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| 2 | Depression and antidepressant and desire to be worthlessThis is true as hell 😂 I’ve had chicks tell me they’ve been diagnosed with diseases and ghost me when I show that I care about their wellbeing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?Might work with some 25yo+ 6/10 girls, not what I’m going for | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/04/24 01:05 AM |
| – | Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them?Sure, but why cry online? Just do something about it. There’s so many levers you can pull to swing things in your favor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 11:53 PM |
| – | Do women downplay the overwhelming advantages that the desire gap gives them?Not gonna lie a lot of “men” on this sub seem to be crybabies suffering from horrid social skills and low testosterone Yeah, men desire women more than vice versa. What are you gonna do about it? Make more money getin the gym, maybe even do that height surgery? Become a passport bro? Literally Anything is better than crying about it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?$50 for a couple rounds of drinks vs $400 for an hour with a hooker.. hmm | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 11:24 PM |
| 1 | The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flakeI hope the strategy works for you 🤷🏾♂️ I’m not fighting any uphill battles, I’ll leave that for the desperate guys | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 10:43 PM |
| 1 | The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flakeBanging other girls? Sometimes yeah, sometimes no. Either way why compete with Mr. WYD when there are actually single girls out there? Why should I bother with difficulty for someone who’s less than 50% available? A real single girl is gonna be less BS to put up with and 100% available. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 09:42 PM |
| 0 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?Seems like a good way to dry up some poon you would otherwise have in the bag | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 09:37 PM |
| -1 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?I mean the women outnumber the men in this thread greatly. But I imagine to be a woman on this corner of the net you have to be pretty damn neurotic. Or like you said virtue signaling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 09:36 PM |
| -1 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?Seems like Reddit attracts women want nothing to do with masculinity. Must be something hormonal. Never heard of a woman being turned off by a great physique. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 06:33 PM |
| 2 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?Get your money up. Or Go on cheaper dates if you have to. Splitting the bill gets you zero swag points | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 06:21 PM |
| 7 | Women, what's something (behaviour, presentation, expression) seen as traditionally masculine that gives you the ick? Men, what's something seen as traditionally feminine that gives you the ick?You have 0 social awareness Why would someone who’s in a happy arrangement give a fuck what some reddit dork’s tirade | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/04/24 06:12 PM |
| 2 | Arranged marriages in EastCurious where I said anything about “India” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Arranged marriages in EastKeep squealing little miss piggy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Arranged marriages in EastNow all I see on my screen is “oink oink oink” when you write, weird. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Arranged marriages in EastMore low iq ad hominem squealing Seems like a recurring theme here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:06 PM |
| 2 | Arranged marriages in EastI’m not, but yes most of my extended family is and very happy. No one popping antidepressants and cuddling with dogs like westerners | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Arranged marriages in EastYeah I’ll take my first hand experience over whatever you’re yapping about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Arranged marriages in EastYeah idk what your response was either, just skimmed over and it looked like low IQ ad hominem trash so I just responded with equal energy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Arranged marriages in EastOf course it’s not their preference. And any guy can go through dry spells, not everyone has a huge social circle or a big city to draw upon | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Arranged marriages in EastOk so you’re making shit up based on a sample size of 2, got it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:16 PM |
| 1 | Arranged marriages in EastI promise I’m more attractive than any guy you’ve been with. I’m just analytical and use direct language. Maybe you confuse that with inceldom, idc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 03:15 PM |
| 1 | Arranged marriages in EastUnless you have strong religion to go either the advanced economy (gulf countries for example) you will fall to individualistic hedonism. But UAE, Kuwait, Saudi etc don’t seem to have these problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:39 PM |
| 3 | Arranged marriages in EastYou’re talking about what you see in public, like actual dating. I’m talking about an 7-8 attractive dude going through a dry spell or between relationships calling up a 4-5 for a quick fuck. This happens all the time my guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:36 PM |
| 2 | Arranged marriages in EastYou’re flat out wrong on this one, sorry. You don’t see it in public for obvious reasons, but attractive dudes are regularly piping 5s behind closed doors. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:30 PM |
| 2 | Arranged marriages in EastWhere are you from? Have you actually lived in an eastern culture? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:28 PM |
