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Ironically the bride used to joke about her mom sending a stud finder (the tool for finding studs in a wall) to her girlfriends as a divorce gift
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 08:35 PM
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This is actually my first wedding of my generation of friends that I am invited to, so I wasn't sure of the plus one etiquette...is it normally assumed that guests can bring a date? It didn't say anything about +1s on the invitation or the RSVP website so wanted to confirm with her. I originally assumed that I was allowed to bring a date, which would naturally be my SO of 5 years, and, it's a pretty casual wedding. But my SO wanted me to check. He probably had a hunch that they might not what hi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 08:17 PM
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Being RP or "Alpha" is not about having a high value job or material wealth. It's more about an attitude that is attractive to women through conveying dominant behavior and passing of shit tests, outside of material assets or social standing. There are plenty of wealthy, academic or high social standing men who only know beta behavior when it comes to women and while these men are attractive to women for their assets, it's not enough to keep a woman's hypergamy in check. At the same time there a…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/14 09:30 PM
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Plenty of young college women feel disconnected with the Cock Carousel expectation and want to be LTR worthy. They might not be as noticeable as the ones riding around and making a show of themselves so you'll have to keep your eyes open. "Saving yourself" is seen as an outdated old fashioned thing so these girls aren't going around parading this value or loudly slut shaming their peers. They want to fit in with other women their own age, not sound like grandmas. They may pretend there's nothing…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/14 07:35 AM
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CULTIVATE DEFICIENCIES - Men and women poorly sexed treat each other with more or less indifference, whereas a hearty sexuality inspires both to the right estimation of the faculties and qualities of each other. Those who are deficient should seek society and overcome their deficiencies. While some naturalIy inherit faculties as entertainers, others are compelIed to acquire them by cultivation. I like the terms "poorly sexed" and "hearty sexuality" as they apply to feminists and RPW respectively…
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/14 04:47 AM
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Back in the day of traditional gender roles there was a lot of pressure from society against singlemomness. These pressures and judgements made women more careful about sex and conscious of family planning. Today feminism has worked really hard to remove the negative associations and shame of being a single mom and the result is more irresponsible single moms.
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 09:29 PM
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It's been said here that you don't find RPW, you make them. At your age if you can find a girl a few years younger than you who hasn't yet jumped on the Cock Carousel and has a good foundation of basic qualities, then your frame and leadership will naturally mould her into a good RPW. Most girls these days are so surrounded by the feminized BP world that they don't know the value of traditional gender roles. It isn't until they can be with a traditionally masculine man that they realize this is …
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 09:13 PM
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And it is possible for one man to go through all 3 types at different stages of his life. Ex: He might bang sluts in his youth, then become disillusioned with sluts and he might MGTOW for awhile and just focus on his career, then he might finally decide he's ready for a LTR with a good RPW
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/14 08:55 PM
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I actually do something similar to this with my BF and it's a lot of fun! Ok I make the artsy collages but he puts his opinion in and they represent our shared dreams.
/r/RedPillWomen12/07/14 05:20 PM
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I have been doing a few laser hair removal sessions (my mom is a Dr and was working in a laser clinic for awhile so I was her test subject). Takes about 10 sessions to be permanent and when I tried to make an appointment at another salon they rejected me bc my skin was too tanned (had just come back from Brazil and my bikini line was way small!)
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/14 02:40 AM
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Now he's beta bux room mate
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 09:53 PM
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I have a RPW style Pinterest with tons of material! I would share it here but need to remain anonymous... Maybe I'll make a separate account so I can share here...
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 06:27 PM
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I have tiny breasts (barely an A) which doesn't always feel so womanly, but I wouldn't want to do anything to them because I definitely want to have several children... I'm hoping having kids will fill them out a little more. Can anyone share their experience w tiny titties post kids? How do they change?
