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| 20 | Sedditors, if you're already out at a club/bar and you find yourself falling out of state, what do you do to get yourself back into state? | AfroSamuraii | /r/seduction | 25/04/13 06:41 PM | |
| 1 | Keeping in touch with women that you can't visit often. | AfroSamuraii | /r/seduction | 06/11/12 06:49 PM |
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| 1 | Quitting MasturbationI support this idea, however to add, set a goal for yourself, say 90 days. That way you have something to look forward too instead of some ambiguous goal. | /r/seduction | 19/01/15 03:52 PM |
| 2 | The lessons I learned trying to help my female friend pickup a quality manOP is so fucking salty | /r/seduction | 08/01/15 04:05 PM |
| 3 | I'm 25, my friends are gone and I now spend most of my time alone. I'm not liking this. What do I do?From my experience the best way to find new friends is to do the things you like to do, hobbies and what not, and meet new people that way. Just as important, be the friend that you want for yourself. The best way to get invited to do things is to set something up and get in the habit of inviting people. Eventually the invitations will be reciprocated | /r/seduction | 08/08/14 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Seddit is losing its focusTo YOU getting a number may not seem like a field report but try and express some empathy with the people who are trying to share their experience. Perhaps they started at a point where simply talking to a girl would leave them crippled in fear and now they were able to push themselves to the point of actually getting a number. That's HUGE. Any step forward should be celebrated and cherished to some degree, pushing yourself to that next level is what this subreddit is about. F-Closing is only a … | /r/seduction | 30/04/14 03:58 PM |
| 4 | Focus on the things that matter and everything will fall into place.Awesome stuff, I submitted to /r/bestof | /r/seduction | 21/03/14 03:33 PM |
| 1 | a good way to tell her friends that shes coming with you for the night?I don't know where I remember reading this, I think on /r/seduction somewhere. However, to alleviate the tensions, give her friends your phone number also so they can contact you directly if need be. | /r/seduction | 19/03/14 07:45 PM |
| 1 | I am a bartender and I am going to try and get my first number tonight. Help me.Getting the number itself is only the Cherry on top. You should focus more on being outcome independent, do what you're going to do because you want to do it. Step out of comfort zone and if you get shot down, don't take it hard. Instead, cherish the moment that you had the courage to even ask. Any step forward is progress no matter how small. I definitely recommend reading Daring Greatly by Brene Brown, it seems as though you should start with learning to love yourself and learning to be vulner… | /r/seduction | 05/03/14 05:43 PM |
| 2 | What's a good response to "I'm out of your league"?I disagree to a certain extent. There are many different "flavors" of this line, "You probably wouldn't be able to keep up with me" comes to mind. However, what's more important is how they're saying it. If they say it with a smirk/smile it's definitely a form of playful banter. If they say it and immediately turn their back in a disgusted/bitchy manner, then just leave it and walk away. No need for a "comeback". Assuming the former, I'd say, "I was just about to say the same to you" or "I'm sur… | /r/seduction | 19/02/14 04:34 PM |
| 1 | A Neurotic Introvert's Guide to Seduction Part IIYessss he's back again | /r/seduction | 21/11/13 07:30 PM |
| 6 | 7 Habits of Highly Miserable Twenty-SomethingsThis whole thing applies to me, some more problematic than others, but I'm definitely guilty. I've definitely made improvements over the years but it's hard for me to not beat myself up since I'm always focused on what I'm doing wrong. I need to learn how to slow down a appreciate how far I've come so far. | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 04:04 PM |
| 6 | 7 Habits of Highly Miserable Twenty-SomethingsMuch appreciated, thanks. | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 03:45 PM |
| 11 | 7 Habits of Highly Miserable Twenty-SomethingsThe site is block at work, can someone post the text here? | /r/seduction | 28/10/13 03:32 PM |
| 1 | A Neurotic Introvert's Guide to SeductionThis post is GOLD, thank you so much. | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 10:16 PM |
| 1 | A Neurotic Introvert's Guide to SeductionYAY! My username applies :D | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 10:15 PM |
| 5 | A Neurotic Introvert's Guide to SeductionDefinitely worth stickying. Great insight on how to play to our strengths and not trying to mold ourselves into something we're not. | /r/seduction | 17/10/13 10:14 PM |
| 0 | Girl flirts and suggests that we go out every time I see her, but won't commit to anything. I text her to make plans and she's always busy. What does it all mean?Sounds like an attention whore | /r/seduction | 07/10/13 04:57 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Met a HB9 model in class. #-close. Part 1/3 if you guys are interested in more.Well that's good! Light touches is where you want to be when you're in that type of environment. | /r/seduction | 04/10/13 05:51 PM |
