Affectionate_Long677 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	If you want to know how the modern dating scene is like for us young adult men here you go! This isn't the modern dating scene. This is the modern internet simping scene.	/r/MGTOW	31/07/21 03:43 AM
19	If you want to know how the modern dating scene is like for us young adult men here you go! If you're going to complement, do so based on personality, behavior, character, etc.	/r/MGTOW	31/07/21 03:42 AM
0	The “male” role in courtship is incredibly boring and frustrating. "Oh for sure talking with women just for the sake will get you friendships. The problem is in taking it to the next step, because that is also 100% on the guy to initiate and escalate, and 100% on her to reject the guy if she doesn't want to. It's just a rational reaction to the claim that women want equality. If they want equality, then they should also want to pursue as much as they are pursued. If they do not want that, then what women want is equality when they are disadvantaged, and keep al…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	30/06/21 04:09 AM
0	The “male” role in courtship is incredibly boring and frustrating. 5 9 and a half. Decent looking but not great. Have been rejected and given the reason verbally being based on looks alone in the past. 37 and thought I was past the age where women make it easy for me. And no I didnt initiate anything. No one pursued anything. Just had some nice conversations and enjoyed each others company. Seriously the list of things said by me that were remotely flirtatious were the following. Hey, is there somewhere else we can go that's nice like this but doesn't hav…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	29/06/21 07:32 PM
0	The “male” role in courtship is incredibly boring and frustrating. Yea but to be fair the guitar only picked up one. I had multiple other women start conversations with me on the same trip, at trailheads, overlooks, etc, and drop the hint to ask for their number by asking 'so how long are you going to be around the area....' I don't know whats going on out there gents but I am no lothario I am no seducer of women I'm just a dude but I can see which way the wind is blowing and whatever it is women are taking some initiative, they aren't supplanting the role of…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/06/21 04:44 PM
2	The “male” role in courtship is incredibly boring and frustrating. So don't play the role and you will attract women who want men who don't play the role. Last girl I met approached me to thank me for the music I was playing at a lake.... had a nice conversation, started getting bit my mosquitos as the sun went down, asked if theres somewhere else she wanted to go.... We had sme nice hikes and great conversations, things were completely platonic with no effort on either side to flirt or seduce, and like 24 hours after the initial meeting the first flirtation …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/06/21 02:54 PM
1	Yet another example of the effects constant man bashing and assumptions of "privilege" has. Yea, like I said, get outside and go talk to some women. They seem really friendly these days. I don't think it's all me being a lothario I think there is some post pandemic openness in the female population that is very different from what the loudest female voices represent it as.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/06/21 04:25 PM
-2	Yet another example of the effects constant man bashing and assumptions of "privilege" has. Yea, but it is your fault if you expose yourself to media that gives you a falsely negative representation of how the other gender views your gender. Ok, so you want insight into how they think, but then its your responsibility to get outside and talk to some women in just a friendly way so as to overcome these biases. The same thing was happening to me when I was isolated and online a lot. Then I went on a road trip, visited some national parks. Really I was just hoping to heal from some thin…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	24/06/21 01:39 PM
1	Subverting gender roles in fiction, and how the mark is often missed. Well there are two different things here. One is gender identity, and who you feel you are as a person in regards to your gender. This is debatably not a choice, but to what degree it is, is a deep spiritual and emotional one. Then there is the more rational observation and consideration of how you must operate in society in regards to your gender, in light of the current social climate etc. This is more just a decision of strategy and tactics. You can take two wildly different tacks with th…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	31/05/21 11:25 PM
2	35 year old single mom and her regrets I dont know about you guys, but seeing someone else lose doesnt make me feel any better about not winning.	/r/MGTOW	31/05/21 09:53 PM
3	Grab a coffee and be prepared to be surprised, well, I don't think anything surprises us anymore... Link in the comments. You're supposed to get a restraining order, and then celebrate. I know the second part isn't what you feel like doing, you're hurt sad confused etc, but you dodged a bullet. It could have been a lot worse. I'm sorry though bro, hang in there. Hope you can feel like celebrating soon.	/r/MGTOW	23/05/21 08:04 PM
-19	holy fake tradcons, batman! I humbly suggest dating women that are'tt perfect but learning from those experiences is a lot more productive than video games. Note, I did not say to marry them but come on video games are productive bro I gotta hold you to a higher standard than that.	/r/MGTOW	18/05/21 11:52 AM