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 06:17 PM
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I understand it's a personal thing for everyone, just curious if knowing the truth about the wall and the sexual marketplace makes RP women more inclined towards plastic surgery than BP women.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 06:10 PM
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Most girls pay too much attention to their noses when it's really nothing most people would notice. I mentioned the nose thing because a friend of mine in high school would have been quite pretty if it weren't for her horribly crooked large nose... She was so self conscious of it that I never really got the full sorry of if she was born with it or smashed it up somehow. For someone in her position if she could afford it I would think it would be a good move for her.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 07:42 AM
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Wow never really thought of this angle. Thanks for sharing.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 07:39 AM
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Ugh I am in the same boat... So many ideas. Where are the finishers? I'm up for a partnership!
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 07:28 AM
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I'm working on: Not interrupting my SO. This is a really bad habit and it frustrates him so much!! I have to stop! Like the OP...Resisting the urge to "explain" (justify) myself when my SO points out things I messed up on or need to do better with. Laundry. He gets really annoyed when his shirts are wrinkly or shrunken. And I often don't time it right and end up leaving things in the washer or dryer overnight. Getting back into my morning squats/yoga/meditation routine. I was so on it during the…
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 07:24 AM
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First diagnose the type of cleaning you need to improve on. From your 11 BP years are you a messy person or a dirty person? Messy = unorganized clutter on every surface but the floors are clean and the dishes are done. Solution: A place for everything and everything in it's place. Look at what the clutter is (loose change, old mail, random clothes), find/make/buy a place designated specifically for it and get into the habit of putting it there right away Dirty = sink full of dishes and hair all …
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 07:15 AM
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My man is too nice. #redpillproblems
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 06:58 AM
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I wish I could do more of these for my SO but we work together from home...
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 06:27 AM
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My BF and I are lucky to spend a few months living in the tropics in the winter and I love to pick flowers and tropical leaves when coming home from the beach and arranging a big vase for the kitchen table!
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 06:24 AM
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Haha, even those who don't want children probably wouldn't say no to grandchildren!
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 06:14 AM
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I consider myself an extrovert but I spend a lot of time on RPW because it's hard to find others women (im 26) who want more than the BP feminized hookup culture
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 06:12 AM
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I can hit up all those stores at the outlet mall a few hours away and everything is always way cheaper (like 70% off) than in a normal mall
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 06:02 AM
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I enjoy trying clothes that I wouldn't normally buy for myself because sometimes they are things that my BF really likes!
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 05:59 AM
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Haha so good! And that photo captures her perfectly post wall blattitude.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/14 05:55 AM
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Wow this is exactly all the things my grandmother would do for my grandfather when he got home from work. She said him coming home was the highlight of her day! Almost 60 years of marriage, still madly in love and they are pretty much the only family role models I have in terms of loving intact relationships.
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 07:56 AM
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I recently sent a card to a friend that was a collage I made out of magazine clippings. So much fun to send and receive art!
/r/RedPillWomen08/07/14 07:50 AM
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Yes! He'll just place his hand on the top of my head all gentle and I melt into a puddle.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/14 08:41 AM
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Yes I used to always tell him to just take me in the night if he needed but more recently he's said he prefers if I'm awake and into it...which I can get into but if I'm in REM I need him to just get me first
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 08:22 AM
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He likes porn every now and then but prefers it as a build up to when we have sex...
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 08:20 AM
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It's so true about the work on/off switch! My SO and I work together which often hinders our sexy times as it's hard for us to make that boundary of when to turn work off and sexy times on.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 08:17 AM
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Thanks! Have heard of the power of oysters but never really knew why. We are very health/ diet conscious but I will look into natural aphrodisiacs and healthy diet balances.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/14 08:13 AM
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Just looking to see what other RPW feel is ideal, as they seem to have more sex than BP couples. As I work on my relationship I'm looking to these ladies as role models.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 07:33 PM
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The first month we met we were having sex daily and up to 3x daily... So I def feel we can ramp it up a bit. No one's exactly complaining at the moment but I want to be proactive about it. About 6 months into our relationship we started working together which def has a affect on out sex life as we spend so much time together which actually decreases sexual tension. We're almost at 5 years now.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 07:17 PM
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Cool I'd be interested in learning more about the nutritional side of sex!
