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| 345 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to Them | General | AgentCarbine | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 04:51 AM |
| 53 | Top 10 Vetting Rules for Men (Eliminate Risk Early) | General | AgentCarbine | /r/MensRights | 06/06/25 05:17 AM |
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| 5 | Charlie Kirk saved my lifeYou mentioned balance. My high school Gov teacher was a former U.S Army Ranger. I’ll never forget what he told the class once. He said “you cant be too far left, or too far right. You have to be somewhere in the middle. This was around 2001. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/25 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Charlie Kirk saved my lifeConservative here as well. He had some of the most constructive debates against opposing views I have ever seen. He never touted or supported violence, contrary to popular Reddit belief. He was murdered because someone did not agree with his views. Insane times we live in. | /r/MensRights | 11/09/25 03:36 AM |
| 29 | Femenist anoying me on a metroWell said | /r/MensRights | 07/08/25 04:32 PM |
| 12 | Genuine question for menYou’re not “still waiting.” You’re just refusing to acknowledge the facts already in front of you. You said “name one.” You got several each legally codified, each gender-specific. You lost this debate the moment you tried to pretend the law treats men and women the same. It doesn’t. And now everyone reading knows it. | /r/MensRights | 07/08/25 05:09 AM |
| 21 | Genuine question for menYou posted this in r/mensrights, which, unlike many women-centered subs, doesn’t ban or silence dissenting views like yours. That alone shows a cultural double standard. Men build forums to discuss systemic issues, and still allow opposing opinions. Women build echo chambers. But let’s move to some examples. (Selective Service Draft) Men are legally required to register for the draft or face penalties. Women aren’t. Theoretically, women can be drafted, but only men are forced to sign up. That’s … | /r/MensRights | 07/08/25 04:17 AM |
| 25 | Men walking away from marriageNothing good ever comes about involving the Government in a relationship. “Hey, we both love each other. Let’s get the government involved!” | /r/MensRights | 06/08/25 07:16 PM |
| 6 | The Story of Chris Mackney and parental alienationJesus….that is an insane story. Poor guy. This makes my situation laughable. Thank God my ex wife is poor and an imbecile. She tried taking my son away with a fabricated lie, and failed. | /r/MensRights | 06/08/25 03:48 AM |
| 1 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI will be posting an update post soon. | /r/MensRights | 04/08/25 03:22 PM |
| 2 | Has it Happened to you that sometimes Reddit threatens that you are stuff about vulnerable communities?Well said. Even society places them in a different category. | /r/MensRights | 01/08/25 03:21 AM |
| 16 | About the tea app100% agree. Why cant I warn other men about how manipulative and a liar my wife is? Maybe I can save a lad or two into getting falsely accused and potentially save thousands. Double standards 😊 | /r/MensRights | 25/07/25 02:38 AM |
| 2 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemReally appreciate your thoughtful reply. You’ve clearly put a lot of reflection into this, and it helps more than you probably realize. What you said about the dynamic with older kids hit home, it tracks with what I’m seeing. And yes, you’re right, the hardest part is staying steady while the influence is still strong on him. I’ll keep that long view in mind. Thanks again for taking the time, seriously. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/25 03:53 AM |
| 2 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI hear you loud and clear. I can only hope my son grows up with the same clarity and strength of mind you’ve shown here, able to see through the lies and manipulation for what they are, when the time comes. | /r/MensRights | 08/06/25 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Top 10 Vetting Rules for Men (Eliminate Risk Early)Grammarly to make sure I didn’t misspell words is apparently AI. Cool man, thank’s for falsely accusing me. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/25 04:14 PM |
| 1 | Top 10 Vetting Rules for Men (Eliminate Risk Early)Are we calling everything nowadays an AI post? Because I wanted to emphasize the phrase “every time”. Pathetic | /r/MensRights | 06/06/25 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Top 10 Vetting Rules for Men (Eliminate Risk Early)Exactly. Your brain won’t see red flags once it’s chemically attached. That’s how good men get trapped. Vet first, bond later. Clarity beats crawling out of a wreck months later. | /r/MensRights | 06/06/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI agree. Also I was not charged with a sexual crime, not sure where you got that from. | /r/MensRights | 05/06/25 03:22 PM |
