AffectionateTry6175 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why is the fact that men are more likely to die than women being turned into such a ridiculously absurd joke? most of these are funny because they are due to men's choices. and it's not funny because it's cute, it's funny because it's dumb. and made funnier by men crying about it on the internet, as if it is not a self-made problem.	/r/MensRights	28/04/26 06:41 PM
25	Happens to Women More Women complain all of the time about men steamrolling conversations whenever they try to talk about women's issues. Flip it on them. Why are they bringing up women's issues when you were talking about men's. Can we not worry about two issues at the same time?	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 11:26 PM
2	"Disclaimer: Women have it worse." Oh word, yea that's not a necessary disclaimer if that was the case. I get your frustration	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 11:17 PM
-15	Even after "the wall", women have more dating options than men do I can see why you need to go abroad to find a woman...	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 01:25 AM
-1	"Disclaimer: Women have it worse." He was responding to a feminist post, you said it yourself. It inherently comes across as "well what about men, men have problems too!!" which takes away from the original post. He wouldn't need the "disclaimer" if he was talking on a sub like this. In this context, it would be "I'm bringing up other points but I'm not trying to disagree or detract from the point of the post" which is just a normal and nice thing to do? If the disclaimer meant what you said, then he wouldn't have responded in th…	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 01:21 AM
0	Has anyone else noticed this subtle shift in feminist rhetoric about equality for women & men? If I could offer a different perspective, I believe this is could be the movement adjusting to acknowledge the biological differences in men and women. It reminds me of the "equal rights equal fights" response to feminism, which under this new definition would become irrelevant because in most situations the fight would never be equal. There are things on either side that the other gender will never experience (i.e. pregnancy will never be experienced by a male). I don't think this new framework…	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 01:05 AM
-4	Why is seemingly nothing ever women's fault? I feel like you either spend way too much time on the internet or haven't ever spoken to a normal woman. Most normal people would agree that taking advantage of or hurting someone is wrong, regardless of gender. Misandry does exist on an individual basis, but it is no where the same level as misogyny. Men commit more crime, commit more murder, commit more rapes, etc. It logically makes sense for a woman to be scared of men, hell, you should be scared of them too. Out of the two, you're more like…	/r/MensRights	17/07/25 12:50 AM
1	I've been told I'm handsome...sometimes...like small points in my life. But what gives? Why the misandry, disadvantages, inequality, and insignificance? I already talked to you about women's oppression part. That's just what they say. And I've given you evidence. Please point me to it, because what I've seen, women have indeed been oppressed throughout history. I'm still learning and educating myself about today, that's why I'm exploring this very subreddit. But to say that women and men were equal always?? Come on. The part with my culture being gynocentric, unfortunately I can't provide evidence here. But trust me. Latino cultures are very gyn…	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 02:37 AM
1	I've been told I'm handsome...sometimes...like small points in my life. But what gives? Why the misandry, disadvantages, inequality, and insignificance? ss	/r/MensRights	22/10/24 02:37 AM
2	Reforming Child Support and Family Law: A Fair Approach for Everyone This is genuinely one of the most thought out and comprehensive posts I’ve seen in a while, hats off to you. I really enjoy that you focused on the best for the child, something I feel is missing during extremely vile divorce/separation situations. Child support and family law is extremely complicated and unique to each situation. The only thing I would add is required counseling for the family to help them navigate through co-parenting. I like the incentives you included, and they would only be…	/r/MensRights	19/10/24 11:20 PM
1	Is our lack of male only spaces hurting us? I would love for you to point out where I was criticizing men. I want the exact opposite, for men to live the best possible and happiest lives they can. As for generalizations, I didn't do that either. It is a fact that men commit suicide and have substance abuse disorders at a higher rate than women. There are many causes for that, but one of the most prevalent is emotional distress and looking for an escape. That is a fact. Everyone has problems and the ability to get through on their own, I j…	/r/MensRights	19/10/24 04:42 PM
1	Is our lack of male only spaces hurting us? When I look around I see men who are struggling to express their emotions because they're not good at dealing with their problems, they're good at bottling them up. I don't think it's right or good for men to advocate for them to not share their emotions or feelings. When I look around I see the high number of men struggling with substance abuse or suicide. All of these are a result of poor mental health, and not being able to deal with problems. I feel like anyone living without the support of …	/r/MensRights	19/10/24 02:50 PM