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 07:08 PM
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I ask my BF. He loooooves my bubble butt but sometimes he wants to hide it from others and sometimes he wants me to show it off. Some pairs I feel like I'm popping out of, but he'll say yes. Other pairs have the same amount of poppage but for some reason he complains about these being slutty. I can't always predict which is which so I ask if he's comfortable with it or not.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/14 12:07 AM
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A man who is very wise in relationship counseling from a RP perspective advised to never engage your man in competition, even to take it as far as to never do anything competitive with him. It may seem extreme so I take it with a grain of salt...but I've also noticed how if I "win" in a simple game, it affects me in a subliminal way that does my relationship no good. For example I recently won a chess game against him, and I could hear that voice in the back of my head saying "I beat him, I'm sm…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 11:56 PM
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I'm working on this too. My BF says I always like to play devils advocate and it makes him feel like I don't support him and am arguing against him. In my mind my intention is to point out things from the other perspective so he can take them into consideration, but if he feels like I am trying to engage him in an argument then i need to just hold my tongue
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 11:42 PM
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Or is the "alpha woman" simply the one who snags the most alpha man? Feminists would never accept a definition that values a woman based on her man's worth but look around, it's pretty much true!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 09:19 AM
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Or is the "alpha woman" simply the one who snagged the most alpha man? Feminists would never accept a definition that values a woman based on her man's worth but look around, it's pretty much true!
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 09:19 AM
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Hmm I like how you describes the complexity of female social hierarchy. At first I thought an "Alpha Woman" would just be the "leader" among the females... But women operate completely different from men. For example, among women it is often her problems that bring her status with other women. The woman with the most dramatic problem gets all the sympathy and attention and opinions from the other women... Especially high status problems are things like abuse, rape and cancer...which get her wave…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/14 09:16 AM
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Where I live (high end vacation destination) there are tons of these mega millionaire families with super alpha men, and it seems that cheating is not such a big deal. These men know their value is high enough that their wives aren't going to leave them just for that. And their lawyers are powerful enough to keep a lot of their assets protected if the woman wanted to divorce him, she'd get quite a chunk but it's more worth it for her to be the high status wife and mother of his children even if …
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/14 08:04 PM
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My man doesn't like colognes or perfumes either, just essential oils.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 04:51 PM
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That awkward moment when you notice someone else's "house smell" and realize that you don't know what yours is!
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 03:53 PM
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Men communicate through their actions, not their words.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 03:51 PM
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My old college friends definitely blame my relationship and my BF for me not spending time with them. I live further away so it's hard to see everyone enough to maintain these friendships anyway. It's not that they're trashy but my RP relationship path is just very different from their BP feminist path so we just don't have much in common these days.
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 03:49 PM
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Then where are you supposed to get support for your relationship problems? Who are you supposed to go to (other than RPW of course, but what about in real life). Everyone has issues they want to improve in their relationship but some people will see these as complaints. When I'm having a hard time I feel like there's no one I can talk to bc I don't want any of my family/friends I just take my side and think my BF is in the wrong which could cloud their opinion of him and create negative judgemen…
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/14 03:39 PM
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Just start having sex! And keep doing it. If you don't feel so horny fake it until you make it. But for now, you need to have sex not for you, not even for him, but for that 3rd entity that is your relationship or it dry up and die. Why wait a year? Start doing something about it now.
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 06:52 AM
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Ironically I think I was most recently ignoring his "bid" while reading RPW on my phone!
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 06:32 AM
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I would love that! Please feel free to elaborate as I feel like different cultures can add a lot of perspective to what RP means for all humans. I majored in anthropology in school and have an intimate love for African dance! I feel like there is so much underlying meaning in the balance between the men's drumming and the women's dancing...sometimes it is literally a mating dance. I think part of what draws me to RP is the primal part of our evolutionary psych that helps us connect with our natu…
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 04:28 AM
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My aunt didn't hit puberty till 18!! I think that's why she was able to have 3 kids after 39!
