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AgainstTheHerd/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 02:33 PM
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Gammas lie. The major tell of where a man sits in the male hierarchy
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/17 03:30 AM
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Ouch..but so true !
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/17 03:11 AM
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( i buy her something, she gives me blow job, sometimes). I would say that i straddle the alpha/beta line. Baahaahaaa...thanks for the laugh of the day. Transactional sex and you envision yourself as some High Value guy. Honestly, your relationship isn’t much better than what you would have with a prostitute. At least with a hooker you would be guaranteed anything you want.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/17 02:53 AM
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Yes..my post divorce was a combination of 1 & 3.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/17 02:47 AM
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Two years ago, I stumbled on this forum due to trying to find answers to this very problem. To echo SP (hardcore navy) - when you take it seriously - she will too. That means consciously and deliberately carving out time for yourself - to work out. She will notice and begin a regiment of work out for herself. Since taking this seriously, my own personal physique went from fit to downright jacked..by hitting the gym consistently and taking it seriously. ( that means going to the gym with a missio…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/03/17 01:24 AM
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Great write up - thank you The budget issue hits home for me. Im middle aged and sadly never used one until now. Being self employed - I find it really tough because my salary income tends to be very inconsistent. But the importance of it very obvious to me.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/09/16 12:40 AM
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He will want to weep and apologize for being so pathetic and not leading her or the kids – which is what has caused them to be so disgruntled and lost in this life, having never developed their own genuine sense of self Very sound advice ! To any Christians lurking at this site - For the good of your marriage DO NOT DO THIS ..repeat after me ... DO NOT DO THIS. ( I specifically mention Christians because this exhortation is endemic within the "manning up" part of our faith) When making change an…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/16 03:39 AM
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Note from the field: We both had a tough week which ended with a long day. I initiated this evening- she said "Im too tired". Now mind you it has been a very long time ( nearly a year) since Ive heard this from her. I respond with - ok. Crack a beer and begin reading my book. Later on, I walk upstairs, she's sitting at her desk in the bedroom doing some computer shit. I tell her " pull off your panties and get on the bed" She quickly complies but then says " I want you to cuddle - you never cudd…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/16 03:27 AM
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And for men, the single biggest mistake they make is not paying attention to red flags -- ignoring, not recognizing, or thinking they can "fix" red flags. Also a nearly insoluble problem, since nearly all women have at least one glaring red flag which will make a marriage difficult at best. Couldn't agree more. The key is to decide whether or not you can live/deal with that issue until "death does you part". If you are honest with yourself and realize that you cannot - NEXT. The momentary pain/h…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/16 03:12 AM
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For all you know he pedastlizes women. Your assumption that he's "Red Pill as fuck " by dent of his ethnic heritage is just that .. an assumption. Don't focus on his traits -focus on making yourself a confident self contained man. Despite a man being short - he can still be confident and strong.
/r/askMRP01/08/16 12:35 AM
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I know a single guy - early 40s & never married. His notch count is pushing 200 and he says its very ,very tiring as he gets older. I will hand it to him though - he continues to plow very cute chicks - nearly all in their early/mid 20s - on a regular basis. But I have also noticed that outside of his job, harley and lifting weights - he doesn't really live for much else. He has often shared with me how much he would really like to find an attractive, dependable woman to settle down permanently …
/r/MarriedRedPill14/07/16 01:40 AM
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"My wife, bless her, reassures me that it is all over. No emotional attachments..." Baaahaaa!. Thats the funniest line I've read all day. She's been getting pounded like a porn star by some alpha while the closest you get to her snatch is touching her cum encrusted lingerie...and she then tells you there is no emotional attachment. And you believe it - no less ! Too funny! Damn you've got a lot to learn.
/r/askMRP12/07/16 05:42 PM
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Congrats - you've been cucked ! Now divorce the cheating slut, read the sidebar, hit the gym and create a rock hard emotional frame. Then follow up with cultivating an abundant mindset along with a healthy dose of self confidence and soon you'll be pounding cuties a lot younger and tighter than this old bitch.
/r/askMRP12/07/16 01:50 PM
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Oh fuck - another " Dear Abby" post? The second one in two days. OP - congrats on becoming sober. Now read the side bar and create a goal/vision for your life. If you want to include your Polish girlfriend - great ! If not - thats all right too.. Do whatever you want . Just don't ask random guys on the internet to make your romantic decisions for you. Thats something that little kids do.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/07/16 04:32 AM
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Take it up the ass like a real man. Im sure she will love watching
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/16 12:52 AM
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Mods - just get rid of the OP's piece of shit post. Its low value and written by someone who, based upon previous posts, makes up stories and is full of shit. A full on troll - contributing n0thing.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/07/16 12:50 AM
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Great post. Every whiny bitch who vetches on this board should be directed to read this. We have only ourselves to blame for our unhappiness.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/07/16 02:18 AM
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This. Never internalized this until the last two years. The effect has been nothing short of astounding.Its so easy now to talk up cute girls Ive just met - I cannot believe it was hard to do in the past. High SMV women today, are literally craving to meet high value masculine men with an abundant mindset. Just like we, as men, look around and see an ocean of fugly fatties - they look around a see an ocean of hungry,weak sauce, whiny fags. All it takes is a confident attitude and balls to do the…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/16 11:25 PM
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Interesting perspective. Ive read a lot of negative stuff about him within the alt-right/red pill community. Thats my only basis for making judgement. Probably could have a more well rounded assessment if I met him in person.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/06/16 11:14 PM
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As much as I really like and respect Rollo. I cannot for the likes of me figure out why he continues to associate with that clown C "Mac Daddy" McQueen. The guy strikes me as a huge poser and grifter.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 10:43 PM
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My ex wife was just like this one!. ( minus the farm part) . I never breathed a deeper sigh of relief when she left. . Then I promptly went out and banged a bunch of women younger and prettier than her. It felt great !
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 04:33 PM
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Excessive bitchiness ( along with wife's weight gain ) is what led me to this forum. Its learned behavior. My mother in law does it to my father in law. He puts up with it. My wife began trying it on me. Pre MRP I would either defend, argue or accommodate. Thanks to MRP - I no longer do any of the above. It would only get worse.. Since then Ive worked on myself by specifically, no longer acting like a whining bitch about work, money etc... This alone was a huge step in the right direction. Secon…
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 01:35 PM
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You say you're a boring guy. But as I read what your hobbies are- hiking, biking etc.. you seem, from the write up, to be a guy who is now living a fun and active lifestyle. Your wife strikes me as a very immature woman. She perpetuates this immaturity by hanging out in the "single old hag " hen house. Here they're all trying to live out their "glory days".Which in reality is pretty laughable. Like any single guy with a sense of self worth, and options, wants to fuck some bitty with droopy tits …
/r/MarriedRedPill29/06/16 01:13 AM
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Calling Ultimate Cad: please chime in ?
