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Last resort, “overreact” and tell her if she can’t do something as simple as that she can leave.
/r/seduction01/11/25 10:37 PM
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Just keep asking yourself what if bro
/r/seduction07/08/25 05:51 PM
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In my experience, the best way to set up a kiss is during heavy eye contact. Look at her eyes, glance at her lips, look back into her eyes. If you catch her looking at your lips after you look back up then she wants to kiss you too. The subtle look at her lips also lets her know what you’re about to do so she can either reciprocate or if she wants to decline, she will make it obvious.
/r/seduction12/04/25 01:44 PM
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It’s full of “I like this girl but she doesn’t like me back” or “I feel so sorry for myself, what do I do?” Or “I’m lost and this girl is so confusing.” The advice is here is okay but it’s full of self-loathing guys who don’t take the time to learn/have one-itis. Minds need to be open to take advice but most people here complain and don’t want to help themselves.
/r/seduction12/10/24 03:23 AM
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I agree with this but this sub is not exactly the best place for advice. Better to read forums on other sites or watch people on YouTube talk about the topics you want to hear. TODD V is a good resource (Sergio sorokin is a channel that re-ups all his vids)
/r/seduction12/10/24 02:51 AM
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I had a guy do this at the bar to me one time while I was working a set that I had just approached. I didn’t notice it but the girl I was talking to made sure to point it out to me. I just glanced at the guy and then back at the girl and we both started making fun of him. Definitely helped me rather than hurt me in the long run. Not sure what the guy was doing but I think blowing kisses or making hand gestures might work if the girl is uninterested, but not always.
/r/seduction05/08/24 07:42 PM
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Okay this actually makes sense. Interesting phenomenon. Don’t care that I’m getting hate, just wanted to share my personal experience. At first it wasn’t ‘manipulation’ but since I’ve learned it worked, I’ve used it to my advantage.
/r/seduction18/08/22 08:20 PM
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I don’t want to shit on my friends because it makes me look attention seeking/low value. Bros bring bros up dawg
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:05 PM
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This works really well with my personality I haven’t said this but I’ll add it! Thank you.
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:04 PM
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I like this frame, I’ll try it out in the future. Thanks.
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:04 PM
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I think that’s a good point. Sometimes their tone makes me think it’s a shit test. I often get shit tests so I assume any pushback is a shit test, might be a personal flaw.
/r/seduction10/01/22 03:03 PM
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I think leading is better than asking for permission. My best kisses were spur of the moment. A simple hand on the waist, slight pull, and not the words “come here,” but more of a combination of the words - ‘cmere’ - this displays that the kiss is no big deal. Make sure you are flirting and there was some previous physicality. Girls like men who lead. Especially with the age gap like that. Again, everything in your mind should be ‘no big deal.’ She wants to kiss you but the fact that you’re worr…
/r/seduction08/01/22 09:14 PM
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Yo all of these comments are brutal. You want to escalate? Escalation isn’t about the “big move.” You don’t want to kiss a girl who pulls back from you when you touch her leg. It’s more like little stepping stones where it only makes sense to escalate further. Touch her hand/arm/leg while your just talking. Get her used to you physically. Be flirtatious and playful and don’t make a big deal about it. You should kiss her when it feels like it’s the right thing to do. But don’t be a pussy about it…
/r/seduction08/01/22 04:37 AM
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Turn around and tell her that her ass isn’t big enough to be doing that to you
/r/seduction29/11/21 04:26 AM
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Psycho
/r/seduction01/11/21 07:49 PM
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It’s not the same thing though. What you say and how you say it conveys your personality. That is what seduction is about. Also can I just give you some side advice. I’m glad you had a good interaction with this girl, but remember something. Do not give up any of your power because you like her. There are millions of women that you can have. If you like her that’s fine but the moment that you decide that you don’t want to lose her is the moment that most guys fuck up. Don’t get too caught up on …
/r/seduction31/10/21 11:44 PM
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You are completely wrong. When you introduce yourself to a stranger, what do you do? You shake their hand. There is a difference in hand shakes. I am not saying to stretch out your arm and shake their hand but instead pull them in closer. The way you shake someone’s hand in let’s say a business environment is wildly different than a cold approach/man to woman handshake. It was just an example.
/r/seduction31/10/21 11:30 PM
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I agree with this advice but I would definitely screen for what times they’re available. A girl can easily say no to a specific time/day because she has something else going on then. I always ask them how their week is looking or indirectly screening for it. If they want to meet up then they will usually give a hint: “I’m working on mon Tuesday but Wednesday I’m not sure.” Screen then demand.
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:53 PM
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People saying the hand touch is smooth etc etc but is that the only thing you did? That’s the same thing as shaking a girls hand. Probably better to shake a girls hand if you know that you should pull her in when you introduce yourself. That displays masculinity and confidence. Physicality is good but you need to escalate to make any connection. Small of the back, waist, hair, shoulder… try to be more physical and don’t be afraid to take a risk and not just worry about touching her hands.
/r/seduction31/10/21 08:49 PM
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You’re thinking about it wrong. Girls don’t want their father or brother. They want a man. Don’t care about respect too much. Be outcome dependent.
/r/seduction03/10/21 06:22 AM
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Whatever works for you I’m all for it.
/r/seduction30/09/21 10:41 PM
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Did you just reference a show and compare it to real life??? If that works for you than I’m happy for you but I have to say that this did not work for me.
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:13 AM
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Running is perfectly fine my man, as long as you challenge yourself… go for that extra Km each week!