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 04:20 AM
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Always great to have a good book on you. All that time you spend browsing your phone while waiting for something is time better spent reading a book (unless it's browsing reddit RPW!)
/r/RedPillWomen28/06/14 03:24 AM
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Is it ok then for women to be tanning topless at the beach? In Europe toplessness at the beach is no big deal. This would be the only benefit I could see from nipple rights legislation. I live in NY which is one of the only states where it is legal. You can literally get a ticket for tanning topless anywhere else.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 08:31 AM
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My BF and I just made an upcycled surf rack from scrap mahogany and recycled packing foam. I made sure to let him lead the project, remembering not to cut in all the time with bossy suggestions (as can be my habit when it comes to projects). The garage is so organized and cool now!
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 08:27 AM
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Congrats! Reading posts like this is helping me work on those simple things that I just don't feel like doing (laundry and I have had a rough relationship). The trick is trying to change the root of my feeling from "ugg anything but the laundry" to "he loves it so much when I do the laundry!"
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 08:24 AM
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Oh don't worry, the universe abhors a vacuum so once you have a purse you will have plenty of things to put in it...sunglasses, tissues, makeup, extra cell charger, book, sunscreen... Just don't get a giant bag or you'll suddenly have a lot more "necessities" that you have to lug around with you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 08:15 AM
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A friend once had a similar problem where her BF would come home after work and want to talk all about the moulding project he was working on for a house. She couldn't care less about the finer points of moulding and would just try to get him to stop talking about it however she could. An older, naturally RP woman told her to think of it this way... A cat likes to bring home it's kill (dead bird, mouse, lizard, etc) and leave it for you as a gift. You obviously have no interest in the kill, it e…
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 08:05 AM
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When it comes to ignoring "bids" I find our cell phones are becoming increasingly problematic... We're normally very good about responding to each others bids, except when I'm trying to have a conversation with my BF and he's mindlessly scrolling Instagram or Facebook on his phone and doesn't even realize I'm talking to him. But when I try to get him to put down his phone he accuses me of nagging. I know I can also be guilty of zoning out on my phone when he "bids" me too... What's the best way …
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 07:54 AM
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Haha I didn't think about the bottom!
/r/RedPillWomen27/06/14 04:14 AM
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Sounds like a great program. Wish we actually learned practical skills in American colleges. I learned a bunch of theoretical BS w hardly any practical applications
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 11:05 PM
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Just curious but what does a RPW do if he doesn't close the deal...?
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 08:58 PM
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I never knew you could get a diploma in sewing. Does sound kind of old fashion so just tell people that you're studying fashion and your thesis is to design your own personal clothing line ;)
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 06:00 PM
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I looked it up on the apple App Store and couldn't find it... I probably works over a mobile internet browser
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 04:38 PM
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Looks cool, it should be an app tho
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 07:18 AM
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I think the article is intended for women who want to know how to attract a good man for a LTR. Men want a woman who is "independent" as in not still relying on your parents, not in debt/completely broke and not acting entitled for him to be her sugar daddy. She doesn't have to make tons of money or have a "career", but she should be responsible and self sufficient.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 06:59 AM
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*Oprah ....phone app not letting me edit
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 01:05 AM
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Update: Apparently Opera is posting his bail and providing him with an opportunity for a show on excons. http://empirenews.net/oprah-posts-bail-for-sexy-felon-jeremy-meeks/
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/14 01:04 AM
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I believe that a woman can never be over dressed! ...as long as she's classy, comfortable and practical (not shivering in a tiny tube dress or hobbling over grass in pointy stilettos). I also live in an area that is very high fashion oriented so it's kind of impossible to overdress, women can get away with high fashion looks here that usually only stay on the runway. But it's also a very beachy area so striking that balance between dressed to impress and summer chic casual is ideal. Accessorize!…
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 07:47 PM
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Nothing wrong with colors. Especially around summer time I go for really bright colors like turquoise or sunshine yellow! If I wore just reds, pinks or more normal nail colors all the time I would feel like an old lady! (26)
/r/RedPillWomen25/06/14 05:08 PM
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That run down delirious mood is often when my BF is at his best...after very little sleepy, not enough food and a whole lot of stressful work, something magical happens and suddenly he everything is so funny and he's cracking up everyone in the room and just on point with his goofy jokes and impersonations.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 06:47 PM
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Make 2 savings accounts. One for the parents and one for vacation. Split the money equally among them and don't let them be used for anything other than their designated purposes.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 08:21 AM
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It's all about the eggs for us. Somehow my BF thinks cereal is a dessert and he fixes himself a bowl of cereal topped with coconut milk ice cream at night!
