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Lol
/r/askTRP23/03/19 12:42 PM
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For yourself. Everything in life should be to better yourself and complete your mission. “If you build it, they will come.” Good luck brother
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:13 PM
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No you’re right, meditating won’t solve those problems. It will help you have a clearer, less stressed mindset so you can go out and tackle those problems with clarity. I don’t even know you and I know you’re more than capable of handling those situations in your life. I take on so much work because getting better every single day is the best drug I’ve ever taken. Self improvement is addicting, and obviously I’m taking on more types of work that will benefit me, and I’m not just working harder t…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 07:57 PM
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You’re only 19 man. There is so much hope for change. When I was 19 I was a shit scumbag smoking weed every single day and as depressed as it gets. I made the change and so can you. Step one: You really need to make goals. Goals are what are actually going to get you to know what to aim for. What to drive for everyday. What you need to do everyday to get 1 step closer to those goals. I will give you examples of goals for examples you gave me. I am very into fitness and very into programming as w…
/r/askTRP09/03/19 07:36 PM
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Hahaha fuck yeah brother, go get that shit
/r/askTRP08/03/19 06:03 PM
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Bro what Cheating is not alpha, that’s neckbeard wannabe alpha man. You’re better than that Showing girls that you think they are worthless is not alpha at all. Don’t date girls if you wanna sleep around. This girl really cares for you, and it seems you just need to focus on yourself and get your mental game straight. Go do you man. You’re gonna have ups and downs, and this seems like a down. I think you should wait a little while, get your head back on your shoulders, improve yourself, and go g…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 05:52 PM
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Hmmm yeah that’s a situation for sure hahaha Idk don’t hangout just say you’re too busy. Keeps the mysterious vibe and you don’t have to hangout with her stupid ass but keep it fun at work. Don’t seem to far because things will get weird.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 04:16 PM
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Appreciate it brother. I’ll try to give back and comment more frequently in this sub. Been a lurker for a long time and just took everything in and implemented it into my own life and it works out pretty great. A lot of the girl shit I’m not into because I think a lot of dudes here overthink it and become beta due to it. Which sucks but it is what it is. The reason I come back to the pill is to find real life growing advice. Can already get girls, care more about where I’m heading than what puss…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 04:02 PM
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Awesome You won’t get the same results as lifting, but you’ll get results. Good luck to you brother
/r/askTRP08/03/19 03:49 PM
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I don’t take any supps, I eat all my protein. I lift 4x per week at 45 min per session. Taking 16 credits, 35 hours a week of work, and studying non school related coding every day. Now yeah my life isn’t fun exactly but I’m grinding hard to make it fun. Not trying to brag or boast but it’s possible. If you don’t wanna lift at all no worries. Just do something for fitness so you can have low body fat and look and feel good. Anything that ups your confidence.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 03:43 PM
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You can do both man haha a lot of people have muscle and a lot of money. I’m on your side brother I’m not against you. Just trying to help out.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 03:36 PM
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Damn man sorry to hear that. Unfortunately, you’re not going to get the gains you’re looking for if you are not willing to put in the work. Things worth having in life take time brother. It’s worth the journey.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 03:24 PM
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Attack the day brother
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:34 PM
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Thanks brother. Just trying to turn this sub back into what it’s supposed to be. A supportive community for men to help each other reach their highest potential.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 02:22 PM
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Yes bro! Self improvement is purpose. Eventually you’ll find what you truly want to chase. But if you work on yourself everyday and continue to better yourself, depression won’t be a thing anymore, you’ll feel way ducking better everyday, your confidence will rise, and you’ll start trying really ambitious shit because you’ll have the ego of Socrates. Go get what’s yours brother. Don’t ask people what your purpose is. That’s not our job. Our job is to help you better yourself, which in turn will …
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:47 PM
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Thank you for this comment. Not to be a dick to OP, but up your value man. Sure, you’re good lucking, but that won’t get you far in life past women lol. Go out there and have a mission and fucking crush that shit. Set goals, meet them, set more. Do that until you’re fucking dead and you’ll have the highest SMV on the market.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:44 PM
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Bro go lift some fucking weights and read some fucking books. Up your value, chase girls shorter than you, and you’ll be fine. Don’t use your dick as a crutch (literally too lol). Be more than your dick size brother
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:43 PM
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Because you don’t value yourself. Fuck the abundance mentality. Shit doesn’t matter if you don’t think you’re high value. Go work on yourself and you will not over value women. I promise.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:41 PM