| 1 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI completely agree, and I appreciate that you understood the point I was making. I had concerns it might be misread as anti-woman, which was never the intent. Unfortunately, this sub sometimes veers into outright hostility toward women, and it makes me question how some of those posts are even relevant to men’s rights. Thanks for taking the time to read my post and respond thoughtfully. | /r/MensRights | 04/06/25 11:14 PM |
| 5 | Nothing wrong with being insecure and wanting someone to fully love us.You’re not average, you’re acting like it. You’ve already won where most men lose: high income, stability, drive. But now you’re letting the ghosts of her past make you question your worth? Fuck no. You don’t like being seen as the “safe” choice? Then stop being soft. Get jacked. Get sharp. Get dangerous. You’ve mastered money, now master your body and mindset. That combo doesn’t get ignored. It dominates. Stop whining about fairness. Life isn’t fair. Power is. And right now, you’re giving yours… | /r/MensRights | 04/06/25 05:03 AM |
| 1 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI see. I can’t afford any time of charge, my career will be over. Currently looking at going to trial, and I going to wipe the floor with the District Attorney’s office. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/25 09:04 PM |
| 1 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemHow come you didn’t take it to trial? | /r/MensRights | 03/06/25 09:00 PM |
| 13 | I hit rock bottom, but 5 years later I finally see the light – to any father out there going through hell: don’t give up.God damn, your story is very similar to mine. Your story is a brutal, unfiltered account of perseverance in the face of systemic injustice and personal betrayal. It’s not just a redemption, it’s a blueprint for resilience. You were falsely accused, stripped of your home, your stability, and nearly your sanity , yet you held the line for your children. That’s what separates a man from a father. This isn’t a feel-good story, it’s a call to arms for any father facing weaponized institutions or emot… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/25 08:10 PM |
| 2 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI am sorry to hear that brother. Stay strong | /r/MensRights | 03/06/25 06:38 PM |
| 2 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemYeah, I’m expecting it. Her false accusation landed me in jail, and I’m still fighting that case. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/25 01:19 PM |
| 2 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemYou just dodged a bullet. Stay away from her. | /r/MensRights | 03/06/25 01:16 PM |
| 57 | Why does society always expect a man to risk his life to save a woman he doesn't even know, and look down on those who don't, while she is never expected to do the same?You’re right, it’s not about strength, it’s about responsibility. And responsibility, when one claims to be part of a society, is not gender exclusive. If sacrifice is expected from men, then the same moral expectation should apply to women. Courage isn’t a biological trait,it’s a choice. If some women want full equality, that includes stepping into the fire, not just watching from a safe distance. You can’t demand equal rights and then outsource the risk. That’s not equality, it’s cowardice wra… | /r/MensRights | 03/06/25 01:20 AM |
| 3 | Alpha ToughnessReal strength doesn’t advertise itself. If you need to preach “no validation” just to get validated as tough, you’ve already lost the plot. That’s not discipline, it’s ego in disguise. True resilience is quiet, steady, and doesn’t rely on belittling others to feel strong. The loudest “alphas” are often the most insecure in the room. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 10:39 PM |
| 3 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemThat’s not kindness, that’s tactical restraint. You’re letting her destroy her own credibility while you control the narrative through discipline. That’s not weakness. That’s asymmetric warfare. Well played. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 08:34 PM |
| 3 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI think never is too much of a general term. There are great Women out there. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 07:51 PM |
| 1 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemRespectfully , I’m not here for empathy. I’m not venting. I’m broadcasting a warning. You say “there’s nothing new under the sun”? Maybe not. But most men never say it out loud , and fewer still have the spine to call it what it is without softening the edges to make it palatable. I didn’t post to convert fence-sitters. I posted to give clarity to the men already bleeding out, but too disoriented to recognize the wound. That post wasn’t theory. It was after-action. You want polished, peer-review… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 07:04 PM |
