Africanlies Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
16	What are your thoughts on r/againstmensright?	General	Africanlies	/r/MensRights	22/11/20 07:18 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	100 Disadvantages of being a man. Looking for comments Didn't mean to put "you", that was bad on my part,but yeee I'm still waiting like this is an actual genuine question...	/r/MensRights	23/11/20 08:44 AM
4	What are your thoughts on r/againstmensright? Incel problem how?	/r/MensRights	22/11/20 07:43 PM
0	What are your thoughts on r/againstmensright? I guess so...	/r/MensRights	22/11/20 07:40 AM
4	What are your thoughts on r/againstmensright? its an interesting find, kind of states MRA just has a victim mentality, and I guess also infers men don't have problems... but it mostly focuses on this sub's posts. Or to be more precise knit picks and then says misogyny.	/r/MensRights	22/11/20 07:38 AM
-1	Posted on International Mens Day, the rest of the comments are just as bad or worse technically raising women to an equal ground of men, if that makes sense, idk but that's how I usually interpret it	/r/MensRights	22/11/20 06:56 AM
3	My opinion on the whole Harry Styles controversy - kinda wanted to share it w/ all This is a digression, but I don't think traditional masculinity or feminity is the purge of the earth, I mean every culture had their own versions of it. Like I can see why certain aspects of it are bad, but when I think traditional masculine, I think hard working dependable and strong, sure there is the aspect of not showing or expressing emotions which is terrible, but I've seen alot of people kinda term that traditional masculinity is toxic masculinity...I feel we need to move past labeling s…	/r/MensRights	19/11/20 11:11 AM
0	Is being a woman harder than being a man? I have my opinion and wanted to read yours. Idk I think that's overly simplified, Id think if I was a criminal I'd probably go after a woman more than a man. Also gang violence tends to be a thing mostly men partake in, than women. I wouldn't call these victimization, I think pointing out all factors that lead to men being assaulted more is a dope way to tackle certain issues.	/r/MensRights	14/11/20 07:48 PM
-4	Is being a woman harder than being a man? I have my opinion and wanted to read yours. But let's try explain the statistic, is it cause men have less fear of walking alone especially in dangerous places? Thus are more likely to get attacked?	/r/MensRights	13/11/20 06:38 PM
1	An Example of Misandry and Self-Hatred: "Do We Even Need Men?" But here's another point I just thought of, I think there are certain jobs people don't do because of choice but the need for money. Like being maid or a garbage man, so maybe comparing it to nursing isn't the best example...	/r/MensRights	13/11/20 12:02 PM
2	An Example of Misandry and Self-Hatred: "Do We Even Need Men?" Tbh I know this is a hot take, but how many women choose to work at construction, plumbing, security. I don't work these jobs as a man, but I think they are extremely physically tasking, and why I wouldn't do them, is it wrong to think most people, or even more specifically women wouldn't want to work these jobs, otherwise it would be more like how nursing is(where women are the majority). Atleast that's my take from his comment...I would say don't assume what the other gender wants tho. These h…	/r/MensRights	13/11/20 06:04 AM
1	What my boyfriend thinks about MRM. Well not exactly, cause remember also the whole allegation thing, like compared to being beaten up, being called a rapist can pretty much end most of your relationships...I think it's right to be wary of certain people in certain places, and sadly it's usually men who are the robbers. Like how often would you be robbed by a woman at night, unless maybe she spiked your drink. I wouldn't say it's particularly a bad outlook but more of just a warning of certain people, cause I've even gotten warnin…	/r/MensRights	10/11/20 01:25 PM
2	What my boyfriend thinks about MRM. Rape allegations could happen if you are alone anywhere with a woman, and as young man more likely to be stopped by a cop, especially here in Africa they really do it often, sorry I was quite unclear 😅. But like my main point is, like men don't particularly have one bad outlook of one sex, compared to women. like when I walk on the street at night I ain't gonna lie I'm probably way more afraid of another man than a random woman.	/r/MensRights	10/11/20 11:09 AM