| 3 | Arranged marriages in EastI don’t know what happened to you in your life that makes your mind go straight to a woman resentfully being used, but it’s not accurate. It’s a loving partnership based more on lasting practicality than butterflies in your stomach. And on the whole, most people back East are okay with this. Because that’s how they have operated for generations. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:23 PM |
| 3 | Arranged marriages in EastYour first sentence is flat out wrong. Guys hook up with less attractive girls all the fuckin time. It’s not as extreme your cartoonish example as a fat librarian with a model. But 8/10 guys will take an easy lay with a 5/10, that shit happens every fucking day on tinder lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:20 PM |
| 0 | Arranged marriages in EastI’m from an eastern culture and grew up in USA. No question what I’ve seen with my own eyes. Controlling for income, the eastern cultures create more stable families and raise children with less emotional/psychological issues. Virginity is part of that. I don’t see how getting pounded out by studs for 5-10 years before settling down with whatever stable shmuck wouldn’t lead to more dissatisfaction. It’s just human nature. If I grow up eating filet mignon every day then all of a sudden have to sw… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:18 PM |
| 3 | Arranged marriages in EastWhy do women always resort to ad hominem rubbish 😂 at no point in the discussion was I talking about myself. The scope was always focused on the macro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:11 PM |
| 5 | Arranged marriages in EastWhen I say “stud” I’m talking about an actual physical specimen, like a 6’+, lean athletic guy who’s well endowed. The kind of guys that clean up. This is a minority of men probably <10%, so no Most can’t find them or lock them down. They can definitely get fucked by them and have a ghost for every man that comes after to fall short against and create dissatisfaction. Whether or not I’m insecure is irrelevant, glad you were able to set that aside and have a reasonable discussion without resortin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 02:08 PM |
| 4 | Arranged marriages in EastI don’t see how getting pounded out by studs for 5-10 years before settling down wouldn’t lead to an increased dissatisfaction. It’s just human nature. If I grow up eating filet mignon every day then all of a sudden have to switch to chuck roast, of course I’d be more dissatisfied than the person who only ever knew chuck roast Now I already know you’re gonna say I’m “insecure” or something like that. I’m not talking about myself here, I’m talking about the macro. If over 50% of marriages end in … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:59 PM |
| 7 | Arranged marriages in EastYeah it’s “possible” but zoom out and look at the statistics on a macro level. It’s only working for a minority. Over 50% of marriages end in divorce. Then you have even more fuckery going on with all the out-of-wedlock births. That stuff damages the hell out of kids psyche’s and they have to carry that baggage for life. But hey, cumming is more important right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:55 PM |
| 6 | Arranged marriages in EastIn the East there are higher priorities than orgasming. Like creating a stable environment to raise children. In the West nowadays yeah orgasming is the most important thing in life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Arranged marriages in EastThe same holds true in the US. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:49 PM |
| 3 | Arranged marriages in EastIt’s not about what I believe. Virgins are least likely to divorce m | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:48 PM |
| 5 | Arranged marriages in EastVirgins have the lowest divorce rate, this is just the fact of the matter. I don’t see how getting pounded out by studs for 5-10 years before settling down wouldn’t lead to an increased dissatisfaction. It’s just human nature. If I grow up eating filet mignon every day then all of a sudden have to switch to chuck roast, of course I’d be more dissatisfied than the person who only ever knew chuck roast | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:45 PM |
| 3 | Arranged marriages in EastUltimately in the East, marriages and family formation is built more on things more practical than chemistry and attraction. Such as finances, values, familial relationships, etc. that’s why there’s so much less infidelity and divorce. Not saying it’s some perfect system but it works for them. People seem to be more stable there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:40 PM |
| 6 | Arranged marriages in EastWatching internet porn isn’t the same as getting pounded out by a bunch of studs in your youth. The latter is more likely to lead to dissatisfaction in marriage and the proof is in the pudding. Virgin marriages are most likely to last, look it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:37 PM |
| 0 | Arranged marriages in EastIt means a lot actually, look at the statistics on divorce rate and # of sexual partners. Virgin marriages are more likely to last. In other cultures sexuality isn’t as shoved in your face as it is in the West anyways. Just stays in private. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:35 PM |
| 3 | Arranged marriages in EastYeah only if she’s been ran through by dozen Chads. If two virgins marry there is no such thing as “sexual incompatibility” because they’re both learning as they go at the same pace. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:33 PM |
| -1 | Arranged marriages in EastSo what? They should throw away their family prospects because she can’t coom enough? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:31 PM |
| 10 | Arranged marriages in EastMaybe not “average” but it’s not like the US where only the top 1% can afford it. Labor is cheap in the East. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:26 PM |
