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Yep, I agree with you and /u/Bronze_Bound, not sure what to do in this situation.
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 05:17 PM
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I will never go to social media say shit and I respect his individual autonomy to do things like that. But I still think that a nuclear family is much better than doing something like this. Yes, it is hard as hell to manage to get a decent wife who will not try to divorce rape you eventually (and it is even harder for someone like him). Sincerely, I think the only thing that can suppress women hipergamy in the age of social media and feminism is religion. Any secular reasoning will convince her …
/r/TheRedPill14/03/17 12:26 PM
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I thought I was supposed to do what I'm doing and let him make the decisions. This just proves no matter how good I try to be, I'll never be good enough. What do I do? The only point where you should let him make all the hard decisions is after you are married, and even then, you should still be rational to notice problems and be sure that your relationship is in the right track. Don't to go the rabbit hole of thinking you will never be good enough, it is a learning process and we all make mista…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 12:22 PM
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Male here, I sense trouble for the OP. He is not your husband and this kid is not your son. I am all for full commitment, but you need to value yourself. I will never recommend moving together unless he proposed and you will marry soon, like in a year max. The guy really has no incentive at all to propose to you, since he already has unlimited sex and comfort, and it is possible that the thought of having another child is quite distant in his mind. You are risking to be a alpha-widow dumped in t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/17 11:18 AM
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I need to understand that it's not manipulation, it is simple human nature. A person who values their own opinions and comfort and is confident about that is attractive by default. As soon as you start to act like this, you will feel that it much more natural and sincere than being a chivalrous kiss-ass knight. The real manipulation here is to pedestalize the girl and treat her like a goddess believing that then she will fuck you and love you.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 10:58 AM
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Maybe I will be downvoted by this, but the thing that made me finally internalize TRP in my core around 3 years ago was spirituality. Once I got a true quest in my life, everything started to work, and I never put women as a priority anymore. I read book after book and found peace, and then met a beautiful girl who was also searching for God and today we are married. And the most beautiful thing is that I know that if she ever leaves, well, I am fine.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/17 10:47 AM
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Some people just can't avoid lying. Run.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 10:55 PM
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This is my number 1 rule, I will never take anti depressants and I will never have any relationship with a girl that take them. I saw my father and an ex LTR struggling to get over this addiction and it is even worse than regular drugs because most medics stimulate it and is socially acceptable. People are turning into zombies because they don't resolve their problems, they just take a pill and stays artificially kind-of-happy for years.
/r/TheRedPill17/01/17 09:45 AM
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One exercise that I do religiously, every day, is to imagine my wife breaking up with me and leaving, and being totally fine with it. Luckily, after I managed to get trp in my core, I noticed that I am always fine, and when I do this exercise my first reaction is to laugh and let her go. And the best part is that she knows that I would do exactly that and she never do this kind of "I could break up with you" shit tests.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 09:44 AM
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This is useful pretty much every time. My wife is conditioned to know that I will break the kiss first before her and therefore I need her less than she needs me. You need to set this frame since the beginning of any relationship. That said, it is important that this should be done naturally, like "ok enough of this kiss, I will do something else" and not in a forceful way, or it may look like you're butthurt or mad at something.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 04:03 PM
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It is very easy to make this just by breaking the kiss before her and looking to the other side or grabbing a drink. I am married and do this constantly, push/pull is the most important thing.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 03:13 PM
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Eckhart Tolle's 'The Power of Now' worked for me.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/14 12:26 PM
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"Let go" emotions is not blocking or suppressing them. It is observing and acknowledging it. In my opinion, if you go to a therapist to study/understand every little detail of how your mind works and what happened to you in the past, you will see a therapist for a decade and it will probably not help very much. Pretty much everybody have childhood issues. I saw a therapist for months to help me with my "nice guy" problems and saw no progress at all, was still a whimp. Then I bought some meditati…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 08:17 PM
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Entry into #NoNothingNovember Blog: None Goals: Nofap
/r/TheRedPill31/10/14 01:26 AM
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Yes. Spirituality was very important to me on swallowing the pill, specially Tolle. I am learning The Work now and it seems to be an amazing and very practical method to cut your own bs thoughts. I will check the other teachers!
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 01:33 AM
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Great post. I went monk mode for almost three months this year and frankly it was the most important thing that I did in my life. The insights that I attained on solitude changed my life completely.
/r/TheRedPill10/10/14 02:35 AM
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Reading your comments history, it is clear that she doesn't respect you and she probably cheated you already. Also you have Oneitis. Drop her now, go monk mode for some time and change your behavior. TRP must be internalized, if you just try to behave like rp but is still a fearful bp you will look like weak and lame.
/r/askTRP09/10/14 11:24 PM
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The experience is only useful if you learn something. You already know that she is not LTR material and you want a LTR so next. Anything other than that is hamstering.