/r/askMRP26/06/16 04:01 PM
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Honestly if she's looking up a previous dick on FaceCuck - on a daily basis - she's just not that into you.Next ! So far, You've spent most of your dating life in a relationship. Whats the rush to marry? Your best years are ahead of you. Hers just passed her by. Her loss - your gain. Play the field, gain experience. When you're 40 you will look back and laugh at how you even remotely considered giving this woman commitment. Especially right before she hit the wall. You will say to yourself - "da…
/r/askMRP26/06/16 03:58 PM
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Your statement doesn't hold up. See this guys story as an example:http://ironandtweed.com/my-low-t-journey-one-year-on-trt/ He was a mad lifter and still had seriously low T
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 03:03 AM
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Another important thing to have checked is Iron levels. Most men have levels that are too high. When levels are too high - it causes a whole host of problems which can affect your heart and even libido. This is all something Ive recently been made aware of. If it is too high just donate some blood and avoid combining foods high in vitamin C and red meats during the same meal.
/r/MarriedRedPill25/06/16 02:58 AM
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If I notice a guy flirt with or check out my wife I will look at her and say " I think he's got the hots for you" . Said with an impish smirk of course
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 03:43 AM
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If you think about it from an agricultural perspective: We are husbands. What is husbandry? It is the tending, pruning, caring, grooming of a plant or animal so that it bears "fruit". As husbands if we are leading and directing our wives - in the way we should she will ( if she's emotionally stable/healthy) look positively radiant.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 03:40 AM
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If you are the most alpha she has ever been with - and remain that way - the chances of her cheating are very low. She will also intuitively know that if she did - her ass would be gone and quickly replaced with another. ( a tad bit tighter)
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/16 03:29 AM
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Ahhh ..yes the humble brag.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 03:18 AM
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Gary Johnson is a libertarian like a Pinto is a car.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/06/16 03:16 AM
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The timber industry has been my world since I was a wee lad.. Its a tough world - filled with tough guys. A place where fools, faggots and pussys are not suffered lightly.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/16 01:58 AM
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Most guys will fold when she's on her knees crying and begging for forgiveness - with promises that it will all be different from now on out. Thanks to a much tightened frame - honed over the last two years - its easy to remain unyielding and view it for what it is - manipulative theatrics. But to echo MRPCowboy - it truly is best to not even let it get to this point in the first place.
/r/MarriedRedPill18/06/16 01:53 AM
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Don't ever listen to what she says she wants. Do what you want. She may follow or she may not. Honestly - who the fuck cares. As a minimum side benefit - she will most likely gain more respect for you as you do your own things that are best for your emotional health.
/r/askMRP16/06/16 02:14 PM
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Troll or not - any chick that sits and eats an entire pint of ice cream in one sitting is disgusting. No man of any worth finds that attractive. To any ham beast reading this - Practice some self control for fucks sake. What the hell has this country come to where shoving food into your mouth - like some farm animal - is acceptable. I look around me on a daily basis and think a famine can't come our shores soon enough.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 02:38 AM
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Next time she says "don't forget that you belong to me". Respond with " so long as you remain a good girl". If said with confidence and a hint of amusement - it will make her enter your frame ( in a playful way) Also you need to address the disrespect:. Don't put up with it . When she acts like a cunt - just calmly leave and do your own thing. Women always do as much as you allow them to. And right now your wife is walking all over you . You've allowed it because you have sent the message to her…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/06/16 12:22 AM
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Read the sidebar -dude. Spend more time learning than puking
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 04:38 AM
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I went to a church for years where the pastor unabashedly would say it was a biblical mandate that wives are to submit to their husbands. It was great! My ex wife - who was an ice queen feminist ( yet still called herself a christian) used to hate it when he would say that. When our marriage was failing we went to counseling ( this was all pre RP) with this guy. We walked in , sat down and within less than 2 minutes he asked " hows your sex life - are you doing it regularly?" He then turned to m…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 04:33 AM
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Honestly as I read your long winded boring post I see a lot DEER going on when she's shit testing you. Just shut the fuck up when she acts that way. And if you really feel you need to say something - just look at her and laugh at how stupid she's acting. If it gets really bad, without a word just extract yourself from the area for awhile. Drive somewhere, go to the bar or coffee shop and hit on some cuties. Whatever floats your boat. I'm married to crazy and I can tell you Ive dealt with this an…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/06/16 04:05 AM
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My money is on this post being a huge wad of bullshit
/r/MarriedRedPill12/06/16 03:55 AM
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This is why I barely attend church anymore. As a RP christian male - get ready for a lonely journey. The path is truly narrow and the gate truly small.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 11:48 PM
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If its free - you're the product !
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 04:04 AM
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For those so inclined also consider using Startpage as your search engine combined with a good VPN and always, always clear your browser of cookies/local storage when leaving a site.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 04:03 AM
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Couldn't agree more. I own two businesses. Both are truly private sector - meaning we don't rely on govt. contracts or large corporations for work/income. One gives me a job the other is a wealth builder. If doxxed the one business that gives me a job wouldn't really be affected by the doxxing. The other business that is making me rich - the doxxing wouldn't matter in the least. Lastly - avoid social media like the plague. Both my wife and I don't use any of it . That alone minimizes any effect …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 03:54 AM
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Tragically, most people don't make eye contact. Furtive glances yes - but not true eye contact
/r/MarriedRedPill06/06/16 03:43 AM
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"if you make eye contact with someone don't break it first".. if its a female - ALWAYS. With men, however, this can be risky.. If they're mentally ill they may feel threatened and attack you, if gay you may find them hitting on you. A good rule of thumb I use to make eye contact with men is to look at them long enough to lock eyes hold it for a second or so and then either look away - to the side- ( NEVER DOWN) - or give an upwards head nod and a "whats up" Also "moving slow' doesn't project any…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/16 12:12 AM
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On dead lifts gripping opposite directions with your hands - makes a huge difference.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/05/16 12:05 AM
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This might help: http://www.dangerandplay.com/2016/05/24/mike-cernovich-the-regret-podcast/ A leopard never changes its spots. Despite having a son with her - the bitch has to go. ! Then you need to work on yourself so that you become a stronger more confident man Good luck
/r/askMRP26/05/16 02:56 PM
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Breathing in and out of a bag will also eliminate migraines. This is not written as a joke. Im serious.