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If you’re already lazy, adderall will not help you. Just an fyi. I’ve seen my friends fall victim to this. They became more lazy AFTER getting a script. That drug is not something to be taken lightly. I take it everyday, but only because I want to work harder than I already do. I wish I never started, but it does help a lot. Just a very addictive drug. Be careful out there. Don’t use anything as a crutch. Coming from experience
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:40 PM
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Bro, hitting legs releases growth hormones and helps the rest of your body grow more. If you skip legs, you’re looking for the easy way out. No excuses about looking feminine lol. If you get fucking swole, I promise you won’t look feminine lol. Do not skip legs, it will lead to injuries to your back and abdominals muscles because they will not be fully developed to handle a lot weight on bench press and overhead press. Seriously don’t lol. Just looking out for you
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:37 PM
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This is for your own good. Not being a regular red pilled neck beard telling you to fuck off. Read on without emotion lol. Bro fuck off. Just kidding lol. For real though, go do something for yourself brother. 32 is nowhere near the end of the road. Stop acting sorry for yourself. Go lift, meditate, read, start learning a new skill, go chase the dollar signs. You can look good without hair lol. Look at Dwayne Johnson. Ditch your fucking excuses and go get what’s yours. I’m not your mom, and I’m …
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:34 PM
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I’m a Computer Science major at a university, and I meet girls. Bars, tinder, bumble, COLD APPROACH. Bro if you’re on a campus for when you go to class, there are hella hot girls walking around everywhere. Go talk to them! Worst they can do is say no lol.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:29 PM
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Feminist movement lol. People hate empowered men. They can conquer galaxies. Fr though, a man with a mission can not be stopped. A girl with a mission can be stopped by chad at the drop of a hat. There is your difference lol
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:28 PM
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Meditate. It has helped me greatly with my stress in life, and I also take on a fuck ton of work like yourself. If you know it’s worth it, do it. The things worthwhile are always going to come with stress. Unfortunately that’s the way it works. If you wanna be successful, go grind that shit out. You got this brother. If you need any specific advice at all on how to handle stress, dm me. Too long to type here. Good luck brother, you got this shit
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:27 PM
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Question is kind of off brother, no offense. A good looking guy can have the same career options as a shit ass ugly dude, other than modeling lol. Go do whatever you want to, it’s your life brother. You only got one. If money isn’t too important to you and you wanna model, go fucking do it. Don’t ask other people what your mission in life should be (ironic I’m giving you advice on what to do with your life as I’m saying that lol). But for real, go do what makes you enjoy living, and gets you to …
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:24 PM
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I quit weed because it made me lazy. That is not the case for everyone. I do take adderall everyday though, and it helps me chase my goals harder. Adderall is not something that will turn you into a hard worker if you’re lazy without it though. Be cautious of that. But if you’re already hard working, well, it’s like a fucking limitless pill
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:22 PM
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Heighten your value lol. I’ve typed this exact line 10 times today. You’ll feel like the prize when you’ve worked hard enough to be the prize. Until then, it’s going to be hard to get into the right mindset. Practice gaming girls, lift, read, learn something everyday, and eventually you’ll feel high value. Chase some fucking $$$ while you’re at it. Good luck brother
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:20 PM
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Heighten your value. Practice gaming girls in public. Almost every guy is nervous talking to girls at first, that’s why we are all here lol. Bunch of betas helping each other turn into high value men lol. You’ll get more comfortable, you just have to make yourself uncomfortable first. It sucks at first, but eventually it gets really fun
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:19 PM
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Next. She’s not interested unfortunately. No worries don’t let it hit your ego. Can’t catch them all
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:17 PM
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Don’t lift with girls. The gym is your time to heighten your value, not to spend it flirting with a girl and getting a shit workout in. Tell her no gym, let’s just hangout at “my place/your place/a bar/etc”
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:16 PM
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I don’t know if I would say that she’s already moved on. Honestly kinda bullshit advice lol. I think she’s looking for your reaction, and to see if it makes you jealous or not. High value men would not be affected by orbiters trying to get with their girl. They know their girl is hot, that’s why they are with her. Jealousy is a beta trait, because it shows low value. Heighten your value, and you’ll be good!
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:15 PM
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I always have fun and “flirt” with my coworkers but nothing over the top to get you fired or consider it shitting where you eat. No need to act like a beta about it and try to avoid her. You’re an alpha man, have some fun. Don’t take yourself too seriously. Good luck brother!
