 PM
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Perhaps it you who was whooshed
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 11:03 PM
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Nooo lol that’s not what the term means It’s when you feel someone just wanted something from you, disappointment that they didn’t like you for your own sake but just wanted a favor of some sort. It’s not “I was a like new car but now I have been driven off the lot and lost value” When men complain women use them for dinner they don’t mean they feel like a pre-owned damaged dude now, they’re just annoyed she only wanted his money and not him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 10:59 PM
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Brah the term “used” can mean “previously owned” when talking about items for sale, but when people use it in personal relationship contexts they mean they feel they were dehumanized or treated as an object or means to an end, rather than a human being; that is the colloquial usage. People do not refer to themselves as pre-owned, that is not what people mean when they say they feel used.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/21 10:54 PM
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Lots of things. Google it.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 12:54 AM
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Okay. By the way if you did have a sperm issue, you can do things to change it. No need to die.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 12:22 AM
2

Okay so let’s say you get married. You find out your wife has PCOS or endo and only ovulates three times a year. Your only have sex during 5 day windows 3x a year? What if she never ovulates? Or you find out somehow she is fertile but your sperm count is very low, what then? Or you’re both totally fertile and she has regular cycles, you still only have sex 5 days a month?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:38 PM
1

You are what?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 11:06 PM
2

So are you a literal only have sex it she’s fertile type, or is this a general “open to life” view?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 10:45 PM
1

You’re not getting what I’m saying Are you aware women are only fertile a few days a month?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 10:21 PM
2

Sometimes as in sometimes you have sex or sometimes as in per relationship? Even if both you and your wife are very fertile and healthy there is about a 25% shot max per cycle and that’s only if you have sex at the right time. Will you abstain outside of this window?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 09:17 PM
1

Are you under the false impression that when you are married, every instance of unprotected sex will result in a child?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/21 05:09 PM
2

I am not amoral 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 02:53 PM
2

You’re right it’s not adultery on their part. It’s pretty rude and uncool though. Definitely not chill.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 05:13 AM
7

How would that change male nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:57 AM
2

Nope, you’re just an unoriginal “if the woman behaves badly it’s her fault and if the man behaves badly it’s the woman’s fault” type
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/21 12:36 AM
1

Yeah maybe. They also just have cultures clashes. LC women might act in ways that are shockingly rude to UC women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:58 PM
2

Tell that to the dads who abandon their child and it’s mother
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:51 PM
2

Everyone talks about it constantly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:29 PM
2

Having money is important to raise kids
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:28 PM
1

This
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:28 PM
2

Peak fertility is later than 22
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:28 PM
3

A huge number of people online do want to take away rights to have kids lol
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:26 PM
1

Entirely depends on location. Where I grew up yes. If you grew up in the Midwest no.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:25 PM
1

That’s because it really means treat others in the way that they would like to be treated.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 11:24 PM
6

Cause they read huff po and jezebel and two x more than any women here do
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 09:31 PM
1

Men who are blue balled get really triggered when they realize that women’s biggest problem is filtering out the swaths of low value men. Understandably since those guys would be thrilled if swaths of slutty thirsty women were begging them for NSA sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:05 PM
2

The idea that their views would repulse the HVM as they define it is not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:03 PM
3

It is just not your definition of HVM. What it really does is help quickly filter out their understanding of LVM. Women’s strategy has always had to be about filtering out LVM quickly, not hunting HVM. Men have to hunt HVW. Women have to learn to screen to avoid their time being wasted, that is life. I don’t go on FDS much but I believe their sidebar does have some strategy stuff, obviously there is going to be venting and so forth but that is something only those women will get and men viewing …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 08:01 PM
1

For RMV. They will find it attractive for RMP as it advertised pedigree. You all keep assuming some say this to advertise SMV. Stop.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 07:18 PM
3

I don’t know any guys like that all the guys I know date and don’t have theories or hang ups My premise is not false. Implying something heavily is as good as saying it. The assumption women get degrees for the express purpose of attracting men is wrong. I won’t be rudely awakened about anything because I am happily married so it doesn’t matter what some secretly angry unmarried man thinks about anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:35 PM
3

Where is my rude awakening, I’m married and I turned down many proposals in the past. This stuff is all in echo chambers online. Did you see where it’s been explained that women aren’t getting degrees specifically to turn men on?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 05:20 AM
1

They understand. They will never have a male imperative.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:07 AM
0

The crowd here is way too cynical for this, beware
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 04:01 AM
1

You see that?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:56 AM
2

They’re both cute. Driver is also hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:50 AM
-1

Why would social proof not matter. Loner men aren’t just nerds or different, they can be dangerous.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:49 AM
3