/r/askMRP26/05/16 02:50 PM
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For nearly two years - every day - Ive been taking cold showers (a.m.) Its done owners for skin tone, muscle soreness and mental toughness. I live in a northern climate and even do it in the winter
/r/askMRP26/05/16 02:48 PM
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"This is the way of an adulterous woman; she eats, and wipes her mouth, and says, I have done no wickedness." Proverbs 30:20
/r/MarriedRedPill09/05/16 11:38 AM
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My money is on OP being a troll. She was web camming it back in early 2000's.???( based on the math 38-25). Not buying it .. web cam porn didn't really take off until mid 2000's. Math doesn't compute. Regardless the guy ( fake or not) is a total cuck "Anyone gets to fuck other women/talked to their wife about it?" .. WTF?. What is this voyeur hour?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/16 03:48 AM
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Very solid advice !
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/16 03:26 AM
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Excellent points. I will be pondering them for the next few days. Articles like this make my resolve grow - when it comes to to becoming a better version of myself
/r/MarriedRedPill25/03/16 03:39 AM
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As a fellow gardener.. great parable
/r/MarriedRedPill20/03/16 04:01 AM
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I can relate. When I married my wife had Bod fat of approx. 15-20% and she fit in a size 6. Since marriage its creeped up. A year ago it was getting close to 35% - and she was having to buy size 10 pants.. At that point I took over buying the food and getting us to the gym regularly. Unlike your wife, my wife doesn't mind being active. Since leading her more in this area - her weight will fluctuate between 25-30% bod fat. and she's back to a size 8. Honestly I would love it lower- b/c I remember…
/r/askMRP20/03/16 01:07 AM
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Amazing isn't it ! Its funny how a lifestyle/eating habit like this works.. yet the naysayers can't trip over themselves fast enough to disagree.!
/r/MarriedRedPill05/03/16 10:50 PM
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Consistent lifting will transform the body like no other activity. With that will come confidence and a presence that you never had before. When a man looks physically better than the vast majority of the herd it has an effect on his spirit and confidence that cannot be achieved any other way. An added benefit is that your woman will see and feel this and naturally be more attracted to you. Field Report: I never used to consistently do squats and deadlifts until the last 8 months. Since then Ive…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 05:02 PM
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Our founding fathers are rolling in their graves. What a shit show our political system has become. Everyone of those clowns on stage is either a narcissist or sociopath or a combination of the two.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/03/16 04:56 PM
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I make less than my wife..significantly less, however I take responsibility when it comes to joint personal expenses, making decisions for what is best for us financially etc..... In short I am the leader of our home when it comes to the finances. . At one time I made more than her, - significantly more - but was laid off three years ago. I had a business on the side and that is what has enabled me to earn a living since then . Despite my tremendous financial hit, the sex never waned nor the res…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/03/16 03:38 AM
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"Talk to girls everywhere" Excellent advice. Over the last year Ive been doing it more regularly and it really does wonders for your confidence and just all around ability to be a cool, chill guy. Here is a little field report that confirms this: Yesterday I was leaving the health food store and the clerk there is an extremely hot little doll - approx 19 with an ass you can hold in your hand.. I always enjoy talking with her. Yesterday I noticed her fingernails were painted. So , as Im getting r…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 10:39 PM
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Oh yeah..its actually salty cock.. especially I after i get done bending your wife over the bed while your at work
/r/MarriedRedPill27/02/16 03:22 PM
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Wow - pretty low value post. Thanks bub - I forgot were all neophytes here. Thank gosh for your drive by insights -they're doing wonders when it comes to setting us kids straight.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/02/16 03:25 AM
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my business is similar. Its saturated, barrier of entry is low, client base is finite and competition is everywhere. Last year , I really struggled. It was terrible - very few new clients etc.. Yet rather than fold up or sit around like a loser and complain, I looked over the field and realized there were niches not being filled and areas where my competitors had achilles heels. I then began to focus on marketing to those niches and exploiting the weak areas of my competition. The result has bee…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 04:16 PM
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Never, ever strive to get business based upon price alone. Nothing screams low value more to a potential client than the line " we'll do it cheaper than anyone else". You will attract shitty clients who will chisel you endlessly. Trademark your company name. Have a company motto that is unique and enables you to stand out from the competition..Provide a service/product that distinguishes you from the competition, Dress the part, command confidence when interacting with your potential clients, ma…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 04:03 PM
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Millionaire Fastlane- MJ Demarco - hands down the best book Ive ever read when it comes to understanding how to propel oneself forward. I wish I had read that book when I was 20. Follow ups would be: any book on marketing by Dan Kennedy ( I learned the power of upsell from him) and Art of The Deal by Trump ( proper business mindset) . I've owned my own business for over 8 years. Its a sole proprietorship llc - providing a specialized service. Some years have been good, some bad. Two takeaways I'…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/02/16 03:40 PM
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Oh yeah - preach it brotha !
