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DebateAfruca-tangeri/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:36 AM
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Crazy that your opinion is in the minority
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 01:08 PM
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I joined purple pill for balance. Feels much more weighted towards red pill. I will choose to believe there is bias here. There is no way this is reflective of peoples beliefs
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:09 AM
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Perhaps I’m lucky but the woman I know are at least as interesting and fun to be around as the men I know
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 11:07 AM
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Damn that was stark. That’s how I would have phrased it if I wasn’t trying to be diplomatic. The consensus is that everyone agrees including red pill men. However they take offence to the idea of even thinking of woman as friends. Holy fuck this sun isn’t representive of real life. I think in reality it’s much closer to what you describe. I just think it’s really tragic
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:01 AM
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Interesting. Thanks for sharing. Don’t you think it’s possible a woman could do those things?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:55 AM
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Alternatively because you are friends there are things you both want to do together. I’m being obtuse and I get your point. I’m just trying to reinforce that the compromise doesn’t always have to be as stated especially if you are both in tune with ea bother
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:52 AM
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Fair choice
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:38 AM
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Utterly depressing. I’d have thought that choosing who you share your life with would be a priority
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:34 AM
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Many of the people I’ve chatted to are not teenagers but men with wives! Even more saddening. Without a lens I’ve just asked why men arnt more freindly with their partners. It’s not even necessarily political. I’ve had some baffling responses from men who both defend their friendship with their wife and simultaneously disagree with me and that being friends with woman is ‘pandering for crumbs of pussy’. Maybe I’m too new here but actually shocking
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:31 AM
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Bro! It’s damn heretical to refuse chats about warhammer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:17 AM
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I must be the exception then. Shame if that’s the case
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:11 AM
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I hate getting upset with you cause you are clearly struggling! All I’ll say is that I’ve had tough times that have made me insanely nihilistic and hateful! Years of my life taken from me. Maybe I get this all wrong but I just don’t think you can feel this way without something like low self esteem. Anyway dm if you need to chat. Things can change and your mind isn’t set!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:09 AM
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I disagree. About half I of my best friends are woman and I consider them to exactly the same as my male friends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:06 AM
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Bro I thought like you did back when I was a scorned 16 year old. It’s insane how little wisdom you have. Either you’ve been dealt 2 jokers in life or you are will fully ignorant
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:04 AM
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Thank you. You are the first person in this comme t section to agree with me. I have a ton of amazing friends, but you know what my partner is the best one I’ve ever had. Our friendship has been the most exciting and beautiful part of our ralationship. I’m glad someone else understands
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:01 AM
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If you aren’t being facetious. A bit of genuine advice. Maybe try to be a bit more forgiving towards woman and leave the bias behind. People can sense these things. As much as we are brain washed to believe the converse being a fucking great guy can get you so far
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:58 AM
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I completely understand you based on your comment about begging for crumbs of pussy. I never mention my sex life. This is clear projection
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:54 AM
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If you could comprehend what I said you would have known I understand the euphemism. I was asking who was making me perform. It’s crazy that you think the only reason to not be against woman’s interests is that I want sex. I hope you grow and develop as a person
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:46 AM
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Who’s ordering me to dance. Not sure if this online conspiracy
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:42 AM
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That being said you’d be surprised how many people are both reasonably and rational when you talk to them in real life. The rules of the online world are utterly Insane
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:41 AM
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Agreed! Thank god I never used gamer words. One day they will retrace your digital footprints across every platform from the year 2000 to make sure the company can’t be cancelled
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:40 AM
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You may not change my mind but I am curious what’s the dynamic you have with your partners then? Is there a structure and how do you decide how you wanna treat them
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:38 AM
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Valid points. I’ll adapt my statement and say that in my urban (London fyi so pretty damn diverse) experience what I have said is true.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:37 AM
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You are the 1/50 comment saying this over defending not being friends with girls Scary stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:33 AM
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Preach mate! I work at a uni and caught myself saying camera man and literally didn’t know if I had done a faux pas
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:28 AM
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Me personally. We ditch each other as we reach the threshold lol Hypothetically I wouldn’t leave until we are both comfortable to make our own way at a party. And put extra duty into integrating her into my group of Friends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:26 AM
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I’m not omniscient so I can only go by what I have seen. I in a very cosmopolitan city with many cultures though. It is hard to argue with the trend I’ve observed. Of Course the are many men that cherish their wives. I’m not talking about them. But like you said you can appreciate the phenomenon. I’d argue that overall it’s a bad thing for happiness for men and woman
