Afrodezi Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Why do girls ghost ? It's unreasonable to ask somebody to tell potentially hundreds of people every day exactly why they don't like them. Especially considering that people can absolutely blow up at them if they do and call them all sorts of shitty things. If the girl is even somewhat attractive what you're asking them to do becomes completely selfish. Just move on and forget about it.	/r/seduction	25/04/19 02:37 AM
2	I’m convinced that my looks are what holds me back from doing well with women. How should I even continue wanting to go outside. Then it’s probably going to be key both in building your self confidence/talk and your dating disadvantage (in whatever form it exists in).	/r/seduction	08/09/18 05:16 AM
3	I hate getting ghosted on tinder, so I just usually tell girls to unmatch me if they are done with me, and they seem to have a problem with this. Cool	/r/seduction	01/09/18 07:39 AM
9	I hate getting ghosted on tinder, so I just usually tell girls to unmatch me if they are done with me, and they seem to have a problem with this. I am a man 🤨 So instead of being tragic listen to feedback. 🤷🏾‍♀️	/r/seduction	01/09/18 07:17 AM
5	I hate getting ghosted on tinder, so I just usually tell girls to unmatch me if they are done with me, and they seem to have a problem with this. I generally enjoy doing things that aren’t an absolute waste of time. Like telling every person I’ve ever matched with that they are A. Are boring. B. Don’t have chemistry with me or C. They don’t have interest so I’m ending early. One of those apply to your situation but I’ll leave you to figure it out on your own _^	/r/seduction	01/09/18 06:55 AM
17	I hate getting ghosted on tinder, so I just usually tell girls to unmatch me if they are done with me, and they seem to have a problem with this. Lol. Just dig up your pride from underneath that desperation and unmatch them mate. Ghosting is a thing on tinder and that isn’t going to change anytime soon. So adapt or continue to fail 👍🏾	/r/seduction	01/09/18 06:00 AM
30	I hate getting ghosted on tinder, so I just usually tell girls to unmatch me if they are done with me, and they seem to have a problem with this. Well.... yeah. You’re acting SUPER salty when you say that 😂 Especially since its a given. Because you can... I don’t know... DO IT YOURSELF? 😂 What you’ve found is an A grade turn off. Stop doing it and just unmatch yourself 🤷🏾‍♀️	/r/seduction	01/09/18 05:22 AM
1	Risk adverse because dating is basically terrible for me No its really not. I don't know how you got it into your head that it was ever a question to treat them like people. You got issues man. INCEL issues. I'm done here.	/r/seduction	28/08/18 01:06 AM
1	Risk adverse because dating is basically terrible for me Really? Because all I've seen you do is realize you're not good at talking online and just giving up. How do you improve on something if you're not getting matches? Simple. Post your profile on here and get feedback. Show your friends. Rewrite your BIO, take better photos. Maybe tell people the actual problem you're trying to address? Instead of sitting by yourself wondering why this isn't working for 5 years. Just a thought Relating to people? No. You're just making observations and asking ques…	/r/seduction	28/08/18 01:01 AM
1	Risk adverse because dating is basically terrible for me Not every clever response is going to get an answer and considering you haven't shared any of them here I'm beginning to doubt that they were that clever in the first place.	/r/seduction	28/08/18 12:40 AM
–	Risk adverse because dating is basically terrible for me You don't want help, you don't reflect then improve and you cant take rejection well. You want to be boring and successful on tinder, which probably ain't gonna happen at your rate. If "how long have you been into X sport" is the best that you can do after 5 years then you haven't been BOTHERING for 5 years.	/r/seduction	28/08/18 12:38 AM
1	Risk adverse because dating is basically terrible for me Too bland. If another guy says the sane thing she’ll just go with the better looking guy and move on. They sound so risk averse it’s actually hurting you.	/r/seduction	28/08/18 12:19 AM
1	Risk adverse because dating is basically terrible for me Being risk averse and dating really don’t go with each other. Also based on your opening lines they sound pretty bland. If you think from a girls perspective they might be getting 3-5 opening messages just like that one every week! Week after week. Why would she respond to a 1 “of 5 message when she can respond to 1 “in” 100s?	/r/seduction	28/08/18 12:17 AM
1	Risk adverse because dating is basically terrible for me You literally broke down everything I said into chunks and focused on what cant help. Rendering the advice not only useless but the conversation redundant. What was I supposed to follow up with? More advice for you to reject? Advice to a problem you clearly haven’t shared? You killed the conversation with your negativity dude. Exhaustion is one thing. But girls not responding was the underlying issue. One which you didn’t really share till now.	/r/seduction	28/08/18 12:05 AM
1	Risk adverse because dating is basically terrible for me Might be your opening lines. What do you generally go with?	/r/seduction	28/08/18 12:00 AM
1	Risk adverse because dating is basically terrible for me It is something you do need to work on. As Tinder is only online. But you seem self aware enough that it shouldn’t be an issue for long 👍🏾	/r/seduction	27/08/18 11:46 PM
–	Risk adverse because dating is basically terrible for me Your post sounds like you gave up. And not in a good way, but an exhausted way. So yes taking care of yourself if that is the case is important 💪🏾 You don’t see what they have to do with one another? The suggestions help both your body/confidence and your mindset. Which would help you stop giving up. Hell take the way you responded to this post. You could of lit it up with a bit of humor or brushed the advice aside with a joke. Instead you chose to be combative about it when “nah I’m already on …	/r/seduction	27/08/18 11:17 PM
