AfterRemorse Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Ex-Tennessee cop at center of sex-romp scandal claims she was sexually 'groomed' in new lawsuit Many child rapists do just that believe it or not. They will try to make the victim believe that the victim has the power and is the one controlling them.	/r/MensRights	01/03/23 01:53 PM
17	The best thing any man can do is to stop dating, and to also forget about marriage. They definitely haven't said anything against women you're either stupid or trying to look for an excuse to cause harm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/03/23 11:21 AM
1	How would you feel if your long term boyfriend had a personal "# of blowjobs before cohabitating" rule? I'm hired to get results not debate ethics.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 09:28 PM
1	How would you feel if your long term boyfriend had a personal "# of blowjobs before cohabitating" rule? I don't support it	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 08:40 PM
1	How would you feel if your long term boyfriend had a personal "# of blowjobs before cohabitating" rule? So when I meet my next partner you want me to disclose to them that I gave bad advice to someone on Reddit and they need to be concerned about me is that correct?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 06:56 PM
1	How would you feel if your long term boyfriend had a personal "# of blowjobs before cohabitating" rule? Why would I listen to you? Besides I'm just offering advice.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 06:27 PM
1	How would you feel if your long term boyfriend had a personal "# of blowjobs before cohabitating" rule? I love the 180 this does. "So like yeah he takes this all very seriously and it's about love and connection and he just doesn't want to get played so how many times are you going to suck his dick to get access to this dream world?". I think personally she should have to suck his dick on a regular schedule not a specific number of times like say he says she has to suck his dick 200 times before she can enter his castle well, that's not exactly indicative of ONGOING blowjobs. What he needs to do i…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 03:14 PM
1	On the pervasive idea that doctors only downplay womens symptoms, and take mens health issues seriously. Yeeeah.... I'm first of all lucky enough to even have a GP but what I've noticed is that they are trying to contend with a massive workload almost like triage. So if I were to go in and say like "my leg hurts bad" he'd probably do a quick assessment then send me to get "x" testing done, even with the possibility that it wouldn't get results we needed. It feels harsh because why should I have to suffer? But at the same time when you look at what they deal with you realize it's really like triage …	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 02:42 PM
4	Being the Main Character EXPLAIN IT AGAIN GOD DAMNIT.	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 12:02 PM
6	on a scale from 0-5 How important is your partners education in a relationship? Ability to stick through something even when they don't enjoy it 100% of the time or think the requirements are kinda bullshit sometimes. This one people don't talk about enough, but this is HUGE to me. I find smart people who didn't go to university or dropped out are often either very low in conscientiousness, or have this "why should I ever do anything that I don't personally see as beneficial to myself?" attitude and struggle with compromise or doing something for no reason other than it bei…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 11:49 AM
2	on a scale from 0-5 How important is your partners education in a relationship? 2 in terms of fundamentals. IQ + desirable personality traits + complimentary garner intelligences is really important imo. Secondary education, it definitely depends where and what area she got it in as academics are becoming increasingly corrupted. Her general intelligence and ability to realistically problem solve without being told by external sources what is right and wrong is what is most important to me. IQ is way more indicative of long term "academic" success, and information is availab…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 11:37 AM
5	I think we should have either a flair for single people, or a whole other subreddit. Isn't that... A generalization?!? I think it's just important to establish ahead of time whether we wish to have a conversation in terms of generalizations or exceptions to rules. The problem with generalizing is that sometimes the statements sweep too broadly and hit unrealistic extremes but for coming to consensus, if a generalization is closer to reality it's almost essential for productive dialogue. The issue I find is when an accurate statement is made but someone goes "I DON'T DO THAT" whi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/02/23 11:32 AM
5	Being the Main Character Even still why are you taking delight in it.	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 11:22 AM
12	Mum-of-eight made false rape claim to get partner's attention The allegation was made at a time of personal crisis. At the time she was at home with two children and another on the way. Mr Roberts was controlling and coercive. He had left her and deprived her of finances. She made the allegations to attract his sympathy and attention. It was not an allegation made by personal malice. It wasn't even personal!!! She was just in stress :(:(:( "It was Mr Roberts who called the police. This was a spur of the moment impulsive decision by a woman in crisis. It wa…	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 11:18 AM
15	Men blamed for being sexless. Again. I don't care who an article blames. You are responsible for you and it's up to you to find a partner. No one is saying otherwise. Interesting strawman to build and burn though. That has nothing to do with anything OP said at all.	/r/MensRights	28/02/23 11:08 AM
1	Question for girls who had a "party phase" but moved on Great username.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 08:07 PM