10	Feminist rhetorical tactics. Don't deal with them. Whatever somenoes ideology, they either can treat others, and their ideas values etc with respect or they cant I got into a debate with a guy on here about tipping. People were commenting on a post saying restaurantsin the US should pay a living wage and I countered back that I, as someone who has spent years serving, am glad they don't because it is one of the most accessible best paying jobs someone uneducated can get if they aren't stupid and know how to hustle. I said…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	15/05/21 01:26 PM
5	So now it’s legal for women to point a gun at someone and rape them? If a guy had done that, he would be jailed for life. Link: https://ihlayanews.com/woman-forced-dogecoin-millionaire-she-met-on-tinder-to-ejaculate-inside-her-at-gunpoint/ Definitely fake article. The cops wouldnt drop the charges, that would be up to the victim. Shit like this is why membership in this sub is enough to get you banned from other subs. Not saying it's fair but there us unproductive toxic shit in this sub. Going your own way shouldnt mean working to fuck up gender relations for everyone out of hate. That's not going your own way it is being controlled by your hate.	/r/MGTOW	14/05/21 12:19 PM
3	About To Be Homeless, Brothers. Can Anyone Help? Do you have a car? There are places in the western us that are pretty nice places to live in a car. Clean water to swim in pleasant climate nice scenery to camp and money to be made waiting tables. Somewhere ritzy like Telluride park city Vail etc you can camp out flying under the radar and make bank waiting tables. Its springtime you've got all summer to get your shit together.	/r/MGTOW	14/05/21 11:09 AM
4	Autobanned from r/OffMyChest for participating in r/MensRights Funny, I am neither a redpill or incel.	/r/MensRights	13/05/21 01:07 PM
3	When a woman gushes about hot male celebrities in front of relationship partner. You say thats what girlfriends are for, honestly I find the whole idea of someone having a crush on a stranger to be a huge red flag for mental illness, male or female. Its commonplace in our society, but its not just like oh well that crush just happened, people have to feed that and put energy into it and nurture it and every time you do that it is a choice to live in some bizarre fantasy world and I don't get how people find it normal and I think this is what people of either genders should t…	/r/MGTOW	13/05/21 01:15 AM
7	A female dating strategy post got on popular today saying how men without women are useless and can't accomplish anything even basic such as cooking and cleaning. These women mistake their inability to choose decent men for the way all men are. They think they can prioritize a guy that feeds their ego and narcissism about all else, and its going to work out ok. So they end up with horrible guys that can't clean or cook and treat them like shit. Or even worse, a long list of guys who meet this description. If they worked on themselves a bit more and rethought their selection process, but really the idea that men should be selected for being fun funny charm…	/r/MensRights	12/05/21 04:11 AM
54	Nothing creeps me out more than female obsession with male financial worth and status. I think some of this is creepy. I'm not a parent. I think if you raise someone right, you should be able to trust them, but I also think that young people are hormonal, stupid, inexperienced, naïve, sometimes too easily trusting, and guys can be manipulative, disingenuous and single minded, especially at that age, and especially when they themselves view taking that purity as such a powerful act. So while I think some of that is creepy, I absolutely think its fine to send the message that if a…	/r/MensRights	09/05/21 06:30 PM
13	My list of studies showing we care more about women than men. Some of this I knew instinctually or subconsciously but man yea these are true. They aren't the ways men are oppressed by society though, they are the ways we have evolved to sacrifice ourselves and put women first. That doesn't make sense to do any more.	/r/MensRights	09/05/21 03:45 PM
3	My sister is a Femi-Nazi and it’s Tearing My Family Apart Dude, I read your edits, she asked you what was wrong and you turned it into a philosophical debate, theres no way shes going to see your side then. You should of just talked about your emotions. I'm sad. I feel hurt and uncared for and I feel judged for the physical way I was born. You should tell her when she says hateful things towards men, it effects your feelings just like her hearing hateful things towards women. Shes a radical feminist so she isn't going to change her ideology but she m…	/r/MensRights	07/05/21 01:13 PM
1	My sister is a Femi-Nazi and it’s Tearing My Family Apart I am unemotionally criticizing your level of logos, as well as using this example as a means to look at a larger issue. You fail. You are also making assumptions. I a telling you this objectively. If you take a step back and look at the way you interact it is very closed, like making assumptions instead of actually observing and basing your perception off that which you actually observe. I know, its hard to communicate in a nuanced way with someone who isn't part of the uniparty system. I am…	/r/MensRights	07/05/21 06:05 AM