It’s because of his charisma...there are millions of objectively conventionally attractive way more successful actors we don’t find attractive...you’re 100% wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:48 AM
7

This is male sexuality. Women aren’t stopping agog at men’s faces in the street at all. Adam Driver would be the type to be very popular with women in his circle who know him and know of him. He has charisma. The woman who wouldn’t glance at his face on street would light up if she met him at a party.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:47 AM
2

Adam Driver has a level of charisma that Cera does not. If he was just a dude he would still pull.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:36 AM
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Lol you’re the first, so many guys cannot understand what we see in Adam Driver at all and they don’t believe us.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 03:35 AM
5

She was a nearby woman in close proximity with a power imbalance. that’s a typical affair.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:57 AM
6

It’s not about a “rich daddy.” I know ugly faced WASP women who are very well married to men who would never ever encounter the plumber dad girl let alone marry her. If for some reason she had contact with him (how?).... same deal. He doesn’t see her as an eligible bachelorette. People like that see the help as a totally different genre of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:18 AM
16

It’s an affair...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:15 AM
7

Yes if she wants to jump several classes for marriage she possibly can—it’s going to be non stop work her entire life. Work in every facet of life and every human interaction, especially during the times other people consider relaxation. It’s not just “be hot” not everyone is cut out for it. There is luck involved as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 02:15 AM
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We don’t bring anything to the table for the kind of guys who sit on PPD asking what we bring to the table. Not to repeat myself but those are things that are important in terms of class sorting and not advertisements intended to turn you on.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:54 AM
6

I think there’s some projection. They think women are begging to be sex slaves to any hot guy because they think they want that with hot women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:18 AM
4

Lol yes indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 12:21 AM
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They can’t understand women’s definition of high value and how it differs from the male definition or from their own definition of “myself”
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 10:30 PM
6

Well, I’m not trying to court you and my husband wouldn’t want me to be submissive to men in the internet. It’s a debate forum. Sorry you’re not.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:56 PM
8

Why because I argue with your ignorance of how class and culture are? Because I save flirting for my husband and not blue balled PPD guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:31 PM
11

Lol stop I am dying laughing Please
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:22 PM
9

I am wifed up already ...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 09:22 PM
18

That’s simply wrong, for A WIFE. Not for “what my boner wants” men who are successful and especially intros and more nerdy guys who are over 30 and unmarried want someone closer in age as a WIFE and PARTNER for his status and marriage. Again, not “hottie makes my PP hard.” Not player guys with jobs, men with titles and influence. And the women who are closer to 30 will prefer the less player more successful slightly nerdier men anyway for myriad reasons. I already know this is a fact so no need …
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:14 PM
13

I mean class like social classes. Say a woman is UC, she will be required to have a bachelor’s degree at least and a suitable tasteful job of a certain level before marriage if she wants a UC man. Same with UMC.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:13 PM
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You just did the thing. You do not understand class. Like most men on here. You also don’t seem to grasp the modern western economy. Lots of successful men who are less extro prefer a woman in her late 20s or early 30s as wife material.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 07:03 PM
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Women: get education and work because it’s required for most in the modern world in order to eat and have shelter, and because the right education provides access to a higher class of peers, men of higher accomplishment are expected to marry women with breeding and culture, and it increases their RMP aka odds of finding a quality husband as well as allowing self-support at least until marriage. Men on PPD: why do women think their degree is going to get my PP hard?! Literally everything women do…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/21 06:15 PM
1

https://reddit.com/r/PurplePillDebate/comments/ll4dar/_/gnnuea2/?context=1 I don’t have a study or source but there are lots of pop culture books touching on this and it fits my experience with other cultures It’s not the hormones aren’t a factor but the culture is what makes things tip really far in one direction or actively work against hormonal changes.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 05:42 PM
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You’re totally right that it isn’t purely innate to drop all sexuality and become a mommy. That is variable by culture. Ignore all the people saying it’s not they most likely have no awareness of other cultures. However I don’t agree it’s the village mentality that makes a difference. IMO what matters is simply if the culture a values sexual affection, and b can still see women over a certain age as sexy. In certain roman culture both those criteria are met, and so women will still behave seduct…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:42 PM
1

This is not culturally universal. It happens is some cultures far more than others which means OP is right.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:38 PM
6

This is showing blindness to the signals and actions women partake in to subtly seduce and arouse men and to indicate availability. If a man thinks that the woman did nothing but exist then she’s a good seductress.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:38 PM
1

Yeah you’re right. Seeing as this happens more in Anglo cultures especially the us, it’s definitely partially a choice. I wouldn’t say it’s always the women’s choice though as the men may have Madonna whore complexes and push women into the role too
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/21 04:37 PM
2