3	Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable? The conjuring of the hoe from an otherwise noble woman via Chad's dick. It's poetry lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 08:03 PM
1	Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable? I love this wording lol thank you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 08:00 PM
1	Most women sexually desire the same small percentage of men the most, based on the data. But most women aren’t dating those same few men. Does that mean most women are settling in their relationships for men they don’t find sexually desirable? You're fucking pathetic. Go bully people elsewhere.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 07:59 PM
7	If you ask me, feminists aren't liberating women from gender roles. They're just creating new ones for them to be subjected to. Feminism seems hyper masculine and forceful to me. It feels like I am unable to share a perspective of compassion or equinimity with them because if I do they just become cruel or mean I've always felt like both feminism and traditional patriarchy are repressive to the nature of women. I think men are repressed too but contrary to it being a controversial opinion, I think we are just built to tank more shit. Men need women to be powerful and authentic to have that reliable trustworthy pair bondi…	/r/MensRights	27/02/23 07:37 PM
3	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. This is a good example of the pure gaslighting people do. I posted a source link in other comments but it won't change anyones mind.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 05:23 PM
1	The woman behind the men's rights conference You do have a point that we need more men fulfilling this role. The best we seem to get is conservative mouth pieces who sort of throw in against woke leftists but we really need some powerful MRA public speakers getting more public attention no doubt. I didn't know how to interpret your comment tbh plus I've just been going agro on Reddit the last few days but I thought it was a good chance to rep her work also since it is substantial. Live long and prosper. 🖖	/r/MensRights	27/02/23 10:44 AM
5	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. That's exactly my point. I support their right to do that and I understand it was necessary. They weaponized the idea and used it to its fullest and whether we agree with it or not it was necessary albiet ugly. The issue is that feminists are so defensive about it and lie. They think it's some sort of bad thing but it's not. It was just essential at the time. The fact still stands that feminism is at its core weaponized and not intended to be able equality but moreso emasculating and degrading m…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 06:15 AM
1	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. When you want to prove that feminism has caused actual harm or removed rights from men, you should delete that “reference” post and put actual evidence of harm in its place. It's definitely like a handful of provocateurs like I said. You're just repeating yourself now	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 04:49 AM
2	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. Going forward, his manifesto will be provided each time a man on Reddit posts that “kill all men” bullshit. Cool. It's wild that you can get a source sheet like this and just discount the entire thing. There are absolutely radical feminists on it but the majority were not seen as such plus their works were still used to teach and educate. Show me how feminism or feminist policy has done harm. "No not like that ! Show me in a way that makes me look right !"	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 03:19 AM
1	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. I already said "what if it is" you aren't even reading what I write you're so self absorbed in your little bubble of emotional reasoning and not even trying to follow the conversation. Why should women care about that? We're not out to appease men. Jfc just shut up. Being a perpetual victim doesn't make that sort of reasoning acceptable I'd say the exact same thing to a dude acting that way but you're being an absolute waste.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 02:05 AM
0	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. Disingenuous take. Many of these women are accomplished authors and academics. To anyone reading this, please read the link and decide for yourselves. Don't let this person distract you. People do this all the time on Reddit lmao. Anyone who wants to explore this should.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 01:59 AM
5	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. It's not but that's not feminism you're literally just making up your own definition lmao. Like good for you for having a more nuanced view I commend that but this is about actual feminism and that it has its roots directly in misandry, and as I've already said I actually support that due to a degree as it was a revolution. It's just that people need to start acknowledging it as true and stop lying or just... Changing the definition of what it is to deflect the point? Like why? Just accept that …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 01:56 AM
7	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. What the actual FUCK does that have to do with the people who began feminism as a movement? That not all feminists support those ideas is that what you're trying to say? No one is saying that. What people are saying is feminism is designed to hurt men. Stupid passive aggressive statement coming from an absolute victim complex place.	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 01:45 AM
1	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. Spoiler alert: there was none. It's been there for years haha. : P	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 01:43 AM
3	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. Howw	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 01:38 AM