| 3 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemIf your wife hits 9 out of 10 red flags and is weaponizing the legal system, you’re not paranoid , you’re in danger. Start documenting everything now. Lock up your weapons. Never argue without witnesses or recordings. Tell someone you trust. Quietly separate assets. See a therapist to build a record of stability. Assume the system won’t protect you , and plan your exit before she pulls the pin. Waiting around isn’t loyalty. It’s suicide by hesitation. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 06:40 PM |
| 2 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemDidn’t pull it from anywhere. I lived it. The kind of red flags I’m talking about don’t come from a blog post , they come from watching your life detonate in real time because you ignored the warning signs. But if your buddy needs a hyperlink to take it seriously, tell him this: The most ‘authoritative’ source is a man who survived the consequences. And that’s me. You want polished citations? Fine. I’ll write the damn book one day. -L.V | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 06:38 PM |
| 5 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemOof. Glad you are out of that hell hole. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 02:04 PM |
| 4 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI got married in my early 20’s. You are far ahead of the game, good on you! I wish I had your wisdom at that age. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 01:59 PM |
| 2 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemSome Women are transactional, same goes with some Men. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 01:58 PM |
| 1 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI got married in my early 20’s, not the best decision. I don’t think I’ll re-marry, but if I do, guidelines will be in place to protect myself legally and civilly. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 01:57 PM |
| 1 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI’m right there with you, 40K on criminal defense and 8K for a family attorney, and counting. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 01:41 PM |
| 2 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI couldn’t agree more | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 01:40 PM |
| 5 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI have court as well coming. Good luck to you | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 01:20 PM |
| 31 | Can we talk about how “I can fix her” and “I want my girl to beat me up” memes are actually hurting men’s mental health?You’re not alone, and you’re not wrong. Wanting peace, respect, and real love isn’t weakness , it’s clarity. Social media has glamorized dysfunction, but there’s nothing cool about being disrespected. Don’t apologize for having standards. Stand on them. Men deserve healthy relationships too, and anyone mocking that is part of the problem, not the solution. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 06:24 AM |
| 13 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemNo, of course not. Like I said in my post, these apply to all genders. These are not gender specific, plenty of Men are guilty of these relationship faults too. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 06:10 AM |
| 13 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI agree, social media does more damage to society than that far outweigh the benefits. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 06:08 AM |
| 16 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI appreciate your advice. I have heard that same advice from several Women in my inner circle about not talking negatively about my ex to my son, and I plan on following through. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 06:04 AM |
| 19 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI haven’t seen him in half a year, nor talked to him due to a lie. And the system pushed the false agenda. I’m not looking for pity, I want other Men to not fall how I did, because the pain of not being able to have your kiddo over a false accusation has been unbearable at times. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 05:22 AM |
| 41 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemI was stupid, naive. Thinking it would get “better”, believing I was the only one at fault for everything. I mostly did what most fathers do, stay to keep the family intact for the sake of our kids. I was so wrong… | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 05:11 AM |
| 22 | 10 Red Flags I Wish I’d Seen Sooner: A Warning for Anyone Who Thinks It Can’t Happen to ThemThat is awesome. The fact that your two boys know the truth has to be the best form of vengeance. | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 05:09 AM |
| 7 | male can sale to.ChatGTP generated this for you? | /r/MensRights | 02/06/25 03:01 AM |
| 1 | project mystery or masculinine mistique is a weird idea i have about reinventing the wheel when it comes to masculinity and male identity and earning womens sympathy and respect and alo the importance of oral sex and us correctly impressing them and why sexuality is a contest with women.ill put $1,000 | /r/MensRights | 01/06/25 03:43 PM |