1	I've been told I'm handsome...sometimes...like small points in my life. But what gives? Why the misandry, disadvantages, inequality, and insignificance? Just to level set, I'm in the US so that is where my POV is, so you are aware. I don't really understand why you would be purposefully vague if you wanted to educate someone, but regardless, I accept your apology and appreciate you delving more into detail. I would like to go point by point to ensure I understand: Weddings - I don't understand how this would count as acting on a woman's will. Culturally, at least in catholicism, it is a woman being given away by her father (a man) to her husband…	/r/MensRights	19/10/24 02:05 AM
1	I've been told I'm handsome...sometimes...like small points in my life. But what gives? Why the misandry, disadvantages, inequality, and insignificance? Again, you have free will. There is no law forcing you to serve women or follow what they want. You could spend your entire life without interacting with a woman and you would never be doing anything wrong. You’re extremely vague in your responses I don’t even really know what you stand for. “We live off of what women want” is so vague and unintelligible. I would’ve said that your original post was cynical of women, but I honestly would say now you are cynical of men and their ability to not do …	/r/MensRights	19/10/24 12:39 AM
1	I've been told I'm handsome...sometimes...like small points in my life. But what gives? Why the misandry, disadvantages, inequality, and insignificance? So now grown men cannot make decisions for themselves? Because they were “taught” that they had to put women on a pedestal, they have literally no choice or recourse? No, because people grow up and have free will. The problem is blaming women for individual issues. Men are not helpless children living at the whim of women. That is a pathetic view. “Other men and I with their talents and contributions are still nothing compared to all women” — in your og post were still comparing yourself to wome…	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 11:54 PM
2	I've been told I'm handsome...sometimes...like small points in my life. But what gives? Why the misandry, disadvantages, inequality, and insignificance? Bringing up men suicide rates when complaining about not being able to find a partner it’s disgusting, and completely diminishes the experiences of men. No man is committing because he “wasn’t appreciated by women”. “It’s been definitely, but secretly proven…” is the most words I’ve seen used to say “in my opinion”. Please bring stats or studies. You seem incredibly insecure, and you seem to place a lot of your self worth on how women view you. I’d suggest working on yourself to the point where …	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 11:20 PM
1	Is our lack of male only spaces hurting us? Why is it logical to not share feelings/emotions?	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 01:41 PM
1	She orchestrated to have her mother killed by her autistic boyfriend. He got life in jail. She became a social media star. Tell me about the Patriarchy again. The patriarchy perpetuates the idea that women are inferior (ie less capable, less intelligent, etc.) which can lead to situations like this. It’s more complicated than just “the patriarchy makes men’s lives easier”, if you can critically think, it makes sense that ideals like those can negatively affect men under patriarchy as well, as we see here. It makes me laugh because most of the “inequalities” spoken about in this subreddit can literally be explained by this, but it has to be the fault o…	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 01:16 PM
1	"The future is female." Wow, I guess anything is hate speech nowadays. And you got so triggered by four words you saw on a random persons t-shirt you felt the need to cry about it on the internet. Equating it to child abuse and genocide? Oh my lord, is there no more normal people in the world? You are just as bad and annoying as the crazy radical feminists.	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 01:03 PM
2	I've been told I'm handsome...sometimes...like small points in my life. But what gives? Why the misandry, disadvantages, inequality, and insignificance? I feel like there are huge generalizations here. Yes, there are plenty of women who expect a traditional man and traditional life, but there are also plenty of women who do not expect someone to bankroll their life. There are also plenty of good looking women who feel the same that you do. That they have all of these good qualities to give, but they still have men treating them poorly. Not being able to find a partner that aligns with your values yet being extrapolated to inequality is a huge le…	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 12:39 PM
1	My girlfriend keeps making comments about mansplaining and men's humour... Etc If you are always paying for dates and she never buys you gifts or anything, then it doesn’t seem like she cares about you. I think the unequal rent split is crazy considering the small difference between your pay to me, however it’s her prerogative to expect that. It’s your prerogative if you want to leave or pay more. Overall, y’all don’t match financially, you don’t really seem to like her personality, and you say it’s exhausting just being with her. Considering you have not mentioned anythin…	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 12:18 PM
