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| 2 | Men are not obliged to validate any choice a woman makes and they are free to have their own opinions and feelings tooCan confirm I complqin about dating and I am often called a bitch boy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 10:59 AM |
| 3 | Madonna whore complex is the equivalent to alpha fucks beta bucksIm gonna go out on a limb and say you have a good kind hearted self aware man who’s also hardworking and good looking(an 8 or upwards) cause if so then that makes sense you guys are a match the rest of us are mad we don’t have the qualities to qualify for a relationship like yours | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 07:13 AM |
| -1 | Redpill men, how old are your partners? Are you attracted to them if they are over 30?Putting the cart before the horse here, because you love them?? How when I’m choosing someone to love can I love them before I’ve chosen. Literally the e parent comment says “starting a relationship” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 09:29 AM |
| 4 | Redpill men, how old are your partners? Are you attracted to them if they are over 30?The thing is, almost everyone goes through that anyways, it’s not like the “youthful attractive” woman isn’t going to become a better communicator, more organized, a better cook, less clingy etc… but why have one when you can have a youthfully attractive partner who then matures into the kind of woman you now are today | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/24 07:17 AM |
| 2 | The dynamic of age gap relationships is multilayered...Age gaps are way more normal if you step outside of your bubble than 100k loans | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/11/24 06:13 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winYea but a woman with a dick in the same bathroom as 13 year old girls is what they’re pushing for this isn’t just “two people in the privacy of their homes” anymore it’s about biological males in women’s sports | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 04:41 PM |
| – | Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to winHis response is exactly why the dems lost, (you didn’t do this) a lot of dems see any criticism valid or not as hate and label it bigotry in an attempt to shame you into accepting stuff you just don’t vibe with or agree with and in doing that, people are tired of feeling like they’re villains for what should be common sense or at the very least open for discussion | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/24 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Isn’t just being upfront that you are not an LTR/Marrying guy and telling your date openly to expect no commitment better than plate-spinning or pretending you are in an LTR, but not really committing? Like it’s being honest. That’s always admirable.No we don’t we just most of us don’t want to force you we just don’t want to continue the relationship either… but gaslighting us and making it seem like we want to force you to do something you don’t want to rather than admitting that you’re robbing us of informed consent is so vile and narcissistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 03:17 PM |
| 5 | Isn’t just being upfront that you are not an LTR/Marrying guy and telling your date openly to expect no commitment better than plate-spinning or pretending you are in an LTR, but not really committing? Like it’s being honest. That’s always admirable.So is that type of girl, I’m saying that they’re both despicable people, there’s people who will lie to get what THEY want at the expense of others’ - time, emotional stability and life goals… it’s horrid but these people do exist, be grateful your religion protects you, the rest of us are f*cked male and female alike | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 03:03 PM |
| 4 | Isn’t just being upfront that you are not an LTR/Marrying guy and telling your date openly to expect no commitment better than plate-spinning or pretending you are in an LTR, but not really committing? Like it’s being honest. That’s always admirable.For the same reason women wouldn’t be honest if they enthusiastically performed a sexual act in the past but no longer want to with you…. Selfish self preservation | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/24 02:55 PM |
| 6 | [Serious] How young is too young to date if you're not looking for your next wife? I'm 37For being 37 and going for a 25 year old, we’re losing the plot now… He never said anything about deceiving… | /r/Divorce_Men | 09/06/24 06:12 PM |
| – | Money and status and career are not that significant for men (including being rich)Lmao this degree that got me a high paying job doesn’t really matter y’all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/02/24 04:01 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: have you ever made it work with a woman who’s has a past?Most men are worse than video games and masturbation… they’re lazy, incompetent and unconfident… the issue that I see though is that in society today there is no benefit for giving up selfish short term gain for mutual long term goals if society’s response to someone bailing on long term goals is… “good for you, you deserve happiness” so why would women not enjoy their youth if their loyalty to a man has the risk of being rewarded with being left once he “makes it” wolf of Wall Street style, and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/01/24 07:28 PM |
| 5 | Why do women on this sub often say that they are not attracted to promiscuous men?Im sorry but nope they’re saying OP put the cart before the horse… some people become fuckboys because they have access to all that sex, not because all that sex makes them a fuckboy, they’re not fuckboys the day they’re losing their virginity but rest assured they will become fuckboys if the keep having sex with multiple people at grace emotional risk/damage to those people which they can only do because they’re attractive in the first place, otherwise men would hire hookers to get their body c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/01/24 04:16 AM |
| 2 | Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of menThankssss | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 10:20 PM |
| 3 | Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of menTrue I’m not changing off of one BBC article (I as an African particularly am distrustful of BBC after their continued propaganda against us) but the Yale insights sublinked article about women being judged as less competent is a breakdown of the frontiers sublink within the article about what KPIs people use to determine leadership qualities and how useful those KPIs actually are in determining leadership qualities as opposed to being self selection bias makes a lot of sense to me, if I believe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 03:51 PM |
| 6 | Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of menThank you! If my 2024 keeps going like this… sky’s the limit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 03:21 PM |
