AfterDarkOpinions Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Prostitution should be legalized It is in rural counties in Nevada, USA, along with certain European countries, Australia, and in various Latin American countries. It's tolerated in some southeast Asian countries as well.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/10/24 08:39 AM
6	The most honest PUA/dating coach? Alan Roger Currie (RIP)	/r/seduction	22/09/24 08:20 PM
2	What would you describe as a man repellent outfit, hair or makeup look? I suppose those aren't bad, but in general, a woman's real hair is better.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/07/24 03:55 PM
2	What would you describe as a man repellent outfit, hair or makeup look? shrugs I'd need an example of what you're talking about.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 11:22 PM
7	What would you describe as a man repellent outfit, hair or makeup look? Septum piercings, shaved heads, baggy sweatpants, flip-flops, crocs, pajamas in public, bonnets, weaves/wigs (outside of cosplay), caked-on makeup, and tattoos to an extent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/24 01:03 PM
20	What’s your definition of the pills and why did you choose yours I chose the purple pill for a few reasons: I've followed some "conventional" dating advice--some would call it bluepill--and it has only resulted in me being rejected or having women say they liked me, but only as a friend. The advice didn't teach me how to be a good boyfriend/lover, only a good friend or someone a woman would settle down with later in life. I learned that following more conventional dating advice would not get the romantic success I wanted with women, and certainly not the sexu…	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/06/24 01:39 PM
2	does MODE 1 method by Alan Roger Currie actually work? I believe Alan Roger Currie has said this on his radio show or on videos before, but Mode One isn't exactly about using erotically-explicit language; it's about stating your intentions with women straightforwardly. You can let a woman know clearly and honestly that you want to have (casual) sex with her without swearing. It's all about what fits your personality. If you want to do it in a gentlemanly way, that is also fine. The worst that could happen is that a woman would say no. Granted, I wou…	/r/seduction	05/06/24 06:51 PM
0	Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high? Agreed; this is one of the reasons why I prefer women who are more liberal--those who are politically conservative don't tend to be sex positive. That's not the only reason why I prefer women who are more progressive sociopolitically, but it is a reason. I definitely think that the "no children, no body fat percentage over 30%" will hurt my options a bit, especially in America. I think that since I don't have children, I would not think the same way a mother would. If I was a father, I would be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 12:16 PM
0	Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high? I wouldn't say my standards are that high. For a long-term relationship: No children Not religious and politically liberal/left-leaning Preferably no tattoos/piercings other than ears Between 10-30% body fat (I'm referencing this chart) Preferably a woman of color (Black, Asian, etc.) Is sex positive Dresses well (loves pumps/stilettos, dresses, etc.) Has a warm, kindhearted demeanor There are some other traits that are nice-to-haves, but that's mainly it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 11:44 AM
–	It's not that men want submissive women, we just want agreeable women. This is true. For me, I mainly desire submission sexually. Outside of that specific context, agreeableness is one of the main traits I like. I would want a woman who can stand on her own, but contributes--a team player, as OP stated. Not into the girlboss-type for serious relationships.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/05/24 09:44 PM
–	So what if women follow the alpha fucks, beta bucks strategy? I have yet to see proof that the beta guy actually achieves worse outcomes overall I would say that some men are wary of entering relationships/marriages of convenience--unions in which their sole or primary role is provider/platonic friend. Most men usually prefer to be in relationships in which romantic and erotic passion are the main focus. This former type of relationship/marriage is very common with men who fit the "beta male" archetype (which I would say is most average, everyday guys). The "alpha" types are usually having sexually fulfilling relationships--and in a good…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/05/24 12:35 PM
14	Men. In the following either or scenarios, which man would you advise a woman to choose? I know what I would recommend female friends or family members pick: in every scenario, the lesser-earning but nicer/better-looking man. But I also understand every woman's goals are different. Some women are okay with marriages/relationships of convenience. Maybe they're okay with men who earn high amounts of money but don't look as good or who aren't faithful. Ultimately, I would say to make the choice which is best for them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/24 11:44 PM
3	Men who are decidedly not attracted to overweight women, how do you feel about women of healthy weight but large frames? That's not an issue at all. Based on your description, you shouldn't have any issues with attracting men.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/05/24 01:48 PM