| 1 | But they say men are the violent ones...From experience based in my field, both males and females are equally capable of violence. I’ve seen this news article on other subs, however not in the mainstream ones on Reddit. Why? Because it doesn’t fit the narrative. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Violence Against Men ActYou claim it’s not misandry, but when men are jailed, silenced, and lose access to their kids without due process, while false accusers face zero accountability, that is systemic bias against men. Feminism isn’t fighting for equality when it ignores male victims, mocks false accusations, and turns the justice system into a gender-based weapon. That is structural. Just not the structure you’re willing to look at. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | It's Time for a New Chapter in the Men's Rights Movement — One That Demands Respect, Reform, and Real ChangeThat’s the old school way of spreading awareness. The modern method? Social Media. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/25 03:02 PM |
| 2 | Maybe someone can offer some insightYou’re not overthinking it, you’re seeing the cracks most people ignore. Child support is labeled a “civil matter,” but once you’re held in contempt for non-payment, you’re suddenly facing jail time without guaranteed legal counsel. That’s a constitutional gray zone, and it’s been debated all the way to the Supreme Court. The logic courts use is that jail for civil contempt is “coercive, not punitive,” meaning you hold the keys to your own cell by paying. But that falls apart when the parent lit… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/25 06:12 AM |
| 7 | Dear women on this sub, what was your "red pill moment"?Bless your heart. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/25 06:03 AM |
| 1 | Are we going to do something?100% agree with you. I am new to this sub, but it seems a lot of women hating has been going around lately. This is supposed to be a Men’s rights sub. The idea that Women are bad as a generalization is ridiculous, just as any broad generalization of anything. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/25 05:58 AM |
| 1 | Emmanuel Macron president of France was slapped by his wife. No requests of accountability by the publicAh, the good ol “He can just defend himself paradox”. You defend yourself from an assaulting woman, and now you are under arrest. It’s great isn’t it? | /r/MensRights | 01/06/25 05:21 AM |
| 92 | Sister in law claims I sexually harassed herYou’re in a reputational ambush, treat it like one. Lock down your version of events now while it’s still fresh. Quietly secure any witnesses who saw you joking around or heard your explanation. Stop laughing about it, even if it was absurd. Perception is reality, and that laugh is now part of the narrative she’s weaponizing. Don’t try to win the in-laws right now, they’ve chosen a side. Stay calm, stay factual, and let her story overextend. If it escalates, lawyer up immediately. You’re not gui… | /r/MensRights | 01/06/25 03:13 AM |
| 20 | Men's mental health month starts tomorrow!Agreed. June shouldn’t just spotlight our struggles. This sub can be more than a callout space. A place for men to share tools, truth, and tactics to survive what life throws at us. Divorce, betrayal, isolation, false accusations, or just the quiet grind. | /r/MensRights | 01/06/25 03:06 AM |
| 6 | When trying to date women, men are demonized every step of the wayI appreciate your input, and you are spot on the religious basis, which is where my belief system has some significance for me personally. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/25 11:05 PM |
| 11 | When trying to date women, men are demonized every step of the wayIf you need to manipulate or convince a Woman, then she is not worth your time. Either she fits your needs, or she doesn’t and you move on. I get the pro’s and con’s of being single. However, I am in the school of thought that Man requires the love of a Woman. And this is coming from someone who got falsely accused by a Woman and got my life leveled in the past 6 months. I don’t blame all Women, I blame myself. I chose the wrong one despite all the red flags and early warning signs. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/25 10:10 PM |
| 18 | When trying to date women, men are demonized every step of the wayI agree with your last statement. I have my own opinions on dating women. Not sure how this post has anything to do with Men’s rights, but I’ll entertain. I got completely wrecked by a woman, but now I have higher standards in every department, especially loyalty. Either a partner meets your standards, or they get out of your way. Do not settle for anything less. Online dating is for kids in my opinion. | /r/MensRights | 31/05/25 10:00 PM |