| 4 | Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of menI read the data… and I’m not gonna delete my comment but I will recant… I’m not gonna lie I think a lot of it is based on characteristic differences between men and women but I do see how social structures can or do exacerbate those differences and can make a massive difference in peoples lives as time goes forward… “one degree of course on a long enough journey” type of thing so my apologies for any offense caused in that regard | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 03:14 PM |
| 12 | Many women are actually quite distrustful of other women, they just defend the sisterhood in front of men“Due to misogyny” please men face the same pressures and some react in the same way somehow seeing a man as incompetent for doing that is normal but seeing a woman as incompetent for doing that is misogynistic… okay | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/24 02:48 PM |
| 8 | Why do guys take it personally when women see them as a safe option, when guys end up marrying those options as well?Yes yes exactly that, nobody tells women it’s okay to be used for sex but somehow men are supposed to be fine with being used for resources… it’s LITERALLY THAT | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 08:33 PM |
| 2 | Lying to Women is okayBecause when it comes to “making a relationship last” women often encourage the same thing (things like it’s okay to lie about your body count or about sleeping around when you were in the early stages of dating, with the implication that the man could never handle the truth)… but, BUT… this is only for the toxic people on both sides of the isle… neither what he said nor the whataboutism that I just mentioned above are okay, it’s just some people are toxic end of | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/23 11:58 AM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.That wasn’t small talk before sex she just wanted to talk with no sex | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:11 PM |
| 0 | What can older guys do to not feel shortchanged in the dating world, like they say?Please explain how? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 08:26 PM |
| 7 | What can older guys do to not feel shortchanged in the dating world, like they say?The didn’t get to fuck as teens… please stop inferring pedophilia in order to shame people from feeling left out of the high school dance and such | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 07:55 PM |
| 4 | Yes men peak at an older age than women. But that's because most men start at the bottomBecause when you find out what others had you’ll feel short changed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 02:43 PM |
| 1 | CMV : Even if women are more attractive in their 20’s, the attractive ones don’t want you now and definitely won’t want you in your 30’sThe issue is you think that Venn diagram is a circle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/23 05:43 AM |
| 1 | Are average guys really “struggling”?No no, I meant High school science, you never wrote lab reports after experiments? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/23 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Your history is not personal, and any prospective partner should be made aware of itI think the issue most men have is the cognitive dissonance between sufficient repentance and the “it doesn’t matter” attitude, while you may be taught not to openly disclose sins, direct obfuscation (usually in the form or acting as if you were never once the kind of person to sin like that as opposed to acting like you’re reformed) is where people have a slippery relationship with the trutht | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 09:27 PM |
| 4 | Are average guys really “struggling”?Your post history is literally you asking how to get over people minimizing your experience then all your comments in this thread are you perpetuating just such a frame of mind… self awareness at 0 bruh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Are average guys really “struggling”?You’re putting the cart before the horse most men who are outside are self confident and therefore having a blast, that “who” is important because it means it’s not a composition of all men therefore the men you see are this way that doesn’t mean most men are this way | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:57 PM |
| 2 | Are average guys really “struggling”?I have everything you describe I’m working on my masters in machine learning I’m 25 earning low 6 figures… dude we are above avg not avg stop the cap. You know how to filter for bias in reaching a conclusion, we all learnt so in science… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 08:54 PM |
| 1 | What are some examples of hypocrisy? How do you define it?On point one, swing and à miss because it’s hypocritical to find onlyfans creators gross if I too make onlyfans content, however if I watch porn then I must simply be willing to be with someone who also watches porn, I hate how liquor companies make their money but I too drink… if I refused to be with someone who drank alcohol while myself drinking it that would be hypocrisy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/23 05:41 PM |
| – | Is there any benefit to being a traditional woman?Sorry I was drunk I couldn’t math last night lol I understand now lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 03:51 PM |
| – | Is there any benefit to being a traditional woman?1000 dollars per kid per day?? Nahhh who’s got that type of money rn but can’t get their own nanny? That’s at least 20,000 a month, if it’s only week days | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/06/23 07:07 AM |
| – | Men often don’t understand that physical attraction is not optionalYou…. Haven’t been to these places have you, the only difference is, in the west people talk about who they’re sleeping with, trust me it’s everywhere from the village to the big apple | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/05/23 05:05 AM |
| 2 | CMV : To be an attractive man physically is rarer than to be an attractive woman because its how rare the traits are that makes them attractive in a manI think the continent of Africa would disagree with this premise | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/05/23 10:07 PM |
| – | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”Ohh you’re trolling… you almost got me😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 01:28 PM |
| – | CMV: Most men would be content with women at least acknowledging how atrocious dating has become for males, rather than gaslighting them and insisting it was invariably something they were doing wrong or that it was their “personality.”The irony of this comment considering the post is about recognizing that anytime someone has it bad people just turn around and blame them…. You really ran face first into the point and missed it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/23 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Chivalry is not dead, it is just reserved a few very important womenDon’t men (on here at least) lose their shit when women apply their sexuality in a similar manner | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/23 07:11 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Men Have Abhorrent GameAutomod? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 09:05 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Most Men Have Abhorrent GameI’ll say it again… COVID killed men’s ability to talk game more than is spoken about, this isn’t a woman/man problem it’s an I don’t even know how to make male friends so how the fuck do I expect a girlfriend problem!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/23 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Violence should never be expectedHe told you this? Cause that’s not what he told me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:44 AM |
