| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 75 | How do I surround myself with HVW? | Affectionate_Pilot42 | /r/askFDS | 16/05/21 09:56 AM | |
| 4 | I dont know how to leave | Affectionate_Pilot42 | /r/askFDS | 21/02/21 11:21 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 50 | Why do men take SUCH offense to my reserved demeanor?This, this right here. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/21 01:27 PM |
| 10 | This study's results are disturbing. Some goung men believe they have the right to force a woman to have sex If they spent money on her. (source: Lundy Bancroft "Why does he do that?")Yes! My ex was very much like that, he would fondle me infront of people all the time no matter how much would push his hands away and he would literally pout! He would cross his arms and get a pissy look on his face that i wasn't letting him touch me like that, god forbid i want a little personal space, the final straw was him doing this and when i got so mad i got up to leave and he smacks my ass so fucking hard, i broke down cuz i felt like my body wasnt my own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/21 07:48 AM |
| 77 | This study's results are disturbing. Some goung men believe they have the right to force a woman to have sex If they spent money on her. (source: Lundy Bancroft "Why does he do that?")yup, broke up with a guy a couple months ago because he was constantly touching me inappropriately when i didnt want to be touched, constantly making me touch him he would: force my hands onto his body, stick his hands inside of me when i kept pushing him away, begging me for sex so much that i would have to leave his house because if he wanted it and i didnt it would never stop, groping me in public, filming us having sex behind my back and then putting the screenshots as his background. His ju… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/08/21 05:21 PM |
| 7 | What are some ways in which girl friends subtly try can try to put you down?I had a similar experience to you where a friend of mine dated a guy i had a crush on and after them dating for like a year she stopped being my friend because she thought i hated her because of they were together even though i never said anything close to that and if anything i always acted as a counselor whenever they had relationship problemas. Slighty different to what you went through my best friend in high school used to downplay anything I was excited about. I was trying to lose weight an… | /r/askFDS | 06/08/21 05:12 PM |
| 95 | How all of the "Chad" stuff really sounds"Youre going to go your whole life thinking girls dont like you because youre a nerd, and i want you to know that that's not true, girls wont like you because youre an asshole" or whatever the gf from the social network said | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 12:22 PM |
| 4 | FDS Translates VICE - "Adult" Men with their Mattresses on the Floorhides in shame for being too poor to afford a mattress let alone a bedframe | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:17 PM |
| 48 | lovejessicablair on Instagram: some people asked me why men not finding me attractive is a flex and it’s bc i don’t wish to feed into the male gaze❤️Oh my god, i have a body very similar to hers after losing alot of weight. I never wear cute stuff or let my body be touched because of it. Im crying, i feel so represented. Shes so wonderful and beautiful. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/05/21 12:51 AM |
| 12 | You owe it not just to yourself but also to your future children to only be with a HVMYeall all my dads kids who didnt have to live with him are living their best lives while im still healing from all the bullshit he put me through. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 12:43 AM |
| 43 | The little girl from “Matilda”, as well as a female child star from “The Never Ending Story”, BOTH had to quit acting, because GROWN MEN stalked them, and offered them MARRIAGE PROPOSALSI just came here to say this, i saw that movie for the first time the other day and was appalled whenn i read "childlike empress" in the credits | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 09:19 AM |
| 14 | Sexual coercion that I didn’t even recognize.My ex would literally just put my hands in his pants if i said no to sex with him. Every 2 minutes he was asking for sex, and if i gave in, an hour later he would just want more sex. Me saying no isnt an invite to "convince" me, im not your mother, youre not doing that toddler shit. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/04/21 02:19 PM |
| 49 | I have questionsI never realized i basically grew up in a cult until my ex pointed it out to me. My father has my mother, my mothers bestie, my little brothers mother and at least 3 side women who all cater to him hand and foot. Youre not allowed to disagree with him about anything and if youre a woman in his life who doesnt cater to him, then theres something wrong with you. me and my sisters fortunately grew up and realized we were just other women who were supposed to cater to him and got out of there real q… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/04/21 03:24 PM |
| 59 | What we're NOT gonna do is spread the "age is just a number" pedophile agenda by using feminist hashtags. The example pictures were cherry picked celebrity women with younger husbands. "Age is just a number" ONLY benefits men who want someone way too young for them. I can't believe it's normalized.Im 23, i got hit on by a 19 year old male and i couldnt even bring myself to think of giving him a chance, to me he acts like a little boy and despite looking older than he is, you can just tell hes a teenager and that makes me uncomfortable. I cant imagine being attracted to teenagers or young adults when you're 30+ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/21 06:26 PM |
| 57 | Reminder: FDS is about a specific way to date. It's not for everybody. Totally cool if this is not your cup of tea, just move on. We are not going to change our beliefs to accommodate misogyny.Not only did this sub show me how to have higher standards for the men im dating, but it showed me to have high standards for myself and my life in general and im fucking grateful for it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/21 08:35 PM |
| 39 | Male entitlementHappened all the time at my old job, my pickme boss would just say "well i bet if it was channing tatum you wouldnt care" 🙄like that has anything to do with men my grandfathers age making sexual comments to 18yo me at work. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 04:38 PM |
| 114 | It's all about how they ~perceive~ usI got employee of the month at my job a couple months ago, to this day one of my male colleagues is still salty about it. When he found out I was picked he said "ITS JUST BECAUSE YOURE A WOMAN AND A MINORITY" when my job has multiple departments and different people were picked for all of them. Now when i come into work he literally drives me crazy, asking me to do more work than everyone else and assuming mistakes being made are my fault even when theyre not. Funny thing is, you get employee of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 12:49 PM |
| 27 | Manipulation through musicOh my god, you just made me realize my dad did this with movies and tv shows. He would watch inappropriate things with me when i was little and they were always movies about a shitty man who was being "dragged down" by women and he would spend the whole movie explaining why women are evil to men who are just "being men" and whenever i expressed that i thought the guy in the movie was just wanting these women to cater to him without and reprocussions or responsiblity he would literally yell at me… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/03/21 04:08 PM |
| 3 | I dont know how to leaveThank you millions for taking the time to type that out for me! Thats all great advice! <3 | /r/askFDS | 23/02/21 11:39 AM |
| 3 | I dont know how to leaveIm hoping with what i get back in taxes can go towards my own place, i might just move back with my parents, problem is about 85% of the things in the apartment are mine, my bed, my couch, my dining table, my tv, all my books. He will essentially just have his computer if i leave and thats it. Idk how to get all my stuff out of here without him catching wind of whats going on, plus the people who live upstairs will see me and they will definitely contact the landlord to tell him im leaving and m… | /r/askFDS | 22/02/21 10:26 AM |
| 8 | Your Future in an Age Gap RelationshipCurrently trying to leave a guy 20+ years older than me for this reason among a few others.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 07:49 PM |
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