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 08:09 AM
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It's summer time! Gotta get the grill set up so he can man it ;)
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 07:51 AM
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Curries are the best! One day I'll make a huge stir fry with rice or noodles. The next day I'll just add curry powder, coconut milk and fish sauce to it and it's a whole new dish! Breakfast is always the best! My BF and I have to start every day with breakfast foods even if we don't get up till 2pm (we work really late some nights)
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 07:48 AM
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I worked abroad in France for 7 weeks and we had a world class French chef cooking lunch and dinner for a team of 20+, 7 days a week and her specialty was making 2nds that were even better than 1sts. I remember she would make an amazing duck roast, but the next day, the duck was shredded and baked with pasta into an amazing casserole. Truthfully I did gain 15 lbs but that was mainly because everything was cooked in duck fat, heavy cream and the French bread was so addictive!
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 07:44 AM
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I need to do this more. My BF needs his alone time or he'll get cranky. I am a super social person and love to be around people all the time but I can easily slip into relying on him for my social needs which puts too much on our relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen23/06/14 07:13 AM
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However I do want to tell my SO to encourage his brother to get a paternity test... He and the girl were long distance "open" and I've seen enough horror stories on TRP. He's "doing the right thing" and wouldn't want him to do it for another man's child.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 04:11 PM
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Talking more about my internal reaction. I would never say anything other than Congrats at the formation of new life as I truly think it is a blessing wether planned or not. I just find myself more aware of red pill truths now and my mind can't help but analyze situations with red pill awareness, but we can't talk about such things with most people so I come to talk about it here.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 04:07 PM
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Psh modeling is for pussys and posers, this guy is a real GANGSTA! I'm sure he could have gone that route if he wanted but honestly it's soul sucking work for any man. We all love movies where the protagonist is some gun slinging law breaking bad boy. I'm sure his law breaking days were way more exciting for him than anything that ever happened on a photoshoot.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 06:56 AM
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To some men it is the most relevant!