| 4 | Arranged marriages in EastNo such thing when you’re both virgins at marriage. That’s all you know, no “grass is greener” effect from a lifetime of Chad or Stacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:25 PM |
| 7 | Arranged marriages in EastWhy would your parents pick someone “random” lol If your family loves you they’d vet the hell out of the man’s character, finances, family etc | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:24 PM |
| – | Have we considered the costs of a polygamous society?It’s already happening in general. Women in their early 20s (their prime) share FWB with others. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/24 01:03 PM |
| 5 | The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flakeIf she’s having sex with another guy then I’m out. Why should I compete for a girl when some other guy is hitting it regularly off a 10pm “wyd” text? He can have her. Im not investing my energy into that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 09:53 AM |
| 1 | The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flakeNo I didn’t lol, re-read my comment. I said “most”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 04:33 AM |
| 5 | What do people who date/marry out of their league do?Man just having a good social circle is a cheat code. I always dated outside of my friend group. So never got the benefits of women “talking” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 03:40 AM |
| 5 | The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flakeWhy compete when I can just go find an actually single girl? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 03:21 AM |
| 4 | The oft quoted “disinterest” women have in most men extends to even those they ARE interested in - you still have to work for it, and even then most of the time she will find some reason to flakeThe confounding variable here is whether she is truly single. Most girls have an ex, a BF, a fling or FWB going at any given time. A lot of these girls will entertain you if you’re conventionally attractive and just waste your time for the attention/backup plan. So, you’re already competing for her interest unless you really have lucky timing on when you meet her. I found I have most success when meeting a girl who’s new in town with a clean slate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/04/24 01:23 AM |
| 1 | Why does everyone here think that young women are economically outperforming young men? It's not true.At the end of the day blue collar work and engineering is actually critical to keep society afloat. If the humanities people’s “librarian” or “PR” jobs disappeared tomorrow no one would notice. So real man work subsidizes white collar female work in that aspect. White collar email jobs cannot exist without blue collar, but the inverse is not true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Do you think men hit the wall when women became educated and financially independent?men age faster / worse than women 😂 because they look better than men No, because men have higher sex drives | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:03 PM |
| 5 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.What a terrible loss for him | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 05:00 PM |
| 6 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.Your reasoning faculties are weak. You made a bunch of assumptions about this hypothetical character. He has preferences = he is religious, conservative, inexperienced, unpopular, blah blah. Sounds emotionally driven to me. Maybe you’ve been hurt by a guy like that and you’re projecting now? Idk, idc, witnessing unabashed female narcissism in the wild is always a fun treat tho | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:55 PM |
| 3 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.lol more narcissistic drivel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:52 PM |
| 5 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.It’s not about him having a “meltdown”, or being religious or inexperienced - that’s just pure female narcissism talking. It’s just about his preferences. No one says women are having a “meltdown” when they go on about how they won’t date men under a certain height. Because men aren’t solipsistic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 04:20 PM |
| 5 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.Nah that’s dumb. They withhold when they see your “hubby material” qualities because they wanna pretend they’re not promiscuous and have a higher chance of locking you down. Playing the fuckboy card will get your laid on the first date, being a kind, considerate type will get you 3 sexless dates while she’s probably banging some fboy who texts her “wyd” after you bought her dinner 😂 I know because I’ve been on both sides of this equation. I’m naturally an empathetic, intuitive, lover boy but I’v… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 03:32 PM |
| 1 | A Solution to the Woman making you “wait for sex” problem.Bro you don’t know shit and you’re digging your heels when people call you out. Just stfu and learn instead of being a big baby | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 03:29 PM |
| – | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?Nah I genuinely don’t give a fuck. You’re probably not even hot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/04/24 12:58 AM |
| 1 | Are Age gap relationships that are EXCLUSIVELY casual sex still problematic to you?I never say that. Only broke losers say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:46 PM |
| – | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?Didn’t lash out at all, I don’t care about your preferences. Even if by some miracle you were a single, physically attractive girl in your 20s within a 30 mile radius of me, you don’t seem mentally balanced. Just saying, “a hit dog always hollers”… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 11:45 PM |