0	'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't? I didn’t even feel the need to address the girl bs because it’s irrelevant. Men get offended when you call them boys because it’s meant to mean juvenile, or stupid. Regardless, literally nothing to do with what I said, because it is still by definition, not dehumanizing. Rude? Maybe. Again, an assumption that the majority of men don’t mean it any type of way. It’s a word, so you are going out of your way when it is common knowledge there is a more accurate word on top of the fact that female is …	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 01:05 AM
0	'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't? Do you know what dehumanizing means? You referring to a woman as a female is literally boiling her existence down to her ability to bear offspring, no different from any animal, when there is a word that means human female. It’s actually simple and by definition, dehumanizing. I’m sorry if you can’t understand that basic concept. It’s insulting when you go out of your way to not refer to a woman as human. It’s all quite simple, I don’t understand why men fight this battle. It’s just disrespectfu…	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 12:47 AM
-1	'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't? It is by definition, Inherently dehumanizing. You are dumb (not specifically you, i mean in general) if you cannot put 2 and 2 together. If you don’t mean it to be an insult, and most men know that it is, then why not just say woman? I could also say that “i believe the majority of men don’t mean…” is an assumption as well.	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 12:36 AM
1	"Teach boys how to treat girls." I feel like this “teach boys how to treat girls” mostly refers to “don’t rape/murder your partner”. It’s not that deep. Women and men are both capable of being toxic, but one gender commits more violent acts to the other. I’ll let you guess which one	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 12:32 AM
0	'Female' is considered dehumanizing and offensive but 'Persons with uterus' isn't? I think there’s a lot of reasons for this. Number 1, referring to a woman as a “female” is often meant to dehumanize, as any animal that can bear offspring while a woman is a female human. Referring to a woman as a female is literally removing the human part (dehumanizing). “Persons with uterus”, while I don’t agree sounds the best, is meant to be inclusive. A person is a human, so not dehumanizing. I get inclusivity makes people uncomfortable when it isn’t the norm, and I wouldn’t say I’m used …	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 12:25 AM
6	And then she went and deleted all her replies... but lmk if anything ive said was at all off base... cause ive been left confused i did nothing but try to be completely respectful and open... it never seems to work, why is it impossible to have a conversation in good faith about these topics? An incel is someone who feels they cannot attract a woman, which is not a choice. This is usually accompanied by blaming woman/hate towards women and even other men who are sexually active. I don’t see your point here unless you had no idea what the word incel meant	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 12:20 AM
0	Boys who reject masculine norms get higher grades, it's sad that masculinity is associated with negativeness Wdym you were never taught to socialize?	/r/MensRights	11/10/24 05:28 PM
1	How about the right in law to bodily integrity at birth while we're at it One thing, a law legalising abortion is a privilege whereas a law forcing men to fight is oppression. You are literally only saying that because you're a man, and one of those things is oppressive to men. Of course you would think that. The law exists it doesn't mean that it will be activated every year lol for you to be oppressed by something it probably should be active, huh? You have proof of Ukraine using martial law to force men to fight and not leave the country, but you think that in an e…	/r/MensRights	10/10/24 08:34 PM
-1	Explanation of the dating conflict between men and women you're contributing to the "gender war" by making huge blanket statements based on gender that come from nothing but your tiny point of view of the world. You, saying that "nice guys always lose" are belittling men and all they can accomplish. Surround yourself with empathetic women who will listen and adjust to you, and you should do the same in turn. You have a lot more control of your life than you believe.	/r/MensRights	10/10/24 08:13 PM
7	Explanation of the dating conflict between men and women I feel like everyone has different preferences when dating. Placing these huge umbrella assumptions based on gender is a crazy jump. I didn't realize it was suddenly a wild decision to date someone you are attracted to. If you aren't attracted to someone but like their personality, that is nothing more than a friendship. Everyone is attracted to different things. Everyone places different values on money, looks, commitment, career, social status, personality, etc. I feel like the majority of suc…	/r/MensRights	10/10/24 08:10 PM