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 05:38 PM
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As we say up here: "stubborn frenchman". I work around them everyday.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/02/16 05:31 PM
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This !. My relationship and wife to a T. During this time of the month my wife is always making statements like " our relationship is in trouble" or " Im just so unhappy in my job, the stress is unbearable" ( she's an OT). Ive begun - finally- to realize its just the temporary crazy brought on by rampant hormonal changes. Most of my previous posts regarding relationship problems have all taken place during shark week. Yesterday we had a ball busting blowout and I pathetically broke frame and beg…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/02/16 03:35 PM
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Success - it all boils down to frame. Just yesterday I'm sitting on the couch with the wifey - sipping my gin and tonic. I look over at her and say " I really like the fact you love to cook me great meals." She smiles, I then follow up with " what a better country this would be if women didn't have the right to vote" Her jaw drops and her face fills with anger and she yells " I can't believe you just said that - you don't mean that do you?" I responded with " Of course I mean it" She's like " Sa…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/01/16 07:36 PM
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Once a cheater always a cheater. From your write up she seems to have a strategic reason for suddenly wanting to get back with you. I would view this all with caution. I know AWALT but the fact remains she seems to be a woman with a little heavier dose of the" dark arts "in her. Regardless of your kids, this doesn't seem to be a woman who you need to have in your life, as a wife, anymore.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/01/16 03:38 AM
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yes Im beginning to notice. Sharkweek is always when the hurricanes hit
/r/MarriedRedPill15/01/16 03:12 AM
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I work in the outdoor world for a living and, like yourself, grew up on a small farm. Your assessment of women is accurate. When you grow up and live/work in this natural environment portions of RP understanding are naturally gleaned. Although reading about it ( hat tip Rational Male/Chateau) helps to tie the pieces of the puzzle together. Red pill understanding distilled to its purest form is understanding the natural order of men and women and how they fit in this world
/r/MarriedRedPill14/01/16 02:23 AM
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The only thing bogey has hit on is sarcasm. Although what you've written isn't new information - its really hard to internalize it. I struggle really hard with comfort tests. Ive lost relationships in my past b/c of it. When the woman Im with is in peak ovulation - no problems. During the times when they need beta comfort ( sharkweek/rag time) - very poor at giving it. Telling any woman Ive been with to go "grab me a coffee" or "bend over" has always been very easy for me. Getting my needs met t…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 01:57 PM
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Its more the desperate flailings of someone who has more to lose
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 01:47 PM
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My wife literally morphs into a different woman while she's on the rag. Its super intense -her eyes will even -at times - look crazy. Then ,after a few days, its over and she's the sweetest most submissive thing. Ive never had a woman this volatile in my whole life. After three years Ive gotten stronger and even used to it but there needs to be improvement in strengthening my frame during this time of the month
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 03:08 AM
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You make some interesting points. The part about being on the rag is relevant.The entire time we have been together she has never had an issue with me looking at other women unless she's on the rag. Its only at that time that she pulls this shit. When she's ovulating she may not like it -but shell never act this way or even say anything. You are the only commenter to catch that and then expound on it
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 02:38 AM
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Without a doubt. Ive said as much but the hamster is kicking with this one
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 01:50 AM
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She is lucky - Ive been more patient with her than most previous women in my life
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 01:49 AM
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yeah its funny - till you live it. This is the second marriage where Im married to an insane woman. I discovered RP too late. ( face in my hands)
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 01:46 AM
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I know - her previous men must have been light in the loafers Seriously - you nailed it - its insanity. Truly! I need to honestly ask myself " can I live with this for the next 30 years".
/r/MarriedRedPill13/01/16 01:45 AM
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Its severe low self esteem.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 07:26 PM
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Its something that Im aware of and moving forward will be considering.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 07:18 PM
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Solid points
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 06:07 PM
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I did marry her b/c of her low notch count and "good girl" attributes Ill check out the posts Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 05:01 PM
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good point
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 04:59 PM
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good insights
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 04:57 PM
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What is this " The Biggest Asshole Contest". ? Good for you - you're an asshole - and in your own words a big one! The AMOG of the group. I only write what people ( friends/colleagues) tell me - "blunt, edgy and when crossed - an asshole". From the mouths of others - not my own words
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 04:54 PM
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My interest in making money has all to do with me - not her - not anyone else. I have an insatiable drive and I love business.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 04:46 PM
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I didn't apologize - reread my post. To clarify she doesn't currently look at other guys -but if she did it wouldn't bother me. Other guys flirting with her now - doesn't bother me.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 04:42 PM
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I think you are on to something. It is both a comfort and shit test wrapped up into one. The comfort test comes from her underlying insecurity - which she has. My inherent asshole nature doesn't really how to handle her insecurities well. I honestly don't understand them. In that respect were are total opposites.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 04:24 PM
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She does have extremely low self esteem. She really shouldn't be/c she is a very attractive woman for her age. I don't get it. If Sepean has a girl with similar issues - I would love top hear his perspective. Talking with a lawyer to draw up papers for the next time she says this shit - is something I am considering having done.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 04:20 PM
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Im actually not a Nice Guy. Read the book - and didn't really apply. I have always been more on the spectrum of asshole. I really struggle with reading and handling comfort test b/c of it. My SMV is high - pretty women will actively hit on me with wife present, she will notice, mate guard. I will also openly flirt with same women ( through light hearted banter) and strangely enough that doesn't cause her to have these nuclear explosions. Shell comment later - but say things like " wow she was in…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 04:09 PM
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Nice - lighthearted AA that also shows positive attention to my gal. A variation of a positive-neg. I too am an ass man. The smaller and tighter - the better. Although small little nips or large jugs ( either extreme) do turn me on.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 03:37 PM
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Like ! My AA under pressure is piss poor. These are worth remembering
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 03:21 PM
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I don't care that she looks at other guys or that guys openly flirt with her.Its never bothered me in the least. She is a very attractive gal , who looks good for late 30's- so its does happen often. Ive noticed that distinguished men in their 50s + have a real thing for her. It makes me laugh I agree the non apology was weak. In fact it probably shouldn't have even been made in the first place - but compared to my previous supplicating behavior its progress. But its obvious I can do better The …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/01/16 03:18 PM
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Game and asperbergers : its like oil and water - they just don't mix Sarcasm aside -assuming you're not some BP troll. Do and say whatever the fuck you want. Who cares if you pass/fail some stupid shit test. By not caring you will gain her respect and by default pass any stupid shit test thrown your way.
/r/askMRP10/01/16 05:19 AM
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Is this a joke. Please ..say it is. What married man in his right mind would consider this acceptable? Honestly?
/r/askMRP10/01/16 05:15 AM
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If you like the nickname ShuffleUp Cuck then keep her .. if not then Next her.
