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Women talk, and dick size is definitely one of the things that gets discussed. I went through the texts of an ex and found that she had told several people that I had a cock like a can of coke… I’m still not sure how I feel about that but the point is that it gets discussed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:47 AM
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I dunno, Stormy basically said she couldn’t tell if a certain client was in before he made a weird noise and fell asleep. I’m thinking money is the key metric.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:45 AM
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“Achievements”, as if maintaining your body counts for nothing, but making money is some huge thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/26 03:42 AM
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For sure. I’ve just never heard of it referred to as FYP. I’m assuming that’s a TikTok or Instagram thing that people just started using to refer to algorithm-driven recommendations in general.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:47 AM
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Ah. I watch YouTube but don’t really interact with social media other than this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 06:00 AM
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What the hell is an FYP?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/26 05:31 AM
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I'm aware. These are simply the reasons I see cited over and over again.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:25 PM
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I 100% agree with this, and it too often gets overlooked. You can replace the word "patriarchy" with "oligarchs / ruling class / aristrocrats" and suddenly everyone gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 11:04 PM
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Not speaking for OP here, but as a pan guy I've read many threads on this, and the cited reasons are normally insecurity (they think that a guy who can be attracted to men and women will sleep around) or they're worried about getting STDs. Homophobia can't be discounted, but I don't know how much that really plays into it compared to the first two reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:31 PM
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Preferences are fine, but if you would date someone up until you find out that they're attracted to both men and women, then you are bi-phobic. The two things are not mutually exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:27 PM
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I'm not sure where you're seeing that this originated in GoT... anywhere. The origins are supposedly satirical in nature, but any satire to the same effect about women would result in an instant ban so I won't elaborate. https://www.inc.com/suzanne-lucas/huffpost-editor-says-new-years-resolution-is-to-kill-all-men.html It's an example, so I won't belabor the point any more. The fact is, examples like this, the SCUM manifesto, etc, exist. They ARE part of the feminist legacy, like it or not, and …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 03:34 PM
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I'm now attempting to write this for probably the 30th time, because I really want to say what I mean here: When a member of a group says something publicly, and it does not get condemned by the group, it is typically accepted that the group is, at a minimum, complicit in the behavior of their compatriot. With that in mind, there are many out-of-pocket things thrown around within feminist spaces that don't get called out. If you're going to insist that I point to a single thing that feminists as…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 10:25 AM
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Because in online discourse, it's extremely common for bad behavior in women to be blamed on "the patriarchy", which is seen as women not taking personal responsibility for anything. Simultaneously, men feel like they're catching flak for the bad behavior of a small percentage of guys, most of which we've never met or interacted with. Anytime these things are brought up, feminists dogpile us with downvotes and snarky comments about incels, etc. Hopefully that's clear and concise enough to get th…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:12 AM
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Feminism started as an equality movement - The concept of "the patriarchy" was introduced in the 2nd wave, which shifted the focus from simply making men and women equals to eliminating gender roles. Liberal feminists still believe in letting women choose to live how they want (either traditionally or otherwise).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/26 08:10 AM
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Weird, looks an awful lot like deflecting.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 12:24 PM
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And you are... what?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:50 AM
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Weird, it appears on my screen that you said something, and I was talking to you. Funny that you feel the need to direct me to talk to someone else, almost like a child being told to go talk to their father. I'm not a child, and you are accountable for the things you say, so I was simply asking you. For the record, the actual, bona fide woman-hating incels are cringy as all hell, but the idea that women have a hard time securing dates is simply absurd.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 09:48 AM
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Cleared what up? You're simply wrong. https://linguistics.berkeley.edu/~ardeal/papers/Deal-Nee-SuB21.pdf
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 06:01 AM
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“ You say this difference is WHY it’s bad, but I don’t get the connection? Things being easy doesn’t make it bad, does it??”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/26 01:31 AM
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I generally disagree with the OP's argument, but I do take issue with your assertion that judging people based upon their innate abilities is wrong. It's the exact line of reasoning that people typically use when discussing domestic violence (women commit more acts of DV, but men tend to inflict more damage, thus leading to more fatalities). Honestly, I don't care one way or the other, but I do believe we should decide on one of these two things and run with it, because right now as a society we…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 10:45 PM