/r/askTRP08/10/14 01:19 AM
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Yes, thank you for adding this. Indeed when we are BP we may feel a very strong attraction for mentally "not healthy" women (or women with an enormous ego). It happened to me too, and I noticed that many bp guys are trying to get over borderline BPDs. When I look back to my last Oneitis I notice that her personality would never attract me today and that I was bound to a terrible relationship. But she had an amazing power over me and the "special" feeling is still present, so I just avoid her com…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/14 01:49 AM
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I wrote here previously that I swallowed the pill through spirituality. It was when I finally managed to find inner peace alone that TRP started to work for me. You don't even need to be religious or believe in God to learn spirituality. Sam Harris is an atheist and recently wrote an excellent book regarding it named Waking Up: A Guide to Spirituality Without Religion.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 10:19 PM
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I always feel like spending my adolescence and early 20s being lonely has fucked me up for life. This is non-sense. Why it matters at all? Forget the past, there is nothing there that you can change, there is only the present moment always. You will always feel like a loser if you depend on external validation for your life.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 05:59 PM
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It will never work if you are not 100% open to lose her and be fine with it. You can't "apply TRP" while still being a total beta terrified to upset a girl. You have to genuinely stop caring. I second the advice to inform her that you are meeting new people. On that three months period, workout and talk to girls. Spin plates if possible. There is still an enormous chance that she will just fuck other guys and broke up with you eventually. But this is what will happen anyways. Your only small cha…
/r/askTRP01/10/14 12:39 AM
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Thanks both of you for pointing about Loyalty Tests, I never heard about them before and indeed it looks quite different from the usual shit tests I read about.
/r/askTRP30/09/14 03:51 PM
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She wants to be your girlfriend. She wants you to fulfill her emotional needs. These are the facts, now do what you want with this information.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 11:47 PM
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I spent 29 years of my life doing "gentle lovemaking" and trying to please women. Then I read like 1/4 of the sex god method and decided to try. I am fucking a girl for two months and she still can't figure out why she gets so whet when we fuck.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 04:16 PM
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Frequently I try to think about a clever A&A answer, but in this case I would just go to my natural response after taking the pill: just give a little laugh and say "No". If she insists, laugh a little more and say no again. Don't answer anymore. I did it many times in shit tests from my new LTR and it works amazingly well. More often than not she will notice how childish she is being and laugh too. Amused Mastery.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 03:16 AM
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Pick one that you enjoy and stop living to please women. I am now learning the piano and couldn't care less if they think it is geeky.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 02:51 AM
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Myself and most guys here found TRP after a disastrous case of Oneitis. I know how irrelevant is to read "forget her and move on", but believe us, nothing good comes from messing with the old trash. With time the power of this particular woman over you will fade. And after swallowing the pill you will experience true freedom: to be able to have relationships without really caring if she goes away.
/r/askTRP26/09/14 02:49 AM
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The Tao Te Ching is full of amazing quotes. I've been reading pages of it daily. “If you try to change it, you will ruin it. Try to hold it, and you will lose it.” (special for those trying to change sluts or cling to princess) “If you realize that all things change, there is nothing you will try to hold on to. If you are not afraid of dying, there is nothing you cannot achieve.” (personal favorite) “Those who know do not speak. Those who speak do not know.” “A man with outward courage dares to …
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 11:16 PM
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I also always hated to hurt people's feelings, specially on my BP days, but I really feel no empathy in this particular case. Assuming that it was no prank, the girl would have made a malicious trap to attract guys and make people waste time. I have more empathy for the guys that were totally frustrated by the girl lies.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/14 02:24 AM
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This realization, for me, not only had them coming back for more, It empowered me in real life. If a plate or LTR would get to shit-testing, I would simply remember the time I fucked her in the ass in the woods and smile. Her shit-tests meant nothing to me anymore. I would be reminded of the submissive slut that she was last night, and the power that I had over her. This. After swallowing the pill and reading some of the Sex God method I started to fuck girls hard and don't care. It automaticall…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 09:13 PM
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I agree. I know a chick that is addicted to that sort of movies (PS I Love You and other crap) that told me that she loves Woody Allen. I told her that I am not a fan but that Vicky Cristina Barcelona was good and realistic (and I was still blue pill, go figure) and she said "naah, it is the only one that I don't like". Women don't like when we figure them out.
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 07:18 PM
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Hey man! I forgot to mention but I also read Wild at Heart, before starting to read Tolle's books. Even if it has not influenced me so much, I enjoyed it a lot. Hope you find what works for you!