2	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. Stickied on men's rights I mean my bad	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 01:29 AM
7	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/9v6tqj/a_list_about_feminism_misandry_for_anyone_who/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button It's stickied on this sub But will it make you accept that this isn't just a social aspect but a literal war? And that it's time to stop denying that feminism is somehow benevolent and trying to help men lmao. Like people need to just stop fuckin lying	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 01:28 AM
6	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. https://www.reddit.com/r/MensRights/comments/9v6tqj/a_list_about_feminism_misandry_for_anyone_who/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button It's stickied on this sub You ask "how" but even after reading this you won't accept it because it seems inherently bad. But the truth is that Feminism was absolutely necessary and the forceful militaristic aspect of it actually had purpose. It is sad when force and cruelty needs to be used to affect a c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/02/23 01:27 AM
4	Which man would you pick? Trick question. Sam is fucking Tom but Tom is a power bottom and won't top.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 11:25 PM
12	The Manosphere (Red Pill whatever you want to call it) is a movement that is more about woman slander than helping men and boys. Feminism is designed to harm and disadvantage men and young boys. I don't disagree that the manosphere has some militarized slanderous people just like it has people with noble intentions (like just pearly things for example), just like feminism has a mix of people. But Feminism is a militant ideology whose entire history has misandrist writers and speakers who advanced it. People use it to actively hurt men and it's intentional. So though I don't disagree with your point, I think it's good that…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 11:20 PM
9	The woman behind the men's rights conference https://youtu.be/vagVf5cf-V0 Here's a YouTube video of Karen Straughn debating in defence of men at Ryerson university 9 years ago. Challenging feminist narratives of "are men obsolete?" It has nothing to do with the fact that she's a woman it's that she's a highly intelligent intellectual that happens to be a woman. That obviously makes you super insecure so you should probably head to therapy to let it all out and have a good cry. Maybe then you'll be capable of some respect.	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 11:11 PM
3	The feminists catch the kids young and then it's difficult to eliminate the misandry in them. We need to end the Teaching of Contempt for Men in the Educational Books I really should and I'm frustrated I can't. There's a video where Jordan Peterson is discussing with a trans de-transitioner her situation. I'm not particularly a fan of JP or anything but in these interview style videos her is in good form and I value a good legitimate source of information which is what he relays here. There's barely any speculation or making shit up it's well established knowledge and fact which is why I say it's good form for him. https://youtu.be/6O3MzPeomqs In the first 40…	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 11:07 PM
3	WHY IS THERE SUCH A THING AS "LEFTOVER WOMEN" AND IS IT A REAL THING? If there's sloppy seconds then their must be leftovers too right?	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 05:59 PM
10	The feminists catch the kids young and then it's difficult to eliminate the misandry in them. We need to end the Teaching of Contempt for Men in the Educational Books Early protests against research like domestic abuse here in Canada literally involved protestors coming in and stomping their feet so that the information couldn't be shared during conferences. Because academic researchers rely on funding and funders either are woke or afraid of woke hyenas they began pulling funding for anyone who did collaborations with several important researchers in areas of trans research and gender equality. So those researchers were ostracized and canceled and anyone who…	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 05:55 PM
38	The woman behind the men's rights conference Karen Straughn has being doing this shit for years. She has a son of her own and has been a vicious debater on the topic since it was absolutely socially unacceptable to do so. Not only has she earned her stripes but she's wicked intelligent and capable of nuanced takes in a variety of different areas and her associations between different topics are big brain. She's one of the few public men's rights activists women I would trust to put something like this together, if only because she would ju…	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 01:25 PM
1	Watching P*rn Is NOT Cheating So STFU Personally I think it's really relative to the relationship and people too. I can't watch porn because I'm very visual and it "stains" my mind. I think it is pretty much an awful thing because it amplifies and twists urges but I wouldn't consider it cheating if my partner indulged. I would realize it was bad for their health though objectively speaking. The science on porn is coming out similar to how smoking was perceived. Some people knew it was bad from the start and others lied and gaslit be…	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 01:18 PM
5	Watching P*rn Is NOT Cheating So STFU The best thing for me about the Chad meme his how his body is just a dislocated mess of masculine limbs but is somehow "attractive" despite making absolutely no sense. It encapsulates biology and nature perfectly.	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 01:16 PM
2	Advice on being falsely accused of rape by ex-gf? In other words you did the same thing to her she did to you lmao. Had another guy lined up when she dumped you and was almost definitely playing you in the first place. Not only that but I reckon she raped the other guy too right? Because she cheated on him. Did she have sex with him too? If so she's a rapist. This chick has done the most raping by her own definition. As everyone is saying hiring a lawyer is your first move here. I personally hope they will encourage you to sue her. From someone…	/r/MensRights	26/02/23 01:05 PM