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:13 PM
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Validation. Pass. If she wants to talk, get her number, tell her when and where you’re hanging out, and go from there. If she flakes, move on. She was only trying to make you into another orbiter. If she agrees to hangout, well, you know what to do from there.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:12 PM
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No offense brother, but I wouldn’t recommend this. Do not ask her when she’s available. Tell her when you want to hangout and give her a date, time, and place. Your time is valuable and you can’t be waiting around for anyone, let alone this girl who asked you if you liked her over text lol. Take control brother. Know your worth! Good luck.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:10 PM
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Yeah it’s true if you believe phones to show your value lol. Knock that shit off you know better. Go to the gym, start meditating, reading, learning, and you won’t care what a girl fucking thinks about what brand of phone you have. If she does she’s fucking psycho and not the girl you wanna spend your time doing ANYTHING with in my opinion lol
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:09 PM
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Yup have LTR call the cops if she feels actually threatened. I wouldn’t do it yourself to be honest. Good luck brother hope you find your way out of this shit fest lol
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:07 PM
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Stay the fuck away. Beta guys will always take their girlfriends side over yours, and you don’t want that trouble. Stick to your own shit, and focus on yourself. These girls are not the ones you wanna waste ANY time on. If you’re horny and thinking about trying to hook up with her, go jerk off and I guarantee those feelings will fade quick as fuck lol
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:05 PM
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Stay the fuck away. Beta guys will always take their girlfriends side over yours, and you don’t want that trouble. Stick to your own shit, and focus on yourself. These girls are not the ones you wanna waste ANY time on. If you’re horny and thinking about trying to hook up with her, go jerk off and I guarantee those feelings will fade quick as fuck lol
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:04 PM
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Bro also, you don’t want the easier route. Sometimes the easier route is better than the harder one, but it’s fucking rare. 99% of people with a sick physique lift heavy weights. Just fucking do it. You got it bro stop putting up mental barriers
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:01 PM
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Keep it simple man. I’ve heard this excuse 100 times. Lift heavy, eat enough, and Stay consistent. You’ll see change. Change doesn’t come after 3-4 weeks. 12 weeks I promise you’ll see a change if you push yourself every workout and lift heavy with your emphasis on compounds. Very simple man. If you’re new to the game, don’t even worry about tracking macros just yet. It will turn you off Fitness. Just eat a lot of protein, lift heavy, get stronger. Results will come. The best things in life take…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 01:00 PM
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That situation sucks man, I’ve been there a few years back. I wasted my time and stayed because my worth was low, and wasn’t bettering myself. Unfortunately, she doesn’t respect you enough to not flirt with other guys, and that sucks. I know it hurts especially after investing a year with her. But do not “sunk cost fallacy” this bitch and chase her thinking you can fix it because you don’t want to lose that year of your life. It’s time to move on, because it sounds like she already has. Sorry to…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 12:37 PM
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Do you view yourself as alpha, or beta? Bro it comes down to how you view yourself, and what you’re doing to better yourself. An alpha man does what he wants, on his terms, and goes and gets what’s his. A beta man does things to please others, and doesn’t stick up for himself when the time comes. Go better yourself, because it sounds like you’re questioning yourself man. Just being honest. Go lift, go learn, go read, meditate, do something everyday to get better. Have a mission. Stick to it. Don…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 12:34 PM
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Thank you for this.
/r/askTRP08/03/19 12:33 PM
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Why not, it’s good practice. Practice game, practice theory, improve what makes you uncomfortable in conversations. It’s a good place to not feel stressed because the girl is “way out of your league” or whatever the fuck that means. If you wanna go on the date go on it. If you don’t, so be it. Go do what you want to do man. If you do, just have fun with it, don’t take yourself too seriously. Good luck
/r/askTRP08/03/19 12:32 PM
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This is not to shit on you, just being honest and trying to help. First off, lose the excuses. Two weeks is a long time, and if your excuse is you don’t know what to lift, I cannot help you with that. Get your ass to the gym and lift. When you get back into it I recommend low volume, heavy weight. Try and lift heavier than you did the week before on that movement. You did 3x6 on bench at 225 with a 7.5rpe last week, time to up the weight to 230 and try for a 3x6 there. Same thing with squat, dea…
/r/askTRP08/03/19 12:29 PM
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First off, we need more people in this sub that actually help when someone has a question, and not just put you down, call you a retard, etc. My honest advice though brother is that you don’t know your worth, or your value isn’t high enough. I’ve struggled with this hard in the past, used to get really jealous, etc. You just need to start hitting the gym hard, meditating, reading, learning, focusing on you. Eventually you won’t feel threatened by other guys because you know your worth, and it’s …
/r/askTRP08/03/19 12:19 PM
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You’re good brother. You’re thinking too deep into this. There are a lot of guys in here that have no idea what they are talking about but act like the most alpha dude on the planet, but give advice like it’s god tier. If it all HAS to boil down to one thing, it’s that you have a mission and no one can stand in your way. Meaning if YOU want this girl to spend the night, don’t let her dictate that. Have her spend the night, ON YOUR TERMS. It’s your life man, just live it for you and no one else. …
/r/askTRP08/03/19 12:06 PM
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Good shit though brother keep it up. Best thing in my opinion is to keep challenging yourself. I’m in the best mental state I have ever been in because every month I add a new challenge to my life. Last month was no nicotine or video games, this month it’s waking up early everyday. Things that challenge you everyday keep you getting better and on top of your game. Keep grinding.