/r/TheRedPill24/09/14 01:49 AM
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Yes. One useful tip is to remember "this too will pass" when any labeled good or bad event happens in your life. This gives you freedom to enjoy it for what it is and to not to expect something from a fantasized future result.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 04:38 PM
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The other hurtful thing she's said a few times is that I'm boring in bed. When I try to ask her how to make it better she just says something like, it wouldn't be exciting if I told you. Just Get It
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:34 PM
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Pathetic. But in related news I am quite happy to read this and all the time think how pathetic it is, because I was exactly like that a year ago. Today, I would only laugh and leave.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:30 PM
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We are here because we never "got it" by ourselves, so most of us have shitty pasts. Guess what? It doesn't matter at all. Change yourself and enjoy your life mate, there is plenty of time.
/r/askTRP16/09/14 04:08 AM
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The truth: you lost this one, move on. Reply ok or np
/r/askTRP16/09/14 02:41 AM
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In my opinion Henry Rollins essay Iron and the Soul should be sidebar material. http://www.theironandthesoul.net/2012/04/the-iron-and-the-soul/
/r/askTRP12/09/14 01:16 AM
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I would not. Most of us have a pre-RP girl that have way too much power over us (romantic rejection is as addictive as cocaine). Sometimes even when you're fucking much hotter women, it is hard to take the Oneitis out of the pedestal. The fuck will be mediocre at best but you will probably lose frame again. It is your choice, but in your case I would LJBF her or just cut contact.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 04:54 AM
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For a BP it was very well played. Congrats for ending that shit. I would love to see her face when going to meet her alpha god lol
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 04:48 AM
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You can't do negs all the time, and they must be subtle. Also, you need to mix it with some compliments and emotional gratification. The mix of good/bad emotions is addictive to women. You need to give her all kinds of emotions.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 04:35 AM
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Older. Told you that is a cheater. You developed feelings. She cheated you. Cut all contact. Never talk to her again. No bullshit about friends or plate, just hard remove her from her life. Everything you make apart from this will cause you pain.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 01:11 AM
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Your frame break was probably caused because you already knew it was gone and was terribly afraid to lose her. It happened to me a lot on my last plate before RP. There are many better lays out there bro. Honor the time you enjoyed this one, all things pass.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 09:41 PM
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Women are great. There is no reason at all to be bitter. They can be fun, a great company, amazing in sex. I really love women. Also, as everything else in the world, they are impermanent. They will leave you sooner or later. The best case scenario? Death! Of course they are impermanent. So why bother so much? Why think so much about ways to make her stay a little more with you? In "good" moments and "bad" moments, always keep in mind: This too will pass. Life is not as serious as the "angry sta…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 07:37 PM
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Maybe you lost frame, but she was already gone here: She called and told me her work schedule changed this week so she would be putting in long hours at the bar/restaurant and probably not free to chat Tuesday, Wednesday, or Thursday. [red flag]. As we know, women with high interest level will not confuse you. In a LTR, everybody knows that is vital to communicate, even if it is only a little chat in the end of the day. She was probably already interested in another guy. Heal and move on brother…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:51 PM
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Very painful to read. Most of guys here (certainly including me) had a Oneitis in the past and it is a terrible feeling. The point you need to focus is: I cannot continue living like that. This is good. This is very, very good. Use this as a fuel to change your life. You are not a victim, you are the captain. Take responsibility for your own life and happiness. Never contact her again. This is the most important. Read the sidebar material, internalize the concepts, lift, go monkmode for a few mo…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 06:34 PM
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Stop giving excuses like "she stimulates me intellectually", this is bs. You have Oneitis. You want to fuck her. Cut contact immediately. Also, there is no coaching, read the sidebar material, internalize the concepts, lift weights and improve your life. You was born alone and you will die alone, learn to be resilient and take control of your life.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:17 AM
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Your goal lifting is not to not be a "fat slob". Your goal is to have impressive muscularity and be desired. Stop being happy for being average. Girls don't give a fuck for average, they desire and lust the top. Don't be lazy, go to the gym tomorrow.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:12 AM
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Laugh. Enjoy your time. If she see that you're having genuine fun there is no problem at all.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:04 AM
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I live in Brazil and I really enjoy women from here. Yes, some of the bitchiness of American women is already present, but in general there are plenty of feminine women to date, and due to immigration you can choose any kind of beauty to enjoy. Also, in many (most?) cities there is much more women than men.
/r/askTRP09/09/14 03:02 AM
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Relax. One day eventually you will start to desire them again. For now enjoy your monk months, most of us had a period like that (angry phase + raising smv).
/r/askTRP09/09/14 02:23 AM
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If you're already lifting, lift harder and internalize the side bar material. You're very close to a satisfying life as a man. Don't think about the time you lost, just think about this moment and realize that now you're free to be happy. I was in your position (stuck in a loveless relationship for 9 years) and was devastated when it ended. Guess what? I am having the life that I always wanted, having a lot of sex with a woman that desires me a lot and the best part is that I am not afraid of mi…
/r/askTRP09/09/14 02:16 AM
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Your blog and your book were vital in my awakening and I still re-read the core articles many times. Thanks a lot for your work Rollo.