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:23 AM
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I guess I’m not talking about you. I fall into the same category. I was merely describing a phenomenon I see way too often
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:19 AM
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Okay I lied it is possible. Head over to YouTube and a large majority of channels focused on content the men mostly like are like 99% men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:17 AM
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I admire your naivety. Many relationship are sex and performative date nights. Anyway like I said it wasn’t aimed at you directly so your good
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:15 AM
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You’ll have to school me in what that is?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:11 AM
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King shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:10 AM
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I wasn’t accusing you of anything directly. That’s on you for reading into it in a way that felt personal. Didn’t mean to make you feel like I was attacking your personal relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:09 AM
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That’s awesome man! Not as long as a you but I met my partner at 22 and we are in our late twenties now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:04 AM
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Yeah but the point of lockeroom is that it absolutely doesn’t leave the lockeroom. Not possible online
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:03 AM
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Thanks for the clear explanation. A lot of time someone is scorned this is why
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:01 AM
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Fuck I should have been more clear in my original post! I personally consider the word friend as a flexible noun. This means that in context it can mean different things. Obviously male mates are different than your partner
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 08:00 AM
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Seems depressing to choose to spend your life with someone cause they ‘fit your lifestyle’
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:57 AM
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I’m not gonna take that away from anyone. I only get concerned when it seems to be a cultural movement
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:56 AM
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What does this mean I’m not sure I understand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:55 AM
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Well then maybe people have forgotten what wife means
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:54 AM
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First half I’m on board. We have seperate lives. I mean not actively trying to ‘hang out’ with your partner beyond sex and performative date nights
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:54 AM
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If you state your intentions directly and act on them with consent you’ve done nothing wrong. However many people expect actions that you never promised
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:52 AM
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That’s beautiful man I’m happy for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:50 AM
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Why would it be stupid to be friends with your partner? I’m struggling to understand. Let me break it down. When you are dissmissive with someone they feel rejected. Rejected people tend to feel dissatisfied and act out against the aggressor this can lead to retaliative acts
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:49 AM
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Locker room talk can be fine and genuine. I think woman have a problem when it’s just misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:47 AM
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Perhaps we need to invent a word for relationship friend then. I’d Hoenstly not realised that there was that much of a difference
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:46 AM
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Perhaps I only know angelic woman. But I can be vulnerable around woman and have many female friends and am well liked. If anything I would say my ability to be genuine is a positive. Maybe the woman you know arnt very nice or perhaps you are misinformed
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:44 AM
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Fair point. I actually forgot young love can turn into legitimate relationships. I was narrowly considering typical 20s hook up arrangements
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:42 AM
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I’d expect my friends to accommodate me when meeting new people especially if I specifically asked before hand
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:40 AM
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I feel like we are arguing over different points. On the whole I agree with you! However I don’t frame my friendship with my gf as something wholly different that my other friends. Actually it’s the converse I hang with my mates to enjoy hobbies etc! I don’t think we disagreed and I’m not addressing you. I’m addressing guys who actively don’t attempt a relationship with their partner outside of stereotypical relationship stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:39 AM
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If there is sufficient communication then you hurt yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:35 AM
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However the same conclusion holds true that it is men Denying friendship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:34 AM
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Hadn’t thought of that! Fair point
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:33 AM
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I have a long term gf. I was talking about when I was single
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:30 AM
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It sounds like you should expect more empathy and consideration from your mates
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:25 AM
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Absolutely not necessarily true. I am completely different when im serious. And everyone I know is too
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:24 AM
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I think we totally agree. I think we both just need to agree on an alternate word for it. It’s everything a best friend is plus love and the duties of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:22 AM
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Shit maybe I should have been more clear. I’m talking about legit relationships . Honestly short term flings are the antithesis of what relationships are in my experience bringing out the absolute worse. No wonder people are pissed if they are using that as the barometer of gender calibre
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:19 AM
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Then I’m sure your relationship is lovely :) I’d argue that what you have isn’t as common as you may think
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:11 AM
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So you agree??