/r/askMRP10/01/16 05:13 AM
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As the keyboard Knight reaches his hand out to the fair maiden. Imagining if he's just a little more chivalrous he might actually get laid this time. Maybe ...just maybe he thinks
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 03:43 PM
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Yup. I have been lurking and then formal commenting for over a year. When I first started, it was really nice having an open honest red pill space for men. But alas , the minute pussy pranced across the stage, the white knighting and beta bullshit began. The fact that most high quality comments get 0 points while those that are total shit -get up voted to the stratosphere - ,is all the proof I need to know its a hollow shell of its former self
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/16 03:58 AM
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Oh please ! Hypergamy doesn't give a shit if her hymen's been popped or not. I married a virgin once,. I was the first to dick that tight little coin purse good and hard and you know what ... she left me within 5 years. Why? b/c during our time together I had become a whiny, pathetic sack of shit. In fact I had an attitude just like yours. I was a sellout - a guy who chronically gave up before even getting started. Honestly, being a real masculine man is hard work and some just aren't ready for …
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 03:36 AM
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If you're not willing to fuck her during ovulation Chad will. Enough negs on your part during this time and she will find him. You can then officially take the name Chuck the Cuck
/r/askMRP06/01/16 03:24 AM
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Outside of answering yes/no to questions. Never talk to a cop without a lawyer present.I don't care if they are on duty/off duty or wife's relative - they are not your "friend" . They are trained to lie, frame and build a case based upon what you say to them. Its how they are rigged.
/r/askMRP06/01/16 02:55 AM
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Respond to your wife with "He ( cop relative) seems like a really nice caring guy, I'm sure you really appreciate his concern." A response phrased that way will remove that topic from discussion real quickly while simultaneously causing her to lose respect for him (cop relative)
/r/askMRP06/01/16 02:52 AM
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Its not really that surprising. They all lie - the degree just varies from woman to woman.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 02:41 AM
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To paraphrase a quote I saw on the blog Wall Street Playboys; "Motivational seminars are for losers going nowhere"
/r/MarriedRedPill06/01/16 02:33 AM
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She sounds like a real piece of work. A Dark Triad Woman. Honestly the only thing that works with a women like this is to use the Dark Triad Arts against her - amped up to 8. If that doesn't work turn the burner higher. Play your cards right, keep your frame tight and above all become OI in the inner most depths of your core. Pull it off tight and smooth - and she won't dare pull that shit ever again. I had a girlfriend like this in college. If I only knew then what I know now - I would have had…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/12/15 01:30 AM
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This ! Just using the term "nice guy" to describe coke head creates a "meh" feeling in her towards him.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/12/15 11:07 PM
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With an amused smirk on your face; start calling her your little parrot. My wife also is highly intelligent and did the same for some time.. that is until I began calling her my little parrot. She hated it and over time the mirroring stopped.
/r/askMRP27/12/15 03:55 PM
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You sound like a pathetic whiny bitch. Boo Hoo your wife didn't show you attention on Christmas Day. Get over it. Work on improving yourself and doing what makes you happy. Stop allowing her moods and actions to dictate your happiness.
/r/askMRP27/12/15 03:51 PM
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Unless you successfully run a Hedge Fund on Wall Street or a CEO of a Fortune 500 company - you will not build true wealth via a job alone. A retirement plan - no matter how early you take it - is not true wealth. Thats a fact. For clarification : true wealth is defined as minimum of 1 Million in liquid assets.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 04:44 AM
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The reality is the only way to truly move forward and be in the ideal "fuck you"position is to start and run your own business. Ideally it would be more than one business and they would be businesses that have scale and high returns on your input of time. Working as an employee for an hourly (or salary) wage is a shit way to move forward. The most valuable commodity we have is time. Its finite and giving it away for an hourly wage is a terrible trade off. Also,as the noose of political correctne…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/12/15 02:21 AM
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He's taking his understanding of " theres no loyalty with women - it just our turn" to a whole new level
/r/MarriedRedPill21/12/15 01:10 AM
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After reading through your comment history its apparent that you thrive off being a negative, insulting ,sarcastic contributor. While also attempting to portray yourself as the smartest guy in the group. In short most of your comments are shit and are a reflection of the inadequacies/ insecurities you feel . Life will never be as abundant as it could be with this mindset in place
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 07:10 PM
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Retarded heh - ad hominem attacks are the best you can give.? Ive dealt with a chronic health problem that Ive managed to beat by dent of my own research and help from non conventional health practitioners. Had I relied on the establishment medical system I would still be bed ridden. Being wise means thinking outside of the box and taking responsibility for helping yourself. Not blind trust and waiting like a good little boy for the all knowing ones to assist you - after of course they condescen…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 06:10 PM
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Most doctors are not healthy( look at their physiques) and tied in deep with MED Industrial Complex. Outside of a traumatic injury - I look to very few to heal me. The death care system in place now is not holistic and is all bout addressing symptoms versus root causes. The reality is if you want to be healthy you must educate yourself on your health and stop to looking to others to lead you
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 05:33 PM
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Ive eaten a whole food diet that is free from grains and refined sugars for over 4 years. Mostly paleo ( I do eat raw honey, limited fruits and maple syrup) .My weight dropped by around 10 lbs. YET my muscle gains have been incredible. Ultimately this has tremendously improved my physique and skin complexion.. Another improvement has been my mood. When I used to eat grains and sugars my mood swings were crazy. Not anymore - very stable. Most of the grains available today are not the grains that …
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 05:25 PM
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Seconded. I wil tolerate temporary ( emphasis on temporary) - periods of bitchiness, shits tests even lack luster sex. But the day she so much as hints and acts upon the idea of connecting with another man , its game over. This includes emotional along with sexual. Ive realized that without ever expressing this , my wife can sense it and she keeps strong boundaries in place and herself in line (Trusting yet verifying has confirmed) Once a man truly realizes his own self worth, and has internaliz…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 03:57 PM
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Not hard. Usually they are "Can I get you tomorrow - Im so tired". Some mornings , without any initiation on my part, she will say "tonight Ill give you a good suck" . Which is great- that she's thinking about it - but then in the evening she'll be like " Im so tired - can I get you later." Sometime this shit will drag on for two days +. Its not something Im used to dealing with
/r/MarriedRedPill17/12/15 01:19 AM
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You need to get to the psychological root behind your addictions. Not navel gazing psychology but practical psychology coupled with practical therapy. Thats really at the core of anyones problem with alcohol , overeating etc..