1	How about the right in law to bodily integrity at birth while we're at it Now you say that the draft should be abolished? Yes, because I believe in bodily autonomy and freedom to not be forced to risk your life, clearly. It's disingenuous to compare draft laws that aren't active now but "aren't farfetched" to laws that are quite literally affecting women at this very moment in this country. Again, your arguments are all based on chance, you're extrapolating on things you have no idea about. Again, yes, war is possible, but it isn't now, and you have no idea if it woul…	/r/MensRights	10/10/24 06:58 PM
1	How about the right in law to bodily integrity at birth while we're at it You can have the right to change your OWN body, go nuts, but not the right to FORCE other people to change YOUR body. Are you talking about doctors? If so, performing a service for another person who is paying you is not a matter of bodily autonomy. Usually, doctors who don't want to perform abortions do not have to (just don't work in an area of medicine surrounding women's health), and performing that service has nothing to do with the doctor's body. Also get outta here with the attempt to fra…	/r/MensRights	10/10/24 12:29 PM
1	Society underestimates how quickly young boys are told to mature Absolutely, but even social pressure wise, I feel like there is most definitely a push for women to be performing better. Women are currently outperforming men academically, and getting more difficult degrees than men as well on average. I would be legitimately surprised if that was all intrinsic motivation or practical pressure. OP genuinely makes me sad, because I feel like there are all of these gender expectations that aren't really gendered at all. I believe it is just a decent human being …	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 11:48 PM
1	How about the right in law to bodily integrity at birth while we're at it "Well you can't deny the possibility of it happening and it's not something farfetched. The government would definitely instate the draft because most likely like in the previous world wars the number of people wouldn't be enough." It absolutely is a possibility, but again, we cannot speak definitively. Yes, the population in the military currently is lower than the last WW and the Vietnam war, but that is at least partly offset by the large amounts of funding going towards new and better techno…	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 11:41 PM
1	How about the right in law to bodily integrity at birth while we're at it "There is an inherent risk that world war 3 might happen especially if Iran and Israel enter into a war." - fair point, but you're talking about a chance of a chance. Your argument would only work IF we had world war 3 and IF then the gov chooses to instate the draft "You only say that because you are not a man and you won't be at risk. It's not a something, but a human being, but it shows the strength of your argument with your ad hominem." - I'm laughing, I could literally make the same argume…	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 09:46 PM
2	How about the right in law to bodily integrity at birth while we're at it the draft is not currently active and hasn't been since '73, men are not at risk. If abortion is banned, the number of maternal deaths go up. The choice to remove something from your body being taken away is a bodily autonomy issue, are you a bit slow? Since when do the rights of another trump the right to a person being able to control their own body? If a person is dying and needs my kidney, I can say no without being labeled a murdered. You have an extremely poor argument	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 04:02 PM
1	How about the right in law to bodily integrity at birth while we're at it First, you are making wrong assumptions/conclusions from your statistics about the amount of babies that endangered the mother's life. You are completely ignoring the fact that the number of maternal deaths is most likely lower due to the fact that they got abortions (meaning if abortions weren't available, more women would die due to pregnancy/birth complications). I feel like there are two arguments to be made here: either abortion is legal and you should advocate for men to have some sort of …	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 03:47 PM
2	Turns out, my professor is a raging male feminist. This is legitimately just not feminism. Having unequal expectations/rules for different genders is inherently against the definition of feminism. I think you could make arguments for whether or not this is misandry (women can do no wrong) or misogyny (men mature faster and therefore cannot be taken advantage of a woman a measly 2 years his senior), but either way it is a corrupted view. I've seen many people forget that feminism not only fights misogyny, but also misandry. When people use the te…	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 01:32 PM
1	Society underestimates how quickly young boys are told to mature I don't understand where the argument of "men are demanded for performance and wealth" in today's world, as if that pressure is not on women as well. IMO, I know a large amount of women who believe that the worst position for a woman in fully relying on a man for her finances. To them, it is at best a jail sentence, at worst a death sentence. One of my good female friends grew up with a physically abusive step-father, and saw her mother go through hell and back to get them out of that position. …	/r/MensRights	09/10/24 01:18 PM