/r/askTRP11/12/18 06:03 PM
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Honestly bro, stop taking advice. (Even though I’m about to give you some) go do what the fuck YOU wanna do, cause that’s what the pill is all about. If you wanna go to college, fucking do it! If you wanna drop out and do something else, by all means fucking go for it. People don’t understand the pill at all. They take things much too literal. Go do whatever the fuck you wanna do and create your own life. Everything will follow from there. Just know every path you take will be hard work if you w…
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:42 PM
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Stop being so negative bro. You wanna be successful with your business and get more clients? Stop thinking you can’t get them before you even talk to them. Go fucking do get better rather than feeling sorry for yourself. You can do literally anything you set your mind to. Stop wasting time on here and start studying social interactions, lifting, money, etc. Not to be a dick but just go out there and get what’s yours, period.
/r/askTRP06/12/18 02:39 PM
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Hell yeah. Lift some weights, save your money, live a good ass life.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 11:03 PM
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Don’t do it
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:29 PM
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Sucks to see men you love act very blue but it is what it is. If they wanted to change they would. Let your brother find his own route. Focus on yourself and keep doing you. They’ll figure it out eventually.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:29 PM
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Ay brother if you need someone to talk to just send me a message. Taking your life is never the answer you have a lot of value to offer the world, you just don’t know it yet. Keep grinding and work to better yourself day in and day out. You’ll find your way.
/r/askTRP30/11/18 04:27 PM
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Good on trying to remain calm, part of being a red pilled man is being able to hold frame and control your emotions. Treat bullying as a form of a shit test. Pass it and you’re good. If he is bullying you in front of people he is looking for validation meaning he is very insecure. Even better to pass a shit test in front of a lot of people. Hold frame and you’re good. Bullying is such a beta trait it’s honestly pussy, don’t feel bad about it brother just use it as motivation. Good luck
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:38 PM
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No worries brother. Anymore questions just DM me and I’ll try my best to help. Red pilled men or those on the way need to help each other out. More successful men the better
/r/askTRP13/11/18 10:33 PM
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Yeah but that’s up to you. What helps is writing down shorter term goals and longer term goals and working towards those every day. I have my short term posted on a wall and a description underneath on what I need to do to reach each short term goal every day. Long term goals I have written down on my computer and I look at those once a week. Visualizing your goals is huge. It’s whatever you find your purpose to be. TLDR: Find your mission and write down your goals. Make sure you are walking tow…
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:33 PM
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Good shit for accomplishing those goals thus far. Don’t take that as validation, because if you want to make your life something to be proud of, the journey isn’t over yet. Something that helps me is taking it one day at a time, even if I don’t want to study, lift, program, etc TLDR: Just focus on that day and that day alone and take it one day at a time. You’ll make it brother
/r/askTRP13/11/18 09:03 PM
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Nah bro you ain’t a loser if you’re working everyday to better yourself. Where are you approaching these woman at if I may ask? If it’s the bar that can explain the bad encounters. The bar is one of the hardest pulls, because girls are at their peak ego and can almost choose whatever guy they want in there. Just need to practice, and eventually it becomes real and you really won’t give a fuck. Keep working at it brother you’ll make it.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 07:36 PM
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Regardless if this is real or not, great amount of learning can come from this. If it is real good work, and if it isn’t you know your shit and need to get out there and make this real. Keep it up brother
/r/TheRedPill13/11/18 07:30 PM
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What were you hoping to achieve when you posted this comment?
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 09:55 PM
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That also makes sense to me. Good point
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:37 PM
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This seems backwards though. Based off of hypergamy, a woman would not go out of her way to text him if she is not interested in him. She could just as easily find another guy. But instead she took the time to text him. Seems like she is interested to me
/r/TheRedPill10/10/18 02:32 PM
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Would be very interested in the development of this project, reach out to me whenever you get the time.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 04:38 PM
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