2	What my boyfriend thinks about MRM. But also high student debt in universities and courses that don't exactly help... I think the roi for trade school is much higher than some if not most courses in universities....	/r/MensRights	10/11/20 07:13 AM
3	What my boyfriend thinks about MRM. For number 1, I have an interesting theory, I think it's cause women in general have an object of fear which is men. My friend was telling me about it yesterday, like how if a woman walks down the street she will be wary of men. As for men, walking down the street you can't be just afraid of everyone, you kinda gotta suck it up and keep on moving, if a false rape allegation comes up, or if you are stopped by the policeman as you are walking home, you just gotta stick through it	/r/MensRights	10/11/20 06:53 AM
1	Just exhausted with the word patriarchy. It doesn’t exist.Its more like The Excuse-chiarchy. Men are are not organizing themselves to prevent women from being equal. By contrast we are waiting for the major of them to accept equality. Yo this ain't cool g	/r/MensRights	31/10/20 09:57 AM
2	Just exhausted with the word patriarchy. It doesn’t exist.Its more like The Excuse-chiarchy. Men are are not organizing themselves to prevent women from being equal. By contrast we are waiting for the major of them to accept equality. Have you actually gone through this sub, or just don't care about men? Honest question... Cause to say men have no issues, then the next day as a feminist go talk about "toxic" masculinity in order to "help" men, I find that disingenuous of you, but that's just an assumption though, maybe you don't buy into the rhetoric of toxic masculinity either. Though I want to know what criteria do you use to state whether something is an issue? is it inequality or certain disparities? if yes then wouldn't …	/r/MensRights	31/10/20 09:57 AM
2	“Men’s problems created by men” Fr???????	/r/MensRights	31/10/20 09:29 AM
1	Today I told a woman who was constantly interrupting me to stop talking and it felt wonderful Oh wait nvm I dig what you are saying. I thought op was just talking about more or less of situations about the whole "manterrupting" rather than shitting on the thread... So just raising a problem I guess?	/r/MensRights	30/10/20 09:54 PM
2	“Men’s problems created by men” Didn't everyone have male advisors?	/r/MensRights	30/10/20 09:35 PM
3	Today I told a woman who was constantly interrupting me to stop talking and it felt wonderful You know the whole "manterrupting" thing? Yee baisically stating men would interrupt you because you are woman. Atleast this is what I'm thinking she is talking a bout and a couple of women have this same feeling of freedom from the male oppressors, when they tell them to shut up, not that women don't interrupt women, or women don't interrupt men, so it's like generalizing one side I guess...you dig?	/r/MensRights	30/10/20 08:56 AM
2	Today I told a woman who was constantly interrupting me to stop talking and it felt wonderful Just joinedddd I already like the whole shuffle thing	/r/MensRights	30/10/20 08:36 AM
4	“Men’s problems created by men” Wait we were matriacal at which point?	/r/MensRights	30/10/20 04:22 AM
4	“Men’s problems created by men” So every achievement by a queen was also in that note not done by them but a man, cause male advisor am I right?	/r/MensRights	29/10/20 07:43 AM
11	“Men’s problems created by men” I mean the patriarchy isn't a recent term it's been there for years.... Feminism is an ideology, and in order to grow to strength in any ideology there needs to be some sort of enemy, in this case men. The whole premise of feminism is usually if not always, that men are the oppressors and women are the oppressed. Feminism for better or worse has definitely brought light into women's issues, but definitely not fighting for any sort of equality otherwise it would raise men's issues just as high. T…	/r/MensRights	28/10/20 09:05 AM
2	“Men’s problems created by men” Bruh what's wrong with women generally not being interested in stem? like we don't seem to find it wrong for men not to be really interested in humanities. It's probably just the way we are wired, at the end it all comes down to interest and passion, both are the main reasons anyone would do what they do.	/r/MensRights	28/10/20 06:43 AM
20	“Men’s problems created by men” But notions of patriarchy are carried by all feminists, even the moderate ones....	/r/MensRights	28/10/20 06:23 AM
2	It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discrimination Which leads to another question then why the female focused scholarships...? You know that feels like donating to a millionaire...	/r/MensRights	22/10/20 08:22 AM