Literally the only time this would be okay would be if the guy is like super really in love with me but there was some huge misunderstanding, somehow, but I am struggling to even think of a good example because it seems unusual, it would have to be a serious misunderstanding that would really put someone off for me to believe he was in love with me but just troubled by thinking I did or said something I didn’t. And even then I would only get in if he initiated a convo with me himself to clear it…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/21 11:53 PM
2

Me too, so much is so cheesy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/21 10:44 PM
3

Not even close. Sounds like you don’t know women that well.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 08:12 PM
0

Yes we all know about the stupid OK Cupid study about shallow men and which women they swipe on. It’s meaningless beyond the very obvious stuff we already know. Men go awooga unga bunga for a second when there’s a hot young woman around 20, it doesn’t tell us anything useful about relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:58 PM
3

“Like” Willing to stick the penis inside, not thinking every woman is stunning
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/21 05:56 PM
2

Your friend tickle play fighting with you with his shirt off is a little gay ish I don’t like tickling because it was done to me against my will and being forced to laugh through something you hate is sick.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/21 01:32 AM
23

All I’m hearing is men have an external locus of control and no personal responsibility
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 05:28 PM
1

Uh what no that’s not at all what the phrase means.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 06:00 AM
1

It’s still true that all is fair and love and war. But it’s not like trp or these subcultures invented that idea and really they basically don’t even believe in love. They take it beyond love being unfair and just stop thinking love exists and become super cynical nihilistic and empty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/21 05:59 AM
1

Yeah just like women deal with men in the SMP
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/21 12:22 AM
4

They’d take that deal. They wouldn’t find it to their ultimate satisfaction and then they’d complain on dead bedrooms. What they want is a woman who fulfills their male imperative and is a huge slut who is forever 21 with no needs or thoughts or bodily functions but only for him. And he wants a bunch of those.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 09:44 PM
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No, it’s because women do not have the same priorities as men, so they do not care that they can easily fulfill the male imperative in their dating life. Accept that women don’t have male nature. Men wouldn’t be satisfied if they could easily fulfill the average female imperative and find some mousy women to marry so she can dead bedroom him. You can accept that men and women are different or you can stay butthurt and make up dumb arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 06:31 PM
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I don’t like that catty thing a lot of women do where it’s not enough to be happy with their own life choices, but they also have to go to extreme lengths to put down everyone else’s situations. So it isn’t enough they found their perfect husband and family and dream job or whatever, they also have to go around commenting that anyone who isn’t in their exact situation really messed up their life and is probably miserable. It’s not enough to have what they want; they can’t be happy unless they fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 06:17 PM
1

Funny you think men didn’t encourage it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/20 03:25 AM
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Yeah it’s true. I’m not a whiner or victim at all so I didn’t complain about it and just kept looking, but the culture has shifted from times past in that men don’t plan their lives towards marriage and are no longer nearly as shamed for being cads who have out of wedlock sex. Sexual liberation ended up hurting feminine marriage minded women because it gave men all the power. Time was a man who said “can’t believe that bitch caught feelings for me and wants to be seen in public with me, doesn’t …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 09:31 PM
1

It’s not good or bad, it’s just reflective of how men pretend to want submissive good girls but really go desperate for psycho unstable sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/20 09:26 PM
1

I’m not watching a video
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 07:26 PM
2

Yeah that’s exactly right. I sold a guitar for far over its resale value because the woman who wanted it was a collector of that brand and I had a limited edition. A non collector would not be interested in it as much. Was I unfair for selling it the higher price? To make things even?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/20 12:29 AM
1

Yeah me too
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 10:38 PM
1

That actually does work. A lot of times the dumper will expect some kind of reaction when they do it so to not care throws them for a loop.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 10:34 PM
2

It’s a balance between free will and outside influences.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/20 10:13 PM
1

So made up excuses in their head just like I said
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 02:56 AM
0

I guarantee a good chunk of them never tried And no, other girls don’t count if you didn’t approach the one you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/20 01:24 AM
0

But so many of these men never spoke a word to those women at the time. They pined for them from afar but assumed since they saw her laugh at Chad’s joke one time that she was a shallow bitch not worth talking to. They never asked her out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 04:11 PM
1

I don’t think so. Men say that on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 03:36 PM
3

Did they ask out those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/20 03:34 PM
1

How exactly do you know these women choose men solely for their money?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 09:15 PM
2

Luckily I am American so I do not have to listen to anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 07:52 PM
1

Oh a morning person
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 05:23 AM
1

I have thoughts and feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 05:21 AM
2

I don’t mind age gaps at all. Many are great. I won’t judge based on that alone. If I found out the guy was dating her specifically because of some rant reasons about how older women are bad and jaded and some euphemisms for why younger women are “fresher” or “more wide eyed enthusiastic” and other faux terms for dumb/naive/easily played/don’t have to try then I’d be concerned. If it’s just a couple that isn’t the exact same age but he has no principles on this other then he happened to have fal…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 05:16 AM
6