| 3 | Violence should never be expectedHow do you know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Violence should never be expectedHe told me violence is the way tho… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:37 AM |
| 2 | Violence should never be expectedWho’s god? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:34 AM |
| 1 | Violence should never be expectedHow do you stop the human nature to incite violence by telling people not to retaliate if you were sincere would your response not have been “I would not go to Ukraine but rather go to Russia, look Putin in the eye and say “Stop it”” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:33 AM |
| 1 | Violence should never be expectedWho determines what is punishment and what is reward? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:30 AM |
| 3 | Violence should never be expectedBro go to Ukraine but instead of fighting go tell them to face death bravely and see if that will stop the Ruskis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:24 AM |
| 2 | Violence should never be expectedPfft that leaves the world in the hands of those willing to kill innocents to get their way, that’s totally the best way forward… they’ll be better kids raised by the men who kill to get their way defo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:24 AM |
| 5 | Violence should never be expectedLol i know I just got time today aswell 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:20 AM |
| 7 | Violence should never be expectedYour advice is stand there and get killed? Man shut up | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:19 AM |
| 5 | Violence should never be expectedYea how do I conquer a drunk angry man and his friends who I riling him up with “love” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:16 AM |
| 9 | Violence should never be expectedSomeone accosts me in a bar and won’t let me leave they start trying to beat me and blocking the exits with their friends how to I calmly remove myself | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:14 AM |
| 8 | Violence should never be expectedHow do I remove myself calmly from a home invasion? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/23 05:11 AM |
| 1 | Saying you 'shouldn't do X' to improve your dating life because 'chad doesn't have to do X', is like saying you shouldn't take a higher paying job because billionaires exist.Ohh not 100% I 100% advise all my boys to go out and socialize sometimes even without the end game of hooking up, I used to be such a confident kid, like big personality types… I lost all of that due to Covid and my own insecurities being flashed in my face when it came to online dating… I recoiled and I know people esp women can sense that… there is no magic change there is only today, now and how one incremental change can affect tomorrow maybe it’s a beer or maybe it’s a workout… but I’m with… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 02:42 PM |
| 3 | Saying you 'shouldn't do X' to improve your dating life because 'chad doesn't have to do X', is like saying you shouldn't take a higher paying job because billionaires exist.Honestly for most people yea… but I’ve been overweight and gap toothed my whole life, I also have spotty skin form using dollar store soap and lotion… I still got a couple girlfriends but now that I’m 2 months only two months into my self improvement program I notice the difference in how I’m treated and I’m more confident for it which is a positive feedback loop… yes some people are bound by their genetics but seeing that I have a jawline tells me I was lazy not poorly gened(backstory my father… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.I can answer your question if you can tell me what metrics you’d like to use to measure maturity | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 02:26 PM |
| 12 | Saying you 'shouldn't do X' to improve your dating life because 'chad doesn't have to do X', is like saying you shouldn't take a higher paying job because billionaires exist.Yea honestly I was friends with a model in NY like close friends and his DMs were crazy, and depressing but his hard work to keep his figure involved a lot of healthy eating and hygiene habits that taught me what I know today… I’m not bitter but I do understand that by the time I’m done working on myself I’ll have to date 8-10 years down to find the kind of girls who still want to figure themselves out in and out of the bedroom… I’d imagine girls my age 28-32 would not be looking to be with a ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 06:05 AM |
| 1 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Nope but when I was 20 I was in a relationship with a 30 year old… and that worked fine, sometimes people are looking for a fun exploratory relationship not everything needs to lead to marriage | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 06:02 AM |
| 5 | Age gaps don't matter. Attraction does.Yea but age has variation on maturity, there are some 20 year old 30 year olds and some 30 year old 20 year olds, my friend married his wife at 22 and she was 31, they genuinely happy rn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/03/23 05:42 AM |
| 3 | What do you think has lead to a decline in men "putting themselves out there"?My guy I’m a man who thinks women have gotten a bit ridiculous in how they think this whole meetoo thing has gotten a bit out of hand but… WHAT!!! “The term rape was coined”… my guy you make it sound like desire is supposed to be negotiable in the context of sex… and secondly if your wife no longer wants to have sex, leave..(I believe the energy men expend should be better served making it easier to leave a marriage that is not satisfactory as opposed to making women have sex undesirably) and th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/02/23 03:10 AM |
| 7 | What do you think has lead to a decline in men "putting themselves out there"?Or marry you off to avoid social stigma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 11:40 PM |
| 11 | What do you think has lead to a decline in men "putting themselves out there"?No they just couldn’t say anything because rape didn’t exist… neither did consent.. it’s a good thing it exists now but it’s easily weaponisable and people haven’t yet begun to act like it is when someone is accused they’re socially guilty even when they’re legally innocent so men aren’t risking it anymore | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/23 10:26 PM |
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