| 30 | Men deserve the truth from the friends of accusersYou shouldn’t believe anyone based on their gender alone. Believe facts, not accusations, believe concrete evidence, not fabrications. Because theres no way humans aren’t flawed, and never lie right? | /r/MensRights | 31/05/25 02:15 AM |
| 2 | I was forced by society (women & men) to act like a "man"What is considered a “man” has vastly changed throughout human society. You are correct, it depends on where you live. Men who are worried about their “image”, in my experience have unresolved insecurity issues at the very minimum. | /r/MensRights | 30/05/25 06:28 PM |
| 6 | why there is a demand and need for women mentoring young men and young male and older women relationships.Is this from ChatGTP? | /r/MensRights | 30/05/25 04:20 AM |
| 47 | What precautions can a man take to avoid losing everything in a divorce?If you’re going to marry, treat it like entering a combat zone and prep your perimeter. Get a prenuptial agreement with both sides having independent legal counsel or it won’t hold up. Keep major assets like your house, business, and retirement accounts separate before the marriage. Don’t take on joint debt. Document everything, income, property, and expectations, before saying your vows. Marriage is a risk. That doesn’t mean go in blind. It means go in armored. | /r/MensRights | 29/05/25 08:11 PM |
| 5 | DESPICABLE interactionIf you had posted this on a Women’s subreddit, you would have been downvoted to hell. Speaking all these facts, how dare you. | /r/MensRights | 28/05/25 03:17 AM |
| 5 | How can one be married to a woman and misogynist?Misogynist and Narcissist are two terms used, seemingly recently to paint all men who disagree with modern feminist views. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 07:43 PM |
| 41 | Are we going to do something?I plan on writing a book that shows men how to beat false criminal charges filed by women and re-claiming their life. Currently in that war as we speak. Thats my small contribution. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 06:26 PM |
| 9 | As a woman myself I think Mia Dio is Anoying and also concearning do you agree with me...?Thank you for being an MRA. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/25 01:40 PM |
| 45 | Falsely accused of sexual harassment, unemployed, and can't find workYou got involved with a coworker, photos, kissing, no disclosure to HR. That was your first mistake. Doesn’t matter if it was mutual, HR sees that as a liability the second one person changes the narrative. You weren’t arrested. No criminal charges. That means nothing shows up on a standard background check. But you did sign that write-up, which, while not an admission of guilt, basically tells HR you accepted the disciplinary action. That write-up is in their internal file, not public record, b… | /r/MensRights | 26/05/25 04:53 AM |
| 2 | do you have any plans to help men currently/are looking into it in the future?Yes. I plan to write a book on my story and how I beat false DV charges | /r/MensRights | 25/05/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I was accused of domestic violence by my narcissistic exI hate that you are going through this, because I know EXACTLY how this feels…I was accused of DV by my wife back in December. I was arrested, lost my career, 60k and counting in legal fees+living expenses, and they took my son away from me. They’re going to pay, real soon. Get a damn good attorney. Someone with teeth. DO NOT plead to anything you didn’t do. Document the hell out of everything. Do not delete prior text messages/correspondence with her. Do not talk to anyone about your case. You … | /r/MensRights | 19/05/25 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Why are men not marrying?I feel you brother. We will get through this on the other side. One day when this is over I will share my story. | /r/MensRights | 17/05/25 02:25 PM |
| 37 | Why are men not marrying?I am about 13 years too late to this comment my friend. HARD lesson learned. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/25 06:01 AM |
| 3 | Men's self care and my recent experience with attentivenessAbsolutely. Good for you for taking the plunge. I would go as far to say that it does wonders for your mental health, based on personal experience. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/25 05:52 AM |
| 97 | Why are men not marrying?Uhhh, yeah I’ll take #3 for about $60,000 and counting. Oh and a small order of fries with that, thanks. 3 is my current situation. A living nightmare. I doubt I will ever re-marry. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/25 05:42 AM |
| 2 | Men's self care and my recent experience with attentivenessThat is awesome. Growing up getting a spa treatment was seen as feminine and not “manly”. Apparently being manly is asociated with jacked up skin and disgusting feet. | /r/MensRights | 14/05/25 05:38 AM |
| 29 | The transfer of wealth from men to women.Agreed. Reddit being one of them | /r/MensRights | 13/05/25 02:18 PM |
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