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:09 AM
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And this is exactly why I expressed my question as I did! Crazy that I got justifications rather than arguing that men are friends with their girlfriends
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:08 AM
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Yeah true relationship styles can definitely affect this! I’d argue that love styles are prettty evenly distributed between genders. Then why do most people agree with the phenomenon I posit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:05 AM
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You my friend are winning
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:02 AM
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Sure thing. I’ll give a relatively generic one. Guy and girl go to party. Guy sees his mates and his girl begs him to not just leave her by herself. He end up leaving her alone to hang with his male friends without making the attempt to integrate her into the group. Conversely guy brings but mate. Same thing happens and guy integrates guy mate into group. Don’t tell me you haven’t seen this
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 07:01 AM
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Unfortunately many of those bullshit relationships become marriages. Best to make sure you love your partner as a person before you commit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:59 AM
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I’m not focusing on the effects on either men or woman. My main point is that it is men that are gatekeeping the friendship. Or perhaps men are choosing women they would never be mates with. In my experience a lot of woman clamour for friendship with their partner. In this case I’d argue this one is on us guys
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:54 AM
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Help me understand what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:49 AM
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FYI I’m a dude. Tiktok trend are bollocks agreed and not gonna deny some level of truth in what you said. However what I said and what you said can both be true. I genuinely believe my first statement
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:47 AM
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You make a really solid point. However why do I see so many guys be so dismissive of their partners. Perhaps they have them as friends but they seem to be placed into a different category of friend
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:46 AM
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If it was possible for woman/men to be safe then it would be legal. The reality is that sex and fetishes can often blur the line. It’s impossible for society to give a pass to something that is inherently so dangerous. In a perfect world I don’t think many rational people would have a problem with it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 05:31 AM
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I did this once and I am forever scarred. If you don’t think you are gay you are probably right. Still to this day I have Vietnam flashbacks Sometimes trying isn’t even worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:13 AM
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I’ll add a little nuance from my specific position. I am a traditional chad. In person women find me attractive and nearly every women reacts positively talking to me and have had no issues getting women. However, at least online things are soooo different. I could get dates but I could never meet anyone I actually liked. And the women I would usually be interested in would never like me. Met my GF in real life. She is a ten and a wonderful person. Online I was lucky to go on a date with a 7
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 05:27 AM
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Not really something that can be done intentionally. Just be more open and maybe be ready to tell them about yourself and think deeply not laterally
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:46 AM
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I strongly side with evolutionary biology. I really don’t disagree with any of what you are saying. In fact it has been my way of thinking for a decade. Not to flex but I am a neuroscientist, so my entire jobs existence rides on the fact behaviour is deterministic and predictable. I’m never gonna argue when it comes to animal behaviour, particularly rodent behaviour. I am still however unwilling to accept that we know the basal state of humanity! I am not saying you are wrong. I know very little…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:28 PM
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Used apps for years. Met the love of my life through friends . Take from that what you will
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:28 PM
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I mean I guess the main gist is that men’s standards are typically too high. I’d argue that it’s hard in the current dating game to demonstrate your value. With the gamified version of meeting people we experience we will always be disconnected. Not to hate but a lot of you guys need to work on your profiles too! Jeez
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:25 PM
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Truly Attractive personalities are just as rare as attractive faces
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:07 PM
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My man here is basing his world view of what he read on the internet! If anything in my experience women tend to be more Strict with labels. Apart from that the vocab doesn’t change between people as a consequence of words having meanings. This means no matter who says it the word means the same thing. I’ll level with you. There may be a little projection at play there. A portion of lonely socially inequiped men will always see any social interaction as more meaningful than it is. Perhaps this i…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:34 PM
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This is a troll im sure! Replace OF with work I’m general and most people would agree! It’s funny cause I’m some parts it comes close To being reasonable. And then the very clear motive behind the post comes into action line 10ish. FYI just to trigger you. Women are both out earning and out learning men. It’s absolutely laughable that you think it’s a dichotomy between being an OF model and being a 20 yr old stay at home mum. Fuck me. Meet some humans buddy! If this isn’t a troll then you truly …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 12:24 PM
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Change average to below reasonable. And yeah fair. Women are mostly outperforming me. And I believe men have more of an intrinsic need for a partner. Ergo men in lower demand and below minimum expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:56 AM
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Wow the states really has grifters in every niche. I’m truly sorry
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:09 AM