| 15 | [FR] Met a HB9 model in class. #-close. Part 1/3 if you guys are interested in more.I'd definitely like more of this FR, Seddit is one of those places where I don't mind a wall of text, especially if it's formatted in an easy to read manner. Regarding your actual report, some things you want to include are not just what you said but any intentional physical contact and body language. I know you did mention some, but being more specific wouldn't hurt. However, based on the information in the report I'd say good job overall. It seems as though you didn't let her attractiveness af… | /r/seduction | 04/10/13 04:35 PM |
| 2 | '[FR]' - Tinder Blind Date HB7. F-Close. Text Game + Date.Ok fuck you then, im not gonna throw away my candy its fucking good. So Good! Excellent FR, easy to read. Thanks for your contribution. | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 06:36 PM |
| 3 | Please help with DHV routines and why inner game is mainly useless for noobsI agree with you on the point that confidence can stem from a successful track record, but definitely not all of it. If someone's confidence is based solely on the outcomes of each approach, you're in for a rough ride. | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Please help with DHV routines and why inner game is mainly useless for noobsOP, could you please provide me with your definition of inner game? I feel like I'm missing something and I don't want to make any assumptions. | /r/seduction | 28/06/13 05:46 PM |
| 5 | The "What's your job" shit test and why you may be failing it.I don't think it can be that "clean cut". It could be equally be possible that she's trying to build rapport with me or trying to keep conversation flowing. | /r/seduction | 27/06/13 09:37 PM |
| 17 | The "What's your job" shit test and why you may be failing it.How is someone asking, "What do you do?" or "What is your job?" a shit test? I can understand why gold-diggers or people with ulterior motives would ask this. However, I highly doubt that every time a woman asks this question is as a "shit test". It seems like a normal question to ask in casual conversation. | /r/seduction | 27/06/13 07:51 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Defusing ASD and LMR, F-closeExcellent FR! Nice formatting and really easy to read. I personally would like you to post more, there's always something to learn from a solid FR. My only suggestion would be to start kino immediately next time you meet someone. Don't go "all out" right away, but getting the impression that you're a "touchy" person right off the bat makes escalation for later easier. | /r/seduction | 06/06/13 06:33 PM |
| 1 | Girls’re just as lonely and frustrated as we are. They want to meet a guy. But not just a guy, a great guy....Well like I asked before, do you know what areas you need work on? If you can't identify where you're making mistakes, how are you going to improve? Personally, I have issues with my tonality as maintaining strong eye contact. Furthermore, number closing for me hasn't really been an issue for me. However, I've been noticing that when I try to set up dates that they're not as responsive as I'd like them to be or it's almost like I have to convince them to come out. Based on that, I've identified … | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 08:17 PM |
| 1 | Girls’re just as lonely and frustrated as we are. They want to meet a guy. But not just a guy, a great guy....Well in regards with women, how often do you go out? Do you know what areas you need to work on? What is causing you to not succeed as well as you think you should be? I remember from Models, the best way to sustain consistency with women (or anything really) is by working on one thing at a time over and over until you're comfortable in your own ability to do it aka confidence. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 07:44 PM |
| 2 | Girls’re just as lonely and frustrated as we are. They want to meet a guy. But not just a guy, a great guy....Did you actually do the things it says to do? Are you working out, eating right, finding your style of dress, doing interesting things, etc.? It's not going to be an overnight change, it's something you're going to have to work at. Life is a constant journey of self-improvement. As long as you're better than the person you were yesterday, you're on the right track. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 06:36 PM |
| 0 | Girls’re just as lonely and frustrated as we are. They want to meet a guy. But not just a guy, a great guy....Read Models by Mark Mason. That book is seriously life changing. | /r/seduction | 03/06/13 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Immediately friendzoned - shit test or lost cause?Burn it to the ground. It's fun when girls are playing the game as well it makes the flirting way more intense. Just make sure she's investing more than you are. I honestly think this is salvageable, good luck and make sure to give us an update. | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 04:28 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Failure is Fun #1 My first day in the field, a whole lot of failure, a whole lot of learning.That's awesome! The first step is definitely one of the hardest and I sincerely congratulate you for putting your nuts on the chopping block. I highly highly highly recommend reading Models by Mark Manson. That book will help you get the right perspective on so many different aspects of seduction and personal development. Personally I'm starting to realize that it's important to commend yourself for putting yourself out there as well as identify areas of improvement. Life is a constant journey o… | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 02:48 PM |