| -1 | Do older men 35+ have trouble dating woman in their mid 20’s?Smart attractive women love older men. Why wouldn’t you like someone more mature, more traveled/accomplished/interesting, more disposable income? As long as you keep your hair, stay fit, and dress well, a 25 year old girl won’t give a shit if you’re 29 or 34. Only women online rage about it for some reason? Probably because they’re aging out | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 08:20 PM |
| 1 | Do older men 35+ have trouble dating woman in their mid 20’s?Smart attractive women love older men. Why wouldn’t you like someone more mature, more traveled/accomplished/interesting, more disposable income? As long as you keep your hair, stay fit, and dress well, a 25 year old girl won’t give a shit if you’re 29 or 34. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 08:19 PM |
| 2 | Men are still expected to be the breadwinners in an age where young women out-earn young men [Resubmitted for wrong flare]I still pay because I only date early 20s girls, but if by some cosmic error I ended up with a girl my age, I’m splitting that shit. You had just as much time as me to make money and now the economy is in your favor. Get with the times lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 08:11 PM |
| 0 | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menSteroids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 08:00 PM |
| 1 | But why is it kinda easy for girls to date girls?Yeah we can. If she deserves it please do, they’re running amok | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships?She didn’t shit on anyone but men in that post. You only feel like you’re being punched down on because you’re insecure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 07:03 PM |
| – | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?Wasn’t a personal attack. Just pointing out it’s peculiar that you’d get so riled up about something that doesn’t pertain to you. Beyond that I don’t expect anything from you or care about you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:58 PM |
| 3 | Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships?Nah a fat loser with no options who stops caring because he gave up on himself doesn’t have “more power” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:33 PM |
| – | Most men dropped out of dating pool, Testosterone Level droppingI’m not experiencing them, I’m educating you. What do you know? You’re a woman. Even a 7-second google search of “low testosterone symptoms” would confirm what I told you. Why are you being aggressively ignorant on purpose? What do you gain from that? Men would get crucified if they went around telling women about their hormones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:31 PM |
| – | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?Agree. I’m similar to you, spent my 20s working and working out to get to this point of attractiveness and earning power. Now we’re on top of the totem pole and wanna settle, and we’re supposed to just settle for some chick who’s already banged everybody. Lol nothx I didn’t bust my ass for a decade for that. I’m at my peak and I want to settle with a girl at her peak too (early 20s, low n-count/emotional baggage) Good thing is you can get a passport and look abroad in more traditional cultures. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:28 PM |
| – | Are many guys here not interested in casual sex?You seem extremely bitter and offended about this for a woman who claims to have never engaged in casual sex 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:25 PM |
| 2 | Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships?Why would she care about them? Even if she cared, what could she possibly do for them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:18 PM |
| 4 | Do you feel like you actually have an advantage over men in terms of relationships?Nah whoever has more options has more power | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:15 PM |
| 0 | Are Age gap relationships that are EXCLUSIVELY casual sex still problematic to you?Nothing is “problematic” about age gap anything as long as they’re both adults. It’s funny when women say men are pursuing 22 year olds because we want to “manipulate” them. Maybe we just want to enjoy the company of a person without a decade of emotional baggage? Someone playful and happy? We don’t call women names for pursuing financially successful men, because women seek stability in a partner. But men seek joviality and can only find it in 20-24yo women, and we’re the problem 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 06:08 PM |
| – | Most men dropped out of dating pool, Testosterone Level droppingTestosterone is a man’s lifeblood. Without it he has no confidence to pursue anything in life, depression, physically weak, fat/unhealthy, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menYou can get jacked then | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:34 PM |
| 3 | Why are women very uninterested in dating/sleeping with younger menwtf 🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 05:34 PM |
| – | For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality?In either scenario, the guy is clearly comfortable around women and women enjoy his presence That’s why the “preselection” thing is real and why experience or “body count” is a plus. Some software engineer guy can be a great partner but if he’s around men all day and doesn’t have the “repetitions” with women, he’s ultimately gonna underachieve in the “sexual marketplace”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 04:07 PM |
| – | For the men who believe having a high body count positively contributes to their status, how does it translate in reality?Are you only meeting guys on dating apps? If you’re meeting guys through normal socialization you’ll probably notice if women are gravitating to him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/24 03:45 PM |
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