10	As a woman trying to fight misandry, I'm feeling tired and alone. Its a hard thing to fight against hate and ignorance. Sometimes you just gotta take a step back for your own mental health and focus on just loving. Online is jut terrible too, like its great for the access to each other it provides, before someone gets online the are already expecting the dopamine rush that comes with arguing debating, grandstanding to an echo chamber etc. Trying to interrupt that expectation with like nuanced actual human relation is a tall order. I am trying to find ways …	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	07/05/21 05:47 AM
0	My sister is a Femi-Nazi and it’s Tearing My Family Apart I am not the American left. Funny when I am criticized by the far left end of the spectrum they sound just like you. Using words like hysterics and saying someone uses too many words are further examples of poor quality rhetoric. They are attempts to assault your way to winning something instead of actually debating anything I say. You gotta up your game a bit, come on you can do better. I believe in you.	/r/MensRights	07/05/21 05:38 AM
-3	My sister is a Femi-Nazi and it’s Tearing My Family Apart Grab them by the balls is a metaphorical saying not used literally. Often used between two men, like when negotiating about money. Trump just literally talking about actual acts of sexual assault with no remorse is different than having a phrase that you equate as superficially similar that just exists in society and isn't being said by presidential candidates. Listen, I'm on your guys side, but we gotta be willing to give the Feminists a little of the empathy we ask for, thats how that work…	/r/MensRights	07/05/21 05:22 AM
0	My sister is a Femi-Nazi and it’s Tearing My Family Apart I'm kind of playing devils advocate here, and sorry if it feels argumentative, honestly not, but to be fair Trump has done some things I felt like I could not support if I were a woman. We are at a pretty sad state politically and otherwise. Its just sad as I think we are being intentionally divided and women are some of the easiest to manipulate	/r/MensRights	06/05/21 09:47 PM
10	My sister is a Femi-Nazi and it’s Tearing My Family Apart You should tell her how it affects you emotionally, without anger. You should write her a letter calmly explaining that the way gays or trans people describe feeling ashamed of their gender, you feel, because of her. That is abuse. There is a way to tell her that at least gives her a shot at seeing you like a human being. Her behavior is insane, using the fact she hates you as reason to keep hating you. Might be narcisstic personality disorder. My brother was similar. Can I ask, what is her fa…	/r/MensRights	06/05/21 09:38 PM
2	Guess who the real sucker in this one Funny thing is the guy she wants to marry she probably also places in each of the other categories simultaneously despite the contradictions.	/r/MGTOW	06/05/21 08:13 PM
0	Feminists really demonize men having dating preference You misunderstand. I agree with you about much of that. I am not criticizing the stance, nor the feelings. I am saying it doesn't get us anywhere. That's why I included the things about it being ok to vent. It's ok to just need to let of some steam, get things off your chest, or get some validation of reality in a world gone to craziness. Thats fine, but we should just be aware that's what we are doing. I guess I picked one specific post to criticize admittedly unfairly for a larger issue, b…	/r/MensRights	03/05/21 03:11 PM
-3	Feminists really demonize men having dating preference So theres a lot of them, whats your point? My point is more that your approach doesn't really get us anywhere. I get if you need a vent, and I'm not trying to attack you. If your post gets you to feel like you vented thats enough. If it spurs some discussion, don't take it personally if a vent was all you needed.	/r/MensRights	03/05/21 12:35 AM
-6	Feminists really demonize men having dating preference So I am a member of this sub because I think there is a war on men that few women even see, butat the same time, a few examples of feminists who are crazy is not really worth talking about, no offense. You seem like you just need a good vent and a hug. Yes, there are angry women who have little empathy of compassion. There are also women who are scared of men and have seen them perpetrate evil, just as there are men who have seem women perpetrate evil. So? Is focusing on this going to help thing…	/r/MensRights	02/05/21 09:54 PM
-1	Anti-feminist Jesus fucking christ some of you guys just will not let a woman be anything but your enemy.	/r/MensRights	02/05/21 01:37 AM
5	Anti-feminist Thank you for your kind words, I agree so much. One thing, your attitude towards other people, just remember, the people with the opposite attitude are often the loudest. It helps me to remind myself of that when I get discouraged or feel alone in having a nuanced complex and empathetic view of my fellow humans.	/r/MensRights	01/05/21 12:50 AM
14	So I’ve come across this on Instagram so I decided to check up on google trends for such and only record I could find was 100 searches or so all from United States but then I got curious and searched the term “kill men” and while they’re consistently around 70-100 searches worldwide WIsh there was some way of calling people out for spreading this kind of misinformation	/r/MensRights	30/04/21 01:15 PM
20	People are really concerned with the men's shed movement and are trying to control and interfere with it The expectation then men need to grow, mature and change into enlightened creatures who have mastered our primal urges, always have empathy for others and never expect anything for ourselves cannot be mutually exclusive with the idea that we might need some support an help in addressing the things we feel are problems for us in society. This is just two ways of describing the same process.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/04/21 03:58 PM