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 02:01 AM
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But when the inevitable (beta behavior induced) breakup happens, it hits me very hard. A piece of me dies. I used to feel the same. Then I discovered that everything in this fucked-up world is impermanent, and when something leaves you, what dies is a part of you that is not you, is your ego. Is your clinginess, your sense of lack, your beta-self. Use the feeling of emptiness that you are feeling right now to burn everything that is not you. Use it as the fuel to burn your ego.
/r/TheRedPill05/09/14 05:57 PM
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Every day imagine her leaving and be totally ok with that.
/r/TheRedPill29/08/14 07:09 PM
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You're probably still in the angry phase after swallowing the pill. In this stage, is hard to not let some bitterness go through when talking to women. At one moment you will realize that women are not bad or mean, the hipergamy is not their choice, is just an evolutive trait. They can be very funny and interesting, and there is no problem at all to entertain and have fun with them. The only thing that you truly have to internalize, forever, is that they can leave you at any moment, so you shoul…
/r/askTRP27/08/14 01:26 AM
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I'm generally content, but not happy, though there are times when I feel like if I could just get my business back to where I was before, I could work on being happy. No external thing in the fucking world will make you haaaappy. You're relying on external events in a fantasized future. This is madness. Read some Eckhart Tolle, start by The Power of Now.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 02:30 AM
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Never dance unless you know what you're doing, or she will quickly notice your insecurity and lack of leadership and your image will be damaged in her eyes. But if you know how to dance and lead it is one of the most powerful ways to make her wet.
/r/askTRP02/07/14 01:03 AM
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The Power of Now, by Eckhart Tolle. Some guy's here thinks that he is too soft, but this book is the single thing that made me change from a wimpy beta always looking for validation to someone who don't really care for the opinion of others because I can be happy by myself.
/r/TheRedPill30/06/14 12:05 AM
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This episode is epic. And if I am not wrong, this is also the episode where a girl break-up with Jerry and he react like a boss. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T9W_jW4e_uY
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 02:01 AM
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Read this. http://therationalmale.com/2012/03/27/dread-games/ http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2008/03/27/dread/
/r/TheRedPill20/06/14 04:10 PM
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A few months ago, still on blue pill, I started dating a girl that almost my size (5'10") and higher with heels. I never dated a girl so tall before, and I can't deny that I was physically a little intimidated, and for the first time I had problems to lead. She was quite hot, but her hands were bigger than mine, and her personality was quite aggressive. I messed up in a lot of different ways and had a LJBF rejection after three months. Also, her last boyfriend was quite big and broke-up with her…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 01:27 AM
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This is brilliant. I think that evolutionary context is important to avoid the trap of building hate against women. Yes, they have a lot of traits (hipergamy) that we consider horrible today, but they were vital for the survival of humanity. We just have to learn the real rules.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/14 01:51 PM
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Thanks for all comments. I wrote an immense wall of text to send her, read the answers here like 10 times, and deleted it. I feel better after writing that shit. Time to move on.
/r/askTRP11/06/14 02:16 PM
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I am a very romantic 29 yo man, and I am very immature in relationships since I spent 10 years with a girl that turned out to be my ex-wife. After the divorce, I found a girl that delivered an insidious shit test. She convinced me that she was very romantic and was looking for a really nice guy. I never heard about the red pill or shit tests before, and I failed this one immediately. In the second date, I brought a flower. In the third, more flowers. Then I sent flowers to her work. In the meant…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 11:52 PM
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Thanks for your words man. Yes, I am still in a lot of pain due to the broke-ups, and I realized that I never "healed" my ex-wife leaving since I went after another girls right after her. But I realized that I was not doing enough self-improvement and now I am hitting the gym, trying new projects to make money and reading a lot of RP and self-improvement in general. It seems that is hard to wake-up without suffering a lot before. This is my wake-up call, and I am grateful that I still have a lot…
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 08:55 PM
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True, and painful post to read. After getting divorced I followed it with an ONEitis for one girl and I am discovering the red pill after she broke-up with me. I am still messaging her occasionally and every time I do it I feel like a loser with no self-respect. I also believe that she probably thinks that I am a creep now.
/r/TheRedPill07/06/14 08:30 PM
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To find the Red Pill I lost my wife, and the awesome girl that I met after her a few months later. Not a small price for the education, but at least I am still 29 yo and will be able to take better decisions from now on. And the most important will be to learn to be happy by myself and not finding a girl to fill the hole in my heart.
/r/TheRedPill06/06/14 10:00 PM
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