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 06:39 AM
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I went to college in NYC and winters are bitter freezing (worse because of the wind tunnels) but it doesn't stop New Yorkers from always being dressed to the nines. It's all about an elegant coat (with a waist belt to outline your figure), beautiful scarves, ladylike leather gloves, a pretty hat and comfortable high heel boots (and we walk all over the city in them so no excuses!) Typical college casual is so blah, dress like you could meet the man of your dreams every day and eventually you wil…
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/14 05:20 AM
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What if you made a girls night of it and got all your girlfriends together and shot sexy pics of each other? Girls know how to make a pic look sexy even if they're not pro photogs! Plus he'd get a little bonus fantasy thinking about all of you being sexy for each other O_o
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 08:18 AM
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Yeah seems like something women want more than their men. We just can't get enough sexy indulgent photos of ourselves! My man's fav sexy photos of me are the ones he snaps himself.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 08:13 AM
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Good stuff :)
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/14 08:10 AM
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That is, assuming he wants to put the effort in for this relationship and this woman...that is his call. Just pointing him to a good resource that can help him with that decision.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 08:06 PM
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Alanon is for helping him, not her. They help people learn how to deal with the addict in their life, setting boundaries so HER problem does not become HIS problem
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 07:44 PM
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Hmm if he likes horses what about a group trail ride excursion w picnic? This depends on the riding level of his friends, or at least finding enough "bomb proof" horses that are good with beginners, but it could be really fun for him to share his love of horses with friends who wouldn't otherwise go riding. I grew up with horses and going on trails with my mom and her friends. Find a reliable trail guide that can provide the horses, tack and trails. Also make sure the guys wear comfortable cloth…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 05:29 PM
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Look up Alanon (a branch of AA for friends/family members of alcoholics) for more specific advice on how to handle her and set boundaries. If she recognizes that it is a problem and has a desire to better herself then there are ways you can be encouraging, but if she denies that it is an issue or thinks that she is in control then there is nothing you can do.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 04:22 PM
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Nothing will make him happier with less time or effort I think this is an important one to take note of... It's really not that much work ladies and he loves it sooooooooooo much. Weighing the cost/benefit analysis yields only one logical result.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 05:31 AM
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Part of it is mental... I made a personal commitment to swallow and that made it much easier. Before I would be like "well let me see if I'm gonna be able to handle it" which just let me be lazy and reach for a towel or run to the bathroom too many times (NOT sexy!) For technique, don't let it go down the middle of your tongue/throat, swish it to the side into your cheeks and swallow it from the side in multiple small swallows, not one big gulp. Bonus effect of is that it makes your man feel lik…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 05:27 AM
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Perhaps the femme fatale is the female response to the dark triad male... The woman who is so irresistible in a helpless, feminine way, but who is also dangerous because of her tendency to weaken (betatize) men who can't hold frame under her seductive charms.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 05:17 AM
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In the animal kingdom there are alpha females: females who dominate other members of the social group (mostly the other females, but some of the weaker or younger males too). In herd animals, horses for example, there is always the lead mare who dominates all the other mares, but still submits to the stallion. Primates too have a social hierarchy between females. When someone says "alpha woman" I think of a woman who is alpha (a type of leader) in womanly ways and who is looked up to (more often…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 05:16 AM
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I'd say it would work for couples where both partners are physically attractive enough that the unappealing betaness of the man and the less than sexy alphaness of the woman can be overlooked so there is still enough sexual chemistry to hold them together. Pretty much beautiful people can get away with most anything...
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 04:55 AM
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The dynamic the book is describing may work for some couples since the power is theoretically balanced, but it definitely sounds like a flawed way to approach relationships for the majority!
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 02:18 AM
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Correct me if I'm wrong but I understood an alpha woman is one that is extremely feminine, both in positive traits (level 10 sexy, charming and seductive) and negative ones (over emotional, hypergamous). It sounds like the book's definition of an "alpha woman" is a woman who is more like a man!
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 02:16 AM
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Yay! Surprises are the best! You definitely have to have his friends in on it (and everyone pitching in $ makes things like planes, boats, limos, etc affordable). Added bonus is all his guy friends give you so much credit for pulling off the surprise and that makes your man super proud of you! There's no better praise than his best bro saying "Man I hope one day I'm lucky enough to have a girlfriend who would do something like this for me!" Make sure everyone knows it's a surprise! (Seems simple…
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 01:42 AM
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Only logical since teens make more use of the internet. The youngest generations know they can get answers to anything online. The sex talk (and anything to do with dating questions) have been replaced by Google.
/r/RedPillWomen19/06/14 01:25 AM
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I've also heard it called the superman where they do it standing but have to lean over the toilet
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 11:17 PM
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Get sexy again. Lose the weight. Once he finds you attractive again he will forget about the hurtful past and only be able to think about jumping you and growing that family.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 09:57 PM
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Haha didn't think about this angle
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 09:09 PM
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I love getting the right gifts for people. I seem to be able to get awesome gifts for my SO. I usually try to go with things that make him feel luxurious. I've gotten him a cashmere robe, a manly leather laptop bag, a fancy pair of leather headphones, a sexy set of king sized sheets (and all the fun that goes with them), waterproof watch for surfing, a favorite pair of shoes he used to have that I scoured eBay for another pair...each of these were under $160 but have a really personalized lux fe…
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 08:50 PM
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You thought that reaction was good? See what happens when you bring him a sandwich after. Haha!