| 6 | My Own Personal Guide: How to develop a high value and persuasive personalityExcellent Post! Thanks your for input and insight. | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Immediately friendzoned - shit test or lost cause?Low-key, sounds like she seduced you...not even low-key. I was reading through her responses, I thought they were yours! It seems as though she put you in frame instead of the other way around. She definitely knows what she's doing, she understands the game. That definitely makes it more fun. Has there been any other interaction since? Any Updates? | /r/seduction | 22/05/13 02:29 PM |
| 3 | How do you pump yourself up on nights you're just not feeling it?There's a TED talk about the relationship between body language and how you're feeling. Link provided HERE essentially what you're feeling is portrayed through your body language, however the inverse is true as well. If you force your body into a position that exudes confidence, the way that you feel will soon follow suit. Aside from this I've been known to look in a mirror and constantly ask myself "Who's the shit?" and respond with "You're the shit." It always makes me laugh and puts me in a b… | /r/seduction | 21/05/13 08:24 PM |
| 14 | Help! Picked up a ten on thursday now what ?Isn't this the reason why we kino? Doesn't really matter the setting or activity as long as we keep up on the kino. | /r/seduction | 17/05/13 04:08 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My best pick up. Insight and Story.Thanks for delivering. | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 08:25 PM |
| 0 | An Incredibly Powerful Technique to Get Any Girl To Follow You Around a RoomFUCK YEA, I'm going to try this on next time I go out | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 07:50 PM |
| 2 | Gents, what's the best way to approach a girl in a non typical/convenient scenario? Ladies, what has worked on you?"Hi can I have a moment of your time to discuss our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ?" LMAO, Now I have spit on my screen | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 07:46 PM |
| 5 | What advice would you guys give to a 15 year old who wants to really work on his inner game and mainly do daygame?I'd recommend reading Models by Mark Mason. It gives really good insight on building a solid foundation. Things such as to being true to yourself, and being genuine. The first time I started reading it I went through the first 200 pages in one sitting. It's definitely worth the investment. | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 05:55 PM |
| 9 | [FR] My best pick up. Insight and Story.OP, you posted the dialogue of your interaction with this girl (thanks!), but would you mind providing info on your kino-escalation throughout the interaction as well? | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 05:51 PM |
| 3 | [FR] My best pick up. Insight and Story.Don't forget, it's delivery more than anything! | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 05:49 PM |
| 7 | [FR] My best pick up. Insight and Story.That shit made me smile, good job! | /r/seduction | 16/05/13 05:49 PM |
| 5 | Challenge of the week! Week 1My weapon of choice for this challenge...using my hands offering to play rock paper scissors. | /r/seduction | 13/05/13 04:18 PM |
| 1 | Billy's Guide to Shit TestsI really like this perspective. | /r/seduction | 10/05/13 04:25 PM |
| 2 | My first "date"LOL at "dubsteps" | /r/seduction | 08/05/13 02:26 PM |
| 16 | Above The Game Part 6: Logistics (getting the number, texting, setting up dates, etc.)Dude, I'm craving the rest of this series more than episodes of The Walking Dead... stop being such a tease | /r/seduction | 06/05/13 11:16 PM |
| 34 | Above The Game Part 5: Flirting, Touch & ConversationYES, I've been waiting for these. | /r/seduction | 01/05/13 09:44 PM |
| 11 | Sedditors, if you're already out at a club/bar and you find yourself falling out of state, what do you do to get yourself back into state?Don't downvote but I play dota :) | /r/seduction | 25/04/13 09:44 PM |
| 104 | [FR] Field Report: Coffee shop daytime approach parlayed into insta-date10/10 Would Read AGAIN! The second I read "Plant the idea of us as a couple - Inception mothafucka, do you speak it?" LOL I started dying. If you don't mind me asking what's the age range of the both of you? | /r/seduction | 29/11/12 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Tested. 100% Success Rate. Quite possibly the best "Flake Preventer" text ever.I think on #3 when she said I just feel bad if I can only stay for half an hour or something is the reason WHY she wanted to reschedule, so she would be able to hang out longer | /r/seduction | 01/11/12 05:29 PM |
| 2 | I overcame the "I have a boyfriend" barrier. I have officially stepped up my game.I know I got this line from a post here on seddit, but I really like saying "Hold on now, I've only known you for 5 minutes and you're already telling me about your problems?" In a jokingly manner of course. I like OP's line, it's an indirect compliment and something that could easily said with nonchalant tone of voice | /r/seduction | 15/10/12 02:54 PM |
| 1 | How can I distinguish myself when at a bar or a party?From my experience I found that, genuinely having fun works best. Act and behave like you belong there, becuase you do. When you walk into a party, start giving random people high-fives and fun handshakes, people will just notice. In addition to this I'd say have high energy, now when I say this I don't mean crazy over the top energy, but when you're talking with a group of people bring to the table slightly more energy than there was before you got there. | /r/seduction | 08/10/12 02:54 PM |
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