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:12 AM
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As long as you’re doing somethin!
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:11 AM
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If that’s all you got from my post I am sorry. I just am an avid believer in self improvement and I only see the upside. Lifting is not just about heavy weights… it’s about challenging yourself physically and mentally to gain the smallest of improvements over and over until you see results… that’s what it is to me.
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:09 AM
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Muscle is important but running will give you a great physique regardless. I’d try a mix… Jeff Nippard on YouTube helped me out a lot. Athlean X if you want quantity of material.
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:07 AM
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Trust me… I am. I am just confident in my frame and I’ve put time in to learning and actually getting out there and doing it!
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:06 AM
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Gym rant was for all the times that I’ve tried to convince guys to go to the gym and they don’t do it. Most guys want to go to look good. That’s not the only reason that it’s beneficial at all but you need to appeal to the masses. Any exercise is only beneficial to you. Would you turn down something that can only help you(unless you try to lift like Ronnie Coleman?) probably not. Mood, health, energy, physique, confidence, style(no more baggy clothes,) diet, and making the most of your time… to …
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:05 AM
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Hahahaha if only
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:02 AM
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Hey man that’s a great outlook. I think that the idea of understanding value and building it for yourself is the main benefit of learning that value is important. Getting laid should not be the only goal.
/r/seduction30/09/21 12:01 AM
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I understand your point but do you know how many gentleman are in the world today?? EVERYONE. Women don’t want a man who’s too afraid to say what he wants and only wants to please her. I never said to be an asshole but I don’t think that being cordial with women is going to get you very far.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:59 PM
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This man knows.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:57 PM
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Louder so they can hear it from the back!
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:56 PM
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Thank you my man! We’re always learning and improving in all aspects but you can’t grow if you don’t take risks. Keep it up.
/r/seduction29/09/21 11:55 PM
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He’s not wrong though. If you frame yourself as needy and you have to assume the girl is going to say no then what kind of confidence are you starting an interaction with?? Frame is your state of mind. It’s not a dbag thing to think that way. Is r/seduction actually r/niceguys now??
/r/seduction22/07/21 03:19 AM
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Why the fuck do you care? Stop thinking of it as “oh I have a little dick woe is me” just fuck them and if they don’t call back then move on. Learn how to use your other tools to, oral/finger is good. Unless you have a micropenis than you should be fine.
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:32 AM
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Ask her if it’s a Brazilian. Nah but she’s giving you a lot of info into her day so you should give some value back. Tell her how your Saturday is looking/ make up stuff if you’re free. Try to bounce off of that but stop asking so many questions, low value move.
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:29 AM
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Start approaching women. You sound like your inner game is there but you also sound desperate. Don’t go into every interaction with a girl thinking to yourself, I need to get laid or it isn’t a success. You said you haven’t had sex in over a year so there’s clearly something that you’re doing wrong. This could be the lack of approaching or the vibe of “I only want to fuck you” that you give off. It’s okay to take girls out on dates, 90% of the time unless you’re out drinking a girl is not planni…
/r/seduction16/07/21 03:26 AM
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I will try but we are meeting in the middle of a 40 min car ride, so 20 minute drive back to mine/hers. Thanks for the advice, I’ll try to change the mindset
/r/seduction15/07/21 09:17 PM
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Bruh, you lean in 90% of the way and let her go 10% towards you. As long as she’s leaning she wants to kiss you. If she doesn’t, don’t get emotional, ignore it and try again later. No now doesn’t mean no forever.
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:34 AM
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Fuck I’m 6’2 and I can’t imagine being eye level with a girls nipples for more than 2 minutes, hell of a story.
/r/seduction13/07/21 02:26 AM
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Okay it’s nice to hear about other people approaching but don’t just read Reddit posts, go out and do it yourself!
/r/seduction11/07/21 04:52 PM
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Took her out for drinks during the week and took her home to watch Superbad lmao. Happy I reached out or that wouldn’t have happened
/r/seduction04/07/21 05:46 PM
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Thanks Mr. Sunshine, good luck out there.
/r/seduction27/06/21 08:51 PM
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Any way to avoid this? I’m not disagreeing with you I just don’t think it’s a lost cause. Doesn’t hurt to try, I just don’t know what to suggest we do.
/r/seduction27/06/21 07:55 PM
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There was literally no other option, it would have been weird if we didn’t make out. Too much attraction to avoid it. I’m always aware of the “it just happened” being important, but I am 100% sure that she wants to hookup so I’m not very concerned. She was receptive to all my DQs, followed me and was actively looking for me throughout the night. One of my best sets but I’m terrible at the follow-up.
/r/seduction27/06/21 07:01 PM
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Honestly didn’t bring anything like that up, conversation was flirty banter for the most part. Might be a good fall back plan, guess I won’t know if she’s down unless I ask lmao
/r/seduction27/06/21 06:58 PM
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I’d say it’s okay depending on how she’s texting you, but don’t go out of your way to respond very quickly. I’d focus less on texting game and more on setting up a meetup. Texting can get very stale or needy. Get that date.
/r/seduction21/06/21 06:03 PM
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It sounds like you’re nervous. Try not to be. This is one girl that may or may not lead to anything. Try not to act like this is your one and only chance. Obviously be receptive during the date, if she wants you to get physical than you should. Try to avoid acting needy, ie putting her before yourself or other obligations. This can be a turn off for most girls. Just go in there with confidence and see what happens! Good luck, you got this!
/r/seduction21/06/21 05:40 PM
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