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Who are you, fellow purveyor of what feels like common sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 05:00 PM
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I stopped reading at the first or second sentence here. The women I know *all* prefer guys several years older than them (5+). This is a myopic take, at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 04:51 PM
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You're nobody, so that's exactly correct. If you post an assertion and use the word "statistics", please have some verifiable data.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:56 PM
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He means he's short and has a small wee, and he wants the world to know that he feels it's unfair, and women shouldn't pick partners based on physical characteristics because he gets filtered out, and whaaaaaa.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:54 PM
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There are guys that lust after land whales, so I don't believe for a second that even being morbidly obese is a huge issue in dating for women. That leaves, what, exactly? Literally posting anything but your own picture in your bio?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:52 PM
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Not to be pedantic, but if you say [noun] without a qualifier, [all][noun] is implied.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 01:50 PM
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It was my understanding that red pill was about dating, social hierarchies and “player” tips. None of those things have anything to do with male victims of sexual assault. Again, I don’t represent the RP side of things, it just so happens that my views sometimes align with theirs (as an example, I do genuinely believe it’s easier for women to get dates) I haven’t spent much time in RP spaces because frankly a lot of the guys there are cringey and seem to hate women despite professing their desir…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:59 AM
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I don’t know; I have never seen a male-dominated space on this platform, ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:41 AM
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I don’t know; I avoid cesspools.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/26 12:39 AM
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Reddit doesn’t seem to allow men’s only spaces anymore in general, so it’s a bit of a moot point. I won’t belabor a conversation that’s probably been brought up here ad museum, but the difference between /r/askmen and /r/askwomen, as well as all of the men/women subs, is that in the men’s subs, women are allowed to participate equally. They aren’t restricted to responding to top-level comments, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:32 PM
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Eh… my sister is currently in this position and she’s repeatedly lamented that for her, it’s borderline impossible to find someone that’s compatible (ok with her having a kid but not wanting any more) and also himself not having kids. I recognize that this is adding to the problem but I can’t imagine that it’s too uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:09 PM
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I had a similar experience. It’s quite frustrating that it’s impossible to find a subreddit that’s actually for and by men that isn’t also a cesspool.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:01 PM
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I have to say, as someone with a similar background as far as being sexually abused by a woman when I was a child, Reddit was mostly very respectful and supportive when I told my story. I don’t think it’s fair to say that women don’t care about male survivors, so much as that many women will reflexively assume that any attempt to share your story in what is perceived as a women’s space is potentially false and just a way to redirect attention from women into a man (which is very wrong).
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:58 PM
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Lol, Tate fanbois spend time calling wiping their asses or sleeping with women for pleasure gay, but also crash Grindr when they come to town. Absolutely hillarious.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:49 PM
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That’s largely because it’s something that predominantly affects bisexual men. Feminist spaces online are notoriously against discussing issues that “center men”, even if it’s directly applicable to the supposed views of their community.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:47 PM
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Of fucking course you’d be one of those. No point in arguing with a brick wall that will find a way to be a victim regardless of circumstances.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 01:37 PM
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The mental gymnastics required to say that hating dicks is misogyny is absolutely out of this world. Right up there with saying that portraying husbands on sitcoms as inept manchildren is misogyny. Slow clap
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:42 AM
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Tbh, I had never heard that term before, but if you look a few replies down, sure as shit someone came in and shoehorned it right into their wall of text.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/26 02:39 AM
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Look up the term “Joshua Generation”. A lot, and I mean A LOT of insanity surrounding the culture shift in the US starts to make sense when you consider the fifth-column cult in our country.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/25 05:43 PM
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I feel that women will (on average) always be the more-pursued sex. That said, there's no shortage of competition amongst women for men who are taken and perceived to be in demand.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:00 AM