1	Dear gentlemen: How much "power" do have OF models, IG influencer, etc.? Very little. Most power they have is given to them. I don't feel ruled by any influencers and have never paid for OF or any other fansites. I'm not opposed to sex work, though--my post history indicates that (I'm getting that out of the way in case someone looks.) Given that the average creator is making less than $200 a month, it's not lucrative or life-changing for most women.	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/05/24 02:42 PM
3	The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes. (Statistics) Appreciate you sharing the results! That was a good quiz, by the way--even though I'm not too keen on the dating apps. Along with that: I rated myself 5/10 to be safe Don't make friends easily--though I'm working on it 5'10" Prefer to meet in person first--some people say I have a nice voice, want to use it to my advantage Not religious at all Don't like going to bars (unless strip clubs count) 2 for the introversion-extroversion (more introverted for sure) 3 on social skills--I think that was a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/01/24 01:39 AM
–	The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes. Were you looking over my shoulder as I took that? Lol. I did say I'm looking for everything except marriage, didn't have much time, and said "Oh well, next" to all the rejection questions. But I am open to any type of meet-up (I think I said in person instead of texting) and would interact with a woman 100+ miles away.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 04:21 PM
–	The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal Attributes. I got Dating Apps. I suppose it's because though I work our often, I'm average-looking, somewhat introverted, and looking for hookups (but open to something long-term). Sadly, dating apps have yielded no results for me. I haven't seen women who I would be attracted to, and the few I liked either didn't like me at all or left me on read. Such is life, I suppose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/01/24 03:21 PM
10	How true is the Madonna Whore complex for guys? It's very true. There are a LOT of men who view women in that binary. If they don't change their frame of mind, they (and the women who they date/marry) are going to be miserable.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/01/24 03:07 PM
9	Sexual Selection in Men and Women There's definitely a difference--some women are tighter than others. However, I can enjoy sex regardless of tightness most of the time. I don't think I've been with a woman who was too tight or too loose.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/01/24 04:22 PM
3	Films/books that portray the male ideal fantasy? Pornography is pretty much the main thing--particularly if it involves multiple women. I'd add hip-hop videos in there as well, at least the ones which feature multiple women with large butts. I think harem anime or any anime in which the female character actively pursues and dates a man who is beneath her socially counts, too. "My Dress-up Darling" is one which comes to mind, though it's written by a woman, interestingly enough.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/01/24 03:58 PM
3	Nuances on friendship between men and women Agreed. I definitely have to do that.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 03:53 PM
6	Nuances on friendship between men and women I see where you're coming from. For me, I have had some close female friends, though many have been because I was too fearful of rejection and/or criticism to state my romantic and/or sexual desires. Aside from that, one issue I think affecting male-female platonic friendships is the differences between how the sexes communicate. I'm generalizing, but women usually express problems more to vent, men do so to receive solutions. I've told female friends about issues with dating in the past, and ma…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 03:44 PM
2	What do men want from women in a relationship? When you say "for the general population," do you mean that this is a question that should be answered on behalf of all men? Or are you asking what each man to state what they want individually? I can answer what I would look for, but that may not be what all men want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 09:06 PM
–	Now that my value is high, I don't want to commit anymore, is that common for men ? It's common for people who have options to want to explore them. It makes sense. There are a lot of men who peak later in life, so you're not alone in your frame of thinking.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/12/23 03:29 PM
-1	Lying to Women is okay Why would attractiveness determine whether you can be direct? You don't have to be a male model to let women know your intentions. And even if they reject you, so what? On to the next woman who may be open to what you want.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/23 03:39 PM
36	Lying to Women is okay Counterpoint: your honesty is what allows you to avoid having your time wasted. If men are trying to avoid having their time wasted as well, wouldn't lying be antithetical to that purpose? For example, if men want to have casual sex, pretending to be interested in a woman beyond that is only going to result in them going on a bunch of dates or going through a long "talking" phase, which may not even get them what they want if the woman is trying to use them for foodie calls, flattering companion…	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/12/23 11:18 AM