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 05:24 PM
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If there are no kids involved "nexting" a wife may be possible, but once he has kids with her he'll never be able to next her, he just gets stuck with an exwife that in many cases is even harder to deal with than a wife!
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 04:54 PM
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The only men who have the right to say "next" about a dude's wife are other married or divorced men. Punks who only care about plates have no right to give opinions on a commitment as strong as marriage (esp when kids are involved) I feel there is a need for a /r/redpillLTR or similar
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 04:49 PM
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Here's to all the Mother Fuckers! ;)
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 08:29 AM
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I have a perfectly flat stomach... My challenge though is finding rings that aren't trashy and blingy. Used to have a mother-of-pearl one or one with a natural stone, even made some cool ones out of old earrings. But they eventually fall out and it's too hard to find/make good ones. I haven't had mine in for ages but I don't know if it will close on it's own...
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 08:21 AM
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Same thing he's been doing for most of his life it seems: Cuddle in bed and watch Family guy while he eats a big bowl of ice cream. Guys really don't change much!
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 08:16 AM
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So many women struggle with their natural feminine self not knowing what to do in this feminized world. Be her hero and set her free by teaching her RP. Trigger her primal desire to please you and give her an excuse to embrace her femininity. She will know that you brought it out in her and she will worship you for it.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/14 08:10 AM
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Yes it's about a balance of masculine and feminine role models and influences. A "doting" mother may be just fine if there is a strong father figure that models how a man interacts with a "doting" wife. A man (or boy) should let himself be taken care of by a caring, nurturing woman, but it should strengthen him, not weaken/spoil him.
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 08:23 AM
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He wants you to be his slut ;)
/r/RedPillWomen17/06/14 08:13 AM
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I think there is a /r/altTRP subreddit for LGBT RP discussions
/r/RedPillWomen15/06/14 10:18 PM
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I too discovered RPW from a feminist friend's complaints!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 08:11 AM
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The definition of sacrifice is giving up something of value (me) for something of higher value (we). If it was giving up something easy for something of value, then it wouldn't be a sacrifice now would it!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 07:19 AM
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Any advice for finding girlfriends once you're out of college? I'm very social but I now live in a small town where my SO is something of a public figure, so everyone I meet is through him and it's hard for me to make my own group of girlfriends. Especially hard to find ones that share a RP awareness... most girls I meet now I see so many BP red flags that it turns me off from developing friendships.
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 07:00 AM
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Experience isn't always an excuse... My SO says one of his most memorable BJs came from a virgin girl...he taught her how he liked it, but then when he came she didn't seem to realize that was the end, so she just kept going for hours and he came multiple times! Been meaning to try and replicate this...
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 06:41 AM
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I do this! When my man is out and I'm doing chores I put on Songza playlists that make me prance around like a 50's pinup, and then pounce on him when he gets home. Now I just need to get a cute little apron! My favorite playlists are: Lush Life Mad Men: Joan's Feminine Mystique Martini Swing The classics not only bring back the nostalgic sound of a golden age of femininity but I start to notice so much RP truth in the lyrics too!
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 06:29 AM
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I get what you're saying. It's taken me some time to adjust too, particularly around my girlfriends. When we're hanging with his friends I am always the hostess with the mostess and they all love how I take care of them, getting them drinks and making decadent meals! It's a little harder to do when my college girlfriends are around because I feel they're judging me from a feminist perspective ("Why isn't he bringing you drinks? Why are you doing all the cooking?"). I try not to care what others …
/r/RedPillWomen13/06/14 06:11 AM
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