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 02:23 AM
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Shit I Need TO Own; Letting go of the rage I feel inside when my wife shows more interest in watching her fuckin TV show than wanting sex. A chronic health issue this past fall set me back. At the same time it created ED and affected my libido. This in turn affected my SMV with her . My health has since recovered but my SMV with her has not. Her shit tests and periodic bitching have been relentless and the sex has dwindled to 2 x a week interspersed with an occasional lackluster BJ. Inwardly Im …
/r/MarriedRedPill16/12/15 02:02 AM
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Honestly you don't have to do anything you don't like/want to do. That includes spending time with guys "your wife would like to fuck". Thats the beauty of being a RP guy - you do what makes you happy NOT what others expect of you. The other question I would ask is this: Why are you dragging your wife around with you every time you are hanging out with your friends? Make time do do things with them without your wife being present. I have married and unmarried friends. I spend time with both grou…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 08:09 PM
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This post hits home. I am really glad you shared your story. Since September, Ive suffered from health issues that have , thanks in large measure to the fatigue involved, led to prolonged periods of low libido and even occasional erectile disfunction. Fortunately, it appears that my body is beginning to heal. Since last week, Ive had increased sex drive and no problems with ED. During this stressful time , my wife was there for me, helped out tremendously etc.. However, I have noticed a subtle d…
/r/MarriedRedPill13/12/15 01:27 AM
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Sheesh.. sounds like my wife during shark week. Thanks to MRP Ive learned how to deal with this shit and (95% of the time) deescalate it the minute something like this is said... "why did you go upstairs for two hours? What were you doing up there? Watching porn? Talking to that girl again? My response now: "Definitely, she was fingering herself for me on a web cam - it was great" - said with a smirk. If an AA like that doesn't end the questions, I will usually jump up and run over and lift her …
/r/MarriedRedPill12/12/15 02:08 AM
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You did what you felt was best. You are now happy. Unless we walk a mile in your shoes - we cannot judge. However, as RP men who take responsibility for our actions, you may find that there will be some pain later down the road. The pain will be most felt when you see another man move into your house and become the replacement father of your kids. True - you might be with a tighter ,hotter woman than your wife. True, the replacement "dad" most likely will be a weak sauce sack of shit who is Beta…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 05:33 PM
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Pre marriage I used a variation of this line regularly. It worked like a charm. Even now, Ill use phrases with my wife like " Im going to the gym @ 430 your welcome to meet me there." The majority of the time she is eager to. Women love it when their man is a self contained unit, just moving along, loving what he's doing whether her wagon is attached or not..
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/15 01:42 AM
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Ahh to be "single" again. Laugh at her, be your easy going playful self and just keep pushing forward. If she really closes the legs for any extended period ( like more than 4 days) then I would just go out and find some cheap slut at the gym or bar and openly cheat on her. I mean she's a girlfriend not a wife . Bluntly speaking - theres no real commitment or real recourse should the relationship fail. If it does end - oh well , so be it- there's plenty more out there.
/r/askMRP11/12/15 01:31 AM
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Good clarification
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 11:41 PM
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This is why I would tell any BP guy to never get married until he has learned and applied RP truths. Without having experienced spinning plates and "good" girls who blow you on the first or second date - you will always feel you missed out. But what is done is done and so if that is what you want - jump in with gusto. However as men who take responsibility for our actions you might find that this path will lead you down a road where there will be plenty of things to take responsibility for - whe…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 08:58 PM
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I have learned that its imperative for a man to nip early and nip often anything in the bud that has the potential to create shittiness down the road. That includes anything found in both myself and herself. One example: A few years back my wife and I were moving some furniture out of her friends house. We were taking it over to our place. Well things weren't going smoothly and she begins harping publicly to me about how Im doing it all wrong. She makes a scene for her friend to see. We get in t…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/15 08:46 PM
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Exactly
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/15 04:46 PM
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Your confidence has to be internalized for the eye contact thing to work.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/15 04:39 PM
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A couple of minor differences: 1.Out and about - No smiling. Exception: if its a cute girl - she does it first and then only a slight smirk. 2.Moving fast is not always a sign of weakness/beta. If its controlled and methodical - moving fast can be very effective. It denotes you are a high energy guy that gets a lot of shit done. I know of a couple of very alpha titans in the industry in which I work and all of them physically move quick. Great point about moving "bro nod " from up to down versus…
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/15 04:30 PM
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This. My wife once mentioned that the first thing that she noticed about me when we met was the piercing eye contact I would make when I would talk to her. She said it really turned her on and made her horny. Here at the RP we take something like eye contact for granted but really a guy who does this regularly is the exception not the norm. It will distinguish him from the masses
/r/MarriedRedPill09/12/15 01:20 PM
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Ive never been a nice guy, so the RP came easy for me. However pre RP I always trusted that if you found a "good" woman she would always be there for you through thick and thin. RP writings ( thanks CH and Rollo) destroyed those rose colored glasses. As you wrote ( UltCad) all that really matters is what it is best for ourselves. Its taken me awhile but Ive really begun internalizing this, over the last year, and its helped in all areas of my life. Fortunately, my wife continues -shit tests not …
/r/MarriedRedPill07/12/15 02:19 AM
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No man who is truly an alpha , (no matter how controlling his behavior may appear to those on the outside looking in), will have his demands considered controlling by his woman. Thats a fact
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/15 03:14 AM
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Exactly
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/15 12:15 AM
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Oh yes the white knighting.. I distinctly remember - the brief time I was on it - there was this one divorced bitch who I was FB "friends" with. She would vetch daily about the " abuse" heaped on her by her ex. Like Pavlovian dogs the White Knights would respond on cue with Feelz of sympathy. I remember one day thinking to myself what a lucky guy her ex was to be rid of that shrieking cunt. I was pre RP and even then I found the ass kissing by her orbiters to be pathetic.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/12/15 12:09 AM
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When I was dating my now wife I said to her " in our home we won't be on Facebook" Within a day she came to me and asked how to fully delete ( not just close ) -her FB account. That was 4 years ago. Neither her nor I have used it since. Its a horrible site created by a putrid punk with no game ( just look at Zuckercucks wife) I put up that boundary as a test. She willingly and gladly accepted it. It was one of many tests that I performed while we were dating. She passed all of them with flying c…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/15 08:51 PM
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Mike Cernovich @ Danger Play is my favorite. Victor Pride from Bold and Determined is a close second. Both are the real deal and have written tons of information that have helped in my own personal and professional growth.