This is amazing and just proves the point
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 05:11 AM
2

MPDG
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:16 AM
1

Women would not want to share if they got asked out more in their 30s even if it’s true, as certain people would suggest they were just somehow ugly before.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:15 AM
1

Thank God for America
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 02:08 AM
1

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/20 01:45 AM
1

Yikes. Any kind of mutual assurance, validation or declaration just means you need empty rituals to compensate for your lack of real love. The only true love is between two people in foreign countries who never meet each other’s family and friends and never become an official couple but once in a while meet up in Paris on the third Saturday after the full moon in March. But only if it happens by coincidence. Never if they planned it. Then it’s just an empty sham romance. Everything else is just …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 11:43 PM
1

My relationship was happy before but marriage added something major to it that I never expected and it’s awesome.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 11:37 PM
1

It’s really weird that people think marriage means the opposite of what it means.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 11:36 PM
2

On the contrary. Women who require marriage and don’t feel ashamed about it are at an advantage. They can be very clear early on that their purpose in dating is to determine marriage compatibility, not just to see what happens. This will immediately deflect a good portion of the men who don’t want that or who don’t consider her seriously. She’s then left with the men who are ready to marry. The women who are really at a disadvantage are the ones who secretly do want marriage but have succumbed t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/20 10:36 PM
2

Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/20 12:07 AM
3

For sure but I’d say both are extremes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 11:48 PM
3

It always cracks me up to be told both that there’s a sexlessness epidemic of men who can’t even speak to a girl and yet also all men are banging multiple women and if you expect a man to wait a few weeks for sex when you’re first a couple, he’ll be banging all his side chicks until you give it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/20 10:37 PM
3

I think you’re assuming you could recreate the natural friendship you developed with your now husband, which became more, by planning things out like this, but life doesn’t usually work that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/20 01:10 AM
2

Can’t believe how many people have no difference between their romantic relationships and friendships except for sex. The nature of my romantic relationship is romantic and as such nothing like my friendships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 10:37 PM
2

I’m not a victim. I’m married to a man who wouldn’t compare me to a car. But while we’re here you are the ones doing the human object comparison not me. Noticing someone being a dick isn’t playing the victim.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 08:22 PM
-1

No we aren’t I’m not a stupid edgy cynical Reddit nihilist atheist so save it for someone who finds those idea mind blowing. I don’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:55 PM
2

Okay I don’t feel that way about men and I didn’t say that but way to change the subject.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:39 PM
2

I’m talking about the other thing you said. Don’t do this motte and bailey.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:36 PM
0

I knowwwwww. What’s your point? Men are baffled why women object to being compared to soulless objects meant for use and eventual discarding.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:32 PM
2

Oh yeah that’s totally what you said
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:31 PM
-1

Literally all the guys that replied never paused for one second to think maybe women aren’t a perfect analogy to soulless machines meant to be used by humans. Lol. And they’ll be so confused why women don’t take the analogy seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:19 PM
3

And men will think women dislike this analogy because it “exposes their sexuality,” completely missing the part where women don’t generally like being compared to cars, or the fact that all the men seem to totally agree and not ask once why they’re comparing humans to cars.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:17 PM
3

No one sane thinks of dating in terms of rewarding your partner for good behavior for the future collective. Or as rewarding at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 05:14 PM
7

Which one is it, women are unrealistic or women have men banging down their door to simp for her and it’s super unfair?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/20 12:03 AM
6

Reddit because of the awful hivemind and the “well ACTUALLY” culture. And the downvote shaming. There’s a narrative for every single topic and issue under the sun and anyone who deviates is ostracized and shamed. PPD is one of the few places still allowing more open speech. But it isn’t just the narrative it’s how much the average person on Reddit really loves to make everything into a problem and why good things or thoughts are actually offensive. They do that on Tumblr but at least Tumblr is w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 11:39 PM
3

Excellent point for both sexes. Of course the people for whom you carry romantic feelings have much more power to hurt you. As such their negative actions can seem cartoonishly immoral. Watch people you don’t feel attached to and see most people are just being dumb half the time and have no idea what’s going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:58 PM
5

I don’t think so in actuality. I think thanks to pop feminism a few outlier women have shamed most modern women about what’s now acceptable to tolerate from men. “Lose that zero and get a hero honey” and other things like that. In times past it was socially okay among women to tolerate some “nonsense” (in women’s eyes) from a man. Now that’s not considered good and it’s considered good for women to say they’d cut ties at the first sign of displeasing her or she’s setting women back. However in p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/20 06:50 PM
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