–	Risk adverse because dating is basically terrible for me Sounds like you should be looking after yourself instead of for a partner. Go to the gym. Eat healthy and watch a few comedies to bring you back into the right mindset. Then try again and share your newfound energy ✌🏾	/r/seduction	27/08/18 10:59 PM
3	Girl I’ve been texting for 3 weeks says she sees the potential of a relationship yet states she has a lot to figure out! She says I’m a good person and she doesn’t wanna lose me. I get the feeling like she’s saying all this to politely reject me! Should I just stop texting her? From the way he is currently heading it’s safe to suggest he doesn’t know that rule (or isn’t seriously adhereing to it) 😂	/r/seduction	02/07/18 10:51 PM
5	Girl I’ve been texting for 3 weeks says she sees the potential of a relationship yet states she has a lot to figure out! She says I’m a good person and she doesn’t wanna lose me. I get the feeling like she’s saying all this to politely reject me! Should I just stop texting her? Yes you should stop texting her or at the very least stop chasing her. The reason you want to do so is simple. If you’ll always be there you’re like emergency rations. Nobody eats emergency rations because its always there “in case you need it”. You need to be a perishable item or an opportunity to be taken/lost. Because between emergency rations and perishable fruits we both know what gets eaten first. Be the fruit ✌🏾 I’m also not saying that she’s not worth waiting for. I’m just saying that th…	/r/seduction	02/07/18 10:11 PM
2	Girl I’ve been texting for 3 weeks says she sees the potential of a relationship yet states she has a lot to figure out! She says I’m a good person and she doesn’t wanna lose me. I get the feeling like she’s saying all this to politely reject me! Should I just stop texting her? Because based on those comments she aint sleeping with her backup plan. Which he now is. Just hanging around hoping that she eventually thinks that your worth dropping panties for is a terrible idea. “I’m not saying that she’s not worth waiting for. I’m just saying that there’s better ways to wait” 👌🏾	/r/seduction	02/07/18 10:06 PM
2	Experience on doing Tinder hardmode One thing I learned to do is prepare stories to talk about before we meet. Weird and interesting things they could connect with too 👌🏾 Never did a run like yours though 😅	/r/seduction	02/07/18 02:51 PM
5	Made out with 2 girls that are best friends, what to do? If it were me I’d follow up with something fun and flirty with the one you like. And address it clearly if it ever came up between you all. Otherwise I’d leave it and make my intentions known through action 👌🏾	/r/seduction	01/07/18 02:01 PM
1	Tips for a Late Bloomer Anytime	/r/seduction	30/06/18 07:42 PM
6	Tips for a Late Bloomer How to tell if she wants the in? Body language mostly. There’s the biting of the lip which is a clear giveaway, her physical proximity to you, how much she allows you to touch her body (thigh, waist, back etc.). Then there’s your flirting/banter. If you’re lowering your voice to whisper dirty things in her ear to her delight then.... you’re in. Usually she’d say whether or not she’d enjoy it or drop basic verbal hints at that point “maybe you’ll get lucky too”. Keep in mind that this is not all …	/r/seduction	30/06/18 07:36 PM
3	Tips for a Late Bloomer My favorite is Pjur Aqua for Waterbased lubes. “Wet stuff” silicone lubes are rather good as well. Also fyi. Silicone lubes last longer than waterbased. So get used to reapplying waterbased more frequently than silicone ones 👍🏾	/r/seduction	30/06/18 05:19 PM
3	Date Asked if She Could Bring a Friend If you live somewhere really cool you can even go to cat yoga classes or movie nights 😎 Never tried them those though 🤷🏾‍♀️	/r/seduction	30/06/18 03:57 PM
4	Date Asked if She Could Bring a Friend Difficult in that case. Maybe take them to a cat cafe? Let the cats substitute for your lack of friend instead?	/r/seduction	30/06/18 03:53 PM
5	Date Asked if She Could Bring a Friend Bring a friend. It’s probably not going to be a cute date so make it a fun group event/day or whatever.	/r/seduction	30/06/18 03:48 PM
1	How do you deal with rejection and / or condescending guys attempting to assert their alpha status Easy. Talk to multiple girls at once. If one says no it’s really not that big a deal. If she’s going to be like that just move onto somebody else. Moving on and being wanted/dating other girls can be very attractive to some of the ones who rejected initially. (Not that I recommend ever going back.) Talk to them slowly and confidently. Disregard their bragging (shrug, nod and say cool). And in general end the conversation early. Don’t waste your time standing around and being nice.	/r/seduction	30/06/18 03:41 PM
6	Tips for a Late Bloomer Have lots of lube! Don’t use it sparingly! If you’re touching her lower body she’s gonna appreciate lube👌🏾 Foreplay isn’t skippable early. Enjoy it. And use lube to rub her if you’re being really hot and heavy. Silicon based lubes damage condoms they’re not specifically made to be used with. Make sure you buy compatible lubes +condoms. (Water based lubes lack this issue). Easy way to break the touching barrier is by tickling the girl. Then cuddling or backscratching. Massages also work well 👌🏾 M…	/r/seduction	30/06/18 03:33 PM
1	How uniform is womens taste in men? They’re not uniform and you shouldn’t assume to know what a woman wants. It just holds you back. Exhibit A -Frozen Peas. And if rolling on frozen vegetables tickles someone’s fancy. Can you honestly assume what else someone might like? https://www.sbs.com.au/topics/sexuality/agenda/article/2017/02/14/50-things-women-think-about-when-masturbating	/r/seduction	12/06/18 01:36 PM