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Nothing is stopping you - go get some cats and join the rest of the disenfranchised women who have sworn off men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:36 AM
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It's the ultra-wealthy. I see economic class as a far bigger determinant to how people will treat any manner of "rights" than sex or any other. Literally every single thing that modern feminism pins on "the patriarchy" is factually the responsibility of the top 1/10 of 1% of income holders on Earth, and historically it's always been a similar story. In the US, the Equal Rights Amendment would do a tremendous amount of good - Yet it always gets blocked by a minority of monied interests for one re…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/25 04:58 PM
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It's honestly amazing to me that this is catching downvotes. Don't you get it? There's a "type" of woman that attracts a "type" of man. "Daddy issues" for "Bad boys" eventually results in an abusive relationship. It's the women that find themselves in that situation over... and over... and over... again that I'm referring to here. I've heard women complaining about these women, so I know this isn't some random hot take.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 09:45 PM
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It’s not sexy. Most women do not want a man that simply keeps up the household as a partner; that isn’t to say that they don’t want help around the house, but it’ll never carry the same sex appeal as, say, stepping in when some random guy creeps on her in a social setting and making her safe. I do most of the work in my household, not because of any particular relationship dynamic so much as because I’m the one that cares more about the house being clean. I get zero respect nor recognition for t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:45 PM
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I mean, sure, I guess? I don’t think I have ever once discussed my partners’ bedroom performance with anyone but them, but if I did I would certainly feel like it’s fair game; I know that they’re giving out all the nitty gritty details to their friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 07:41 PM
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I’m tall with traditionally “handsome” features, and I have never filtered a woman by height. I do have a preference, that she be taller so I don’t have to bend as far to kiss or hug her, but that’s it. I’m currently in a serious relationship with someone that has spent the last five months with spotty, if any, employment. They will be graduating with a masters degree in their field in the next year or two so I’m willing to make the sacrifice up front to hopefully have a loving and stable two-in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:41 PM
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They’re not. If you’re unable to tell the difference, that’s a “you” problem. I fuck men and women and have carried on relationships with both. Men are not some cryptographic puzzle; they’re genuinely easy to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 05:12 PM
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Yes, words do matter. Women having an easier time in securing dates means that women have agency in how difficult their relationships are. Women that consistently find themselves with shitbags are seeking them out, subconsciously or otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 01:20 PM
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What?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:52 PM
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That sounds to me like you’re both liberal feminists (same as me) which often gets framed as anti-feminist nowadays because the goalposts have shifted so fucking ridiculously far from where they started.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:38 PM
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There is no nuance. Women have a much easier time securing dates. They have more choices, with all of the good and all of the bad that comes with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:36 PM
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I’m not allowed to wear grey sweatpants to work, but when I wear them out and about I get stares all the time… how is that any different?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/12/25 12:29 PM
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For many men, talk therapy is not super helpful. Personally, I found CBT, DBT and EMDR very helpful.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 04:13 AM
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Am I to understand that you are upset that men took the message and said, “OK”?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 06:05 PM
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My partner never asks for consent, but they know I’ll say something if I’m not into it. That’s just our dynamic though, and I love it.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:11 PM
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Whoo boy, that is a lot of words to say nothing substantial at all. OP, you’ve predicated a plethora of statements in this post on other broad, sweeping statements, yet none of them are backed by anything. Do you have any source or reason for believing the tent post ideas underlying the rest of your post, or have you simply made some sort of best guess analysis based off of your personal observations?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 02:12 PM
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I guess I’m going to give a concrete example here, because frankly this bothers me so much; a common trope I am seeing in social media from women or woman-focused media is, “Men X”. “If that offends you, you are obviously X.” This doesn’t hold water; it’s like saying boats sink - some do, of course, but the average boat is in fact still afloat, and taking issue with a bogus statement doesn’t make me a sunken shipwreck any more than a rapist, or a wife beater, or whatever bs accusation gets tosse…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:45 PM
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Men don’t (contrary to what many women seem to believe) want a sex toy. They want someone to talk to, and someone that cares about them. If they get that from these robots, who are we to say no? I’m in a LTR, I have no skin in this game. I’m just not seeing a problem with people checking out of dating entirely when so many others have already done so.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:40 PM