–	If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv) Women do it in extremes where it's either "he's hot" or "who the fuck is this guy in my space?"	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 12:38 PM
–	If men had lower standards for women than women had for men, average wouldn't be used as an insult (cmv) It seems like "average" is used to take a woman down a few pegs. At least that's true of the manosphere/Kevin Samuels types I've seen. They mean it as a reality check and it's absolutely used to take delusional women back to reality. Especially Kevin Samuels he was about putting this in perspective and creating equitable mindsets. If you think you're a 10/10 and someone says no, you're a 5/10, it feels like an "attack" and people will jump to the person's defence stupidly. It's like no, you're j…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/02/23 12:37 PM
2	Question for both genders: what do you wish your own gender would stop doing or do more of? "cute meet" is awesome I'm adding that to my lexicon lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 05:55 PM
1	Normalizing abuse against men I think they do it because they want to test the man's depths of control and awareness. They want to see how deep he understands life and the world and the human experience because when they realize they have no footing they always stop and stand still like they just got dicked down or something lmao. It's like they want to try to influence their partner in an attempt to tame themselves. That's been my experience. It's to make you feel like you've made a "mistake" or done something wrong. When t…	/r/MensRights	25/02/23 03:17 PM
1	The people saying "your league is who you can attract" forget they're giving this reply to men who can barley attract any women at all There's a terrible but old meme where on r/suicidewatch there's a post from a guy just digging in to how fucked his life is, no money job family friends , drinking going to lose his place etc. with no uptoves or comments Then a girl positing "I'm sad. :(" With 335 upvotes and two dozen comments. The meme put them right next to eachother for dramatic effect which is part of why it was funny but they were both legitimate photos. Seeing shit like that occurs naturally, some people are in blatant de…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/02/23 12:57 PM
1	Nice Guys, Assertiveness, Passiveness and Simp: Why men NEED to be assertive in dating I hate that I've been all these at once but I can say for certain the assertive person is the most Respectful, and theres a silence in respect which speaks volumes. The others are all fake respect.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 12:56 PM
0	Touched Shoulder at Work. She liked it. Lol.	/r/MensRights	20/02/23 09:54 PM
1	What is Creepiness? Escalating interactions without reciprocity. Great parameter.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 11:08 AM
–	How do redpillers justify sleeping around if they diminish the worth of women? From what I've seen they will fuck promiscuous women but they just don't respect them as wife or long term relationship material. Much of it is about making women take accountability for their sexual choices so they say well if she's promiscuous nothing wrong with that but I'm going to partake while waiting for a better woman. I don't agree with their points often but that seems to be the reasoning.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 10:59 AM
1	Is pre-selection actually real? Being able to steal a taken guy is a huge ego boost. I'm sure there are more admirable reasons, like the fact that women will see a taken guy in a more charitable light but a significant % of women want to know if they can get him also.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 10:57 AM
1	If a girl is attracted to you she'll almost never just tell you, If a girl is feeling you 90% of time it won't get anymore obvious or flagrant than a 2 second glance or her saying "Hi" to you everyday I've also noticed that if women like me they won't be overly friendly or talkative but will be much more pensive and analytical but still very receptive to communication. But they don't want conversation to spiral off and become too casual because they want the tension to speak for itself. Idk just one observation. So it's really similar to how women behave when they are uncomfortable lmao. But one way I somehow feel invited and in the other way I feel cautious and painfully insecure. It's subtl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 10:54 AM
1	What's the problem with casual age gap relationships? Tbh my friend I've been reading these comments and it does seem you're applying a double standard here even though I'm enjoying the discussion you're stimulating. Just one referees opinion : p	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 10:42 AM
2	A Common Sentiment These Days is That Men Are Generally Trash Partners. But If a Man Works to No Longer Be Trash What Incentive Does He Have to Now Commit To a Woman? Least charitable take of this person's post possible.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 10:35 AM
2	Most women would rather have a placeholder boyfriend than be single It's pump and dump schemes all the way down.	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/02/23 10:29 AM
1	Should child support be illegal? (I upvoted you because yours is a good take I agree a lot with) I'm not totally against this because practically speaking I am responsible and in control of my own actions. However, the area where it diverges is that I can make a mistake or have bad luck (condom breaks or slips off, make a dumb decision while drunk or too comfortable with a woman) and I can be punished for 18 years for that mistake by a vindictive woman who takes my money without consequence. On the other hand, no margin of erro…	/r/MensRights	31/01/23 12:28 PM