1	How common are women who are neither too traditional or too "out there?" That's most women, honestly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/12/23 11:44 PM
1	Anyone else noticed an uptick in women approaching? I haven't seen genuine approaches. I have encountered a slightly higher number of women cat-calling, though. Had that happen to me a few times during my walks.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/11/23 07:07 PM
1	[Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”? If people (really women) are upfront about this, I have no issue. I wouldn't have any criticisms of a woman who said "Hey AfterDarkOpinions, you seem like a great guy, but I'm not interested in sleeping with you or being your girlfriend. But if you want to treat me to dinner, that's fine." I have been on dates with women who have used me. I chalk that up to a lesson learned; I know not to spend money on dinners unless it's a woman who I've been intimate with. Part of the reason why I was taken a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 02:28 PM
–	Thoughts on onlyfans? Don't understand the appeal. Porn and nude photos are free. And if you want more, there are parts of the world where prostitution is legal. Even strip clubs are better, and even those aren't great. Still better than OF. No disrespect to the creators, though. If they're successful and making money, more power to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/10/23 03:44 PM
1	Anyone here regularly visit sex workers? No, not yet. Would love to go in the next few years.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/09/23 12:19 AM
3	Anyone here regularly visit sex workers? There are a lot of reasons. In the illegal world, some of the ladies have pimps who are black who tell them not to, for fear of meeting another pimp who may steal the woman. Some black men may be too rough or try to haggle too much or rob the woman as well. Of course, not every black man does this (and there are non-black men who are like this also), but black men are seen as a collective. If Tyrone does it, Urkel does, too. Also, it's rooted in racism. Women who refuse to see black men are cons…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 05:03 PM
1	Anyone here regularly visit sex workers? Have visited brothels in Nevada. I try to go at least 2-3 times a year. Would love to go abroad as well. I'm hesitant to see illegal sex workers (and most don't see black men anyway).	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/23 02:10 PM
3	How would your reaction change if your daughter/son hired a prostitute, as opposed to being one? I would be more shocked than anything. It's pretty tough for men to do that. As long as he's going somewhere paying for sex is legal, I'm fine with it. I've done that legally, and would be more inclined to share what I know and discourage him from doing it where it's illegal. I would tell him the benefits and the negatives of doing so. As with the above, as long as my daughter is engaging in sex work where it's legal, I won't have any issue. It's her life, she can live as she likes. As with my s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/23 10:17 PM
19	Your SO is not willing to do something sexual with you that they've done in the past Dealbreaker.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/23 01:15 PM
6	Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ? I'd pick Woman B.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 07:27 PM
1	Q4M: would you ever "go through the motions" to please your partner sexually? I would, yes. I'd take Viagra if necessary, even.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/23 06:42 PM
6	What do you make of a woman who regularly dates older men? I don't have any issue with women who date men who are older than them, provided they're doing so because they're attracted to them and enjoy spending time with them. Love and genuine interest don't have age limits associated with them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/08/23 09:16 PM
3	Q4M: Has a woman ever helped you get laid? No, this has not happened for me. Any time a woman hooked me up, it was only with a woman who was looking for a relationship, never for a one night stand, weekend fling, or friend with benefits.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/08/23 03:17 PM
1	Russell Wilson: A Shining Example of a Healthy Alpha Male That is valid: people grow and change. I believe the saying is "When you know better, you do better." However, for many men, it is difficult for us to determine if a woman really has grown, or if she is no longer capable of getting the men who she really likes. There are a number of men who are wary of women who are trying to lure them into a marriage of convenience of sorts. Most men, myself included, believe that Ciara does not have genuine interest in him. From my limited understanding of her…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 06:34 PM
1	Russell Wilson: A Shining Example of a Healthy Alpha Male Counterpoint/Question: if Ciara did not have a child with Future, do you think she still would have dated and married Russell Wilson?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/08/23 06:01 PM
-1	What is your age and what age do you find most physically attractive in women? 32. I find women from 18-24 and 40-50 most attractive.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/05/23 04:55 PM