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Many women have said that they prefer their vibrators, they have no need for men. I don’t think it’s such a terrible thing, as a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:31 PM
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How is men choosing not to date a problem? Women are doing this exact same thing in droves already.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:29 PM
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Wasn’t there a post on here yesterday about AI robot girlfriends with women complaining that men would no longer be “putting in the effort” to make real human connections?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:20 PM
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Maybe, but I don’t think that’s the whole story. Women regularly say things with their whole chest that aren’t logical / don’t hold water, and these things catch on and become talking points. It isn’t to say that men never do the same thing, but if another guy hears it then the guy making the claim will likely get called out, whereas the woman making the claim will likely be given a pass or even supported by other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 01:09 PM
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We absolutely do have emotions. The big difference is that we’re taught that we need to make logical decisions in spite of them, and that’s part of personal responsibility. I believe a large part of the rift on this issue stems from the fact that what men perceive as basic accountability, women see as burying one’s emotions in an unhealthy way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:15 AM
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I’m not sure that I can debate this as it’s not really an argument so much as a statement of intent. Have fun with your free dinners, I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:06 AM
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I think that so long as people are happy and not out here being horrible to others because they’re lonely, then this is an extremely positive outcome.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/25 06:01 AM
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This hurt my brain to read. You do realize that the modern computer is an invention of a woman, right? Well, more specifically, modern programming. “ No single person invented the modern computer, as its development involved many contributors over a long period. However, several women were central to pioneering foundational computing concepts and programming itself. Key women who contributed to modern computing include: Ada Lovelace (1815–1852) Often considered the world's first computer program…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:56 PM
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You literally just edited your response to add the “aggregate” bit, and for reference I am specifically replying to this bit, “ I think many regular men secretly would enjoy, even if briefly, a harem of women who obeyed him. Or secretly think sexually harassing women isn’t thatbig a big deal” You are explicitly stating that you believe the average Joe would sexually harass women if he could get away with it. I fundamentally disagree with this premise. Where is the straw man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:42 PM
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I’m, again, not disputing your feelings on the matter, but I believe that the average, big standard man, is more likely to punch a cat caller than be one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:24 PM
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A woman’s worth isn’t really something I would ever quantify, but if I were going to, kids that aren’t mine would certainly bring down the, “I want to be with this woman” rating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:19 PM
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Hmm, I tend to disagree strongly with your assessment of men as a whole, but that’s your opinion and you’re entitled to it.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 03:12 PM
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I think you’re conflating two different phenomena here; the part where a movement gets co-opted by more radical elements and the part where some bandwagoners elect to allow the radicals on board because they’re aligned on some fringe issue can be found in another sex-based movement. You won’t argue that “regular women” secretly agree with the “kill all men, all sex is rape” radfems, despite the fact that these types regularly appear in feminist spaces and don’t get banned, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:42 PM
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It’s funny you say that, because every time a guy tries to start an online community for men, it gets brigaded and derided as misogynistic for excluding women. It’s not that men don’t want to support each other, it’s that in the largest communities on earth, they’re literally not allowed to.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:38 PM
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I feel like this is largely due to the fact that RP spaces have garnered so much attention in these last few years. Some high-profile terroristic attacks and really vitriolic manifestos made for great outrage news stories and obviously have helped to fuel clickbait engagement on social media ad nauseum. Really though, there is no place left in society for single young men; there used to be boys clubs for youth to go and engage with each other, play sports and just socialize. These were safe spac…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 02:03 PM
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I believe what he’s saying is that all things being equal, women are generally more likely to be considered sexually desirable than men. That rings pretty true to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/25 01:54 PM
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I don’t know about other platforms, but at least on Reddit, the biggest male-oriented subs are run by women, have women moderating, and welcome women to participate in and answer questions… so they’re not really “safe spaces” for men at all.
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