/r/askMRP02/12/15 06:45 PM
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Get another girl on the side and do it boldly, unapologetically and with a total IDAGF attitude. If it nukes the relationship -so be it - its an abundant world
/r/askMRP02/12/15 04:14 AM
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I am an asshole. Im also selfish
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 03:29 PM
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Well here it is day two and she shows no signs of stopping. Despite coming home last night and acting pleasant and friendly- she continues to be a total hard core bitch. Going so far as calling her parents and telling them not to come over for Thanksgiving dinner. Her reasoning: I have an attitude and would not be fun to have them over with all of this going on ( hmmm... project much) . Oh also , Im the most selfish guy she's ever been with and she's had it up to here with it. So fuck it - Im he…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 03:22 PM
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This. Yes , when I know what she is capable of ( from both recent and distant past) and she thinks she deserves a gold star for just showing up , well it pissed me off. I know it shouldn't but it did.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 03:27 AM
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She was going through the motions but her enthusiasm was lacking. Honestly it pissed me off. Not in a butt hurt sort of way but in a " I deserve better" sort of way. Im at a stage in my life where I know what I want and have a low threshold for bullshit. There are many times -too numerous to mention- where she has absolutely gobbled my cock and watching her pathetic performance in light of this - rubbed me raw. Our entire time together she has never once done a hard neg or even starfish. Usually…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 01:04 AM
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I agree
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/15 12:56 AM
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How true. When my wife acts up and storms out of the room, I will tell her to come back and if she is out of line to apologize. She will always do it. It has a great effect on the dynamic in our relationship
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 01:39 AM
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My nickname is ( name of large wild animal ) ; so at home my wife calls me Daddy ( name of large wild animal) .
/r/MarriedRedPill25/11/15 01:35 AM
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Just make sure that is really what you want. I had one when I was 32. Why - because I was a weak sack of shit who did it because my then wife didn't want children. I thought - Ok -b/c after all well be together for life and a happy wife is a happy life. Well, we all know how that turns out. Needless to say she's long gone. Fast forward time and I am remarried to a another woman whom I want to have children with. Despite having had a reversal and the tests showing my "live" sperm count being acce…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/11/15 05:14 PM
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This brings to mind the story I read of awhile back of Trump and the outburst he had against his then wife about some botched hair implant he had done by her cosmetologist. The story goes: he really lost it, even getting physical with her (not that I condone) . Despite this she recently came out in support of him and his presidency. Moral of the story: A man who is alpha can slip and lose frame - openly lose it on his girl and her tingles and respect will remain. Its because his anger comes from…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 06:55 PM
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most likely -there's been an influx of invaders recently
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 06:49 PM
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Geez I see the BP Brigade is out in full force on the comment board Thanks for sharing OP - the church here in the west is truly a mission field. A man with a hard core RP perspective could be used greatly in the arena of counseling and mentoring.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 04:33 AM
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And thats what you deemed the most important take away? Get a life
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 04:22 AM
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OP's relationship will do just fine. I speculate that within days she will be begging for her flappy vjay to be filled by his rod. Any guy with strong frame and alpha status can have an occasional outburst like this and the relationship is none the worse for it. BP Beta boyz on the other hand do this shit and within minutes she'll be shrieking about verbal abuse and the emotional damage its causing her and how its going to stop or "she's out of here"...and on command the BP beta will fold like a…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/11/15 04:16 AM
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It is VERY true the most Christian churches (99% ? ) are beta. However, as this redpill knowledge goes mainstream, I expect some changes. Absolutely- its because modern churchianity is always about following the lead of the culture versus being the salt and light its supposed to be.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/11/15 02:51 AM
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The church is both visible and invisible.The visible is manifested in the various Christian faiths found throughout the world. The invisible are all those who ever have and ever will believe and by His grace are accounted righteous for it.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 12:59 AM
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What's not mentioned is that if you are having problems in your marriage and you need MRP to help you with them, you are not really living a christian marriage, because, as quoted, you should be able to pull out your bible, show your christian wife, and boom problem solved. A yoked team of oxen cannot move forward when one is always pulling to the side. Many will claim with their mouth that they believe but do not in their hearts. Without the Spirit of God working within the person the words fou…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 12:50 AM
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That is why the feminists have worked overtime to eliminate any effects that divorce has on the woman. Outrageous alimony, crippling child support payments, restraining orders based upon vague/made up threats etc.. have rendered divorce a weak weapon for men with unruly wives. The more I learn about feminism and its effects its had on the biblical model and ultimately western civilization - the more I have come to realize how utterly satanic it is.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 12:41 AM
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I know one married christian woman who made a vow to submit to her husband - despite her natural inclination to do otherwise. Although it was tough at first - she has testified that after nearly 40 years of marriage she would not change anything. As a couple they are pretty neat to observe. The husband is as alpha as they come and although no shrinking violet she clearly respects and follow his lead in all things. Her obedience to scripture produced a great model for her children. This woman's d…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/15 12:28 AM
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An alpha can "lay down the law" and she will listen and it won't seem jealous or controlling to her. A beta/gamma tries the same thing and she's bleating that he's an abusive control freak. The OP needs to lift his SMV - plain and simple. When that takes place, he can tell her to " stop talking to the ex or else you're gone " and she will gladly comply. In fact one could even argue at that point she won't even find talking to the ex that "tingly " so her alpha won't even need to say anything.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/15 02:40 PM
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Nine times out ten if a woman is bitching to her man about the small things its because the tingles are gone and she is frustrated about it. She then takes out this frustration by riding your ass.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/11/15 03:21 AM
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Its funny because when I was dating my now wife she mentioned to me that she had always had fantasies about being spanked during sex . Instead of ignoring it I began regularly hauling her over my lap and smacking her ass. She loved it. Fast forward four years and we have regular BDSM in the bedroom. She loves submitting . Leather, , tying her up ,hair pulling and choking are regular parts of our sex life.. For me - its awesome. Im able to dominate in ways that I always wanted to but was too chic…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/11/15 03:36 AM
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Interesting. The times Ive just been friendly and engaged in light conversation - Ive noticed that.