6	Why I’m done talking to conservative men about men’s issues I think hes a comic not a guru.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/04/21 03:10 AM
3	Why I’m done talking to conservative men about men’s issues Funny thing is these days I question whether women want friends or just attention and fuck buddies.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	28/04/21 03:09 AM
9	I never realized how bad it was for you all until today Yea, it goes beyond misandry into politics and so many other things. Basically it seems these days people are way too willing to find ways to group people into 'others' and dismiss anyone esles struggles, and say other peoples beleiefs or ideologies are wrong or crazy before even weighing their true value. I dunno if its from watching tv news more than talking to real people, or just that its hard to cope with how complicated the world is today as well as how gobal. I think it may be a mental …	/r/MensRights	28/04/21 12:27 AM
47	I never realized how bad it was for you all until today Hey thanks. It's nice to be noticed, and empathized with, that often goes so far. Never seen the point in dismissing other peoples struggles, and I'm sorry you met so many shitty people online today, that can be so depressing. the internet sure can conglomerate assholes together across vast geographic distances to a density that they would seldom attain in real life.	/r/MensRights	28/04/21 12:18 AM
5	Hate in the mainstream. Ok yea, I guess I see all these same thigns too but perceive them as powerful entities that want to keep the status quo for monetary and power reasons more than that they actually hate leftism, its more they don't care about much of anything besides greed and power, but guess this is quibbling about details and semantics. Thanks for taking the time to reply.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/04/21 04:49 PM
2	Hate in the mainstream. Can you expand on this ? How do the dems hate leftism? I have my thoughts but would like to hear yours as not many people are saying things like this these days.	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	27/04/21 04:24 PM
24	My coworkers got flowers. I got nothing. I would say it is a pretty big deal, not because of some flowers, but because it is clearly indicative of a larger problem in the culture of the organization or at the very least, your bosses mindset. That is usually a pretty unproductive conclusion to jump to, but in thiis case seems so obvious, you know your boss better than eye but this seems very unlikely to have stemmed from forgetfulness or something?	/r/MensRights	21/04/21 04:32 AM
7	Caught a sexual harassment complaint for returning the favor to a woman who was slapping men's asses. I won't say you deserve this, but you made some serious errors. You dont know the relationship she has with these other men youve seen her do this to but regardless no one complained. While there are double standards, this isn't an example of that. This is an example of her more accurately perceiving her relationships with her coworkers than you. Perhaps the people she did it to felt unable to complain, but there is every chance that they didn't mind because they have a relationship with her. Re…	/r/MensRights	19/04/21 02:33 AM
3	"Men get assaulted and murdered more than women because they beat each other up." The majority of murders in this country are related to illegal activities. Yes, they are males because males being more aggressive naturally tend to be attracted towards these activities more, but gender is hardly the relevant issue. Economic factors are more to blame, especially the negative effect of slavery and jim crow laws creating ghettos and the cia supplying them with hard drugs. You can guilt trip men and you can try and take peoples guns but neither are going to change human nature. Po…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	14/04/21 02:08 AM
1	my mom just called me a sexist piece of garbage because i was complaining about how you get attacked on twitter if you even breathe as a man It sounds like her attitude towards men is not her only mental problem fyi.	/r/MensRights	21/03/21 10:00 PM
373	Female manager demanded I stop sending her "old white men" to interview She has admitted to illegal gender and age based discrimination. Fire her.	/r/MensRights	16/03/21 09:06 PM
2	We live in a patriarchy... Where healthy masculinity is criticized as toxic masculinity by feminists and as soft by toxic masculinity.	/r/MensRights	15/03/21 07:47 PM
1	Hey guys, I just wanted to share this incident which happened to me today. It's my first time posting here. I bet she has hit a man. It's a lot more common for men to get hit than women. It is more normalized.	/r/MensRights	14/03/21 11:28 PM
1	Hey guys, I just wanted to share this incident which happened to me today. It's my first time posting here. I am so sorry you had to go through that. You did not deserve it. So fucking nuts they would think a hey it's for a project we'll blur your face makes it ok. That was harassment and it wasn't legal or right.	/r/MensRights	14/03/21 11:26 PM
24	Well at least they are admitting it I try to just care about and have empathy for everyone, but to feel like someone cares about you you often have to show you care about them first and create that between you.	/r/MensRights	14/03/21 06:48 AM