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There has been a strong selective pressure for women to be beautiful for our evolutionary history. Men have earned courtship through other means. In some ways our evolution is seperate with the x and y chromosomes. Men’s looks though an indicator of health have taken a side line in male evolution. Hence most of us are gross. It’s nuts that you think that men might be settling. Women are outperforming men in all the important metrics. Women are the ones settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 10:03 AM
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Agree with Lilith etc. yes I have heard of that. And I don’t disagree. However I don’t think it’s relevant to the conversation and I don’t think it changes anything. What you have told me is plausible explanations for your paticular world view. One which for thousands of years of humanoid evolution was probably true. Yet the super cool think about modern humans is that so much of their development is not due to genetic patterning etc. there has been a coevolution of culture. What this has meant …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 09:35 AM
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Basically what your particular standards or feature profile that you characterise as dominant. Maybe this deviates from my previous post. But I think you should be passionate about someone you are settling down with. To draw from my own experience, though you may not know it yet. My partner is my best friend (actually, not that cringe wedding speech type stuff) and if can or do have that I would always value that the most. My sex life is limited but it doesn’t bother me because I have validation…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/23 09:24 AM
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Maybe irrelevant. But what the deal with virginity? I’d rather my partner had learned a few things. God know I was shite in bed with my first gf. It took me learning from all sorts of people and their preferences to understand how to have good sex for me and my partner. Why would it be different for a woman? But maybe that’s cause I’m a sex haver
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:36 AM
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For men: - gym - be a reasonable body fat level. Below 15% for Ideal chisleness - fashion. Can’t stress this enough. If you look cool people will think you are cool and it will be easier to act cool. Though don’t go too niche or follow anyone with alpha in their name. Slightly more androgynous clothes are supreme. Also one you’ve established yourself being able to pull of something a little risky is god tier - hair always. Nothing complex just don’t let it get too long unless you style it - crin…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:30 AM
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I mean men do these things too. Difference is some men find it cute when women do it and therefore they showcase it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:21 AM
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I think the majority can attest that casual sex is validation beyond anything else. I genuinely think that it’s as simple as it’s just a strategy of attaining validation. Validation is complimentary of a healthy self esteem. When you have nome it can replace it entirely. Source: was a man whore until I found someone that helped me heal my relationship with myself
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:19 AM
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You can be promiscuous without being damaged. Like you can enjoy drugs from time to time without a bad childhood. However, like drugs sex can be a (insert psychological mechanism) to cope with trauma and mental health struggles etc
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:14 AM
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On the lack of representation of larger men as models: Men’s fashion is still relatively niche and is only begging to break into the mainstream. Men don’t spend their days looking at fashion magazines typically. Though both of these will change and I expect that more male body shapes will be represented soon. Male physique icons are probably more represented in male centric media like action movies. And I doubt there are many dudes who wants a chubby captain America. Much of the new male body st…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:10 AM
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As the second point has been sufficiently debated… I mean choosing a partner is part of a responsibility of an adult. Picking a good one is ultimately up to you. It takes great deal of maturity. It sucks but you do partly have to take accountability for it. That means being a good judge of character as well as being involved in the decision itself. Many relationships occur like dominoes falling with no intention. That is not to victim blame at all. Just that we must be careful with who we decide…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:01 AM
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They are in the wrong circles clearly. I could paint either political side as whimpering feeble children by picking out specific communities within them. The difference is there are no liberal men who publicly feel the need to assert how much of a man they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:51 AM
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The 2 differences that people think is fundamental are: 1. Men are driven to be competitive and this lends them to being better providers in a competitive environment. 2. Women are more nurturing lending them to primary caregiver roles. In my personal experience both of these are false. Perhaps I’ve been extremely fortunate (or unfortunate depending on your views). But I would say the constellation of circumstances that I have found myself in has led to this outcome. I don’t think there are any …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 04:46 AM
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Right. With shy guys you are gonna have to make your point obvious. I recommend literally staring. Perhaps even for uncomfortable amounts of time. Then you will have to make the first interaction
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 04:30 AM
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Avoid her as much as can. I don’t believe that confronting your husband beyond what you are already doing will be all that productive. Just make sure she doesn’t try to insert herself into your babies life.
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 04:13 AM
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Simplest answer yet perhaps the hardest is track your calories as much as possible. Not every mean or even every day. But enough that you begin to understand how many calories you are actually taking in. Beyond that it’s just manipulating how many calories you take im
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 04:10 AM
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I think that alpha is not necessarily synonymous with toxic. Though dominant energies can sometimes lead to dysfunctional interpersonal relationships. It is definitely possible to have both. Perhaps your heuristic for dominant needs to adapt. I’m the long term, short term passion does not always lead to long term fulfilment. I’m not Saying you should settle. But im saying it’s not the best predictor of the best relationship. Though I think when you experience it, you usually know if the passion …
/r/RedPillWomen09/06/23 04:07 AM
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