/r/MarriedRedPill09/11/15 12:45 PM
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Alphas don’t hedge. They don’t use feminized language like “I feel like…” Spot on ! How we speak is a huge part of our presence and frame. Regardless of how much we would love to believe otherwise , people are always judging our position and strength based upon characteristics such as these. I look at a guy like Trump. One of his defining characteristics is his ability to say what needs to be said in simple, easy to understand terms that are blunt and to the point.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 04:07 PM
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Example # 1: Forced Example # 2: Natural If its feeling like sandpaper on glass - you're doing it wrong. It needs to flow naturally for it to work effectively.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/15 04:56 AM
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Good point. A man with high SMV can command his girl to do stuff and she will get turned on by the mere commanding.( hence desire) I know in my own life my wife did share with me once that she found it a major turn on when she's acting up and I put her in her place and/or tell her what to do. I also tell(command) her to do many things both in and out of the bedroom and she willingly does them - cheerfully
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 05:12 PM
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Respond with " Im being nice by wanting to dick you - now get on all fours" . Say it with confidence and a smirk. However, if you are currently on IV drip sex this line might not go over well as she doesn't have enough respect for you yet. The last thing that will ever make her wet is using lines like this: "Maybe you should fuck your husband because he's your husband?" It screams " Im low value - just fuck me because Im your husband." This will make her pussy drier than the Sahara. They say you…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/15 04:01 PM
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Confidence: Fake it till you make it. It sounds trite - but its very true. There have been many times that Ive taken on projects or convinced someone of going in with me on a deal without having a clue how I was going to make it all come together. What I knew at that moment was that despite the fear of failing this needed to be done. The details could follow. In none of those instances was there true failure. Roadblocks and setbacks were encountered and plans were changed but in the end it alway…
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 04:07 PM
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Doggy is the ultimate form of sexual submission. A women will not really be into it with a guy she doesn't view as dominant. Dominance really involves the whole package. Over time its possible to reach this point -youve obviously made large strides. However when it comes to her it appears that you're not quite there yet. Reading the following; How best do I voice my requests, or my disappointments (areas of improvement) in our sex life, w/ her? Timing, tone, language??? I still see a man express…
/r/askMRP04/11/15 04:30 AM
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Sarcasm. Gaming a coed you don't live with is like child's play when compared to the game involved in a marriage relationship with a hardened housewife
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 02:33 AM
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Good clarification - thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/11/15 12:39 AM
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As a fellow believer I appreciate reading your RP insights regarding Dread. Openly flirting with other cute women in front of my wife is hard for me to pull off. A lot has to do with a mindset that I still hold that its wrong. Yet I know that is really the most effective way to create the tingles in her. On the other hand - holding my own against her and not allowing her to push me over has been very easy ( and effective)
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 11:59 PM
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sarcasm -right?
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 11:07 PM
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Strong frame coupled with overt fat shaming will help to keep the pounds off her. I openly will say things to my wife like " its impossible for him ( the husband or boyfriend) to find her ( some big fattie we might see or know) attractive. No guy likes looking at that - its gross and repulsive." Subliminally its sends a strong message to my wife to keep herself in shape.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 11:05 PM
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The type of guy who believes that having "the talk " will magically open her legs. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AuRb4YJvvmM
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 05:24 PM
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I have started with zero and created a business that gives me a job that provides a modest middle class lifestyle. I have also invested in income generating real estate with both a partner and just recently begun doing it alone. I am by no means wealthy nor I have "made it". However I am well on the path to achieving both and know without a doubt that I will be a multimillionaire within 10 years. To move yourself in this direction- you have to be able and willing to take risk. That means giving …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 04:07 PM
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"I feel like you're just doing all these hobbies to get away from me/find someone else." Response : Naw - Im not that passive aggressive. "I can't ever give you as much as you need, you'd be better off with someone else" Response 1: Oh the drama! Pity party of one? Response 2: Come to think of it Ive always wanted a harem. I think the next one will be a 20 y.o. coed. "Can't we just cuddle?" Response 1: Naw - Ill leave that for you to do with your gay guy friends? Response 2: What is this - a Cud…
/r/askMRP03/11/15 01:40 PM
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....damn straight - now bend over and take it like a real woman ! Yes I have personally used this line on my own wife with nothing but positive results
/r/askMRP03/11/15 01:27 PM
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When she stops regularly sucking your dick you know the attraction for you is gone. Its the great litmus test. Occasionally my wife will go through periods where the hummers are only once or twice a week and her performance is lackluster. Its at those point that I know that my game has gotten weak and I need to step it up a notch.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 01:17 AM
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When you eat like this for a period of time your body will actually become acclimated to this style of diet. Eventually the processed carbs will not be appealing anymore. Ive eaten a variation of this diet ( we do eat seasonal fruits) for over 4 years now and the thought of eating junk like cupcakes is not appealing in the least.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 01:15 AM
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A bad wife will create its own source of stresses that will ultimately impact your life outside of the home. (think work) RP thinking and understanding can help greatly to mitigate the negative effects but still it will be felt. In that case being married sure as hell won't help. A good wife will make your life easier. Having a woman who helps to contribute to peace at the home and is always striving to make your life easier by cooking , doing laundry, putting out regularly etc.. make for a home…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 12:59 AM
2

If you live in a rural or semi -rural area its not expensive to take it up. An in state annual resident license should only run less than $100.00. Just starting out your best gun to own is a 12 gauge pump. You can pick up a good used Remington 870 for less than $300.00 from a gun shop. A 12 gauge is very versatile. Outfit the barrel with sites and you have a lethal tool that can be used to hunt game large and small - squirrel,rabbits,grouse, turkeys and even deer. I have killed every one of thos…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/11/15 12:50 AM
1

Consider yourself fortunate .. now don't go make the same stupid mistake again. Play the field and embrace being alone.
/r/MarriedRedPill02/11/15 12:33 AM
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Hunting is a great hobby. It gets you into the outdoors, away from the nonsense and exercises the body. It also develops the killer instinct -which all men should look to hone.
/r/MarriedRedPill31/10/15 02:46 AM
1

Oh how quickly they can turn.! Faster than the weather.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 10:43 PM
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Ive learned to embrace and accept my nature. Although generous, kind and friendly , I am also very abrasive with an blunt, aggressive edge. All of my life Ive been this way. A decade of my adult life I spent trying to temper the edge and be a "good little boy". Being a "good boy" -burying my edge and aggressiveness for the good of the "group"- led to a wasted decade of failing in work and in romance. No longer - I embrace it now and if people don't like it - " fuck em", The irony is that since e…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 10:14 PM
2

This has taken my understanding of AWALT to a new level. Any small amount of innocence that I may have had before is now gone.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/10/15 12:27 PM
1

After a 15 day break, I looked at porn and fapped. No excuses. My goal is 30 days. Solution: When the wife is out of town and not around and the urge to release hits I need to channel the energy to something productive. I also need to remind myself at that point - that delayed gratification and self control are extremely powerful traits that most people don't have. If I can implement it it will eventually become a trait that will be part of my life
/r/MarriedRedPill26/10/15 01:49 PM
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