1	It is now males, rather than females, who suffer the vast majority of institutional discrimination I really want the stats and research papers for this, anyone know where I can find them?	/r/MensRights	22/10/20 08:15 AM
0	100 Disadvantages of being a man. Looking for comments Well you were forced to serve in the armed forces, what do you mean pay equality? Are you talking about the wage gap?	/r/MensRights	06/10/20 08:44 AM
1	100 Disadvantages of being a man. Looking for comments Explain further...	/r/MensRights	06/10/20 07:53 AM
10	Rights that men don't have (but women have) bruh you should go through this sub more, I have learned alot... For one toxic masculinity is one of the most disgusting statements, how do you even describe something as wide and beautiful as masculinity with a single adjective, isn't masculinity and femininity a spectrum. Cause look at how that word sounds, it makes it sound like masculinity is bad, what does even toxic mean, does it mean everything or somethings, and what things, it doesnt help at all. I think one of the best ways to help peo…	/r/MensRights	27/09/20 12:01 AM
0	Women could, and did, own property and have rights throughout most of history. The idea that women were "second class citizens" compared to men is a gross mischaracterization, the origins of which have effectively been debunked. Ok ok pause, I'm saying there are more male leaders through out history, Like I'm not speaking collectively, I'm just stating a fact. Then I stated it wasn't cause they were just men. I feel like you completely missed my point for no reason. Or are you still complaining about the one on the top? And what makes a collectivists view of the world stupid? You may state that we never were there, but what if you as group still face the same issues or even issues rn, you could try look at yourselves in…	/r/MensRights	20/09/20 07:34 AM
-1	Women could, and did, own property and have rights throughout most of history. The idea that women were "second class citizens" compared to men is a gross mischaracterization, the origins of which have effectively been debunked. Ahhh it explains your reply, my baddd. Anyways but is he wrong though? men through out history have held high positions of power, not being collective it's just fact, which Isn't because they are just men ofcourse, but through a collective of reasons. Though sometimes literally just because they are men, like most royal families, but even that changed. So my point is baisically we can't ignore that we have lived through patriarchies, but not the ones feminism usually states, as there is more at …	/r/MensRights	18/09/20 10:32 AM
-4	Women could, and did, own property and have rights throughout most of history. The idea that women were "second class citizens" compared to men is a gross mischaracterization, the origins of which have effectively been debunked. we as in humanity, or you don't consider yourself human?	/r/MensRights	17/09/20 12:44 PM
1	I'm gonna get hella downvoted for this... I thought the same thing too, but from what Ive seen, and experienced, radical feminist ideologies seem to be mainstream more than we think. This is a hot take, but people usually demonize criticisms on liberal ideologies, and feminism is an ideology in need of criticism. A big play in this is cognitive dissonance where alot of people in said belief see it as truly virtuos, is it though? Even though this sub has alot of negatives to feminism, how many platforms have negative thoughts on feminism…	/r/MensRights	16/09/20 12:50 PM
-1	Equality is not equality is you only care about half of the population true cause I've never actually seen it a lot, maybe the algorithms are against it, maybe, but I agree with you bro, but from what Ive read so far, mra has already been labled anti women, so I guess its much harder to get it out there. Although usually in womens issues men are always the villain, and I guess why people raise mens issues at that time is because men should never be painted in one dimension, neither should women.	/r/MensRights	11/09/20 05:48 PM
1	The official United Nations account just posted this ... Like this is called splitting, and it is used by all ideologies. Like people become defensive or extremely provoked when their ideology is attacked or when approached by another ideology, basically a defensive mechanism to their innate beliefs. I think we need to learn how to attack certain ideas and see whether the idea still stands and do not see ourselves as the idea, I don't think feminism is sexism though.	/r/MensRights	08/09/20 09:47 PM